1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge. 2 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to to Teas and a Pop with 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 2: myself Tamra Judge and today I have from Vegas Live 4 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 2: Baby Bravo con the one, the one and only Alexis Jansen. 5 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna say Jesus No, I'm not calling you 6 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 2: Jesus Jugs anymore. You're now your new name is Jansen Jugs. 7 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: They're smaller, went bigger, I went smaller. Yeah, so I got. 8 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Implants put in, but they're very tiny. They're only one 9 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: hundred and fifty ccs. But I went bigger and you 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 2: went smaller. 11 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 3: I went half, Yeah, you went half. 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 2: So how's married life so far? 13 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 3: My gosh, I can't even. 14 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: I mean, there's always stressors with when you have six kids. 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 1: There's always somebody that's got some crisis or. 16 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 3: This or that. But it is it is, so, it 17 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 3: is different. 18 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: I told you this a modern day Brady Bunch. 19 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 3: We are. You have three boys and three girls. Okay, 20 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 3: the Brady Bunch. 21 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: So let's talk about like we I had you in 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 2: the podcast a little while ago, a couple of what 23 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: maybe three weeks ago or so, and we talked about 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 2: the wedding and all that stuff. So now you guys 25 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 2: have been married for what a month. 26 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,839 Speaker 3: And a couple of weeks or okay, so six weeks? 27 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: And so what are the living arrangements? Are you going 28 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 2: to stay in your house? 29 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: We you know, it's really weird because we might sell 30 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 1: my house. We don't really know. We're really figuring it 31 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: out as we go. We're definitely keeping the house on 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 1: the water because we have the boat. 33 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 2: Okay, we have to have the house, even as Shannon 34 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 2: used to be in that house. 35 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 3: Oh honey, we changed it all. 36 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:32,559 Speaker 2: You staged. 37 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: Oh honey, it's done. 38 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: You stage that shit. 39 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: L It's it's moved. It's done. 40 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 2: Okay, you need to redecorate, new sheets, new everything, new mattress. 41 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: New bed pillows, everything, everything, but the kids love it. 42 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: New ring cameras, no ring cameras, the same. 43 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: And you know what, by the way, it's right there 44 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: when you walk in, So it's not like anyone's exclude different. 45 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: Don't seen not punching? 46 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're going The other morning I walked out. 47 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: I mean, John wasn't the one punching. 48 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: No it at all. 49 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 3: Make that Claire, I walked out. 50 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: The other morning completely naked because I just got on 51 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: the shower and his his house is small, it's small. 52 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 4: Careful, he's going to keep that footage. 53 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: He goes. 54 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 3: He goes, Babe, I got footage, and I went like that, now, 55 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: yes you do. 56 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: You just got to Bravo Khan. Yeah, and I heard 57 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 2: you ran into Shannon. 58 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 3: I don't know how this gets back so fast. 59 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 4: Spencer got here before you. You're your your guy, and 60 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 4: so he told me. He's like, oh my god, we're walking. 61 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: You should have seen her face when she walked out 62 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: of a room. 63 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 3: And I have my escort taking me and Spencer to 64 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 3: my room. 65 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: Escort sounds really weird. I don't think you should use 66 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: that word. 67 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 3: Change there. I don't know what handler hand. Okay, that 68 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 3: sounds even weirder. 69 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 2: Escort sounds a little weird and vague's okay, baby, I'm 70 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 2: just throwing that out there. 71 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: Let's just say the very amazing person in the four 72 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: seasons collared shirt was walking me to my room. 73 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: Okay. And so anyway, she. 74 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: Walks out, she gives this really bizarre like like look, 75 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: and then the elevators right there, and I realized who 76 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: I'm like Oh, that's gonna be really weird on the 77 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: elevator with her. 78 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 3: So we we hung back and okay, I could have 79 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 3: You know, when I said to Spencer, I said, why 80 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,239 Speaker 3: do I do that? Why? Why is it weird? 81 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: By the way, I would do the same, would you 82 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 2: would you? 83 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 3: Wait? I wouldn't. 84 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 2: I am not getting in an elevator with Shannon, but door. 85 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: I almost honestly afterwards, I thought I looked at him. 86 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: Shannon be bore is what I call her. Be bore? 87 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 2: You know, by the way, you know how she came 88 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: after you for rehearsing. There's a door, Shannon door. Do 89 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: you think she rehearsed with Archie Tamra Grudge? 90 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 91 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: Not only that. 92 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: Here's the thing, Tamara, You've had me on the podcast 93 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: enough times now to know that weird things come out 94 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: of my mouth that I don't even think about. They 95 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: just know they come out. Cookie Sometimes I'm Cookie, Yeah, 96 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't sit in the mirror and practice. 97 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: Do I practice my poses for Red car make sure 98 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: my stomach's in in a certain dress or gown. Absolutely, 99 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: But I don't practice lines. 100 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: If they just whatever comes out comes out. 101 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: How long do you think she And here's the ironic 102 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 2: thing is I don't hold a grudge. I try to 103 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 2: make up. 104 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 3: You're the one that doesn't. To be honest, I know 105 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: you're the one that wants We're. 106 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 4: Still talking about David. Fuck John Janssen. She's still talking 107 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 4: about David. Okay, now that's a grudge. Okay, okay, talking 108 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 4: about gudge. 109 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: Please hold on. 110 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: Yes, we wish her well. I do, but please God 111 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 2: bless her. 112 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 3: I do wish her well. I do, I truly do. 113 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: And from the bottom of my heart, please talk about David, 114 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: your husband of decades, and that you have children with me, 115 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: talking about my husband who was on and off boyfriend 116 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: for a few years of your life, that I've now 117 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: been almost longer with and also am married. 118 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 2: Well too, John jans about a bad rap because her. 119 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 2: So we're going to move on. But it's okay from that, 120 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 2: But we were talking about grudges. We bear our grudge 121 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: two years ago at Bravo con and we've been kind 122 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 2: of inseparable since then. 123 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: You know, I no one gets it, Tam, No one 124 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: gets what that felt like in that room. Andy Cohen 125 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: was there, He probably felt the love. 126 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: He was crying tears. 127 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 1: We all were having tears, and it was like it 128 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: was one of those moments where you and I have 129 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: grown so much from what we were a. 130 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 2: Decade or both in marriages that we got out of. 131 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 3: There was just a lot of there's a lot of 132 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 3: other stuff. 133 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 2: Just so here's the thing we grew. We grew. Could 134 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 2: you imagine if I went you came back last year 135 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: and all we talked about is this shit that happened 136 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 2: between me and you fifteen years ago? Could you, like, 137 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 2: first of all, who freaking remembers that shit? 138 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 4: You know? 139 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: I mean, otherwise it still bother anyone. 140 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: Anyways, it's like, whatever happened, look at how fast we squashed. 141 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 3: Look at how fast we squashed the beef. We had 142 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 3: a lot of shit. You threw me out of your gym. 143 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 3: You were like, get out of here. 144 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: I thought it exact. 145 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 3: I thought you were going to hit me. I went 146 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: home that night. 147 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: I don't hit anybody. 148 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: I went home to my then husband and I said, 149 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: I know we're husband's in now, but anyway, I went 150 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: home to Jim and I said, I literally thought she 151 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: was going to hit me, and I was going to 152 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: take it, but I was going to hit her right back. 153 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. If you threw that much TV, can you 154 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 3: throw a punch at me? Girlfriend, I am going to 155 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 3: hit you back, and I was. 156 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: I would never hit you xanax Lydia. 157 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: Here's the thing, if you and I can get over this. 158 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: Question, is were you really taking xanax? I took one, 159 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: and I was I because I took. 160 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 2: Sanax this year and drank and didn't go over very well. 161 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 3: I only took like he told. 162 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: The doctor told me to take half of one, so 163 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: I took a quarter because I don't take prescription anything. 164 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 3: I don't even take advill. 165 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: I took it that night, or you took it. 166 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: You have taken all the stress of you, Tamra grudge 167 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: of all. 168 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 3: The stress of you. I was. I took oxanic. 169 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: I told Jim, I am I need and so our 170 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: doctor gave me great. 171 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 2: Not only am I a leaker. 172 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 4: Of storyline, you're a am a cyber hacker. 173 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 2: Now I cause people to take xanax. 174 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 3: You know, my reputation met her by the second. 175 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 2: Where's Teddy? Where's Teddy? When you need her? 176 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,679 Speaker 3: She's on the way. She's on the way. 177 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: No, but you like the stress you and I were having, 178 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 1: and just the whole all of it was coming to 179 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: a lot become a lot for me. 180 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 3: So I took He said take a half. I took 181 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: a quarter. I woke up that night like straight up 182 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 3: in bed. I'm like, I could never take this stuff again. 183 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 3: It did the opposite for me. 184 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: It made me feel like I was I don't even know, 185 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: maybe it was laced with something else. 186 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 3: I did have to take it because of you. It's 187 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: just the show. Great. 188 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: I can see the headlines now, but look how we 189 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: made up. But I had to get you medicated first. 190 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 4: Only one time I was your your did situation. 191 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: You had to take some little bit. 192 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 3: Of Okay, well, I don't blame you, know, I. 193 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: Can't blame for everything you do. I do. I'm Cara. 194 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 2: If this season is not good, it's Tamra. If the 195 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: season's great, it's still Tarma's fault. 196 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 3: It's great. 197 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: It's crazy, right. 198 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 3: So I really that has bothered me this. 199 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: I know you can't talk about it because you're still 200 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: filming or like it hasn't comp there, but it has 201 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: bothered me. 202 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 3: It does. 203 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: It bothers me too. Well, everybody turn their back, yeah, 204 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: I know. So let's talk about last season a little bit, Okay, 205 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 2: any regrets, any thoughts if you had to do it 206 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 2: over again, would you any problem with the edit? I 207 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: know you're going to be interviewing Alex Baskin. 208 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 3: Okay, well are you even supposed to give that information? 209 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 3: I can give it team in the back. 210 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 2: Room, I think so. Yes. So I hear that you're 211 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 2: going to be interviewing Alex Baskin. So, guys, I want 212 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 2: to let you know that that Alexis is here with 213 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 2: iHeart with to teas in a pod because I can't 214 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: be here every single day with Teddy, and Teddy's got 215 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 2: some obligations here as well. At Bravo Kahn Alexis Billin 216 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: Billino Jansen or I don't know what to say. 217 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 3: I don't want to. 218 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 2: Trust me. 219 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: I told you this last time we talked. It is 220 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,439 Speaker 1: kind of going through what you went through with Eddie. 221 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: I am Alexis Jansen on the marriage certificate. 222 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: That took me three years. Say, he reminds me all 223 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 2: the time. 224 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: Right, and so when I'm getting my room and my 225 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: license still, says Billino, I am Alexis Jansen. 226 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 2: And can I give you some advice? 227 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: Yes? 228 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 2: When your year twins are still in high school, Yes, 229 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: when they graduate high school is the time for you 230 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: to change your name. It's easier because it's easier because 231 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: when you have a different name than your children in 232 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: high school, it just makes things weird. Yeah, so that 233 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: that's my suggestion is just to wait. 234 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: I don't think that you Honestly, I'm not in a 235 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 1: rush because I did do it on the marriage certificate. 236 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: So when we get our marriage license, it is going 237 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: to say Alexis Janson. 238 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: I know I am. 239 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: When you see when you said marriage certificate, first thing 240 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 2: came to my I was marriage boot Camp and I 241 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 2: don't ever want to see you on that show again. Okay, 242 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 2: I just want to tell you that, Well. 243 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 3: That was with my mom. What's wrong with that? 244 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: Is it? Oh? 245 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 3: It was with your mom? 246 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 2: With what was your ex? 247 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: It was called marriage boot Camp family addition, so it 248 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: was who in your family do you have the strife 249 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: with that you need to mend things? 250 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 3: Tamra. This is gonna make you cry. So I'm not 251 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 3: gonna go deep. I don't want to. I don't I'm 252 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: not gonna cry. We're not gonna cry. This is a 253 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 3: fun We're at Bravo. 254 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 2: This is past now. 255 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: I know that. 256 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 2: So you realized she. 257 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: We spent eighteen days in that Marriage boot Camp house 258 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: with she didn't like your ex Corey Feldman. Well that 259 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: wasn't it, but yeah, anyway, she Corey Feldman and his 260 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: brother Eden and yeah, and then his ex wife Corey's 261 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: ex wife, and then Aaron Carter rest his mom Jane, 262 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 1: and then Lauren Govan and her two parents who are 263 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: amazingly exceptional people, and then my mom and myself. So 264 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 1: it was all about working through family challenge stuff. Okay, 265 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: I had the best experience on that. It was eighteen 266 00:10:59,200 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 1: straight days. 267 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: The way made you have a light detector test? 268 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 3: Yes? 269 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 2: Was it the same guy? 270 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 3: No? It was not. 271 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 2: I know that Gretchen. We did a light detector test 272 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 2: this season, as you know, and it's the same guy 273 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 2: that when she was on Marriage boot Camp that did 274 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 2: the light detector. And then when she did it, she 275 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 2: said in her confessional, I've never done one before and 276 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: it was the same guy. 277 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 3: How could she say she's not done it because she's on. 278 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: Just in case if it's on national television, that you've 279 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: done it on a dinner pinocchio. 280 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 2: Okay, So did you get that out? 281 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 3: Do you feel? 282 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: I feel so much better? 283 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 3: Okay? 284 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: Right, So I feel so much better now. Sorry, sorry 285 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 2: audio guys. So what I want to say is, let's 286 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 2: talk a little bit about last season. So last season 287 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 2: was rough for you, and I felt like, you know, 288 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 2: when it comes to editing, you got a rough to 289 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: edit because there are so many scenes that we did do. 290 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 3: You called me every night, We cried together, You cried 291 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 3: for me, You cried for me. 292 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 2: We cried during filming. Which things they didn't see. It 293 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 2: was only you know about Channon and John right who 294 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 2: you are now married to, and and then it was 295 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff that you know, we talked about 296 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 2: your mom and the stuff that you went through. 297 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 3: Just never watch on your kids. We talked about. 298 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 2: Sick and your children and your divorce and all these things. 299 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 2: It was never shown. 300 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: So I felt like for. 301 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 2: People out there that didn't see the full Alexis and 302 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: they saw what they saw, like, what do you what 303 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 2: do you say to them? Now? 304 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: You know? I feel like everything happens for a reason, 305 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: did I Okay, so picture this, you just lose your mom? 306 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: Okay? 307 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: Five months before, three months before filming, August started filming 308 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: December or January whatever that was. So a few months 309 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: before we started filming, and you know my phone calls 310 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: to you. I said, I don't think I can do it. 311 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 3: Tom. I don't know if I have the energy, the strength. 312 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. 313 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 5: I'm one talking into signing the contract yes and so, 314 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 5: and then I also have to break up with my 315 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 5: fiance at the time that I knew just was not right. 316 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: It's not right to be with someone who's not there 317 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: at your darkest hour. So I lost so much after 318 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: already getting a divorce from my father's the children, the 319 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: father of my children, and then go straight into filming 320 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 1: after all of these other things have transpired. I was 321 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: literally on my knees even more, and I kept saying, 322 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,839 Speaker 1: to God, why did you do this to me. 323 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 3: After knowing how low I already was. But you know 324 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 3: what it did, Tam. 325 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: And this is why I say, what what doesn't kill 326 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: you makes you stronger? That song is so true, Thank 327 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: you killing Clerksland Clarkson. But I got stronger from it, 328 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: and it was like I believe it was meant to happen. 329 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I don't have the clear picture, 330 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: but what I would say to everybody is you are 331 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: hearing more of who alexis really is now than the 332 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: pod on all the Pods on Carlos. 333 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 2: So you co host with Carlos, you recap Orange County. 334 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 2: You're so good with Carlos. 335 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think you're funny. 336 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 2: I think your point across, by the way, he is amazing. 337 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: Carlos is absolutely amazing. But I feel like you guys 338 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: together are really good, really really good. Someone said, but 339 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: there's a lot of headlines now that you're on too. 340 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: One of the one of the people at your part, 341 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: your party that was amazing. Sorry, we just took had 342 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: the party a week ago for you know, Tamaron or yeah, 343 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: Tamar and Katie through. 344 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: Katie actually through the party. I know you, but you you. 345 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 3: Still were a co host, Yeah, our host. 346 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: But anyway, one of them said, you guys are like 347 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: the modern day Kelly and Regis, And I'm like, my god, 348 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: we are so not because we are not doing the news, 349 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: we are doing reality TV. 350 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I don't I'm just following where 351 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 3: I thought. 352 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 2: That you have a natural talent for podcasting. I really do. 353 00:14:58,360 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: I think you're doing an amazing job. 354 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 3: I have fun with you. 355 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and as much as I want you back on 356 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 2: the show in different circumstances because I could use a 357 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: really good friend on the show. And I feel like, 358 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 2: you know, I tell Eddie this all the time, and 359 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: I don't want to get like teary eyed, but you 360 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 2: check on me and you tell me you love me, 361 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 2: and here I like, I feel like I have your heart, 362 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like there's not a lot 363 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 2: of friends that you feel like have your back. And 364 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: you know everything that went down. 365 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 3: Last year, No I understand. 366 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: I didn't turn my back on you. I did not 367 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 2: know when in my back. 368 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 3: No one understands. 369 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: And I want to say this to all the listeners 370 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: right now, the all the to tease listeners. Every castmate 371 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: turned their back on me last season because of how 372 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: much hatter I was getting and I had to shut 373 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: off you know, my my Instagram, And then when I'd 374 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: go out and meet them for coffee, no one would 375 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 1: want to take a picture. 376 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: No one wanted to post it. 377 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: You posted on my birthday when I'm at the darkest 378 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: time of turning off into getting death threats. John and 379 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: I the most horrible human you've ever met, because we 380 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: fell in love when nobody, neither of us were with 381 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: anyone else. 382 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 3: It's like, you did not turn your back on me 383 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 3: and I. 384 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: I so look back at all of that and think, 385 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: plus what all the time we just cried about how 386 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: the show was getting edited. At the moment, I know 387 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 1: that words not nobody likes. Okay, so how we were 388 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: being portrayed is what we should say. Yeah, so because 389 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: you do it is true. 390 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 3: What you do say is what you say. You can't 391 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 3: fake them. 392 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but a lot of times things aren't shown, so 393 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: you know how it's portrayed. So people are like, why 394 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: are you so hard on Shannon, Well, because of the 395 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: stuff that I found and she was doing behind my back. 396 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 2: So did they ever show any that. No, So there 397 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 2: wasn't like it just came out of left field, like 398 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 2: I was there until I wasn't right, you know. And 399 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 2: it had nothing to do with being friends with you 400 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 2: or you know I can balance friends. 401 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 3: I can't. 402 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 2: I'm not that person that says I'm your friend and 403 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 2: you're my friend if you like her. If you like her, 404 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna like you. 405 00:16:59,080 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: Here's the thing. 406 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: You know how I can vouch for that is because 407 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: you were in the middle of me and Jen being 408 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: good friends and knowing how much I was talking to Jen, 409 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, we just left. I was just 410 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: left coffee with gen If. One of the times you 411 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 1: called me, I'd literally just gotten in my car. You 412 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: did not say one word about it. You were like, oh, okay, cool, okay, 413 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: So what's the next time we can all go to 414 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: dinner or whatever? We talked about that day. And it's like, 415 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: it's like you did not have this. You weren't dictating 416 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 1: any No, I wasn't dictating. I'm not that person. 417 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: But I also told you over and over again, your 418 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 2: experience with Jen is your experience, and you might see 419 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 2: things that I already know you might not I don't know, 420 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,000 Speaker 2: but you have to go through the experience. 421 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 3: And I told you, I said, where do you stand 422 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 3: with jan? 423 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:42,239 Speaker 1: Right? 424 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 3: No one's going to tell me who to be friends 425 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 3: with you. No one's going to anything. 426 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 2: Let me tell you that right now. She got her 427 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 2: own opinion. Well, I'm still where do you stand with Jen? 428 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 2: Right now? 429 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 1: I mean we're we're still we're still working through it all. 430 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: We haven't had the talk of are you texting? 431 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 2: Are you? 432 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 433 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 1: We have. I mean, this is what sucks is that 434 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 1: I kind of don't want to go deep about it 435 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: because we're still trying to work through it, and we haven't. 436 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 3: We've missed each other. 437 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: We both called yesterday even just to talk about things, 438 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: and it's like we're both getting ready for Brava Khan. 439 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 3: I had a crisis at work. I have kids that 440 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 3: had need things. She has five kids. Dawson's in town. 441 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: It was like, it's like, it's it's not that. 442 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 2: I think I can just give you this and we 443 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: can end on this. I think that Jena is a 444 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 2: good person, but I think Jenna is a people pleaser, 445 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: and a lot of times when you're people pleaser, you 446 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 2: step on your own shit. So when you're telling one 447 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: person what they want to hear, and then you're telling 448 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 2: another person what they want to hear, and then telling 449 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 2: the other person what they want to hear, it causes problems. 450 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes that's your saying camera that a friend of all 451 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: is a friend of none. 452 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 2: None, And that's where I'm problem with her, and that's 453 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 2: where sometimes their stories get a little like forgetful. 454 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: Well, I all I know is that you've allowed me 455 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: the space to have my friendship with her, and I'm 456 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: so thankful for that because that's also why we're so close, 457 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,120 Speaker 1: Because you don't bring her up to me. I mean, 458 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: we're doing it now because we're talking about the show. 459 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: I mean, people don't get it that we have to 460 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: talk about this on a podcast. This is something that's today. 461 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: We're talking about today. But You've allowed me the space 462 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: to have my friendship with her, and I'm thankful for that. 463 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 1: And I'm also thankful that like Jen isn't I mean, 464 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: she hasn't been horrible to me. She's she's I'm I'm 465 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 1: still figuring things out. I'm trying to work through it, but. 466 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 2: She's and I'm hoping to work through things with her good. 467 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 3: And I wish just like I'm so excited about you 468 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 3: and Vicki, by the way, let's talk about that. Oh good, Okay, 469 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 3: So Vicki is going to be kind of a Max. 470 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 2: So Vicky and I, you know, we're like sisters. We fight, 471 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 2: we we get mad. 472 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 3: Okay, you need to talk for like a frickin year 473 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 3: or so. 474 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 2: That's for a year. But you know what that was, Shannon, 475 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 2: that's because of Shannon. Shannatorships. 476 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 3: Shannon does that dictatorships don't work. 477 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 2: She's yeah, exactly. She doesn't want to send people to 478 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 2: be friends. And I think that, you know, you know 479 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 2: something was brought up on the reunion about you know, 480 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: Shannon recording Vicky while Shannon while Vicky was actually taking 481 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 2: care of her, and you said, and I told you, 482 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 2: and You're like, yeah, I know all about it. Yeah, 483 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: I got the text messages. She was texting John too 484 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 2: when this is happening and sending him audio. So I'm like, 485 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:26,640 Speaker 2: I'm not the crazy one. 486 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 3: I'm not the bad one. 487 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: Why because I don't want to gets off with everything 488 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 2: I know. 489 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 3: I don't know how. I don't want to be in 490 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 3: the thick of all of this because I'm removed. 491 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 2: You're above it. 492 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 3: I know I'm not above anything. I'm not too good 493 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 3: or above any Here's the thing. 494 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,199 Speaker 2: If you talk about Shannon, oh, you're obsessed. If you 495 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 2: get asked about Shannon and you answer it. 496 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 3: Stop talking about her. Notice that. 497 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: Notice that every time that lady brought up my name, 498 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: we weren't even in the equation. 499 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 3: She talked about you and the whole season, all season, 500 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 3: the whole season. 501 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: But I would always I would because I have to 502 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: recap it with Carlos and do it. And I'm like 503 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: I look back and I'm like, I it wasn't like 504 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: someone said, oh about Alexis. It was just it came 505 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: out of her mouth like she just so, who's the 506 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: obsessed one? 507 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,359 Speaker 2: And Alexis, I want to say, like there was times 508 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 2: where I would because I had a really hard season 509 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: and talking about taking xanax, you know, with Teddy diagnosed 510 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 2: and people. 511 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 3: Just so you guys know, I was on the other 512 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 3: phone and end of the fo. 513 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 2: With her, and I would tell you like, I'm trying 514 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 2: to make up with this girl and she doesn't want 515 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 2: to make up. And you're like, you know, or she 516 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 2: did this to me today and you're like, Okay, Tamara, 517 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 2: you know what, you need to really think about this, 518 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 2: Like you never put her down to me, you never 519 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 2: thought like I took that branch. No, You're like, you 520 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 2: know what, Okay, let's think about this, Let's do what's 521 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: best for you, and let's do I mean, at the 522 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 2: end of the day, everyone jay bitches and so you 523 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 2: have to have friendships, but you also have to, like 524 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: you've got to think sometimes you have to put emotions aside. 525 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: When you're a reality TV person, you have to put 526 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 2: emotions aside and go. It's getting harder for me as 527 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 2: I get older. 528 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: I think it's it was harder for me to you 529 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: should today because I'm another year older. 530 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 2: No, it was notice he's such a door. It was 531 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: hard for me to pack today. I'm here, I'm talking 532 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 2: about emotions. It's hard for me as I get older. 533 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: She goes, it's hard for me to pack today. This 534 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 2: is the stuff that I put up with with Alexis Jansen. 535 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 2: Bay Guys, thank you so much for tuning in. We 536 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: are at Bravo Con. It is Thursday night and I 537 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 2: am going to watch What Happens to Night and you 538 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,439 Speaker 2: are going to hold down the ford here with Teddy. 539 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: You're gonna do some interviews. Super excited about this. You're 540 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 2: going to be here for the weekend. And I thank 541 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 2: you so much. 542 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 3: Love you, I love you. Bye. 543 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:35,719 Speaker 2: Hi