1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 3 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: A lot of people are divided on this one. So 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: there's a dude that posts on Reddit about a fight 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: he had with his partner's girlfriend. It was about smelling 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: like a body odor. Uh. So they would go to 7 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: the gym together and she would not shower and she 8 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: would always say, women don't sweat like you do, and 9 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: we don't sweat the same, and he didn't say anything, 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: but he noticed like it didn't smell perfectly, and so 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: he started to want to say something. So then she 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: would start to use the sauna and she still refused 13 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: to sell. So she would work out, use a sauna 14 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: and not shower, and finally he said, I know you 15 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: say you don't sweat, but it smells. 16 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, it's not. You're like baking your sweat. 17 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: And she's upset with him for saying that, and now 18 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: she thinks that he thinks that she's disgusting. So it's great, 19 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: a whole stir and a whole you know what storm. 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 1: So that question is do you tell your partner if 21 00:00:59,280 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: there's an odor? 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 2: You should have the type of relationship where you can 23 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 2: tell your partner these things and be like, hey you 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: should shower, that's gross, and then then not be offended. 25 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: Okay, So do do you sweat differently? Like would you 26 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: not shower? Do you shower less than I do? 27 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 3: Do I shower? 28 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: I shower more to do waymen? Men shower different number 29 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: of times per week. 30 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: I don't know how times. 31 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: One showering a little bit more than I used to 32 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: shower because you shower at night. 33 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 3: There's showers morning and night. There's showers and then there's 34 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: a rinse. You know, there's difference. 35 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: I quite like the relaxing quick hot rints at night. 36 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 3: Uh huh, I feel like necessary to wash. 37 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: I just think if you if you sweat clean yourself. 38 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, here's a commercial. 39 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: That comes on. I don't know who she is. She's 40 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 1: a ob g y N and she's developed uh a 41 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,919 Speaker 1: yodant for all your parts. You see that commercial? No Marcaso, 42 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: but Mark you seen it Obgyn right, and she's just 43 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: like she's made theodant for all the parts, all the 44 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: hot spot. So I ordered it Loom. Yeah, that's it. 45 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: Is it for men and women? Don't? I ordered it 46 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: for myself. I think it's for both great. I don't 47 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: smell like a patch of daisies. 48 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 3: Let us know how it goes. 49 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: You tell me okay, and you smell the fragrance from 50 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: just sitting. 51 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 3: There, like, get over here, not great anything, I. 52 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: Gotta speak up, kiss, let me grab Lauren is just 53 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: holding through that song. Hi Lauren, good morning. How are 54 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: you good? 55 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 4: How are you guys? 56 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 1: We're good. So it says here you found out your 57 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: friend's pregnant on Instagram. 58 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 4: Yes, so we did over the weekend, which is very exciting, 59 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 4: super happy for my friend, of course, but it was 60 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 4: a little surprising to me and to the rest of 61 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 4: our friend group. We've been friends with her since high 62 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 4: school and granted we don't see each other as often 63 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 4: as we used to, but still pretty often, and we would, 64 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 4: you know, talk about her fertility journey and starting a family, 65 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 4: how she wanted kids. So we were all really surprised 66 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 4: that that was how we found out. And I feel 67 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 4: like a little hurt about it. I would never say 68 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 4: anything to her, but I don't know if I'm like 69 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 4: leading into it too much, or if I should even 70 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 4: feel like slightly disappointed about it. 71 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: I think you're making this more of a youth thing 72 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: than a her thing, which I had to say it, 73 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: but like this is I think it's her pregnancy, it's 74 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: her life, it's her way of communicating. You can't make 75 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: this about you. 76 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 5: That is true. 77 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: That is true. We just thought, because of how close 78 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 4: we all are, that we would find out like in 79 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 4: a more I don't know, like personal way. 80 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: I understand that would be your expectation, but I don't 81 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: know if you can falter for this. This is what 82 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: she decided to do, and it's such a happy, wonderful, 83 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: beautiful thing. Can't let it become about you or your 84 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: other friends. 85 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: She might have felt overwhelmed to spread the news that 86 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: way too, because you know, having to call everybody separately 87 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 2: or like what do you do? It's a bunch of 88 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 2: face times, Like just did her whole family, and it 89 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 2: was just easier just to do a mass, you know, 90 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 2: public announcement. 91 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 1: And every minute you're upset about this is a minute 92 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: that you're not fully happy. That's true, this slide. I 93 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: would let this go. It's really about let them be, 94 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: you know, happy and excited about healthy pregnancy. Right, Yeah, 95 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: I love that? 96 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 6: Yeah? 97 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you love that? You called as lorn? 98 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to us. 99 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,679 Speaker 4: Thank you bye bye. 100 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: I want to say, like you're making about yourself when 101 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: it's really not like who cares in a way? I 102 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: got it expectations. 103 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fine, but how special do you feel when 104 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:49,679 Speaker 3: you do have friends? 105 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 2: I call you and yeah, give you the lowdown before 106 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 2: anybody else knows it's ever happened. 107 00:04:56,480 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: But I that's not true. I told you I think 108 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: I found out you're pregnant here. 109 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: No, not the twins. I called it with the twins. 110 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 2: I told you I was pregnant. I told you ahead 111 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: of time, but you didn't know those twins. 112 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: So see, I did find out something here. I knew 113 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 1: there was a big dentist. 114 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 3: I want to do a little bit. 115 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: There was just a Mark Dennis surprise moment. Everybody's like 116 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: waving there here. 117 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 7: You guys like that better? I think, like what you 118 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 7: always liked the surprise. I remember after I got engaged, 119 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 7: I wanted to FaceTime you, and then I was like, no, 120 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 7: I'm going to do it. I want to surprise them 121 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 7: on the air. 122 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: I like it anywhere you want to share happy happiness, 123 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: like whatever you want to do. Just look up past 124 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: nine are you and we are on kiss if it's 125 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: part of your routine. Thank you. If you just arrived 126 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: for the first time today, give us a minute. Here's 127 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 1: what we do. It's a regular group of us, Sistaney, Tony, myself, 128 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: this whole place called the back room. Back there, very. 129 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 3: Dizzy engineer tubs. Who did he just give you a pillow? 130 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: Yes? Because I need a little more height in my charity. 131 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 2: No, and you're not sitting on it. It was it's 132 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 2: for your back, it's for your lumber. 133 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: It's because he it's something's wrong with the adjustment to 134 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: my chair. It doesn't it doesn't feel like it normally 135 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: someone was drinking, eating my porge last night or sitting 136 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: in my chair, so it's not set to the right. 137 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 3: He just tucked it right behind your back. 138 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: So there's something called task masking, right that everybody's not everybody, 139 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: but you know somebody's are talking about and apparently it's 140 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 1: a new workplace term. Yeah, So think about where you're 141 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: going to work this morning, where you work right now? 142 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: Do you know any of these people? What are they? 143 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 3: They're task maskers? 144 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 145 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: So it's basically when an employee spends a lot of 146 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 2: time and effort just trying to look like they're really 147 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: busy or trying to look like they're working really hard, 148 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: when in reality they're hardly doing anything at all. 149 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, that's tups. What are you doing over 150 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: there on your computer exactly right now? Like what are 151 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: you looking at? There's tell me, don't don't change it, 152 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: you just change just closed your window. Oh, he's following 153 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: along the he's following along. What do you call that? 154 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: The digital levels the show as it's being broadcast. 155 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 3: Nice, so important. 156 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 1: Well, he's also sometimes on llobean dot com. What is that? 157 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: That's where he buys his clothing, his hiking gear for 158 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: he and his jiu jitsu girlfriend. 159 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: So that's one of the things. 160 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: It's being on your laptop or your computer and typing 161 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 2: a little bit loud, walking fast through the hallways holding 162 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: your laptop just like you know, just like you're you're 163 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 2: just you can't be stopped. 164 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: You're saying you're on the go, you're on the go. 165 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: You are calling friends, but you're using like the business 166 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: line or using business hand jesters when you're on the call, But. 167 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 3: It's really like you're just talking to your mom. 168 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: Have we ever done any of this here? I mean 169 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: here or anywhere else. 170 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: There are days that I maybe make myself look busier 171 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 2: so that I'm not stopped or bothered. 172 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: This is not even a temptation for me. I can't 173 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: get work done fast enough. I'm never going to take 174 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: my time to do something else while I'm working. Could 175 00:07:57,920 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: be done with it sooner. Never. 176 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 3: No, not a temptation, exactly exactly. 177 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: But I do have a tendency to walk through the 178 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: office very quickly and not really like stopping. 179 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: But it's all the rest. You're trying to get people 180 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: to think you're busy. 181 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: No, it's not because I'm it's because I'm trying to 182 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 2: get my tasks done. 183 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have a hard footstep. We can hear you coming. 184 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 8: You know. 185 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: I've always had that ever since I was a kid. 186 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: I don't know why. I just walk hard, and I 187 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 2: my posture is bad too. 188 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 3: I need to work on that. 189 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: Well, mine's the worse ever. I just I can't even 190 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: deal with it. Do you ever pretend to be on 191 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: the phone and you're not. 192 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 2: No, but maybe I haven't, not at work, but I 193 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 2: feel like I have for whatever reasons. 194 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done that before that, I have done task masking, 195 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: point them out today if've seen me at the office. 196 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:48,119 Speaker 1: Just so cool. The updated iHeartRadio app with the presets 197 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: and the scan button. It's so easy to operate. And 198 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: so if you if you like kiss obviously be your 199 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: first preset, and then if you like a podcast can 200 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: be number two. I think I have another station in 201 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: another city. Number three, super cool kisses all my presets. 202 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: That looks good, doesn't it? 203 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 7: Because sometimes if I film my stereot like if I 204 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 7: film my car stereo, I want to want it to 205 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 7: be all kids. 206 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 3: Im it shows the other stations. Yeah, if you're filming it, if. 207 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 1: You're if you're filming, yeah, if. 208 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: It it's what you're playing. 209 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's get to this. So we got 210 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: a quote of the day. But if you've just been 211 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: dumped or you're dumping someone, according to Women's Health magazine, 212 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 1: this is the first thing you should do. It's a 213 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: good source Women's Health Magazine for these things. They say, 214 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: hand your friend your phone and all your social media 215 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: pass codes so they can unfriend and unfollow your ex. 216 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: Now I'm not I guess I could see how that 217 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: might help. Because you can't dip back into it, you can't. 218 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 7: Go back out of side. 219 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: Out of mind, doesn't say delete their phone number. By 220 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: the way, Tanya, so you can't keep their phone number. 221 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,679 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think this sends the wrong message. 222 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,599 Speaker 1: I think this sends mess SiGe like of negativity. I 223 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: think it sends a message of tense. I think it 224 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: sends a message of toxic. 225 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 3: I don't like it toxic. 226 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: Well, don't that. I don't know. I don't know, but 227 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like, let it sit 228 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: for a minute. But if you really are upset, I 229 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: guess that's what you're saying. If you're if there's bad 230 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: blood and you're upset, this is what you do. 231 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 6: Well. 232 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: But if you are dumped, Yeah, and then you just 233 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: see their photos. 234 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 3: Every week. 235 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: That people I've been dumped by I still hang out with. 236 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's healthy. 237 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, none of it's healthy. What yeah? 238 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: Wait? 239 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 240 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 9: Wait? 241 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 3: So like hang hang out. 242 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 7: I feel like it's keeping you in the past and 243 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 7: you need to move on to the future. 244 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 6: What is my future? 245 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: We don't know yet. 246 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: What's my heartscope? 247 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 6: Again? 248 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 3: Something about something treats your body like a temple? 249 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 1: Okay, great, they'll start there. Today's quill. You will never 250 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: regret the times you stop to listen to a loved one, 251 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: or put down your phone to be present, or paused 252 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: to notice something beautiful or made an effort to be kind. 253 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: This is the good stuff. Don't miss it. I'm trying 254 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: to live like that. I'm trying to live like that. 255 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: Rolling up on seven o'clock, Ruby has the headlines today, 256 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: Just FM Headlines with Ruby Gonzalez. All Right. 257 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 10: Sean Diddy Combs was acquitted of racketeering and trafficking charges 258 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 10: and found guilty on two lesser prostitution related offenses. The 259 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 10: judge denied bail and Combs will remain detained until his sentencing, 260 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 10: which has been set for this fall. And fireworks will 261 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 10: be back on the Long Beach waterfront this fourth of July, 262 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 10: but this is the last year the Coastal Commission will 263 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 10: allow them. Starting next year, it will be a drone show. 264 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 10: Sinespia will also screentop gun, followed by a fireworks display 265 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 10: at Hollywood Forever Cemetery tomorrow. And Abe has decided to 266 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 10: renew The Bachelor once again. The renewal gives a dating 267 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 10: show a milestone thirtieth season. 268 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacrest, Amanda's on the Line one 269 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: eight five two seven. You're on kiss a VM with 270 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: this a man in sun Valley. Good morning, how are 271 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: you hi? Good morning, good morning. That's great advertising for 272 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: that place, Sun Valley. Right if you've never been there, 273 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: you're still looking at Holmes live in sun Valley. 274 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 6: So I want to go. 275 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Amanda, tell me about your coworkers. 276 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 11: Okay, So I work with this guy who took another job, 277 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 11: and apparently he works at this other job from like 278 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 11: three am to eleven am at like like a warehouse 279 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 11: or something, and then he shows up here at like 280 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 11: at my like at my job, at like eleven fifteen. 281 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 5: Here's the thing. 282 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 11: He's like rigged his cubicle to look like he's there, 283 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 11: like he has. 284 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: What is one of his hours to be there? Is 285 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: he supposed to be there when he's at the other gig. 286 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like we're supposed to start at nine Ah. 287 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 6: I sink. 288 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: So the drill is he's doing another gig late, sleeping in, 289 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 1: then getting some rest, then coming in. 290 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 5: Well, I mean, you know he's supposed to be there 291 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 5: till eleven am. So he shows up like right after that. 292 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 1: So he's working when he should be working there. 293 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 3: No, he's like double his jobs are overlapping. 294 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 1: Okay, got it. I'm trying to do the math. Here 295 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 1: we go. I stay like saving still. 296 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 6: On my head. 297 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: But what does he do to like change it? Like 298 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 3: does he have mannequin in his cubicle? 299 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 5: Like what it looks like he's there, so he has 300 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 5: said it. 301 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 11: So he's like monitors don't go to sleep, and he 302 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 11: keeps like a jacket like over his chair at all times. Okay, 303 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 11: all right, And I think he's having a friend put 304 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 11: like every day's like la times, like on his desk. 305 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 5: With like ant green wrapper. So it looks like he 306 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 5: just had a snack. 307 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 11: I mean, it does really look like he was there. 308 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: What's the job? What kind of work are you guys doing? 309 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: Like it's like it stuff, And what's the issue for you? 310 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: Like it's not fair? 311 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 3: Right, well it's not fair yeah. 312 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 6: But so. 313 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 1: Well then that's way a real problem. Why have you 314 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: talked to the dude to say, bro, what's like, come on, 315 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: you can't do this. 316 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 3: That's not gonna get her far? 317 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 6: Well did you do it? 318 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 9: I like don't want to. 319 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 5: I don't know. I've been like what the heck? 320 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 11: And I don't want to rely like life for them 321 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 11: or anything here. But I also don't want to rat 322 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 11: him out because you know, we're all just trying to hustle. 323 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: You know, I got you, But then you don't rut 324 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 1: him out. Once you get the whole group, the whole 325 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: office to rat him out, then it's team against one. 326 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 1: That's the best way to do it. 327 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: That's so dark. 328 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: No, I mean, if it were you, Tanya, we'd all 329 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: get together and be like, Tanya, you're coming in two 330 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: hours too late. Okay, I'm not saying it, Sisty's saying 331 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: the listeners call in. I think that it's an issue. 332 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 7: It's like a fundamental issue with your job, because if 333 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 7: I were coming in two hours late, my boss Mark 334 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 7: would know, and then he would have to have a 335 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 7: conversation with me, like how does your boss not know that? 336 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 3: Like they're your manager. 337 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 7: Well, yeah, like your manager should be on top of that, 338 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 7: not you. 339 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 11: Well, he just like has like a lot of people 340 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 11: like covering for him, and I don't know. It doesn't 341 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 11: seem sustainable, and I just hate it. And I don't 342 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 11: want to be like a liar, but I don't want 343 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 11: to be like a snitch. And that's where I'm at. 344 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, here's the deal. Either you're going to make 345 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: a move or not. If you don't make a move, 346 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: then you'll make a move. Then you're gonna be not 347 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: a snache and not a ratter. I suggest you go 348 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: to the group and say this is not great for 349 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: all of us. Let's let's deal with it and go 350 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: to the manager on it. But good luck, Amanda, it's 351 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: totally not fair. So you're in the right on this one. 352 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Okay, thanks bye. I mean a lot. 353 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 1: This would be a difficult one because we're on air, 354 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: so it'd be obviously for a couple hours late. Yes, 355 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: unless we just had a thing that said, Hi, Hi, Hi, Hi, 356 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: does hit play on that? 357 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 6: Hi? 358 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: Tanya? What time is it? 359 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 8: Hi? 360 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: What's the differenceer? 361 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 10: Hi? 362 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: Let me grab James here at one eight hundred and 363 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: five to two I one A two seven James, Good morning. 364 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 6: How are you good? 365 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 8: Are you? 366 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm solid? Brother? Thank you for asking. So you want 367 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: to propose on an upcoming trip, but you've got some 368 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: couple friends coming along. What's the problem. 369 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 12: Yeah, Like, I mean we're going to be traveling with 370 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 12: the couple, and so I just wanted to get your opinion, like, 371 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 12: is it weird? Like I mean, I figured, like I 372 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 12: would tell the other couple what's going on, but like 373 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 12: I plan on like proposing to her during the trip, 374 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 12: and so like, I don't know, I can't tell, like 375 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 12: with them being there, if it was going to be 376 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 12: like awkward for them or awkward for us with me 377 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 12: like just proposing and with them there, Like, I don't 378 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 12: know if that's weird or not. So I just forgured 379 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 12: to get some opinion. 380 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: Well, Tisney, I've had this happen in front of me 381 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: with another couple. We were on a wine country trip 382 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: up Nors. 383 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 3: Did you know about it ahead of time? 384 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: I did, okay? 385 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 3: And was it special? Did you like it? How did 386 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: you feel? 387 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: I thought they shouldn't do it in front of us? 388 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 6: No? 389 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: Really, See, I was going to say, James, if you 390 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 2: include the other couple or couples and they're part of it, 391 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 2: you know, one of them's videotaping, one of them is 392 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 2: distracting her like whatever, then they feel like it was 393 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: all like part of this big proposal. I don't think 394 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 2: it's that bad. But if they have no clue it's happening, 395 00:16:58,480 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: that's kind of weird. 396 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 12: I just I don't think that they would mind but like, 397 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 12: my big thing is I just don't can't tell if 398 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 12: it's going to make it less special to have other 399 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 12: people with us while it's happening, you know what I mean? 400 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 12: Because I love that idea, and my first thought was 401 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 12: that it would be like, oh it now it looks 402 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 12: like a planned thing, and it would be great. But 403 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 12: then it started creeping into my mind. But does that 404 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 12: take away from the intimacy of the moment or yes? 405 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: And also sorry, but it puts pressure on us the 406 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: rest of us there, like when are we doing that 407 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: if we're with somebody Oh gosh no, oh gosh, no, 408 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: the real world. Here's the thing. 409 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 2: They don't need to be there like front row seat, 410 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: like with their hands under their chin, like watching it 411 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 2: all go down two. 412 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 3: Feet away from you. 413 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 2: But if they're like off in the distance and you 414 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 2: still are having your private moment, I think it's okay. 415 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 3: I don't mind it. 416 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 2: Because you want to celebrate right after you get engaged. 417 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: You want to scream it from the rooftops and you 418 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 2: want to celebrate with your friends or your family, go. 419 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 1: Away and then circulate back for the ground. Yeah, all right, 420 00:17:59,080 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: that's cool. 421 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 12: Traveling it could be like just instant celebrate. We don't 422 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 12: have to wait till we get home. 423 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I say. 424 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 1: Look, James, here's thed you found your person. I mean, 425 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 1: good news, good news, good news. Let's just figure out 426 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: the logistics here and get on with it. Yes, all right, brother, 427 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 1: thanks for listening to what. At two point seven KSFM, 428 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:21,880 Speaker 1: it's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan, Assistani and Tanya. 429 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: A friend of mine found a picture of my husband 430 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: on hinge. We freaked out because we thought someone was 431 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 1: using his image to catfish. But now I'm starting to 432 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 1: wonder if that's true. Marlene in Long Beach, So what 433 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 1: do you mean by catfishing? 434 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 13: I mean I think somebody stole my husband's pictures and 435 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 13: put them on hinge. 436 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 6: Okay, that's what I mean. 437 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 13: So they're basically a fake person using his pictures. 438 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: So it's not your husband, then cheating, it's someone else, 439 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: like advertising it's your husband. 440 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 5: But not well hopefully yeah that's. 441 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 9: Yeah, that's the hope. 442 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: But it could be your husband, but you're hoping it's 443 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 1: just catfishing. Is that what I'm Yeah? Okay, catfishing. I've 444 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 1: done that in a long time. 445 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 3: You've done it before. 446 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I done. I want to say down and seeing 447 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 1: the movie or the TV short, whatever it was, I 448 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: haven't heard about it and hadn't talked about catfishing in 449 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: a minute and a decade. So Marlene, why do you 450 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 1: think it's maybe not catfishing? 451 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 9: Well, this is so, this is the story. 452 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 13: My friend Kaylee, she she was freaking out and she 453 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 13: started blowing me up with like these screenshots of my 454 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 13: husband on hinge and there were all photos that looked 455 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 13: like they were taken from his Instagram. 456 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 9: So I was, you know, I just I just told 457 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 9: him like what was going on, and he was all 458 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 9: freaked out. So it's like, you know, someone else using 459 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 9: his images to catfish, you know, women on the breaks 460 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 9: on this app? 461 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 1: How long you been married? 462 00:19:58,880 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 6: Four years? 463 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 5: Okay four years? 464 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 9: And I'm pregnant. Oh so I'm just the reason why 465 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 9: I'm like kind of doubting it though, is because you know, 466 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 9: when something like that happens, you're supposed to report it 467 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 9: on him. So I did that, and then two things 468 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 9: happened after and when I'm like, oh my god, I 469 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 9: just hope anyway, he was going away for a weekend, 470 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 9: uh to Vegas with his boys and them, and I 471 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 9: just thought we. 472 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 5: Should share locations. 473 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 8: Just for like safety reasons, and and he was like no, 474 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 8: he was like he said, if I weird concerned, yeah, 475 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 8: that I could share my location, but he refused to 476 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 8: share his. 477 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 13: And and then he's like accusing me of not trusting 478 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 13: him and trying to like keep tabs on. 479 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 9: And so I was just like, Okay, I don't know, 480 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 9: Like this is bad, this is weird. 481 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 13: And then and then I got a response from Hinge 482 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 13: and they said that it was a real profile. 483 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 9: They say it wasn't catfishing. 484 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so we got a lot to uncover here. Marlene, 485 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: hang on one second and we will get him to 486 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: call on your husband next. Is it catfishing? 487 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 13: Is it not? 488 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: She's pregnant and she's worried about this. All right, So 489 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: it's kiss Ryan's roses right now. We're about to make 490 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: the call. Got Marlene in Long Beach on the line. 491 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: She's concerned that her husband is cheating on her. But 492 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: it could be a catfishing episode, but not likely. She's 493 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: been married for what four years and they are pregnant. 494 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 6: So is he. 495 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 1: Soliciting for dates on Hinge or is it somebody else 496 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: doing it? And it's not him. 497 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 3: I mean, how stupid could you be as a husband 498 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 3: to do something like this? 499 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: Pretty stupid? 500 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,160 Speaker 3: But you being catfished. 501 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: But if he's not being catfished, how stupid? 502 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:03,920 Speaker 7: Yeah? 503 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: All right, so Marlene, I need you to say Ryan, 504 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: you my permission to call, and then his name. 505 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 5: Go ahead, you have my permission to call. 506 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna do that right now. Be very quiet. 507 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: Let's see what we can find out about this situation. 508 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: Who's top of mind, what he's thinking about? 509 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 6: All right? 510 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: Who he wants to send the flowers too? And good luck? 511 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 6: Hello? 512 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 3: Hi is this Elijah? 513 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 6: It is Hi. 514 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 2: My name is Rachel. I'm calling from Seaside Blooms. How 515 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 2: are you doing this morning? 516 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 6: Okay? 517 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 3: Great. We're we're new to Long Beach. 518 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,679 Speaker 2: R actually on Second Street near Corona Avenue and offering 519 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 2: a free promotion to local residents. 520 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 3: It's a free dozen red roses. 521 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 6: Oh wait what Yeah? 522 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, so's It's a three dozen red roses that you 523 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 2: can send to anybody that you'd like. It's a promotion 524 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 2: that we do about once a month, just trying to 525 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 2: get the word out. And they're absolutely free. I don't 526 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 2: need any cash from you or anything. 527 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 6: Like that. 528 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 2: We just hope that you return as a customer one day. No, 529 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 2: I'm good, No, no, no, are you sure they're free? 530 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 2: I don't need any money from you, just the name 531 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 2: of the person you'd want to send them. 532 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 3: To anybody you want to send free roses to. This 533 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 3: will take like two minutes, you know, Can I just 534 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 3: can I call you back? 535 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 8: No? 536 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 6: No, no. 537 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: If we can just start with the name and a note, 538 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 2: I can have you off the phone in less than 539 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 2: a minute. 540 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 1: You look, Oh, what's the name? 541 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 6: Hold on one second? Hold on, hold on one second? Please? 542 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 3: Okay, Hello you there, Elijah? Hello, Yes, Hi, great? 543 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 2: So the him of the person? 544 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 6: Uh yeah, wait, who is this against? 545 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 3: My name is Rachel. I'm calling from Seaside Blooms. 546 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 6: So so like the person I'm with being someone on 547 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 6: the radio? Is that true? 548 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about. Who are you with? 549 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 6: Uh? You know what? 550 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 3: Let me You're you're with somebody right now? What's their name? 551 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: Hello? 552 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,239 Speaker 3: Elijah? Can I can I speak to them? 553 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 6: My wife? 554 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 3: Can I speak to them? 555 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 6: Is my wife on the line? 556 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 3: Who's your wife? 557 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 1: Elijah? Elijah? Your your voice is being broadcast on the radio, 558 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: and yes, your wife is on the line, your wife, Marlene? 559 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: And who are you with right now? 560 00:24:59,280 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 6: Well? 561 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 1: How did you know I can hear her? 562 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 6: How do you know it's a situation? 563 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 7: Whoa? 564 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: How do I know you're in this situation? 565 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 6: But wait? 566 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: What? 567 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 6: Sorry? 568 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 1: What's the situation you refer to? Elijah? 569 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 6: Oh? Oh okay, no, like there's no situation. I'm sorry. 570 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 6: I let you go. 571 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, actually I don't have to go, 572 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: but thanks for being kind. Elijah. Are you with a 573 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: woman now? 574 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 6: No? No, I'm at work. 575 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: Okay. 576 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 3: And then who is that that you're with? 577 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 6: H And I'm not with anybody right now? 578 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: Okay? 579 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 13: Well if I called, if I called Jackson Auto Parts 580 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 13: right now, they're going to tell me you're there. I'm 581 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 13: on the line, Elijah, and you're not with me? 582 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 8: So who who's over there? 583 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:03,119 Speaker 12: Who is it? 584 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 6: I'm sorry that person walked away? I don't know left that. 585 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 14: Where are you? 586 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,479 Speaker 9: I don't understand, like what? Either you should be at 587 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 9: work or you should be home. I'm about to have 588 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 9: a baby. This is crazy. 589 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 6: You literally got nothing to worry about. 590 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 1: So Elizah, are you on hinge? 591 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 6: Uh? No, definitely not. 592 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: Marlene, do you want to tell them what you found? 593 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 9: I found that you you already know about the cat fishing. 594 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 9: It wasn't catfishing. They messaged me back. 595 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 13: And they were like, this is a real profile. 596 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 9: So I don't know where are you. 597 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 13: Why don't you just turn on your location so you 598 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 13: can tell me where you're at. 599 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 12: Or come home? 600 00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 6: I mean, like you can send me your location. No, no, no, she. 601 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: Elijah. Are you on hinge trying to pick up other women? 602 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 6: Yes? 603 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 13: Or no? 604 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 6: I gotta get back to work. 605 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: Yes, you're on hinge. Are you cheating on your wife? 606 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 1: Have you followed through with anybody you met? 607 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 12: No? 608 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 6: Hell no, I'm definitely not cheated on my wife. 609 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: I don't believe you, Elijah. 610 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 6: I have, I have. I have to go back to work. 611 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 6: This is too much. 612 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 3: You're not working, You're not out here with her. 613 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: You got to get back to working on what exactly. 614 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 6: Ye call it? Int an office? I have to I 615 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 6: have worked. I'm sorry. 616 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 1: All right, Marlene found that you are on hinge. You're 617 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: clearly shady and sketchy about it. So now Marlene, we're 618 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: gonna let you both go. You need to find out 619 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: how many women he's been out with. 620 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 6: Guys. 621 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: Good luck, Okay, good luck Marlene. Thanks for reaching out. 622 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 1: That's roses, all right. So you got this couple here, 623 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: Marlene and Elijah married four years. They are pregnant. He's 624 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 1: up on Hinge, confirmed, authenticated. He's up on Hinge soliciting 625 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 1: to meet other women. And we called him and he 626 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 1: acted like he was at work. 627 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 4: He was with it. 628 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: I thought he was with another woman at that time. 629 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 1: I thought I heard another woman in the background. 630 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 3: And she tipped him off. She's like, this is Ryan 631 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 3: Joses and he would. 632 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: Not answer the question, are you cheating? Are you on Hinge? 633 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: I got to get back to work. You're not at work. Well, 634 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 1: turn on your location, she said, and he said, you 635 00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: turn on yours. She's like, I'm at home, you know 636 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: where I am. But he doesn't have the location. He 637 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: was shady about Hinge. The guy is cheating and maybe 638 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: on with multiple people, and Staney went all gangster on it. 639 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: I did, yeah, who's there, what's their name? Let me 640 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: talk to them. 641 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 6: She went deep on that. 642 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: So I don't need a debate. I think Elijah's lying. 643 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: I think Elijah's on Hinge looking for other dates. And 644 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: I think Elijah's cheating on his wife. I think so too. 645 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: So Noel and Santa Monica. You at Ryan's roses, What 646 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: do you think? 647 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 14: Okay, I think he is not at work, Like he 648 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 14: is definitely with his other woman for sure, and I'm 649 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 14: assuming like he left early in the morning, took up 650 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 14: with her on his way to work, and they're like, 651 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 14: you know, it just seems way too fishy for me. 652 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,479 Speaker 14: And I feel like, if your wife is not trusting, 653 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,920 Speaker 14: you just share your location and it is as simple 654 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 14: as that. 655 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 6: It really makes no sense to me that he wouldn't. 656 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: It's all he would have to do to calm things down, 657 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 1: but he would not do that because he's lying and 658 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: he's cheating. 659 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I think he's really not her. 660 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 1: I do too, I mean have a baby as well. 661 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 1: And this guy is just a bad guy and he 662 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 1: won't he won't, he won't step up and tell the truth. 663 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: And who's he talking to you in the background? The 664 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: other woman sounds like definitely not the woman with I'm 665 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 1: so there you go. But at least she knows for 666 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: sure he's lying. Now what do you do? What a 667 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: bad time to have this situation happen? Bad time anytime 668 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: especially now. Yeah, all right, Noel, thank you very much 669 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 1: for calling. Yeah, there's not much to think about here. 670 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 1: The dude would not answer any questions and he would 671 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: not flip on his location. Just flipping on your work, 672 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: flipping on let me see no exactly, won't do it. 673 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 6: Kiss. 674 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: There's a new app coming out called Touch Grass. What 675 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: is this about? And why do we need to even care? 676 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: And how useless is all of this? 677 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 8: This is? 678 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 3: It's not necessarily that it's useless. 679 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 2: It'll be useful and it'll give you more time back 680 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 2: in your day. And the premise is it'll force you 681 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: to literally go outside and touch grass. So you're gunning outside, 682 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 2: you get your vitamin D, you're with nature, which is 683 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 2: good for you. It's good for the soul, all those things. 684 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 6: I like it. 685 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 3: And it's forcing you to go out there and touch 686 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 3: grass before you go on. 687 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: Social media, so you balance yourself. 688 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 2: It's coming out tomorrow, be available tomorrow, and you touch 689 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 2: the grass and asks you to choose two apps that 690 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 2: are your biggest time suckers. Okay, so think about the 691 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 2: ones that you want to limit for me, probably Instagram 692 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 2: or TikTok gosh at this point, chat you BT and 693 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,479 Speaker 2: then it's going to block those apps. The only way 694 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 2: to unlock them is to take a picture of yourself 695 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 2: outside actually touching grass. That's I'm saying it out loud. 696 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 2: It sounds so ridiculous, and then submitting it in the 697 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 2: app and then you can choose how much time you 698 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 2: have in each restricted app et cetera. 699 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 6: Wow. 700 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: I like the notion. I like the idea of touching 701 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: the earth. Now, my earth is very soggy right now, 702 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: but I like the idea of it before you go 703 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 1: into all this other stuff. But it is kind of like, 704 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 1: I mean, this is the next big thing. We're out, 705 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: Like we are out? Why don't two point seven kiss FM? 706 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: Is it over now? Sarah? Good morning? 707 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 6: How are you good? 708 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 9: How are you guys? 709 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: Super good? So you're calling about your neighborhood book club. 710 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 1: I see, I am so my Atlantic nice club that 711 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: still happened. 712 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 4: It is very nice. I didn't know either. My husband 713 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 4: and I just moved to a new neighborhood and I 714 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 4: was invited by one of the women here that he 715 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 4: started it and he does it with other women on 716 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 4: the block and some of her friends, and I thought 717 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 4: it was super nice. Obviously a great way to meet 718 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 4: neighbors and some new people because we're new to the area. 719 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 4: So I went a couple of times, but I haven't 720 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 4: been able to go back just because of my schedule, 721 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 4: and I don't think I'm going to be able to 722 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 4: go back. And what I'm trying to ask is just 723 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 4: like a good way to kind of back out of 724 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 4: the book club instead of continuously to her invite. And 725 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 4: I'll give you some background. So I'm in grad school 726 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 4: right now and working, so my time is really consumed. 727 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 4: If I'm not at work, I'm studying or doing work 728 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 4: for school. And I really thought I could swing, like 729 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 4: you know, doing like the book club and and adding 730 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 4: in like some fun books, but I can't. And so, 731 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 4: like one of the last times that I went, they 732 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 4: really want everyone to participate. I really just thought it 733 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,800 Speaker 4: was going to be like a space to like meet 734 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 4: people and make friends. But they were like when they 735 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,479 Speaker 4: asked me a question I didn't know the answer, they 736 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 4: were like annoyed and making sniffy comments about. 737 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 13: It, I mean. 738 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 1: Social, So, what was the last book that you were 739 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: supposed to read? 740 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, honestly, I'm so far behind. I can't 741 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 4: even tell you. I've I've missed like two books now, 742 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 4: and they keep sending me the titles. 743 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: And I keep this is like that I all go through. 744 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: It's like we overcome it. We kicked the can to 745 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: telling people we can't do it. We eventually need to 746 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: just say we can't do it because and we ever 747 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: commit our kids sometimes too with too many activities, which 748 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: over commits us to deliver them to all the places. So, Sarah, 749 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 1: here's my view. Do what you just did with us, 750 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 1: like what you just told us with sincerity, like you 751 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: said it to us. It is the reality. It's a burden. 752 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,800 Speaker 1: This thing should not be a burden. It should be 753 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: a pleasure. It's not. And so therefore you need to 754 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: not kick the can on this and just be up 755 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 1: front and honest that you have too much on your plate. 756 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: And maybe you could revisit it at that's always another 757 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: great as that's perfect, revisit at another time. 758 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 3: And I like that too much on my plate right now? 759 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 3: Grad school and everything you. 760 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: Going to grad school make the world a better place. 761 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 1: Who's gonna he's gonna throw a flag. 762 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: At So maybe later we can revisit it. That's really good. 763 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 1: Revisits always. 764 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:54,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that. Revisit is a good one, that's perfect. 765 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: This is a good bye anybody who wants to get 766 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 1: out of something use the word revisit that. 767 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna take note whenever you use that with me, 768 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 2: Well you might forget by then. 769 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys won't forget. 770 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 7: You've definitely used that all this Yeah. 771 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 3: Now I'm like trying to think back. How many times 772 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 3: do you use that with me? 773 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: What's a synonym for that? I'll use that next time, Sarah. 774 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: I appreciate your schedule. I appreciate you just being like 775 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 1: a go getter. I love that you're out there making 776 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: things happen. Good luck with your pursuits, and let's edit 777 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 1: this very stressful, too serious book club out grad school 778 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: is major. 779 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 4: Yeah all right, yeah, thank you guys so much, Thank. 780 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: You, bye bye. You know it's funny, like you ever 781 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,239 Speaker 1: have friends they're like, well, tell me what books top 782 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 1: three books you're reading right now? Like, hey, I'm not 783 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: reading three books. 784 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:43,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, let me see what my audible credits are. 785 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 1: I always go back to like the same book for 786 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: ten years. 787 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 7: But I get what she's saying. I got invited to 788 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 7: a book club and I like really wanted to be 789 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 7: a part of it because like it was like cute friends, 790 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 7: but the book was like seven hundred pages. 791 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: Let's let's you know, time can let's reass let's read 792 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 1: Jamie's on the line in WHITTI or good one to Jamie. Hi, guys, 793 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,520 Speaker 1: what's the story? What's that going to help you? 794 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 7: Well? 795 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 15: I heard you guys talking last week about micro retiring, 796 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 15: and you know, like how some people believe their jobs 797 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 15: and enjoy lives and then go back to working when 798 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:17,280 Speaker 15: they're ready. 799 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 1: Whatever hiatus if you can do it. 800 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 15: Yeah right, okay, So so I'm not really doing that exactly, 801 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 15: but I did get laid off Friday last Friday. So 802 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 15: my question is they gave me a three month severance, 803 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 15: which is great obviously, but do I enjoy the time 804 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 15: off or do I try to jump right back in 805 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 15: and try to find a new job because it's not 806 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 15: really my. 807 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 5: Style to kind of like take it easy or whatever. 808 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,040 Speaker 15: But a lot of my friends are jealous, and I'm 809 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 15: getting paid to do nothing for three months. 810 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,879 Speaker 5: I think I should travel, and I just I don't 811 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 5: really know what I should do. 812 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 1: I think you should maximize this unique opportunity to do 813 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 1: whatever you want and not worry about what other people think. 814 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,400 Speaker 1: What a little blessing luxury if. 815 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: You can get by though, because those three months are 816 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 2: going to go by super fast, and then going to interviews. 817 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 1: All of that maybe take two weeks. Then that's a 818 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, like do something, maybe split it up, 819 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: go go do something you spontaneous for longer than you 820 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:22,919 Speaker 1: normally would, then come back and get real. 821 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 15: Okay, Yeah that's yeah, because I just don't know if 822 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,240 Speaker 15: I'd be able to truly relax during without having something 823 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 15: like do it. 824 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 1: Right out of the gate, do it right up front, 825 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,240 Speaker 1: and then come back and focus. M perfect. 826 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great compromise. 827 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 1: Thank you, well, thanks for reaching out and enjoy your time. 828 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to us. Well that's what Just go 829 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,359 Speaker 1: now and slippers. Yeah, I know right, this is so fun. 830 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say a little Yeah. Two point seven is KISS. 831 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna bounce out. Talk to you all morning Friday 832 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: morning on KISS. Have it going. Thanks for listening so 833 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Christ. 834 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 6: Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.