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And if you're ever in our area, 45 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 4: please stop by and be a part of one of 46 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 4: our services. I promise you we'll make it feel right 47 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: at home. I like to start with something funny, and 48 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 4: I heard about this single man. He was sitting on 49 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 4: an airplane next to a beautiful single lady. They struck 50 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 4: up a conversation and he asked her what kind of 51 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 4: men she liked. She said, well, I like Native American 52 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 4: men with their high cheek bones and golden tan skin. 53 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 4: Plus I like Jewish men, they're so brilliant and successful. 54 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 4: And I like good old boys from the South with 55 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 4: their long Southern drawl. What's your name, he said, My 56 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 4: name is Geronimo Bernstein, but my friends call me Bubba. 57 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 4: Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. 58 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: I am what it says I am. I have what 59 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 4: it says I have. I can do what it says 60 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 4: I can do. Today I will be talk the word 61 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 4: of God. I boldly confess. My mind is alert, my 62 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 4: heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus' name, 63 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 4: God bless you. I want to talk to you today 64 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 4: about protect your peace. We should get up each morning 65 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 4: believing for a good day, expecting favor, knowing that God 66 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 4: is directing our steps. At the same time, we should 67 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 4: realize everything may not go perfect. Every person may not 68 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 4: treat us right. Our plans may not stay on schedule. 69 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 4: There may be some bumps in the road and things 70 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 4: that we didn't see coming. If you're only going to 71 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: enjoy the day, if your plans work out, then you're 72 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 4: setting yourself up for disappointment. In our cars, we have 73 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 4: a spare tire. When I drive somewhere, I'm not expecting 74 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 4: to have a flat. I'm not expecting to hit a pothole. 75 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: I'm expecting to get to my destination as planned. But 76 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 4: even though I'm expecting things to go my way, I've 77 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: made provision in case it doesn't. I've taken steps ahead 78 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 4: of time in case the tire goes flat. In the 79 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 4: same way, even though you're expecting your plans to work out, 80 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 4: even though you're expecting good breaks, you need to have 81 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 4: your spare tire. You need to make provision in case 82 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 4: things don't. 83 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 5: Go your way. 84 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 4: Well, how do you get your spare tire at the 85 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 4: start of the day. You need to make a decision 86 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 4: that no matter what comes against you, you're not going 87 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 4: to get upset. No matter what someone says, You're not 88 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 4: going to be offended. No matter what delays, disappointments, bad breaks, 89 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 4: You're not going to be sour. You've already made up 90 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 4: your mind to stay in peace. That's making sure you 91 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 4: have your spare tire. If someone is rude to you, 92 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 4: your attitude is no big deal. I'm not gonna sit 93 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 4: on the side of the road and salt. I'm gonna 94 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 4: put my spare tire on and keep moving forward. If 95 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 4: you hit a pothole, something unexpected happens, your loved one 96 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 4: has an illness, your child for good is homework, the 97 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 4: loan didn't go through. You could be upset worried, but 98 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 4: you have your spare tire. You decided ahead of time 99 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 4: to stay in peace, and the people in your life, 100 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 4: as good as they are. There are no perfect people. 101 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 4: There is no perfect boss, no perfect friend, no perfect neighbor, 102 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 4: no perfect spouse. Victoria says that I am, but I 103 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 4: know she's either lying or saying it by faith. Give 104 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 4: people room to be human. Quit expecting them to perform 105 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 4: perfectly all the time. Well they hurt my feelings. If 106 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 4: you have your spare tire, you forgive them and move on. 107 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 4: Don't have unrealistic expectations That person that loves you so much, 108 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 4: no matter how good they are at times, to disappoint you. 109 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 4: They're going to say things that they shouldn't. Don't be 110 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 4: easily offended. Well, my spouse didn't tell me he loved 111 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 4: me today. This neighbor doesn't invite me over like she 112 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 4: used to. My coworkers didn't congratulate me on my big presentation. 113 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 4: You don't know what's going on in their lives. Don't 114 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 4: take it personally. Here's the key. Your happiness is not 115 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 4: someone else's responsibility. You are responsible for your own happiness. 116 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 4: Too often we're counting on other people to keep us 117 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 4: cheered up, encouraged, feeling good about ourselves. That's putting too 118 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 4: much pressure on the people in your lives. Let them 119 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 4: off the hook. Nobody can keep you fixed except our 120 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 4: heavenly Father. Don't go to people for what only God 121 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 4: can give. Are you going through life without a spare tire? 122 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 4: Only happy if things go your way? The problem is 123 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 4: the roads are bumpy. There will be some potholes, unexpected challenges. 124 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 4: Without a spare, you'll get stuck on the side of 125 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 4: the road, bitter over a breakup, upset because a coworker 126 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 4: left you out, stressed over the traffic. Life is too 127 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 4: short to live offended upset, discouraged. This day is a 128 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 4: gift from God. We are not always going to be here. 129 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 4: You have to put your foot down and say, I 130 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 4: am not going to let these same things keep upsetting me. 131 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 4: I am going to stay in peace, even if the 132 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 4: boss is unfair, even if my spouse is grumpy, even 133 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 4: if my flight is delayed, even if the medical report 134 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 4: isn't good. This is the day the Lord has made. 135 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 4: I have made up my mind. I'm gonna enjoy it. 136 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 4: When we go around offended, upset, discouraged, really it dishonors God. 137 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 4: He's entrusted us with life. He could have chosen anyone 138 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 4: to be here, but before time began, in his great mercy, 139 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 4: he handpicked you. He not only chose you, but he 140 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: created you in his own image. He's planned out your days. 141 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 4: He's crowned you with fever. Now he's directing your steps. 142 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 4: The way to honor God is to get up each 143 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 4: day with passion, being your best, pursuing what He put 144 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 4: in your heart. Don't get stuck in the potholes of life. 145 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 4: Shake off the offenses, shake off what somebody said, shake 146 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 4: off self, pity, bitterness. God saw everything that happened to you, 147 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 4: He knows what was unfair, He knows how you were treated. 148 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 4: Nothing is a surprise to him. If you'll keep moving forward, 149 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 4: he'll not only bring you out, he'll bring you out better. Well, Joel, 150 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 4: I would do this, but these people at work don't 151 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 4: treat me right. They're unfair. They get on my nerves. 152 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 4: You can't control what other people do, but you can 153 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:06,599 Speaker 4: control what you do. If you let them upset you, 154 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 4: you are giving away your power. You are letting them 155 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 4: control you. The scripture says God has given us the 156 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 4: power to remain calm in times of adversity. You don't 157 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: have to let the same things keep upsetting you. Quit 158 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 4: telling yourself I can't help it. They just know how 159 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 4: to push my buttons. Try a new approach. Decide ahead 160 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 4: of time that you're going to stay in peace, and 161 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 4: you'll tap in to that power to remain calm. A 162 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 4: man was walking down the street with his friend to 163 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 4: buy a newspaper. They came to the corner store where 164 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 4: the man bought the paper every day. The clerk behind 165 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 4: the counter was as unfriendly as can be, cold, inconsiderate, 166 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 4: acted like the man was bothering him. The man bought 167 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: the paper smiled and said, I hope you have a 168 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 4: great day. The clerk didn't even look up, didn't even 169 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 4: acknowledge that he said anything. His friend said, man, what 170 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 4: was wrong with that clerk? Is he always that rude? 171 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 4: The man said every morning? The friend said, are you 172 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 4: always that nice? He said every morning. The friend looked 173 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 4: kind of puzzled and said why. The men said, I've 174 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 4: made up my mind. I'm not going to let another 175 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 4: person ruin my day. He was saying, I have my 176 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 4: spare tire. Yes I hit this pothole every morning, but 177 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 4: I'm not going to get stuck here arguing, being rude, 178 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 4: letting him ruin my morning. There may be people you 179 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 4: see every day that have the gift of getting on 180 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 4: your nerves. They feel like it's their calling in life 181 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 4: to make you miserable. The good news is you're in control. 182 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 4: They can't make you unhappy unless you allow them to. 183 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 4: They can't make you be frustrated. It's your choice. Now. 184 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 4: Don't go the next thirty years letting the same things 185 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 4: upset you, giving away your power. Make a decision like 186 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 4: this man. You are not going to let another person 187 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 4: ruin your day, not the guy that cuts you off 188 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 4: in traffic, not the clerk that's rude, not the family 189 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: member that's disrespectful. And when someone is critical, condescending, rude, 190 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 4: they have issues that they're not dealing with. They've become poisoned, 191 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 4: and now that poison naturally comes out. The key is 192 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 4: don't let their poison get into you. Don't let their 193 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 4: bad attitude sour your day. You overcome evil with good. 194 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 4: You don't overcome evil with more evil. If you join in, 195 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 4: you rude, back, you argue, then you've allowed their poison 196 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 4: to contaminate you. But when you take the high road, 197 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 4: when you above it and you're kind to those that 198 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 4: are unkind, you're respectful when people are disrespectful, you're being 199 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 4: an eagle. God will take you to heights that you've 200 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 4: never imagined. Years ago, I promised a friend that works 201 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 4: in local news that I would be on their morning program. 202 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 4: I had to be at the station at six point 203 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 4: thirty on a Monday morning. I woke up that day 204 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 4: and I was tired. I didn't feel like going. It 205 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 4: was cold and raining, but I made the commitment. I 206 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 4: was told to park inside the fence close to the 207 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 4: main doors. I pulled in, dark outside, and nobody was there. 208 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 4: I was about to park and get out. This lady 209 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 4: came running over a security guard, waving both of her 210 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 4: arms like I had committed a major crime. She said, 211 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 4: what are you doing? You cannot park here. This is 212 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 4: reserved for our special guest. I thought, God, I'm gonna 213 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 4: need three spare for this lady. She's like a wrecking ball. 214 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 4: I said, ma'am, I'm on the program this morning. I 215 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 4: was told to park here. She said, did you hear 216 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 4: what I said? You cannot park here. I had to 217 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 4: remind myself, Joe, you're a pastor. Your church is right 218 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 4: across the freeway. I smiled and said, that's fine, went 219 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 4: and parked in the neighborhood a couple hundred yards away. 220 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 4: Still raining had to run to the building. I did 221 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 4: the program. She must have seen it, because afterwards she 222 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 4: came running up and said, old Pastor Ostein. If I 223 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 4: would have known that was you, I would have let 224 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 4: you park there. Do you have time to pray for me? 225 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 4: I thought I would if I didn't have to walk 226 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 4: so far. I said, sure, I will. I wanted to 227 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 4: pray God deliver her from that meanness. What am I saying? 228 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 4: Don't let another person ruin your day. Don't let a 229 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 4: grouchy boss make you grouchy to where you come home 230 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 4: and be sour with your family. You can't keep it 231 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 4: from happening, but you can keep it from getting on 232 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 4: the inside. You have to guard your heart. Jesus said 233 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 4: offenses will come. He didn't say they might come if 234 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 4: you're a good person, if you're kind enough, if you 235 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 4: quote enough scriptures, then you won't have to deal with 236 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 4: grouchy people. You won't have to hit any potholes. Now, 237 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 4: he said, they will come on a regular basis. You 238 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 4: will have opportunities to get upset, live bitter, offended, arguing, 239 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 4: trying to pay people back. The word offenses in the 240 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 4: scripture comes from a Greek word that means bait. It's 241 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 4: used in reference to how they would catch animals. It 242 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 4: was actually the bait that lured the animal into the trap. 243 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 4: When you're tempted to be offended, somebody says something derogatory, 244 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 4: they leave you out. Recognize the enemy is all offering 245 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 4: you the bait. He's trying to deceive you into the trap. 246 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 4: Come on, get upset, be bitter, argue back. Many people 247 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 4: take the bait. They go around bitter, upset, offended. Next 248 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 4: time that happens, instead of letting those same things upset, 249 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 4: you just say no, thanks. I'm not taking that bait 250 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 4: and not falling into that trap. I'm going to enjoy 251 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 4: this day. But it's easy to get baited into conflict, 252 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 4: argue with people, try to prove our point. You have 253 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 4: to be selective which battles you fight. You're not supposed 254 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 4: to engage in every conflict. If that battle is not 255 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 4: between you and your god given destiny, you should ignore it. 256 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 4: Most of the things that come against us are simply distractions. 257 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 4: Ask yourself, if I win this battle, how what benefit me? 258 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 4: What will it accomplish that person that cut me off 259 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 4: in traffic? If I rush up and cut them off, 260 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 4: what did it gain me? I don't even know the person. 261 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 4: It's a distraction. If I'm rude back to the person 262 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 4: that sold me the paper, yes it makes the flesh 263 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 4: feel good, but it doesn't put me further down the road. 264 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 4: It's a distraction. You need to choose your battles wisely. 265 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 4: If you make the mistake of engaging in every conflict, 266 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 4: straightening out coworkers, proven to people who you are, you 267 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 4: won't have time to fight the battles that do matter. 268 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 4: When David was a teenager, he was out working in 269 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 4: the shepherd's fields. His father asked him to take lunch 270 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 4: to his brothers. They were in another city, serving in 271 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: the army. When David arrived, he saw Goliath taunting the Israelites, 272 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 4: making fun of them. He asked the men there, what 273 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 4: is the prize for the man that defeats this giant. 274 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 4: They said, the reward is that person will get one 275 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 4: of the king's daughters in marriage. Plus they won't have 276 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 4: to pay taxes. Well, that got David's attention. He realized 277 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 4: that was a battle worth fighting. There were spoils, there 278 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 4: were benefits. But when David's older brother Eliab heard him 279 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 4: inquiring about fighting Goliath, he tried to embarrass David. He said, 280 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,239 Speaker 4: in front of all of the people, David, what are 281 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 4: you even doing here? And what have you done with 282 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 4: those few sheep you're supposed to be taken care of. 283 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 4: He's trying to make David feel small, saying, David, you're unimportant, 284 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 4: You'll never do anything great. Now David had killed a 285 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 4: lion and a bear with his bare hands, I have 286 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,239 Speaker 4: no doubt he could have taken care of Eliab, But 287 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 4: the scripture says David turned and walked away. One reason 288 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 4: David did great things is he knew which battles to fight. 289 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 4: He could have gotten into strife arguing trying to prove 290 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,520 Speaker 4: to Eliab that he was important. But if he would 291 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 4: have engaged in that conflict, if he would have taken 292 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 4: the bait, he would have gotten distracted, wasted time, and 293 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 4: who knows, maybe he would have never faced Goliath. Are 294 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 4: you fighting battles that don't matter, that are keeping you 295 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 4: from battles that do matter. You have to learn to 296 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 4: walk away from things, walk away from petty arguments, walk 297 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 4: away from disrespect, walk away from jealous people. Proverb says 298 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 4: avoiding a fight is a mark of honor. Not winning 299 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 4: a fight, but walking away from a fight. That's not 300 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 4: being weak. That takes a strong person. That's a mark 301 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,959 Speaker 4: of honor. In your marriage, you need to do what 302 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 4: you can to stay in unity. It's easy to argue 303 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 4: over every little thing, live bitter offended. The problem is 304 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,640 Speaker 4: there will be some big giants that you and your 305 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 4: spouse have to face on the way to your destiny. 306 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 4: There will be Golias. That's how we go to New levels. 307 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 4: But if you're distracted arguing over little things, you won't 308 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 4: be able to defeat those big giants. You have to 309 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 4: pass the test of biting your tongue walking away when 310 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 4: you feel like telling somebody off overlooking an a fence. 311 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 4: The scripture says one can chase one thousand, two can 312 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 4: put ten thousand to flight. When you're in agreement with 313 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 4: your spouse, you are ten times more powerful. When elieb 314 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 4: insulted David, David was able to bite his tongue. Wonder 315 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 4: why David prayed in Psalm one, Lord, take control of 316 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 4: what I say. Help me to keep my lips sealed. 317 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 4: He was saying, God, help me to not say things 318 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 4: I shouldn't. Help me to walk away from rude people. 319 00:19:57,160 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 4: Help me to stay on the high road. Yes, it's 320 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 4: good to pray for favor, it's good to pray for 321 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 4: wisdom for protection. But I wonder how much further we 322 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 4: would go if we would do like David and start praying, God, 323 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 4: help me to shut my mouth. That's a powerful prayer. God, 324 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 4: help me to not say hurtful things. Help me to 325 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 4: not be critical, Help me to not argue. When God 326 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 4: can trust you to walk away from the eliabs, the 327 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 4: people that are disrespectful, people that try to bait you 328 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 4: into conflict. Then he can trust you with the golias. 329 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,720 Speaker 4: You will come into destiny moments where you will defeat 330 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 4: giants that catapult you ahead. As I've become more known, 331 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 4: I've had more critics, and some of them were people 332 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 4: that had large followings. When you hear negative things, especially 333 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 4: that are not true or where it's taken out of context, 334 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 4: it's tempting to respond. But by the grace of God, 335 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 4: I've always been real good of letting it go. It's 336 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 4: never bothered me in the least bit. I've learned when 337 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 4: I stay on the high road and when up not 338 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 4: try to prove to people who I am, not live 339 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 4: defensively that God will get me to where I'm supposed 340 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 4: to be. But some of the people that were so 341 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 4: against me today they don't have their platforms, they don't 342 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 4: have their followings. Things have happened where it didn't last, 343 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 4: and I'm not happy about it. My point is God 344 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 4: will take care of the eliabs. God will deal with 345 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 4: the people that are trying to discredit you. It's not 346 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 4: your job to straighten them out. Walk away from them 347 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:43,200 Speaker 4: and let God fight those battles. David said, God prepares 348 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 4: a table for us in the presence of our enemies. 349 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 4: When you have an enemy, that means God has a 350 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 4: table for you. When someone's coming against you, When you 351 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 4: have an eliab somebody at work trying to discredit you, 352 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 4: recognize there's a table there. You can go argue with them, 353 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 4: be rude back to those that are rude to you, 354 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 4: or you can sit at the table that God prepared. 355 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 4: When you sit, you're saying, God, I'm trusting you to 356 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 4: fight this battle. It's not between me and my destiny. 357 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 4: So I'm not gonna worry about these people at work 358 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 4: that are trying to make me look bad. I'm going 359 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 4: to keep honoring you, being my best, and I know 360 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 4: while I'm seated at the table you prepared, while I'm 361 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 4: in peace, you will take care of what's coming against me. 362 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 4: The Apostle Paul did this. He had all kinds of opposition. 363 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 4: Religious leaders didn't accept him. The government thought he had 364 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 4: too much influence. People lied about him. He was put 365 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 4: in prison. He had plenty of opportunities to live bitter offended. 366 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 4: One place we see his attitude, he said Alexander the 367 00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 4: Coppersmith has done me great wrong, but God will repay him. 368 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 4: He was saying, that battle is not between me and 369 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 4: my destiny. I'm not gonna take de bait. I'm not 370 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 4: gonna get distracted. I'm gonna sit at the table and 371 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 4: let God fight my battles. Are you fighting where you 372 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 4: should be sitting trying to straighten somebody out, prove to 373 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 4: them who you are. That's not your battle. That battle 374 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 4: is the Lord's. You don't have to pay people back, 375 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 4: you don't have to get even. God is your vindicator. 376 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 4: He will make up for the wrongs that were done 377 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 4: to you. If you will stay in faith, stay in 378 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 4: peace on that high road. God will vindicate you better 379 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 4: than you can vindicate yourself. First Samuel, chapter ten, the 380 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 4: prophet Samuel chose Saul as the next king of Israel. 381 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 4: Most people were happy and congratulated Saul. But when Saul 382 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 4: returned to his hometown, some of the people that knew 383 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 4: him the most weren't happy with Samuel's decision. They begin 384 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 4: to laugh and make fun Saul will never be our king. 385 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 4: He doesn't have what it takes. The truth is they 386 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 4: were jealous of Saw. They were so insecure, so small, minded. 387 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 4: They thought they had to push Saul down so they 388 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 4: wouldn't look bad. Don't ever fight battles with small minded people. 389 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 4: Don't waste your time with people that are jealous, people 390 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 4: that don't value who you are, people that don't respect 391 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 4: the anointing, the favor, the talent on your life. They 392 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 4: are not between you and your destiny. If you engage 393 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 4: in those conflicts, it will keep you from becoming who 394 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 4: you were created to be. Verse twenty seven says they 395 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 4: despise Saul and refuse to bring him gifts, but Saul 396 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 4: ignored them. If you're going to fulfill your purpose, you 397 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 4: have to get good at ignoring things. Ignore negative comments, 398 00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 4: ignore disrespect, Ignore the naysayers. They don't control your destiny. 399 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 4: They are distractions to try to keep you from God's best. 400 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 4: Instead of being upset over who's not for you, frustrated 401 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 4: over who's trying to make you look bad, do like Saul, 402 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 4: ignore it. Jealous people can't keep you from your destiny. 403 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 4: Small minded people cannot stop your purpose. When Niemiah was 404 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 4: rebuilding the walls around Jerusalem, there were two men at 405 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 4: the bottom of the mountain, sand Ballad and Tobias that 406 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 4: didn't like Neemiah. They were constantly criticizing him, spreading rumors, 407 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 4: trying to ruin his reputation. All day they would shout insults, 408 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 4: making fun trying to debate Namiah into coming down. When 409 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 4: Naomiah could have come off the mountain and defeated them, 410 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 4: he could have shut them up. But he knew as 411 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 4: long as he was fighting with them, he wouldn't be 412 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 4: making progress on the wall. He knew they were not 413 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 4: between him and his destiny. He didn't get upset, he 414 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 4: didn't try to straighten them out. He simply ignored them. 415 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 4: He went on to finish the wall in record time. 416 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 4: When God puts a dream in your heart, there will 417 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 4: always be sand balants and tobiases, people that are critical, jealous, disrespectful, 418 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 4: people that try to get you riled up. Don't take 419 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 4: the bait. That is not a battle you have to fight. 420 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 4: They are a distraction to try to get you off course, 421 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 4: so you miss your purpose. Dolight Nehemiah, learn to ignore 422 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 4: the sand balants and tobiases. Your assignment is too important 423 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 4: to be distracted by jealous, small minded people. In the scripture, 424 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 4: it tells us to put on the whole armor of God, 425 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 4: part of that armor is the shoes of peace. It's 426 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 4: interesting that God chose our feet for peace. It implies 427 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,919 Speaker 4: everywhere we go we're going to have to choose to 428 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,199 Speaker 4: stay in peace. Because you can have your helmet of 429 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 4: salvation on, your shield of faith, your belt of truth. 430 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 6: But if you don't put your shoes of peace on, 431 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 6: if you don't make this decision that you're not going 432 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 6: to get upset, you're not going to live offended, you're 433 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,679 Speaker 6: not going to get baited into conflict. 434 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,439 Speaker 4: Then even though you have all the other armor on, 435 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 4: without peace, it's not effective. Every morning. You need to 436 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 4: make sure you put on your shoes a peace. Too 437 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 4: many people go through the day barefooted, offended, discouraged, upset. 438 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 4: But when you make this decision at the start of 439 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 4: the day that nothing is going to upset you. Really, 440 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 4: you're putting your shoes on, You're saying, God, I trust you, 441 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 4: I know you're directing my steps, and even if things 442 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 4: don't go perfectly today, I believe all things are going 443 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 4: to work out for my good. When you're in peace, 444 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 4: you're in a position of power. When you're upset, discouraged, offended, 445 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 4: just the opposite, you won't have the strength you need. 446 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 4: Next time you're tempted to be offended, recognize what's happening. 447 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 4: Don't take that bab when someone says something derogatory, instead 448 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 4: of trying to pay them back, ignore them. Take a 449 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 4: seat at the table God. Prepare when you walk away 450 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 4: from the eliabs, the battles that don't matter, you will 451 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 4: come into your golias, opportunities that will thrust you ahead. 452 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 4: I'm asking you to protect your peace. If you'll do this, 453 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 4: I believe and declare You're not only going to enjoy 454 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 4: your life more, but God is going to take care 455 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 4: of what's coming against you. He's going to vindicate you, 456 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 4: promote you, and take you to new levels of your destiny. 457 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 4: In Jesus's name, And if you receive it, can you 458 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 4: say in then today, well, I'd like to give you 459 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 4: an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 460 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 4: Would you pray with me, Just say, Lord, Jesus, I 461 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:04,560 Speaker 4: repent of sins. Come into my heart. I'll make you 462 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 4: my lord and savior. 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