1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson, and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 3 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling raivalry. No, no, sibling, 4 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: you don't do that with your mouth, Vely, that's good. 5 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: Here we go, Oliver. Fun. It's the holidays, Happy Holidays, 6 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: happy holiday. No, no, yeah, that's what mom and Paul 7 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: used to do it, Marty Holidays, Happy Haliday. I was 8 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: singing a Madonna song. Yeah all times. So, well, this 9 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: is going to be an interesting year for us. You know. 10 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: It's fun what we are doing Thanksgiving. Yes, and this 11 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: was not even planned, meaning like sibling revelries. Everything we 12 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: do sibling But we are doing a Thanksgiving with just us, 13 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: us and our families, which is crazy. I mean not 14 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: Mom and Pa. It's really not normal for our family. 15 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: This is everybody doing things differently this year, which is 16 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: just not how we do things. We usually do it 17 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 1: at my house, sometimes at Moms, mostly at yours in 18 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: the last mostly of ten years or so. Yeah, everybody comes. 19 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: It's usually about twenty five people. Yeah, and we have family. 20 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: We have not family, but we have the regulars close 21 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: close friends, close friends, and it's always an emotional affair, 22 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: always cries. Well, we go around the table and we 23 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: you know, after a few glasses of wine, everyone sort 24 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: of says what they're thankful for, and inevitably, I mean, 25 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: I think probably thirty percent. Try. Yeah, remember that one 26 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: year I lost my shit, lost it and Wilder and Body, 27 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: my two boys, they didn't understand. They're like, what is 28 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: wrong with you? I mean they was and then Mom, 29 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: I just like appreciation. I couldn't get everything out. I 30 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: was going around the table and saying, who why? I 31 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: was thankful for these people in my life and I 32 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: was probably going through a lot you at that point, Yeah, 33 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: I mean we're again, I'm always going through shit. I 34 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 1: was gonna saying, I mean, no you. It's funny because 35 00:02:55,000 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: you at Thanksgiving are always you always say such beautiful, 36 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: full things. But it also depends on where you are 37 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: in your life and what you're going through as to 38 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: how emotional you get. Some years you're like on fire. 39 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: What was the year that we all went around and 40 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 1: did one word? That was a good one? That was it? Mom? Yeah, 41 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: because there was so many people including my ex husband 42 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: was great Chris, which was so great. Yeah, but we 43 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: went around the room and instead of doing the full thing, 44 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: we said one word about each person. There's so much pressure, though, 45 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: Like when it's coming around the table and you're looking 46 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh shit, I'm I'm like five more, 47 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm up. You get nervous, Yeah, I know anxiety. Got 48 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: a plan. I got a little bit of a plan 49 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: of what I want to do. Yeah, and then you're like, 50 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: oh am I gonna cry because it just it's the 51 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: worst what happens is during Thanksgiving. For me, it depends 52 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: on who's like, there's a couple of years where we 53 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: lost people that we loved and that is just so hard. 54 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: And you go around and makes you just that heightened 55 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: sense of gratitude for everybody in your life. And I 56 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: love Sometimes people ask what's my favorite holiday? And I 57 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: think Thanksgiving is one of my favorites. Let's talk about 58 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: this year we launched our podcast. It hasn't been that long. 59 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: We've had a good handful of podcasts that have come out. 60 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: It's been so much fun. And now, strangely, we're both 61 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: going to celebrate Thanksgiving together without our brothers and without 62 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: our mom and dad from Colorado In Colorado, and I'm 63 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: so excited. It's gonna be so fun. I know, I 64 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: wish Mom and Pap were to be there me too. 65 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: Let's talk about Thanksgiving and what it means in terms 66 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: of just not the politics of Thanksgiving, but what it 67 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: means for us, what it's always meant for us. Always 68 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: been very much a family affair with our aunt Patty, 69 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 1: way back, way back, our cousins. I mean, we've always 70 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: had such joyous Thanksgivings and in this same house, you know, 71 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: because we had Thanksgiving in the house that we're currently 72 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 1: in when Mom owned the house. Yeah, and then she 73 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: sold it and then I bought it, right, so we 74 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 1: essentially have been in the having Thanksgiving in the same house. 75 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: I don't think we've talked about that in the podcast, 76 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: that I live in our childhood home. I know we 77 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: have not, no, so I will keep it quick. I 78 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 1: was pregnant with Rider, was trying to buy a home. 79 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: Every home that I put an offer on literally kept 80 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: falling through. I thought I'd never have a house. I 81 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 1: was so huge and pregnant and hormonal. Mom called me 82 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: up one day and said, I think the house is 83 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: going up that we my old house is going up 84 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: on the market if you want to buy it, or 85 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: if you want to look at it, and I just thought, yes, yes, yes. 86 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,559 Speaker 1: It was like this crazy decision that I made right away. 87 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: I thought I'd be in the house for about two 88 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: years or something and then find another place. And here 89 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: I am sixteen years later. I remember I walked into 90 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: the house for the first time and I hadn't been 91 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: back since however long since I was maybe thirteen, and 92 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 1: I had a physical reaction. I felt nauseous. Oh really, yeah, 93 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: I think there was a lot of you feel nauseous 94 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: in my house, not now, just the first time I 95 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: walked in. I think I was having sort of these 96 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: recalled memories or this sort of the bad stuff started 97 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: coming out. Oh really, I had the opposite when I 98 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: walked into that house. I don't know, I just felt 99 00:06:55,160 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: immediately safe. Oh yeah, weird. Okay, So let's talk about 100 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: what is one of your most when we were kids. 101 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: What's like, Do you have any memories of Thanksgiving that 102 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: are really prominent. It wasn't one specific memory, but Thanksgiving. 103 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: Christmas was always amazing, right because Christmas is fun to 104 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: get the presents. But Thanksgiving was always my favorite favorite 105 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: time of year. My favorite holiday I look forward to 106 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,239 Speaker 1: every year because it was the only time that everyone 107 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: in the family got together, specifically David Bursney X, who 108 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: is my cousin, and Michael Bursniacks, who were our cousins, 109 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: and I just wanted to be with them, and I 110 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: was so excited for them to come over and play 111 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: and to be running around the house as a kid, 112 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: and there was a sense of safety when everyone in 113 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: the family was together and having wine, and you were 114 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: sort of this little dude. I was this little dude 115 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: sort of running around just you know. I mean, it 116 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: was so fun. It was so so much, so much fun. 117 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: And Grandma. It was always around Grandma's birthday, Grandma's birthday 118 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 1: and so sometimes her birthday would fall on Thanksgiving and 119 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: it was just a very celebratory time. We had Mom's 120 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: birthday around then Grandma's birthday Thanksgiving, and we all cooked 121 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: back then too. Yeah you know what I mean, you 122 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: cooked now, but everyone really pitched in. I mean, Michael 123 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: brought the broccoli surprise, and you know, Aunt Patti brought 124 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: what she brought everyone. Really it was very traditional in 125 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: that sense, which will be what ours is this year. Yeah, 126 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna cook talk shit out of it. Well, I 127 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: probably should do most of the cooking. Other recipes you 128 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 1: can execute. I'll so I'm like a sort of lead. 129 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: Am I the sous chef? No, because you'll have duties. 130 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: What does a sous chef even do? I don't even know. 131 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: I just said that word. Actually, here's how the kitchen works. 132 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: The best one person needs to be in charge. Yeah, 133 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: I can be like the prep guy and every Yeah, 134 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: and everybody. It's probably best because you smoke weed, so 135 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: it's probably best if you're prepping then executing. Well, I 136 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: don't know. No, A lot of a lot of weed 137 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 1: heads who are listening to this probably are are sick cooks. 138 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: I mean, you get into a zone and you just 139 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: kind of know it. But that means you have to 140 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: just cook the shit out of it yourself. It needs 141 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: to be your kitchen. Maybe I will do one special dish. No, No, 142 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: you need to just listen to what I say. I can, 143 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: I can chop and do all that stuff, but I 144 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: want to do one special dish. Here's the problem with 145 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: specialty dishes. Ah God, the problem with specialty dishes when 146 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: you're trying to share a kitchen, is it the kitchen 147 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: that's small, especially kitchen in Colorado, which is like literally 148 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: about barely two people you can fit in that thing, right, 149 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: I feel like you're running over each other trying to 150 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 1: find You're trying to use the same bowls. You're trying 151 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: to use the same paint to use a pan, the 152 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: same pant Like you have to have a plan of action. Yeah, 153 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: but my special dish won't be difficult. You know, I 154 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell it is. It's like a salad. No, 155 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: no, no no, no no. I think I'm going to use 156 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: the instant pot for some baked potato. Right, I'll do 157 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: a dip. Oh, a dip is good. You can do 158 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 1: that the day before too, So we we got to 159 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: put our menu together. We duck In don't have the 160 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: kind of normal hands on as we stove top stuffing. 161 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 1: Sometimes stuffing can get too intense. I think people can 162 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: overdo stuffing. It gets too there's too much going on there. 163 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: I like corn bread stuffing opposed to what as opposed 164 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: to regular like other kinds of bread. Well, that's what 165 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: you use, you use bread, I know that. I'm just saying, like, 166 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: have you ever cooked anything for Thanksgiving? No? It just 167 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: hit me that I don't think you've ever made a dish. 168 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: I haven't. This will be a different year. So we 169 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: got to do our our classic sweet potatoes in the 170 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: orange cups. Yep, do we follow out the orange. We 171 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: put the sweet potatoes in marshmallow and marshmallow on top, 172 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: put them in the oven. Super yummy cranberry. Although I've 173 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: always hated, I love cranberry. Cranberry sauce is so good 174 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: with the mashed potato. Yeah, I know. I mean it's 175 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: a nice like when you take a bite, like it's 176 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: like a dipping sauce almost. I would never go straight 177 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: cranberry bite. Well, no, that's not what it's for. People 178 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: like will eat a straight cranberry. But the cranberry sauce 179 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: is it's an addition to at the meal. I know, 180 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: ad it to the turkey, and you don't. It's not 181 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: cranberry sauce. It's a sauce. Do you know it's not 182 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: you don't know what you're cranberry sauce sauce? No, no, no no, 183 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: but it's like a relish. Yes, but you put it 184 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 1: on your plate in its own little place. No, you 185 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: don't put it on top of it's like your gravy. 186 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: It's like an addition to the gravy. You got gravy 187 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: and you have cranberry sauce. Is this true, Alison? I 188 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: think on this one, I'm going to google that. That's 189 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: if that's true. I cranberry sauce. It's not like it's 190 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: not like Grandma's mold. You know Grandma's mold. Remember Grandma's mold, 191 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: gelatine mold that she did that for Thanksgiving. I know 192 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,439 Speaker 1: she did her. It was like a very gish green 193 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: nuts and gelatin, and she did her cherries and her 194 00:12:54,760 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: little her little pineapple bits. Let's make a mold for 195 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: old times sake, the green mold. That'd be fine. Green mold. Yeah, 196 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 1: I have the I have. It's a good idea. I 197 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: won't eat it, but it's good to just have. It 198 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: Actually might taste different now that you're older. I'm not 199 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: sure I even ever tasted it. That's what I'm saying. 200 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: It actually looked gross. It's quite good. It's like jello 201 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: with bits in it. It's old school green jello, their 202 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: fifties walnuts and stuff, and like I can imagine it. 203 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: I've had it. It's good. It's like ambrosia. But gelatin, right, 204 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: broccoli surprise. Broccoli surprise is a big traditional thing for 205 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: our family. That's usually what Uncle Michael brings, the broccoli surprise. 206 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:54,359 Speaker 1: And it's a casserole. It's basically a castro chies mao, cheese, mustard, 207 00:13:55,600 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: mushroom soup right onions, powder mix. I mean, it's just 208 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: like every bad thing for you in one with broccoli 209 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: and then cheese and then mashed potatoes, which are key 210 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: if those have to be super buttery. All right, well, 211 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: let's talk about gratitude and or families. There's some interesting 212 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 1: statistics with thanksgiving and oh look here, let's just read 213 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 1: this for fun. Jeez, Allison, she literally went back to 214 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: the Latin meaning of gratitude. The word of gratitude has 215 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 1: derived from the Latin word grutya, which means grace, graciousness, 216 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: or gratefulness. In some ways, gratitude encompasses all of these meanings. 217 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: Gratitude is a thankful appreciation of what an individual receives, 218 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: whether tangible or intangible. Interesting Gratitude is something that and 219 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: again it feels like a little instagrammy, which is fine. 220 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: Hashtag blast, hashtag hashtag grati blast, hashtag blatitude stage that's 221 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: my new favorite Thanksgiving hashtag. That's going to be the 222 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: name of our episode, Blatitude. That's ade hashtag glatitude. So no, 223 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 1: but it is. It's funny because we talk about we 224 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: talk about gratitude all the time, and this is something 225 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: that happened to me this morning with being where he 226 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: was going through having a moment as all kids do, 227 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: and I looked at him, I said, you know what, 228 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 1: let's shift the way you're thinking right now and let's 229 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: think about the things we're grateful for, because he needed 230 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: to feel gratitude in order to feel better about himself 231 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: in that moment. And when you do take time out 232 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: of your day to think about the things that you're 233 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 1: grateful for, it literally changes I think scientifically, it shifts 234 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: your brain matter or it lights up a certain part 235 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: of your brain. Being grateful it is almost a practice. 236 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: I think you have to practice being grateful. I don't 237 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: think gratitude is necessary. I think for some it comes 238 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: maybe easier than others. But I think you have to 239 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: practice being grateful. I mean, you have to take time 240 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: out of your day, especially when shit is going sideways, 241 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: to realize the things that are good. Gratitude can shift 242 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: the way we tackle life. If we can feel more 243 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: grateful for things, it will create a positive and optimistic 244 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: effect in the brain that can bring more happiness. That 245 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: is a fact. Well, I think it can change your 246 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 1: negative emotions, which I think we a lot of us 247 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: operate on. I think that's part of the fight or 248 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: flight thinking. Yeah, that negative thinking, which then in turn 249 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: sort of brings on those negative emotions and that gratitude. 250 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 1: If you can practice it enough and wake up grateful, 251 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 1: even if it means writings your shipped down in the morning, 252 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: you can change that to sort of more positive emotions. 253 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 1: Or just like fake laugh it works. Look do it again, 254 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: look at me and look at it. That made it different. 255 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: We should we should do it. We should do a 256 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,679 Speaker 1: fake laughing seminar. That's a good idea. It literally just 257 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: changed our whole our whole braining. Let's do some studies 258 00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: on gratitude. Okay, not be the subject. Not only does 259 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: thank you constitute good manners, but showing appreciation can help 260 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: you win new friends. According to a twenty fourteen study, 261 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: thanking a new acquaintance makes them more likely to seek 262 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: an ongoing relationship. That's actually true, though, It's like just 263 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: use that in a relationship with your partner. If you 264 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 1: say to them, thank you so much for taking out 265 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: the garbage, honey, that meant the world to me, they 266 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: probably more likely to feel better about what they just 267 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 1: did and want to do it again. It depends what 268 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 1: If it was a buddy down the street who came 269 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: it was, it's your neighbor, and you put your recycling 270 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 1: bin in the wrong place, and he came out and 271 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 1: moved it, and you went and said, hey man, thank 272 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: you so much for doing that. That meant a lot. 273 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: You probably would then end up talking, hanging out, making 274 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 1: a new friend a little bit. Oh yeah, And then 275 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: the next time he saw that, he might do it again. 276 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 1: And then the next time you do that, you might 277 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: actually do it for him. Right then next thing you know, 278 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 1: he's at our Thanksgiving right, Okay. Grateful people experience fewer 279 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: aches and pains, and they report feeling healthier than other people. 280 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: I maybe I don't know sometimes that kind of I 281 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: believe in that. I believe in mind over matter, I 282 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: really do. I do too. But because when you think 283 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: about if today you wake up and you're grateful for 284 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 1: your health, and you breathe air and you're out in 285 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 1: your I mean, I believe that you would experience less 286 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: pain if you felt a pain and your ability to say, 287 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: to have gratitude for just having a hand versus feeling 288 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 1: the pain in your hand, it would probably lessen the 289 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 1: pain in your hand. Well, let me get a hammer 290 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: smash your hand. Okay, fine, maybe it's not true. I 291 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: like this one because this is a question that I've had. 292 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 1: We were since Thanksgiving has been celebrated, forty two percent 293 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: of people eat their Thanksgiving meal between one and three pm. 294 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: Why is Thanksgiving so damn early Why? I don't know, 295 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 1: because you don't like it because you eat well, there's 296 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,160 Speaker 1: well football, yeah, but I mean, yes, which is, by 297 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 1: the way, there's a whole other topic about Thanksgiving. I mean, 298 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 1: we forgot to even hit on Thanksgiving football, which, by 299 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: the way, you want to talk about nostalgia, and you know, 300 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: you were talking about the sort of the memories that 301 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: we've had through all of our Thanksgiving thanksgivings, and I 302 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: think football is definitely the constant, especially with the Redskins. 303 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because Redskins always play That's right, That's right, Yeah, 304 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 1: that's where mom. Mom's from, Well, her family is from 305 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 1: Maryland area, right, But why why do why do people 306 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: eat Thanksgiving so early? Don't know, we usually do like 307 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 1: four I think because of kids. I think because usually 308 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: it's a very long meal, there's extra servings. We just 309 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: seem to eat all day and night, and then you're 310 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: tired and then you just hang. Maybe that's it. And 311 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: maybe it's to have a prey Thanksgiving, you know. Maybe 312 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: it gives you time for a prey thanks and you 313 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 1: have your desserts, which is big in our family because 314 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 1: I make all those pies and stuff and ice cream 315 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: and ice cream. I'm so excited about the things that 316 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: I'm grateful for this year. There's so much me too. 317 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I just feel like such a good just 318 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: emotionally me too, I feel so I just feel an 319 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: enormous sense of gratitude. And it's not for Thanksgiving, it's 320 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 1: just period. I mean, just in the last year, I 321 00:21:55,920 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 1: felt so much joy. I just feel life is simpler 322 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: for me from an emotional place. Really. Yeah, I'm not 323 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: giving a shit as much about everything, you know, in 324 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: the best possible way, I don't. I'm not putting pressure 325 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: on myself to do anything or to be anything. I 326 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: don't know. I just am happy in content being a 327 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: husband and a dad and just living my best life. 328 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: Each day, I find that I'm living more in the moment, 329 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 1: almost to the point of detriment. Like I think I'm 330 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: living too much in the moment. Is that possible? Well, no, 331 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: it's not this hour. I do care about what happens tomorrow. 332 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: So it's interesting because I was just talking to somebody 333 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: about this. Planning is as important as spontaneity and purpose. 334 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: I think I touched on this before. But grateful people 335 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 1: sleep better. Writing in a gratitude journal improves sleep. Okay, 336 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 1: here we go twenty one seventy one. Actually, don't look 337 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 1: at the stats. Did you look at them? No? I 338 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: mean some of them. Are you gonna quiz me? Huh? 339 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: How many ridges are on a fourteen ounce can of 340 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: ocean spray jellied cranberry sauce seventeen as what you saw? First? 341 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: Of all, ocean spray needs to do organic things. This 342 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: like ocean sprays. I do, like an ocean spray cranberry juice. 343 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: They should sponsors an ad. We should be sponsored by 344 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving the whole holiday? Is it a government holiday? Abraham 345 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: Lincoln declared Thanksgiving a national holiday. Oh it is free. 346 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: It is forty eight ninety is the average cost to 347 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: serve ten people a Thanksgiving feast. Well that's the other 348 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 1: thing you talk about, gratitude, and that also means giving back, 349 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, which honestly, I need to 350 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: do more of in my life. Yeah, you do. I do. 351 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: I was at the children's hospital for a couple of 352 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: years that went away. I loved. Now I'm going back 353 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: actually on through Thursday, no Friday. I want to start 354 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: that up again. I loved that you started volunteering. But 355 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 1: I also got to get the kids more into it. 356 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,640 Speaker 1: I really really do. I was talking to being about that. 357 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 1: I think it's yeah, I have to get them. I 358 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 1: think it really is important for everybody to be involved 359 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 1: in their community, no matter what. Fifty four point three 360 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 1: million Americans, well travel fifty plus miles this Thanksgiving. We're 361 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 1: doing that, Yeah, driving nine hundred nine hundred miles. It's 362 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 1: interesting though, I mean, I know when we look at 363 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: that statistic, we just think about travel. But I mean 364 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: when you really think about it, everyone's trying to get 365 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,360 Speaker 1: home to be together. I know, you know what I mean. 366 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: It's it's a bunch of people at once trying to connect. 367 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: I mean, when you get down to the base of it, 368 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: it's all anyone needs is to connect. We're all longing 369 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 1: for connection. I wish you could bottle up that feeling, 370 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: then you should. You should do a perfume called connection. 371 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 1: You could literally bottle connection. That's my vodka. That's connection. 372 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:39,160 Speaker 1: I guess that's a that's a type of connection. That's 373 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: a good idea for a line, you know, because everyone 374 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: says I wish I could bottle that up. So you 375 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: find the things that everyone says I wish I could 376 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: bottle it up, and then that's what you bottle up. 377 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: And that's what you call I mean, it's kind of 378 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 1: what people do with candles, like gratitude candles and abundance 379 00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: and prosperity. You're severe love. If you could bottle one 380 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 1: thing up and when you sprayed it like in your 381 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 1: face or whatever, it gave you that feeling of sorts, 382 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, No, for yourself, it's 383 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: like what I want it for other people. See, this 384 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 1: is the difference. See this is no, this is what 385 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 1: this is different. Altruistic. Yeah, okay, altruism is a real thing. No, 386 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: I know, but this is a game I'm playing. Honestly, 387 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: it was the feeling that I had when I had 388 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:41,479 Speaker 1: my ayahuasca experience, and it was a universal feeling of 389 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: love and safety. No, it wasn't. Safety is the wrong word, 390 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 1: because because it was. It was it's expansiveness. It was 391 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: like a oneness. Wasn't it like you didn't exist? I 392 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: didn't I seek to exist. Yeah, except it's like I 393 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 1: was in nothing but everything. And I think that when 394 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 1: you truly let go, when you truly surrender, there's this 395 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: sense of love and oneness and freedom and everything that 396 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: you've ever could possibly want to feel. And you just 397 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: get emotional and cry and say, if I could put 398 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: this in a bottle and give this to people, the 399 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: world would be a very different place. Minds similar, but 400 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: it's like, no, I'm serious. It's like the feeling of 401 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 1: sitting on the beach at sunset and you're alone. It's 402 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: kind of cheesy, No, it's kind of cheese. No, it's 403 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: not the feeling of sitting on the beach at sunset 404 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:53,439 Speaker 1: and you're all alone. And it's similar in that you 405 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: don't cease to exist, but you are just small. You 406 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 1: feel connected and a part of everything. There's times when 407 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: I can just let everything go where there is not 408 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: one stressor in my body that I'm experiencing. And that 409 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: usually happens on the beach or even in the mountains, 410 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: and it's pure and it's fearless. That's what I would 411 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: spray on first of all myself, and then I would 412 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 1: spray it on everyone else. It's that fearlessness. I like 413 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: Carl Sagan's quote for small creatures such as we, the 414 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 1: vastness is bearable only through love. And I love that 415 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: so much because I find comfort in the grandness and 416 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: the unknown of what's out there. I actually find that 417 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: to be more comforting, whereas a lot of people find 418 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: that to be very scary. It makes me feel more 419 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: connected because it's because it is insignificant, so it makes 420 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 1: the moments more significant. Well, sometimes you look up at 421 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: the stars and it it makes me crazy. I cannot 422 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: believe that we are existing on this tiny little planet 423 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: that is floating around this vast universe and it is gnarly. 424 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: Have you heard about these flat earthers? Yeah, I've just 425 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: heard of it. I didn't thought of you, really I did, because, 426 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 1: like I bet you, Kate and Danny are like, this 427 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: is real. I don't know. I don't know. I mean, look, 428 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm a possibility. Well, first of all, here's the thing. 429 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: This is the difference again between you and I. You 430 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: go right to that's not even possible. I go, you 431 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: know how, I don't think. So we've literally sailed around 432 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: the world, like it's gone around the world. I'm with you, 433 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: I said, like, clearly, none of these people have either 434 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: been to space or on the concord. And I have 435 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: been on the concord, and I did see the curvature 436 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: of the Earth when I was really young. I went 437 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: on the concord and I'm remember seeing that round and 438 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I'm on a plan. This is 439 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 1: such a non conversation. But isn't it interesting that there's 440 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: people out there who actually actually think. Yes, but there 441 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: are people out there who think crazy things all the time. 442 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: Why this attraction? I have no idea. I don't know. 443 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. That stuff is craziness. I think people 444 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: are bored. I mean, what is I think it's exciting. 445 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: What's exciting about me? It's total theories, theories and ideas. 446 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: And you know what, Oliver could be living in a matrix. 447 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: We could be living in a total video. We don't 448 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: know what the fuck's going on, that's the truth, agreed. 449 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: But we we know the world. We don't know. We 450 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: could just be like in some weird guys head man, 451 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: we could be. It's true, we don't know the answers. 452 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: It's fun to hold on to ideas and to think 453 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: that people do have the answers. It's interesting, But I 454 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: mean the reality is is that. Well, I'm grateful for 455 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: not having the answers. Me too, because what fun is that? 456 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: It's boring, as I'm saying, it's fun talking about flat earthers. No, 457 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 1: but that's that takes it to another player. Do you 458 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: believe we landed on the moon? Interesting question? Let's not 459 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 1: do this right now. Actually, we should do a conspiracy 460 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: theory episode where it's just you and me. No, no, 461 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 1: and we we should bring a conspiracy theorist on here, 462 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: someone who knows everything. Oh, that would be so fun. Yeah. 463 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 1: Three point five million spectators are expected to lie in 464 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: the streets this year at New York City for the 465 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: macies never been Thanksgiving Day Parade. We've watched it, though 466 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: we watch it. I hate parades. No, you don't your 467 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: kids do the Fourth of July paride. That's different. Just 468 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: that's a parade, Oliver. It's a local parade that lasts, 469 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: and I'm in it. Well, I'm riding a motorcycle in 470 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 1: a parade. That's cool. But I mean to go to 471 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: a parade, it's the worst. Oh, it's exciting. It's like celebratory. No. 472 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: I mean, imagine going to sit at the Macy's Day 473 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: parade and just sit on the sidewalk and watch these 474 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,720 Speaker 1: big floats. That's so boring. But they're beautiful floats. It's 475 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: so boring. Parades are probably my least favorite thing in 476 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: the world. Actually, America's first turkey trot took place more 477 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: than a century ago. Maybe we should do a turkey trot. 478 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: I think it's a dance, right, Hey, theory, what is 479 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 1: a turkey trot? The turkey trot was a dance made 480 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,280 Speaker 1: popular in the early nineteen hundreds. Turkey trot was done 481 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: to fast ragtime music popular in the decade from nineteen 482 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 1: hundred to nineteen ten, such Scott Choplin's Maple frag Ollie. 483 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: We we have to we should. That is amazing. Siri 484 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: play turkey trot dance rag time. Sorry, but I couldn't 485 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: find it. Let me see if siril likes. Hey, Siri, 486 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: can you play turkey trot music? Okay, let's hear let's 487 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: turkey trot by Come on, that's turkey. Oh. We're definitely 488 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: playing this. We need to do it. This is amazing. Okay, 489 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: So here's let's talk about tradition. Yeah, so Danny's family, 490 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 1: my man has this tradition where they shake butter in 491 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:15,920 Speaker 1: a jar and everybody shakes butter. You put this cream 492 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: in a little jar and you shake it so fast 493 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: and everybody shake and the first person to create the 494 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: butter ball wins. Wow, and the butter is so good. 495 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: What happens that everybody brings a loaf of bread that 496 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,799 Speaker 1: they love to Thanksgiving and then you all have these 497 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,319 Speaker 1: sort of homemade butters. After of course, everybody finishes their 498 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 1: butter and you eat bread, and it's sort of this 499 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: like breaking bread tradition that they do, which I love. 500 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 1: Where did they come up with that? I have no idea, 501 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: But it's so much fun and you can't help but 502 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: laugh when you're doing because you got to do it 503 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: really fast in order to win the It's like it's 504 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: a competition, not fun. We don't have. I mean, our 505 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: traditions are Thanksgiving. I mean we don't like we we do. 506 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 1: Our trading is going around and talking about what we're 507 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 1: thankful for. Theirs is cooler. It's like an active thing. 508 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: It's a tradition that I make. Pis, Yeah, that I do. 509 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: We need to come up with a new something like shaking. Yeah, 510 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: we're going to bring that to our Thanksgiving. Oh we are. Yeah, 511 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 1: we're going to do a full butter shaking. Maybe the 512 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 1: turkey trot is a new and the turkey trot. That's 513 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 1: gonna say, we should do a turkey trot like choreograph 514 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,040 Speaker 1: a dance and the adults trot and the adults have 515 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: to as well. We're gonna do a turkey trot. By 516 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,719 Speaker 1: the way, this could be a good thing that we 517 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,959 Speaker 1: could ask our followers and the people that are subscribing 518 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:48,240 Speaker 1: to do their own turkey trot dance and then on Thursday, 519 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: since we air on Wednesday, on Thursday, they can post 520 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:58,800 Speaker 1: their turkey trot dance with their family and at Sibling 521 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 1: Revelry turkey trot hashtag. We could do it SR turkey trot. Yeah, 522 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 1: that would be really fun. That would be so much fun. 523 00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: That would be fun. That would be funny and ship 524 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: I love it and they're crazier. The weirder the better. Well, 525 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 1: maybe we do an maybe they win something. Okay, so 526 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 1: we gotta yeah, we should start doing contest and so 527 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 1: our favorite turkey trot winner. I mean everybody is a 528 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: winner because anyone who does it right, but our favorite one. 529 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 1: What would we should we send a merch? We could 530 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: send a merch. Yeah, some sr March. We don't have 531 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,439 Speaker 1: it yet find but we could make that some merch 532 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,319 Speaker 1: when they could have the first merch. Okay, look at 533 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,280 Speaker 1: the turkey trot foot race. It's a long distance variety. 534 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 1: It's held on or around Thanksgiving in the United States. 535 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:48,919 Speaker 1: So you have the turkey trot is the race, which 536 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 1: could be fun too. We could do like a race, 537 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 1: a turkey trot in like turkey cots could be a 538 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 1: dance too. There's both. What would that's your weirdest Thanksgiving 539 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 1: m I know what mine was and it was also 540 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: so great. Oh gosh, you go first. I have no idea. 541 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:15,240 Speaker 1: So I was shooting fools gold in Australia and couldn't 542 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: come home for Thanksgiving. We shot it over Thanksgiving because 543 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving isn't really Hollywood doesn't recognize Thanksgiving as a We're 544 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: taking this time off which I had spent. I've spent 545 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: many Thanksgivings on location, but this one in particular was 546 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: so crazy because we couldn't get any traditional ingredients. So 547 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,720 Speaker 1: I was living at the furthest end of the earth, 548 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,720 Speaker 1: and so for Thanksgiving, we had a lot of American 549 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 1: people on the crew and the cast. So I put 550 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,359 Speaker 1: together a big Thanksgiving dinner and I tried to find 551 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 1: these ingredients, which was nearly impossible, and we drove all 552 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: over like two hours to try to get We found 553 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: Cranberry in the city of Cannes. We found this like 554 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 1: then we couldn't find pumpkin for a pumpkin pie. And 555 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:04,359 Speaker 1: we were driving back from going to this strange supermarket 556 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: way out in the middle of nowhere, and as we 557 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: were driving back, we saw this man on the side 558 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 1: of the road selling Japanese pumpkins, which Danny no he 559 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: was this man, and we stopped at the car. Was 560 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 1: like stop because it looked like a pumpkin, but it 561 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 1: didn't look more like a squash. And I asked the man, 562 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this? I do a terrible Australian. 563 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: Try it. He's a lot. It's the Japanese. No, that's 564 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: like English pumpkin, jampkin, Japanese pumpkin. Eh. All I know 565 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: how to say is shack jack a shock. It's a pumpkin. 566 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: So he said, oh, it's no, it's they're Japanese pumpkins. 567 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 1: So I got a bunch of these strange, very different 568 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:06,359 Speaker 1: looking squash and I made a pumpkin pie. I had 569 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 1: to make a pie. I made this pumpkin pie out 570 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,279 Speaker 1: of this. I completely took all the meat out of 571 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,520 Speaker 1: it and strained. It was very different. Made this pumpkin pie. 572 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:19,439 Speaker 1: It was the most amazing pumpkin pie I've ever made 573 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 1: because it wasn't as sweet, but it was still a 574 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 1: little sweet. It was just totally different. Did McConaughey like it, Uh? 575 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:31,280 Speaker 1: He did, he did. Let's talk about what we're grateful 576 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: for this year. Yeah, that's good, you know. I'm I 577 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 1: will say that this experience, I am grateful for not 578 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: only being able to do this with you and have 579 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 1: this time with you, and it's so fun because like 580 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,799 Speaker 1: even when you come into the house and I see 581 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: you walk in and we're doing this together, it's just 582 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 1: an absolute blast. And I get to spend time with 583 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 1: you and talk with you about weird things. Well, that's 584 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: what's been great about it. I mean, aside from being 585 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: able to talk to siblings and talk about fun things, 586 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 1: just to fact that you and I get to hang 587 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: out like this now it's really fun. It's super fun. 588 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: And this is just the beginning, you know, like we 589 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: get to we're gonna have to We're gonna get to 590 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,360 Speaker 1: go places and travel a little bit, maybe go on 591 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,160 Speaker 1: the road and do a live show. Imagine going on 592 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,399 Speaker 1: Imagine imagine creating a live show though like of course 593 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: we're gonna be on stage doing a podcast, but imagine 594 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: producing and choreographing. We're gonna choreograph. Hell yeah, I'm so 595 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 1: good at Oh, we're gonna have we got at singing. 596 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,799 Speaker 1: I want to sing. I want to do a pair. 597 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: Wadn't a hike ach? I mean, we can create a 598 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 1: whole show around it. Can I wear a sequence cycled sequence? 599 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll do like five minutes stand up Matthew dresses. 600 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,799 Speaker 1: It's like a variety show. What's happening. By the way, 601 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 1: that's a great idea. But imagine if we did like 602 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: a mini variety show and I would come out and 603 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 1: I would sing good morning, good more is that the 604 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: open it's a morning show. All that jab we're going 605 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:14,920 Speaker 1: and all that jazz. You're like, you do like puppets. 606 00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:23,760 Speaker 1: You're like, what is it likeriloquism. That's a great idea. 607 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 1: I'm terrible, like Meredith, you have the puppet. That's fun. 608 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:38,800 Speaker 1: It was weird like sixties variety shows. No, but but 609 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 1: but yeah, it's it's been so fun. And then I'm 610 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: grateful that people have responded to this the wave. It 611 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 1: honestly exceeding our expectation of what we thought. Reading some 612 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: of the comments and knowing that it's funny and poignant 613 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: and sensitive and emotional in the room and even hearing 614 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,000 Speaker 1: it back. But when you start to hear and read 615 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: or sorry read people's comments and they start talking about 616 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:12,319 Speaker 1: their own situations, you know, their relationships with their siblings, 617 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:16,239 Speaker 1: how they this some of these episodes have made them 618 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 1: want to reach out to their siblings. I read, Yeah, 619 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:24,399 Speaker 1: it made me feel so cool, wonderful for that really cool. 620 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 1: It's like touched me on a different level. You know, 621 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 1: obviously want people to laugh and have a good time, 622 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,800 Speaker 1: but it resonates, it's it's fucking relatable. Sometimes things happen 623 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,480 Speaker 1: for a reason and that you just That's why I 624 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 1: believe you just have to like go with your gut, 625 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 1: go do the things that feel good or that you 626 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 1: want to do sometimes because you never know what the 627 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,640 Speaker 1: outcome is going to be. And even if it was 628 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 1: just a couple of episodes that we did, and of 629 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,040 Speaker 1: course we're not, We're going to do more. This experience, 630 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,840 Speaker 1: the reaction to it, I just feel so I feel 631 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 1: so grateful that people have responded in the way that 632 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:05,640 Speaker 1: they do and feel, Yeah, I'm grateful. I'm grateful for 633 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 1: this year mostly Aaron really life. Yeah, are you gonna start? No, 634 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna hold it back. I'm I'm not gonna let 635 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:19,799 Speaker 1: tell me. She's just this fucking greatest woman she really 636 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 1: ever to walk the earth. I mean, in order to 637 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 1: deal with somebody like me, I wouldn't give yourself that 638 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:31,480 Speaker 1: much credit. I'm dissing myself. I know, I know, I know. 639 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 1: And look, we've been through our ship. We've been together 640 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: for eight almost nineteen years. It's been good and bad, 641 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 1: and I fucked up and she's been forgiving and she 642 00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:49,399 Speaker 1: is just a deep, big thinking person. She doesn't get 643 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: my opic. She looks at me and knows me for 644 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 1: everything that I am, not necessarily just the actions that 645 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:04,760 Speaker 1: I take. And she sees my soul and my heart 646 00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 1: and she just loves me like I've never been loved before. Now, 647 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 1: are you going to start crying? No, I'm not going 648 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 1: to cry. And so our relationship has been so solid, 649 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: and I take credit, you know, I mean, obviously it 650 00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 1: takes two to make good and also make bad. But she, 651 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: she is the sort of anchor. She is the one 652 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,200 Speaker 1: who makes it possible for me to be as good 653 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 1: as I can be. So I'm grateful for my beautiful wife. Yeah, 654 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: I'll cry. You're going to want to cry, Yeah I will, 655 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 1: but I don't want to cry right version of that, 656 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 1: And it's gonna you're gonna get emotion that Aaron's gonna cry. Yeah, 657 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: no I will. I know that's what we do, but 658 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to save my tears. I don't want to 659 00:44:55,000 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 1: cry it right now. Twice I am. I am incredibly 660 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: grateful for my partner as well, and I'm grateful for 661 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,319 Speaker 1: him for you. Yeah, he's He's really grounded my life. 662 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna start crying. You just let it go, 663 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 1: let it go, let it all out, let it out, 664 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 1: but cry into the mic. You're such a dick. Sometimes 665 00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm grateful for him because it's the first time that 666 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 1: I've seen you as content as you are as a 667 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,600 Speaker 1: human being. I think that with him things has to 668 00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: do with a lot of work that you've done. I 669 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 1: think you're cut, grounded and centered you are now. I 670 00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: think it's a lot of things. I think honestly, I 671 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,839 Speaker 1: don't even know what it is, what the concoction has been, 672 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,240 Speaker 1: but I know that Danny is like the key ingredient, 673 00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,879 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And actually I am the key. 674 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: I'm also a key ingredient. But the balance has been 675 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:09,920 Speaker 1: really interesting. But he's so such a good man, and 676 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:15,439 Speaker 1: so every time I see his effort, it's coming from 677 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:21,680 Speaker 1: the most, the purest, most beautiful place. And I feel 678 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: so lucky that I allowed that to be the love 679 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:30,640 Speaker 1: in my life, because if I didn't do work on myself, 680 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: I would have never allowed that kind of purity and 681 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 1: abundance of love in my life. Yeah, so I'm so grateful, 682 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: and I am. I'm grateful for all of those Fucci cows. 683 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: They're such great people. I love family. Oh, it just 684 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:53,120 Speaker 1: reminds us of It's the thing when people say you 685 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: marry like kind, and that doesn't mean that you come 686 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: from the same place. It doesn't mean that you come 687 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 1: from the same cultural background. Where what it means is 688 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,239 Speaker 1: that your values are the same, that you have the 689 00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 1: same desires and values in life. They're all about their 690 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,759 Speaker 1: family and loving each other. That's everything for them, and 691 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 1: that brotherhood and those siblings, those three boys, those three 692 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:19,200 Speaker 1: Fuji cowboys, and their mother and their father unfortunately passed away, 693 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 1: but that unit is so important to them and they 694 00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,400 Speaker 1: work hard at it. And I think similarly to us, 695 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: we have the same value system. Yeah, grateful for a 696 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 1: lot of things, man, there's a lot of things. Grateful 697 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 1: for communication, and grateful for the concept of just forgiveness. 698 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 1: If you don't even have if you don't have forgiveness, 699 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,719 Speaker 1: I don't know how you can continue and have a 700 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 1: full life, you know, just the concept of it alone. 701 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 1: We have to forgive constantly throughout our life, you know, 702 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:51,279 Speaker 1: And if you don't have that, you just die die, 703 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 1: you resentment in your anger. I'm grateful for the way 704 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: we were raised that has allowed to be open thinkers. 705 00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 1: I think it's as doctor Shefali would say, it's your birthright, 706 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:10,360 Speaker 1: but it's also a gift if your parents raise you 707 00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:13,799 Speaker 1: to be free thinkers. I think it's also important for 708 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:20,759 Speaker 1: everyone to feel gratitude for themselves, Grateful for you, Grateful 709 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: for your own being and your accomplishments, not necessarily in 710 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 1: work or monetarily, but just your accomplishments as a human being, 711 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,759 Speaker 1: your ability to sort of get through things or to 712 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,640 Speaker 1: you know, work hard, or to persevere. You know that 713 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 1: that self gratitude, self love, self worth is extremely important. 714 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 1: So I think, and I would say to everyone, take 715 00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:53,200 Speaker 1: a moment on this Thanksgiving I'm serious to be grateful 716 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,640 Speaker 1: for who you are. To show yourself some gratitude anyway. 717 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful. I'm grateful and for 718 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: me too. And I'm grateful to all that are listening 719 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 1: to this podcast on the Thanksgiving eve. Oh what all 720 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 1: those people out there right now? You guys are listening 721 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,920 Speaker 1: to Thanksgiving everybody? Yes, they're either on their way to 722 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 1: the airport. Probably they might be traveling a plane. Maybe 723 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:30,880 Speaker 1: they downloaded it wow, going somewhere. And we do, we do, honestly, 724 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 1: And this is who Oliver and I are and whoever 725 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: you are listening right now, we really do wish you 726 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: the most beautiful thanks you, beautiful happy Thanksgiving. And I'm 727 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: gonna leave you with a song thanks Giving is toomorrow. Nice? 728 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 1: Are you trying to change the melodies now? You're like, 729 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:57,560 Speaker 1: you're like really skiving. I hope you cook it right. 730 00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: We've got stuff thing and carrots and yams and beads, 731 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:09,320 Speaker 1: little children who wash, they're all clean. They come down 732 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 1: to dinner with shining little cheeks. Everyone says what they're 733 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 1: great for for our grandma speak, I'm grateful for you 734 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 1: and you and me and me. Thanksgiving, chip for chippery, hooray, 735 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 1: it's Thanksgiving, it is thanks It was amazing. We should 736 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,000 Speaker 1: put a we should get Uncle Mark to throw a 737 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 1: guitar down on that. They're a little strings and strings. 738 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,960 Speaker 1: It was a perfect way to end, Oliver. Yes, we 739 00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 1: wish you and to all of the people out there 740 00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: who are not with their family and are with their 741 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:04,520 Speaker 1: friends that have made their families friends Giving. We didn't 742 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 1: touch on that at all, but we should a little 743 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: bit because we take a lot of people in for 744 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and it's so important to remember that you can 745 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 1: make your family right. And I think that's an important 746 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: point because Thanksgiving us it's about family, but it's about community. 747 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,279 Speaker 1: And there are a lot of people who are not 748 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,759 Speaker 1: with their families, whose families have passed, or who can't 749 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: they just can't be with their families. And you're right 750 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,160 Speaker 1: that friendsgiving thing is really big and I think very 751 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: very important. Yeah, And we are and always have been 752 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:39,360 Speaker 1: an open door family and we take in the strays 753 00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:43,120 Speaker 1: we do. And I urge people out there, if you 754 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 1: know anybody who doesn't have a place to over Thanksgiving, 755 00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 1: invite them over. Yes, I agree with that, and I'll 756 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:53,240 Speaker 1: sing a song about that. Invite your friends who have 757 00:51:53,360 --> 00:52:02,920 Speaker 1: no friends, and Thanksgiving will be anyway. We love you all, Mary, 758 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving to all, and to all a good sibling. Revelry 759 00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,800 Speaker 1: is executive duced by Kate Hudson, Olira Hudson and sim Sarner. 760 00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 1: Supervising producer is Alison Presnank. Editor is Josh Wendish. Music 761 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,120 Speaker 1: by Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mike.