1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: All right, the coelo here we go with them, ask 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: the clo. This is from Levy and Tifton. Levy writes, 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: my long term girlfriend or is it Levy or Levi? 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: Maybe it's Levi? Levi was with an I? Okay, Levi 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: and Tipton says, my longtime girlfriend started going to counseling 6 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: with our pastor's wife to deal with some issues. I 7 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: didn't know her past was troubling her, but she said 8 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: in her early twenties she slept with men for money. 9 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: I want to ask how many? But I want her 10 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: to feel safe talking to me. She's trying to heal, 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: So how should I react to this? 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: Well, brouh, just be that. Don't ask for that number. 13 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,919 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna tell your things. I want to know 14 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 2: how many? You really don't know? Alarming, Stay away from 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 2: that numbers. All you need here's the number you need 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: to know. You need to know her employment record. That's 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: all you need. 18 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: To know, not that body count. 19 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, y' all you need to know is how long 20 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: was you unemployed? That's all you need to know. And 21 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 2: if it's two three years, she was working one more time? 22 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh man? 23 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: All right? But dog Ti, but bruh bro, just leave 24 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 2: the count alone. Leave the count. If you want to 25 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: help her heal, Let bygones be bygones. Let her past 26 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 2: be her past. She's not that person anymore. She going 27 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: to council, all right. 28 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: Moving on to Mercedes and Edgewater, Mercedes writes, an ex 29 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: boyfriend moved into my building and my husband doesn't know 30 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: we used to date. We've run into him a couple 31 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: of times, and my husband said, what's his story? Is 32 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: that a general question? Or does he already know that 33 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: we dated? 34 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: That's what he don't know nothing. Men don't have intuition. 35 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 2: He don't know nothing. He kind of looking at the 36 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: way he see you and y'all run up into him. 37 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: He giving that little what's his story? Because he's trying 38 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 2: to figure out what he's doing over here. This ain't 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: the time for you to come forward with information. 40 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: So what's your wife? You do? What should she do? 41 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: I don't know? So she's getting you by Yeah, absolutely, 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 2: I've never seen this man. I have no idea. 43 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: Who if it's someone in her past, what difference would 44 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: it make? You know? What s the reasoning question? 45 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: Well, I'm telling you is why they call me, because 46 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell him the stuff that makes sense. Now 47 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: you've got it him. I've never seen this man. How 48 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 2: would I know his story? 49 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: Tell if she's an honest person and she just said, 50 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: oh honey, that's someone I used to date. What if 51 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: she says that? 52 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: Okay? Now, why is he in this building? Why is 53 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 2: he in this building? When was you gonna tell me? 54 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 2: How come you ain't say nothing? Oh so that's why 55 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: he be looking at you like this. That's on. So 56 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 2: when you go to store, you really be going to 57 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: the store. 58 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: So someone from her path. 59 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: Surely everybody listen to me. I'm just trying to keep 60 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: peace in your house. Don't tell don't go up there 61 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: and tell this man y'all used to date, because it's 62 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: gonna be a whole lot of questions you can't answer, 63 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 2: and it's gonna look suspicious, and he gonna bring this 64 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: up molden once. 65 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, use it against reinize it, Okay. Moving 66 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: on to Rick and Capel, Rick writes, I walked in 67 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: the gym and a chick I have sex with called me. 68 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: I looked at my phone and put it in my bag. 69 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: She texted me and said she's looking right at me. 70 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: She got loud. I walked off. She knows it's just 71 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: a sex thing, So why would she clown like that? 72 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 2: Because it was a sex thing? Dog, I gave you me. 73 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 2: I call you, you look at my name, throw me 74 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: in the gym bag? 75 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: And then she got loud with it. 76 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: You know it's me. 77 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm looking right at you. You see my name? Mhm. 78 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: But baby, baby, listen, listen. 79 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 2: It was just the thing. That's all it ones. Why 80 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 2: did Monday night? 81 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 82 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 2: It's just one night. That's only ones you wanted to have, 83 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 2: no promise, hooked on this, nothing like that. We talking about, 84 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 2: no futures or nothing. You know, I ain't he man 85 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 2: she want you did? I don't even really know your 86 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:58,239 Speaker 2: last name. You know, I got your nickname in my phone. 87 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 2: I don't even know your last name. When you come up, 88 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: all I see is jaws. I call you John the shop, 89 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: and that's all it is. I don't know what you want? 90 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: What else did she say? 91 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: But what? You? What? 92 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: What you? 93 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 2: When I call you? You just going And I'm looking 94 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 2: right at you. You see my name, and then you're 95 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 2: gonna throw me in some bag and walk off. I 96 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 2: see you say you saw my name? Yeah, But I was. 97 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: I was going downstairs to get myself a protein. Shit. 98 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I didn't want to talk 99 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: to you right now because I got some other traps 100 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 2: up in this n gym. 101 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: He ain't the only one, she said when he said 102 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: that about to get the trap. 103 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: What you mean I'm a trap? 104 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: What you mean you got others? 105 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 2: What you think I was doing for? I meant you. Wow, 106 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 2: you see I'm in this gym getting off fine and everything. 107 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 2: You think you're the only one want me? 108 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Look at me her face. 109 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 2: That's why you wanted me, because I spent enough time 110 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 2: in this gym. That's why I wanted you. Because you 111 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: was in the gym. You got to buy it. But 112 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 2: you ain't got the face though, no mattering. Wow and 113 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 2: everything I'm saying. It's different. 114 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: Wow, you don't break up that smoothie. That's what I think. 115 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: If they're done, all right? One left one. This is 116 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: from Ava in Inglewood. Ava says, I just had my 117 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: first child and my husband wants our dog to stay 118 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: with my parents until the baby gets adjusted to the house. 119 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: The dog is my baby too, and he's never accepted 120 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: that my dad is on his side and wants to 121 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: keep my dog? What should I do? 122 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: Lady lady, you just had this baby. You don't even 123 00:06:55,240 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: know what's coming. You don't even know what's coming. Them 124 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: dogs is not people, and I keep pay Helen, y'all fird, baby. 125 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 1: My age deves is not people. 126 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 2: And I'm tired of people comparing the damn animals to 127 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: children because they not The money you finished being on 128 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: this child and the attention you're gonna have to pay 129 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 2: for him. You gonna understand real soon. Now. Let that 130 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,559 Speaker 2: dog going over your daddy's house. 131 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: Uh, I don't know she's gonna be able to do. 132 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: That doesn't sound like it's you're listening, Steve Harvey Morning 133 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: Show