1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: This is Kelly Henderson and you're listening to the Velvet 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Edge podcast. This week, my guests are Ashley Iker and 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: Hunter Kelly, who are co host of the hit Nashville 4 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: podcast All our favorite People. I've also been friends with 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: this duo for years, which I do believe you'll be 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: able to hear in the tone of this podcast. We 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: bounced from topics of Ashley and her pageant days as 8 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: Miss Tennessee two, Hunter's deep relationship and fascination with Naomi 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: and Winona Jutt. We covered pop culture hot buttons such 10 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: as Aaron Carter's meltdown, and also addressed the moment when 11 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: Beyonce stopped using words publicly. They both told me their 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: best and worst interview experiences, and from people who have 13 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: been employed by everyone from Rolling Stone to ABC, they 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: had quite a few stories to tell. There was everything 15 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: from belly laughing to singing, and it goes without saying 16 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: that these are officially two of my favorite people in Nashville. 17 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: Here's our conversation. Can you sing me a little more 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: of that tim a Girl song straight from There's a 19 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: Salt Together, Never rep and once we just speaking all 20 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: the world. I wish I need to sign language, loving 21 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: any language. You know. What I've really just noticed is 22 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: that you guys harmonized so well together just then, and 23 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: you were so in sync. So it's very obvious to 24 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 1: meet you guys have known each other for a long time. 25 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: So how did y'all meet? I mean, it's been like, 26 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: we're not really sure fifteen years now. I think it 27 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: has longer. Actually when you were when you were working 28 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: with Winona, I would have been hovering around trying to 29 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: get into the organization. We actually, as you did well, 30 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: we had a restraining order. Oh so you've come really 31 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: far then from restraining order to do friendship. That was yeah, 32 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: because I was working for Winona and Management right out 33 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: of college, so that was my first job, and that's 34 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: probably where we met because you were in radio at 35 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: that point. I wasn't ready about were you there in 36 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: two thousand five or you've already lived. I was in 37 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: working for the Governor Tennessee, Philip Reticent, while I was 38 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: a spokesperson for the governor and other things. The other 39 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: things because I was when I was miss Tennessee. So 40 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: it feels weird to talk about it. From that, she 41 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: talked about being missed Tennessee more, But no, I think 42 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: you would have been so I would. As soon as 43 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: I got into country music in two thousand five, I 44 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 1: was around one other things much as possible. So I 45 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: think we figured it out that my first interview with 46 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: one owner was at a blood drive, and I think 47 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: you were there co hosting the blood driver. That's what 48 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: we're going to I have that photo popped up the 49 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: other day of like you know, in Facebook memories, and 50 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: so it was me wine Onwa, her ex husband, and 51 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: our friend Rondel and I was literally I came here 52 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: if she was wearing the crown or if I was 53 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 1: wearing the crown. But yeah, we did co host a 54 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: blood drive while I was Missingnessey because I had to leave. 55 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: That's got to be the same event. Because how many 56 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: blood drives in Middle Tennessee? Does one owner Joe Tapira, 57 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, but that man's yeah, I mean I 58 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: think that's right anyway, So yes, for a very long time. 59 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: And as you both kind of mentioned, you have some 60 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: extensive backgrounds and interviewing, but you were telling me you 61 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: actually like to be interviewed, Hunter, I really do like 62 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: to be in to do. Is it weird though? When 63 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: you're usually the one interviewing. It's it's just exciting for me. 64 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: I think, Well, mostly I just go to my therapist 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: for this kind of time, you know what I mean. 66 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: So at least once every two weeks I'm interviewed for 67 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: a full hour. Okay, actually, though you're paying her, so 68 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: you know, it's just really funny. Um, guys have to 69 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 1: be interviewed just because I don't do it very well. Yeah, 70 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: but I always find to have a lot to say. You, 71 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: oh lord, you do have a lot to say all 72 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: the time. Well, he's a blessing. We kind of touched 73 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: on the fact that you have a pageant background, Ashley, 74 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: So can you tell us more about that, like did 75 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: that help you with your interviewing skills? Which you say, well, 76 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: so I went to college from music business. So I 77 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: just thought I was going to be a manager or 78 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: a publisher, and but I got into the pageant world 79 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: in college on a bet from one of my story sisters. 80 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: Because if you knew me in college, I was a 81 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: girl that, on a good day, wore mascara loosely sweatpants 82 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: every day like a very much a tomboy. I grew 83 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: up with all boys, and so in college you know 84 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,920 Speaker 1: Miss Mt. S U which is where I'm to school. 85 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 1: They have all the strorities put somebody up and um, 86 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: some of my story sisters were like, you can seeing, 87 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: you can speak, You're doing it, and I was like, 88 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: y'all are crazy. Also might have made fun of Paget 89 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: Girls at that point in my life, but um. Also 90 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: Miss Congeniality came out at the same time Love Sandra Bullock, 91 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: and I was like, the movie's very foundational for you. Well, 92 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: and I really feel like so anyway, I end up 93 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: MTSU one. Miss Congeniality then eventually went on compete at 94 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: Miss Tennessee. I went to Miss America and then that 95 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: became my job was being a spokesperson for the governor 96 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: and traveling and speaking all over the state. So I 97 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: literally went into this and I joked because I was 98 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: like Sandro Bolock and miscontinuity. I was like, what have 99 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: I walked into? And then before you knew what you won? Yeah, 100 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: that's crazy. What I loved about it was that my 101 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: job was to travel did like five speaking engagements a day, 102 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: different city every night for a year, speaking in schools 103 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 1: and in different cities across the state, and communities about 104 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: respect and character. Education. That was your platform. Now, that 105 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: was part of the partnership with the Governor's office, and 106 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: the different education was for me to travel and speak 107 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: in schools about respect and character and that type of 108 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: thing and so and then I would sing in all 109 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 1: of them. So what did you sing? It was a variety. 110 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes it was ain't no mountain high enough? Sometimes give 111 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: us a natural I don't think I did natural woman 112 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: actually wow. So yeah, So it was a wild ride. 113 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: And then at the end of that, that's when ABC 114 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: was doing the deal with the c m A to 115 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: start the television program for the CMA. Words seem fast 116 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: and I've done enough TV at that point. It just 117 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: sort of opened up and they hired um. I think 118 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: the first year was Dean Sands from Lone Star and 119 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: I co hosting this digital series, and the next year 120 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: was like me and Luke Brian and Jake Owen and 121 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: I just went on from there. I just went on 122 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: from there. So I never thought this is what I 123 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: would be doing now, But it seems like a natural transition. Like, 124 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: as you said, the thing about making fun of the 125 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: pageant girls, I went through that phase too, But now 126 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: I know a lot of people who have done that 127 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: in the past, and there's so much that you guys 128 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,799 Speaker 1: take away from that, and everyone is so well spoken 129 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: and well. I mean I think about like there's no 130 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 1: the training ground of speaking five speed engagements a day. 131 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: It's different city every night. I wouldn't have gotten that 132 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: any other way. And I mean I joked that I 133 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: made fun of Paget girls. I really did, But then 134 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: I met all of these incredible women both ar state 135 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: level and then the national level, and like all the 136 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: girls I competed with, like we I mean, we'll we 137 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: keep up on Facebook, but there's like we have a 138 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: little private group and we'll all try and see each 139 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: other every couple of years. And so it's great because 140 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: you didn't realize that you were actually making these relationships 141 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: when you're competing against each other, right, and getting ready 142 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: for Miss America is not an easy So we don't 143 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: really like tuna anymore? Is that all you ate the 144 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:26,119 Speaker 1: chicken with nothing on it, egg whites and vegetables Disney's diet. 145 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: So we volunteer even to this day getting helping get 146 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: ready Miss Tennessee for the interview process. I do. I 147 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: love it. You're like a mentor. Well, no, I go 148 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: in there and interview them. So Alison to Marcus and 149 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: her family run the Alison's married to Jay and it 150 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: was a part of frastop and so we go in 151 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: and help her get ready with our current events or 152 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: like their platform and flash out what they're going to do. 153 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: And it is intense, like it's very it's not you know, 154 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: they have celebrity judges, right, I think it could be 155 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: softball questions, but Miss Tennessee really goes through a lot 156 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: to get prepared. You really have to know who you are. 157 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: I feel like in these situations you have to have 158 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: an opinion too and be able to back in. All right. 159 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: That's the thing that I even now see with artists 160 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: is that if you give me an answer in an 161 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: interview that I can tell either someone's told you to 162 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: say or has been fabricated. I'm like, I don't care 163 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: you do much judging anymore. No. Actually, hilariously, you say 164 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: that someone emailed me this week asking if I would 165 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: judge Miss Nashville this weekend, and I can't. I judged 166 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: it before, but it was good. I wasna you were 167 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: Miss nash you know. Lean Wommick was as well, do 168 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: you guys remember as much about pageants? Well, I was 169 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: just about to say one more thing to remember the 170 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: girl that was like in such as and so on 171 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: and such as. I still say that, it still comes 172 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: in my brain. I think it was Miss Universe. Universe 173 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 1: is more about your looks, right, So, yeah, they're separate systems. 174 00:08:56,160 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: So has Talent America chalel. I mean that's how I've 175 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: paid for my master's from the scholarship. That's amazing. Yeah, 176 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: but then USA is the feeder to Miss Universe and 177 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: got it? You really you gotta be hot and smart. Yeah, hot. 178 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: And that's the one that Trump owned for years. Eventually 179 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: he devested for the presidency just to keep those things 180 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: separate or he just said some really inappropriate things. And 181 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 1: I think the network was they parted in the network 182 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: party ways senior organization. What give us the little little 183 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: bit of Joe though? Is there anything about a pageant 184 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: that she could tell us that's like, what's the worst part? 185 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: I mean the worst part is walking in a swimsuit 186 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: in high heels in front of people. And the tuna diet. 187 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: Tuna diet was pretty terrible. The girl's caddy at all, 188 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 1: I mean some candy. There was one girl from Miss 189 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: America that to this day, I'm just liken not your face. 190 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: There was no need for that. She just read everybody. 191 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: Now did she win? I can't say what she's doing 192 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: now because then you would look her up and be like, 193 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: we know who she is? She said the Northeast Okay, 194 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: way northeastern state. But well, yeah, but the most part, 195 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: all the girls are pretty great. But what was your question? 196 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: I just wanted some tea on pageants like Spell the Juice. Now, 197 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 1: one of the things that I did do that we 198 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: all did is that you would wrap, you would put um. Well, 199 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: first of all, you always like shaded your abs and 200 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff, like to make it look 201 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: like you had more apps. It was stuff called I 202 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: called it pooping tea. Yeah, you like would drink this 203 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: tea and it would make you like it's like it 204 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 1: was a diet, very strong diuretic. Was it called smooth? 205 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: Have you ever had that? But I know what you're 206 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: talking about that. I got mine in Jackson, Tennessee. From 207 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: a sketchy listic in quotes, they're some of the crazier things, 208 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 1: like you would put preparation h oh yeah. And then 209 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: wrap your stomach and cellophane and then sleep and because 210 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: it tightens it right apparently right like thirty seconds, right right. 211 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't. I do not advise or promote any of 212 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: these things. These are just things that you did on 213 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: Designing Women's Season, Sugar Becker. I love a designing woman. 214 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: Reference Vassilie on her teeth tepper smile does happen? I 215 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 1: think I might have done that once. I did have 216 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: a wardrobe malfunction. This is post Janet or pre Janet. 217 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: This this would have been like two thousand to that, 218 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: pre pre Janet. You're a pioneer. Well, let's just be real. 219 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: My dress was too tight for my body. And did 220 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: you think you were universe? Mom? So I was. This 221 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:54,599 Speaker 1: was actually Miss Nashville, And as I was about to 222 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 1: walk out on the stage, the dress split all the 223 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: way down the back. Yeike for my performance. That happened 224 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,599 Speaker 1: to me recently at Whiskey Row with the skirt. But 225 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: that's another story. Tell us about that, you know, that'll 226 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 1: be that's another episode. We'll get to that at some 227 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: other point. All had our own wardrobe essentially. Yes, So 228 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: let's get back to interviewing, because I think you guys 229 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: are both great interviewers. What do you think the keys 230 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: are to a good interview? I'm still I'm still learning listening. Okay, 231 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: tell me more listening, because I think too often, like 232 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: I'll seen interviews and we I will do this sometimes 233 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 1: where I'm I'm thinking way too far ahead, right and 234 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: kind of jump ahead as opposed to listen to what 235 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: they're saying and then trying to weave that into the 236 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 1: conversation where we wanted to go. So I think that's 237 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: the key, is listening to people as opposed to being 238 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,559 Speaker 1: so worried about your own agenda as the interviewer. Like 239 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: some of the most some of the best moments in 240 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: an interview happened because you didn't plan them right, and 241 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: if you stick so strictly to your outline, you might 242 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: miss them. Yeah, some of the things some of the 243 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: best advice I ever got was reading Barbara Walter's memoir 244 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:06,239 Speaker 1: talking about getting ready for interviewing Fidel Castro, and so basically, 245 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: you know, they go over their notes. They have all 246 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: these notes that are planned out, and you kind of 247 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: have the order and everything, and you get it in 248 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: your head um and then you're able to go in 249 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: and kind of have it in your head and do 250 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: the interview. It's like you're like walking on air or something. 251 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 1: You know, Like so you're you have the outline in 252 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: your head of what you want to ask, but you're 253 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: still present enough to not be so fol I would 254 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: be afraid I would forget well, you might like I 255 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: have to have notes right in front of me at 256 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: least like as a guy of us. But it's kind 257 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: of you can just well. And that's another thing about 258 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: having a co host that's wonderful. Oh totally. If you 259 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: start to space out, they can pick up well. And 260 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: I think too, Like one of the things that we've 261 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: learned and doing a podcast, like anytime I used to 262 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: go interview and artists, whether we would do it for 263 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: like ABC or Rolling Stone or whatever it was, you know, 264 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: you're not doing as many interviews probably in a week 265 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: as I feel like in a long form like these. 266 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: For a podcast interview, it goes so in depth that 267 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: you need to be able to go with the flow 268 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: of the conversation and go a little bit deeper without 269 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: just having these five talking points. And so I think 270 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,439 Speaker 1: that's been the great thing for us is like when 271 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: I start to blank on where did we want to go? 272 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: Or what do I want to ask next? Or I'm 273 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: trying to kind of pull together whatever he said, and 274 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: whoever interview and said like he can chime in. So 275 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: that's we've really had to learn kind of how to 276 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: bounce off of each other's in the beginning. If you 277 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: go back and listen to old episodes we are, there 278 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: are times when we're talking on top of each other. 279 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: That's a tricky one with two people because we're both 280 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 1: very animated and have a lot to say. Or so 281 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: I produce our show and so if something's going wrong 282 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: like it did yesterday in an interview we were doing 283 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: a technical on the technical side, Ashley can just carry 284 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: it for a minute while I'm like, oh, that's wonderful. 285 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: And so the Barbara Walters thing I was talking about though, 286 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: like getting ready, we we get together and we you know, 287 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: we have a document on the Google drive and we 288 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: basically if we're not together in the same room, we'll 289 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: just get on the phone and like kind of add 290 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: to the same document. Um. But really I just let 291 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: it kind of ferment in my head for a while, 292 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: like what do I want to ask or what do 293 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: I want to talk about and then I'll just find 294 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: it just like flows out like this is, and then 295 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: you arrange them to make to make it make sense. 296 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 1: Oprah also said, tell me everything, I'll let the energy 297 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: of the conversation. Let the energy of the conversation guide 298 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: where we go. So it's kind of a hybrid of 299 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: like preparation but also listening. Yeah, and I think that's 300 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: been the thing too, is like what I've also learned 301 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 1: in us working together on this is that I very 302 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: much have my own process of how I get ready 303 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: for an interview, and Hunter very much has his, and 304 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: so he's so far ahead that he's always like he's like, 305 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: I've sent you a list of the questions and I 306 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 1: want to ask, and I'm like, and I'll tell him, like, 307 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm not reading them until I go through and kind 308 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: of figure out where I want this to go as well, 309 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: and then we can kind of combine and a lot 310 00:15:56,520 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: of times we're on similar pages. But otherwise I would 311 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: just read what he said. I'm like, oh, yeah, we 312 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: can do that, or vice person, I'm like, that's not 313 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: what we want to do, because you want to have 314 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: your two separate voices. Have you ever had an experience 315 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: where it was just terrible on the podcast or just 316 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: in general. Have you had a terrible interview? I mean, 317 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: some people are really hard to talk to you, right, Well, 318 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: some people it's like pulling teeth, like when they give 319 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: the one word answers yes, yeah. And that's another thing. 320 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: You learn how to not ask yes or no questions. Right, 321 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: that's the where you're going to go, Like you can't 322 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: ask yes or no questions. Well, it's also something so 323 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: occasionally I'll media train artists and it's something that I'll 324 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: tell artists like if someone asks you yes or no question, 325 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 1: I need you to always add additional information, Like you 326 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: need to say like yeah, if someone says like how 327 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: is your day, like it was great, I did X, 328 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 1: Y and Z, Like you can guide the conversation and 329 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: where you wanted to go. It's like mind games in 330 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: an interview sometimes, what do you mean? Well, I think 331 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: so often it's like people get into interviews and think 332 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: that the interviewer can drive the conversation. But really, as 333 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: a subject, if you're a good interviewee and you know 334 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: what you want to cover, you can drive where you 335 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 1: want the conversation to go by the answers that you 336 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: drop in the way that you do it. Are you 337 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 1: doing that right now? Kind of? But that's what I 338 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: teach a lot of clients. There are masters um Reba 339 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: and Dolly masters. If you go just what Tricia. Tricia's great, 340 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 1: Like what do they do to give me examples? Well, 341 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: everybody's going to ask Dolly about everything under the sign, 342 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: and so she can you can just like watch her 343 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: do it artfully and she'll give you a little bit, 344 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: but then she's able to bring it back to what 345 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: she wants to talk about in her purpose for being 346 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: there that day. And so that's a thing like when 347 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: you're interviewing somebody like that, Like when I go in 348 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 1: and it's like Rebair Dolly, you know, it's like you 349 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: have your stuff together and you're ready, you know, you 350 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, because they're really very busy people. You know, Yeah, 351 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: you don't want always their time, and you can you know, 352 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: they're looking at you and you're like blanking. It's really 353 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 1: the Muscary experience on the face of the earth. Has 354 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: that happened to you, Oh my gosh, I would freak 355 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: out about one. In two thousand and six, I was 356 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 1: pretty still pretty new and I went to see reb 357 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: in Vegas and I had just come back from a 358 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: wedding in Seattle, and as best man, I got a 359 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: new satchel, new leather satchel, and I was going to 360 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: use it for all of my interview stuff. So I 361 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 1: was so excited to go backstage at the Las Vegas 362 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: Hilton interview Reba with her key to the heart, with 363 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: my new satchels. What's the difference between the satchel and 364 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: a merse, Well, it was a it was a glorified merse. 365 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: I just need to get a mental picture. So I 366 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: go in there and I have this new recorder and 367 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: I really don't know. I just started working with ABC 368 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: Radio at the time, and I did not pack extra 369 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: like cards, so I did not know how to delete 370 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: and make extra rooms. It was full. So Reba graciously 371 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: gave me a phone interview later. She was so great 372 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: about it. But I'm just thinking, it's like, you just 373 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: don't want to mess up in a situation like that, 374 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 1: like flying into a city and you know, for an interview, 375 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: for an interview, and then you don't have the space 376 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: on a car. Yeah, you live and you learn. Unfortunately 377 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 1: in this business do you really do? And no one 378 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: knows any everything, and if they act like they do, 379 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: they're full of crap. No, And it's honestly like in 380 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: my experience, it's been different with every single person, so 381 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: you can't really I mean, you definitely get the experience. 382 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 1: But I was going to ask you guys who your 383 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: favorite interview was, but I can't imagine if you've interviewed Dolly, 384 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 1: I don't know who would be better. I still have 385 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: an interviewed Dolly. That is just goals right there. I'm 386 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: trying to think of, like, favorite interviews. I don't know, 387 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: what do you feel like has been the most important 388 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: thing that you've learned? And podcasting the interview the listening 389 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: thing that you said. That was told to me very 390 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 1: early on by Bobby. He was just like, you can't 391 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: go in with such an agenda that you miss what 392 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: the conversation really is. And I think that's what you're like, 393 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: what you're saying about Oprah. What I know from listening 394 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 1: to her is she seems so engaged in the conversation 395 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: and with the person, And that's why I'm so drawn 396 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: to those interviews. She's present exactly instead of thinking about 397 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: like you should be like. She's definitely informed, but she's 398 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 1: also engaged. I think what we do with a lot, 399 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: especially like we get to know these artists in town 400 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: when they're babies and they're open to everything. Yeah, so 401 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 1: it's it's sometimes really weird, i would say, or harder 402 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: um when you have a relationship with him, but you 403 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 1: see like they're they've gotten their first taste of like 404 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,360 Speaker 1: being in a tabloid or being their guard goes up 405 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: and it's such a different interview really, and in some 406 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: ways it's really kind of heartbreaking because you know that 407 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: like that trust or that easy conversation you had, like 408 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: there's now a filter on it, and they're not really 409 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 1: as present. They're filtering what they're saying and they have 410 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: to um. And I've seen some artists that I've worked 411 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 1: with over like the past fifteen years, like they blow 412 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 1: up and then they get really defensive, and then eventually 413 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: they're able to come through like live some life and 414 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: come back and be present again. And that's a great thing. 415 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: But it's just really it's an interesting thing, you know, 416 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: to go with somebody from being just like a new 417 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: artist trying to make it to like really really famous 418 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: really quickly. That's a mind I bet you here well, 419 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: and I think too. But watching that evolution for people, 420 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 1: because you know, so many artists are like blowing up 421 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: in their early twenties and then by the time they 422 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 1: hit their middle lay thirties, it's kind of like we 423 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: talk about we've had a different you know, you've lived 424 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: some life. At this point, you see them kind of 425 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: come back to being really comfortable in their own skin 426 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: and comfortable with what they're wanting to say, and if 427 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: you don't like it, they're okay with it, you know. 428 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: And so I like to tag off what you were saying, like, 429 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: I love seeing that in people. But now you know 430 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: that I'm in that bracket of like mid thirties to 431 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: late thirties, You're like, I see where it's because we've 432 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: lived a lot of life that we're kind of coming 433 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: back to, like, Okay, I'm comfortable with saying something and 434 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: I said five years ago because I've been so scared whatever. 435 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: You think. Often say that when an artist is like 436 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 1: a superstar level, like for the first five years, it's 437 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: really to do an interview with him is not that 438 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 1: interesting or engaging because the like it's harder to get 439 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: anything off the cuff. Their guard is up. Um, it's 440 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,879 Speaker 1: only like when they're new and then like afterwards, when 441 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: they like a just and are able to like, you know, 442 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,679 Speaker 1: do it that you get interesting stuff. But a lot 443 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,919 Speaker 1: of times, like interviewing the people who are like at 444 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,360 Speaker 1: the upper echelon, you know, it's kind of like, you're 445 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: probably not going to tell me much because I'm not 446 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: people magazine, right, And that's what you're saying when you 447 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: can tell their people have told them what to say, right, 448 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: or that they've had I mean I saw that a 449 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: lot in the pageant world, and it's been interesting to 450 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: see it in you know, the music world, just when 451 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,160 Speaker 1: people feel and a lot of that boils down too. 452 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: You're not comfortable in your own skin and you're just 453 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: trying to or you have someone that's so controlling, like 454 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 1: you're just feel like you're doing a dance and so 455 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: but that doesn't work, It doesn't connect with people, because 456 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: authenticity is that connects people. That's why Dolly is so 457 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: great though, for real, because she can throw in those 458 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: one liners and makes you also think that you're getting 459 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 1: to see this authentic s out of her and she 460 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: just owns who she is so much. You know, but 461 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 1: like you said, she's actually very strategic when there are 462 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: other artists to who I love their music so much, 463 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 1: but I don't necessarily think that all our favorite people 464 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 1: is the right format for them, because I think a 465 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: big part of their appeal is that they are mysterious, 466 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 1: or that they don't say much, or maybe they're not 467 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:46,880 Speaker 1: really good at talking. Yeah, like some truth interview. Well, 468 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: I actually always say I never want to meet her 469 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: in person. A great interview and she's like shy, right, 470 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: she's a little shy, and she just you know she 471 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: I mean, you watch interviews with her at the beginning, 472 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,959 Speaker 1: and it's just guess, are not going to have Beyonce 473 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: on our favorite podcast? That was that was never going 474 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: to happen? Oh the World Hunter, any dream big enough, 475 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 1: anything can happen. This is you guys are growing in public, 476 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 1: just like we're talking about these artists. So, oh my god, 477 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: it's totally mess about interview. But the thing is, she's 478 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: just so much more effective when she doesn't like talk everywhere, 479 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,919 Speaker 1: because then like the only information you're getting from her 480 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: is her music, and it's so she's able to communicate 481 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: so much through music. She's not able to communicate by 482 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 1: going through and doing all these interviews. That is how 483 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 1: she communicates. Though we know about the whole jay Z 484 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 1: cheating thing through her music, we would never know that 485 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: in an interview with fascinating because really for most of 486 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: the mid part of this decade, she didn't use words. 487 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: It was like that New York song Madonna, Madonna's song 488 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: bed TOMPs worries that your wrote today is the last 489 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: day that I'm using words. They've gone out, And it 490 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: was like you to stop using words, Yeah, stop using words. 491 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: Beyonce on Instagram it was just photos. It was just fast. 492 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: I remember when she started using words again and it 493 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: was a big, big deal. On your text chain, it 494 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: was a big deal. It's like Beyonce, he's using words again. Well, 495 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: you know, you're actually really leading to me to the 496 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 1: next topic I wanted to talk about with you, which 497 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: is your love of pop culture, actually your wealth of 498 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: knowledge about pop culture. I mean, it's unbelievable to me 499 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: that we're on a text chain, you in Courtney and 500 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: all of us and we talk about things. I mean, 501 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: there's things that you text us that I get a 502 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: text from you with an update of something that's happening, 503 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 1: and then I get a buzz feed notification of it, 504 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: but you're before you really you bring it to me 505 00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 1: before sometimes. Well, so that was news that was so 506 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: ABC Radio. I was in like tied into ABC News 507 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: for breaking news. So that's what my whole world was. 508 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: So for ten years I was plugged into not just 509 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 1: with country music, but everything going on with every story 510 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: ABC News was covering was in my email. And so 511 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: that gives me anxiety. I did not realize what level 512 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: of anxiety I was living with for that ten years. Um, 513 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 1: but it also taught me, you know, just to move 514 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 1: like quickly with stories. So I would, you know, be 515 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: getting the stories and moving on them very quickly. Uh 516 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 1: So it's just built into you. Now, it's built into me. 517 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: But it's I think I've always been fascinated by pop culture. 518 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: Like when I was in third grade, my favorite teacher ever, Ms. Tompkins, 519 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: had Us Magazine and People Magazine, and I would get 520 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 1: done with my work quicker than the other kids. Says 521 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: She'd let me read them and we would like talk 522 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: about pop culture all the time. And Mom still tells 523 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 1: this story. Did we tell this that like one day 524 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 1: she knew I was sick. Miss Tompkins knew I was 525 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 1: sick because Elizabeth Taylor's boyfriend, Malcolm Forbes, had got and 526 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything about it, and I really was sick, 527 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: like I just didn't feel well, but she knew because 528 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 1: I had not told her about Elizabeth Taylor's boyfriend that day. 529 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: Is none of this is not at all, But I 530 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 1: mean to your point, Kelly, like it really is. There's 531 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: stuff that Hunter pulls out, just a normal conversation that 532 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, should I know this from like or from yesterday? 533 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: I just the bank of information living in your brain 534 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 1: is it's just so extensive. It's very impressive. I welcome 535 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 1: genius on pop CULTUREL Well, just how they don't have 536 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: you on more television shows as like an expert. I 537 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 1: don't know, we're gonna work. Well, we need to really 538 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: pitch that. Here's the pitch right here, we're putting this 539 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,239 Speaker 1: into the world. I love doing that kind of thing. 540 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: I think it's on the vision board. I think it's 541 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: just really you know, as a child, just was always inside, 542 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 1: like I wanted to watch television, it was like or whatever. 543 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: Music like that was what was fascinating to me. I 544 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,080 Speaker 1: never wanted to go outside and play. Really yeah, interesting 545 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: always sucked into. Do you think I've learned to balance 546 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 1: it a little better? I mean, and in this day 547 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: and age, there's no way to be upon everything you 548 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 1: can't keep up. So you do a pretty good job 549 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: speaking of these topics that what are things on your 550 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: radar right now? So basically when I need to unwind 551 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: at night and just like not read the real news 552 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: of a friend of mine turned me onto the Daily Mail, 553 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: and I love the Daily Mail and it is just 554 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: so good because it's a bunch of pictures, but it's 555 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: not It's just kind of straight news. But I can't 556 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 1: believe some of the stuff that they posed. So this 557 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: is coming out like Bob Barker in a wheelchair in 558 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills this week. Barker is still a lot from 559 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: the prices. Wow. And then Gwyneth Paltrow, I'm obsessed with 560 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: her new has been bred Fauchi producer. So apparently they 561 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: weren't living together and so they're finally living together, and 562 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel got it out of her that she let 563 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 1: him bring some chairs into the house. Well, okay, can 564 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: we dive into this topic a little bit because Gwyneth 565 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 1: is known for the conscious uncoupling as well. So she's 566 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: very progressive in these relationship issues. So I guess in 567 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: her conscious couplings like, okay, these are the chairs she 568 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: can bring into the home. I mean, so what they 569 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: were married for a year, is that the deal before 570 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 1: he moved in? They both have what was the arrangement kids, 571 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: and so they were trying to bring them together. I mean, 572 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: I do understand the melanie, especially when you have a 573 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 1: million dollar home in the Hampton's. Is that where they 574 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: moved well, they both I think they probably both had 575 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: houses and the st from each other. And I know 576 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: that her I know that Gwyneth's place in New York 577 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: is like sick because we have a friend who like 578 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: goes and stays there sometimes. Well, but that's kind of 579 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 1: my question is why it's not like they don't have 580 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: the space. So it's a whole different world when you're 581 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: talking about like the people with multiple homes and what 582 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: does really moving into your house moving in together mean 583 00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: when you have seven homes around the world? Right, But 584 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: did they say that they stay together? I think I 585 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: read somewhere that it was like they stayed together like 586 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: two or three times a week. I can't speak to 587 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: them okay, which is my favorite phrase, I can't speak 588 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: to that well. And he did that. When when do 589 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 1: you say that, I say, I can't speak to that well. 590 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 1: In this case, I don't know. But it also leads 591 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: you to believe that maybe I know something, but I 592 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: just can't. I just can't say it. I can't speak 593 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: to them, okay. I mean, he's grinning while he's saying. 594 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 1: I used to wonder, though, So I used to law, 595 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: asked you a question you don't want answer. You can't 596 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: speak to them, you know what. I used to wonder. 597 00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: So back when we so now like I have YouTube TV, 598 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: so it goes everywhere. It's just in the cloud. Back 599 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: when we had DVRs and we were allowed on defense 600 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 1: still happen. I still got dr I was watching it 601 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: last night with my Taco Bell. Taco Bell will night. Well, 602 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: I bet in a dinner and then I drank some 603 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: wine and then I'm like home. I was like, I 604 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: should probably eat something. And on the way home, the 605 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: only thing there was was Taco Bell. I was like, well, 606 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: what did you order? I guess I'll go on a 607 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: dtox next week. Tax has been held off calling it out. 608 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: I did three hard shell tacos. I'm delicious, Oh Pepsi, Wow, 609 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: I'm really part of the preference Cocacola. But if it's 610 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 1: not unless there's a sponsorship on here and then I 611 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 1: need to Okay, you can feel free, but that's you know, 612 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 1: the partnership of Pepsi's Taco Bell. So there's no options 613 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: a young brands. It is all young brands from Louisville, Kentucky, 614 00:31:55,600 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: your hometown hometown. You're right anyway, So we were talking 615 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: about can't speak to that with our little talk about tangent, 616 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: but you were you can't speak to what were we 617 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: saying that multiple homes? I used to wonder and I 618 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,479 Speaker 1: would ask my friends who had access to people who 619 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: had multiple homes, what do you do with your DVR 620 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: in season past? Like? Is it up to each house 621 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 1: manager to make sure that your shows are set up? 622 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: Are set up? It seems like you could have one 623 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: account for all your house, your homes in different countries, 624 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: you'd have different cables. You Lucky for us, we don't 625 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: have that problem. Doesn't have the one that the mega 626 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: rich we're not seeing grayce anatomy man really worried. I 627 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: understand keeping up at night. They can watch it wherever 628 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 1: in the client you. Thank goodness, they solved that problem 629 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 1: for the Internet. So I was looking though I kind 630 00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: of tend to I think with pop culture it's really 631 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: like sometimes I'm into like people who are famous for 632 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: no reason, like me reality stars. Yeah, shuts fire, that's 633 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 1: not true. Okay, your favorite guys, I don't consider I 634 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 1: don't consider you that way. You like actually like, well, 635 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: because I'm not famous, I didn't say that you're famous. 636 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: People love you on planes that that's true than just 637 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: you can't take himself out of this one apologize. I 638 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: don't consider you really think I care. I'm just working 639 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 1: with you. People who are famous for no reason, Like, 640 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: give me some examples. Well, there was this person I 641 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 1: used to readalisted dot com a lot. Oh, I've heard 642 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: about this site and I kind of came back to 643 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: it recently. But I used to be my Bible and 644 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 1: there was this woman that was around l a that 645 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: And this was before Instagram. So that's kind of thinking 646 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: of like, if you have an Instagram following, like, then 647 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 1: you like are actually doing something too. I consider because 648 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: I consider Instagram television now it's so true, and audience 649 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: on Instagram you're doing something to engage your audience. There's 650 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: something happening. But as this woman I forget her name, 651 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 1: but he would call her chicken cutlets just because her 652 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: implants on her cheeks look like chicken cutlets. Her cheek 653 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 1: implants did, yeah, looked like she had like two chicken 654 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:31,399 Speaker 1: cutlets up in the I forget I forget her name. 655 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: She was in l A and she would just show 656 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: up and she kind of looked like Lana del Rey 657 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,919 Speaker 1: would like lighter red hair. But she would just show 658 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: up and for no reason, and he would just follow 659 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: her everywhere she went, like she would show up at 660 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:48,399 Speaker 1: all these parties. There's this guy listed dot com, listed 661 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,279 Speaker 1: dot com, so he's Michael Kay. You listed dot com. 662 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 1: So when Jessica Simpson came to do her country album 663 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: about ten years ago, I remember, the only thing I 664 00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: wanted to talk to Jessica Simpson about was chicken cutlets. 665 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: I was like, do you know this woman? Did she know? 666 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: She's never heard? Jessica. You like have a career and 667 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: you're legit famous and make like three hundred million a 668 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 1: year on your fashion line, but do you know this 669 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: woman lightning chicken cutlet? Well? I forget her name. I 670 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 1: wish that you could remember. I don't know a girl 671 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: with what do you say? Chicken cutlet facing plane? Oh 672 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: my god. We also mentioned this is a little bit 673 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 1: of a side tangent, but last time when I was 674 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 1: texting with you, you brought up your current obsession with 675 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: the Aaron Carter situation. It's really like, it kind of 676 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,240 Speaker 1: reminds me of watching Brittany in the Mid two things. 677 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: Because Brittany, while her Instagram account is concerning right now, 678 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: it is a little concerning. You know, she's probably getting 679 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,400 Speaker 1: the help she needs. Aaron Carter, I mean, it's just 680 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: kind of nuts. I didn't really know much about the 681 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: Carter family until I watched on them, and that's really 682 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: got what got interested, just because of all the kind 683 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: of dysfunction that goes on. So now there, I mean, 684 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,800 Speaker 1: the stuff that's come out about Aaron, like restraining orders 685 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,719 Speaker 1: from the brothers, that he's like thing to kill their 686 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: baby pregnant. Now they're pregnant, white, isn't it. And then 687 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: he was taking a drug test on television. I've seen 688 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 1: him on the Doctors when he was kind of having 689 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,280 Speaker 1: downs and stuff, And for some reason I just started 690 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:26,640 Speaker 1: following him on Instagram, and I'm really concerned for him. 691 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,320 Speaker 1: This is me projecting because I can't remember if it 692 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,800 Speaker 1: was him. Was it was he one of the guys 693 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: that was accused of assault. That was Nick. I think 694 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 1: that was Nick, the Backstreet Boy that And that's what Aaron. 695 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: That's what Aaron is saying. He's like, I'm not the 696 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 1: only crazy, like he's airing laundry about them, saying that 697 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: Nick assaulted somebody. He's actually trying to team up with 698 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,320 Speaker 1: the girls on Twitter and well the other day he 699 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,760 Speaker 1: was like he was tagging the FBI in his post. 700 00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: Oh god, your god, just don't contact the f Well, 701 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 1: maybe you do in this day and age, contact the 702 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: FBI via Twitter. I mean you could probably contact the president, 703 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:20,760 Speaker 1: so might as well mental health. This is an interesting 704 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: thing with the child stars though, because you mentioned Brittany. 705 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a little worried about Brittany these days too. 706 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: I have a special place in my heart for her. 707 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: Do you guys know about this? Jojo? See? Why see 708 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 1: what wasn't there just a concert? There was? She's the 709 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 1: big rage right now with all the kids. She's like 710 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 1: sixteen though, and I'm like, she's going to be a monster, 711 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,879 Speaker 1: and I'm just waiting for her to shave her head 712 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: and do have her brittany moment. I don't know how. 713 00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 1: They don't know. I know, but if you're selling out 714 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: arenas at the age of sixteen, you have no capacity 715 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,880 Speaker 1: to deal with real way. I mean there is no 716 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 1: way I can't imagine. I mean, well, well, Arne, I 717 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 1: will be You didn't have that, I mean that was 718 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 1: a local celebrity. All right, how have you adjusted? Hard? Hard? Yeah, 719 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: the transition. I'm sure he did not send you his 720 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 1: rider before we came back. I'm so sorry that I 721 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 1: did not have She had coffee with all wind milk 722 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: and sparkling water. I mean I didn't. I didn't have 723 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: your red Eminem's for you. Are those specific? You didn't 724 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 1: have bring it? You didn't have his right his turkey 725 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:29,880 Speaker 1: wrap perfect. I'm so sorry. I really failed to. Okay, 726 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: So obviously you guys have a lot of interviewing situations happening, 727 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: but you also got these side projects that I'm so 728 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: obsessed with. First of all, I was watching Dollar Club 729 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 1: this morning, Ashley. I've seen a lot of these and 730 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 1: they always make me crap. Can you tell everybody what 731 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 1: that is that you do. So the Dollar Club, it's 732 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 1: my volunteer gig. Yeah. Um. It started about five years 733 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,359 Speaker 1: ago and the church should I go to in town 734 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,640 Speaker 1: called cross Point, which is when the massive churches in town. 735 00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: They had this idea that if you could have everybody 736 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 1: pulled together just like a dollar, put in a dollar, 737 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: pull that money together, find a need in the community 738 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: that needs to be filled, and go fill it. Because 739 00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 1: so many people feel like, especially in this town where 740 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 1: it's like there's so many creative, so many college students, 741 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 1: they want to be able to give back, but they 742 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 1: feel like if they can't give a lot, then it's 743 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:19,960 Speaker 1: not going to make a difference. And so they have 744 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,840 Speaker 1: this idea like, okay, well everyone could do a dollar, 745 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 1: so pull that money together. So they did, but they 746 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 1: added caveat as they send me and our video team 747 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 1: into whoever the beneficiary is that month, and it ends 748 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: up being anywhere from seven to ten thousand dollars every month. 749 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: This month that we actually just filmed this week is 750 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,279 Speaker 1: going to be. Um. I think I can say this, 751 00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 1: but it's gonna be liked. I saw one today where 752 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 1: it was like ad That was when we went to India, yea, 753 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: I sobbed like a year insane. Um. So basically we 754 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 1: go in and I just get the story. They have 755 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: no idea what it we're doing. Just tell them like 756 00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 1: we're going to share their story. And then you know, 757 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,760 Speaker 1: there's always some hardship and it could be a family 758 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: and individual, it could be. Uh, we've done some around 759 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: the floods and Mountain Rouge. We went to Vegas for 760 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 1: one obviously, just went to India a year ago, um 761 00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 1: and help build a boy's home over there to help 762 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 1: get boys out of it. Well when you say boys home, though, 763 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 1: I mean the video kind of does it just as 764 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 1: I feel like, because you can see the slums that 765 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 1: they're living in. You can see even the building that 766 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: they were building is like wrapped by this train and track. 767 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not this glamorous life but survival almost right. 768 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: And otherwise, I mean the hope there's you know, there's 769 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: not a lot of hope in the slums for life 770 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,840 Speaker 1: and drug uses rampant and so anyway, Um, So we 771 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: started that like five years ago and do it once 772 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 1: a month, and it has been the greatest gift in 773 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,839 Speaker 1: my life to get to be a part of that's 774 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: really what your heart wants to do though right You 775 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 1: said that in our text earlier too, you said, my 776 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,680 Speaker 1: heart really is really towards telling great stories that encourage 777 00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: and empower other It's all over the world, and this 778 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: is something where it's where I realized the power of 779 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 1: a story, because at that point the only interviews I've 780 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: ever done were really with artists talking about records, and 781 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: there was just sort of something in my gut that 782 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 1: was like, I feel, I think I've been given these 783 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,280 Speaker 1: gifts to be able to do this and tell stories 784 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 1: in this way, but I want to be able to 785 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,320 Speaker 1: do it in a way that is, you know, like 786 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,319 Speaker 1: you said, encouraging power of the people. But I've never 787 00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 1: told a serious story before until I sat down to 788 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: do a dollar Club and was terrified. And then it's 789 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,280 Speaker 1: just sort of evolved into this thing where of everything 790 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,319 Speaker 1: I do, I get stopped about that more than anything else. 791 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: And you just see where the power of our stories, 792 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 1: how we see ourselves in them. But then when a 793 00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: community comes together to help other people, the massive difference 794 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 1: it can make. So it's just every time we film one, 795 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: the team and I always just step back and are like, 796 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: why do we get to be totally a part of this, 797 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: and well, one, it gives you perspective of your life 798 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: and how lucky all of us are. But when you 799 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 1: see the faces of those people, when you guys tell 800 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 1: them you have the money to help them, I mean 801 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 1: that that's obviously when the tears start flowing. I mean 802 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 1: I can't right. I used to be able to control it, 803 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: and I think I was just in some sort of zone, 804 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 1: like you know, back in the day, I felt like, oh, 805 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 1: I need to be like the perfect interview in da 806 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,880 Speaker 1: da da da. And then when you really let yourself 807 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 1: be present in the moment, it's just that's where the 808 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 1: beauty happens. And so I basically crying. Everyone just let 809 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 1: it down. You got to Yeah, and I see you 810 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 1: bringing that into all our favorite people as well. How 811 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,480 Speaker 1: does she do that? Well? So when we started all 812 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 1: our favorite people, actually and I wanted to work together 813 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,719 Speaker 1: for a long time, and it finally worked for us 814 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,399 Speaker 1: just too. We were having coffee and we were both 815 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 1: um for the first time in a long time, not 816 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,240 Speaker 1: working for a major tied to a major media company, 817 00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 1: and so we got together and just kind of tried 818 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: talking to each other. Um for all our favorite people 819 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: just to see what would be like our energy back 820 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: and forth on literally was like, why don't you come 821 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: over and let's just try this and I get over it. 822 00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 1: As how Alison, we sit on his kitchen table and 823 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 1: he's got a recorder going. I was like, Okay, there 824 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: we go. Yeah, let's do it. And so but you know, 825 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,239 Speaker 1: we're very intentional on the show about having shining a 826 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: light on people that we want. We think you're going 827 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: to get something out of knowing what they're doing or 828 00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,439 Speaker 1: you know what they're making, or just that they're great 829 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 1: or funny people. And like, so Ashley and I like, 830 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 1: you've really that's a thing, like we really want these 831 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:32,080 Speaker 1: people on the show to like encourage and also it's 832 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,759 Speaker 1: drawing out the heart of who people are. And yeah, 833 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 1: I've just learned so much in the last couple of 834 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: years after going through a lot of turmoil in the 835 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,280 Speaker 1: last ten years, and really in the last couple like therapy, 836 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 1: which I was talking about because I love it and 837 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,439 Speaker 1: it's the best and hardest thing I've done, digging into 838 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: your crap, but it can be so free and I 839 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: think I learned so much when people are actually vulnerable 840 00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 1: and and real about the stuff, um, and that's what 841 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: you know, we all go through things and we can 842 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,400 Speaker 1: learn something from each other. So and then how can 843 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,640 Speaker 1: we just be better to each other? And so I 844 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: mean even like you know, you come on the podcast 845 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: or anybody that we've had on, it's trying to get 846 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 1: to the heart of who they are and what really 847 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: matters to them, but doing in a way that it 848 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 1: kind of connects all of us on a really human level. 849 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 1: I think the connecting piece that I think that's so 850 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: true because the connecting piece that I always fill with 851 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:27,000 Speaker 1: people is when I hear them be vulnerable, be vulnerable 852 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:30,800 Speaker 1: and honest. Especially these artists are these people who seemingly 853 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,880 Speaker 1: have everything together on the outside and then you go, 854 00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 1: wait a second, they're not so different than me. Like 855 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 1: I think that I just in the last couple of years, 856 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 1: and we've talked about this, like I struggled so much 857 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: with like the Instagram perfect life and comparison, and like, 858 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 1: how am I supposed to function with this? And I 859 00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 1: feel like I'm supposed to be perfect on I'm like 860 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,799 Speaker 1: this is bs. I would rather have these really real 861 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,920 Speaker 1: conversations in us, like you know, and figuring out how 862 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:58,759 Speaker 1: you want to function within that to where you know, what, 863 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,800 Speaker 1: how do I want to say this? I just everybody's 864 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,360 Speaker 1: like people are having a hard time, so it's like, 865 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 1: how can we really, like we said, encourage the part 866 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: each other, but also like have fun. Like that's been 867 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 1: the fun thing for us is yes, we'll get to 868 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,240 Speaker 1: the heart of stuff on the podcast, but we also 869 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 1: I mean we laugh a lot and have this great 870 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 1: I mean it's great, right, there's a lot of hilarity. Well, 871 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 1: that's a good that's a good balance. I think that 872 00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: you guys both bring where maybe you can pull some 873 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 1: of the heart strings out and Hunter's got a lot 874 00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: of the humor coming at you. Just happened. Just the 875 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:33,320 Speaker 1: balance guys together too. You never really really but like 876 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,840 Speaker 1: that's we laugh about because people are like, are you 877 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 1: trying to make me cry? I'm like, no, I'm just 878 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,359 Speaker 1: like asking the questions that you're just asking the real questions. Well, 879 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: and y'all's description you even say, these are our favorite 880 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,919 Speaker 1: people that we've connected with in some way, shape or form, 881 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,879 Speaker 1: And this is about the messiness of life, which that's 882 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 1: how life is, right, It's just everybody's kind of messy, 883 00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,759 Speaker 1: and for the most part, we have to meet the 884 00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 1: people before they come on the show. I didn't meet 885 00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 1: you before, did well? She she I was. I was like, 886 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,760 Speaker 1: we're going to have Kelly. Yeah, she'll be awesome. Sometimes 887 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: it's like sometimes it's like getting to know them on 888 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 1: the air, and that's a wonderful situation. That's happened a 889 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:14,360 Speaker 1: few times for me that I've like come away meeting people. 890 00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 1: But for the most part, it's kind of like, Okay, 891 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,000 Speaker 1: we kind of have a like we'd like to meet 892 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: before and because it just allows for a different conversation yea, 893 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,879 Speaker 1: when the people are really familiar, at least to one 894 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 1: of us, try to make it for the most part, 895 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: but like for you, it was actually you actually knew 896 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: each other very well, so I'm able to bring in 897 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 1: kind of getting to know you right, which I think 898 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,480 Speaker 1: also for the listener, they're getting to know you. For 899 00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,800 Speaker 1: like when we have Beth Granted and the character actress 900 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 1: who has been in like all these Oscar winning movies, 901 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:52,080 Speaker 1: like she knew her well, I knew her. Yeah, Like, 902 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,479 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you're and everything right, and she's friends 903 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,640 Speaker 1: with Sandy Bullock and I'm like, God, your girls congenous. 904 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, when kind of she s best too, when 905 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: I also feel like Hunter, I feel like I knew 906 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 1: you the second I met you. We just connected on 907 00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 1: the I wanted you from listening to the Velvet Stche podcast. 908 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:12,160 Speaker 1: I was like, oh yeah, like I just you know, 909 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 1: already already bought a book that you'd recommended. By the 910 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 1: time we met, it was on your desk when I 911 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 1: walked in. I'm just so thankful to bring this new 912 00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,600 Speaker 1: friendship together. I will say our group text with Courtney. 913 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 1: I got out of something yesterday and I was it 914 00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,279 Speaker 1: had been maybe an hour, maybe an hour and a half, 915 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: and they were like twenty eight text messages and most 916 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 1: of them were the two of you, and I was 917 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 1: Courtney's brittish. So Courtney is our friend who's in publicity 918 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:41,120 Speaker 1: here in nash She's so. I was down to Kylie 919 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:46,360 Speaker 1: Minogue video Rabbit Hole and Robbie Williams, and I'm fascinated 920 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: by how big artists are overseas or in different parts 921 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 1: of the country and we cannot even know about them 922 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 1: over here. Yeah. Yeah, So I'm a fan of Robbie Williams, 923 00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,880 Speaker 1: who's huge, massive over there, and he honestly have no 924 00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:02,839 Speaker 1: clear you're talking about yeah, exactly. He kind of had 925 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 1: a brush with fame in America. Give me a song. Um, 926 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,319 Speaker 1: I'm loving Angels instead. Oh I know that, And it's 927 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:15,040 Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson cover to bring it back to Jason Jason. 928 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:17,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, So I just needed to talk to her 929 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: about that, and it's just fascinating to me. I'm glad 930 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 1: you included us on that conversation, right, the more you 931 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,839 Speaker 1: know you no one else I'm fascinated about, like an 932 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,919 Speaker 1: artist who has a separate career outside of America, Slingdon's 933 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 1: French career really yeah, I don't know, but what She's 934 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:36,320 Speaker 1: also huge in America, massive, but she has a completely 935 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 1: different catalog of French hits in other parts of the world. Median, 936 00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:45,520 Speaker 1: she's French Connectian. Do you guys remember her rap song 937 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:54,360 Speaker 1: Cheator like a Lady One Man? And it's just like 938 00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:59,880 Speaker 1: that's something you have any of your other guests just 939 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 1: broken into song crazy don't like? Okay, I have to 940 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 1: talk about since we're singing, let's talk about the Juds 941 00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: for a second, because I mean, first of all, I 942 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: did not know you both were connected to the Juds, 943 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,840 Speaker 1: which just was mind blowing to me. But Hunter is 944 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:25,440 Speaker 1: currently doing this this project called Neon Songbooks, which I 945 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,640 Speaker 1: got super sucked into this morning as well. I can't 946 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 1: wait to finish a need to finish episode one so 947 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 1: I can get onto episode two. Um, but what so 948 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,839 Speaker 1: what made you tell us first of all about the project? Well, 949 00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 1: Neon Songbooks started around the same time as all our 950 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:45,840 Speaker 1: favorite people. Okay, so which was what about a year ago? Okay? So, 951 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,919 Speaker 1: I uh a company I was working. I was working 952 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 1: a Cox Media group and the company folded. The park 953 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 1: just folded, So you know, I lost my job rare 954 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 1: country right, lost my job, but got a good severance 955 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 1: and kind of was like, for the first time in 956 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,800 Speaker 1: fifteen years able to figure out like, okay, what do 957 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 1: I want to do? You know, and kind of move freely. 958 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 1: And it was really what a dream project for me was. 959 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,520 Speaker 1: I always wanted to talk. I always took every opportunity 960 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: to talk to one on in Naomi Judd, and their 961 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: story for me was so ingrained in my love of 962 00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 1: music because when I was three years old, I was 963 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,880 Speaker 1: like drawn to their harmonies and then growing up just 964 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: just love their music. It was like that acoustic thing. 965 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 1: It was tied in with a mountain. The mountain kind 966 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 1: of music and grew to just love them so passionately, 967 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,719 Speaker 1: to the point that when I was fourteen, I was 968 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 1: the section leader of the One on a Fan club 969 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 1: on Company Serve, which was a was a O L 970 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 1: and Compy Serve. Never even heard of copy, sir. It 971 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 1: was like before a O L just took over. It 972 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,680 Speaker 1: was school high school. I was fourteen years old, hosting 973 00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,400 Speaker 1: one on a fan chance, doing one on a give ways, 974 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:03,640 Speaker 1: writing about wine note, writing posts about wine own, not 975 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: like seriously what I did at ABC News. I was 976 00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 1: doing at fourteen for wine Own on online. And so 977 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 1: her album Tell Me Why I came out and only 978 00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,800 Speaker 1: three when I was twelve, and it really just opened 979 00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: me up to um everything is as far as like 980 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:23,760 Speaker 1: Bonnie Bonnie Ray, Emmy lu Harris, Linda Ronstadt, James Taylor, 981 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 1: like all these people who made these singer songwriter records. 982 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 1: And so that album is still to this day my 983 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,480 Speaker 1: favorite album ever. But with the judds Um they are 984 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 1: larger than life. On Oprah. They were on Oprah all 985 00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,359 Speaker 1: the time. They have their own Oprah show, and there's 986 00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:42,800 Speaker 1: always something there so honest about what's going on with 987 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,320 Speaker 1: their life and their their their drama and troubles and 988 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 1: that really endears them. But what gets lost in that 989 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 1: is just how brilliant the music is. And so I 990 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,560 Speaker 1: decided that I for myself, but also to kind of 991 00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 1: get it back out there. Why the Judds deserved to 992 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:06,560 Speaker 1: be Like in the country music, they're not what they're not, 993 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,080 Speaker 1: and they're starting to get passed over like people who 994 00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 1: came out after them were starting to get ahead of them. 995 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,400 Speaker 1: And I just don't think that the powers that be. 996 00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 1: I think I think the drama or their personalities kind 997 00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 1: of overshadow what they did, which was really there in there. 998 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,800 Speaker 1: They predate Randy Travis. You know, they're in there with 999 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 1: Reba and Ricky Skaggs as getting country music back to 1000 00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:35,840 Speaker 1: the roots in the heart of what it was in 1001 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 1: the eighties. But I mean, fourteen number one hits in 1002 00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,239 Speaker 1: six years, how do you, yeah, how do you pass 1003 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: over that? Well? I think it's just gotten lost. So 1004 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,680 Speaker 1: I went and got it together to interview Winona and 1005 00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:51,080 Speaker 1: Naomi in depth, plus their producers Brent Mayer and bandleader 1006 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,320 Speaker 1: Don Potter, and also a lot of their contemporary so 1007 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:59,480 Speaker 1: Reba Trician, Ricky Skaggs, Emmy Lou Harris Um and then 1008 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 1: the people they influenced Trish I think I mentioned Tricia 1009 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 1: Kicks Brooks, Shane mcinally, and Brandy Clark to talk about 1010 00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 1: the story of the music of the Judge, So it's 1011 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,440 Speaker 1: about it starts with when they discovered music and started 1012 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 1: singing together and how they formed this music out of 1013 00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,399 Speaker 1: there because they loved everything they loved like big band music, 1014 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,839 Speaker 1: they loved bluegrass music, they loved country music. So they 1015 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: were soaking it all in and then they were able 1016 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,719 Speaker 1: to with Brent and Dine, formed this sound that just 1017 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 1: still to this day sounds so fresh and and just 1018 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,479 Speaker 1: the thought that went into it. And so it really 1019 00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 1: is it's only covering up until the Judge, the duo 1020 00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,759 Speaker 1: breaks up. I was very intentional about just wanting to 1021 00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,759 Speaker 1: focus on that because why known as story is still ongoing. 1022 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,280 Speaker 1: But the thing is, why don't a Judge's voice loves 1023 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:55,080 Speaker 1: me away? And so to see her evolution, I mean, 1024 00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: she started turning out of the gate at eighteen, just 1025 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 1: sounding like a million bucks singing on number in country hits, 1026 00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,080 Speaker 1: but then you see her coming into her own and 1027 00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 1: Naomi as a songwriter and just it's just such a 1028 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:10,800 Speaker 1: brilliant story that's not really told the prompt. The problem 1029 00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:14,040 Speaker 1: is a thing of the tenacity of them. I mean, 1030 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:17,760 Speaker 1: like we're coming from nothing from nothing, like the story 1031 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 1: of you know, Naomi and the hospital I need a 1032 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:24,360 Speaker 1: nurse and um. But you know you I've loved watching 1033 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 1: him develop this project because one having worked for why 1034 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, for several years, which I did not know, 1035 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,440 Speaker 1: by the way, that's crazy, that's awesome. But you know, 1036 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,360 Speaker 1: she's one of the reasons that I'm in this business 1037 00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,959 Speaker 1: now because growing up I just loved the Judd's music 1038 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: and then you know, and we just love singing it. 1039 00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 1: It's like her intrition Shanaian. So it's been fun like 1040 00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:49,160 Speaker 1: to watch Hunter dive back into all of this because 1041 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm learning so much. I mean I learned, I learned 1042 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,560 Speaker 1: so much putting this together. But it's intense, Like these 1043 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,920 Speaker 1: episodes are like an hour long. It's probably gonna be 1044 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 1: about seven episodes, and it really is is a really 1045 00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 1: intense project that I loved it because it's really like 1046 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,560 Speaker 1: putting together a book, like and I think it probably 1047 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,800 Speaker 1: could be a book at some point. The problem that 1048 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 1: we've run into is really licensing songs, like so we've 1049 00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 1: been talking to everybody as far as like partners in 1050 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,920 Speaker 1: the podcast world and everything, and it's just the amount 1051 00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 1: of songs that we want to license for this is 1052 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 1: cost prohibitive, so figuring out or if anybody has fifty 1053 00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:31,360 Speaker 1: but I need to figure I need to figure it 1054 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,440 Speaker 1: out because it really is so special. And it's also 1055 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 1: they deserve this, and you know, and I think that 1056 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to like whatever one own is now 1057 00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,840 Speaker 1: moving into Americana, that whole world a little more and 1058 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,839 Speaker 1: she was rightfully should be there, the kingpins of Americana. 1059 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 1: I love the Jets music. Um so yeah. I think 1060 00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:54,000 Speaker 1: it's really just they are so important to me. They're 1061 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,320 Speaker 1: so foundational for me that I want them to have 1062 00:55:56,480 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 1: their place, their proper place, and be respect for the 1063 00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,239 Speaker 1: music that they brought to the table and how they 1064 00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: changed the game in country music. I will say, I 1065 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:09,000 Speaker 1: give the Kim Burns documentary that just happened. Country music 1066 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,719 Speaker 1: did give the judge their due, and I was really 1067 00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 1: glad to see that. I'm dying. So they go through 1068 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 1: and they get as much time as Reba Ricky snags, 1069 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: you know, and so their place in there. I hope 1070 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,800 Speaker 1: that will help establish. But it's really, so the idea 1071 00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:28,080 Speaker 1: for it neon some book. At first, it's just started 1072 00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,320 Speaker 1: out as the Judds because I love them and I 1073 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:31,960 Speaker 1: want them to go in the country music Call of Fame. 1074 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 1: But then I realized, there's all these other artists who 1075 00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 1: have now fifteen year careers. We need to start shaping 1076 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,720 Speaker 1: your narrative why you matter. Like I look at somebody 1077 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 1: like Carrie Underwood, who we just saw the other night, 1078 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,360 Speaker 1: and I remember when she first got to town, you know, 1079 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 1: just from American Idol and the career that she's built. 1080 00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,239 Speaker 1: I mean, if you just said, hey, this girl on 1081 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,040 Speaker 1: one American Idols. She's got a great voice and the 1082 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,120 Speaker 1: career that she's built. As far as being like selling 1083 00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,000 Speaker 1: out these arenas, putting together these shows that rival Reba's 1084 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 1: back in the nanties, which it needs to be Entertainer 1085 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 1: of the Year this year. Won't drop that right oh okay, 1086 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 1: right now saying yeh, but you think she needs to be, 1087 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm just I would love to see her. I would 1088 00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,040 Speaker 1: love to see her with that show is insane because 1089 00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 1: a lot of times with the Entertainer of the Year, 1090 00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,479 Speaker 1: you'll see like they deserve it for this year because 1091 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 1: they've gone over the top, but like the body of 1092 00:57:22,160 --> 00:57:25,680 Speaker 1: work as well, and Carrie has has done that over 1093 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,680 Speaker 1: and over again. So I think like Carrie is a 1094 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,200 Speaker 1: prime candidate at some point to do something like a 1095 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,880 Speaker 1: Neon song book, because you, as the artist who have 1096 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:35,880 Speaker 1: this long career, want to have first crack at how 1097 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: you're remembered, right, you know. I also just see I mean, 1098 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,200 Speaker 1: like we were talking about we started this, like you're 1099 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:43,720 Speaker 1: such a wealth of knowledge and stuff that the rest 1100 00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 1: is like I just don't remember. We think about and 1101 00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 1: I really feel like in looking at the next generation 1102 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 1: of I feel like you'll be the next generation of 1103 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 1: historian of country music, which I mean I've always said 1104 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:57,680 Speaker 1: I want my Walmart Greater job to be at the 1105 00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame, like I want to just like you 1106 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 1: should people who are like old as hell, yeah you 1107 00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 1: know where they work up in there. You absolutely should 1108 00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,520 Speaker 1: be the face of the whole thing. Well, but your 1109 00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,080 Speaker 1: your heart for it, your passion for it, your wealth 1110 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 1: of knowledge, and the way I think to just watching 1111 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:22,320 Speaker 1: you from the outside, the way you've poured into this project, 1112 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 1: and I have no doubt that it's going to see 1113 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: the light of day in a massive way at some 1114 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:28,840 Speaker 1: point it's just it's just got to find the right 1115 00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 1: home and the time he's got to be right. Well, 1116 00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:32,240 Speaker 1: I have to say, when I was driving over here today, 1117 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,240 Speaker 1: I was listening to episode one, and I didn't want 1118 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: to get out of my car. First of all, Like, 1119 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,400 Speaker 1: your questions are amazing and you're right, like you're it's 1120 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,920 Speaker 1: definitely geared towards the music, which is what I want 1121 00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 1: to know from an artist. You know that we don't 1122 00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:45,760 Speaker 1: always get to hear the back stories, but they are 1123 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: such an interesting duo to just listen to speaking like that, 1124 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 1: the way that they talk and just the stories they tell, 1125 00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:57,160 Speaker 1: especially with them because it is so the music is 1126 00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 1: so tied up with their relationship, right, And if you're 1127 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,640 Speaker 1: going to talk to the judge, getting them to talk 1128 00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:05,440 Speaker 1: about the drama that goes on between them is so 1129 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,040 Speaker 1: much more compelling in a bite sized format. And like, 1130 00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:12,040 Speaker 1: here's how we are musical evolution, right, But the musical 1131 00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: evolution um that they went through and caused in country 1132 00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 1: music needs attention. Well, I also need to talk about, 1133 00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,920 Speaker 1: you know, my love for the juds, which oh, okay, 1134 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: so enjoyed this video brought to the by the video 1135 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,360 Speaker 1: you're speaking of is what was. I put this on 1136 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,560 Speaker 1: my Instagram from Seven Peaks this year, which is the 1137 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 1: music festival that Dirk s Bentley does. Dirk's manager who 1138 00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,280 Speaker 1: was also one of my very good friends, Mary how 1139 00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 1: you're Harrington Pistol A pistol if you will. We dressed 1140 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 1: up as the judge for nineties Country Night and also 1141 00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: made a video for Love to Build a bridget. I 1142 00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,200 Speaker 1: was just like, this is the best thing I've ever seen. 1143 00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you well. So I sent this to 1144 00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 1: Hunter in the past week and he sent it to 1145 01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:06,080 Speaker 1: wine Oonah. I'm still dead over that. I can't even 1146 01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:12,080 Speaker 1: process her hair went to Kim's Hair World. She wanted 1147 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:13,640 Speaker 1: to do our hair for us or get us better 1148 01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:15,400 Speaker 1: with yeah you need I mean, if you're going to 1149 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 1: do it, I win his one Owner a few years ago. 1150 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:22,600 Speaker 1: You so want to see pictures of that Halloween, So 1151 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,040 Speaker 1: of course I win his wine Owner from the Tell 1152 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,840 Speaker 1: Me Why album covers the pirate shirt, puffy shirt with 1153 01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 1: the black vest and the red Oh I remember this look? Yes, Okay, 1154 01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 1: my mama used to say that look on One Owner 1155 01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,840 Speaker 1: was like a wicked city woman was a little a 1156 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:41,000 Speaker 1: little concerned about our hair. Well know, she said to 1157 01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:42,680 Speaker 1: me like, I love you, Hunter, and you look great. 1158 01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 1: Don't never do it again. You're outfit me. That's why 1159 01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,200 Speaker 1: I can't believe you sent her our video, wouldn't. I mean, 1160 01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:52,760 Speaker 1: was she flattered or was she annoyed? She loved? I 1161 01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 1: mean with her hair because why don't as much as 1162 01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,520 Speaker 1: why don't loves the music, but also her hair, I 1163 01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 1: mean makeup. If you go back and look, it's intense. 1164 01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,440 Speaker 1: They did all their own hair and makeup. Really now, 1165 01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,400 Speaker 1: they had friend I think Earl Cox, and they had 1166 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,120 Speaker 1: makeup artists, especially for anything you see like album cover 1167 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, Awards shows. Um now Wine had to 1168 01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 1: do Nammies here before the show. Okay. I felt like 1169 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: I just remembered a story where they did all of 1170 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 1: their own. But I could be I don't know what 1171 01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of. Well, that's probably why she's like I 1172 01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 1: should do these girls trying to be me and not 1173 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:32,360 Speaker 1: looking right. If you want to see that video, it's 1174 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:36,919 Speaker 1: on my Instagram under my seven pieces post and also 1175 01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:39,200 Speaker 1: in Wine known as text thread with Hunter, which is 1176 01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: I don't even know what to mean. If you're going 1177 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,320 Speaker 1: to send out like video Christmas cards, I feel like 1178 01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,480 Speaker 1: that should be included I didn't think about that, but 1179 01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:48,160 Speaker 1: that's actually a great idea. Thank you for that. Welcome 1180 01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 1: to Jim. I mean I could barely look up because 1181 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,960 Speaker 1: I was laughing so hard at Mary Hilliard owning that 1182 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:58,520 Speaker 1: wine owner character, Mary Hilliard. It came from such a 1183 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 1: place of love and respect for the judg Absolutely, she 1184 01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 1: was like, we're going to do this justice. I mean, 1185 01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,840 Speaker 1: and I hear them all the time, like on serious 1186 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 1: ex m on like Prime Country and the Garth Channel, 1187 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,400 Speaker 1: Like the juds are a major part of it, and 1188 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:14,440 Speaker 1: I just think they neither do they need to go 1189 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 1: in the country music? I agree, let's start the petition 1190 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 1: where can people find you? Guys? Podcast? Because we mentioned 1191 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 1: a little bit to All our Favorite People podcast which 1192 01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 1: I've been on. It is so much fun. I love 1193 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:29,040 Speaker 1: I listened to the one with Jay to Marcus last night. 1194 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:32,840 Speaker 1: I love him. He's so He's so funny. But like, 1195 01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:34,880 Speaker 1: what was so great about that podcast is sort of 1196 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 1: what we were talking about, where he really kind of 1197 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,920 Speaker 1: dove into the messiness of life and that it's not 1198 01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:43,920 Speaker 1: perfect and he's hit a lot of land what is 1199 01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:47,320 Speaker 1: it called lands? I was gonna say land blocks, roadblocks 1200 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 1: and Landman's command. Um, and that's always interesting to hear 1201 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,920 Speaker 1: about because they've also reached such great success with Rascal Flats. 1202 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,680 Speaker 1: But I love hearing about the back story of this 1203 01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:58,840 Speaker 1: wasn't as easy as it just looked to you guys. 1204 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:02,760 Speaker 1: You know, it's a great podcast. Who else can we 1205 01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,880 Speaker 1: look forward to hearing from? Ons? Podcast? We just had 1206 01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:10,320 Speaker 1: Tricia Year would Beth Quaren by the time this airs. 1207 01:03:10,440 --> 01:03:16,160 Speaker 1: The Kelsey Ballerini and Jason Owen episode Maze we recorded yesterday? Um? 1208 01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:18,680 Speaker 1: Who else have we had on? That? Sounds like a 1209 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 1: bunch of women? Cody Allen was just on Vincel. Were 1210 01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:24,840 Speaker 1: able to talk to him quite a bit about the 1211 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 1: Kimburns country music documentary as well, and that was a 1212 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 1: great conversation. Um, some influencers coming And I'm right now 1213 01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:36,000 Speaker 1: like booking out the rest of this season, so I'm 1214 01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 1: trying to kind of figure out who do we who 1215 01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:39,840 Speaker 1: do we really want to have? When are you going 1216 01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,760 Speaker 1: to have one? Nammi on? It's so funny you say that, 1217 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:44,240 Speaker 1: because as you were talking, I was like, when are 1218 01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 1: we going to have them on? You need to Well, 1219 01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:48,880 Speaker 1: I mean I think it will happen. I like with 1220 01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 1: Kelsey Kelsey Ballerini. When we announced all our Favorite People, 1221 01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,480 Speaker 1: she was the first person to tweet back, like I 1222 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:56,200 Speaker 1: want to be on the show. And it was only 1223 01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 1: like now we're in season three that we finally were 1224 01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 1: able to have the conversation. But it was a great 1225 01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,160 Speaker 1: conversation about where she's headed in her next album cycle. Yeah, 1226 01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:08,000 Speaker 1: you know, it was really all about her relationship with 1227 01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:10,840 Speaker 1: her manager Jason Owen, who's like I called the devil Whisperer, 1228 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,200 Speaker 1: you know we sign. I thought about that yesterday after 1229 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:16,600 Speaker 1: the interview, is like, we need to get more like 1230 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:20,240 Speaker 1: a tag on his car, d v A, w h SPR. 1231 01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm all about the vanity plates, the personal as less place. 1232 01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, so basically, if you want to check us 1233 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:30,960 Speaker 1: out where all our favorite people dot com? Okay, we 1234 01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:35,440 Speaker 1: can have We're on all major podcast platforms Spotify, iTunes, 1235 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:42,880 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts. I'm gonna got Pandora still around you. I 1236 01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,400 Speaker 1: don't know this, okay, So yeah, all our favorite people 1237 01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 1: dot com and check us out. Oh I don't know, 1238 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,920 Speaker 1: maybe I'll beat that out, might get edited for that. 1239 01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,960 Speaker 1: We're on every major podcast and then where where else 1240 01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:59,040 Speaker 1: can people find you guys individually? So you can find 1241 01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: me at ash Lee Ker that's e H e Er 1242 01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, all the places, and then Ashleyker 1243 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:12,000 Speaker 1: dot com has a bunch of the dollar Store obviously 1244 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:16,080 Speaker 1: also need to eat. Yeah right, the Dollar Club, dollar 1245 01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:19,920 Speaker 1: Store date. Okay. The website is about to get a revamp. 1246 01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:24,760 Speaker 1: She's forever revamping your It's hard. It's like, you know, 1247 01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,919 Speaker 1: it's constantly updating. Though, it's constantly updating, and I'm really 1248 01:05:27,960 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 1: not great at word press. I'm still trying to let 1249 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,760 Speaker 1: me there, but I do it every day, you know, 1250 01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,600 Speaker 1: teach me. It's constantly evolving though. He truly is well 1251 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,520 Speaker 1: and I think too after redoing it last year, I'm like, 1252 01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:40,160 Speaker 1: this needs the way I want to do it is 1253 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 1: different vision vision. Okay, So Hunter, where can people find you? 1254 01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:49,600 Speaker 1: On Instagram? You can find me at Nashville h Kay, 1255 01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,360 Speaker 1: on Twitter at Hunter Kelly, and on Facebook on my 1256 01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 1: public page, I'm just Facebook dot com slash Hunter Kelly 1257 01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 1: k E l O Y and please come join me 1258 01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 1: on the Facebook page. Because what happened at my last 1259 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,400 Speaker 1: job was I have a bunch of crazy right wing 1260 01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:08,560 Speaker 1: jobs following me, and I am trying to remake it 1261 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 1: more in my own image because I don't have that. Really, 1262 01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:14,600 Speaker 1: it's really weird to have a following you're not connected to. Absolutely, 1263 01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:18,240 Speaker 1: it's authentic, really weird. It doesn't work, so I feel 1264 01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,560 Speaker 1: like I'm constantly trying to be like I don't agree 1265 01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:26,160 Speaker 1: with any of you almost anything. So it's really weird. 1266 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:29,880 Speaker 1: So if you can go join the army of of 1267 01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:33,800 Speaker 1: trying to remake Facebook dot com slash hunter Kelly in 1268 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,400 Speaker 1: my image. You also have a page for your dogs, 1269 01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 1: your five dogs doxy cam. So do you have five 1270 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:43,440 Speaker 1: dogs Instagram? U D O X I E C A M. 1271 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,720 Speaker 1: Go follow that. We just post everything with the five dogs, 1272 01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,280 Speaker 1: and we're trying our damn just to monetize those babies 1273 01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:54,200 Speaker 1: because some of them need surgery. Um well that when 1274 01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,760 Speaker 1: I'm had surgery this year. We've had some close calls. 1275 01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:00,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about publicly. She is a 1276 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:04,320 Speaker 1: great story. Actually we will tell you offline, but I 1277 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,720 Speaker 1: will say, when you listen to our podcast all our 1278 01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 1: favorite people, if you hear his dog, if you hear 1279 01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,400 Speaker 1: snoring in the background at all, that's it's the dog, 1280 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,880 Speaker 1: So it's not you. Billy Jones gets half a sedative 1281 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,600 Speaker 1: for when when we when we do our podcast and 1282 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:21,560 Speaker 1: he's not up in people's lap. For for car trips, 1283 01:07:21,600 --> 01:07:24,280 Speaker 1: he gets a full sedative because he's a he has 1284 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,200 Speaker 1: a lot of separation anxiety. No wonder you need to 1285 01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,640 Speaker 1: monetize that. Medicine's got to be expensive. And then there's 1286 01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:32,720 Speaker 1: four gotsens are upstairs because I didn't even hear him 1287 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 1: at all when I was perfect angels up there. Thank 1288 01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:44,720 Speaker 1: you guys for being here today. I think we were 1289 01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,560 Speaker 1: going to go out with Love can build a Bridge, 1290 01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:52,240 Speaker 1: which I would greatly appreciate. Oh God, wait started for me? 1291 01:07:53,600 --> 01:08:10,000 Speaker 1: Love Can building Bridge? Betweet all lokkay Bil, don't you 1292 01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 1: think it's time? Don't you think it's time? Wow? What 1293 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:21,679 Speaker 1: a note to end on. Thank you guys, than listen. 1294 01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:24,840 Speaker 1: Should we make a group video next time? Absolutely? But 1295 01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:26,599 Speaker 1: we better get why to do our hair, That's all 1296 01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Hunter, good on that. Okay, thank you guys 1297 01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:34,439 Speaker 1: for listening. This is Kelly Henderson and you've been listening 1298 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 1: to the Velvet's Edge podcast. I truly believe that every 1299 01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:40,599 Speaker 1: one of us has a little velvet and a little edge, 1300 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:43,360 Speaker 1: so it's so important to remember that to be strong, 1301 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,479 Speaker 1: you must be soft too. Thank you so much for 1302 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:49,479 Speaker 1: sharing in those stories with me. You can follow velvet's 1303 01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,639 Speaker 1: Edge on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, as well as velvets 1304 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:55,400 Speaker 1: edge dot com. If you haven't yet, go to Apple 1305 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:59,519 Speaker 1: Podcast and subscribe, rate and review this podcast. Join me 1306 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:04,360 Speaker 1: every Wednesday for more conversations on lifestyle, beauty, and relationships. 1307 01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:07,439 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, m H.