WEBVTT -  Second Date Update PODCAST: Brochure Guy 

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewels. Second dat update. Bad friends will just tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what you want to hear. Good friends will be

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<v Speaker 1>truthful with you. Yeah, which is why I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any good friends, because I don't want to know the

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<v Speaker 1>truth about myself. And Mark, who is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update today, apparently has some good

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<v Speaker 1>friends who are very truthful with him about his dating life,

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<v Speaker 1>and he says that that helped him. Apparently he tried

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<v Speaker 1>to change something in his dating life recently and he

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<v Speaker 1>went out with a woman and now he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back from her. What's up, Mark? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>How's it going pretty good? So what did your friends

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<v Speaker 1>tell you? Well, you know, I've been single for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>i'n't really had like a furious girlfriend, and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they told me I tend to kind of talk about

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<v Speaker 1>myself a little too much and dominate the conversation. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel that already, right, Well, thanks, let stop talking about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're asking you questions about yourself, but whatever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too self centered even on this show. Right, What

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<v Speaker 1>did they say to do to fix it? Well, they

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<v Speaker 1>thought that if I made a little brochure I could

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<v Speaker 1>hand the girl when I meet her and then she

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<v Speaker 1>should kind of read it with some bullet points about me,

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe that would take the pressure off. They were

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<v Speaker 1>they serious about that. That's kind of funny they were.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, my name's Mark. I made it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called you a market a Minute, and I have this

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<v Speaker 1>just quick marketing a minute brochure that just like it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a quick little thing, you know, catches yap on me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like a picture of measurements, okay, measurements.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like a dating profile with it a brochure?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there, like a travel dating brochure? Yeah? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it worked for that dude on Tender who had like

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<v Speaker 1>a power point profile and women were going crazy for him.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you take a brochure with you when you

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<v Speaker 1>go on dates now, right? So you know, I and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, talks about like my hobbies and things, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>break broken down seasonally, you know, the different things I

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<v Speaker 1>like to do. Isn't that awkward though? Just sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>while she reads it? And you're just staring at her

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<v Speaker 1>while she reads about you, like exactly you would think that.

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<v Speaker 1>But when we met up, you know, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>get a couple of drinks, so I handed her the

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<v Speaker 1>brochure and so she could kind of read it while

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting drinks. That's nice. So you're not sitting

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<v Speaker 1>across the table. Wow, she reads the brochure of Mark. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>right now we're using our time wisely here, you know. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her reaction when you handed her a brochure? Oh, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she found is already helpful. She didn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>weirded out alone. She liked it, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we are honestly, we're able to focus more on her

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<v Speaker 1>as we were talking and stuff because that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I really did. She like it relieved the pressure. I

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<v Speaker 1>think more people should do that on dates. You could

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<v Speaker 1>have given her brochure. She could have given you a brochure,

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<v Speaker 1>no need to even be there over half an hour,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you could go do over whatever else you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do. I make dating so much more streamlined

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<v Speaker 1>since you're vegan, I can't. I'm sorry glad we did

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<v Speaker 1>this right away though. What's her name? By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Elizabeth. Okay, can I just step in

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<v Speaker 1>and say I think this is a horrible idea and

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<v Speaker 1>apparently I'm the only one. Really Yes, I think it's cheesy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why wouldn't you if you talk too much about yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>your friends should have just told you, hey, Mark, shut

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<v Speaker 1>up and ask some questions about the person you're out with.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's easier said than done, Like I've tried

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<v Speaker 1>doing that, but I have trouble holding back, Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about what's up with my wife,

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<v Speaker 1>so so you just can't hold back from talking about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did the date go other than you're brochure?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it good? Well? I told well, really well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were hitting it off and she was laughing at

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<v Speaker 1>my jokes since she was talking about her life, but

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<v Speaker 1>then she had to meet up with a friend, so

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't you know, it kind of got cut short

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Did you believe that, Mark? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>believe that she really needs admit she took the brochure

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<v Speaker 1>with her? I will say yeah, because I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>she's going to show that to all her friends because

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<v Speaker 1>that is ridiculous, or maybe she wants to make one

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<v Speaker 1>up and she's just going to copy my work. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so, Mark, And just don't No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she took it because she was interested, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she wanted to kind of look over at

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<v Speaker 1>more when she got home. And you know it has

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<v Speaker 1>all my contact info in there too, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>that she was interested. Okay, but you haven't heard from her? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. But like that's why kind of need you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to help out. And have you called her? I've

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<v Speaker 1>texted her and I haven't gotten any response. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>what's your theory why she's not calling you back? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at one point she did kind of use

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<v Speaker 1>my brochure as a coaster, so maybe some of my

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<v Speaker 1>info got kind of smudged. Okay, but she has your

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<v Speaker 1>number because you texted her, So there goes that theory,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, Okay, Yeah, just trying to just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out for you, Mark, it could just be

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<v Speaker 1>that you're still not a very good listener and that

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<v Speaker 1>you made the date too much about you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>would you come with a brochure of yourself? It's not

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<v Speaker 1>really making it less about you. I'm sorry what were're saying? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. I am a good quest in her, I

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<v Speaker 1>swear I am. Okay, but no, but the brochure really

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<v Speaker 1>did make me, you know, it made it easier for

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<v Speaker 1>me to listen and just I know, was the right move,

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<v Speaker 1>be able to just getting out of the open right

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<v Speaker 1>right away, and then she was able to talk about herself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's perfect. All right, Well, we'll see if she felt

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<v Speaker 1>the same. We'll play a song and then we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, thank you, yeah man, hang on fucking

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning. Second right in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, and Mark is on the phone today.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants us to call a girl named Elizabeth. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>they met on an app and they went out to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and Mark actually presented her with a brochure

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<v Speaker 1>about himself because his friends told him that they think

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<v Speaker 1>he's not successful at dating because he talks about himself

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<v Speaker 1>too much. The interesting thing is we talked to Mark

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<v Speaker 1>about his date and I just realized we didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>learn very much about her. We mostly learned about Mark

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<v Speaker 1>in that first segment. We know nothing about her. Yeah, Mark, true,

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<v Speaker 1>give us one thing about Elizabeth. What's what's her hair Colorum,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a brown or I mean, I guess it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a maybe a blondish brown. Her hair color, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess kind of a dirty, dirty blond kind Okay, that is,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not committing to a color. Even can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and find out what went

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<v Speaker 1>wrong in your date. And we never asked you. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you actually explain why you gave her the brochure? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like that would have been a little awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't heard that. I honestly think that probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have been the better decision to be, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>gave you that brochure because people said to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>myself too much, So I figured I get everything out

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<v Speaker 1>of the way right now instead of just having her

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<v Speaker 1>wonder why you brought her brochure along. Maybe that should

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<v Speaker 1>be on the front of the brochure. Yeah, you can

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<v Speaker 1>just add that in there so that they know why

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<v Speaker 1>you're giving it to them talking it all on a date. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her phone of her right now here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, is this Elizabeth? It is hey Elizabeth.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is jew Bil from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the morning. It's a radio show. Hi. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? The radio,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, not the show. Just have you heard a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update before? I have heard a few, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've only a few, like, not all the time. Oh cool,

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<v Speaker 1>what you're about to be in one? Seriously? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>got an email from somebody about you. Oh boy, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Mark, and you might have a brochure

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<v Speaker 1>from him laying around your house right now? Oh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I do, Oh my god. He told I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I met a lot of people on dating apps, and

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<v Speaker 1>like some people are just special? Am I different? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, yeah, we talked to Mark and he

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<v Speaker 1>said that he's really upset that you're not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>He did tell us how he showed up to your

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<v Speaker 1>date with a brochure that was all about him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about the brochure? Um? I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was very thoughtful, but it's also very strange. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of both. Sure you didn't like what

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<v Speaker 1>you saw. There's a whole lot of information in there.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like I know that he likes to play

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<v Speaker 1>soccer in the fall and then like board games in

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<v Speaker 1>the winter. His GPA's on there, for some reason. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even remember what it is, but Gpa, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you almost got like a resume essentially for

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<v Speaker 1>your dates. It was like an audition here. I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you find some humor in it? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I thought it was funny. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it was intentional or not to be funny, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was funny. I mean, it's clever. Were you able to

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<v Speaker 1>move past it and have a good time with him?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we had good conversation after that, but there

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<v Speaker 1>was a part where the conversation started to peter out,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he got uncomfortable. I got uncomfortable, and so

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<v Speaker 1>then he just grabs the pamphlet and he said, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so oh, let's play a game. I'm going to test

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<v Speaker 1>you on, like how much you know about me? What

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<v Speaker 1>a quiz? Yeah, and I test anxiety. Anyhow, he's testing

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<v Speaker 1>you on the brochure that he took that's about himself.

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<v Speaker 1>That was like a half hour. Oh no, wait, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a joke. He was not a joke. He told

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<v Speaker 1>me it was going to be a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I don't really know, but then he yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually just sat there and tested me. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was my GP in high school? I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember, Like how tall am I? I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>what was going through your head? It's a lot of pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think he expected me just to absorb everything

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<v Speaker 1>about him and I didn't, And then the conversation became

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<v Speaker 1>like all about him really because he's asked me all

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<v Speaker 1>these questions about himself. That's funny because there is a

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<v Speaker 1>specific reason that he does that brochure thing. Yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>does he do it? Well, I don't want to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just let him tell you because he's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh right, yeah, kay, Lizaban, how are you doing? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't like to brochure, That's that's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting out of this. I'm sorry, Mark, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that you were going to be on the

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<v Speaker 1>thought that it was kind of like awkward for me

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<v Speaker 1>right now, right, I mean, I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, Like I made this brochure because my friends

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<v Speaker 1>told me I just kind of talk about myself too much,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just wanted the focus to be on you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Okay, he grabbed the pamphlet and test me

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<v Speaker 1>on it. That's not getting to know me. And you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't pass on the test and that I am totally yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who would? But why? But that's okay. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you probably had time to review it now though, right?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Mark, are you a listening to what she's saying?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't even hear her? I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she do you? So you didn't like the brochure?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what it was? Okay? I think you all

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<v Speaker 1>can understand. This is what I went through Again. You

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<v Speaker 1>said you've made the brochure that so that you could

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<v Speaker 1>listen more to her. But you're not listening to her.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not asking her any questions about how she feels. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's totally not true. Like I asked her how she

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<v Speaker 1>felt about the brochure, and I mean I even asked

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<v Speaker 1>her if she thought I she anged the cover of it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're still talking about you sort of Mark, when

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about your brochure, I mean not really like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking her opinion. I want to get to know

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<v Speaker 1>where it's foss about you, know about you? About you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean just in this circumstance. But you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to hear what she says, Mark, just to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know her future reference. You still want to

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<v Speaker 1>carry around those pamphlets and you feel like testing your date, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't like go aunt when they get a wrong answer.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, it's a lot of pressure. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>a game show. Bring your own buzzer with you, so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't do it with your mouth, like bringing actual

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<v Speaker 1>buzzer with you. You buzzed her? How could you buzz her? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>She got like everyone wrong? What do you want me

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<v Speaker 1>to say? And to be fair, I did to give

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<v Speaker 1>you extra time, So that is awfully nice of you

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<v Speaker 1>that I just have a hard time absorbing facts that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care about. All right, Well, does not

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<v Speaker 1>to be mean, Really it's not. I just don't care

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<v Speaker 1>about your GPA. Mark. I think you are better off

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<v Speaker 1>dating yourself at this rate. I mean, I've read the

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<v Speaker 1>brochure already. I don't need it. You know you've lived

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<v Speaker 1>the brochure. Elizabeth, would you like to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second day with Mark? We will pay for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's a well I mean, you answer, you're

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<v Speaker 1>very interesting and fun, but I just don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm as fun and interesting as you. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to say no, that was the kindest let down you

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<v Speaker 1>could have gotten. Mark very well said, So, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that's to know. Yeah, I think so. Mark. I'm yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>were you even paying attention? I understand she said no,

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<v Speaker 1>But I just can't help us think that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend thought of this brochure idea. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of liked it, but it kind of feels like

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<v Speaker 1>it backfired on me, Like you think I should still

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<v Speaker 1>be doing the brochure. Absolutely absolutely. I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>more second date updates with you, just to see how

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<v Speaker 1>it goes. All right, Well, if you guys think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea, I'll keep doing it. Yeah, everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>in agreement. Great idea, Keep it up, Mark, good luck man, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you. In the morning, text in at seven, eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two says I would have left as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as the buzzerstounds started. So I'm on a date, not

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<v Speaker 1>a game show. Yeah, it's broke in jubal in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning talking about today's second date update. If you missed it,

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<v Speaker 1>Mark wanted to call Elizabeth. They went out. They met

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar and He actually made a brochure for

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<v Speaker 1>himself to tell her everything about Mark, because apparently his

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<v Speaker 1>friends told him that they think he's not really successful

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<v Speaker 1>in the dating world because he talks about himself too much.

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<v Speaker 1>So he made up a brochure to give to anybody

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<v Speaker 1>that he goes out with so they can learn a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about him, and then that way he can

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<v Speaker 1>just continue to focus on them since now they've got

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<v Speaker 1>all the facts about Mark right in the palm of

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<v Speaker 1>their hand. And it didn't work very well because they

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<v Speaker 1>ran out of a conversation at some point, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he just started quizzing her on the brochure about himself,

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<v Speaker 1>so once again the conversation became him. It just dawned

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<v Speaker 1>on me where his friends trolling him. Probably do you mean, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh my god, we told him to do

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<v Speaker 1>a brochure and he went through with it. I would

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<v Speaker 1>think so. And then apparently, but he deserves Fred. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>when he was quizzing her, she started buzzing her when

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<v Speaker 1>she'd give a wrong answer brochure. Apparently she got every

0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.520
<v Speaker 1>answer wrout yeah, which was a big turn off for him,

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<v Speaker 1>right because she didn't know all about Mark, and Mark

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<v Speaker 1>apparently wants everybody to know all about Mark all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Does anybody else this? I don't want a copy of

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<v Speaker 1>the brochure, though I do, I really want to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a brochure thing could work if you made

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<v Speaker 1>it funny, like I think, if you take it seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>there was in what he was doing. He did it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>serious is what I'm saying, right, he was literally like

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<v Speaker 1>a timeshare salesman. Most people, for himself, are just very

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<v Speaker 1>intrigued with the brochure. Somebody texts it in seven eight, five,

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<v Speaker 1>nine two, And just I want to know what paper

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<v Speaker 1>and print quality of his pamphlet he used. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>cardstock or trifold? I don't know, And we didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>ask like black and white or did he invest in color?

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<v Speaker 1>And how much is it to get a brochure? And

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of graphic design artist did he use? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he do it himself or did he hire somebody

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<v Speaker 1>for that? That could be thousands of dollars by the

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<v Speaker 1>time he's done. And they decided not to get well,

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<v Speaker 1>she decided not to go out with him again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they did not get a second date. So remember if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second date. Update you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call the person who's not calling you back, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call them for you. A brochure too, about the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing moving ninety two point five