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Speaker 1: First day to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: JR. Is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Marie. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we're going to call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe you

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, JR. How long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Marie?

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Speaker 3: Oh man, A couple of days. I guess maybe a

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Speaker 3: week now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you try to hit her up?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I've called a couple of times.

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Speaker 3: I didn't leave a voice message every time I called

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Speaker 3: because they didn't want to sound crazy or whatever.

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Speaker 4: But she just hadn't called back. I got nothing.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 3: It was awesome, so we moun on the apps. I

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Speaker 3: just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed. I mean,

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Speaker 3: she had pictures with animals, she was out in nature.

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Speaker 4: You know, with her friends.

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Speaker 3: I mean the second we started talking, it was like

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Speaker 3: I was telling her about how always wanted to ride

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Speaker 3: a horse, but I've been like real afraid to try.

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Speaker 3: And she laughed at it, you know, But like it

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Speaker 3: was that cute kind of laugh, and then she was

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Speaker 3: like really encouraging and and we decided that actually our

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Speaker 3: first meeting would be for me to go horseback riding.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a cool first day.

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Speaker 3: It was amazing, Like I actually rode a horse. She

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Speaker 3: was amazing. She was like like my personal cheerleader. She

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Speaker 3: was just so warm and energetic and and I mean

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Speaker 3: she was gorgeous too.

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Speaker 4: I just oh, I I can't get it out of

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Speaker 4: my mind. It was amazing.

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Speaker 3: And after we rode horses, we you know, we went

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Speaker 3: home to shower and we changed.

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Speaker 4: And then we met up for dinner.

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Speaker 3: And oh my gosh, I'm smiling so hard right now

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Speaker 3: just thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: Like it was things, things are going great.

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Speaker 3: You know, we we even kissed before we went into

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Speaker 3: the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: And that's a good sign, really good sign.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: That's usually it's like if you're lucky after dinner.

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Speaker 4: You know, this was right away and you.

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Speaker 3: Know, set the tone for some real romance. And after dinner,

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Speaker 3: you know, we kissed again and I told her that

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Speaker 3: I was gonna call her this week with a plan

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Speaker 3: for another adventure.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's just this is so good.

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Speaker 1: So you're really into her. It sounds like the date

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Speaker 1: went great though, to have a two part date and

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Speaker 1: kisses and feels like there was really great momentum.

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Speaker 2: What could have gone wrong? You think?

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Speaker 3: You know, the only thing that I can really think

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Speaker 3: of is like, you know, I'm the type of person that, like,

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Speaker 3: sometimes I say the wrong thing at.

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Speaker 4: The wrong time. You know, I don't mean to, but

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Speaker 4: like we were.

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Speaker 3: Sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had like

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Speaker 3: a design her handbag and some fancy jewelry, and you know,

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Speaker 3: she's a teacher, and right away you wanted to make

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Speaker 3: a little joke because she had really fancy stuff. So

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Speaker 3: I remember saying like, hey, where are you on OnlyFans

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Speaker 3: or something like, you know how you afford that fancy stuff?

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Speaker 3: She It was like the only point where I forget

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Speaker 3: all that romance is she looked just like cold, and

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Speaker 3: then she kind of played it off, but She's like,

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Speaker 3: I'm just I'm a good thrifter. And there was a

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Speaker 3: little awkward moment there.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I moved on from it, and I told her, you

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Speaker 3: say I mean offender or anything, and I told her.

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Speaker 4: It was a joke, And that was the only moment

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Speaker 4: that kind of that I can think of. That was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: is that what it was?

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Speaker 3: Did I really ruin it by putting my foot in

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Speaker 3: my mouth again?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it sounds like you're joked in land. You got

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Speaker 2: to tell that one, right, just right. You got to

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Speaker 2: tell that one and not be like, yeah, okay, well yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe that's why she's not calling you back. We'll play

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Speaker 2: a song come back and then call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh my gosh, please, yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll play a song, come back and get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up next. Friends, the middle of

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Speaker 2: today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us, Jr.

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Speaker 2: Is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Marie,

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Speaker 2: and so in the second we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she's hell us why she's ghosting him. But

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Speaker 2: before we do that, Jarah, why don't you catch us

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Speaker 2: up on your situation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, when on the best first day I've ever had,

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Speaker 3: we broke one of my fears going horseback riding. We

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Speaker 3: kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out

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Speaker 3: of a movie. As far as I'm concerned, and I

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Speaker 3: may have put my foot in my mouth, but I

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Speaker 3: think it went really well overall, and I can't get

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Speaker 3: her to get back to me, and I really want

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Speaker 3: to go on another adventure with her.

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Speaker 1: But your foot in your mouth was there because you

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Speaker 1: asked her if she was on only fans because she

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Speaker 1: had nice things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was a joke, right right?

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Speaker 4: All right? Man?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Marie. Please,

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Speaker 2: Hey Marie, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 2: Hi'm Marie. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 2: I'm Victoria. Hey. How are you great? Thanks for asking?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard of the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I love the show?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Thanks great. Do you like the first date follow ups?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yes, congratulations, because this is a first date follow up?

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Speaker 2: You're gusting somebody and they emailed us about you. Do

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Speaker 2: you know who that would be?

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Speaker 4: Yes Jr?

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Speaker 2: Yes Jr. So he emailed us and told us about

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Speaker 2: your date. He said he really liked you and he's

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Speaker 2: not sure. Why are you ghosting him? Do you point

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Speaker 2: telling us, Oh.

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Speaker 5: My goodness, I'm sobarious. Well I really liked him too,

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Speaker 5: but and and the date was great and everything, but

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Speaker 5: to be honest, he was asking some personal questions and

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Speaker 5: he seemed like he was crying a little bit. I

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Speaker 5: couldn't tell if he was joking or not. But he,

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Speaker 5: you know, was getting a little too close to finding

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Speaker 5: out a secret, honestly. And I I just don't go

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Speaker 5: out with guys.

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Speaker 2: Like that, Like, like guys like that, do you What

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Speaker 2: do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like you know, nosy. You know, I like to

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Speaker 5: keep my privacy, you know, like my personal business is

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Speaker 5: my business.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you mean by that?

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I just I want a guy to

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Speaker 5: like me for me, and I'm not sure if he does.

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Speaker 5: And I you know, I'm not sure if he's like

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Speaker 5: creepy or not.

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Speaker 2: You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why.

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Speaker 5: Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my

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Speaker 5: bags that I mean, I'd like to have my stuff,

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Speaker 5: and he asked me if I was on OnlyFans and

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Speaker 5: and and it made me think, is that how he

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Speaker 5: saw me?

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Speaker 4: Is that?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: Is that why he's Okay?

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Speaker 1: So you feel like he put two and two together,

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Speaker 1: and you're usually low key about it.

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Speaker 2: You probably knew how people that want to date you

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Speaker 2: because of that.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 5: that's how he knows me. I'm pretty sure he figured

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Speaker 5: it out and that's why he asked me for a date.

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Speaker 3: Oh whoa, whoa Wait a minute, So you you are

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Speaker 3: on Only Fans.

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Speaker 2: He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: No, Oh my god, Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 4: Old Hi, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I swear I did not know you were on there.

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Speaker 4: I was just making.

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Speaker 2: A joke that is a bad time joke that.

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Speaker 5: I thought that you that you for sure knew I

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Speaker 5: was on and that's why you asked me out. So

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Speaker 5: you really just saw me on the app and and

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Speaker 5: genuinely just wanted to go out with me.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you seem so sweet. It's one hundred percent

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Speaker 4: for like who you are.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry.

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Speaker 3: It is cool that you have an Only Fans.

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Speaker 5: You do, You're cool with it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care about that. I'd never judge you

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Speaker 4: for that, you know, I mean, if you want to

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Speaker 4: keep it a secret. Maybe you know, don't bring out

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Speaker 4: the fancy stuff. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You were doing so well this moment.

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Speaker 5: I like, what can I say?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I'm sorry. I was that stupid. I was

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Speaker 4: just trying to do.

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Speaker 3: I danced in person, but you guys can't see that.

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Speaker 4: And it was supposed to be a joke. And I

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Speaker 4: suck at that.

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Speaker 2: But you rode a horse j r.

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Speaker 4: You Yeah, and she was amazing. I never would have

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Speaker 4: done it if it wasn't for Marie. But it was great.

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Speaker 4: It was you were my little You're my hero that day, Marie.

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Speaker 4: It was great.

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Speaker 2: You guys are actually really cute.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. You are really sweet. Air and I and

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Speaker 5: I do really like you and Marie.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with you?

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Speaker 2: Are we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 5: Really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Oh my gosh, please please say yes. Please say yes.

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Speaker 2: I swear already.

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Speaker 4: Whoever yes, great? Sorry you will first day fall up