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Speaker 1: Dear Ryan and Siciny. This is a second date update

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Speaker 1: Ryan and Sistey. We only went on one date and

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Speaker 1: it was virtual because we live an hour apart.

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Speaker 2: But it went great.

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Speaker 1: Now he's totally blowing me off, so it went great,

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Speaker 1: but why not? Why not go out again? So Kim,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Kim, thanks for coming on.

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Speaker 2: Good news. Is you met a guy you like?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I did?

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Speaker 1: So you went out, well, you virtually went out once

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Speaker 1: and everything seemed great.

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Speaker 2: What did you like about the guy?

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Speaker 4: He was very funny and I'm very into that. He's

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Speaker 4: also way cuter than his photos, which is a plus

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Speaker 4: in you know dating that Yeah, yeah, right, exactly. And

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Speaker 4: we just had a great conversation and we talked for

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Speaker 4: a little over an hour and I'd love to meet.

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Speaker 3: What did you talk about?

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Speaker 2: What do you talk about on a first virtual.

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Speaker 4: Well, we had been texting for a while, you know,

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Speaker 4: as you do, and it's been really great. They exchange

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Speaker 4: just making chokes, talked about our life. I mean, we

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Speaker 4: do live an hour apart, but you know we're still

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Speaker 4: live in the same state for God's sake, and we

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Speaker 4: just talk about you know, just life and anything and everything,

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Speaker 4: our jobs.

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Speaker 1: Each other, how he's blowing you off, he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to meet up or what's happening.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's that's what I want to know. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I text him the other day. We had discussed meeting

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Speaker 4: in person on our call on FaceTime, and then I

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Speaker 4: text him and he did not respond, and it said

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Speaker 4: that he read in my text. So I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: It's weird, right, he felt like everything went went off.

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Speaker 4: Smoothly, right, like the conversation was easy.

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Speaker 2: He's not interested exactly.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: What's his name, Doug? Doug?

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Speaker 1: All right, think about Doug for a second. If you're Doug,

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Speaker 1: why are you blowing off Kim after one good virtual date? Like,

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Speaker 1: what's the deal, Doug, that's the name of this second date?

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Speaker 2: Update? What's the dog? So, Kim, we're all going to

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Speaker 2: think about that. Let's hear dugout.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when we come back, we'll get into it. Also,

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Speaker 1: I got pink tickets and what's the deal, Doug.

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Speaker 2: Dugout is good too?

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Speaker 3: On air with Ryan Seacret On air on Air with

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Speaker 3: the Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: How many times have you sort of like felt rejected

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Speaker 1: and you spiral trying to faar it? What happened, and

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Speaker 1: you may never find out what went wrong or why

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Speaker 1: you didn't want another time with that person. Watch its

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Speaker 1: second date update is I mean, really, it's a way

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Speaker 1: to find out what happened. So Kim is the one

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Speaker 1: that reached out to us, and she met this guy Doug,

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Speaker 1: and they live an hour apart. So I say, you

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Speaker 1: do a virtual date, right exactly?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, seems to go well, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 2: nothing from Doug.

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Speaker 1: He's blowing you off. I mean, clearly he's not responding

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Speaker 1: to your text about hooking up again.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, we had discuss meeting up in person, and

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Speaker 4: then all.

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Speaker 1: Right, the back room has got him on hold. Here,

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Speaker 1: here's what I do, Kim. We're gonna talk to him

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Speaker 1: right now. They're gonna put him through God and put

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Speaker 1: him through. But be very quiet, Kim. Okay, okay, can

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Speaker 1: you put Doug through?

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Speaker 2: Yep? Hmmm, Hello Doug.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Hi, my name is Ryan Seacrest. You're on the

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Speaker 1: air with us here at the Kiss FM. Angele Sisani

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Speaker 1: and Tanya with me as well.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Doug.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 3: No? I'm doing all right? What's up to? Uh?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Being awake?

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Speaker 2: Good? Well, that's the best part of life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so so doub We're calling you about a woman

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Speaker 1: named Kim that you met.

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Speaker 2: And you guys virtually went out.

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Speaker 3: Kim.

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Speaker 2: A woman named Kim you had a first virtual date with.

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Speaker 2: Is that some familiar Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I remember her. Uh wow, it's up.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm calling you. We happen to know that

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Speaker 2: you guys went out and did it go? Well? Do

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Speaker 2: you like her? Is there anything there?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, uh swiped right on her and face time,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, I guess I had some interest in her.

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Speaker 4: Do you actually want to go out with her in person?

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Speaker 3: Ah? I mean I kind of bad vibe? Okay, what intense?

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Speaker 2: What's the bad vibe?

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Speaker 3: Like? Oh?

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Speaker 4: God? Uh?

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Speaker 3: You said her on the radio.

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Speaker 2: Right every single day?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so she's she's gonna hear this.

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Speaker 1: Well, Doug, she's listening right now. I'm just gonna tell you,

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Speaker 1: so you might as well tell her. Kim, say Helloa

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Speaker 1: to Doug. This may be one of the most moments

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Speaker 1: created here about to tell us you what the deal

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Speaker 1: is and what the bad vibe was.

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Speaker 2: Doug, go for it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I guess it's good for you to know. Uh.

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Speaker 3: So we had a six pm FaceTime date, like at

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Speaker 3: six pm in the evening, and I look forward to

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Speaker 3: it all day. So I dressed nicely, I did my hair,

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Speaker 3: and I treated it like a like a full on

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Speaker 3: first date, because you know, when we live pretty far

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Speaker 3: from each other, so we FaceTime instead of meeting up,

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Speaker 3: and I thought it was a first date, like you know,

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Speaker 3: I treated it that way. And she was like she

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Speaker 3: looked like she just woke up, like she was in

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Speaker 3: a T shirt and pajama bottoms. And I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: this is obviously not a big priority for you, at

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Speaker 3: least not as bad much as it was for me,

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Speaker 3: And just it kind of tells me like, Okay, this

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Speaker 3: date doesn't mean that much to her. I get the sense,

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Speaker 3: you know, like maybe she has a pretty high opinion

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Speaker 3: of herself, doesn't have a whole lot going on if

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Speaker 3: she's waking up at six pm.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's like, Kim respond to this, Kim, Yes, Look.

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Speaker 4: I told him on the call, and I apologized. I

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Speaker 4: took a nap at three and I was gonna get

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Speaker 4: up at four and get ready, but I overslept and

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Speaker 4: I'm really sorry. I mean it. I didn't mean to

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Speaker 4: this is bad.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's to me, it's like such a kind

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Speaker 1: of a non issue. But the fact that it's this

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Speaker 1: heightened listening to both of you, I don't think Doug

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Speaker 1: him for me. My view is that you guys are

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Speaker 1: clicking right, and so I just even listened to the

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Speaker 1: way you guys are talking to each other and the

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Speaker 1: intensity of it, I'm not so sure this is the

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Speaker 1: right fit.

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Speaker 2: Would you?

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Speaker 4: Would you agree, especially if you already addressed it, and Doug,

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Speaker 4: you haven't been able to let it go.

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Speaker 1: Also, she took a nap, like bro, get over it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I mean, I love that

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Speaker 1: you took it seriously, and that's great, and I always

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Speaker 1: believe over dress or you can always over right, you can.

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Speaker 1: You can certainly be underdressed, but never probably be an overdressed.

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Speaker 1: You took it seriously, but I'm almost worried it's a

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Speaker 1: little too intense for what it is. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'd be I'd be a little scared off.

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Speaker 2: Doug.

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Speaker 3: I just felt like maybe the day didn't mean that

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Speaker 3: much to her.

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Speaker 2: Then we we we got we got.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to go out again? Or is this

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Speaker 2: not a good idea? I mean, no, I can't hesitate either.

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Speaker 1: You want to go out with the person that you

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Speaker 1: don't have, there's hesitation. Don't waste anybody's time.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well, I mean, at the very least,

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Speaker 3: I'll say I'm flattered that she went through this much

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Speaker 3: effort to get a hold of me, going through the

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Speaker 3: radio and everything. I think that's exactly flatter.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, you got your answer there. I do

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Speaker 1: feel like it's better that you guys have met and

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Speaker 1: sort of move on.

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Speaker 4: Well maybe we mean that person.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't think.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's up to them. We're gonna let you guys go.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much for coming on in.

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Speaker 4: Good luck because I can't really doesn't want to give up.

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Speaker 1: Well for me, he's taken that way too seriously. And

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Speaker 1: she also reacted too seriously. Yeah, I got way too intensive, right,

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Speaker 1: she got very sad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's a nap, bro give her a break.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get it though. Like, when you're virtually dating,

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Speaker 2: you want you want to treat it like an actual date.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, how bad is she?

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Speaker 3: Look?

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Speaker 2: It takes like two seconds to really just like that's

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Speaker 2: what your hair.

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Speaker 3: I dated a guy for three months on FaceTime, and

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Speaker 3: I would like do my hair and makeup, but I'd

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Speaker 3: wear like sweats because you can see right below.

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Speaker 2: To make that work for three months, I know, remember

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Speaker 2: that guy doctor screen time?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, doctor screen time. I mean that says

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Speaker 1: it all right there,