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Speaker 1: He's the French show Couden Morning, So stair go. A

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Speaker 1: little while ago we had crag on. If you remember Craig,

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Speaker 1: he was dating a woman named Vanessa for four months

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Speaker 1: and they still had not slept together. They hadn't had sex,

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Speaker 1: and he's aware that she's not a virgin and that

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Speaker 1: she's not waiting for marriage. But she tells him when

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Speaker 1: he brings it up, like hey, or you know, where

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Speaker 1: are we at with this, that we'll do it when

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Speaker 1: she's ready. We'll do it when I'm ready, is what

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Speaker 1: she tells him. So guess what, guys, we found Vanessa.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, we found Vanessa. It wasn't easy Vanessa. Okay,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the program. Hi Vanessa. You are Craig's girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: and will you confirm everything that I just said. You're

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Speaker 1: dating Craig. You guys have been together for about a

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Speaker 1: little over four months or I guess more than that now,

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Speaker 1: and while you are not in fact a virgin, you

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Speaker 1: guys have not slept together. That's all true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, true?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's going on now? You agreed to come on.

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Speaker 1: So for anyone who's like this is very invasive or

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Speaker 1: you know you're you're really getting into their private life.

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Speaker 1: She agreed to come on. She knows what we're here

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Speaker 1: to talk about. But a lot of people have been

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Speaker 1: asking us for the follow up here because Craig wanted

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Speaker 1: to know what he should do and and you know,

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Speaker 1: he was of the impression that you're not really going

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Speaker 1: to budget and a lot of people had theories about

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Speaker 1: this as to why you don't want to be with

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Speaker 1: him intimately yet in this period of time. Some people

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Speaker 1: said that it wasn't what you say, that it was trauma.

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Speaker 1: Some people say that it had to do with money.

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Speaker 1: Some people what other people what did I say? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to say she looked like as a baby,

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Speaker 1: Vanessa Keith. You wanted to know if you were a

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Speaker 1: man and and and there would be nothing wrong with that,

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Speaker 1: nothing if you were. However, a lot of wild theories

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Speaker 1: and so we wanted to kind of hear from you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's what's really going on with you and Craig.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think you guys are looking way into

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Speaker 3: this like it's it's pretty simple.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a woman.

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Speaker 3: I mean I want to wait and there's really not

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Speaker 3: much more to it.

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Speaker 2: I mean he should respect that.

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Speaker 1: So Vanessa. Okay, Gret, that makes perfect sense. Of course,

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Speaker 1: you have every right to do that. Is this your

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Speaker 1: normal practice? I mean when you're dating people, do you

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Speaker 1: normally wait a while and sort of feel it out? Well,

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Speaker 1: not necessarily okay, okay, So sometimes you do and sometimes

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Speaker 1: you don't. So how do you make that decision based

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Speaker 1: on you know, in this case, it's been a four

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Speaker 1: months in a committee relationship. You have been intimate before.

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Speaker 1: You know, some would say maybe the connections off or

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Speaker 1: there's something going on here, and then now you're saying

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Speaker 1: that you don't normally necessarily wait. So it's not like

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Speaker 1: a normal practice. So why with Craig?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just enjoy our time together, Like the

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Speaker 3: relationship doesn't have to be about sex. You know, he

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Speaker 3: my gosh, it's sweet. He takes me on wonderful days.

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Speaker 3: We go on trips together.

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't, We going to nice spinners?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so you go on trips together, but you guys,

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Speaker 1: And again I want to be very clear, I'm not

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Speaker 1: shaming you for whatever decision that you make. I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out, as it was Crag you know,

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Speaker 1: calling us asking for advice, what it is about this

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Speaker 1: situation that makes you have pause.

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Speaker 2: I just want to take it slow. That's pretty much it.

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Speaker 2: I'm enjoying like all the things we're doing together and

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Speaker 2: just want to soak that in.

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's need for anything more now with.

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Speaker 1: The slow with the sex, but fast with the money.

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Speaker 2: And he's just a really thoughtful and really generous gift giver.

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Speaker 1: Oh get that bag with all due respect, With all

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Speaker 1: due respect, Vanessa, it sounds a little bit like a

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Speaker 1: money rab. Is there any chance that you are really

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Speaker 1: loving kind of the life that he provides, but maybe

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Speaker 1: you're not necessarily attracted to him? Is that possible?

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Speaker 2: No, that's that's not what's going on. I mean, he's awesome.

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Speaker 2: I just don't think I should be looking into this

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Speaker 2: that much. I love spending time.

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Speaker 3: Are you attracted to him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, he's good looking.

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Speaker 4: Even if he wasn't taking you on trips or giving

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Speaker 4: you gifts. If the money stopped today, would you still

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Speaker 4: be with Creed? If Craig lost his job, would you

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Speaker 4: still be with Creed?

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Speaker 3: I mean, he needs a guy used to try in

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Speaker 3: a relationship, and that's what he's doing.

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Speaker 2: So I'm happy with how he's treating me. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he trying. He can't even get the first base,

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Speaker 1: according when we talked to him. I mean, again, she

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Speaker 1: has every right to do whatever she's comfortable with, but

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Speaker 1: it sounds like Craig is receiving a little bit different

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Speaker 1: treatment than maybe she's used to. And she again, Vanessa,

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Speaker 1: we've really focused on on the material and not necessarily

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Speaker 1: on the connection.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we have attraction. I love spending time with him.

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Speaker 2: What's not clear?

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Speaker 1: All right, time with his money? All right, Well then

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm not gonna I'm not gonna press Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll just leave it there. But people wanted to know

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Speaker 1: your your thoughts on this. We were talking about you

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Speaker 1: behind your bag on the radio, so, uh, we appreciate

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Speaker 1: you coming on and you know, like, I hope things

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Speaker 1: work out. I mean, is there no part of you

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Speaker 1: that wants that need fulfilled? Or is there any chance

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Speaker 1: it's being fulfilled elsewhere? Maybe because I yeah, maybe no,

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Speaker 1: that's rude.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm fine, I'm fine the way our situation.

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what, then, girl, Now you do whatever

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Speaker 1: you you do you and I wish you and Craig

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Speaker 1: the best, and well, yeah, Craig right now, he's at

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Speaker 1: the Gucci store right now.

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Speaker 3: Shopping for her.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, you do, you honestly, you do.

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Speaker 1: And whatever works for you too, and and thank you

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Speaker 1: for your transparency. People wanted to follow up and there

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Speaker 1: we go. So Vanessa be well, okay whatever, oh what?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, dude, you agree to this too. By the way,

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Speaker 1: you need to get laid girl. Yeah you're intense, baby,

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Speaker 1: what you're doing later? Yeah, I'm not taking you to Gucci,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, all right, thank you, Vanessa. More Fred show

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Speaker 1: next right here,