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Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on, we got it for you. Here

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Speaker 1: it is Sara crowd Saturday. Here we go. Um subject,

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Speaker 1: what should I do here? Good morning everyone there in

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Speaker 1: the studio. I got this problem that I always find

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Speaker 1: the perfect woman, well sort of perfect to be with me.

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Speaker 1: I'm a tall, dark and very handsome young man trying

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Speaker 1: to make it in life. But right now I don't

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Speaker 1: feel that way because I thought part of being a

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Speaker 1: man is to treat your woman like you would care

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Speaker 1: for your mother. I'm nice to her, but she says

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Speaker 1: she doesn't like me being nice to her all the time.

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Speaker 1: At times she wants me to hit her because every

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Speaker 1: time we argue, I walk away and just ask why, why? Why?

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Speaker 1: Darn it? Why? Okay, well, you can say that I

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Speaker 1: would never even think of putting I would never even

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Speaker 1: think of putting a hand on a woman. What should

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Speaker 1: I do? Should I stay I really do love her?

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Speaker 1: Or should I please help? Sign? Dang ladies? I'm a

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Speaker 1: good man. Okay, dear good man, there's a little letter,

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Speaker 1: big issues. You say. You're tall, you're dark, you're very

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Speaker 1: handsome and trying to make it in life with a

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Speaker 1: sort of perfect woman for you. Let me just tell

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Speaker 1: you that a woman who's perfect for you will have

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Speaker 1: your back. She'll have similar goals and interests. She'll have,

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Speaker 1: you know, similar aspirations that you have. She'll be with you,

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Speaker 1: she'll be loving you, She'll be supporting you as you

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Speaker 1: make your way. As you say in life, a woman

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Speaker 1: who thinks you're too nice and wants you to hit

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Speaker 1: her is crazy. Okay, this woman, she's drama filled. You

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Speaker 1: want to stay away from that. This woman is not

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Speaker 1: a good match for you. Please know that no real

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Speaker 1: woman wants her man to hit her. You know, the

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Speaker 1: best thing to me about this whole letter is that

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Speaker 1: you've had a good sense to walk away when the arguments,

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Speaker 1: you know, get heated, and not put your hands on her.

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Speaker 1: As far as a man treating his woman, uh like

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Speaker 1: his mom, I say, not a exactly. You know, of

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Speaker 1: course you want to respect your woman and all of that,

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Speaker 1: But the way you love your woman is going to

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Speaker 1: be different from the way you love your mom. But yes,

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Speaker 1: by all means to treat her well, you know, be

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Speaker 1: a good man to her. You say you really do

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Speaker 1: love her. Should you stay or should you go? I

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Speaker 1: don't think you should stay. I just I just really

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Speaker 1: don't you. You guys are not right for each other.

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Speaker 1: You say you're a good man. You need a good

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Speaker 1: woman by your side, not one that's drama field and

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Speaker 1: wants you to hit her, you know, and all that stuff.

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Speaker 1: She's trouble. She's just trouble and and it means you know,

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Speaker 1: good Steve. Well, it's a hard because it didn't make

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Speaker 1: no sense. You need to read it again. And they

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Speaker 1: let me see. Good morning everyone here in the studio.

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Speaker 1: I got this problem that I always find a perfect woman,

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Speaker 1: well sort of perfect to be with me. I'm a

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Speaker 1: tall dog and fair, handsome young man trying to make

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Speaker 1: it in life. Right now, I don't feel that way

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Speaker 1: because I thought part of being a man that's to

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Speaker 1: treat your woman like you would care for your mother.

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Speaker 1: I'm nice to help, but she said she don't like

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Speaker 1: me being nice to her all the time. She won't me, Heather,

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Speaker 1: every time we all I walk away? Why why, why

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Speaker 1: why I could never even think of putting my hand

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Speaker 1: I'm a good man. Just let this full of bullcrap

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Speaker 1: right here. Let me read through this for y'all. Right, here,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all something about me, and this ain't

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Speaker 1: how me and right, so let's just understand this is

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Speaker 1: a lot of shaking this in here. First of all,

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Speaker 1: he ain't all he say he is. Anytime you see

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Speaker 1: a man that describes himself, I'm a tall dog and

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Speaker 1: very handsome young man. How you know, like times you're

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Speaker 1: just spending the mirror looking telling yourself. I'm a very

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Speaker 1: don't feel that way. I don't. Oh, now you don't

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Speaker 1: Let's get to part two of your response to today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. I've been reading the letter a couple of

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Speaker 1: times while he was gonna break I see it. Now.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm a tall dog and very handsome young

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Speaker 1: I don't feel that way because I felt that part

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Speaker 1: of being a man is to treat your woman like

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Speaker 1: you would care for your mother. Well, that's an exact

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Speaker 1: true statement, Sureley. I have to tell you because what

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Speaker 1: for your mother. That's the treatment of his woman. It's

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Speaker 1: similar to the treatment of his mother, not the love.

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Speaker 1: So now he's absolutely correct. Then dot dot dot dot.

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Speaker 1: I'm nice to her, but she says she doesn't like

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Speaker 1: me being nice to her all the time. At times

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Speaker 1: she wants me to hit her because every time we

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Speaker 1: all go, I walk away and just asked. Then it's

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Speaker 1: in capital letter. Why why? Why damn it? Why? It

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Speaker 1: sounds like he's a winy type little dude. Oh he

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Speaker 1: got to be young man. If he ain't, this letter

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Speaker 1: is in far worse condition than his shoes. But if

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Speaker 1: he's in his thirties, this is really we're getting close

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Speaker 1: to catastrophe. I would never even think of putting my

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Speaker 1: hand on woman. What should I do? I? Should I stay?

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Speaker 1: I really do love? Or should I go? Please sign?

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Speaker 1: Damn ladies, I'm a good man. Well, brother, let's let's

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Speaker 1: not be so it. Maybe it's some other areas in

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Speaker 1: manhood you lacking Like number one. I think you full

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Speaker 1: of yourself. You're such a perfect man, and you love

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Speaker 1: her so much. What is y'all aging about all the time?

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Speaker 1: And then why you always do the perfect thing? You

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Speaker 1: walk away, and you ask yourself, why, why, why damn why?

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Speaker 1: That's because you're a drama made chill, thank your asses,

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Speaker 1: that I really do. I think he's a drama guy. Well,

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Speaker 1: a few things. You want them to know you you

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Speaker 1: don't hit women. You want them to know that. You

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Speaker 1: want them to know that you're tall, dark, and very handsome.

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Speaker 1: And you want them to know that, damn, you're a

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Speaker 1: good man. Well are you really tall? Are you five seven?

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Speaker 1: One thing I know about being a real good man.

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Speaker 1: Somebody's daughter gonna won't you, Gonna won't you soon as

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Speaker 1: you can't seem to hold it together. So let's really

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Speaker 1: start evaluating a couple of things here. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're tall. I think you're five seven.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're dark at all. I think you high, yell,

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Speaker 1: I think you're five seven high, yeah, and then and

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Speaker 1: think you're around and scanned people off. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what that happened at the house. You know, did she

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Speaker 1: borrow your brush? Is that what y'all all about? Did

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Speaker 1: you did you tell her to stop and pointed at

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Speaker 1: it with one of them a little bit of hands?

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Speaker 1: Was you standing on the steps talking to trying to

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Speaker 1: appear tall? I know my answer appears ridiculous, but ridiculous

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Speaker 1: letters require ridiculous responses, So let's just go on. So why, why, why? Why?

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Speaker 1: I think it's time for a poem. So dark and

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Speaker 1: single question why? I asked myself in all my beauty?

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Speaker 1: Does anybody think I'm tall? Anybody but me? Some people

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Speaker 1: say I'm tall. I'm only five seven. But when I'm

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Speaker 1: with my woman, I swear she feels like she's in heaven.

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Speaker 1: But I wear her, treat her. I treat her just

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Speaker 1: like my mother, But she says, hold on, little boy,

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Speaker 1: I want to feel like another Maybe I want to

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Speaker 1: I want to be like your girl would be. Spank me,

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Speaker 1: big daddy, spank me. I'll call you big daddy, even

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Speaker 1: you ain't tall, you only five seven. I'm the doorstep

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Speaker 1: to heaven. But I look at you, Are you my man?

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Speaker 1: I can't tell because you got small hands. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at

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Speaker 1: my girls, surely and don't forget. Please to join me

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