WEBVTT - Opposites Attract with Eric Winter & Roselyn Sanchez 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.480 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:12.160 and I Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, Welcome to an 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:15.120 all new episode of Help I Suck at Dating. I'm 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:19.920 Jared have been joined in studio by the handsome, charismatic, 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:27.680 sweet kind singer sometimes smelly Dean Unglert. You want know 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:31.480 what's funny? Actually, as I smell extra bad today, I 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:34.000 wasn't gonna say it. I mean, I kind of did 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.559 say it in a joking way. I can't tell if 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:40.599 it's your sunconscious that it's me. It's me. I wore 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.440 shoes today. I don't wear shoes ever. And when I 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:45.559 do wear shoes, I don't wear socks. And when I 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:48.479 don't wear socks, my feet get pretty stinky, and I 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:50.839 my arm pits smell pretty. I just all around, top 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:53.240 to bottom. I'm not the smell not the best smelling person. 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:56.040 I hate feet. It's a good bad smell, though I 0:00:56.080 --> 0:00:58.760 think I've smelled you a lot as far as bad 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:01.600 smells go, it could be a lot work. It's it's like, oh, 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:03.639 this is an attractive guy who just finished working out, 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.280 Like that's the smell you remember and you were in 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:07.040 the studio for this yared, But there was one day, 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:09.240 There's like maybe a couple of days where I was 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:11.880 like just putting the other on one armpit, and then 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:13.240 at the end of the day, I was comparing which 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:16.280 arm pits smelled better, and I remember this, he smelled 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:18.440 both armpits and he could only just barely tell the 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:21.120 difference between which had been the proudest moments in my 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:24.640 career and broadcasting. It was like a game show. I mean, 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:29.200 we could get Bob Hope or what's this Bob Hope? Right? Yeah, No, 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:33.720 not Bob Hope, but Bob Hope. It's um. Uh, all 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:36.119 I can think about is happy Gilmore. You're gonna get it, Bobby. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.880 I don't know which Drew. We just need Drew Carry 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.680 in studio to host the game show. Anyway. We can 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:44.760 talk about Dean's bo all day. But we have two 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:47.520 very special guests that are in studio right now that 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:53.320 we are very excited about. Uh. They're both actors, producers, parents, 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:57.200 um loving husband and wife with a new I Heart 0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.240 Radio podcast coming out this month. In studio, we have 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.440 Rosalind Sanchez and her husband Eric Winter. Thank you so 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:08.240 much for having us, Thank you, thank you. Exciting of course, 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.400 So how's how's life? I mean, I mean, everybody knows 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:13.280 that you guys are, but kind of give a brief introduction. 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.600 You guys been married for we suck a dating a year. 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:22.040 The question is do you sucking marriage? So we're doing fine. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:27.200 I think, I hope we're good talking about you know, 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:29.400 we've been together for eleven years for and that's an 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:32.960 accomplishment together fourteen years, eleven years in this business and 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:37.160 two kids and two kids kids, one going on eight 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:41.200 in January, one going will be two in November. The boy, 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:45.680 the baby and girl. Congratulations, So what's life being married 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:52.840 eleven years? Like just just like you said, what's life? Well, 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.760 I've been married for a month. For a month, I've 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:57.480 been married for a little over a month. Ye, just 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:02.320 put a ring on it and it's great. So it's good. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.959 That's great, amazing, it's great. It's the Evan flow. It's 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:09.560 Eric loves to say. It's work. So it's like any job, work, work, work, work. 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:12.560 Let me tell you something, what does work marriage? Or 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:16.160 is it? Is it work being married to to me? No, 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:23.200 it's not. Well, well it's always a little definitely a 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.880 lot of working. It takes work, It takes the time, 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.840 and you know, it comes so easy when you're in 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.440 the early stages and as you're a decade in, well 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.919 you're in then you half to really, you know, keep 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:34.880 it creative, keep it interesting, keep it fun. And what 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:36.920 is that like for you guys, Because we've had married 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:39.800 couples on the podcast before, but you two are like 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.720 very much in the spotlight, right and so like as uh, 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.720 incredibly attractive people and you're busy, I'm sure with your work. 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:48.760 Like what do you do to kind of keep it 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:53.440 interesting for you guys a decade later? Well, I mean 0:03:53.440 --> 0:03:54.960 there's the it's the cliche of you know, got to 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:56.440 have a date now you really do. You gotta keep 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.960 it interesting with that we have I have something planned 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:04.800 for her next next, next, yeah, said, after get done 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:08.920 with work? What if? What if I'm booked cancer? Your plans? 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:12.880 I was just gonna say, it's so funny hearing you know, 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:15.880 husband and wife talk because you're planning the surprise. We 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:17.840 have to make sure that she's free. So it's like, 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.680 all right, honey, next Wednesday night, just don't plan anything. Okay, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:22.920 it's a surprise, but I'm telling you that it's going 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.960 to be a surprise. And also with having kids, and 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:27.919 we were just talking about this, we need a vacation, 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:29.599 like just the two of us, to go away, even 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.200 just for four days. Well you know what happens, Like 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:34.120 we can wait. We used to travel like crazy before 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:37.480 the kids, and now with kids and work is very difficult. Um, 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.320 and we for months I've been telling him I need 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:41.320 a little vacation. I just want to go away, even 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:44.000 if it's like some migil dion. They're like Mexico, something quick, 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:46.960 let's just do something. And then the um, what was 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.200 it three weeks ago when we went to Vegas for 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:54.400 twenty four hours. We leave the house right and the 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:57.120 little babies with the nanny and they're saying goodbye, and 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.440 within thirty seconds, I'm going, oh my god, we should 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.160 should have brought the kids. I was like, no, we're 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:06.560 going to Vegas for a night, So do you want 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.240 to escape for a little bit. But the second you escape, 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.160 you're like, actually, I didn't want to do that. If 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:11.680 you get on vacation, you're like, I wonder what the kids, 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:15.760 what they're making about you guys? That's the important I 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:17.040 want to know what this day it's gonna be like, 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.040 I'm I'm excited for it. I'm not even be part 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:25.680 of it at all. You're taking me to a rosal. 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:27.440 And you said something that we actually talked about on 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:29.640 the podcast a couple of weeks ago, the difference between 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:32.480 spending time with through significant other and spending quality time 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.800 with your significant other. And I'm sure that you guys 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.880 can talk a little bit about this, the difference between 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:40.000 those two things, because even in the early stages of 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:43.760 marriage and being engaged, I find that my wife Ashley 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.240 and I, we lived together, we do a lot of 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:50.200 work together, um, and so we spend so much time together. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.920 And then when I we were went on our honeymoon 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.280 and it was just the two of us and there 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.640 was no work or any distractions, I realized that we 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:01.120 actually don't spend a lot of quality time together because 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:04.039 when we had no distractions, there was a certain different 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.359 connection that we had in that moment that we hadn't 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:10.680 had in the months. Um. So do you relate to 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:15.560 that as well and with us? And I'm sure it 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.680 happens to you guys, you know, because what we do 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.560 for a living with an entertainment business, you know, and 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:21.760 so much as about social media, and we're obsessed with 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.760 the Instagram and this and that. So even when we're 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.920 home and we put the kids to bed and then 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.720 we have some time to connect, he gets so mad 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.480 at me because I'm is the time that I have 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:39.600 to go through Instagram. That she actually admitted it. By 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.719 the way, I'm so glad she admitted that was huge. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:43.840 That's like a therapy session that you actually came forward 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.240 to that because I know about and I still do 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.720 it that I'll just put the phone down for a minute. 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:51.800 You have all day, like, let's hang out. Whatever we're 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:54.960 gonna do, like watch I'm watching currently Game of Thrones, 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.320 which I know is really weird, but I never watched it, 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.080 so I'm binging it. I try to get her into it. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.040 You know what, Okay, I guess what, so um you 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:05.400 will get give me because I'm on Instagram now he's 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.160 obsessed with Game of Thrones. You don't give me the 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.200 time of day. At night, I go to bed and 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:13.800 all he's doing your Instagram is his game of right. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:15.720 And then what's funny that you guys mentioned that because 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.360 Kaylin and are very much the same way. I'm like 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:19.840 borderline addicted to my phone. It's like whenever I'm hanging 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:22.440 out with Kaylin. I'm like always scrolling through Instagram editing pictures, 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.000 like just doing something, and she's always like, dude, just 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:28.040 like pay attention to me. Like I'm paying attention. I'm 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:32.840 just like distracting, Yeah, listening to most of the things 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:34.960 that you're saying. What I'll do did like to mess 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.480 with her is let's say we're out somewhere and we're 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:41.400 heard festival a few weeks ago, and let me get 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:42.800 some pictures and not take the pictures that we're going 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.920 to post, and then I she'll share me the share 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:46.600 the pictures. They shared the pictures. I said, no, I'll 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:47.840 give him to you later because I know as soon 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:51.360 as they shot. So she's like give me and I'm like, no, 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:56.520 you can have them later. It's so interesting. I wonder, 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.440 like what forty years ago, what that distraction would have 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:01.720 been in place what we are distracted by now, which 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:03.720 is Instagram, you know what I mean. But there hasn't 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.880 been something I don't know. I guess just TV when 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.360 it first came out, because they always have those old 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:10.800 television shows where it would be the guy sitting on 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.160 the chair and watching TV, reading the paper exactly not 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:17.040 paying attention to his wife and now in twenty nineteen, 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:21.200 it's just on his phone. Um, so you guys have 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:23.520 a podcast coming out we do? Is it a joint 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.600 podcast between the two of you? Yeah, okay, amazing. It's 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:32.640 called he said? He said? He said, which is um? 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:37.199 He said? She said ada? She said the hole is 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:48.920 that Portuguese day as? Yeah? Yeah, okay, I love that. 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:54.079 Maybe the title, she said, blending our diversity, a multi 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:56.880 cultural relationship that we have and talking about you know, 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:02.320 I'm I'm a cancer. She's an airy. Say what's your 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:07.120 what's your nice? Okay, so you're like right in the middle. Yes, 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.920 I'm like cost I'm almost Taurus. Both of my parents 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:15.800 as were tough. Yeah, very tough, very tough cancer aries. 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:19.320 Is that like we're supposed to clash exactly? Okay, guys, 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:21.199 we always claimed that we make it work because I 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:25.599 can sort of calm nur, fire up my water to 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.040 keep me you know, interesting, she said, keeping. Yeah, she 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:32.959 says I'm a dud, which is completely okay. My wife 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.320 calls me a dud all the time. There you go. Actually, 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.760 so you know what, who's the home bother who wants 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:40.280 to stay at all the time? I do that. This 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.640 made me a dott is know what I want to do? 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:44.800 What is going on out of dott is a state 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:50.319 of your m deep right dreamer already can't wait to 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.679 listen to this dreamer. She says, I'm the dream He's 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:55.840 a dream popper? Is that? Eric? I fantasize with buying 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:58.559 some land in um All High at some point in 0:09:58.600 --> 0:10:00.559 my life because I want to rescue do What do 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.800 you mean You're never gonna do that? Is that? Can 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.719 I just dream? What if five five years I will 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:11.000 buy some freaking lad and rescue some dogs. Dream she 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:13.280 wants a horse really bad, and I will get a horse. 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:14.839 One day started dating, I was like, you'll get a 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:16.160 horse at one point, so I take her out of 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.120 date is early on I was like, this true true story. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.040 I take her to ride horse. That was my whole surprise. 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.439 I would take it there right up the Hollywood birthday 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.200 right end at like a dinner. You knew she loved horses. Yeah, 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.080 it's gonna be great. As soon as we pull up 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:32.360 she sees the horse, she goes, you bought me a horse? 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:36.520 Like no, I didn't buy you a horse? Good God, 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.959 how cool? How amazing? It would have been. If this 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.240 guy that you're dating for a couple of months gets 0:10:42.280 --> 0:10:48.319 your horse, that is a bollowr. Then taking care of 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:59.400 this horse broke up a horse? Well you know what 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:04.400 it was. It was a horse gave me so to 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:06.199 my sadness, it wasn't a horse. So I was a 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:11.079 dream popper for that dreams. At least now you know, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:13.200 it's better than buying a horse and then your dream 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:15.079 being popped, right Like, at least you just gotta ride 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:16.520 one rent one for a little bit and you're like, okay, 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:20.319 maybe we're going that's what it is. That's that was 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:23.200 one of the earlier dates than you were saying, how 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:26.199 did you guys meet when at a club? No, it 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.280 wasn't a club. See, I love this because everybody has 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:32.040 a different story. It was an event at a club, Okay, 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:35.640 it was it was a venue. The venue wasn't a club, 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.600 he keeps saying, as a club. Anyways, it was an 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:40.280 event for Sony or I don't know, I don't even know. 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:44.200 It was your pioneer speakers. It's like maximum maximum one 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.679 pioneer speaker or something like that. She was on the 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:51.679 Hot one list and you love pioneer speaking speaker. And 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:54.200 I was the VP area, of course, and he wasn't. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:12:00.559 I just got there. I was on my way. I 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:03.400 just walked in. She's like a guarantee you. He was 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.160 the part of how to how to ask you out? 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:08.520 Because I walked into the VIP area because you're like, 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:10.640 you're like a Mr. Congeniality and a talker, and you 0:12:10.800 --> 0:12:13.840 talk your way out of everything. So he convinced whoever 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:16.679 the person in charge of letting people go in to 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:19.760 go up bounder a few men up there. I gotta 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.920 admit that doesn't sound like a dud though, to talk 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:27.439 his way into the v I P area. I'm I'm talking. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.040 I don't know if it was part of if you 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.320 have an IUDEA. I'm just I just made that up. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.800 But he showed up and that was it. I basically 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.199 just walked right up there and said, hey, you know, 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:38.160 my name is Eric. Can I get you a drink? 0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:42.959 And she's like, I don't drink? Can I get you? 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:52.120 Would you like anything or you parched at all? Well, 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:54.320 you can give me a pineapple juice. I'll be right back, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.200 And he did want a pineapple juice, and that's how 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.120 it all started. With pineapple juice. It was actually was. 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:06.120 I started with that and then h happened? Happened that week? 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:10.040 Did you guys exchange numbers? No, I with I had 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:14.199 a boyfriend, so I knew his intentions, and as a 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.760 good girlfriend, I said, he asked for my numbers something. 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.480 I said, listen, just you clear, Um, I have a boyfriend. 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:22.520 And then he said, well, can I be attracted to 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:26.719 my friend? And I said, that's kind of ache. I 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:29.880 look back and I'm like, yeah, but you're married. And 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.680 then I said that's on you. And then he exchanged 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.839 numbers with gamal right, And I was at the buddy 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.800 and she had a friend there, and we all, like 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:39.800 the friends, like the people that were there, just started 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.200 hanging out with other girls and my friend. Um. Then 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:43.880 she left, she went to she go shoot a movie 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:45.160 for a few months, and I was in l A 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.079 And and I just started. I was with her friend. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:48.840 I was still single, going out and doing the club 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:51.719 thing and my buddy and her friend. And three or 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:54.800 four months later, she's in a different position and guess 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:58.480 who calls me? Wait, so you called him? Can I 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:03.839 explain nothing more? Let me explain. My friend that was 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:08.720 with me at this party, Maryland was engaged her fans 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:12.240 passed away on a motorcycle accident. I'm in Puerto Rico shooting, 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:13.840 and I'm talking to Marley and says, you know who's 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:17.120 been really supportive and they're so nice that Mike wasn't 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:18.880 Mike and Eric the guys that we met at so 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:22.600 at that party, I'm going they've been amazing. Buh. Fast 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:24.680 forward two. I'm back in Puerto Rico, like almost four 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.440 months back in the l like four months later, and 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:30.720 I'm driving and I asked my com my assistant at 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:33.840 the time, I want to say thank you to that guy, Eric, 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:37.480 do you still have the number? And I called to 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:42.880 say thank you? And then and and here we are 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:45.640 because that thank you was super important to say. So 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.720 on the phone who so who do you think? Asked 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.520 who out first? He said you want to grab some 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:55.880 launch at some point or something. And then assistant, which 0:14:55.920 --> 0:15:00.600 was so cheesy, with my friend Nina. So it's the 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:03.200 three of you. Yeah, I'm like, oh, why did you 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:05.400 shot with a friend? This is ridiculous. But the real 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.320 important takeaway from this is Eric is just a really 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:10.320 nice guy and a good friend, and that's the reason 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:13.560 that you were like, Okay, let's see, I promise I 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:17.600 didn't think any my my. My reason for calling wasn't like, oh, 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.880 I'm gonna try to that I want in the fact 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:22.720 that he was supportive for your friend. You meet your 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:24.440 friend too, that's a big thing. He was amazing. I 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.520 don't know to this day he's he's an amazing man. 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:28.280 He's that kind of person right now, which is great. 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:30.520 And I think that we've heard time and time again. 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.680 It didn't necessarily work. The origin wasn't this for you, guys, 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:36.200 But since you shared that mutual friend, when you can 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:38.520 have like friends vouching for someone that you might be 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.200 interested in, that's like you're breaking your You're skipping like 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:43.240 nine bases in that sense, you know, because then you're 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:44.880 kind of seeing the true sides of them and how 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:46.200 they are around the people that they care about, and 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:49.000 it's like super super important. Of course, Yeah, one of 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:50.880 the most important thing you can find out about significant 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:53.640 other is how they are around your friends. I always 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:56.360 said I want to be with someone who my friends 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:58.720 would want to hang out with even if I wasn't there, 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.600 And so I knew I found the one when my 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:03.720 friends were like, we'd rather hang out with your wife 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:07.720 than you. Alright, that's good. So Jared just got married 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:12.280 last month, and uh, at the rehearsal dinner right before, 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.440 like five minutes before, they were like, hey, Dean, Ben 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.120 and Nick, you guys are all gonna give speeches real 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:19.200 quick because we were all groomsmen, and I just wanted 0:16:19.240 --> 0:16:22.320 them to speak from the heart for the speeches. You're like, 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.400 we're you guys arena speeches. Ben. I don't know if 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:27.080 you guys know Ben Higgins fantastic speech giver, Like he's 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:31.240 just the most charismatic, like deliverer of all things in 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:32.680 front of and Nick he's like an actor, you know, 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.360 he's he's he's a smart person too. So he like 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.200 cried during his speech. Are you trying to say that 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:41.000 he was faking? I'm not saying he was speaking, but 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:45.520 I'm not saying he can turn it on. And then 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.160 I go up there after both of them just crushed it. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.480 And the only thing I felt so bad because after 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:52.120 I got down was like all I did was talking 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.080 about actually the entire time, like Jared and I are 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:56.240 better friends, but actually now we're friends. First, yeah, you 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:58.440 guys had a closer relationship, and then once we started 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:00.880 doing the podcast, we became good friend. But to your 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:03.480 point that you just made, it's you want to be 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:06.320 dating someone or married to someone that your friends want 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:07.840 to hang out with even if you're not there. So 0:17:07.920 --> 0:17:09.240 that's the point that I'm trying to make, because like 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:10.879 I felt that, I thought it was really ironic that 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:12.280 now that you and I are maybe better friends and 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.080 Ashuley and I are the only person I talked about 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:16.240 was actually because we were really good friends before you 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.520 and I ever were friends. And so that's how I think, 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:20.200 in my opinion, you can tell when you're someone's like, 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:21.880 you know, you want to spend the rest of life 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:23.560 with them, when your friends want to be friends with 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:26.639 them too, Yes, exactly. And for me, my personal experience 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:28.560 with it too is whenever I like get a girlfriend 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:30.280 or started dating someone who I always bring them around 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:31.840 my best friends, and then after what they leave, I'm 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:32.960 always like, what do you guys think of her? Like? 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:36.040 What's she cool? Do you like her? Yeah? But like 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:38.240 you also need people that are honest because sometimes they're 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:39.720 gonna be like, oh, yeah, she was great, she was great, 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:41.399 and then you break up with her and then they're like, 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:42.720 oh we hated her, we hate well, then why do 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:44.080 you tell me you hate it? I know, but it's 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.760 also hard. That's that's hard because as your friend, you 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.280 also don't want to be the one to say, oh, 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:51.280 I don't like that person, because then you say that 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:53.160 and then it calls in friction. Then they're like, well, 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:54.800 you don't know them as good as I do, and 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:58.679 you don't see what you see your friends. Yeah, there 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:00.359 was a there's a little bit of my last girlfriend. 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:02.160 I introduced her to like two of my best friends, 0:18:02.240 --> 0:18:04.119 and then after we left, they both texted me and 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:05.920 they go, you're dating that girl? Like is that real? 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:07.280 Like you're actually dating here? And I was like, what 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:10.160 do you mean? Yes? But now I'm not sure anymore. 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:16.440 Dang it? What did she do? Okay, so you guys 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:21.240 have this new podcast, he said, yes, So tell us 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:25.920 what it's. What it's about. It's gonna encompass, We're gonna 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.720 talk a lot about our life, relationships, pop culture. Here's 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:32.119 the thing about this, though I don't necessarily like it 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:38.840 might be competing with our podcast version. You guys are 0:18:38.840 --> 0:18:41.000 not allowed to talk about dating at all. On your 0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:45.000 body about it and if any of you suck at dating, 0:18:45.080 --> 0:18:51.680 you're about that first episode, we sing no, we won't, 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:54.680 we won't. Um, But yeah, I mean for fourteen years 0:18:54.720 --> 0:18:58.040 of dating, eleven years of marriage, two kids, and I'm 0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:00.960 sure you guys like lead incredibly interesting line like the 0:19:01.040 --> 0:19:03.720 work that you're in. It's yeah, it's it's crazy with 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:07.679 both actors. UM. Like to give you a little example, UM, 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:09.840 the show that I did before my last show, I 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:12.520 was I relocated to Atlanta for four years and his 0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:14.600 show was in Vancouver, So I might did having a 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:18.040 child and you are in two different countries, you know 0:19:18.080 --> 0:19:19.600 what I mean? Like situations like that that you just 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:21.119 go hard to do it and goes We don't know. 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:24.399 It's a constant negotiation, you know, and it's hard. It's hard, 0:19:25.040 --> 0:19:26.480 but we make it work. You know, we make it 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:30.120 work through communication. And we're just very different. We're talking 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:34.159 about before signs, which our personalities. We're truly we everybody 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:36.439 says like we're opposite to track to the nth degree, 0:19:37.080 --> 0:19:42.200 But in a way those opposites really strengthen our relationship 0:19:42.240 --> 0:19:44.080 and bring out the better and each of us and 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:45.960 kind of keep it fun and interesting. That's great. You. 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:47.520 I know what I always think about the other day 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.359 because me and my girlfriend are very different as well, 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:52.520 similar to you, guys, I'm probably gonna do it. I'm 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:54.159 gonna butcher this right. You know, how many times do 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:55.960 you start a story? You know, I was thinking about 0:19:56.000 --> 0:20:02.440 the other day, I think anyways, the whole the whole 0:20:02.520 --> 0:20:05.040