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Speaker 1: hope you had an amazing Christmas, New Year's all of

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Speaker 1: kind of I mean, because a million dollars in nineteen

422
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Speaker 1: seventy six, I don't know what that is now, ten

423
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 1: million dollars whatever. Of course, she was on the View,

424
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: she was on twenty twenty, she was on The Today

425
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: Show at one point, did all kinds of stuff. So

426
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 1: rip Barbara Walters. Elon Musk has become the only person

427
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 1: in history to lose two hundred billion dollars from their

428
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: net worth. It's never before happened, I guess because nobody

429
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: had that much money. Still a billionaire after losing two

430
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: hundred two hundred million dollars. Yeah, but don't don't tell

431
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: me for a second that he didn't look at that

432
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: and go, oh, that's not good. I mean, he's out

433
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: there tweeting like a fool. You don't care. I don't know.

434
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: I mean, if you've ever met anybody, that's all relative,

435
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: you know, for us, he loves twenty bucks for like,

436
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: oh this is bad, you know. For this guy, his

437
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 1: fortune peta three hundred and forty billion dollars and he

438
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: lost one hundred and thirty seven of it in like

439
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: two weeks as Tesla's shares tumble. I'm sorry, but that's

440
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: gotta get to you. I realized that he couldn't spend

441
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: one or two billion dollars in his life if he tried.

442
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: But that's got to get in your head that you

443
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: lost that much money, right, Oh yeah, yes, I don't know. Ye, yes,

444
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: you still got a lot of money, like he doesn't care, right, yeah, millions,

445
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: two hundred million dollars, but you're still a billionaire. Yeah,

446
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 1: but it's still two hundred I'm very cheap. I'm very cheap.

447
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: Like if gone, I mean, I'm sorry, I would have

448
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: to think about them. And speaking of Tesla driver in Germany,

449
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm surprised we don't hear more stories about this and

450
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: rufy maybe you can explain to me why. But he'd

451
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: fallen asleep behind the wheel of his Tesla, which was

452
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: on autopilot, and that led to a police chase. This

453
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: was on the Autobahn UM in Germany. They attempted to

454
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: stop the tesla. The vehicle didn't pull over. The car

455
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: was traveling at seventy miles an hour and didn't slow

456
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: down or speed up during the attempted traffic stop. UM.

457
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: The tesla kept the same distance from the patrol car

458
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: in the front as they of course, because the computer,

459
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: I guess figures that out. UM. The guy identified as

460
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: a forty five year old male reclined in his seat

461
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: with his eyes, clothes and hands off the steering wheel.

462
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 1: So how long would that go on? Eventually I call

463
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: bs on the whole story. I think the guy's using

464
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: that as an excuse, like like he got finally got

465
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: pulled over, and he's like slung like, oh, I was sleeping.

466
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I didn't you know, Because tesla, you have

467
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: to tell the steaming wheel every if you're going that fast,

468
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: like a certain mile hour, you have to touch it

469
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: makes you touch the steering wheels said no, that you're awake.

470
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 1: Every I don't know, thirty seconds or so, so he

471
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: had to be touching the steering wheel. He had to

472
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: be awake the whole time, and he probably just like

473
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: was just cruising and he finally unpulled over and he's

474
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 1: just like, I was sleeping, officer. I'm sorry I didn't know. Wow,

475
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 1: oh yeah, right, because I was trying to figure out,

476
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 1: like how I thought you had to touch the steering wheels?

477
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: So how how long could this possibly go on? Right?

478
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: You can't have meleeping, and you can't be you can't

479
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: be sleeping and the car be driving. It'll stop, Yeah,

480
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 1: it'll it'll stop doing the autopilot thing. Well, and you're

481
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: still gonna get a DUI, right because you're operating the vehicle,

482
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: even if you weren't the one driving. I assume like,

483
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: even though the car was driving itself, I got to

484
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: assume that you yeah, because you're still behind the wheel

485
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: of a more vehicle, right, yeah. Um, And today is

486
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: National chocolate covered Cherry Day. So there there's your food story.

487
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 1: That's the best I can do for now. The first

488
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 1: entertainment twenty three, I'll screw that up for a couple

489
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: of weeks before I get it right. When I Riding

490
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: my chests Next after Harry Styles Kim. The latest entertainment

491
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 1: news is on The Fred Show. After Jeremy Renner suffered

492
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: blunt chest trauma and orthopedic injuries after a New Year's

493
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: Day snow plowing accident. This is a crazy story. So

494
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: he was plowing with a machine called a SnowCat. If

495
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: you live in the Midwest you might know what that is.

496
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: When he lost control and it ran over one of

497
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: his legs. He actually lost a ton of blood right

498
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: at the scene, right immediately. Luckily, his neighbor who's a doctor,

499
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: came to help, which probably is what saved his life. Honestly.

500
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: He was then airlifted to the hospital. He's stable, but

501
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: he's still in the ICU after getting surgery yesterday. So

502
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: thinking about him just a crazy, freak accident. Rolling Stone

503
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: published it's two hundred Greatest Singers of All Time with

504
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: people like Whitney, Houston, Al Green, Adal Beyonce, Otis Redding,

505
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: Bob Dylan, Aretha Franklin, and Moore. But notice missing was

506
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: miss Selene. Dion and her fans are very upset. They

507
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: feel like they have been through too much lately, so

508
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: they don't really know how to trash talk miss Lendon

509
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: fan base, but one did tweet they better change the

510
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: name of that list to ranking the two hundred greatest

511
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: singers of all time after the great Sealindion, Oh sick Burn.

512
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: Rolling Stone did feel like they needed to respond to

513
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: the poor Celindion fans. They said, before you start scrolling

514
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: and commenting, keep in mind that this is the greatest

515
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: singer's list, not the greatest voices list. Talent is impressive,

516
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: genius is transcendent. Okay, that's above my pay grade. But

517
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: are they She's not a damn genius? Come on, fancy words,

518
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: lely Selindiana off the list. I just don't know. I

519
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: don't know. Nobody thought of her and she's going through

520
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: all that right now. I mean, Jesus, I don't know.

521
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: But yeah, they're piss Hopefully they can work on their

522
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: you know, smack talk, because I don't think they're going

523
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: to get anything done that way. So I called this

524
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: month months ago. I don't know if you guys were member,

525
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: but Chili from TLC So Beautiful is officially dating boy

526
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: meets World star Matthew Lawrence, which is the most like

527
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: random but amazing nineties couple of all time. A rep

528
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: for Chili did confirm that she and Matthew are exclusive.

529
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: Happened right around Thanksgiving, which they spent together along with

530
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: Christmas in Atlanta, where he met her family. They also

531
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: took things to Instagram, where they posted a very wholesome

532
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: video of them dancing to take on Me and matching jammies.

533
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: So they're like still in the wholesome nineties, you know,

534
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: boy meets world age. And I told you back in

535
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,239
Speaker 1: August that they were spotted hanging out in Hawaii. They

536
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: were saying they were just friends at the time. Obviously,

537
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: I understand it's a new relationship. You don't know what

538
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: it's going to be. Matthew and Cheryl Burke were actually

539
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: married for two years. They split back in February, finalized

540
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: their divorce in September. By the way, and real quick,

541
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: I just want to mention that the second half of

542
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: season five of Yellowstone will not premiere on Paramount until

543
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: this summer, So if you were waiting for that, that's

544
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: going to be not until things are warm and pretty

545
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: outside again. More to check it online today. Wait until

546
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,959
Speaker 1: you hear what this boogie gym did to its newest members.

547
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: It's on French show radio dot com. I kind of

548
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: started watching Yellowstone, I think, and it's gonna be hard

549
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: for me because I've watched a couple of episodes. My

550
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: parents are obsessed with it. Yeah, and so they're watching

551
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: it and I have no idea what's going on. But

552
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get like a vibe, you know, when

553
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: they have it on because they're off, of course, all

554
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: caught up, right, And so they were watching the last

555
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: episode of season five, and I don't know what. I

556
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: have no idea, Who's what Kevin Costner governor or something.

557
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what he's doings. Yeah, we got horses

558
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 1: and catalysts. I don't know. We got oh yeah, mountains.

559
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: I don't I mean, I don't know what I'm looking at.

560
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: But oftentimes I can get my parents watch a lot

561
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: of TV, and I can get a vibe from them,

562
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: you know, even if I'm not caught up or like,

563
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. But this seems like

564
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: it just is so slow. Yeah, it's like so slow.

565
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: So I tried it front. I tried to start it

566
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: actually when I had COVID years ago. I guess it

567
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: seems like now and I couldn't get into it, and

568
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: everybody loves it so much, and then you know, over

569
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: the break, I was watching with my dad and it

570
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: looked like there was stuff going on. But I don't

571
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: know if it's for me, I'm not sure, but everybody

572
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: loves it and that prequel they like to um nineteen

573
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: twenty three. Yeah whatever, Yeah, wow, I know, I mean,

574
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I'll try, but I don't. I don't know.

575
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: It seems a little and this is before my time,

576
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: but I know the reference at least it seems a

577
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: little dallasy to me. Dallas. Yeah, it's like, yeah, it's

578
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: like half soap opera, half like scandal. I don't know.

579
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: I just I don't think I'm gonna get there, guys,

580
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: but which I'm sure concerns a lot of people. But

581
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: but this is one of those shows though. This is

582
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: like Game of Thrones was like this where you say

583
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: to somebody who loves the show, which is a lot

584
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: of people, if you're like, oh man, I don't know

585
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: about Yellowstone, they'll be like, are you kidding me? You

586
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: know exactly what I'm talking at? Are you what are

587
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: you doing? You know, like you see it's that it's

588
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: that like voice of disgust and desperation that comes out

589
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,719
Speaker 1: of people's mouths when they realize that you're not watching

590
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: the thing that they are obsessed with. Um And I've

591
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: done it to people before too. I did it with

592
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: like Breaking Bad, Like people who refuse to watch Breaking Bad.

593
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, what, like, how can you not after all

594
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: of this time? How can you not have any like

595
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: zero interest in what's happening? I'm breaking like what happened?

596
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm Breaking Bad? I mean, it doesn't make any sense

597
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: to me. But people feel the same way about a

598
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: lot of these shows. This one Yellow Stuff was it?

599
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: It costs a million dollars a month if you want

600
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: to you want to ransom Land to put your catal

601
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: on Rufy a million dollars a month. That was my takeaway.

602
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: What did you say, Rufy about that show? You're like,

603
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: I don't watch that Cowboy them cowboy with them bugless

604
00:33:55,960 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: or something like that. Yeah, yeah, it was that an accent. No,

605
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: I can't do. Are you becoming Are you becoming Paulina

606
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: where you transform into whatever? Yeah, vibe you're feeling at

607
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 1: the time. Welcome to Yellowstone, y'all. Rufio Dutton over here,

608
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: welcome to my land. This is where I live. Look

609
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 1: at this, yer, Rufio Dutton, is that your name? Yeah,

610
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: that's the guy's name. The Duttons, the stars of the show. Yeah.

611
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: Oh we can go more than I That's all I

612
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: know about the show. Wow, Kevin Costler just called hes

613
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: freaked outboust job right, I'm super worried about Rufio Dutton

614
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: coming your way? Is rabbit hole one word? No, it's true.

615
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: I looked it up. Rabbit holes two words I'm making.

616
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm making it why, I'll just you know, and the

617
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: more you know, Um, I just make it a note.

618
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: I want to get back to this later. But it

619
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: was just revealed to me during that that song that

620
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 1: Klin watched a sixty part series TikTok on something six zero.

621
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: It's not done yet. I'm still waiting for her new videos.

622
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I mean, you guys, I we got

623
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: to come back to this because I've gone on some

624
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: pretty epic rabbit holes before. Um. I mean, but it's hard.

625
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't even go to the click for part two,

626
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: you know, Like sometimes I don't even take it that

627
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: far and we're here talking about six zero. Yeah. It

628
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: wasn't in one sitting though. Oh well that's good. We

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Speaker 1: gotta get back to the block to these as. You know,

630
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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I feel like my vacation, my

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Speaker 1: life had purpose. Never mind, don't I feel much better

632
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Speaker 1: about myself? Um? Audio journals like writing in our diaries.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Paulina has one, right, go yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, dear blog. Yeah, it's it's been

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00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 1: an interesting two weeks. I think, um, when it comes

636
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Speaker 1: to like work and stuff. But you know what, it

637
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: was a nice breaks can't lie. Um, I did get

638
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Speaker 1: something very nice gifted to me for Christmas, right, and

639
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: this is from my fiance. And we did that thing

640
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: where you say you're not gonna gift gifts. You're not

641
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: going to exchange your gifts this year, so okay, But

642
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: like guys, like I was very serious and I thought

643
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: we were very serious collective here. Oh you fell for it.

644
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: You fell for it, Like, well what did you if

645
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: you are communicating that every day being like okay, we

646
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: have you know, like financial goals you want to hit,

647
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: like we got stuff we want to do. We're trying

648
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: to like you know, get don't have it in me? No,

649
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: okay it's just me, Like I felt like she Billy

650
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: ment it with his heart because I'm like, okay, cool,

651
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: like we got say. I feel like it's a trap.

652
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: It feel like that's a trap when you're like, we're

653
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: not doing anything for the holidays, you know what I mean.

654
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: And it's not about the amount. I understand that you

655
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,879
Speaker 1: guys have goals and stuff and reasons for why you're

656
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: not why why you weren't going to give gifts, and

657
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: I know you're not even done with your story yet,

658
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: but it's like, at the same time, I feel like

659
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: it's kind of a trap to see if you'll come

660
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: up with something like cheap and creative anyway, or just

661
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: go big anyway, because you know what I mean, Like

662
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: if if I'm taking somebody she's like, don't do anything

663
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: for my birthday, that's a lot. Oh yeah, I already know.

664
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: I already know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, anyway, go ahead, you're good.

665
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 1: I just like I felt so goofy because I really

666
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: thought we were on the same page when it came

667
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Speaker 1: to no gifts. So then, um, the day before Christmas,

668
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: because he worked Christmas Eve, he and I were in

669
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: the kitchen whatever, and then he's like, oh, I have

670
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: something for you and I'm like what, and he's like,

671
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: it's a Christmas gift. And I thought he was honestly kidding.

672
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: And if he was gonna give me something, I thought

673
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: it'd be a candle or just something, a bottle of wine, whatever,

674
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. And he comes up to me that

675
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: close your eyes. I'm over here closing my eyes. I'm

676
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 1: gonna go. He puts down the box and he's like look,

677
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: and I looked, and I've learned. I didn't know what

678
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: it was. My eyes were blurring cause I hold my

679
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: eyes too hard, so I'm over here trying to open

680
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: my eyes and I was like, I don't know what

681
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: that is. And I had to flip the box over

682
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: and I'm trussing so hard on your eyebows when you're covering.

683
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: I was scared. I'm like, what is this in the point?

684
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: Your blind is literally are you trying to close your brain?

685
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: Like what are you doing? I didn't too hard. I'm like,

686
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: oh no, But then I I flipped a box and

687
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's a MacBook, you guys. I cried, like

688
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: I don't think I even cried. When I got engaged

689
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: like that, I was like too hard from that, and

690
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: I cried, I'm like, you got me a MacBook. I

691
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: really thought he was bringing me a candle or I

692
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: don't know, just like socks or something that I needed.

693
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 1: I don't know, So then I'm like sweet. My first

694
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: thought was like, oh crap, like I gotta run of

695
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 1: the store tomorrow or something. So you know, first thing

696
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: I did Christmas Eve morning, I ran the Nike. This

697
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,760
Speaker 1: man got some basketball shoes. Not we're not even not evalent,

698
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: we're not equivalent, but he knows, he knew what he

699
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: was signing up for. Here's the thing, though, I would

700
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Speaker 1: probably argue at that point, you just the next time

701
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:07,240
Speaker 1: there's an occasion for him, you go a little bigger

702
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: because it's obvious when I give you a gift and

703
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: then you don't give me something till the next day.

704
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: You weren't really prepared, you know what I mean? So like, no,

705
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: that is all that it says to me, is that

706
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: you weren't. Even I'm not saying that you weren't, so

707
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not trying to give you a hard time.

708
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: But it's like he was following the rules, right, she wasn't.

709
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: That's why I follow the rules man. But then you're like,

710
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: the gift is at my mom, so I'll go it

711
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: to you there. I was all like, well, it's on

712
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: my mom's house delivery. You know, I got it all confused,

713
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 1: not even a believable story. That's not even a no.

714
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: I would just be like, thank you, Oh my gosh,

715
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: you're so sweet. This was so unexpected. We said no

716
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: gifts and then and then be done with it, and

717
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: then another promise. I know, you know what, there aren't

718
00:39:54,320 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: there are ways you could have made up. Okay, maybe

719
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: this guy's got five more mag books in the clock

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Speaker 1: Chicago Kiss FM and i Heeart Radio station. It's The

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Speaker 1: tell you who is dropping their new single on their

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Speaker 1: ex's birthday, sending a little message Mary. All right, somebody

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Speaker 1: was asking how how the COVID outbreak on the program began. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't clean well, right right right? So yeah, because

734
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Speaker 1: we were supposed to do one more week of shows

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Speaker 1: and then Christmas week in New Year's week and then

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Speaker 1: we're back now. But that the week, that week got

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Speaker 1: screwed up because we were outside yeah everything. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we were a lot of places. I actually don't know.

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00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna blame it on anybody. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We have no idea where it began. But it took

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Speaker 1: a couple of us out, and then we were afraid

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Speaker 1: it was gonna take the rest of us out. And

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00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: I think I got that long COVID thing though. Yeah,

744
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: I still don't feel right. Yeah, I had symptoms for

745
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: a really long time after. I hope, I mean, I

746
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 1: hope that doesn't happen to you. But they were weird too.

747
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: They weren't what I had heard about or not. Either

748
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 1: that or I'm just gonna get the whole I'm just

749
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 1: gonna get all the sicknesses that like the cold was

750
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: going around, the flu was going around. Yeah, COVID was

751
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: going around. Just get him all to me. I can

752
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: give it. Give him all to me tonight. No, yeah, yeah,

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00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: come on, Armando, I need all of you tonight. Give

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00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: me everything tonight. I don't know why I thought about

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00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: that last night. Our boss kept calling him Armando in

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00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: the dressing room. Really did I can come from? I

757
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: don't know why that came in my mind last night.

758
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: But the whole time, I'm like, was I supposed to

759
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: call him? I don't know him like I do know

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00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I do know him, I've met him several times.

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00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: But it was I supposed to be calling him Armando

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00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: the whole time like I did know him? Because I don't,

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00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what would you have? What, Pauline, I

764
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 1: do the right thing? I call him pitt Ball? Or

765
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 1: should I've been calling him Armando? Like I graduated high

766
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: school with him. I think you did the right thing.

767
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: I don't think you guys know each other like that.

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00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know if our boss knows him like that.

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00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: But hey, it just takes a Google search to see

770
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 1: someone's name. It's like when people I don't know at all.

771
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: Call me Christopher. I know you're gonna see and I'm like,

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00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so you know my room on name.

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00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: That's cool. I mean, yeah, it's online. It's not a s.

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00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. But we don't know each

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00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: other like that. So why are you calling me Christopher

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00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: like you we don't we don't. We don't go together

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00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know her. Yeah, so I don't.

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00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyway, morning, everybody, Let's do stay a

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Speaker 1: good next Also, by the way, kicking off money in

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Speaker 1: your pocket. And I'm not talking about the uh is

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Speaker 1: The Mega millions? The Mega millions, I'm not talking about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about thousand bucks, many chances all day to

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Speaker 1: on We're commercial free at seven eleven. Good morning, up

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Speaker 1: one oh three five Kiss up them now eighty five five.

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Speaker 1: All right, Jammie Ella is here. Let's see. Oh this

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Speaker 1: technical man. I can't with technicality. Sitday, look at this.

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Speaker 1: No I know that. Oh wait this thing? Yeah no

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work. Oh wait, I'm gonna put it. What

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Speaker 1: is this? I don't know what the hell's going on?

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Speaker 1: I can't. This is fancy of course. Right now it

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Speaker 1: Don't you think seven o'clock in the morning. Hey, Danielle,

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Speaker 1: are you there? Mercury? Hey, it's gonna make me pay

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Speaker 1: for the premium service. Apparently we're using a free app

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Speaker 1: to answer the phones around here in our thirty day trial.

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Speaker 1: Is I mean this place? This place? I honest to god,

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Speaker 1: this place. It's like okay, anyway, daniel welcome, so stair go.

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Speaker 1: We get a lot of emails dms, people like hey,

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Speaker 1: will you throw this one out to the to the

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Speaker 1: friend show thirteen, like what do you see what people

809
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: think about to see if I'm crazy or whatever? Um,

810
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: and so what's your scenario, what's your situation. Let's let's

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Speaker 1: solve your problem right now. So, first of all, love

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Speaker 1: you guys. I really hope I'm not crazy. You probably are,

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00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: but that's okay. We're all crazy. So you you're in

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00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: good cover. Let's hear it though. So my boyfriend Gary

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00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: and I we've we've been dating for a little bit

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00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: about like five months. Um, and he is, uh, he's

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00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: really vocal in terms of what he likes about my appearance,

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00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: but not in a like creepy or controlling way. It's

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Speaker 1: like I've never I don't know, I'm always like the

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Speaker 1: girl and the like hoodie and the you know, sweatpants. Yeah,

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00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: so it's kind of nice. Um, and it kind of

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00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, it kind of feels like like four

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00:45:56,360 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 1: play even in a way. Um, it's like, oh, it's

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Speaker 1: very specific. It's like, oh, I love you know, the

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Speaker 1: color of your hair with your like Cammel highlights, and

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Speaker 1: oh I love I love your like button down that

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Speaker 1: you're wearing today. So he gives you specific Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: tells me specific things about you that he likes. That's nice,

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Speaker 1: so he said, right, like it's he's paying attention you totally. No.

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Speaker 1: I I really liked it and like thought it was

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Speaker 1: kind of hot. Um. So then I just because you know,

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Speaker 1: We're like things are moving along and this I don't

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00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: think it's crazy. This I think is normal. You know,

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Speaker 1: we kind of got to the point in our relationship

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Speaker 1: where I'm like starting to like stalk his X a

836
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: little bit, you know, just like look her up. He's

837
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: at a transitionary point in the relationship. It's like, what

838
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: we Well, we're at the level now where we're serious

839
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: enough that I should go back and look at everybody

840
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:05,439
Speaker 1: he's ever slept with. I think. So, I think people

841
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: don't admit it. Um yeah, So here's the here's the

842
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: kind of the weird bit. Um So, I'm I figure

843
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: out I go through her Instagram and uh, all of

844
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: all of the specific detail that he that he comments

845
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: on me about me, from my hair color to certain

846
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 1: clothing choices, they're all identical to the X. Um like,

847
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: that's what he has noticed. And I'm like, okay, is

848
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: it a type? But then he's been saying something recently,

849
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: like last weekend he said this, he wants me to

850
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: start wearing red lipstick. Um so I don't which I

851
00:47:53,800 --> 00:48:00,040
Speaker 1: don't wear and that is like his ex So, so

852
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if you can hit up my dog

853
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: thinks what kind of like your boyfriend. He's like, why

854
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: are you calling the radio show? I was gonna see

855
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 1: what kind of rabbit animal do you have? I mean, like,

856
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: forget the damn thing. Honestly, Yeah, your dog doesn't like

857
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 1: your dog thinks this is us and I don't like

858
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: that red lipstick. Okay. So so he compliments you on

859
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: aspects of your look that you now see are similar

860
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: to his acts, and then he's now encouraging you to

861
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: do things that you've seen in pictures that she also did,

862
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: like the red lipstick, like maybe that was her signature

863
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,839
Speaker 1: color or something, And then he wants you to do yeah,

864
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,840
Speaker 1: like she she has a lot of like bright red lipstick.

865
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm like, does he I mean, it's one

866
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: of two things. It's either you know, he has a

867
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 1: type um and you know he's I don't know, they

868
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: like wants me to wear the red lipstick because like

869
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: that's his thing, and it has I think, could you

870
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: with his ax or is he trying to like make

871
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 1: me look like he's trying more if you will do

872
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: this axe? And if that's the case, then then that

873
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: concerns you because you know, if he's trying to make

874
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 1: you someone else. Then it's like, well, why don't you

875
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: just go be with that person? Maybe not sustainable because

876
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: you aren't that person. So if he wants you to

877
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 1: be someone else, then you know that's not going to work.

878
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: But you know what, honestly, my first thought is that

879
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,439
Speaker 1: he has preferences, stuff that turns him on, stuff he likes.

880
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: Who's to say he didn't encourage her to do those things? True,

881
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. He likes a red lip, so he

882
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: told her to wear a red lip, so great. You

883
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,759
Speaker 1: know he likes blonde hair with Camemele highlights or whatever

884
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,840
Speaker 1: the hell you're talking about. Like, um, I mean everybody

885
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,439
Speaker 1: has preferences. I'm not. I don't know that I would

886
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: read too far into it. I mean, if you had

887
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: never seen her picture, you wouldn't have thought anything of it.

888
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: You would have just thought, Hey, he's telling me what

889
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: he likes that I do, so I'm going to do

890
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 1: more of that. I don't. I don't think he's trying

891
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 1: to make you into somebody else? Is there a way

892
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: I can? I know you hate potting me, boyfriend, Are

893
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: you trying to make me into somebody else? When? By

894
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 1: the way, why not? Why do you call me by

895
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: her name. Why do you want me to change my name? Whatever?

896
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah? Um, all right, I want to know

897
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: what would people think about it? I don't know it

898
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: you would look, we all know at least one person

899
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: who dates the same looking person every time, right, you

900
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: know it's the same girl every time. It's not. But

901
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: it's like blonde, fake moves whatever, brunette teacher looking, you

902
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: know whatever, athletic looking, the big booty whatever it is.

903
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like we all know that at least

904
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: one person who dates the same person every time. We

905
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: know the person who dates the person is like her

906
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: dad or like her mom. We know the person who

907
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: dates um, you know, the same goes for the same

908
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: physical characteristic every time. I mean, people have preferences, right,

909
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: I don't know that I necessarily think he's trying to

910
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 1: moreph you into somebody else. Would you have thought anything

911
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: of it if you hadn't gone looked at her pictures?

912
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: I know I wouldn't have. I mean, like I thought

913
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: the list pick was like a like a little bit different,

914
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 1: but I mean he's also commented unclothed before, so go

915
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have thought anything of it when I saw her.

916
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it does he is

917
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: it a type or does he want to be dating her? Danielle?

918
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: Does he bring her up a lot? I mean, is

919
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: he talking about her incessantly or even at all? Un incessantly?

920
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes, Like I think it would be strange

921
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: if he didn't bring her up at all, like he

922
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 1: has brought her up. Um. But I don't think I

923
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: would not say incessantly. I would not say good. Yeah, yes,

924
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:48,439
Speaker 1: occasionally makes sense. It's a healthy reference to the past. Yeah, yeah,

925
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: I went I went to this restaurant with my ex,

926
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: like you know, oh you know. Okay, let me ask

927
00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:01,720
Speaker 1: you this, um uh, do you like intimately? For example,

928
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: do you want him to do things intimately that you've

929
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: done with other partners in the past because you've learned

930
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: you like them. I'm sure the answer is yes. So

931
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: the answers yes. So does that That doesn't mean that

932
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: you are obsessed with the person who was doing it

933
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: to you before. It means that the the things that

934
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: you've learned that you like and you want this kind

935
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: of du because you like him now. It's different. No,

936
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: it's not. How is it different? You learn your preferences

937
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:31,359
Speaker 1: getting pleasure in the vegroom. Then making your girlfriend look

938
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: like he's not making He's not making her do anything.

939
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: He's complimenting her on the things that he likes. You

940
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: need to start wearing red lipstick. I like, I like

941
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: red lipsticks. Start wearing it. That's making someone wear red lipstick.

942
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: It's specific. Yeah, that's okay, but it's a very specific.

943
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 1: People are allowed to have specific turn on. I mean

944
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: there are people whatever. People. There are women who will

945
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: say grow a beard, you look better with a beard,

946
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: or shave the beard off. I like a clean shaven man. Okay,

947
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 1: So then if if her ex is clean shaven, and

948
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 1: that means she's trying to turn me into it's one thing.

949
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: I think he had a lot of different things he

950
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: wanted her to do. So the hair color, no no

951
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 1: hold on. Though he complimented her on a bunch of

952
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: things that she was already doing that he liked to

953
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 1: sort of encourage them. And then he told her that

954
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: he liked red lipstick. Oh, I thought he told her

955
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: to change her hair too. Oh I didn't know. I

956
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: thought he said that anyway, It doesn't matter. You need

957
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: to play the game too. Just I don't think it's like, yeah,

958
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 1: like your own ken dolls. They like what they like,

959
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 1: and I yeah, I dred percent agree with the preference part.

960
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: But I think I would be really offended or hurt

961
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: if somebody would say that because I feel like they

962
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: don't like how I look. You know what I mean?

963
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 1: Maybe I love someone as is, Yeah, I love new lipstick,

964
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you want to red lipstick.

965
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you not think I look good? And

966
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 1: what I'm wearing or what I had? My problem? My hair?

967
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: Like what if I'm you know, blond, and all of

968
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 1: a sudden you're like, hey, can you be a brunette?

969
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: I'd be like, do you not like me? For me?

970
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: That's around a problem. I'd get really self conscious conscious Danielle,

971
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: let me take a conscious both. Let me he's a

972
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: phone calls on this gun and you can have the radio,

973
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 1: want and see what people have to say. Thank you

974
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: for calling, and I wish you the best. Thank you guys.

975
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's like if okay, if he

976
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: were like, um, but what cost him? I want you

977
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: to put a blonde wig on and I'm gonna call

978
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: you by my exist name. I mean, I'm being really like,

979
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm obviously embellishing here, but pretty much that's what he's doing.

980
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 1: He's just doing it in a sly away like this.

981
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: Everybody has a preference. Bread, I could never see you

982
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 1: dating someone being like I want I like your chunky highlights,

983
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: and I want you to wear you know, and off

984
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: the shoulder blouse and trousers like you would never be

985
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,479
Speaker 1: that specific with what you want a girl to do, Okay.

986
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 1: I tend to like longer hair, right, and so if

987
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: a woman I'm dating said to me, I'm gonna cut

988
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: my hair and I'm gonna make it a boy haircut

989
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: or what you know, traditionally whatever short hair, Yeah, I'm

990
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: not ever going to stop somebody from doing that. That's

991
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 1: obviously not up to me. But my preference would be

992
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: that they don't do that. And I've dated along a

993
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: lot of girls with long hair. That doesn't mean I'm

994
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: trying to make that girl my ex It just means

995
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: I like what I like. That's one preference, though, when

996
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 1: it's like more than five and you're like real specific,

997
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if are there are not five things

998
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: that you like in common about all men. I fall

999
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:19,040
Speaker 1: for people because of who they are. I very rarely

1000
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: would ever suggest anything different. I wouldn't fall for someone

1001
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,240
Speaker 1: that I feel like I need to change anything about.

1002
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: But I also think it's not unfair to tell someone

1003
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: what they're doing that you like better than other things.

1004
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 1: A couple of things is okay for sure. Case you're

1005
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,919
Speaker 1: dating someone afraid, she goes, I don't like your beard,

1006
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: shave it off. You're gonna shave it off like that.

1007
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: I don't like how she said that, Um, you can

1008
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: look weird, af like. I don't see those videos were

1009
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: dude shave their face. They didn't even look at the

1010
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: same person anymore. Because I don't know, I don't know

1011
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: what I would do, but I would have to be

1012
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 1: I would have to really understand why the person would

1013
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: want me to change my appearance in that way. Yeah,

1014
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: but again, I don't know that I would her okay,

1015
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: But that's the thing I don't think. I would not

1016
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: automatically go to you're trying to make me look like

1017
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: every other guy. What I would what I would go

1018
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 1: to is this is a woman who prefers a clean

1019
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: shaven man. That's what I would go to. Um, yes, Paulina,

1020
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: and get your hand up. I was gonna say, I

1021
00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: think the only way I would find that comment to

1022
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,479
Speaker 1: be okay or that request is if Fred did shave

1023
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 1: it at some point in the relationship and she goes, oh,

1024
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 1: I loved how you looked with it shaved off, Like

1025
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: you should keep that. Then I'd be like, okay. But

1026
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: to come and demand and be like you should shave

1027
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 1: that off? I don't like that approach. I'm just saying

1028
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: I think that there are all kinds of things. And look,

1029
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: I haven't been in that many long term relationships really

1030
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: any but when I have dated people there, you know,

1031
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: they have. I've had women ask me do you like this?

1032
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 1: Do you like that? Because at that point they're trying

1033
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: to they're asking them yeah, but yeah, But I don't

1034
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 1: think it's unfair for me to also encourage certain things.

1035
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: I really like this, and you don't have to do it,

1036
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: you know, but I let me see what these I don't.

1037
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that big a deal. Brittany, Hi,

1038
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: how you doing? Hey, good morning the goo. You heard

1039
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 1: the whole scenario here, But basically, Daniella, it turns out that,

1040
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: in her estimation, her boyfriend is encouraging looks of hers

1041
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: and aspects of you know, what she wears and the

1042
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 1: makeup she's wearing, any things that she believes are like

1043
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: his acts. Is this a problem? I think I think

1044
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,840
Speaker 1: she's said because, like you said, if she hadn't, if

1045
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: she wouldn't even look on a girl instagram on Facebook,

1046
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: she wouldn't even knew this. She was liking it at first, though,

1047
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 1: Why did not I say, she's like everything, I have

1048
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: a preface suit. I like my husband when his beard

1049
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't like when he saved his beard off. It's

1050
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: not like you know any other guy. It's not like

1051
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm telling them, Oh, I want you to be like

1052
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: my eggs. But I think he does look at so

1053
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: far insolutely. You like what you like? Yeah, thank you, Brittany,

1054
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you for listening. I love you.

1055
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: Like the list just got me like, right, I mean,

1056
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 1: I need to think I could listen fifty things off

1057
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 1: the top of my head right now that are specific

1058
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: that people like. They like what they like, and I

1059
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: don't think there's a problem with that. Hey, deb Hi, Hi,

1060
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: what do you think stay or go? Um? I think

1061
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: she should stay because she doesn't really know. Maybe he

1062
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: made the ex girlfriends the same thing. Maybe he didn't

1063
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: like it right exactly. It's just it turns him on.

1064
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: He saw somebody in a movie, he saw something in

1065
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: an adult video. He I don't know, people like what

1066
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: they like. Everybody has little turn ons that you know

1067
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 1: if they're really being communicative. And I think after a

1068
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: certain period of time, I don't think it's unfair to

1069
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: communicate to someone the stuff that turns you on. You're

1070
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 1: not making them do it. He didn't say you has

1071
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: to do this where I'm breaking up with you. He

1072
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: say you liked it, you know, I say, and I

1073
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: haven't seen somebody off and on for the last couple

1074
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: of years. All of a sudden, he's like, um, can

1075
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: you wear heels and red lisp stick? And I'm like, whoa?

1076
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: He know, but that's what you like. So I mean

1077
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: to look you to wear heels, not your feet hurt

1078
00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: every day? Wait so you think that's you. I'm not

1079
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: gonna wear him every day. There. So he's saying that

1080
00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: he thinks dev looks hot in heels. It turns him

1081
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: on to see this woman in heels, and you think

1082
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: that's weird. Wouldn't fly with this chair? That's like, I'd

1083
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: tell me what it's weird. I'm saying it's not cool

1084
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 1: to say you should wear heels. In my opinion, you're

1085
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: talking bedroom. He's not forcing you. He's not like when

1086
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: she just dev just said, like when she goes over there,

1087
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 1: she's wearing heels and whatever. Lipstakes. Okay, what would happen

1088
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: if you didn't. He've been dating for years, nothing but

1089
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: thank you, dem have a good day. He's been dating

1090
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: from years, nothing but thank you, dem have a good day.

1091
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: Makes Yeah, you're not demanding enough for me. Some guys

1092
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: like long nails, some guys like manicured, like French nails.

1093
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: Some girls. The guys like short nails. Some guys like

1094
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: different grooming. And I don't think that's saying to you

1095
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: the woman who you're hooking up with consistently, I'm into this.

1096
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: I don't think that's bad. There's no way of saying

1097
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: my boyfriend did that. He told me he likes long hair. Right,

1098
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: My hair is like rush. But it's not like I

1099
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: guess this medium technically, So I throw on extensions now

1100
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: because I know he likes it. He's not a fan

1101
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 1: of extensions, you know, but that's the only way I'm

1102
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 1: gonna have long hair is what it is. Yeah, is

1103
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: it Valeria, Yes, Valaria, Hi, good morning. What do you think?

1104
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: I completely agree with you, bred Um. When I first

1105
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: started dating my my sen boyfriend now husband, when I

1106
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: died my hair blonde, he was like obsessed with it,

1107
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: and I did notice his expot blonde. But I mean

1108
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: it's just his preference. I am now brunette. He proposed

1109
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: when I was brunette. Like we are married, So it's

1110
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: just a preference thing. They're still gonna love you, so

1111
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: like even if you make a different choice. Yeah, thank

1112
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: you have a great dame. I'm glad you called. I

1113
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: love you too. Thank you for listening. Joanna, Joanna, Hi, Hi, hey,

1114
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: good morning. So you you heard this whole thing, and

1115
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: we seem to differ in here on this, But what

1116
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: do you think I think? Um speaking from blast exterium.

1117
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 1: If it's gonna bother her, the only right thing to do,

1118
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: it's like to communicate about it and like bringing it off.

1119
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: I there's just a lot to do. And if it's

1120
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 1: an issue now and it's just gonna be bothering her now,

1121
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be an issue like further down, you know,

1122
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: it's like they're really in five months, Uh me being me.

1123
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 1: I think that it's not that big of a deal,

1124
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: but some other girls it will be a big deal,

1125
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Yeah, So the only

1126
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,959
Speaker 1: thing she can do is just like be a front

1127
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: about her and be like, look like I did, don't

1128
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: do Guys, I did see something and I kind of

1129
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 1: feel weird about it. And if maybe you know, if

1130
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: it's meant to be something serious, like you'll understand and

1131
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: he'll try that, um you know I didn't. Yeah, yeah,

1132
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: it'd be more sensitive to the fact that it bothers her. Joanna,

1133
01:01:56,680 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Have a great day you two have. Yeah,

1134
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,919
Speaker 1: you too, Thanks for listening. Glad you called John. Okay,

1135
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: we get some other male perspective here. Hi John, how

1136
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 1: are you doing here? Frad how are you? Hey? Man?

1137
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: So just to recap here, you're just tuning in on

1138
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: stair Goo. This woman, Danielle is concerned because her boyfriend

1139
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 1: of late has complimented certain aspects of her appearance. I

1140
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: like when you do this, and then he says, I

1141
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: like when you wear I want you to wear a

1142
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 1: red lipstick. I like that, and then she goes and looks,

1143
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, concurrently at his acts his Instagram to

1144
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: find that the things that he says he likes, she

1145
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 1: also did. And so she's like, well, is he trying

1146
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 1: to morph me into her? Or are these just his

1147
01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 1: preferences and it's no big deal. What do you think?

1148
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:41,640
Speaker 1: I think, generally speaking, that men are more visual than

1149
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: women are. Ye, scientifically proven. Yeah. Yeah, so if you

1150
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: compare what a woman would do versus what a man

1151
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: would do, I don't think that's appropriate. I don't think

1152
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: that's a good comparison. Man seemed to like a certain

1153
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: visual women fall in love with, you know, the whole

1154
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: person per se, which is actually more healthy. But you know,

1155
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: um yeah we get healthy as well over here. Man.

1156
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: We just as a gender, we just we just all

1157
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: messed him exactly. Yeah, anyway, so yeah, okay, we thank

1158
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 1: you John. Comparing getting my alarms going out on my phone,

1159
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: I apologize for that. Oh that's okay. Yeah, I'm like, hey,

1160
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: you better get to where you gotta go, brother, exactly.

1161
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: All right, thanks again. I love you guys, Thank you, John,

1162
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: appreciate you. He's like, yeah, actually, I gotta go. I

1163
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 1: love it when the callers wrap up on their own,

1164
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh, you know what, I gotta

1165
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: get going, guys, have a good day's he's moving it

1166
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: forward and back. Yeah, good lord. I can't believe that's

1167
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 1: a debate, by the way, But anyway, Emily, hi, Emily,

1168
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love you guys. I listened to

1169
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: you every morning. Thank you. We love you too. What

1170
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: do you think? Um? So, I had a boyfriend who

1171
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: would tell me to like change things about myself. He

1172
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,919
Speaker 1: became very controlling, and then when I gained a little

1173
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: but an extra way, he decided to have an opinion

1174
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: about that too. Wow. So I think it can lead

1175
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: to a manipulation, controlling thing. Good. But I think it's okay.

1176
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: I have preference is I don't know, it's just it's

1177
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: really ficiated me. Sounds like it's okay to have preferences

1178
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: as long as as it remains a request, a desire

1179
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: and not a mandate of some kind. Yes, because the

1180
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: more that she's like changing things about her as more

1181
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: controlling and manipulative she gets. So she just has to

1182
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: like love herself in the confident herself, trying new things

1183
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 1: if you want, but positive reinforcement, Yeah, like like you

1184
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 1: should look hot, you do look hot like my ex girlfriend.

1185
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: I think that's very positive, very nice thing to say.

1186
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: That's extremely It's a very positive, nice thing to say.

1187
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: Thank you and Emilie have a good day. You look

1188
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 1: so hot, just as hot as the girl that I

1189
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 1: used to sleep with. That's a very nice thing to say,

1190
01:04:55,880 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: very positive. If you knew what you do, because you're listening,

1191
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: but you know all the different characters on this show,

1192
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: there's seventy eight of them, of us, but of all

1193
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: of them, based on what you know, who would you guess?

1194
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: He says that that is their favorite. Oh boy, I'll

1195
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: let you think about it for a minute, because it's

1196
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 1: not only Miley. Cyrus is dropping a new single called

1197
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: Flowers on January thirteenth, which just so happens to be

1198
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: ex husband Liam Hemsworth's birthday. That's a mouthful. Now, she

1199
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: hasn't straight up said that the song is about him,

1200
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 1: but okay, they've been together for ten years. I mean

1201
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 1: even my high school boyfriend. When his birthday comes around,

1202
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's his birthday, Like you don't forget

1203
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 1: someone's birthday. So I think it was on purpose. Um Plus.

1204
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:55,880
Speaker 1: In the snippet that she released, the lyrics are I

1205
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: can love me better than you can so, I mean

1206
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: 'll still be going through it about that. She first

1207
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: teased the new single with posters across various cities that

1208
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: read New Year Knew Miley, along with some clips. Then

1209
01:06:07,440 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: she made the announcement during her second annual Miley's New

1210
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 1: Year's Eve party, which she hosted with Dolly Parton, Miss Dolly,

1211
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 1: her godmother, on NBC Now, speaking on New Year's Start,

1212
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: and I was just this, it was a kid in

1213
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 1: my mind. I'm not sure that I've ever dated anyone

1214
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: long enough to know or remember their birthday. And that's

1215
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: the truth that just said, really actual state, No, it's true, Christopher,

1216
01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 1: he had to like celebrate someone's birthday that you were dating. No,

1217
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: I did, But I can't say for sure that I

1218
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:40,280
Speaker 1: remember remember what the days were. You don't even remember

1219
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: the birthdays in this room? What are you talking about?

1220
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 1: He remembers mine. Yeah, Now, for the record, that is true.

1221
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: Off the top of my head. Off the top of

1222
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 1: my head, I don't remember. But I've never missed a

1223
01:06:55,640 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: birthday on this show. Yeah, so so what so whatever,

1224
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, I've never missed one. Don't worry. I

1225
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: won't blame miss One. I would love to see you

1226
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 1: get even the month, right, Fred? The months? Yeah, yours

1227
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: is November right there, right about, so is kikiS is

1228
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 1: in November two. Fred, Well, you didn't ask me about

1229
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 1: Shelley yet. Um, Paulina, that's a good one. Oh yeah,

1230
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 1: that is his calendar I'm doing. I'm doing a searcher

1231
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: over Paul. It's all good. He's in June. Whole on

1232
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 1: a second, when you were looking, I'm just playing with you.

1233
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to be a hard time. I was gonna say, like,

1234
01:07:51,960 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: don't surprise, because I very much care. But as you

1235
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: as you know, we're actually I think Jason, you were

1236
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 1: just talking about this off the air. I am horrible.

1237
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 1: I have a good memory for like concepts. I'm okay

1238
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: with concepts, but detail, like like little fight minute facts,

1239
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,439
Speaker 1: the stuff that Rufio can remember, I've never been able

1240
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,759
Speaker 1: to remember. Like I don't know if it's a focus

1241
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 1: thing or if it's like the kind of brain I

1242
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 1: have or IQ or I don't know what it is

1243
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: or add or I'm not sure what it is. But

1244
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 1: like I can remember events like that took place in

1245
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: details about them in stories, but I'm not good with

1246
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 1: like if you were to ask me on the spot,

1247
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 1: whether it's a date, or whether it's a of a

1248
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:39,040
Speaker 1: friend or a historical figure or whatever. I just I'm

1249
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 1: not good at that game. Yeah, me neither. I well,

1250
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,880
Speaker 1: I forget events too, Like I forget things that happen.

1251
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 1: Like people be like, oh, do you remember when you

1252
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,240
Speaker 1: said blah blah blaha, be like, I have no idea

1253
01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 1: what you're talking about when that happened. Like something someone

1254
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 1: will tell me something I will immediately forgot. That's why

1255
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 1: I have to write everything down. It's the worst. Yeah,

1256
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 1: as I put everything in the calendar, which I could

1257
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: understand why that might be, like some people might think

1258
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 1: that that's rude or something, but I just I don't.

1259
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 1: I can't remember any of it. Like, I don't know.

1260
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 1: I have to think really hard about birthdays in my

1261
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: own family. I do know them, but I but that's

1262
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: after after forty years I know them. You know what

1263
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't know. I'm just I'm not good. Yeah, no,

1264
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: it is, it is good. I'm not. Here's here's one.

1265
01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 1: I'm not certain how old my mom is for example. Okay,

1266
01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 1: I mean it's like again, it's just another random fact.

1267
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 1: I don't I think I know between two or three

1268
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:30,840
Speaker 1: possible years, but I don't know. It doesn't really matter. Yeah,

1269
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 1: she's gonna live forever, it doesn't matter any Sorry, no,

1270
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 1: no worries. Speaking of New Years, I just wanted to

1271
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: mention that CNN straight up missed the traditional countdown to

1272
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 1: midnight but here in the old Central time Zone. While

1273
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 1: Don Lemon was busy dancing and throwing beads to back

1274
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 1: that as up is how they spell it either, then

1275
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:54,040
Speaker 1: he mumbled something about the countdown after midnight already came.

1276
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: No one really knows what happened. Some people think that

1277
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 1: he was having trouble, like hearing the producers or whatever.

1278
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 1: But I just think sometimes you hear juvenile and you

1279
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: just have to throw bead exactly. No matter what you're

1280
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 1: doing doesn't matters from that point on. So that's what happened.

1281
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:12,640
Speaker 1: But hey, whatever, live carry beads with me just in

1282
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 1: case I ever heard juvenile back that as exactly examin

1283
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: to Hey, Don, it happens to the best of us.

1284
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: And I know Jason's like super excited. I wonder, actually

1285
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: I need to ask you. Christin Cavalary okay and Bachelor

1286
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: at a lum Tyler Cameron what do we think about them?

1287
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 1: He's hot, I think the guys he's beautiful. They were

1288
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 1: caught getting hansy at a New Year's party with other

1289
01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation members Caitlin Bristow and Jason Tartik. In one

1290
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,839
Speaker 1: video you see Kristen like pulling him closer while they're dancing.

1291
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: They have known each other since at least April of

1292
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,680
Speaker 1: last year when they were spotted kissing, but they were

1293
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,559
Speaker 1: actually filming an ad for Uncommon James as we knew,

1294
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: and we thought maybe something was happening. Then just before

1295
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: this party, though, they were spotted having lunch together in Franklin, Tennessee. Um,

1296
01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,080
Speaker 1: she lives in Tennessee. Does she live in Franklin or No,

1297
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 1: she lives in Franklin. Yeah, so that's where she lives.

1298
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 1: As Wow, and I know you have been up her

1299
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: old driveway? Have you been up her new drill? Make

1300
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: me go back exactly? Don't see anything like Charlie does.

1301
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 1: Mor did you get online today? Drake gave himself a

1302
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 1: new nickname is French Radio dot com. So Christian doesn't

1303
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: live in the house with that she lived in with Jay. No,

1304
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 1: they sold that house. M m okay because it's a

1305
01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 1: classic story about how Paulina and Jason and was it?

1306
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: Was it? Nikki? Yeah, m you guys all went to

1307
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: nash Vegas and you decided to drive not only to

1308
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 1: where the house is, but all the way up the

1309
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: driveway to find Jay Cutler his lawn mowing law on

1310
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: his rider mower. He mows his own lawn. I was schuck. Yeah,

1311
01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 1: good for him. It doesn't surprise me. That doesn't surprise

1312
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: me about Jay Cutler at all. Yeah. It was a

1313
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: lot of lawn too, There a lot of us. Mmmm.

1314
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 1: I I didn't watch any of the New Year's Eve

1315
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 1: TV stuff. I actually was up late enough for once

1316
01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 1: to have watched it, but I didn't. Um, but is

1317
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: it true that they wouldn't let Anderson Cooper and uh

1318
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 1: and Andy you drink yes? And I was so kissed

1319
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 1: drink yes? Because lest they were wasted and he was

1320
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:20,599
Speaker 1: talking grab about Ruyan secrets. Wasted is my favorite thing,

1321
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 1: most of them. I was pissed. And so they had

1322
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 1: them eating like weird concoctions and stuff, and I'm like,

1323
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:31,759
Speaker 1: come on, nobody's fun anymore. Then, right, You're right, Miley's

1324
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 1: New Year's was good. Karen Fletcher Paris Hilton that their

1325
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 1: song and this was favorite song. Yeah right? Don Lemon

1326
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 1: sort of not doing the countdown story reminds me of

1327
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,880
Speaker 1: here's Here's a new story Alert unlocked, New story unlocked.

1328
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:57,600
Speaker 1: I don't think I've told this one before, but I

1329
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:00,760
Speaker 1: know you already. I know I'm burning a hole in

1330
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:02,840
Speaker 1: my new stories. On the first day of twenty twenty

1331
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: three of the program, but I was at my first

1332
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:07,080
Speaker 1: radio job. I was in Austin and I had to

1333
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 1: do a New Year's Eve party deal thing like what

1334
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:16,639
Speaker 1: do we do? We do the Hilton, don't we? Yeah right,

1335
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: And I'm I'm I've I've grown out of doing these

1336
01:13:19,479 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 1: sorts of events now because I go to bed at

1337
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: nine thirty. But anyway, um so I went to this thing.

1338
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: It was I remember the day of the bar was

1339
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 1: called sky View. I don't know why. I remember that.

1340
01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:32,240
Speaker 1: It was like two concepts, like one was like the

1341
01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,240
Speaker 1: clouds and the other was like the gray ground. I

1342
01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: don't I'm sure. I'm sure they put more thought into

1343
01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 1: it than that, but I don't. I don't really remember.

1344
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,160
Speaker 1: But so, so I had to be there I think

1345
01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 1: at nine o'clock or ten, doesn't matter, nine ten and

1346
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: then at midnight I had to do the countdown for

1347
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 1: the club and they're like in the club, it's New

1348
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 1: Year's Eve, New Year, you know, ten nine eight whatever,

1349
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 1: And it was, um, it was like, there's like a

1350
01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 1: thousand people in this club. So so I'm drinking, of course,

1351
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:04,479
Speaker 1: having a good old time, and then not paying any

1352
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:06,439
Speaker 1: attention to what time it is. And I'm getting I'm

1353
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:10,160
Speaker 1: you know, doing shots, have these champagne, hammered whatever. I'm hammered,

1354
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, somebody rushes up to me

1355
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: from the radio station and we're on the air doing

1356
01:14:15,080 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 1: this thing too, and they're like, hey, dude, you got

1357
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: ten seconds. You got ten seconds countdowns on. I'm like,

1358
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 1: all right, everybody, thousand people, I'm like ten ninety eight whatever,

1359
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 1: Happy New Year. Who. So I'm like I'm done, good,

1360
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm going home. I'm hammered. I get in

1361
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 1: the cab because this is before uber. I go home

1362
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: to my apartment. I walk in, I look at my

1363
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 1: DVD player. That's that says eleven fifty No no, no, no,

1364
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 1: So I'll get the count well, I mean ahead, I'm

1365
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: trying to I'm trying to create the picture here that

1366
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 1: still has the time on it. But yeah, so I

1367
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:57,639
Speaker 1: have to do the countdown, get in the cab, drive home,

1368
01:14:58,160 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: and then come into my house only to find out

1369
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: that So I must have been like twenty minutes early. Easy,

1370
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 1: I mean it took me that long to get home.

1371
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 1: Did you go back? That's crazy? No, he did a countdown.

1372
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:23,280
Speaker 1: He did tell you what's wrong. I don't know where

1373
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: the screw up happened. I don't know, like where somebody

1374
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 1: got the idea because because basically he told me to

1375
01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: do it at like eleven thirty six, Like, I have

1376
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: no idea how that happened and why nobody corrected me,

1377
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:38,840
Speaker 1: Like no, nobody in the place of a thousand people

1378
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 1: was like, hey, my watch says that he's drunk. Yeah,

1379
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. It never happened. Might five five nine,

1380
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:49,720
Speaker 1: one one three five, I remember the number. That's good,

1381
01:15:49,760 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 1: Chubby Shelley Showdown one thousand, four hundred and fifty bucks.

1382
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:55,400
Speaker 1: That's the price nineteen Game Win Streak will play next

1383
01:15:55,520 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: after Nicki Minaji two minutes, Trench Shows Up, Fred Show,

1384
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 1: Do You Have What It Takes? The Battle Show, Bish

1385
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:15,680
Speaker 1: Shelley in the Shows Showdown, Show By New Year you've

1386
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 1: been with the whatever kind of funk I got going now?

1387
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 1: Still do this show? Be Um, you're kind of a

1388
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:24,960
Speaker 1: you're you're you're not kind of you are a bona

1389
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: fide Chicago media legend. Um. If we were talking off

1390
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:32,960
Speaker 1: the air about some of the local New Year's Eve television,

1391
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: have you ever been part of one of those things? No,

1392
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 1: I have not. I have not because they let me

1393
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:43,679
Speaker 1: do it for two years on NBC and my role

1394
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:46,640
Speaker 1: was reduced from host to not host to them not

1395
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 1: being invited back. Um. I think a lot of people

1396
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 1: thought I was drunk on the second one, but I wasn't.

1397
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:55,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't at all. I just was, well, they were like,

1398
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:57,800
Speaker 1: we don't need the countdown to come twenty minutes early.

1399
01:16:57,920 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 1: So I was drinking, but I wasn't drunk. I also

1400
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 1: was like trying to make it interesting and I made

1401
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 1: fun of that guy's outfit that was Yeah, I don't know.

1402
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I've never been asked to do anything like

1403
01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 1: that ever again. But um, I say, I will say, well,

1404
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:23,320
Speaker 1: it actually was three traumatic experiences. The first was when

1405
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:28,560
Speaker 1: they had Angie and I go out and do it.

1406
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 1: It was it was without The second coldest I've ever

1407
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 1: been in Chicago. The first is in the parking lot

1408
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 1: of All State Arena after a jingle ball a couple

1409
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 1: of years ago. That was the coldest I've ever been

1410
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 1: in Chicago. The second coldest was doing that and the

1411
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 1: best part of that whole night And I'm not I'm

1412
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 1: not making fun of the organizers. I don't mean they

1413
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 1: tried and I respect that. But the best part of

1414
01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 1: the whole night was a proposal that we did on

1415
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:54,839
Speaker 1: the stage that was, if I remember correctly, the station

1416
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 1: did all the legwork on that like it was. We

1417
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 1: did it like it came through kiss if I remember correct.

1418
01:18:00,520 --> 01:18:03,639
Speaker 1: And then what they did on NBC was they cut

1419
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:06,760
Speaker 1: us out and they took credit for it. They put

1420
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:10,640
Speaker 1: Mario he was there, Yes, yes, they made it look

1421
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 1: like he did it that I wouldn't even speak to us,

1422
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: I know. Um yeah. But anyway, the reason I bring

1423
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:19,320
Speaker 1: it up is because as much as um, I didn't

1424
01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 1: have the opportunity because no one asked me to do it. UM.

1425
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:26,000
Speaker 1: I also don't miss working on New Year's even anybody

1426
01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:29,200
Speaker 1: in the hospitality industry who had to work that night.

1427
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:32,759
Speaker 1: It is not fun because everybody else it is amateur

1428
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,400
Speaker 1: night for everybody else, and they're having a great time

1429
01:18:35,439 --> 01:18:38,640
Speaker 1: getting hammered whatever, sloppy, the whole thing. And then you

1430
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 1: got to be sober because either you're working or you're

1431
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:45,560
Speaker 1: doing whatever. You know. So I don't, I don't. I

1432
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:47,559
Speaker 1: don't miss that. I don't. I don't miss it at all.

1433
01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: But I think for some reason, there would have been

1434
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,400
Speaker 1: a time where these showbiz Shelley would have been asked to,

1435
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 1: you know, do one of these things. No, I never

1436
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: been asked. And you know this, dude, this is a

1437
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:58,160
Speaker 1: true story. I wasn't better early on New Year's Eve,

1438
01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:01,479
Speaker 1: like ten o'clock, I think, and then Olivia started crying

1439
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 1: and I woke up. I looked the clock. It was

1440
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 1: literally eleven fifty five, So I was I changed your

1441
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:13,160
Speaker 1: diaper at midnight, That's what I was doing, so exactly. Yes,

1442
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 1: well and and Terrell and uh and Cheryl. They did

1443
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 1: ask me to be part of their dance routcene Um.

1444
01:19:21,320 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 1: I played the role of a dinosaur. Watch. I was

1445
01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 1: one of the dinosaurs in the Field museum. Watch carefully, yeah,

1446
01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta watch it a few times and slowly,

1447
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:41,600
Speaker 1: but you might you might see me as a dinosaur

1448
01:19:42,080 --> 01:19:49,639
Speaker 1: in the in the Terrell and Cheryl New Year. Yeah,

1449
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:53,120
Speaker 1: you crushed it, friend, I know, I was really good.

1450
01:19:53,280 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: That dance are good? Oh I go, I know, I yeah. Oh,

1451
01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 1: you have no idea the amount of production that went

1452
01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 1: into that. And shout out to Terrell and Cheryl on

1453
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,040
Speaker 1: that one, because nothing brings in my New Year's Eve

1454
01:20:10,160 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 1: like being a dinosaur in the Field Museum. But luckily

1455
01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:15,400
Speaker 1: that was prerecorded, so I didn't have to do it,

1456
01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They were able to work

1457
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 1: around my schedule for for the dinosaur role. So at

1458
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,400
Speaker 1: first I was offended. At first, I was like, well,

1459
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:26,639
Speaker 1: why aren't we showing my face or making or making

1460
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:29,479
Speaker 1: any mention of my presence? And then and then it

1461
01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:32,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh no, that's all right, It's fine. You know,

1462
01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 1: I'll just be in the background, you know, kind of

1463
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,960
Speaker 1: like um, what do they call that? Like when you uh,

1464
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: you like find something in a show? Let that. Yeah,

1465
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:45,800
Speaker 1: I was. I was in Eastern End in the in

1466
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 1: the day. Jason, I you, I know you watched it

1467
01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:51,600
Speaker 1: seventy eight times. I'm surprised you didn't see it. I

1468
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 1: should have known that walk for sure. I didn't. Yeah. Yeah,

1469
01:20:59,160 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 1: Well I. I'm surprised nobody was able to figure it out.

1470
01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 1: But I have to make the announcement this morning because um,

1471
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 1: I would have expected for you know, it's a massive

1472
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: amount of text and social and things like that. But no, no,

1473
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:16,600
Speaker 1: for some reason, because I'm not it's not about me,

1474
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 1: you know, it's not about me. It's about New Year's Eve.

1475
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:22,360
Speaker 1: If it's about Terrell and Cheryl, it's not about me.

1476
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 1: You know, Rosa with Clark, Yeah, she didn't get a

1477
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:36,479
Speaker 1: bad money, I shout out to Rosabit. Ross is a legend,

1478
01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:39,800
Speaker 1: you know, legend. I'm not quite sure I understood what

1479
01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:42,559
Speaker 1: Clark's involvement was or why, but whatever, it doesn't matter.

1480
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 1: The dance with Clark the cup well, not in my scene.

1481
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 1: They weren't. No, you're the only mascot dinosaur in the scene. Friend. Yeah,

1482
01:21:56,720 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: I didn't get any kind of producer credit, nothing, But

1483
01:21:59,240 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: that's all right, mind, no worries. Chris is here. Hi, Chris,

1484
01:22:02,960 --> 01:22:07,599
Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. Morning goes. Happy New Year,

1485
01:22:07,880 --> 01:22:11,760
Speaker 1: Happy New Year. Man. Let's play the game. We got

1486
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:14,759
Speaker 1: big money one thousand, four hundred and fifty bucks, no interest.

1487
01:22:15,400 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: Nineteen straight games that Shelley has won her record a

1488
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: reminder six sixty and forty three guys, Ready, all right, Chris,

1489
01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:27,280
Speaker 1: good luck, look George, thank you, Shelley, with all due respective,

1490
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: you would get the hell out here we are. Question

1491
01:22:30,080 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 1: number one for you. Which iconic broadcasting journalist and TV

1492
01:22:33,320 --> 01:22:37,679
Speaker 1: personality passed away at the age of ninety three? Barbara

1493
01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:42,920
Speaker 1: Walters eight mile Star Um McKay Peiffer says there will

1494
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:49,560
Speaker 1: never be a sequel? Who is eight mile about? T J.

1495
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 1: Holmes and Amy Roebock were spotted in Miami the day

1496
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:55,439
Speaker 1: before he filed for divorce. What's the name of the

1497
01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 1: hour they host or used to host on Good Morning

1498
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:08,120
Speaker 1: America eight o'clock The eight o'clock Tour not bad? Um? Yeah?

1499
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 1: Which member of the Jenner family is expecting a baby

1500
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: with his girlfriend Tia Blanco and Tina Knowles has a

1501
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: birthday tomorrow? Name one of Tina's famous daughters Knowles? Nos?

1502
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:37,720
Speaker 1: I mean no famous? Oh? The sex lady, Ah, the

1503
01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:42,200
Speaker 1: sexy lady, all the sex, all the sexynosaurs. I was

1504
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:44,840
Speaker 1: at a two. It's a two all right, Shelley is

1505
01:23:45,320 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 1: is back from the booth poof with the two men

1506
01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 1: are within. Okay, it's a lay up for you to

1507
01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:54,040
Speaker 1: start the year at two. Oh good. I was like,

1508
01:23:54,400 --> 01:23:56,439
Speaker 1: you know what I might lose today? So thank you.

1509
01:23:56,720 --> 01:23:59,240
Speaker 1: We'll see it's a lay up for you, all right?

1510
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,320
Speaker 1: Which kind of broadcast journalist and TV personality passed away

1511
01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,360
Speaker 1: at the age of ninety three? Barbara Walters eight Mile

1512
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:10,200
Speaker 1: star McKai Peiffer says there will never be a sequel.

1513
01:24:10,200 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 1: Who is eight Mile about? Eminem T J. Holmes and

1514
01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:16,560
Speaker 1: Amy Roebock We spotted in Miami the day before he

1515
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,880
Speaker 1: filed for divorce? What is the name of the hour

1516
01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:23,800
Speaker 1: they host on Good Morning America three? Which member of

1517
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:26,479
Speaker 1: the Jenner family is expecting a baby with his girlfriend

1518
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 1: Tia Blanco? Ni Jenner, Yeah, I said Jenner, No, no,

1519
01:24:39,280 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 1: I was signed. I was telling Jenner, oh no, no no, yeah. Yeah. See,

1520
01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 1: this is what happens to Shelley, I'm telling you, And

1521
01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:47,599
Speaker 1: the same thing happened to me when I played the game.

1522
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: Once I knew I won, I stopped caring. I'm like,

1523
01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't um. And then finally, Tina Knowles has a

1524
01:24:54,080 --> 01:25:02,559
Speaker 1: birthday tomorrow name one of Tina's famous daughters launch Okay, Michelle, sure,

1525
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 1: why We'll take it. There you go? So that is

1526
01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:08,280
Speaker 1: I just erased it was that win number. That's twenty

1527
01:25:08,320 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 1: in a row. I'll say that, and we're up to

1528
01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:14,719
Speaker 1: fifteen hundred bucks tomorrow. That is the prize. And my man, Chris,

1529
01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:16,720
Speaker 1: you got to say it. My name is Chris from

1530
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 1: Homemer Glenn. I got showed up on the showdown, and

1531
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 1: you know the rest. My name is Chris. I got

1532
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:27,560
Speaker 1: showed up. I'm a showdown with the girl. Chris. I

1533
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,599
Speaker 1: mean not a lot, not a lot of enthusiasm there,

1534
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:33,600
Speaker 1: but um, that's okay, I understand. You know. Is this

1535
01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 1: your first day back at work, Chris, Yes, it is. Yeah,

1536
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:39,559
Speaker 1: And a lot of people have been, you know, sort

1537
01:25:39,600 --> 01:25:43,559
Speaker 1: of dreading this day, myself included, not because I love

1538
01:25:43,680 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: the job, but my anxiety has just been eating at

1539
01:25:46,280 --> 01:25:49,280
Speaker 1: me about this day that's coming. You know. It's like, oh,

1540
01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:51,360
Speaker 1: you know, after a few days off and holidays, and

1541
01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,479
Speaker 1: it's like back to work, back to work, back to work,

1542
01:25:53,479 --> 01:25:55,920
Speaker 1: and I think it kind of builds up, right, I

1543
01:25:56,080 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 1: gotta get back and then they kind of wake up

1544
01:25:58,040 --> 01:26:01,080
Speaker 1: early again exactly. Maybe the part that I didn't sleep

1545
01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:02,600
Speaker 1: at all last night because I was afraid I was

1546
01:26:02,640 --> 01:26:06,160
Speaker 1: gonna not wake up in time after anyway, Um, Chris,

1547
01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 1: you cannot hang with a real off. I took it

1548
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: to the brink. All right, Chris, thank you so much

1549
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:28,360
Speaker 1: for listening. Happy New Year, hang on all right, Happy

1550
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,599
Speaker 1: New Year? Do you too? Yeah? I don't know what's

1551
01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 1: going on, man, I you know, I get over COVID

1552
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:34,880
Speaker 1: now I'm onto something else. I don't know. I don't know.

1553
01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:37,960
Speaker 1: And you know, I will also say, um that my

1554
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:40,680
Speaker 1: it was a real flex. I was really proud of

1555
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 1: saying that I somehow never got COVID. Me too, And

1556
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:49,080
Speaker 1: then yeah, right, I got it and it kicked my ass,

1557
01:26:49,160 --> 01:26:53,240
Speaker 1: It really did. I was surprised by that. But anyway,

1558
01:26:53,640 --> 01:26:56,080
Speaker 1: here we are. We're back, We're doing the deal. Shelley's back.

1559
01:26:56,160 --> 01:26:59,120
Speaker 1: Everyone's back, Um, Shelley, show tended now and what's coming

1560
01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:01,519
Speaker 1: up on there? So I want to talk about the

1561
01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:05,240
Speaker 1: best movies and TV shows of twenty twenty two. Also

1562
01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 1: Edge sheer and tickets. I'll do that for you too,

1563
01:27:08,080 --> 01:27:10,000
Speaker 1: all right, Shelley, We'll see you in a bit. Have

1564
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:12,680
Speaker 1: a great morning, all right, you tube by waiting by

1565
01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:15,320
Speaker 1: the phone. Why does somebody get ghosted? That's up next.

1566
01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,200
Speaker 1: We'll do it a thousand bucks your first chance to

1567
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 1: win some money. That's next on The Friend Show as

1568
01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:28,720
Speaker 1: well Chicago Kiss FM and i Heeart Radio Station. It's

1569
01:27:28,800 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 1: The Fred Show. Good Morning Everyone, Tuesday, January third, twenty

1570
01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:36,439
Speaker 1: twenty three, The Fred Show. He's on. Kaylyn's here, good morning,

1571
01:27:36,600 --> 01:27:41,479
Speaker 1: good morning. Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Hi, Paulina, Hi, Hi,

1572
01:27:41,680 --> 01:27:46,599
Speaker 1: rufy Hey, Hi Kiki, good morning, uh. And the show.

1573
01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:48,479
Speaker 1: But Shelley is here as well. Good news stories in

1574
01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:52,200
Speaker 1: just a second, happy stuff to start Tuesday. Yes, it's Tuesday,

1575
01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:54,080
Speaker 1: which you're gonna throw me off all week. It always

1576
01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:58,840
Speaker 1: does because it's it definitely feels like a Monday. Yeah.

1577
01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:01,840
Speaker 1: And here's the other thing is if you've been sleeping

1578
01:28:01,880 --> 01:28:03,519
Speaker 1: in for a few days for the holidays or whatever,

1579
01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:06,880
Speaker 1: like today may not have been so bad. I usually well,

1580
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:08,600
Speaker 1: I didn't sleep all night because I was afraid I

1581
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:10,120
Speaker 1: was going to sleep through my alarm, and then I

1582
01:28:10,200 --> 01:28:12,240
Speaker 1: pop up and I'm ready to go. I feel like

1583
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 1: Thursday is the tough day of the week when you're

1584
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:17,679
Speaker 1: getting back into it, you know what I mean, because

1585
01:28:17,680 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 1: you got some like adrenaline going Monday or you know, Tuesday,

1586
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:24,800
Speaker 1: maybe into tomorrow, but then Thursday you're like beat. Isn't

1587
01:28:24,840 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 1: that a way where its not work that way for

1588
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, today was easy, but I just I

1589
01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:37,680
Speaker 1: think tomorrow Tuesday, Yeah, see, there you go. But that's

1590
01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:40,360
Speaker 1: all right. We'll be here and uh well unless some

1591
01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:43,760
Speaker 1: other sort of strange communicable disease takes us out. But um,

1592
01:28:44,320 --> 01:28:46,200
Speaker 1: I think we've run through all of them, so I

1593
01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:49,680
Speaker 1: should we should have the antibodies among the eight of us.

1594
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:52,800
Speaker 1: Not to get anything at this point, um, anything at all.

1595
01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:55,760
Speaker 1: Thousand bucks, paying some bills, waiting by the phone bolt, next,

1596
01:28:55,800 --> 01:28:58,400
Speaker 1: the entertainment reports coming up. Two we came and what

1597
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:00,839
Speaker 1: are you working on? Yeah, I've an update on Jeremy

1598
01:29:00,960 --> 01:29:05,160
Speaker 1: Runner after that snow plowing accident so crazy. Yeah. Yeah.

1599
01:29:05,439 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 1: And in addition to that, and I suppose separate from

1600
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:11,479
Speaker 1: um you've got that story, we've got an update on

1601
01:29:11,720 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 1: Monday Night football from last night too. Not much of

1602
01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 1: an update, but there is one. Um. And then we

1603
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 1: were talking off the air about all the Barbara Walters

1604
01:29:20,439 --> 01:29:23,200
Speaker 1: passed away, the last remaining member of the Pointer Sisters

1605
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:25,120
Speaker 1: passed away, which was very sad for me because that

1606
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: was part of my childhood. I would love to play

1607
01:29:27,080 --> 01:29:30,920
Speaker 1: the Pointer Sisters, but I would probably um make my

1608
01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:33,680
Speaker 1: boss pissed within the first three hours of being back

1609
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 1: from vacation, and I don't know if that's you know,

1610
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 1: I mean, can I give the guy a day before

1611
01:29:38,600 --> 01:29:40,280
Speaker 1: I'll piss him off? You know what I mean? Like

1612
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,519
Speaker 1: latim have today Tomorrow I'd probably play the whole dayn

1613
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:46,360
Speaker 1: Pointer sisters, all of them, the whole catalog, and I

1614
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: won't do it today. Um. And then who else? There

1615
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:51,439
Speaker 1: were some others too, the Pope, the former pope passed

1616
01:29:51,560 --> 01:29:59,280
Speaker 1: well yeah, um yeah, um, fire the drum, yeah, rally

1617
01:29:59,360 --> 01:30:04,360
Speaker 1: car driver and Block passed away in the snow. Yeah. Yeah.

1618
01:30:04,520 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 1: So anyway, yeah, a lot of a lot of people

1619
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:09,640
Speaker 1: to remember. Barbara Walters, uh, ninety three years old. That's

1620
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:11,760
Speaker 1: just one of those people like I just never thought

1621
01:30:11,800 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 1: she'd die in a good way, you know. I just

1622
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:16,320
Speaker 1: feel I just felt like should be on my TV forever.

1623
01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:19,360
Speaker 1: I mean like she was like my grandma on TV,

1624
01:30:19,960 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 1: and she was always there and always look and somehow

1625
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:25,639
Speaker 1: always look the same. And I just figure, Okay, well

1626
01:30:25,720 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 1: she'll just be there forever. It'll be all good. She'll

1627
01:30:27,560 --> 01:30:30,439
Speaker 1: be making people cry left and right. And now she's gone.

1628
01:30:30,640 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 1: That's very sad. But anyway, we're still here. It feels good.

1629
01:30:41,160 --> 01:30:44,000
Speaker 1: A right, good news, happy stories. Shout out to United

1630
01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:46,639
Speaker 1: Auto Insurance seven seven three two O two five thousand,

1631
01:30:46,680 --> 01:30:48,799
Speaker 1: give him Ma Raine and get you some car insurance. Klin,

1632
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,719
Speaker 1: tell us something happy please. Yeah. So we all remember

1633
01:30:51,800 --> 01:30:54,559
Speaker 1: that one teacher who changed our lives and one student

1634
01:30:54,720 --> 01:30:57,920
Speaker 1: at Morris Brandon Elementary School in Atlanta made sure that

1635
01:30:58,080 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 1: his teacher knew how much he meant him. So when

1636
01:31:01,280 --> 01:31:04,320
Speaker 1: eight year old Luke Perry could dress up as any

1637
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:07,400
Speaker 1: author for book character an author Day at school, he

1638
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:10,519
Speaker 1: knew exactly who he wanted to be. His homeroom teacher,

1639
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:13,679
Speaker 1: Joe Freeman. He's really good at teaching us, he said.

1640
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:16,040
Speaker 1: He's always trying to get us ready for fourth grade.

1641
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:18,680
Speaker 1: He had his outfit down to a science. He wore

1642
01:31:18,720 --> 01:31:21,400
Speaker 1: a tan suit, a bald cap, and a pocket square.

1643
01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:24,760
Speaker 1: In addition to connecting with his kids in his classroom,

1644
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:28,280
Speaker 1: mister Freeman started a children's book series, which is why

1645
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:31,479
Speaker 1: he is an author. The first one deals with self esteem,

1646
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: the second one deals with friendship, and the third one

1647
01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 1: deals with a child who is autistic. The teacher said

1648
01:31:37,200 --> 01:31:40,200
Speaker 1: Joe has been focused on connecting with kids his entire career.

1649
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:43,680
Speaker 1: For him, Luke's book character an author day outfit was

1650
01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:49,719
Speaker 1: a reminder that his work is making an impact. Yeah,

1651
01:31:50,680 --> 01:31:54,120
Speaker 1: another kind of education related story. But this is pretty amazing.

1652
01:31:55,120 --> 01:31:59,599
Speaker 1: So it's a remarkable story from a couple of weeks ago.

1653
01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 1: Of course, Well, I guess maybe we could go. The

1654
01:32:02,479 --> 01:32:06,879
Speaker 1: weather here and throughout the Northeast has obviously been crazy

1655
01:32:08,280 --> 01:32:11,240
Speaker 1: and people have been having to do whatever they can

1656
01:32:11,439 --> 01:32:15,479
Speaker 1: to survive without power and without the ability to get

1657
01:32:15,520 --> 01:32:18,800
Speaker 1: around and all that stuff. A school's alarm went off

1658
01:32:19,040 --> 01:32:22,360
Speaker 1: at the Edge Academy near Buffalo, New York, on Christmas Eve,

1659
01:32:22,439 --> 01:32:26,280
Speaker 1: but it was the worst snowstorm in a generation, according

1660
01:32:26,320 --> 01:32:28,400
Speaker 1: to local police. They were unable to quickly respond. But

1661
01:32:28,439 --> 01:32:30,519
Speaker 1: what was going on there, Well, they figured it out

1662
01:32:30,520 --> 01:32:32,840
Speaker 1: when they did arrive. They found one of the windows

1663
01:32:32,880 --> 01:32:35,880
Speaker 1: had been broken, but the school building was not out

1664
01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 1: of place. They thought maybe the damage was caused by

1665
01:32:37,960 --> 01:32:41,200
Speaker 1: the hurricane force winds, until they saw a handwritten note

1666
01:32:41,320 --> 01:32:43,440
Speaker 1: left on a table. The notes started with an apology

1667
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 1: for causing damage to the window and having to borrow

1668
01:32:46,360 --> 01:32:49,360
Speaker 1: the snowblower to rescue others who had run out of

1669
01:32:49,439 --> 01:32:51,640
Speaker 1: gas while trapped in their cars. The note says got

1670
01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:53,960
Speaker 1: stuck at eight pm Fridays, slept in my truck with

1671
01:32:54,040 --> 01:32:57,559
Speaker 1: two strangers, just trying not to die. There were seven

1672
01:32:57,680 --> 01:33:00,400
Speaker 1: elderly people also stuck in out of fuel. I had

1673
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:02,599
Speaker 1: to do it to save everyone and get them shelter

1674
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:05,240
Speaker 1: and food in a bathroom. So he broke into the

1675
01:33:05,320 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 1: school so that as many as twenty four people on

1676
01:33:08,840 --> 01:33:11,760
Speaker 1: two dogs would have a warm place to stay in

1677
01:33:11,920 --> 01:33:14,680
Speaker 1: a bathroom to use when they were stranded. Now, the

1678
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:17,719
Speaker 1: freezer at the school and the cafeteria was full of food.

1679
01:33:17,720 --> 01:33:19,960
Speaker 1: They didn't touch it. They just had some granola bars

1680
01:33:20,000 --> 01:33:22,320
Speaker 1: and water and all of that. They cleaned everything before

1681
01:33:22,320 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 1: they left, put it all back the way that it was,

1682
01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 1: and left the note. When they were finally able to

1683
01:33:27,000 --> 01:33:29,080
Speaker 1: leave safety, you would never have known that anybody was

1684
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 1: even there. This group of amazing people clean up all

1685
01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:33,560
Speaker 1: the tables and the building they found shelter in. And

1686
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 1: this one guy, his name is Jay. He was kind

1687
01:33:36,400 --> 01:33:38,120
Speaker 1: of mysterious. They figured out who he was though, and

1688
01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:40,720
Speaker 1: he's the hero in all this. But that's kind of

1689
01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 1: an amazing story. You know, twenty four people he was

1690
01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:48,080
Speaker 1: able to rescue, including seven people who were really elderly.

1691
01:33:48,200 --> 01:33:49,760
Speaker 1: You got to watch up for when that kind of

1692
01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:52,400
Speaker 1: stuff happens A thousand bucks waiting on the phone next

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01:33:52,439 --> 01:33:56,680
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1695
01:34:04,640 --> 01:34:10,400
Speaker 1: right now dot com friend show in the morning. Why

1696
01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:13,839
Speaker 1: were you left waiting by the phone? Yeah, good morning, welcome,

1697
01:34:14,080 --> 01:34:16,679
Speaker 1: Hi guys. We're glad you're here. It's waiting by the phone.

1698
01:34:16,720 --> 01:34:18,760
Speaker 1: Of course, we're trying to figure out why you may

1699
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 1: have gotten ghosted by this guy Joey. So tell us

1700
01:34:22,479 --> 01:34:24,800
Speaker 1: how you guys met, about any dates that you've been on,

1701
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:27,720
Speaker 1: kind of what's happening now, and then we'll trying to

1702
01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:31,200
Speaker 1: figure out how we can help. Okay. Um, So we

1703
01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:34,439
Speaker 1: met through a mutual coworkers and a lot of things

1704
01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:37,200
Speaker 1: were like my coworker said you would be a good

1705
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: fit for me, and he knew him through like friends,

1706
01:34:40,360 --> 01:34:44,719
Speaker 1: and you know, just everybody thought we would get along. Antony, honest,

1707
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm with dating apps that I was like, yeah, get

1708
01:34:48,360 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 1: me to go. Um. And so we emailed first and

1709
01:34:52,479 --> 01:34:54,960
Speaker 1: then we talked on the phone and then eventually we

1710
01:34:55,120 --> 01:34:57,680
Speaker 1: met up. And how to be honest, like he was

1711
01:34:57,760 --> 01:35:00,639
Speaker 1: better looking than I thought you would be, which is great.

1712
01:35:02,640 --> 01:35:05,919
Speaker 1: And he seems you know, he said he was attracted

1713
01:35:05,960 --> 01:35:09,800
Speaker 1: to me too, so like that seems good. And our

1714
01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:13,439
Speaker 1: first date with drinks and then our second date with

1715
01:35:13,520 --> 01:35:16,240
Speaker 1: dinner in drinks and we went back to my place

1716
01:35:16,360 --> 01:35:23,200
Speaker 1: because it was in the neighborhood, and we really good. Yeah.

1717
01:35:24,360 --> 01:35:27,600
Speaker 1: I don't believe I'm saying this on the radio. But

1718
01:35:27,880 --> 01:35:31,600
Speaker 1: after that totally ghosted. Like first she sent me a

1719
01:35:31,680 --> 01:35:34,040
Speaker 1: few like short replies to tech and then he listened

1720
01:35:34,040 --> 01:35:36,240
Speaker 1: to nothing. And I thought it went really well, and

1721
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. I usually like the friend

1722
01:35:40,439 --> 01:35:43,280
Speaker 1: hook up thing because when you're on the apps, it's

1723
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:46,040
Speaker 1: a total wildcard, right, you have no idea who you're

1724
01:35:46,080 --> 01:35:47,880
Speaker 1: dealing with, if you're even dealing with the person in

1725
01:35:47,920 --> 01:35:50,000
Speaker 1: the pictures, or they are who they say they are, whatever,

1726
01:35:50,200 --> 01:35:52,640
Speaker 1: you don't know. But when a friend knows you and

1727
01:35:52,720 --> 01:35:55,160
Speaker 1: then knows somebody else and says these guys might work,

1728
01:35:55,240 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 1: I mean that's I think your odds are better from

1729
01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:59,080
Speaker 1: the start, and it sounds like they were at least

1730
01:35:59,120 --> 01:36:01,800
Speaker 1: for two days. Yeah, I felt like we really hit

1731
01:36:01,880 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 1: it off and like we had a lasting comment and

1732
01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:06,920
Speaker 1: it just seemed like a good fit. So I don't know,

1733
01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:09,360
Speaker 1: what happened? All right, So you've reached out to this guy,

1734
01:36:09,520 --> 01:36:11,200
Speaker 1: what a couple of times? Or have you just been

1735
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:13,600
Speaker 1: waiting for him to call you and he hasn't. No.

1736
01:36:13,800 --> 01:36:15,800
Speaker 1: I textured him like I guess the next day of

1737
01:36:15,880 --> 01:36:18,360
Speaker 1: being like hey, I had a good team, and he

1738
01:36:18,600 --> 01:36:20,720
Speaker 1: was kind of like yeah, and then I guess like

1739
01:36:20,800 --> 01:36:22,400
Speaker 1: I waited like a week and I was like, do

1740
01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:24,439
Speaker 1: you want to hang out again? And he that was it,

1741
01:36:24,880 --> 01:36:28,640
Speaker 1: like nothing, just silent. I alive really responded, but then

1742
01:36:28,680 --> 01:36:31,679
Speaker 1: it was like, well that's that's a good place. Yeah,

1743
01:36:31,840 --> 01:36:35,439
Speaker 1: we're glad that he's alive. Let's call Joey. We're gonna

1744
01:36:35,439 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 1: ask these questions. You'll be on the phone. I don't

1745
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:38,880
Speaker 1: want you to jump in at first. We'll try and

1746
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:40,479
Speaker 1: get some info for you. But then at some point

1747
01:36:40,520 --> 01:36:42,320
Speaker 1: you're welcome to come out on a call and hopefully

1748
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:44,840
Speaker 1: whatever's going on, we can straighten it out and set

1749
01:36:44,880 --> 01:36:48,679
Speaker 1: you guys up on a third d all, I'm gonna

1750
01:36:48,680 --> 01:36:50,800
Speaker 1: play one song. Hang on, we'll come back and do it.

1751
01:36:50,920 --> 01:36:54,240
Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on next after pus malone

1752
01:36:54,280 --> 01:36:57,640
Speaker 1: in two minutes and then see hear him and the

1753
01:36:57,800 --> 01:37:00,200
Speaker 1: entertainment up for trending stories all coming up for show

1754
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:04,599
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1755
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1756
01:37:07,479 --> 01:37:09,840
Speaker 1: I almost forgot to mention that interned Benjamin back for

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, so shout out to him in turn.

1758
01:37:12,400 --> 01:37:14,280
Speaker 1: Ben Hamane, who you will speak to in a couple

1759
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:17,200
Speaker 1: of minutes when we give you ed shere and tickets.

1760
01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:19,679
Speaker 1: After part two of waiting by the phone, Hey, Annah,

1761
01:37:20,320 --> 01:37:23,160
Speaker 1: all right, let's call Joey. You guys, you were set

1762
01:37:23,240 --> 01:37:25,880
Speaker 1: up by some coworker friends whatever. They thought you'd be

1763
01:37:25,920 --> 01:37:28,880
Speaker 1: a good match. He went out twice the second day,

1764
01:37:28,960 --> 01:37:31,760
Speaker 1: thank to your place. Things went really well, but the

1765
01:37:31,920 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 1: communication has been kind of spars since then, and now

1766
01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:37,000
Speaker 1: he's completely ghosting and you want to know why. Yeah,

1767
01:37:37,240 --> 01:37:50,160
Speaker 1: all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Anna, Okay, Thanks? Hello?

1768
01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:54,479
Speaker 1: Is this Joey? Uh yeah, this is hi Joey. Good

1769
01:37:54,520 --> 01:37:56,280
Speaker 1: morning Fred for the Friend Show. The whole crew is

1770
01:37:56,320 --> 01:37:59,280
Speaker 1: here one O three five Kiss FM in Chicago, and

1771
01:37:59,600 --> 01:38:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm are to bother, but I do have to tell

1772
01:38:01,280 --> 01:38:02,840
Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now and

1773
01:38:02,880 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 1: I would need your consent to continue with the calls. Okay,

1774
01:38:05,040 --> 01:38:09,680
Speaker 1: if we chat for a second. Uh yeah, yeah, sure, Okay, Well,

1775
01:38:09,720 --> 01:38:11,400
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I don't want to take up

1776
01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:13,240
Speaker 1: too much of your morning, but we're calling on behalf

1777
01:38:13,360 --> 01:38:16,280
Speaker 1: of a woman named Anna, who I guess you were

1778
01:38:16,320 --> 01:38:21,080
Speaker 1: set up with through some coworker friends or something like this. Yes, yes,

1779
01:38:21,200 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: I was. Okay, Well, she reached out to us and

1780
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:26,240
Speaker 1: kind of gave us the backstory about how you guys

1781
01:38:26,360 --> 01:38:28,040
Speaker 1: met and about a couple of dates that you've been on,

1782
01:38:28,479 --> 01:38:30,360
Speaker 1: and she seemed to really like you and feel like

1783
01:38:30,439 --> 01:38:32,080
Speaker 1: things were going in the right direction, but says that

1784
01:38:32,200 --> 01:38:35,519
Speaker 1: you have not been responsive since then, So can you

1785
01:38:35,640 --> 01:38:37,120
Speaker 1: kind of tell us what's going on and then we

1786
01:38:37,200 --> 01:38:39,880
Speaker 1: can pass that along to her. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

1787
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:43,600
Speaker 1: guess we can do that. Um yeah, Annah. She was.

1788
01:38:43,760 --> 01:38:46,679
Speaker 1: She was really cool. We had a couple really great dates,

1789
01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:49,560
Speaker 1: and then on the second date we went back to

1790
01:38:49,640 --> 01:38:53,600
Speaker 1: her place, and honestly, just after that, I discovered some

1791
01:38:54,160 --> 01:38:57,200
Speaker 1: some hobbies and interests that really just don't align with mine,

1792
01:38:57,240 --> 01:39:00,840
Speaker 1: and frankly, they scare me so with yours, and they

1793
01:39:00,960 --> 01:39:04,240
Speaker 1: scare you so hobbies and interest So what what did

1794
01:39:04,320 --> 01:39:06,360
Speaker 1: you discover in her house that that made you not

1795
01:39:06,479 --> 01:39:08,439
Speaker 1: want to see her again? Well, it turns out that

1796
01:39:08,600 --> 01:39:13,240
Speaker 1: she's got this huge five foot female ball python in

1797
01:39:13,360 --> 01:39:16,280
Speaker 1: a huge ass tank in her living room. Huh and

1798
01:39:17,080 --> 01:39:21,320
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And I mean, if that's what you're into,

1799
01:39:21,640 --> 01:39:24,880
Speaker 1: go ahead. But um, but you see not only that,

1800
01:39:25,000 --> 01:39:29,120
Speaker 1: but there's another tank with the male python. And apparently

1801
01:39:29,280 --> 01:39:34,040
Speaker 1: she breeds these things as a hobby. Okay, yeah, so

1802
01:39:34,400 --> 01:39:37,000
Speaker 1: this this thing, it was huge, some beady eyes looking

1803
01:39:37,000 --> 01:39:39,360
Speaker 1: at me all night where we were, you know, getting

1804
01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:45,320
Speaker 1: down and five foot female python and then so we

1805
01:39:45,400 --> 01:39:47,000
Speaker 1: have the male one two and then she makes a

1806
01:39:47,000 --> 01:39:49,840
Speaker 1: little baby pythons with them. What else did you tell

1807
01:39:49,840 --> 01:39:51,599
Speaker 1: you about this? I mean, obviously you're looking at them,

1808
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:53,280
Speaker 1: but did you I mean, did you say, like, whoa,

1809
01:39:53,400 --> 01:39:57,760
Speaker 1: what's what's going on here? Python lover? No? I mean

1810
01:39:57,880 --> 01:40:00,240
Speaker 1: we were we were like in the moment, so like

1811
01:40:00,360 --> 01:40:02,360
Speaker 1: I see these things. I don't really ask me questions

1812
01:40:02,400 --> 01:40:05,240
Speaker 1: because I'm just I'm trying to, you know, have a

1813
01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:08,120
Speaker 1: good time that night. And uh, at one point she

1814
01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:10,200
Speaker 1: brought it out of the tank and and it was

1815
01:40:10,240 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 1: like baby talking and like oh, you know, like nope,

1816
01:40:13,800 --> 01:40:17,600
Speaker 1: but apparently she breeds them. Uh. Peyton Peyton was one

1817
01:40:17,640 --> 01:40:22,200
Speaker 1: of the names, uh the python. Peyton the pie. Yeah,

1818
01:40:22,240 --> 01:40:25,840
Speaker 1: well that's just adorable. Peyton the python, and I think

1819
01:40:25,920 --> 01:40:28,240
Speaker 1: everyone was like Patrick or something. I don't know, like

1820
01:40:28,800 --> 01:40:31,320
Speaker 1: she was like super baby talking these things. Oh and

1821
01:40:31,400 --> 01:40:34,200
Speaker 1: then and then feeding time after we got done, she

1822
01:40:34,320 --> 01:40:35,840
Speaker 1: was the freezer and pulled out a bunch of was

1823
01:40:35,880 --> 01:40:41,200
Speaker 1: like frozen mice. No, yeah, I mean imagine like this

1824
01:40:42,320 --> 01:40:50,360
Speaker 1: for feeding time. But no, yeah, I don't know, like

1825
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 1: post four play, I don't know. Yeah, yeah, let me

1826
01:40:54,880 --> 01:40:56,640
Speaker 1: let me I forgot You might say that Anna is here,

1827
01:40:56,720 --> 01:41:00,479
Speaker 1: Let me bring Anna in. Um Peyton the foot female

1828
01:41:00,920 --> 01:41:04,599
Speaker 1: python that eats frozen mice on the second day. Well,

1829
01:41:04,920 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 1: I can't believe you have an issue with Peyton and

1830
01:41:07,080 --> 01:41:11,439
Speaker 1: Poco number one. I knew it. I knew it was

1831
01:41:11,439 --> 01:41:17,560
Speaker 1: another pea. Great pets, and they're loving and gentle, like

1832
01:41:17,680 --> 01:41:20,880
Speaker 1: they can't hurt you. Like that's not a pet, pet

1833
01:41:21,160 --> 01:41:25,240
Speaker 1: a dog, it's a pet. The people. Do they bite

1834
01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:27,840
Speaker 1: an liked they ever get mad? Did they get upset?

1835
01:41:28,680 --> 01:41:31,240
Speaker 1: They bit the money? Not strong enough to kill anyone.

1836
01:41:31,840 --> 01:41:33,320
Speaker 1: And if they bite you just have to wash your

1837
01:41:33,360 --> 01:41:35,160
Speaker 1: hands because of a venom. But like they can't hurt

1838
01:41:36,000 --> 01:41:39,920
Speaker 1: if they can't hurt you, and they rarely attack humans. Anyway,

1839
01:41:39,960 --> 01:41:43,200
Speaker 1: but they're not strong enough, like they're not like you pythons,

1840
01:41:43,640 --> 01:41:45,439
Speaker 1: And I breathe them because like, they bring me so

1841
01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:47,680
Speaker 1: much joy, and I want other people to share on

1842
01:41:47,760 --> 01:41:53,920
Speaker 1: that joy. Really business too, it's a fun sad thing. Yeah,

1843
01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:58,680
Speaker 1: actually because people really appreciate it if they're really good pythons.

1844
01:41:59,040 --> 01:42:01,840
Speaker 1: Do they ever get of that with me? Like yeah,

1845
01:42:02,040 --> 01:42:04,439
Speaker 1: and I have so many questions. They don't get out

1846
01:42:04,560 --> 01:42:07,519
Speaker 1: and then they you said, they rarely kill or rarely

1847
01:42:07,560 --> 01:42:15,160
Speaker 1: attack humans, so they're pretty docile, then rarely gentile. I

1848
01:42:15,280 --> 01:42:21,760
Speaker 1: always wanted dogs humans, like, oh boy, there's so much

1849
01:42:21,880 --> 01:42:26,640
Speaker 1: prejudice against reptiles and stakes versus like fluffy little chewheenies

1850
01:42:26,960 --> 01:42:31,640
Speaker 1: or whatever, what the hell is it cheweenie And I

1851
01:42:31,640 --> 01:42:36,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't get to CHEWEENI near Paco, the pipe might get hungry.

1852
01:42:37,040 --> 01:42:38,560
Speaker 1: All I could picture was like in the middle of

1853
01:42:38,600 --> 01:42:41,160
Speaker 1: the night, snake gets out of the cage, ratchets, you know,

1854
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:44,240
Speaker 1: five foot body around my neck, the living life out

1855
01:42:44,280 --> 01:42:48,880
Speaker 1: of me, get out of the cages. Like you're ridiculous,

1856
01:42:49,080 --> 01:42:53,559
Speaker 1: that's not I because of my pets. I mean, that's

1857
01:42:53,600 --> 01:42:56,439
Speaker 1: not foreverbody. You got to know people do have and

1858
01:42:56,520 --> 01:42:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's fair, but people do have kind

1859
01:42:58,960 --> 01:43:01,400
Speaker 1: of there's a stigma around snakes. I'm not a big

1860
01:43:01,439 --> 01:43:04,840
Speaker 1: snake guy. I'm not a big like tarantula guy. You know,

1861
01:43:04,880 --> 01:43:07,120
Speaker 1: if you had tarantulas, I don't love that. And you

1862
01:43:07,200 --> 01:43:09,120
Speaker 1: can try and convince me that it won't kill me

1863
01:43:09,200 --> 01:43:11,840
Speaker 1: in my sleep, but I don't really know. I like

1864
01:43:12,040 --> 01:43:14,960
Speaker 1: Peyton and Poco. If you met them, you would like them.

1865
01:43:15,360 --> 01:43:23,280
Speaker 1: Everybody likes someone they meet them. Well, yeah, they're really sweet, Joey, Right, Okay,

1866
01:43:23,320 --> 01:43:25,679
Speaker 1: so Joey, I can't get over this. We're not we're

1867
01:43:25,720 --> 01:43:28,160
Speaker 1: not moving past it, like even though you liked I mean,

1868
01:43:28,439 --> 01:43:30,680
Speaker 1: but here's the other thing. You saw the snakes, and

1869
01:43:30,720 --> 01:43:32,360
Speaker 1: you still hooked up with her. So I guess you

1870
01:43:32,680 --> 01:43:34,439
Speaker 1: were able to get over it for that long, right,

1871
01:43:34,920 --> 01:43:36,880
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I was able to chill long enough

1872
01:43:36,960 --> 01:43:41,160
Speaker 1: to mess around. But I can't go back. I can't. Like. Sorry,

1873
01:43:41,240 --> 01:43:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm anna, You're you're like really nice and but if

1874
01:43:45,280 --> 01:43:47,599
Speaker 1: that's like such a huge part of your life, I'm sorry.

1875
01:43:47,680 --> 01:43:50,200
Speaker 1: I just I can't be with someone who raises living

1876
01:43:50,200 --> 01:43:52,040
Speaker 1: creatures the size of my life. All right, that's a

1877
01:43:52,160 --> 01:43:55,760
Speaker 1: no for you, doug Um. All right, look and I'm sorry,

1878
01:43:55,760 --> 01:43:57,679
Speaker 1: it's not gonna work out. This has never happened you before,

1879
01:43:57,800 --> 01:44:00,960
Speaker 1: like you've never had a man. Uh. People tend to

1880
01:44:01,000 --> 01:44:02,880
Speaker 1: be really into them because they're like really like you

1881
01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:04,280
Speaker 1: think you might be afraid of them, and then you

1882
01:44:04,360 --> 01:44:06,599
Speaker 1: need it when you realize high gentle and cool there. Yeah,

1883
01:44:07,520 --> 01:44:09,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess at least I know the answer,

1884
01:44:09,400 --> 01:44:12,880
Speaker 1: but I'm I'm kind of surprised that, like here's such

1885
01:44:12,920 --> 01:44:16,560
Speaker 1: a worst about it. I mean, shout out to a

1886
01:44:17,240 --> 01:44:19,800
Speaker 1: Payton and Pocco and shout out to the worst Joey,

1887
01:44:20,080 --> 01:44:22,479
Speaker 1: and I guess I might be kind of a wors too.

1888
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I wouldn't date you, but I

1889
01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:26,439
Speaker 1: would take some getting used to because I just don't

1890
01:44:26,479 --> 01:44:32,439
Speaker 1: know enough about a five foot long be open to learning, right,

1891
01:44:32,640 --> 01:44:34,760
Speaker 1: like be open to like spending some time with them

1892
01:44:34,840 --> 01:44:38,280
Speaker 1: and getting to know that, and then I think, whatever,

1893
01:44:39,080 --> 01:44:41,400
Speaker 1: fair enough. Well, guys, best to luck to both of you,

1894
01:44:41,560 --> 01:44:45,120
Speaker 1: and thanks for your time. Thank you. Yeah. Thanks, Let's

1895
01:44:45,160 --> 01:44:47,560
Speaker 1: get you in to see Ed Sheer and Evelish Chicago.

1896
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:50,240
Speaker 1: Next after joe Ja Katy entertainer of first coming up

1897
01:44:50,280 --> 01:44:52,559
Speaker 1: as well. It's the Fred Show. Glad you're here, one

1898
01:44:52,680 --> 01:44:55,599
Speaker 1: or three five kissed that fatime. Good morning, everybody happy

1899
01:44:55,680 --> 01:45:01,120
Speaker 1: new Yeah yeah, Fred show is bad? Yeah yeah I was,

1900
01:45:01,200 --> 01:45:04,200
Speaker 1: I was. Yeah, thanks for joining it on the entas No.

1901
01:45:04,280 --> 01:45:08,320
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, Ed Sharon. Ticket Now all these shows

1902
01:45:08,360 --> 01:45:10,080
Speaker 1: are this year, so we don't have to do that anymore,

1903
01:45:10,439 --> 01:45:15,160
Speaker 1: Soldier Field twenty nine. You can buy tickets right now

1904
01:45:15,160 --> 01:45:18,200
Speaker 1: at ticketmaster dot com thanks to Messina Touring Group. You

1905
01:45:18,320 --> 01:45:19,920
Speaker 1: want to go see Edge here and call in every

1906
01:45:19,960 --> 01:45:22,240
Speaker 1: twenty five eight five five five nine one one three

1907
01:45:22,320 --> 01:45:26,599
Speaker 1: five kism The latest entertainment news is on the frend show.

1908
01:45:26,840 --> 01:45:30,559
Speaker 1: A rapport Jeremy Runner says that he suffered blunt chess trauma,

1909
01:45:30,800 --> 01:45:34,360
Speaker 1: orthopedic injuries and underwent surgery after what they're calling a

1910
01:45:34,560 --> 01:45:39,120
Speaker 1: weather related accident while plowing snow um eye witnesses say

1911
01:45:39,160 --> 01:45:41,559
Speaker 1: that Jeremy was plowing the road about a quarter mile

1912
01:45:41,640 --> 01:45:44,280
Speaker 1: from his Tahoe home so his family could get out

1913
01:45:44,360 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 1: after a massive New Year's Eve storm. According to a neighbor,

1914
01:45:47,800 --> 01:45:51,240
Speaker 1: the plowing machine, called a SnowCat, accidentally ran over one

1915
01:45:51,280 --> 01:45:53,640
Speaker 1: of his legs and caused him to lose a ton

1916
01:45:53,720 --> 01:45:56,120
Speaker 1: of blood. At the scene, Another neighbor, who's a doctor,

1917
01:45:56,240 --> 01:45:59,920
Speaker 1: saw everything and luckily rushed to help him wrapped in

1918
01:46:00,080 --> 01:46:02,879
Speaker 1: while they waited for him to be airlifted to the hospital.

1919
01:46:03,000 --> 01:46:05,960
Speaker 1: Cops then came to impound the SnowCat, and they're actually

1920
01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:09,080
Speaker 1: treating the area like a crime scene because the issue

1921
01:46:09,160 --> 01:46:13,320
Speaker 1: is that, like snowcats, these machines have extensive safety features

1922
01:46:13,640 --> 01:46:16,040
Speaker 1: and none of this should have happened. He should not

1923
01:46:16,120 --> 01:46:18,000
Speaker 1: have gotten run over, you know, there's a lot to

1924
01:46:18,080 --> 01:46:21,040
Speaker 1: prevent that, so they're looking into that. Of course, Jeremy

1925
01:46:21,200 --> 01:46:24,519
Speaker 1: is still in the ICU, but in stable condition luckily,

1926
01:46:24,640 --> 01:46:27,280
Speaker 1: so I'll update you guys as I hear more. The

1927
01:46:27,520 --> 01:46:29,680
Speaker 1: Foo Fighters release a statement about the future of the

1928
01:46:29,760 --> 01:46:33,800
Speaker 1: band following the death of drummer Taylor Hawkins on New Years.

1929
01:46:33,840 --> 01:46:35,639
Speaker 1: The band wrote, as we say goodbye to the most

1930
01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:38,080
Speaker 1: difficult and tragic here that our band has ever known,

1931
01:46:38,439 --> 01:46:40,840
Speaker 1: we are reminded of how thankful we are for the

1932
01:46:40,880 --> 01:46:43,360
Speaker 1: people we love and cherish, and for the loved ones

1933
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:45,759
Speaker 1: who are no longer with us. Foo Fighters were formed

1934
01:46:45,800 --> 01:46:48,720
Speaker 1: twenty seven years ago to represent the healing power of

1935
01:46:48,880 --> 01:46:51,559
Speaker 1: music and a continuation of life, and for the past

1936
01:46:51,640 --> 01:46:54,920
Speaker 1: twenty seven years, our fans have built a worldwide community

1937
01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:58,960
Speaker 1: and devoted a devoted support system that has helped us

1938
01:46:59,000 --> 01:47:01,920
Speaker 1: all get through the darkest times together, a place to

1939
01:47:01,960 --> 01:47:05,160
Speaker 1: share our joy, pain, hopes, fears and to join in

1940
01:47:05,400 --> 01:47:08,560
Speaker 1: a chorus of life together through music. Without Taylor, we

1941
01:47:08,720 --> 01:47:10,400
Speaker 1: never would have been the band that we were, and

1942
01:47:10,520 --> 01:47:13,240
Speaker 1: without Taylor, we know that we're going to be a

1943
01:47:13,360 --> 01:47:16,439
Speaker 1: different band going forward. But they are going forward, which

1944
01:47:16,760 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 1: is the point of the statement. They ended by saying

1945
01:47:18,840 --> 01:47:21,000
Speaker 1: how much the fans meant to Taylor and they will

1946
01:47:21,040 --> 01:47:25,280
Speaker 1: be seeing them again really soon. Obviously, Taylor he passed

1947
01:47:25,280 --> 01:47:27,880
Speaker 1: away at just fifty years old in Colombia March of

1948
01:47:27,960 --> 01:47:30,679
Speaker 1: last year while they were on tour there. So very tragic.

1949
01:47:30,760 --> 01:47:32,920
Speaker 1: But they are going to keep, you know, touring and

1950
01:47:33,040 --> 01:47:35,280
Speaker 1: making music. So that's a little update for you guys.

1951
01:47:35,880 --> 01:47:38,880
Speaker 1: Another update, Nick Cannon, of course, welcomed his twelfth baby

1952
01:47:38,960 --> 01:47:43,840
Speaker 1: and second with Alyssa Scott. Oh sure, yes, twelve. She

1953
01:47:43,880 --> 01:47:47,679
Speaker 1: announced the birth of her second child, Halo Marie, who

1954
01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:51,439
Speaker 1: almost exactly one year after the death of their son,

1955
01:47:51,560 --> 01:47:55,120
Speaker 1: arrived Zen obviously it was his name. He died just

1956
01:47:55,240 --> 01:47:59,639
Speaker 1: five months years old. Five months old Jesus from brain

1957
01:47:59,680 --> 01:48:03,400
Speaker 1: cans are. Along with the announcement of Halo's birth, she

1958
01:48:03,520 --> 01:48:06,000
Speaker 1: shared a video that paid tribute to Zen. But yes,

1959
01:48:06,080 --> 01:48:08,280
Speaker 1: he has a lot of kids, and he was saying,

1960
01:48:08,320 --> 01:48:10,839
Speaker 1: there's something. I have no issue with Nick Canna whatsoever.

1961
01:48:10,920 --> 01:48:13,479
Speaker 1: I don't whatever. There's something more to the story. This

1962
01:48:13,640 --> 01:48:15,479
Speaker 1: dude is trying to He's trying to create like a

1963
01:48:15,520 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 1: militia or something. Something more is going on. I mean, yeah,

1964
01:48:21,400 --> 01:48:24,680
Speaker 1: he's trying. There's something. This is a concerted effort at

1965
01:48:24,720 --> 01:48:27,880
Speaker 1: this point to create as many offspring as possible. Oh yeah,

1966
01:48:27,920 --> 01:48:30,160
Speaker 1: he just kept saying my body by choice on New Year,

1967
01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:34,519
Speaker 1: So hey, okay, whatever you say, dude, just keep making

1968
01:48:34,640 --> 01:48:37,519
Speaker 1: kids real quick. Em Rata and Pete Davidson if you

1969
01:48:37,560 --> 01:48:40,120
Speaker 1: missed this, they broke up over the holidays. In terms

1970
01:48:40,160 --> 01:48:43,280
Speaker 1: of what they're up to. Emily posted a full booty

1971
01:48:43,360 --> 01:48:46,439
Speaker 1: shot while vacationing in the Cayman Islands yesterday and can

1972
01:48:46,479 --> 01:48:49,639
Speaker 1: you guess who already liked it? Yep, because it popped

1973
01:48:49,720 --> 01:48:55,360
Speaker 1: up on my feed. Liked my Rufio Radio same Rufie

1974
01:48:55,800 --> 01:48:59,000
Speaker 1: asked for Pete. He's cool. They're moving to the friend zone.

1975
01:49:00,000 --> 01:49:01,680
Speaker 1: But they both have been spotted on other dates, so

1976
01:49:01,800 --> 01:49:03,800
Speaker 1: I guess they're good. But yeah, Rufio still likes a

1977
01:49:03,880 --> 01:49:10,240
Speaker 1: good booty shot. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't matter if they're yes,

1978
01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:13,320
Speaker 1: I did. If there's a thirst trap, Rufio has always

1979
01:49:13,360 --> 01:49:15,120
Speaker 1: gotten to it before the rest of the world. It's

1980
01:49:15,120 --> 01:49:16,800
Speaker 1: almost like these people call them when they go, Hey,

1981
01:49:16,880 --> 01:49:19,920
Speaker 1: Rufy we're about to post one. Okay, yeah, boom. You

1982
01:49:20,479 --> 01:49:22,120
Speaker 1: guys are the same thing. You know, I got your back.

1983
01:49:22,200 --> 01:49:26,519
Speaker 1: You know I'm gonna try it. Okay yeah shot you first,

1984
01:49:26,600 --> 01:49:30,080
Speaker 1: Like Rufio Radio, We're check it online today. Imagine joining

1985
01:49:30,120 --> 01:49:32,040
Speaker 1: a gym, but you can't go on New Year's Day

1986
01:49:32,520 --> 01:49:35,400
Speaker 1: to celebrate. It's on French radio dot com. Let's see

1987
01:49:35,400 --> 01:49:40,880
Speaker 1: what's up with Abigail. I've been wondering, Abigail. Hello, abig

1988
01:49:41,000 --> 01:49:43,759
Speaker 1: I've been wondering how is your New Year? Merry Christmas

1989
01:49:44,439 --> 01:49:47,720
Speaker 1: in Hanakar and all the different things? You know, I'll

1990
01:49:48,040 --> 01:49:51,559
Speaker 1: marry everything. Fred, Happy New Year. Yes, it's so great

1991
01:49:51,600 --> 01:49:55,320
Speaker 1: to talk to you. You win at sharing tickets. Congratulations,

1992
01:49:56,360 --> 01:49:59,280
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, you guys, that's awesome. What did

1993
01:49:59,320 --> 01:50:04,240
Speaker 1: you get for Chris? I'm curious, um so the best

1994
01:50:04,320 --> 01:50:08,120
Speaker 1: thing I got. My family down in Peoria, Illinois works

1995
01:50:08,160 --> 01:50:11,240
Speaker 1: for Prairie Farm and I got one of their dairy

1996
01:50:11,320 --> 01:50:16,200
Speaker 1: farm hoodies. Oh cool, Okay, I like it. What's the

1997
01:50:16,280 --> 01:50:19,880
Speaker 1: name of the famous street club in Peoria. That's a

1998
01:50:19,960 --> 01:50:25,479
Speaker 1: famous one. That's it, that's the one big Yeah, just

1999
01:50:25,600 --> 01:50:32,880
Speaker 1: like from there too. You can rotate between the farmer

2000
01:50:32,960 --> 01:50:36,080
Speaker 1: one and Big as a little bit. Great. I wonder,

2001
01:50:36,120 --> 01:50:39,759
Speaker 1: I wonder, I say, sell sweatshirts. I'd like to have one. Um, anyway,

2002
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:41,120
Speaker 1: I have a girl. I don't know. It's a very

2003
01:50:41,160 --> 01:50:43,000
Speaker 1: famous place. I figured you'd know what it was, and look,

2004
01:50:43,040 --> 01:50:45,800
Speaker 1: you knew right away. Um, hey, enjoy the edge here

2005
01:50:45,840 --> 01:50:47,560
Speaker 1: and show you won't want to wear your sweatshirts to

2006
01:50:47,600 --> 01:50:49,120
Speaker 1: that because it's in July. It will be hot. But

2007
01:50:49,320 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 1: I have a good day and hang on. Happy New Year,

2008
01:50:52,320 --> 01:50:55,400
Speaker 1: Happy New Year, everybody. Thank you. Yeah you never heard

2009
01:50:55,439 --> 01:50:58,680
Speaker 1: of Big Ols before? He is very famous. No, I've

2010
01:50:58,720 --> 01:51:03,200
Speaker 1: heard of prairie farms. Yes, No, well, I mean you

2011
01:51:03,280 --> 01:51:05,080
Speaker 1: know both both the things you should stop and see

2012
01:51:05,120 --> 01:51:08,360
Speaker 1: while you're in Peoria. If you're ever in Peoria, Big

2013
01:51:08,400 --> 01:51:11,960
Speaker 1: Al's and Prairie Farms. It is important. Let's see, I'm

2014
01:51:12,000 --> 01:51:13,800
Speaker 1: gonna play a song. We'll come back in just a second.

2015
01:51:13,840 --> 01:51:16,400
Speaker 1: We'll do the fun fact in fact, no, you know what, No,

2016
01:51:16,520 --> 01:51:18,200
Speaker 1: we're not we're gonna do the fun fact right down.

2017
01:51:29,120 --> 01:51:31,080
Speaker 1: I missed that song, you know, I think I think

2018
01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:35,680
Speaker 1: probably today we could have played the extended version. No, no, no,

2019
01:51:35,800 --> 01:51:42,920
Speaker 1: we're not going to, but yeah we could have. Um So.

2020
01:51:43,920 --> 01:51:48,200
Speaker 1: In the Old Town District in Alexandria, Virginia, there's a

2021
01:51:48,240 --> 01:51:53,160
Speaker 1: guy named John Hollinsbury who once owned a house on

2022
01:51:53,360 --> 01:51:57,360
Speaker 1: Queen Street. He apparently hated the fact that the horse

2023
01:51:57,479 --> 01:52:02,320
Speaker 1: drawn wagons would travel down down the alley beside his building,

2024
01:52:02,600 --> 01:52:04,439
Speaker 1: and he wasn't fond of people who would hang out

2025
01:52:04,479 --> 01:52:08,160
Speaker 1: in that space either, So to spite them, he built

2026
01:52:08,200 --> 01:52:11,840
Speaker 1: a second tiny house in the alley to keep everyone out,

2027
01:52:11,960 --> 01:52:16,160
Speaker 1: which is now worldwide known as the Spite House. The

2028
01:52:16,320 --> 01:52:19,320
Speaker 1: house is seven feet wide and twenty five feet deep.

2029
01:52:19,520 --> 01:52:22,040
Speaker 1: There's also a patio that goes an additional twelve feet

2030
01:52:22,200 --> 01:52:25,439
Speaker 1: It's kind of like up that movie Up, remember that,

2031
01:52:25,479 --> 01:52:27,479
Speaker 1: where the dude wouldn't sell his house they kept building

2032
01:52:27,479 --> 01:52:29,880
Speaker 1: all around it and whatever else. It's the same thing.

2033
01:52:30,000 --> 01:52:31,439
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you know what, I don't want you

2034
01:52:31,520 --> 01:52:33,519
Speaker 1: in my back here. I'm just gonna build something else there.

2035
01:52:33,840 --> 01:52:37,120
Speaker 1: So it's called the Spite House. It's a real thing,

2036
01:52:37,200 --> 01:52:41,200
Speaker 1: and it's in Virginia. You didn't know, did you didn't?

2037
01:52:42,080 --> 01:52:44,560
Speaker 1: I know, I know you did, and I'm here for you.

2038
01:52:44,720 --> 01:52:48,400
Speaker 1: That's it. And how have people been surviving? Do you

2039
01:52:48,479 --> 01:52:52,040
Speaker 1: think the last couple of weeks without these facts? I mean,

2040
01:52:53,360 --> 01:52:58,000
Speaker 1: I know right, no, there it's been a total outrage

2041
01:52:58,200 --> 01:53:03,280
Speaker 1: between that and me and the dinosaur costume ABC dancing thing,

2042
01:53:03,400 --> 01:53:07,679
Speaker 1: between those two, between the lack of attention between those things,

2043
01:53:08,560 --> 01:53:12,679
Speaker 1: that fact in itself, I didn't you know, yeah, yeah,

2044
01:53:12,760 --> 01:53:16,439
Speaker 1: well again not about me. It's about Terrell and Cheryl.

2045
01:53:16,520 --> 01:53:20,120
Speaker 1: But I was the I was inside the dinosaur costume

2046
01:53:20,520 --> 01:53:23,839
Speaker 1: in the dance routine. Um. So I was very exciting.

2047
01:53:23,960 --> 01:53:26,200
Speaker 1: And again I was hoping that it would come out,

2048
01:53:26,760 --> 01:53:29,240
Speaker 1: you know, kind of like a rumor, you know what

2049
01:53:29,280 --> 01:53:30,360
Speaker 1: I mean. I was kind of I was hoping it

2050
01:53:30,400 --> 01:53:33,400
Speaker 1: would come out without me having to announce it. But

2051
01:53:33,800 --> 01:53:36,560
Speaker 1: it's true, and that was me. If you watch the

2052
01:53:36,600 --> 01:53:39,840
Speaker 1: credits very carefully, you'll see it's in very very small letters.

2053
01:53:39,880 --> 01:53:45,479
Speaker 1: It says dinosaur played by Fred. It also says clean

2054
01:53:45,560 --> 01:53:50,280
Speaker 1: up by freends Fred editorial services. It also says that

2055
01:53:50,400 --> 01:53:56,000
Speaker 1: six shows show on one h three five. This is

2056
01:53:56,040 --> 01:53:59,519
Speaker 1: what's trending. Good morning everyone, Happy New Year, Fred Show

2057
01:53:59,640 --> 01:54:04,880
Speaker 1: is back for twenty twenty three. To the haters, wakem up,

2058
01:54:06,880 --> 01:54:14,040
Speaker 1: year number thirteen? Is that what you were starting fourteen thirty?

2059
01:54:14,120 --> 01:54:18,320
Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of years. Yeah, yeah, damn.

2060
01:54:19,000 --> 01:54:22,439
Speaker 1: How the hell did that happen? I'm not sure, but

2061
01:54:22,800 --> 01:54:25,000
Speaker 1: here we are. We're happy to be here. By the way. Um,

2062
01:54:25,280 --> 01:54:28,280
Speaker 1: not much of an update on the story that everyone's

2063
01:54:28,280 --> 01:54:30,479
Speaker 1: talking about since last night, but Buffalo Bill safety to

2064
01:54:30,600 --> 01:54:34,600
Speaker 1: mar Hamlin collapsed on the field and was administered CPR

2065
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:37,240
Speaker 1: before being driven away in an ambulance during Monday night's

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Speaker 1: game against the Bengals. The game was then suspended for

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Speaker 1: the night. After the injury, he suffered cardiac arrest. The

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Speaker 1: update from the Bills says that he suffered cardiac arrest

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Speaker 1: following the hit from the tackle. His heartbeat was restored

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Speaker 1: on the field and he is in the University of

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01:54:55,920 --> 01:54:58,760
Speaker 1: Cincinnati Medical Center for further testing and treatment, where he

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01:54:58,840 --> 01:55:03,720
Speaker 1: is now sedated UM in critical conditions. So very very

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01:55:03,760 --> 01:55:08,160
Speaker 1: scary last night watching that, and you know, I saw

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01:55:08,160 --> 01:55:10,800
Speaker 1: a lot of the feedback that people had about the broadcast.

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01:55:11,600 --> 01:55:13,600
Speaker 1: A bunch of bunch of sports guys trying to figure

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Speaker 1: out what to say and what to do and how

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01:55:15,240 --> 01:55:17,920
Speaker 1: to fill the time, and um, you know, I gotta

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01:55:17,920 --> 01:55:20,400
Speaker 1: be honest, I was kind of impressed by a lot

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01:55:20,480 --> 01:55:23,320
Speaker 1: of that. You know, really sort of a lot of

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01:55:23,360 --> 01:55:26,840
Speaker 1: times those broadcasts are kind of I mean, they stick

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01:55:26,880 --> 01:55:29,120
Speaker 1: to the they stick to the game, They play by

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01:55:29,200 --> 01:55:32,240
Speaker 1: play the facts, the statistics or whatever. And this is

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01:55:32,280 --> 01:55:35,040
Speaker 1: a situation that we've never seen before. Nor did they

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01:55:35,080 --> 01:55:36,800
Speaker 1: have any idea what was going to happen, or what

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01:55:37,080 --> 01:55:39,120
Speaker 1: was happening, or if the game was going to continue,

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Speaker 1: Nor is this their primary job to comment on, you know,

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Speaker 1: health matters of life and death. But I thought it

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01:55:45,200 --> 01:55:47,800
Speaker 1: was really human last night watching a lot of these

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01:55:47,840 --> 01:55:51,520
Speaker 1: guys talk, especially some of the former players on ESPN

2090
01:55:51,560 --> 01:55:55,080
Speaker 1: and ABC, talking about you know, not only their experience

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01:55:55,160 --> 01:55:59,000
Speaker 1: with injuries, but also the mindset of a of a

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01:55:59,200 --> 01:56:02,880
Speaker 1: professional athlete or really any athlete for that matter. Watching

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01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:06,040
Speaker 1: one of your teammates go through something like that. Yeah,

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01:56:06,720 --> 01:56:09,360
Speaker 1: it was really interesting. Klin No. I mean, I just

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01:56:09,560 --> 01:56:12,040
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. I feel like we're all like as

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01:56:12,080 --> 01:56:14,600
Speaker 1: a society. This might be, this might be hippie to be,

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01:56:15,080 --> 01:56:17,280
Speaker 1: but like I just feel like we're all moving towards

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01:56:17,360 --> 01:56:20,080
Speaker 1: like just caring more about like people in general, and

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01:56:20,160 --> 01:56:23,400
Speaker 1: it's not about you know, sports or TV or radio

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01:56:23,440 --> 01:56:25,440
Speaker 1: like we're I don't know, I feel like everybody's becoming

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01:56:25,480 --> 01:56:27,600
Speaker 1: a little more human and more sensitive. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it just seems like it would have been a handle

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01:56:29,120 --> 01:56:33,040
Speaker 1: differently ten or five years ago, in my opinion. Yeah,

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01:56:33,040 --> 01:56:34,760
Speaker 1: and there, and the league was getting a hard time

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01:56:34,840 --> 01:56:38,600
Speaker 1: because not long after this, this player was carded off,

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01:56:39,320 --> 01:56:42,480
Speaker 1: you know, after being literally his heartbeat restored on the

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01:56:42,680 --> 01:56:45,960
Speaker 1: field for all of all to see on national TV,

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01:56:46,160 --> 01:56:48,120
Speaker 1: not to mention the players that were there watching at

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01:56:48,160 --> 01:56:50,000
Speaker 1: first hand. You know. Then apparently the league was like,

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01:56:50,040 --> 01:56:52,000
Speaker 1: all right, you guys got five minutes to get this

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01:56:52,080 --> 01:56:54,080
Speaker 1: game going again. And the coach is apparently this is

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01:56:54,160 --> 01:56:57,000
Speaker 1: all hearsay, but I guess the coaches said no to

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01:56:57,160 --> 01:57:00,560
Speaker 1: collectively on both sides. We're not no, like, we're not

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01:57:00,600 --> 01:57:02,800
Speaker 1: going to do that. And you know, it's it's easy

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01:57:02,880 --> 01:57:06,160
Speaker 1: to say that the league is is quick to uh,

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01:57:06,480 --> 01:57:08,840
Speaker 1: you know, did and maybe they are I don't really know,

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01:57:09,160 --> 01:57:12,640
Speaker 1: you know, you know, quick to put money and the

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01:57:12,760 --> 01:57:16,480
Speaker 1: game and the outcome over everything else. But I I've

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01:57:16,560 --> 01:57:20,200
Speaker 1: never seen anything like that on TV or at a

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01:57:20,200 --> 01:57:23,080
Speaker 1: sporting event really. I mean, there have been injuries before,

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01:57:23,160 --> 01:57:25,200
Speaker 1: but but this was sort of uncharted territory. So they

2122
01:57:25,240 --> 01:57:27,600
Speaker 1: eventually made the right decision, and that's good. But what

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01:57:27,760 --> 01:57:29,880
Speaker 1: what I wonder is if initially they treated this like

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01:57:29,960 --> 01:57:32,600
Speaker 1: it was any other injury, any other time that a

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01:57:32,640 --> 01:57:35,160
Speaker 1: player had been carted off somehow, which is highly insensitive

2126
01:57:35,160 --> 01:57:37,320
Speaker 1: if that's the case. But nonetheless they did make the

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01:57:37,440 --> 01:57:40,560
Speaker 1: right decision. Finally, I can't imagine what would have happened

2128
01:57:40,560 --> 01:57:42,280
Speaker 1: if they tried to make those guys play that game

2129
01:57:42,440 --> 01:57:44,080
Speaker 1: or and I don't know how they're gonna make it up,

2130
01:57:44,520 --> 01:57:48,040
Speaker 1: because it does you know, Rufio and of course Jason,

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01:57:48,240 --> 01:57:51,160
Speaker 1: you know our sports importing it can tell us more

2132
01:57:51,160 --> 01:57:54,760
Speaker 1: about the the implications on the playoff picture in the NFL.

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01:57:55,320 --> 01:57:58,240
Speaker 1: This game was very important. But at the same time,

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01:57:58,320 --> 01:58:01,160
Speaker 1: how do you get these guys to play today? How

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01:58:01,200 --> 01:58:02,760
Speaker 1: do you get them to play tomorrow? You know, I

2136
01:58:03,160 --> 01:58:05,320
Speaker 1: know they're professionals, I know they have to at some point,

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01:58:05,760 --> 01:58:07,280
Speaker 1: but how do you get that out of your mind

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01:58:07,360 --> 01:58:10,720
Speaker 1: that one of your teammates in critical condition was practically

2139
01:58:10,800 --> 01:58:13,960
Speaker 1: dead on the field. I think they need to wait until,

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01:58:14,280 --> 01:58:17,360
Speaker 1: like he is stable and you know, at least give

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Speaker 1: his teammates and even his opponents that were playing with

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01:58:20,000 --> 01:58:21,760
Speaker 1: him yesterday a little bit of like peace of mind

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01:58:21,840 --> 01:58:25,520
Speaker 1: before they can go out and play again. Yeah, there

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01:58:25,640 --> 01:58:29,240
Speaker 1: was a quite a few gestures of sportsmanship between the

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01:58:29,280 --> 01:58:32,000
Speaker 1: two teams too, And I think, you know, to Kaylin's point,

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01:58:32,000 --> 01:58:35,600
Speaker 1: when it's all said and done, these are these are

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01:58:36,200 --> 01:58:38,440
Speaker 1: these are humans and I forget who it was less

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01:58:38,440 --> 01:58:40,280
Speaker 1: than an ESPN said it really well though, is that

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01:58:41,080 --> 01:58:44,000
Speaker 1: when you see something like that happened last night, you

2150
01:58:44,160 --> 01:58:48,080
Speaker 1: realize that these guys are playing the game. Sure they're

2151
01:58:48,080 --> 01:58:50,200
Speaker 1: playing it for money, and sure they're playing it for fame,

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01:58:50,440 --> 01:58:53,760
Speaker 1: but ultimately they're playing it for the fans, for us,

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01:58:54,040 --> 01:58:57,160
Speaker 1: for entertainment. And I'm not you know, it's not woe

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01:58:57,280 --> 01:58:59,160
Speaker 1: is me. Those guys make millions of dollars whatever, But

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01:58:59,480 --> 01:59:03,480
Speaker 1: you know what, what's the incentive to to take that

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01:59:03,680 --> 01:59:07,080
Speaker 1: extra hit, or what's the incentive to put yourself in

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01:59:07,160 --> 01:59:11,000
Speaker 1: a position where something like this can happen. Um, you're

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01:59:11,040 --> 01:59:13,320
Speaker 1: not really necessarily going to make any more money, You're not.

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01:59:13,440 --> 01:59:15,920
Speaker 1: Your life may or may not change as a result

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Speaker 1: of it. And this is an example of you know,

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01:59:18,120 --> 01:59:21,040
Speaker 1: these guys taken the big hit and nearly dying for it,

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01:59:21,240 --> 01:59:23,680
Speaker 1: and I think it really goes to show the risk

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01:59:23,880 --> 01:59:26,560
Speaker 1: that that these players take, that we take for granted

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01:59:26,600 --> 01:59:29,320
Speaker 1: while we're drinking our beer and you know, eating our

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Speaker 1: pizza and whatever else. You know, these these are actual

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Speaker 1: real people and you know, like the team or hate

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01:59:34,600 --> 01:59:36,320
Speaker 1: the team or whatever else. I mean, this dude could

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Speaker 1: have died last night and he's still in critical condition.

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Speaker 1: But my question is, uh, you know, for Kiki, I

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Speaker 1: know you have uh you know, I know you're anti

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01:59:43,480 --> 01:59:46,760
Speaker 1: Kiki and of course uh Rufio has has a son.

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01:59:47,640 --> 01:59:50,760
Speaker 1: When you see this or any of it, is there

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Speaker 1: any point at which you say, I'm not letting my

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Speaker 1: kids play contact sports, like it's just not worth it.

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01:59:56,320 --> 01:59:59,000
Speaker 1: I mean that has that already happened? Is it last

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01:59:59,120 --> 02:00:02,280
Speaker 1: night that makes you feel that way? Is it? What's

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Speaker 1: it gonna take? It's always been that way for me,

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Speaker 1: Like with football, I've always felt a little nervous about it.

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Speaker 1: My brothers play football, my ex play football for a

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02:00:11,400 --> 02:00:14,600
Speaker 1: long time, and I could literally see the health decline.

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Speaker 1: And my ex, who played it for a very like

2182
02:00:17,560 --> 02:00:20,120
Speaker 1: from childhood all the way through college. I could see

2183
02:00:20,160 --> 02:00:23,400
Speaker 1: the changes in him physically and mentally from being hit

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02:00:23,520 --> 02:00:27,080
Speaker 1: like that. So it's definitely something to take serious. And

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Speaker 1: I hate to be the party pooper, like we just

2186
02:00:28,840 --> 02:00:30,800
Speaker 1: shouldn't do it, We shouldn't let our kids play it,

2187
02:00:30,880 --> 02:00:32,680
Speaker 1: but that I can't lie. Last night when I saw that,

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02:00:32,760 --> 02:00:34,840
Speaker 1: I felt like why are we doing this? Like why

2189
02:00:35,000 --> 02:00:36,760
Speaker 1: is this entertaining to us? Yeah, and a lot of

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02:00:36,800 --> 02:00:39,000
Speaker 1: people like I feel like, you know, that's like they're

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02:00:39,080 --> 02:00:41,680
Speaker 1: taking care of so many other people, like so many

2192
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Speaker 1: family members, you know, And so when they their family senses, oh,

2193
02:00:45,320 --> 02:00:46,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna be good at sports, it's like you don't

2194
02:00:46,920 --> 02:00:48,920
Speaker 1: have another option. You feel like, this is the thing

2195
02:00:49,000 --> 02:00:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm good at and I have to pay for, you know,

2196
02:00:50,760 --> 02:00:53,080
Speaker 1: my whole family and support them. It's like so it's

2197
02:00:53,120 --> 02:00:55,200
Speaker 1: like they know it's dangerous, but they want to be

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Speaker 1: there for their families. It's a lot of pressure and

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Speaker 1: they love it. Can you imagine if I like, this

2200
02:00:59,800 --> 02:01:02,080
Speaker 1: is our passion, we're crazy about it. We hate being off.

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Speaker 1: Can't you imagine if we face that type of danger

2202
02:01:04,520 --> 02:01:07,480
Speaker 1: every time we got on in the studio, Like right,

2203
02:01:07,760 --> 02:01:10,040
Speaker 1: you know, they left, and I know, guys, there are

2204
02:01:10,080 --> 02:01:12,600
Speaker 1: people listening, going, well, this is the risk they take.

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02:01:12,680 --> 02:01:15,560
Speaker 1: They know the risk. It's it's it's and in some

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02:01:15,680 --> 02:01:18,680
Speaker 1: ways they don't because I think we're learning. I mean,

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Speaker 1: in the last few years, how much have we learned

2208
02:01:21,760 --> 02:01:24,560
Speaker 1: about CTE and the head injuries and stuff that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was dangerous before, but I don't think anybody knew

2210
02:01:28,200 --> 02:01:31,760
Speaker 1: how dangerous. So yes, many of these guys are compensated

2211
02:01:31,840 --> 02:01:34,560
Speaker 1: for the risk. But to Kaylen's point, and I want

2212
02:01:34,560 --> 02:01:36,520
Speaker 1: to get to Rufios thoughts, because you're the only one

2213
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Speaker 1: that has an actual child that came from someone's loin,

2214
02:01:41,440 --> 02:01:43,280
Speaker 1: you know that you were responsible for. But I got

2215
02:01:43,440 --> 02:01:46,680
Speaker 1: I got back on the last chance you kick over break.

2216
02:01:46,840 --> 02:01:50,240
Speaker 1: I guess I started it at the end of the

2217
02:01:50,320 --> 02:01:52,960
Speaker 1: football one. There's a basketball one on the football one,

2218
02:01:53,160 --> 02:01:55,840
Speaker 1: and there were four seasons before that that I hadn't watched.

2219
02:01:55,920 --> 02:01:58,600
Speaker 1: And there's a First of all, I don't care if

2220
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Speaker 1: you like football or not. That show is amazing. Some

2221
02:02:01,200 --> 02:02:06,160
Speaker 1: of the characters, some of the real people, the way

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Speaker 1: that they interact, the way that some of the teachers

2223
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Speaker 1: try and inspire these kids. To that exact point, Kalen,

2224
02:02:13,560 --> 02:02:16,360
Speaker 1: that you make in that these kids go to junior

2225
02:02:16,440 --> 02:02:18,480
Speaker 1: college lab them and kicked out a D one schools

2226
02:02:18,560 --> 02:02:21,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, and this is their last chance, and they believe,

2227
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Speaker 1: come hell or high water, whether they're critically damn you're

2228
02:02:25,800 --> 02:02:28,640
Speaker 1: critically injured or not, they have to keep playing. And

2229
02:02:28,800 --> 02:02:30,880
Speaker 1: I have to get to D one. They have to

2230
02:02:30,960 --> 02:02:33,320
Speaker 1: get to the league to support their families because so

2231
02:02:33,400 --> 02:02:35,480
Speaker 1: many people have told them their athletes are not smart

2232
02:02:35,600 --> 02:02:38,760
Speaker 1: enough to do anything else, and so they're programmed in

2233
02:02:38,840 --> 02:02:42,040
Speaker 1: their mind to go out and do things that could

2234
02:02:42,080 --> 02:02:45,919
Speaker 1: be detrimental to their entire lives, if not life critical,

2235
02:02:46,800 --> 02:02:49,360
Speaker 1: simply because people have told them along the way, if

2236
02:02:49,400 --> 02:02:51,480
Speaker 1: you want your family to get out of the situation

2237
02:02:51,600 --> 02:02:54,200
Speaker 1: that they've been in for generations, then you're gonna have

2238
02:02:54,360 --> 02:02:56,040
Speaker 1: to figure it out. You're gonna have to go play.

2239
02:02:56,200 --> 02:02:58,840
Speaker 1: Who cares about your concussion? Who cares about your broken leg?

2240
02:02:59,040 --> 02:03:01,640
Speaker 1: And whatever else? And you know it speaks exactly to

2241
02:03:01,760 --> 02:03:03,920
Speaker 1: what you're saying. And these are the kind of things

2242
02:03:03,960 --> 02:03:06,520
Speaker 1: that that we don't think about on Sunday when we're

2243
02:03:06,720 --> 02:03:08,680
Speaker 1: scrolling through the games and then and there's something that

2244
02:03:08,760 --> 02:03:11,840
Speaker 1: like last night happens and it really sort of opens

2245
02:03:11,840 --> 02:03:14,240
Speaker 1: all of our eyes to just how dangerous this his rufio,

2246
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Speaker 1: You gonna let Ashland play football? Never, no jess One

2247
02:03:18,280 --> 02:03:20,480
Speaker 1: actually play football? I mean, there's so many other sports.

2248
02:03:20,520 --> 02:03:23,480
Speaker 1: I mean, uh, you know, I love golf, hopefully he

2249
02:03:23,560 --> 02:03:26,200
Speaker 1: loves golf. There's baseball, there's basketball, there's so many other

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Speaker 1: sports about football. Like I never played football as a kid.

2251
02:03:28,640 --> 02:03:31,240
Speaker 1: I was just too small. But there's just so many injuries.

2252
02:03:31,240 --> 02:03:34,520
Speaker 1: It's you know, they haven't discovered, you know what I'm saying.

2253
02:03:34,560 --> 02:03:36,760
Speaker 1: There's I mean, there's it's come a long way with

2254
02:03:36,920 --> 02:03:39,080
Speaker 1: like you said, with CT and how they're trying to

2255
02:03:39,120 --> 02:03:42,360
Speaker 1: protect his kids, but still one wrong hit and your

2256
02:03:42,400 --> 02:03:45,320
Speaker 1: life is changing forever. So never I don't ask one

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Speaker 1: never played football now, yeah, And I don't you know,

2258
02:03:48,400 --> 02:03:50,040
Speaker 1: I don't mean to sound like I'm all of a

2259
02:03:50,080 --> 02:03:53,000
Speaker 1: sudden soft on this topic. I didn't play football either.

2260
02:03:53,200 --> 02:03:55,760
Speaker 1: My school didn't have it, and I would have gotten crushed.

2261
02:03:55,960 --> 02:03:58,040
Speaker 1: As a human being. I was. I was a true

2262
02:03:58,280 --> 02:04:01,360
Speaker 1: embodiment of like a human gun in high school with

2263
02:04:01,480 --> 02:04:03,000
Speaker 1: big ear you would have been able to grab onto

2264
02:04:03,040 --> 02:04:05,360
Speaker 1: my big ass ears and tackle me that way, and

2265
02:04:06,200 --> 02:04:09,920
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been good. But I do admire people who,

2266
02:04:09,920 --> 02:04:13,320
Speaker 1: if this is their passion, they're good at it, and

2267
02:04:13,720 --> 02:04:15,880
Speaker 1: you know, it is an amazing I mean, go go

2268
02:04:16,000 --> 02:04:18,080
Speaker 1: to any football game, and if you're fortunate enough to

2269
02:04:18,120 --> 02:04:20,600
Speaker 1: ever get close enough to the action to see just

2270
02:04:20,800 --> 02:04:22,960
Speaker 1: how big these guys are and how agile and fast

2271
02:04:23,040 --> 02:04:24,880
Speaker 1: and all the rest of it, I respect it. You know.

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Speaker 1: If that's how you if that's your passion, that's how

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02:04:27,240 --> 02:04:29,720
Speaker 1: you want to make your living. To Kiki's point, but man, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know you see something like that and you say,

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Speaker 1: is it worth it? And then you see some of

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Speaker 1: the reaction from some of the people online, go and

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Speaker 1: play the game, or why are these why are these

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Speaker 1: sports journalists talking about you know this that the other thing?

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Speaker 1: They don't know what they're doing as a As a

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Speaker 1: we've all in this room been part of broadcast before

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Speaker 1: on really serious subject matters where we don't know that

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Speaker 1: we don't know what the hell to say, I mean,

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Speaker 1: because we're no different than everybody else. There was nobody,

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Speaker 1: including the most eloquent, you know, well spoken person in

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02:04:56,080 --> 02:04:58,520
Speaker 1: the world, watching that last night, who knew what to say,

2286
02:04:58,640 --> 02:05:01,800
Speaker 1: because what do you say, almost dies playing football. We

2287
02:05:01,920 --> 02:05:04,360
Speaker 1: don't know what's happening, we don't know why it happened,

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02:05:04,720 --> 02:05:07,880
Speaker 1: we don't know how he is doing, and it was

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Speaker 1: their job to sort of, I guess fill time with

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Speaker 1: analysis about about what was going on with no information.

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Speaker 1: So I thought they did a pretty good job quite frankly,

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02:05:17,560 --> 02:05:19,240
Speaker 1: Scott van Pelt and some of the other guys on

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02:05:19,480 --> 02:05:22,960
Speaker 1: ESPN Last name book anyway, Um, I obviously we wish

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Speaker 1: him the best and hope that he recovers quickly, and

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02:05:25,760 --> 02:05:28,960
Speaker 1: there was a lot of sportsmanship witness last night. Also

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Speaker 1: his uh Damar Hamlin's children's fundraiser that had already raised

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Speaker 1: I think a couple of million dollars last night. I

2298
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Speaker 1: guess there were tons of people watching going I gotta do.

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Speaker 1: I want to do something proactive, I want to do

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Speaker 1: something helpful. I don't know this guy. What am I

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02:05:45,480 --> 02:05:49,720
Speaker 1: gonna do? Over seven hundred thousand dollars in donations in

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Speaker 1: the span of an hour for that effort last night

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02:05:53,800 --> 02:05:56,000
Speaker 1: from fans at both sides and people around the world.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, you know, hopefully he recovers and all

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Speaker 1: as well. But in addition to the players coming together

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Speaker 1: last night to support one another, you got people all

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Speaker 1: around the world, you know, donating to a to a

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Speaker 1: really worthy cause that that he's responsible for. So wishing

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Speaker 1: him the very best and also wishing that I win

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Speaker 1: the seven hundred and eighty five million dollars tonight in

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Speaker 1: the mega millions. So that's them. There you go, trending stories.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back and do. Let me see what do

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Speaker 1: I have for you all? A thousand bucks? How about

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Speaker 1: we pay some bills A thousand bucks? You win? Next

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Speaker 1: on the French Fred Show w K Chicago, m an

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Speaker 1: i Heeart Radio station show, Good Morning Everyone, Tuesday, Anuwary

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Speaker 1: and third the French Shows. One it's nine o nine

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Speaker 1: the whole crewise here. We'll get to blogs in just

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Speaker 1: a second. Audio journals A thousand bucks. Paying bills that's

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Speaker 1: going on all day to day, all this week. Lots

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Speaker 1: of chances to get your bills paid from the holidays

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Speaker 1: on one oh three five if you keep it locked,

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Speaker 1: rip the knob off, and whatever other things they would

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Speaker 1: they would have said in in the eighties. Um, the

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Speaker 1: entertainment of its coming up with calin what are you

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Speaker 1: working on for? That? Looks like Kristin Cavaleri has a

2327
02:07:03,720 --> 02:07:05,920
Speaker 1: new boo. I need to see what Jason feels about this.

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Speaker 1: Who loves her more than anyone I know? Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: talk better than they tie. These are the radio blogs

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Speaker 1: on the Fred Show. All right, It's like we're writing

2331
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Speaker 1: in our diaries except we say them aloud, and I

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Speaker 1: am doing a blog. Dear blog, dear blog. Of course,

2333
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Speaker 1: everyone heard about the Southwest debacle over the holidays, you know,

2334
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Speaker 1: I don't. I won't even begin to get into the

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Speaker 1: details of everyone's probably seen why and flights. The basically

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Speaker 1: Southwest said, we're closing for a few days during the

2337
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Speaker 1: hollow Sorry, everything's messed up. We'll start over in a week.

2338
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Speaker 1: So with that in mind, my sister, my lovely, amazing, beautiful,

2339
02:07:48,560 --> 02:07:54,560
Speaker 1: intelligent sister Amanda, sister fred as you've heard me bitch

2340
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Speaker 1: about on the show, decided that she and her husband Colin,

2341
02:08:00,440 --> 02:08:03,200
Speaker 1: the artists formerly known as death Metal, decided that they

2342
02:08:03,280 --> 02:08:05,840
Speaker 1: wanted to wake up in their house on Christmas morning

2343
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Speaker 1: and then fly to Arizona, where my mom and dad's

2344
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Speaker 1: house is, to celebrate Christmas. Now, some people have said,

2345
02:08:14,000 --> 02:08:15,920
Speaker 1: I get that we have a I have a two

2346
02:08:16,000 --> 02:08:21,040
Speaker 1: year old niece named Polly. Some people have said, you know, yeah,

2347
02:08:21,160 --> 02:08:24,000
Speaker 1: let them make their own traditions or whatever. Other people

2348
02:08:24,040 --> 02:08:28,520
Speaker 1: have said as kind of silly. You know, if if

2349
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Speaker 1: Christmas is the deal and you guys are all getting

2350
02:08:30,800 --> 02:08:34,840
Speaker 1: together for Christmas anyway, then why sort of disrupt the

2351
02:08:34,880 --> 02:08:37,760
Speaker 1: flow of the day and all run the risk of

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Speaker 1: missing your flight. Oh fly Southwest, and the thing didn't

2353
02:08:41,120 --> 02:08:46,320
Speaker 1: show up and nearly did not show up on Christmas Day.

2354
02:08:46,840 --> 02:08:51,560
Speaker 1: You can imagine the drama in the Freddie household. Already

2355
02:08:51,880 --> 02:08:54,440
Speaker 1: Mom was already pissed because you're Christmas guy, a little

2356
02:08:54,600 --> 02:08:58,080
Speaker 1: shaken up. But then comes the call from the airport

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Speaker 1: that the flight has been canceled and they cannot get

2358
02:09:00,120 --> 02:09:02,720
Speaker 1: booked on another flight for four days. They wound up

2359
02:09:03,080 --> 02:09:08,080
Speaker 1: getting there, but everybody was so frazzled by the time

2360
02:09:08,680 --> 02:09:11,400
Speaker 1: that they finally got there, like six o'clock on Christmas Day,

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02:09:12,040 --> 02:09:14,280
Speaker 1: that I gotta tell it wasn't worth it. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: worth it. It's like it's like either And by the way,

2363
02:09:20,280 --> 02:09:22,560
Speaker 1: nobody could have seen the Southwest meltown coming. And this

2364
02:09:22,720 --> 02:09:24,720
Speaker 1: was the leading edge of it. This was the very beginning.

2365
02:09:24,720 --> 02:09:27,240
Speaker 1: It wasn't nearly as bad as it became. But you

2366
02:09:27,400 --> 02:09:30,520
Speaker 1: gotta know, Murphy's law is if you're trying to get

2367
02:09:30,560 --> 02:09:32,840
Speaker 1: somewhere on the day of something will get screwed up,

2368
02:09:33,480 --> 02:09:35,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like it's inevitable, Like

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Speaker 1: why why are you risking it? So that's I don't

2370
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Speaker 1: think that will ever happen again in our family. Needless

2371
02:09:40,960 --> 02:09:45,160
Speaker 1: to say, Christmas was a little tenuous because you know,

2372
02:09:45,280 --> 02:09:47,840
Speaker 1: people were a little wound up about the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Did you have to wait till open your presence? Friend?

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Speaker 1: Where where you was so mad? No? No, no, we

2375
02:09:55,120 --> 02:09:59,760
Speaker 1: opened We opened a lot of them the day before. Well,

2376
02:09:59,800 --> 02:10:02,880
Speaker 1: but we save some. That's that's the other thing. That's

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Speaker 1: the other thing. So were we supposed to wait on

2378
02:10:04,960 --> 02:10:09,000
Speaker 1: everything Christmas until they decided to show up? Maybe? Just yes? Yeah?

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02:10:10,240 --> 02:10:12,760
Speaker 1: The rest you could? You could go out, Caroline if

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Speaker 1: you want to. You should have seen me. I was

2381
02:10:18,000 --> 02:10:21,560
Speaker 1: standing next to a cat die just singing, singing. You know,

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02:10:21,680 --> 02:10:24,080
Speaker 1: nothing makes me feel more like Christmas, and standing next

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02:10:24,080 --> 02:10:25,640
Speaker 1: to a cat die with a Santa head on a

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Speaker 1: candy cane saying Joy to the world or whatever. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: is that even a Christmas song? Not even a joy

2386
02:10:32,280 --> 02:10:34,440
Speaker 1: I was thinking of joy to the world, all the

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Speaker 1: boys and girls. I was thinking of the joy fish jo,

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Speaker 1: which is not not a Christmas song. Yeah, that's not

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Speaker 1: a Christmas song. I just I don't know. I think

2390
02:10:48,480 --> 02:10:51,400
Speaker 1: that either you're all in on Christmas or you're out.

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02:10:51,840 --> 02:10:57,320
Speaker 1: That's what I say, showing up on Christmas traditions, like

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Speaker 1: ane of them are a family. They want to do

2393
02:11:00,480 --> 02:11:02,520
Speaker 1: their own traditions. They have their own house. I do

2394
02:11:02,640 --> 02:11:05,880
Speaker 1: the same thing, like we used to do Christmas Eve

2395
02:11:05,960 --> 02:11:08,720
Speaker 1: and Christmas at other people's houses. And then Jess and

2396
02:11:08,800 --> 02:11:10,960
Speaker 1: I who started a family, and we're just like, hey,

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02:11:11,120 --> 02:11:13,800
Speaker 1: you know, we want to do Christmas, ash want we

2398
02:11:13,880 --> 02:11:16,640
Speaker 1: want Aston open his gifts at his house Christmas morning

2399
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Speaker 1: and do all this stuff and then well we'll see

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02:11:18,440 --> 02:11:21,560
Speaker 1: you guys later. See And I get that. I understand that.

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02:11:21,640 --> 02:11:27,320
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. If, for example, if Colin her husband,

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Speaker 1: if if it was really important to their family that

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02:11:31,560 --> 02:11:34,720
Speaker 1: he's there on Christmas, and so we have to rotate

2404
02:11:34,880 --> 02:11:37,280
Speaker 1: years or something like you know, I don't know, Amanda

2405
02:11:37,360 --> 02:11:39,320
Speaker 1: gets this year and they get next year and whatever.

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02:11:39,480 --> 02:11:41,720
Speaker 1: That's one thing, and I wouldn't I got nothing to

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02:11:41,760 --> 02:11:44,640
Speaker 1: say about that, Like that's fair. You know, that's what happens.

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02:11:44,680 --> 02:11:46,600
Speaker 1: I know in a lot of relationships where they got

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02:11:46,720 --> 02:11:48,680
Speaker 1: to do they gotta figure out a way to accomment

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02:11:48,760 --> 02:11:51,960
Speaker 1: and everybody on the holidays. But sometimes you know, one

2411
02:11:52,000 --> 02:11:53,960
Speaker 1: person doesn't get to see their family on this day

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02:11:53,960 --> 02:11:56,440
Speaker 1: and then they do one another day, so fine. If

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Speaker 1: they lived in the same city as the rest of us,

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02:12:00,240 --> 02:12:02,320
Speaker 1: I would also understand if they wanted to wake up

2415
02:12:02,360 --> 02:12:03,720
Speaker 1: do their own thing. And then, you know, I don't

2416
02:12:03,840 --> 02:12:06,760
Speaker 1: drive across town. It's very different having to go to

2417
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Speaker 1: the airport, jump on a plane and travel halfway across

2418
02:12:09,640 --> 02:12:12,760
Speaker 1: the country on the day itself, I think, and then

2419
02:12:12,880 --> 02:12:15,680
Speaker 1: look what happens. You know, the flake is delayed or canceled,

2420
02:12:15,680 --> 02:12:17,520
Speaker 1: and then the whole thing gets messed up. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just think either I don't know either come to Christmas.

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02:12:20,200 --> 02:12:26,880
Speaker 1: It don't come to Christmas? Right. I don't think it's unfair. No,

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02:12:27,040 --> 02:12:29,000
Speaker 1: I agree with you for it. As a single on

2424
02:12:29,200 --> 02:12:31,240
Speaker 1: in my family with no kids, it's like the kids

2425
02:12:31,280 --> 02:12:33,520
Speaker 1: are the star of the show. So nothing can start

2426
02:12:33,600 --> 02:12:37,040
Speaker 1: with the grandparents until the kids arrive. Don't play games

2427
02:12:37,240 --> 02:12:40,600
Speaker 1: with our holidays. Just make arrangements to either be there

2428
02:12:40,800 --> 02:12:42,560
Speaker 1: or don't be there so that we can all move on.

2429
02:12:42,960 --> 02:12:45,520
Speaker 1: That's what I And the other thing is this, And

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02:12:45,600 --> 02:12:47,760
Speaker 1: I say this with all the love possible. I love.

2431
02:12:48,400 --> 02:12:50,000
Speaker 1: Why what's the why does it look on your face?

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02:12:50,080 --> 02:12:52,480
Speaker 1: You don't you just you don't agree? No, it's I

2433
02:12:52,560 --> 02:12:54,880
Speaker 1: don't agree. I just I don't know. Why does it

2434
02:12:55,000 --> 02:12:56,760
Speaker 1: have to be so black or white. You're in or

2435
02:12:56,840 --> 02:13:04,160
Speaker 1: you're out, and you never go against the family. I know,

2436
02:13:04,720 --> 02:13:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm stressing. That didn't help anything. I'll tell you that.

2437
02:13:09,120 --> 02:13:12,960
Speaker 1: But you're going and I know that you do this, Rufio.

2438
02:13:13,000 --> 02:13:14,480
Speaker 1: And I say this with all the love in the world,

2439
02:13:14,800 --> 02:13:21,840
Speaker 1: but but you guys with kids, you guys use in

2440
02:13:22,240 --> 02:13:26,000
Speaker 1: the nicest way possible. You guys use the kids as

2441
02:13:26,120 --> 02:13:29,720
Speaker 1: leverage to get things. You know, whether it's for you

2442
02:13:30,080 --> 02:13:32,400
Speaker 1: or for the kids, or to increase your status in

2443
02:13:32,480 --> 02:13:42,200
Speaker 1: the family or your true you know, don't don't even

2444
02:13:42,280 --> 02:13:46,360
Speaker 1: tell me that that people don't leverage access to the

2445
02:13:46,480 --> 02:13:52,800
Speaker 1: grandkids for stuff. It's true. I mean, don't tell me, Rufio,

2446
02:13:52,920 --> 02:13:55,760
Speaker 1: that you haven't been like Ashland wants this and and

2447
02:13:56,000 --> 02:13:58,280
Speaker 1: and you've played one of the grandparents to make it happen,

2448
02:13:58,400 --> 02:14:00,400
Speaker 1: because it's because then that you don't have to pay

2449
02:14:00,440 --> 02:14:02,280
Speaker 1: for it. Don't pay for it. I've done it to you, friend,

2450
02:14:02,360 --> 02:14:06,360
Speaker 1: So I go there, you go and guess what. And

2451
02:14:06,480 --> 02:14:08,800
Speaker 1: that's that's fine with me because I love Ashland so much,

2452
02:14:08,800 --> 02:14:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't have to raise the kid, so I'll buy him,

2453
02:14:10,800 --> 02:14:12,480
Speaker 1: you know whatever, It's fine. You can. You can play

2454
02:14:12,520 --> 02:14:14,920
Speaker 1: me like that, And there's nothing that makes me happier

2455
02:14:15,240 --> 02:14:20,280
Speaker 1: than my niece her little laugh. I mean she could, honestly,

2456
02:14:21,440 --> 02:14:23,880
Speaker 1: she could convince me to do almost anything for that

2457
02:14:24,000 --> 02:14:26,440
Speaker 1: little laugh. And then and and Ashland when he smiles,

2458
02:14:26,640 --> 02:14:29,160
Speaker 1: it makes me so so happy. But if you're gonna

2459
02:14:29,240 --> 02:14:33,200
Speaker 1: do that, then you also have to understand that we

2460
02:14:33,360 --> 02:14:35,840
Speaker 1: want to be around the kid too, Like you gotta,

2461
02:14:35,880 --> 02:14:38,160
Speaker 1: you gotta, you gotta fulfill your end of the bargain,

2462
02:14:38,400 --> 02:14:41,280
Speaker 1: and that might be inconvenient for you, but you gotta,

2463
02:14:41,320 --> 02:14:44,080
Speaker 1: you gotta present the kid if you want the stuff,

2464
02:14:44,840 --> 02:14:46,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I just feel a friend

2465
02:14:47,520 --> 02:14:51,080
Speaker 1: your your Christmas tradition has been the same since you

2466
02:14:51,160 --> 02:14:54,200
Speaker 1: were a kid, Like you haven't been in a latter relationships,

2467
02:14:54,240 --> 02:14:55,400
Speaker 1: you haven't been in a you haven't been in a

2468
02:14:55,400 --> 02:14:58,240
Speaker 1: relationship over the holiday to even the space you know,

2469
02:14:58,600 --> 02:15:01,280
Speaker 1: going to another house for the It's always been Mom's

2470
02:15:01,360 --> 02:15:03,600
Speaker 1: house for Christmas. That sit. But like when you get

2471
02:15:03,640 --> 02:15:05,720
Speaker 1: to that point where you meet someone and you have

2472
02:15:05,800 --> 02:15:08,120
Speaker 1: a family and you have your own kids, you want

2473
02:15:08,160 --> 02:15:11,160
Speaker 1: to start your own traditions and there's nothing wrong with that,

2474
02:15:11,640 --> 02:15:14,800
Speaker 1: Like you could still do Mom's house later in the

2475
02:15:14,880 --> 02:15:18,120
Speaker 1: day or whatever. But when you when eventually you get

2476
02:15:18,160 --> 02:15:20,320
Speaker 1: your wife and your child, you're gonna want to start

2477
02:15:20,360 --> 02:15:24,840
Speaker 1: your own traditions. And that's how I feel. Yeah, well

2478
02:15:25,160 --> 02:15:27,760
Speaker 1: it's got it. When Mama fred gets up and she

2479
02:15:27,880 --> 02:15:30,280
Speaker 1: listens to the podcast later, she's gonna cancel all of

2480
02:15:30,320 --> 02:15:32,720
Speaker 1: her Amazon orders for Ashland. She mat at you. Now,

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Speaker 1: when when Mama Friend finds out that you're in a

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Speaker 1: committed relationship, she'll be like, where are you gonna be

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Speaker 1: at friend, because I'll come to you. I know that

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Speaker 1: for a fact. She'll change everything for Freddie Boy. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well that's true. Thousand bucks Next on The Friend Show,