Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: I want to redo that intro. What just because we
Speaker 2: took out the People's Choice Award winning and you know what,
Speaker 2: we never lose that title. Just because years have gone
Speaker 2: by that we didn't win doesn't mean that we are
Speaker 2: no longer.
Speaker 3: I think Mark may have just chosen a different.
Speaker 4: One that's a regular intro.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I'm going to take it back. You don't
Speaker 5: have to worry.
Speaker 3: Mark is giving me, this is giving me the energy
Speaker 3: of like, here's the thing. Do I agree that? First
Speaker 3: of all, hello, everybody strumming.
Speaker 2: Dub and okay, I.
Speaker 5: Think the thing is what's the thing?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 3: You know when someone goes on a show and it
Speaker 3: was like, not they're not a scripted show, not like
Speaker 3: a friends, but like a reality show, for instance, me
Speaker 3: going on the Bachelor.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, and then all I have to.
Speaker 3: Show for my whole life is my time on the Bachelor,
Speaker 3: which I give nods to my Bachelor time all the
Speaker 3: time because I'm it's it's the reason why I'm sitting
Speaker 3: here with you lovely people doing this podcast. However, if
Speaker 3: I never have anything beyond that, and I only hold
Speaker 3: on to that and it's like my one thing that
Speaker 3: I need as an intro for every day.
Speaker 2: But let me play Devil's Attorney here because it's also
Speaker 2: on the flip side. If if you're like one of
Speaker 2: those people who are famous for the Bachelor, and then
Speaker 2: you go on a talk show and you say, please
Speaker 2: don't ask me any questions about being on the Bachelor.
Speaker 5: I hate when people do that.
Speaker 3: That's not the same thing I think we I think
Speaker 3: every single episode of our podcast two times a week
Speaker 3: hearing two times award winning podcast.
Speaker 6: Subscribe, what do you think?
Speaker 5: Do you want our title or would you like?
Speaker 3: No, we're not stripped of our title just because it's
Speaker 3: not in our intro.
Speaker 6: We're always People's Choice Award winners.
Speaker 3: It's sitting on my shelf for ever, like it's in
Speaker 3: my heart forever. But I think our goal should be
Speaker 3: for the next to win, to win a fresh one.
Speaker 2: Yes, but I think it shouldn't be a People's Choice award.
Speaker 2: I think we should aim bigger, like what an Emmy?
Speaker 2: Can we even be eligible for that?
Speaker 3: In the award winning podcast?
Speaker 4: That be something we're starting over.
Speaker 1: Here we go scrubbing in with Tilly and Tanya rad
Speaker 1: and iHeartRadio and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2: She even sounds more exciting, so much better.
Speaker 3: I didn't know the tone was so different.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, here's a podcast, man, podcast.
Speaker 3: Here we go. It sounds better.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I said so.
Speaker 3: And and we aim to continue to strive for Emmy's
Speaker 3: and Grammy's and uh oscar.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I went on this pursuit a while ago. I don't
Speaker 5: really know.
Speaker 3: Yeah you did. I remember this what other awards.
Speaker 5: We could win?
Speaker 2: But I'm sure they're out there. There's got to be
Speaker 2: other awards out there.
Speaker 3: Even if we could win an iHeart Radio.
Speaker 5: And you know what, I like the nomination.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm not gonna sit here and be like, oh.
Speaker 2: Does it matter to you know? It's an honor to
Speaker 2: just do No. I love the nominations.
Speaker 3: Well, no, of course. Like to be recognized for work
Speaker 3: is a great feeling. Yeah, there's no denying that.
Speaker 5: No, no new So I love your hair length, Thank
Speaker 5: you so much.
Speaker 3: It's giving what big wife energy?
Speaker 5: Yes, you know what somebody said to me.
Speaker 3: I saw Molly May.
Speaker 2: They said, it's giving Molly May, and I have never
Speaker 2: felt felt more of a compliment in my core in
Speaker 2: my life, like Molly May is like.
Speaker 3: Peak, Okay, see that means nothing to me. I saw
Speaker 3: you posted that, but I know it means a lot
Speaker 3: to you.
Speaker 5: It means the world to me.
Speaker 6: Are you joking?
Speaker 5: It means the world. It's giving Molly May.
Speaker 2: You basically could say like it's giving.
Speaker 5: Jesus christos like I don't know how much higher up
Speaker 5: you can get Jesus.
Speaker 4: Correct, Yeah, Molly May is Jesus Christ.
Speaker 3: Of Tonya's life looks of looks okay, Well, I mean,
Speaker 3: I of course know who that is.
Speaker 4: Anyone listening who might not.
Speaker 2: Molly May was on season five of UK Love Island.
Speaker 2: She ended up with Tommy Fury. They had a child
Speaker 2: named Bambi together. They are no longer together, although I
Speaker 2: do think they will get back together. There was rumors
Speaker 2: of infidelity. We're not totally sure. But she's like an icon.
Speaker 2: She is a legend. She's so cute. I always think
Speaker 2: her fashion is so cute. I think her style. I
Speaker 2: was so cute, obsessed with her.
Speaker 3: Well. They actually had a viral moment on TikTok because
Speaker 3: there was a photo of them leaving the.
Speaker 5: Airport, Molly and Tommy.
Speaker 3: And the baby and she was pushing the stroller and
Speaker 3: rolling luggage, and he just had like one thing in
Speaker 3: his hand. And people are like, this is the ultimate
Speaker 3: red flag. Why is he not carrying everything and just
Speaker 3: letting her push the stroller? And so people are like
Speaker 3: posting photos of like other men just like carrying all
Speaker 3: the luggage and the woman having like barely anything.
Speaker 5: Do you understand.
Speaker 2: I didn't even realize until I started after we got
Speaker 2: married and I was doing a couple trips solo. I
Speaker 2: hadn't lifted a bag into the overhead compartment in years
Speaker 2: because Robbie just does it for me.
Speaker 3: Neither has Hayley I do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and he like rolls my bags like I don't
Speaker 5: have to. I literally don't have to lift a finger.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well take note, Tom, Molly Ray does apparently.
Speaker 3: Just better off. Well, I don't know, maybe they're back together,
Speaker 3: as you said, rumors are speculating.
Speaker 5: Well, I think she deserves better anyways. Anyway, MOLLI may side,
Speaker 5: How are you.
Speaker 3: Feeling about the hair, because there was just like a shift,
Speaker 3: like you went from like girlfriend fiance to like wife
Speaker 3: with the haircut?
Speaker 5: Really?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what does it, dud?
Speaker 5: Does it sophisticate me?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It just is like you know, in a parent trap.
Speaker 8: Don't like old. No, Okay, sophisticated is a good word.
Speaker 8: Like it's just like acquired, sure, acquired Meredith Blake and
Speaker 8: the parent trap. Uh huh kind of that vibe.
Speaker 5: I don't like her.
Speaker 3: Okay, she's a legend, thanks mart.
Speaker 5: She's a legend, but like not a nice one.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But people in the people have been also saying
Speaker 3: I understand Meredith Blake more now as an adult, because
Speaker 3: you have these two parents who purposely separated their twins
Speaker 3: on purpose, they chose not to see one of their
Speaker 3: children for forever, and.
Speaker 5: Then that is so weird if you think about it.
Speaker 3: And then you have these two, these little brats that
Speaker 3: are trained places on you, and you're just trying to
Speaker 3: marry a rich man in your twenties and have a
Speaker 3: good life for yourself and they're making it hell. And
Speaker 3: I was like, they're not wrong.
Speaker 5: No, No, I.
Speaker 4: Looked her up too. Meredith's hair is way shorter than
Speaker 4: Tanya's hair.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But like I'm just saying it, it's like this,
Speaker 3: like she was in her mid twenties in that show,
Speaker 3: and I remember.
Speaker 5: The same same, same mid twenties.
Speaker 3: It's giving just elevated new phase of life.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's for just new phase of life.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how I'm giving that energy because I feel it
Speaker 2: in my soul.
Speaker 3: Good. I'm glad the Molly May Wife era. How was
Speaker 3: your weekend? How are your celebrations?
Speaker 5: My weekend was good. How was your weekend?
Speaker 3: It was good? Pretty low key, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5: Chill vibes.
Speaker 3: They're just like working away on our house, so it's
Speaker 3: just construction all day, all every day, and Haley goes
Speaker 3: ga on the weekends. Well, so the first weekend they
Speaker 3: didn't come until I was like, oh, I guess they
Speaker 3: don't do the weekends, which I'm indifferent about. I'm like,
Speaker 3: they deserve a break obviously. Yeah, and it's nice not
Speaker 3: to have the sound.
Speaker 5: And your neighbors probably enjoy them too.
Speaker 3: And then they came this Saturday and Haley was like,
Speaker 3: maybe you could call and see if they could give
Speaker 3: us a heads up if they're coming on the weekend.
Speaker 3: I'm like no, I was like, I just want them
Speaker 3: to come, and like, the the more they're working, the
Speaker 3: faster it's done. Yeah, like this is just a small
Speaker 3: bloop in time. Don't sew them down.
Speaker 5: No, I agree, but it might not be nice to
Speaker 5: your neighbors.
Speaker 3: My neighbors are going to be Okay, I've listened to
Speaker 3: a lot of sounds around me first I.
Speaker 5: Have too, and it's so annoying.
Speaker 3: I know it's not great.
Speaker 5: I'm like, if the.
Speaker 2: People above me want to make one more floating statue
Speaker 2: or what, I don't even know what they're making up there,
Speaker 2: like throw us a bottle of wine.
Speaker 3: I should maybe go deliver some wine.
Speaker 2: Or something nice, maybe like a cute little like earphone,
Speaker 2: like a ear plugs with like a you know, like
Speaker 2: a sweet tree or.
Speaker 3: Something noise canceling headphones.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that'd be so nice, Ricey, Yeah, you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like the little ear like the ones
Speaker 2: you stick inside.
Speaker 5: Your ears that like block out noise.
Speaker 2: Yeah, with like a cute little like bottle of wine
Speaker 2: and maybe like a sweet treat.
Speaker 3: Okay, well I'll think.
Speaker 5: About that with a nice little poem.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, hopefully so sorry your saturdays are noisy. Hopefully
Speaker 2: this alcohol will make it all noisy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you just can't assume that everyone drinks. Like
Speaker 3: what would East and Allison do if their neighbor brought
Speaker 3: earphones and had a sweet.
Speaker 2: Treet you'd enjoy the sweet tree, and you made the
Speaker 2: bottle of wine to take to somebody else.
Speaker 3: Oh that's good a regift.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had a boss one time gave you a
Speaker 4: basket of booze. Yeah, not a good showed me how
Speaker 4: little he knows about me. Yeah, so it was disappointing.
Speaker 4: I just distributed amongst the staff because they all are
Speaker 4: very happy to get the free booze.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, it's good. It's nice to have it
Speaker 3: on hand.
Speaker 4: It was like it was like beer and whiskey. But
Speaker 4: I can't take this home to my wife. Gave it
Speaker 4: all the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but don't you think even if somebody didn't enjoy alcohol,
Speaker 2: they would enjoy a nice little limerick with a gesture.
Speaker 5: I think you can't go wrong.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll think. Oh, I'll think.
Speaker 2: Maybe iTunes gift card.
Speaker 3: Down iTunes again. Speaking of music and tales and six
Speaker 3: we neither of us went to Coachella, none of us. Yeah, correct,
Speaker 3: we were not there, and I went through a range
Speaker 3: of emotions. Oh, tell me about it, because I went
Speaker 3: to Coachella in twenty sixteen, like I think there fondly. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean it was, yeah, it was, but I went
Speaker 3: hard you know, it was likest Bachelor peak, like right
Speaker 3: when they started all the parties and stuff, so it
Speaker 3: wasn't as chaotic an influencer heavy yet. And I remember
Speaker 3: being like, I don't know if I ever want to
Speaker 3: come back here. My feet hurt, it's dusty. I don't
Speaker 3: know that I'm having the best time. And then I
Speaker 3: went back when in twenty and eighteen Haley performed, until
Speaker 3: I went and just saw her performance. Yeah, So I
Speaker 3: haven't been since then. So I watch it every year
Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh, man, like, should I be going
Speaker 3: to that, Like I'm young.
Speaker 1: Ish, I'm youngish, and you know, it's like looks like
Speaker 1: such a vibe and everyone's getting ready and getting their
Speaker 1: hair and makeup done and doing their videos, and then I.
Speaker 3: Really put myself there, and I'm like, I would be
Speaker 3: so miserable there. Yeah, I would be spiraling over my outfit,
Speaker 3: probably feeling bloated, not feeling cute, having to walk. They
Speaker 3: took away the bikes where you can get on the
Speaker 3: back of the bikes. I would have shut down. But
Speaker 3: then there's this part of me that goes I think
Speaker 3: what I envy is like the youth and the energy
Speaker 3: you can have that. You literally still listen to do it.
Speaker 3: I really don't.
Speaker 5: Yes, you do. You act like you're like so old, No,
Speaker 5: not old.
Speaker 3: But like the they're like energy and excitement to go
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 2: I don't have it, and that's fine, I know, but
Speaker 2: I think what you long.
Speaker 3: For that in thefore, Like I look at Alex Earl
Speaker 3: and she's just raging in her like booty shorts and
Speaker 3: like cute like Coachella inspired aged.
Speaker 5: Three weeks ago, four weeks ago at my wedding. You
Speaker 5: still have it in you for one night?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can for one night.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's also about who you go with.
Speaker 3: And all my friends are like old old and even
Speaker 3: trying to have babies.
Speaker 2: Or likes so funny is like I first got I've
Speaker 2: live gone several years. I've gone like twenty fourteen, sixteen,
Speaker 2: seventeen eighteen, like you name it. I was boots on
Speaker 2: the ground. I love Coachella. I love the live music.
Speaker 2: I was never stressed about my outfits. I was just
Speaker 2: like in it for like.
Speaker 3: The music, the festival, Yes of it, Yeah.
Speaker 5: I loved it.
Speaker 2: However, this year I was watching videos and I was like,
Speaker 2: there is not one part, not one ounce of me
Speaker 2: that has fomo of not being there. Yeah, not to
Speaker 2: say that I don't ever want to go back. I
Speaker 2: think this year in particular, I feel like I've had
Speaker 2: a very hectic month and like I've been so like
Speaker 2: out of place and all over the place that I'm
Speaker 2: like yearning for just like being home, nesting, nesting a
Speaker 2: little bit, and so like I literally had zero. When
Speaker 2: I say like probably negative fomo, I had like negative fomo.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't think of what I had was
Speaker 3: fomo of the event. Like I know that being there,
Speaker 3: i'd be over stimulated with the crowd and like cry
Speaker 3: trying to get and was like in.
Speaker 5: The Coachella cough after, Yeah.
Speaker 3: And like trying to get the uber and your feet hurting.
Speaker 3: So like I don't necessarily feel like I had that
Speaker 3: I had foamo like youth.
Speaker 5: Well, let's run it back in the summer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll call it. Oh, we're doing our own Yeah,
Speaker 2: we'll call it Bonya Bella.
Speaker 3: Oh and it's just like your cowboy boots. Oh.
Speaker 6: Feels like a supplement would be advertising.
Speaker 2: By Bella mixed between Coachella and stage coach.
Speaker 3: Okay for all. That's the thing is I've gone to
Speaker 3: stage coach. Like last year we went for the day
Speaker 3: Alie and I and I was exhausted. Yeah, we fought
Speaker 3: to Hot Dusty.
Speaker 4: It's it's just a circle of life, though, isn't it.
Speaker 4: I Mean, this happened to everybody, but and they fight
Speaker 4: it because they still think. No, I'm still the same
Speaker 4: person that raged at music festivals. I'm not older than that.
Speaker 3: But you are.
Speaker 4: And it's okay, I am and from my distant age,
Speaker 4: it's it's just it happens to everybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I I don't know that I ever enjoyed it.
Speaker 4: I think that's true of a lot of people if
Speaker 4: they're honest.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think that I romanticize what it was
Speaker 3: or is and I actually wouldn't have fun. But I
Speaker 3: also think those things are all about who you're with. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and if you're not with people that make everything fun,
Speaker 3: it's just like anything, it's not fun.
Speaker 5: It's true.
Speaker 3: So that's a little bit about me. But I was
Speaker 3: just like eating up the performances and the content.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: The video of Lady Gaga, which I don't know which
Speaker 3: song it is, it's the one that sounds like a
Speaker 3: Taylor Swift song. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, just walking
Speaker 3: down like the Lou like this is.
Speaker 5: A mom so cool?
Speaker 4: Yeah, how bad do you want me?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I love that song. And then I'm obsessed with Lisa,
Speaker 3: I know, but it's more like Mooke.
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with But Mooke was such a non like
Speaker 2: move nothing. I know, she was nothing, like literally nothing.
Speaker 2: She was a small role. But like I was obsessed
Speaker 2: with her me too.
Speaker 3: I think I just was introduced to her through Mook
Speaker 3: and so when I saw her perform, I was like,
Speaker 3: she's so beautiful.
Speaker 2: I'm like weirdly obsessed with the White Lotus cast this season,
Speaker 2: Like I am.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 2: It's like I cannot get enough any story that comes
Speaker 2: out about any of that.
Speaker 4: Clips come up on my TikTok.
Speaker 5: I watch everyone, every single one.
Speaker 3: Well, I wanted to talk about ah Amy Lou and
Speaker 3: Patrick Swort Snagger, but first we're gonna take a break.
Speaker 3: All right, we're back. So wait before we moved to
Speaker 3: the White Lotus cast, I love that Lady Gaga saying
Speaker 3: like shallow and all her old stuff, like it wasn't
Speaker 3: just all her new stuff, which I know that most
Speaker 3: people for Coach.
Speaker 2: They she's on the super Bowl halftime show, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: yeah yeah.
Speaker 5: I was like, this is her audition for the super Bowl.
Speaker 3: And then I was like, what would be the lineup
Speaker 3: to get you back at Coachella?
Speaker 5: Like headliners, it'd be it'd be a steep Jonas brothers. Oh,
Speaker 5: they got the Jonas Brothers.
Speaker 4: There, you go for the Jonas Brothers.
Speaker 5: I think, yeah, wow, yea, even.
Speaker 3: Though you could just go to Jonas Cohn and hang.
Speaker 2: Out different it's different in the fields, you know, it's
Speaker 2: a different vibe.
Speaker 3: My headliners would be Taylor Swift, Uh, Harry Styles.
Speaker 2: He did it, yeah, I know, yeah, but if he
Speaker 2: came back, yeah yeah, Beyonce, Beyonce.
Speaker 5: That was pretty big.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well that was the one that Haley performed,
Speaker 3: but we didn't stay with left. Yeah.
Speaker 2: That was like a euphoria and I went I was
Speaker 2: alone for that performance, by the way, Like I literally
Speaker 2: it was with my boss. Piatta was there for work
Speaker 2: and she was like, I don't want to go in
Speaker 2: the crowds. I was like, I'm going by myself. I
Speaker 2: just like wheeled my way in there.
Speaker 3: I bet you were. You could have gotten really close
Speaker 3: when you're a.
Speaker 2: Lone ranger, like, oh my gosh, I didn't get so close,
Speaker 2: but like I was not far.
Speaker 3: But I was like sitting watching it on my couch,
Speaker 3: and I thought, well, this is a nice way to
Speaker 3: see it. Yeah, feel closer than you know.
Speaker 5: We could do.
Speaker 2: We could have Vania Bella and we could watch it
Speaker 2: on the TV and the comfort of like our couch
Speaker 2: and like our sweats.
Speaker 3: Oh so like it's a Coachella party, yeah, like a yeah,
Speaker 3: even though that's not what I'm longing for.
Speaker 5: Ye, let me think on it.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, well we'll troubleshoot that.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 3: So your obsessed with white Lotus cast? Yes? What who
Speaker 3: are who? And what are you obsessed with about them?
Speaker 5: All of them?
Speaker 3: But what?
Speaker 5: What are you obsessed the inter personal relationships?
Speaker 2: The Like I love the story that Patrick Schwarzenegger told
Speaker 2: about how like he couldn't even tell his fiance who
Speaker 2: his love scenes were with and that she was like
Speaker 2: wanting to know or whatever. Then when spoiler alert she
Speaker 2: found out that it was his brother, she was like.
Speaker 5: You kind of told me that. I wouldn't have been
Speaker 5: like upset, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, do you know what's so funny is that someone
Speaker 3: I think chicks in the office posted that story, just
Speaker 3: like the quote of what he said about Hobby, and
Speaker 3: everyone in the comments was like, this is not healthy,
Speaker 3: Like she like, oh, she's healthy in this relationship. And
Speaker 3: I was thinking, Okay, if your fiance was going off
Speaker 3: shooting a show, especially like White Lotus, and you knew
Speaker 3: that they're gonna be hooking up, you'd want to know
Speaker 3: who it is. Yeah, so normal people are so you guys?
Speaker 3: Yeah see, yeah, definitely.
Speaker 5: It was like a meeting with new clients and I'm like, why.
Speaker 7: Are girls so funny?
Speaker 5: I was like, it's a little older man.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh bless, Yeah, that's really funny.
Speaker 2: But yeah no, and then like all the drama between
Speaker 2: like Amy Lou and uh Walter Goggins.
Speaker 3: What Everton is not as normal as well as Walter.
Speaker 2: Yeah that like one of them unfollowed the other on Instagram,
Speaker 2: so there was all this scuttle that they were.
Speaker 4: I missed that drama.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I did, too, well, Get in my lore,
Speaker 2: get in my lore algorithm.
Speaker 3: I've only seen that she was upset with the SNL impression,
Speaker 3: which I didn't watch. I don't watch SNL, but what
Speaker 3: she upset about.
Speaker 4: I've watched SNL religiously. Uh, for longer than most of
Speaker 4: you listening have been alive. I love that show. I
Speaker 4: watch it every week. I'll never miss it. I have
Speaker 4: since I was in middle school. That's a very funny sketch,
Speaker 4: But that the joke about Amy loeu Wood was not funny.
Speaker 3: What was?
Speaker 4: It was just they put Sarah Sherman in these big,
Speaker 4: gross teeth and it just wasn't it just mean? It
Speaker 4: just seemed mean. It seemed like the SNL of old
Speaker 4: company evolves.
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's what they do. They just
Speaker 2: like make fun of people all the time.
Speaker 6: Every other joke on sketches making fun of like a
Speaker 6: political figure. Yeah, and this was just making fun of.
Speaker 4: Her team yourself, But that was simply about Amy Leewood's teeth.
Speaker 3: And I did not like it, Yeah, like just on
Speaker 3: her personal appearance as opposed to like something that she
Speaker 3: did or said. It was just like based on how.
Speaker 5: I feel like, that's what SNL does all the time.
Speaker 5: That's why I don't like it.
Speaker 4: You don't watch it.
Speaker 5: I know that's not true. Are you sure they are
Speaker 5: constantly making fun of people?
Speaker 4: Well, that's true, but it's usually people who bring it
Speaker 4: on themselves. Like politicians for.
Speaker 5: Example, No, it's not justice.
Speaker 4: And even if it's politicians, you don't just make fun
Speaker 4: of their physical appearance. You make fun of their mannerisms,
Speaker 4: things they do, things they've actually politically done.
Speaker 5: What about non politicians, I mean.
Speaker 4: Actors and stuff. I mean sure, but typically you're not
Speaker 4: making fun of somebody just because you find them unattractive
Speaker 4: or they're too heavy. Although in the old days they did,
Speaker 4: and that's what it felt like. It felt like SNL
Speaker 4: from the eighties, where they would actually make fun of
Speaker 4: somebody just for being heavy. That's not comedy anymore. We
Speaker 4: have evolved as a society.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah. And also the thing is is that I
Speaker 3: feel like everyone loves her for how she like. I
Speaker 3: think they love that she doesn't look like everybody else,
Speaker 3: that she has her unique features.
Speaker 4: There's a reason she's the breakout star of that cast.
Speaker 4: Whether it's because she's beautiful or because she's likable or
Speaker 4: whatever it is, there's a reason all of it.
Speaker 2: I think very unique. Like I definitely feel like her
Speaker 2: teeth make her very unique. I think she's stunning, and
Speaker 2: I think her personality and I don't know her, but
Speaker 2: I her character that her personality that came through in
Speaker 2: her character was so like gleeful, yes, yeah, yeah, So
Speaker 2: it's like all those three things combined I feel like
Speaker 2: made her like But.
Speaker 4: That's also what added to the tone deafness of the
Speaker 4: joke is that America clearly loves her and so you're
Speaker 4: just gonna make fun of her face. Like that's not
Speaker 4: that's not the vibe right now. The vibe is how
Speaker 4: amazing is shit?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Into that?
Speaker 2: If anybody is obsessed like I am, and you want
Speaker 2: to take your loure to the next level. Watch the
Speaker 2: creator Mike White on his season of Survivor.
Speaker 5: It is so good.
Speaker 2: And he brings in past contestants like cast mats from
Speaker 2: his season of Survivor and like puts them at as
Speaker 2: like people, passer buyers, whatever, like extras.
Speaker 5: So what in the white lotuses?
Speaker 3: What did he do before he was a writer.
Speaker 5: Or not always been? So when he was on Survivor,
Speaker 5: he was like a producer.
Speaker 4: I knew who he was when he was on Survivor
Speaker 4: White That's like.
Speaker 5: He didn't have the white lotus.
Speaker 4: He was like well before yeah.
Speaker 2: He was like I didn't know who I was, Like
Speaker 2: cool producer of Hollywood stuff, you.
Speaker 5: Know, what I mean.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: And by the way, the reason they started the White
Speaker 4: Lotus in the first place, I just heard this and
Speaker 4: an interview he did. I thought that was so interesting.
Speaker 4: During the pandemic, he was super bored, and so we
Speaker 4: reached out to HBO and said, hey, maybe we could
Speaker 4: do something like a bubble show where the whole cast
Speaker 4: and crew are together and we could just do it.
Speaker 4: And that shy was like, oh, you mean, like everybody's
Speaker 4: on zoom and everybody talks to no, no, no, no, no, it's
Speaker 4: not a zoom show. I'm thinking all these resorts in
Speaker 4: Hawaii are empty because nobody's traveling, so they're all closed down.
Speaker 4: What if we take over one of these resorts, the
Speaker 4: cast and crew all stay there, so it's a bubble
Speaker 4: nobody leaves nobody, you know, everybody's tested every day and
Speaker 4: you get you know, get sick, and I'll just come
Speaker 4: up with something. Whoa, That's how it started.
Speaker 3: It's so genius.
Speaker 5: I wish that as me when I was born. Right, Yes,
Speaker 5: I'm bored. I just like scrawl on my phone.
Speaker 2: I need to find something to do, like clean a
Speaker 2: drawer or something I don't like in your water bottle.
Speaker 5: Nope. I think I've watched it once since we've had
Speaker 5: that conversation.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, man, I think have you ever time
Speaker 3: a washman? Which is a week?
Speaker 5: Often waste of time?
Speaker 3: So some people went to space this morning? Yeah, eleven minutes.
Speaker 3: I was very confused by this because I thought they
Speaker 3: were going on like a kind of not the moon,
Speaker 3: but like I thought they were somewhere longer and further.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I didn't like look into it that deeply,
Speaker 3: but what I knew about people going on trips to
Speaker 3: space was it lasted longer than eleven minutes.
Speaker 5: No, that's what many people say about many things.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: That was a good one. I think it's coming out
Speaker 3: of my mouth. I thought she could make a good
Speaker 3: joke right here.
Speaker 5: Thank you. Can I say something that's kind of controversial,
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Please answer your question. That's what the space tourism thing
Speaker 4: is because they're not trained astronauts, so they just go
Speaker 4: up kind of touch space and come back down again.
Speaker 4: That's the origin idea.
Speaker 3: That's the new concept, I guess.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Anyway, so much as it, Oh, it's a lot,
Speaker 4: but I don't than Katie paid that. I think.
Speaker 2: Bezosa I don't care about space. Everybody's so fascinated about
Speaker 2: like all.
Speaker 5: This stuff out there, like, yeah, let's got a space.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I we have enough.
Speaker 2: Issues on our own planet, Like let's figure out our
Speaker 2: own before we start flying into the sky and like
Speaker 2: doing all this other stuff.
Speaker 5: Like let's like, let's focus on our planet a little bit.
Speaker 6: We know the bottom of the ocean where you stand on.
Speaker 2: That, no desire to go down there, happy to swim
Speaker 2: in the ocean, don't need to go down into a
Speaker 2: submarine to go see it.
Speaker 9: Because they say we know less about the bottom of
Speaker 9: the ocean than we do about outer space.
Speaker 5: Yeah, fine by me.
Speaker 3: But you know, my thing with the ocean, though, is
Speaker 3: that that directly affects our planet right It's outer space
Speaker 3: directly affecting what's happening to our planet right now.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess when you like think about like
Speaker 2: the push and the pull of the like atonomic.
Speaker 5: Controversial now thank you.
Speaker 3: Excuse me, but Megan Mark, I guess.
Speaker 5: In the big picture you would say it is.
Speaker 2: But like I'm with you, I feel like it is
Speaker 2: no correlation to our day to day I'm lessening.
Speaker 3: Like Haley loves space, She's into. She loves everything, astronaut movies, anything,
Speaker 3: she eats it up. I could care less. Really, someone
Speaker 3: was like, you can go ride and go up to space.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, no, thank you, Like I need you
Speaker 3: care that much.
Speaker 5: I'd like to keep my boots on the ground, stay here.
Speaker 3: No thank you.
Speaker 4: I'm not even reaching for the stars. That's the rest
Speaker 4: of your feet on the ground.
Speaker 5: Keep reaching for the stars, my feet on the ground.
Speaker 3: But I'm with you the amountain, Let's like, let's like.
Speaker 2: Put all this money and like, let's try and find
Speaker 2: a cure for cancer, find a cure for all these things.
Speaker 2: Let's fear our ecosystem of poverty. There's there's a lot
Speaker 2: that these resources that are going in to fly these
Speaker 2: six people up there. Let's take that those millions of
Speaker 2: dollars and put it elsewhere.
Speaker 5: So get off my soapbox.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it was good. It was good. And
Speaker 3: I don't know that that's very controversial.
Speaker 2: But so people seem so obsessed with these watching these
Speaker 2: nine people for nine months in space, I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, well that was kind of a thing because
Speaker 3: they were stuck up there.
Speaker 5: Let's not send them in the first place.
Speaker 3: Well, they're doing those people are doing.
Speaker 4: Like research is anti sciences line. We need to know science,
Speaker 4: research things to solve our problems, and much of that
Speaker 4: can happen in space.
Speaker 3: Those people who were stuck up there, we those people
Speaker 3: are very important. But I'm saying these rides up and down, Yeah,
Speaker 3: maybe that money and energy could be place elsewhere. But
Speaker 3: I guess you could say that. You could say about Coachella,
Speaker 3: you could say about everything.
Speaker 5: True facts, back up facts.
Speaker 3: So but my very thing is that my TikTok algorithm
Speaker 3: is like very anti this whole. They're just like, this
Speaker 3: is kind of our opinion.
Speaker 2: Was it her?
Speaker 5: Was it Olivia Mon?
Speaker 3: Who was it?
Speaker 5: That was on the Today Show?
Speaker 3: That was like, was it em Rada?
Speaker 2: Was it?
Speaker 3: Who?
Speaker 2: Was it?
Speaker 5: Marketing Google?
Speaker 3: Em Rada was saying like why are we doing this?
Speaker 2: Somebody was on The Today Show with Jenna and they
Speaker 2: were like.
Speaker 5: Kind of like why are what? What?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 5: Why? But there's Olivia Mon. Gail King, huh, I thought
Speaker 5: it was Olivia Mon.
Speaker 4: I'm going to spend some time looking for that.
Speaker 5: Gotta be a quick one.
Speaker 3: Gail King said that when they got back, she was like, Yeah,
Speaker 3: there's this amazing moment where Katy Perry started singing, what
Speaker 3: a wonderful world, just like what is going on?
Speaker 4: Literally the way?
Speaker 5: Yeah, what did she say?
Speaker 3: She said, what are they doing? I know this probably
Speaker 3: isn't the cool thing to say, but there are so
Speaker 3: many other things that are so important in the world
Speaker 3: right now. If you want to go to space, why
Speaker 3: do you need to tell us about it? You know,
Speaker 3: just like, go up there and have a good time,
Speaker 3: come on down. What's the point Is it historic that
Speaker 3: you guys are going on a ride? I think it's
Speaker 3: a bit gluttonous. Space exploration was to further our knowledge
Speaker 3: and to help mankind. What are they going to do
Speaker 3: up there that has made it better for us?
Speaker 2: On here, I'm going Olivia mon on this one weirdly,
Speaker 2: and I never thought i'd agree with her here I am, Yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Don't know, it's it's it's one of those things where
Speaker 3: I guess you could go, you could say this about
Speaker 3: so many things that happened in the world. But I
Speaker 3: think because there's been so much direct focus on it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: obviously people there's gonna be more opinions on it, but
Speaker 3: I also I also don't need to know what's at
Speaker 3: the bottom of the ocean. It's scarier to me than space.
Speaker 2: You know, I'd like to know what's at the bottom
Speaker 2: of my stomach. Why, yeah, I don't know, Like you
Speaker 2: gotta use the bathroom noo, just like i'd like to
Speaker 2: know down. Yeah, like you can search for answers for
Speaker 2: things I'd like to know.
Speaker 3: As within the realm of possibilities, you can actually go
Speaker 3: get that nut. Yeah, speaking of medical procedures, I tried
Speaker 3: to start the pit. It was so intense. I like, couldn't.
Speaker 3: I had to turn it off.
Speaker 4: Oh well, I haven't tried it yet, but that makes
Speaker 4: me more excited to try it. I love intense.
Speaker 3: There's not there's not like music. So the scenes of them,
Speaker 3: like cracking bones, feels really wild. Yeah, it's it's very intense.
Speaker 3: But Taylor Banks told me that once you get past
Speaker 3: the first episode, which is like a hard watch because
Speaker 3: you have to adjust to the sights and sounds. Sure,
Speaker 3: it's like addicting.
Speaker 5: Oh well that might be next time. I've been watching
Speaker 5: a lot of TV lately. Oh yeah, for you, thank
Speaker 5: you so much.
Speaker 4: Yeah you're not You're not Mike White developing for shows
Speaker 4: watching TV.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my part, Well, like I f I think back
Speaker 2: on my week. I had a double date on Friday.
Speaker 2: It was passover on Saturday. I did a lot of
Speaker 2: like family stuff this weekend. But I feel like I've
Speaker 2: watched I watched Love on the Spectrum a full season
Speaker 2: and I loved it. We're watching Million Dollar Secret, which
Speaker 2: is so good. It's like Traders meets the Mole.
Speaker 8: Oh wow, yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 5: And we're watching The Residents on Netflix.
Speaker 3: Oh do you like that?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Do you know what? I think it is? And I
Speaker 3: think it's just that every Shonda Rhime show has the
Speaker 3: same tone.
Speaker 2: This one's different really because we tried to watch it
Speaker 2: the first episode and I was like, oh, I just
Speaker 2: feel like I'm watching like Grays or Scandal, with like
Speaker 2: a monologue, but with different characters in a different plot.
Speaker 5: It's a little Scandally, I guess.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, which I love Scandal. Yeah you know,
Speaker 3: but I don't know. Sometimes you just need a palate.
Speaker 2: I'm giving me the poll like Million Dollar Secret, Yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: yeah yeah. I could barely fall asleep last night without
Speaker 2: watching the final two episodes. I cannot wait to get
Speaker 2: home to night to watch the final two episodes.
Speaker 5: How sick I am?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty pretty intense, not wanting to sleep.
Speaker 2: I was about stay up till midnight on a school night,
Speaker 2: just to finish this season night.
Speaker 3: You know what, I was thinking about, how like we
Speaker 3: have free will as an adult, and I was thinking
Speaker 3: about how I could just go and rent a bike
Speaker 3: and ride on the beach path if I wanted to, Like,
Speaker 3: I was thinking about doing that, just like going and
Speaker 3: renting a bike at one of those little places and
Speaker 3: just like riding because I love riding bikes, but I
Speaker 3: don't really want to ride it around my neighborhood, you know.
Speaker 3: I just want to ride somewhere with like a view
Speaker 3: and just like put my headphones on and just.
Speaker 4: Great one from Venice down all the.
Speaker 2: Way down, or like Hermosa, you can go like Hermosa
Speaker 2: to Santa Monica.
Speaker 5: Yeah, on the bike path.
Speaker 4: We ride bikes in Washington Boulevard. There's a little bike
Speaker 4: shop there. We'd rent bikes and go down around the
Speaker 4: Marina and then down towards Medondo till you get to
Speaker 4: like the fact that smoke, Yeah, come back, A's gorgeous.
Speaker 3: And I was thinking I used to do that. I
Speaker 3: used to want to live in San Diego and I
Speaker 3: would come up to l A. I would do it
Speaker 3: all the time, and I was like, I could do that.
Speaker 3: I could just do that. Why don't I do that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm going to know. I'm going to.
Speaker 3: But I was just thinking about it and I was like, man,
Speaker 3: it'd be so fun to go ride bikes on the beach.
Speaker 3: And I was like, so I should do it. I
Speaker 3: should do it because I have free will and I'm
Speaker 3: an adult. I can do whatever I want.
Speaker 5: Do you want to come over for an Easter egg
Speaker 5: hunt this weekend?
Speaker 3: I could be interested. I was like, is there who's
Speaker 3: going to.
Speaker 5: Me and the kids?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, yeah, that'd be fun.
Speaker 2: I'm probably just one kid at this point, because our
Speaker 2: teenager is probably gonna be like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it'd be I. I that sounds fun.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be alone. Haley's in Chicago. Oh yeahs a
Speaker 3: lone ranger. So I mean, if you need me any
Speaker 3: other nights.
Speaker 5: Week do you want to watch a million dollars? You're
Speaker 5: gonna say that you should come over tonight. Since it's
Speaker 5: our one month anniversary.
Speaker 2: We're gonna watch videos and photos from the wedding on
Speaker 2: the We're gonna mirror it to the TV.
Speaker 3: You don't think you just want to do that with
Speaker 3: with your husband as husband?
Speaker 5: Oh was that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay, give it the two of us maybe tomorrow.
Speaker 3: Someone said that someone posted about doing their wedding and
Speaker 3: the seating arrangements, and they were saying, like, no way
Speaker 3: am I putting all my friends at the table. If
Speaker 3: I have to sit at a separate table like my photos,
Speaker 3: too bad. That's what I did.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't want to sit at a
Speaker 2: sweetheart table, like be away from all my friends and
Speaker 2: have them all sit together. Like no, thanks, Well you
Speaker 2: were never at the table. Yeah, I barely even sit
Speaker 2: to eat.
Speaker 3: Yeah you were dancing. Yeah, okay, I want to talk
Speaker 3: about There was people confess their least favorite things about weddings,
Speaker 3: which I thought was an interesting fresh topic for us.
Speaker 3: But first we're going to take a break, all right,
Speaker 3: we are back. So people, I think someone, uh, this
Speaker 3: girl named Lana posted a TikTok saying she's planning her
Speaker 3: wedding and she wanted people in the comments to say,
Speaker 3: like things that they don't like about weddings so she
Speaker 3: knows not to do them, or we'll consider not doing them.
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: And so I thought it would be fun to go
Speaker 3: through some of those.
Speaker 4: I'd be curious if Tanya did any of these.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the cheesy bridesmaid's groomsmen entrance into the party. Please
Speaker 3: don't do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we do that. That at that at that they
Speaker 4: are you're all ready for this? They do that every time,
Speaker 4: and it's not it's not it's not great.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we didn't do that.
Speaker 3: I think as the bridesmaid slash made of honor and
Speaker 3: in the weddings I've been a part of I get
Speaker 3: so stressed about what I'm gonna do to not be
Speaker 3: cringe doing a dance, and so yeah, I think it's
Speaker 3: just better for everybody. But Tonya did not do that.
Speaker 5: No, I did not.
Speaker 3: I hate when couples don't send thank you cards. But
Speaker 3: if I take an evening off, buy address, travel to
Speaker 3: your wedding, and spend one hundred bucks on a gift,
Speaker 3: a card would be nice. Well, you know.
Speaker 2: We wrote individual cards at the wedding that wins yea. No,
Speaker 2: you know what's interesting, So we didn't register because we
Speaker 2: were like, it's actually very funny.
Speaker 5: I was.
Speaker 2: We went to dinner with Brad and Gary on Friday
Speaker 2: and I was telling them because they got us a
Speaker 2: gift and they're like, you guys are a register and
Speaker 2: I was like, well, it feels weird being like, please
Speaker 2: spend thousands of dollars to come to Mexico for our
Speaker 2: wedding and please buy us a blender, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. Like if it's felt like weird, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean. And they were like, it's very classy
Speaker 2: of you. And I was like, thank you, that's what
Speaker 2: we were going for. But we have gotten a couple
Speaker 2: of gifts. And then I'm like, but we weren't keeping
Speaker 2: track because we weren't planning on getting any. So then
Speaker 2: Robbie is like, were you keeping track of like the
Speaker 2: gifts we got and I was like no. So now
Speaker 2: I was like, He's like, we have to send thank
Speaker 2: you cards?
Speaker 5: And I was like, we already wrote cards for everybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that y'all are fine.
Speaker 6: I think I wrote yeah, right, I feel like I
Speaker 6: need to send you a thank you card.
Speaker 2: I was like, shoot, do we need to send thank
Speaker 2: you cards to the people that did like send us stuff?
Speaker 3: No, I don't think so, Like I think you did
Speaker 3: the card, which was like all encompassing of the efforts
Speaker 3: of coming to the wedding. I think then getting you
Speaker 3: a gift outside of that, I don't know that they need.
Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm stressed because I was not.
Speaker 3: I was like, no, maybe just a text.
Speaker 5: We didn't keep track.
Speaker 3: Well, then maybe they'll listeners.
Speaker 6: Podcast on the podcast did you get us a blender?
Speaker 4: Thank you? So cute?
Speaker 5: It's mostly cash we've gotten.
Speaker 3: Well, that's nice. Yeah, this one's interesting that I disagree with.
Speaker 3: If you want to prescribe or expect things from your
Speaker 3: bridesmaids new dress, hair, makeup at bachelorette trip, you should
Speaker 3: be fronting the cost or not expecting gifts because to me,
Speaker 3: I think obviously they're if you're not able to contribute,
Speaker 3: and it's like a financial thing. I think that's a
Speaker 3: conversation you have with the bride and just like see
Speaker 3: where y'all can meet in the middle. But to me,
Speaker 3: the bachelorette trip and like all these things is like
Speaker 3: the gift from the bridesmaid to the bride.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do think that there's also stuff that
Speaker 2: the bride should cover, Like I'm trying to think. That's
Speaker 2: why I was pretty lenient on even though I had
Speaker 2: a color. I was like, I want my bridesmaids to
Speaker 2: like their dresses. So I just kind of gave you
Speaker 2: all like freedom to choose whatever dress you wanted, and
Speaker 2: also like make up, hair and makeup. I paid for
Speaker 2: a lot of you didn't want it, so if you
Speaker 2: didn't want it, but like that type of stuff, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like I felt.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying like I think that, Well, yeah, I
Speaker 3: guess if the bride is like, you need to have
Speaker 3: your hair and makeup professionally done, then I think that
Speaker 3: the bride should cover that, right. But I think the dress,
Speaker 3: even though I think everyone has an about the dress,
Speaker 3: it's just part of it. Bacheloretrop I think is more
Speaker 3: of a conversation because they've gotten like very extravagant compared
Speaker 3: to what they used to be. But I think that's
Speaker 3: just a conversation you have amongst the bridesmaids and the
Speaker 3: bride if she's involved. But I think there's more of
Speaker 3: a balance there. Someone said, I won't contribute to your honeymoon.
Speaker 3: I'm a single girl already going to your wedding. I'm
Speaker 3: not paying for your vacation.
Speaker 5: That's very funny.
Speaker 2: I kind of it's it's so tough because I like,
Speaker 2: go when you're when you're in it, right, like the
Speaker 2: decision not to register, that's why we decided not to register.
Speaker 2: But then I was like maybe I was like people
Speaker 2: want people if people want to give you something, like
Speaker 2: let's put up a honey fund, And Robbie's like, we're
Speaker 2: not putting up a honey fund, Like that's on us.
Speaker 5: This is our honey you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 5: and it's I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like I always go back to like, if
Speaker 2: you're doing a destination wedding, you're expecting people to like
Speaker 2: travel and go like that's the gift in itself, do
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: I think I think it is different if you do
Speaker 3: a destination wedding versus a local wedding that's like a
Speaker 3: one night ask, right, I think there's more. Here's my
Speaker 3: honeymoon fund, here's my registry, right. But I think when
Speaker 3: people are flying and spending money to come and save
Speaker 3: for a whole weekend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's a flight, it's a hotel, it's close,
Speaker 2: like it's like a whole thing.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: What I always found gross is the dollar dance? Yeah,
Speaker 4: what is that where you're the bride goes out on
Speaker 4: the dance floor and she dances with who willever give
Speaker 4: her a dollar? Right? You put a dollar like on herself. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you pint a dollar to her dress and then you
Speaker 4: can dance with her, and then you guys line up
Speaker 4: and she ends up covered in dollar bills and that's it.
Speaker 4: Goes through the honeymoon funders.
Speaker 6: I gets so uncomfortable because I'm like, I'm gonna poker
Speaker 6: with the pin.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I've seen it a lot. Yeah, me too.
Speaker 3: So anyone can go up and put a dollar on
Speaker 3: the bride and get a dance with her.
Speaker 4: It's typically the males in the room. It's kind of
Speaker 4: an old school tradition.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I hate that. I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 3: there's just something sweet that I'm missing about it, but
Speaker 3: I don't like it.
Speaker 5: I don't like it either.
Speaker 3: The garter toss yealed and do a garter toss?
Speaker 5: I did, Like, I don't even think I had a garter?
Speaker 3: Did you do it?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 6: I was No, I was wearing the garter.
Speaker 9: I had a Captain America garter that I wore the
Speaker 9: whole wedding.
Speaker 3: That's so funny.
Speaker 6: That was awesome.
Speaker 3: I don't know if there's any others.
Speaker 4: That strangers that's ae.
Speaker 3: Or like if I don't know anyone at the wedding,
Speaker 3: let me bring a plus one. Please give me a plus.
Speaker 5: One, I will say.
Speaker 2: Because it was a big debate on the podcast prior
Speaker 2: to my wedding, the blusher or what is it, the
Speaker 2: veil over my head? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I didn't need it.
Speaker 2: I didn't need to do it. The photos didn't come
Speaker 2: back magical.
Speaker 5: They just didn't.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, you would change that if you could
Speaker 4: go back.
Speaker 2: There's a few things I would change about my wedding
Speaker 2: if I could go back.
Speaker 5: None of them. None of them like made or break,
Speaker 5: were make or break, you know what I mean. Like
Speaker 5: I'm not literally like nothing.
Speaker 4: I don't know how glorious.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, I look back at.
Speaker 2: The photos of the veil over my head and I'm like,
Speaker 2: they are not giving what Like you know, Everybody's like
Speaker 2: it's going to blow in the wind and it's going
Speaker 2: to be this like you're gonna this angel and I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: I look like I have like a thing flopping over my.
Speaker 6: Face, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: It's not it was not the image that everybody told me.
Speaker 2: It would be, so I would have just warn my
Speaker 2: veil back. Okay, I would have taken more photos in
Speaker 2: my reception dress. I'm like, really sad, I don't have
Speaker 2: like actual photos in my reception dress.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no photos, just memories.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I have some.
Speaker 2: They're like blurry and I'm like drunk, and I know.
Speaker 2: I wish I would have taken more time to eat.
Speaker 2: I feel like I didn't eat enough, So I wish
Speaker 2: I would have like built that in at some point
Speaker 2: to like eat.
Speaker 5: And there was one other regret.
Speaker 3: I had if I could go back scouting for the photos.
Speaker 2: Ye, scouting for photo locations. Yeah, but that's it again.
Speaker 2: None of these were make or brain.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a short look.
Speaker 4: That's good for people planning weddings or thinking of the
Speaker 4: future wedding. Keep those things in mind, Avail.
Speaker 2: You don't need to put it over your head. It's
Speaker 2: not going to be this magical photo. It's just not.
Speaker 3: But I think that was of course, we had the
Speaker 3: photo conversation, but Robbie really wanted that, right, didn't Robbie robise?
Speaker 2: For some reason, he was like, I love the idea
Speaker 2: of me like unveiling you.
Speaker 5: See me, all right, bro? You did a first look
Speaker 5: like you've seen me.
Speaker 2: Literally we wrote on a golf cart here together, like
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're trying to unveil. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: like loved the idea of me having it, So I
Speaker 2: was like what I was no skin off my back
Speaker 2: and I was like it could look cool, didn't need it.
Speaker 3: Well, that's good for the brides to be to know
Speaker 3: about the blusher.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and make sure your uh bustle is bustled tight.
Speaker 3: Oh that was me. I tied it in a double knot,
Speaker 3: but in a bow instead of a just a single knot. Yeah. Fail,
Speaker 3: I know fail.
Speaker 2: I'm watching all my first dance videos. All the photos
Speaker 2: are just like slowly starts to unravel.
Speaker 3: To Haley, and I was like, oh my god, and
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm sober wrong No, but I I like,
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm going to do a double
Speaker 3: knot so it stays that baby was strong. No, So
Speaker 3: make sure you do a tight knot on the bustle.
Speaker 5: Yeah, tight, nice and tight.
Speaker 4: By the way, Becka, you show the earthquake this morning.
Speaker 3: Oh weirdly, I was in I was getting acupuncture when
Speaker 3: it happened.
Speaker 4: It was dangerous.
Speaker 3: I didn't feel it, but I was thinking, like that
Speaker 3: could have been chaos, yeah, right through, because like I looked,
Speaker 3: I looked at my phone and everyone's like, did you
Speaker 3: feel the earthquake? And I was like, where was it
Speaker 3: was in San Diego? I know it was like six
Speaker 3: a six something.
Speaker 4: Five three, but we felt the way up here on
Speaker 4: the floor it was it was strong.
Speaker 5: Yeah, strong.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh from San Diego. I mean that's far
Speaker 4: drive yesterday, that's far from here, that's far.
Speaker 3: What do you do in San Diego?
Speaker 5: Well, thank you for asking.
Speaker 4: My daughter was in the us UCSD production of Footloose
Speaker 4: over the weekend, so we went down to watch that
Speaker 4: and her birthday next weekend, so we did a little
Speaker 4: birthday brunch with her friends down there. It was really
Speaker 4: nice in La Joya, Yeah, very nice.
Speaker 3: Are they wholesome or are they like party girls? Like
Speaker 3: are you?
Speaker 4: Well, that's been That's a good question because some are girls,
Speaker 4: some are not. And she gets kind of torn between
Speaker 4: the two, the party girls and the non party girls.
Speaker 3: Oh, she's like she has a balance.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we really like the sweet ones that aren't the
Speaker 4: party girls. But she really is drawn to some of
Speaker 4: the party girls, but not the extreme party girls. She
Speaker 4: doesn't like them. So it's like a balance.
Speaker 3: Don't want to be in. You don't want the extreme
Speaker 3: of anything, right, So you don't want the.
Speaker 4: Ones that are throwing up regularly.
Speaker 3: Right just once every few years, yes.
Speaker 4: And you don't want the ones that are that never
Speaker 4: go out either, that are boring, right.
Speaker 5: Right, there's some boring about that.
Speaker 4: I'm with you. I've lived I've lived that life.
Speaker 3: But there's something fun about, especially at that age of
Speaker 3: the girls who are just like, yeah, let's go to
Speaker 3: the frat house, you know whatever they do living at
Speaker 3: the front. Yeah, I know you are living at the
Speaker 3: frat house, probably rolling on the ground.
Speaker 5: And sliding into the like yeah, then your feet.
Speaker 3: Like stick to the ground because of the beer.
Speaker 2: It's actually so gross, Like when I look back on
Speaker 2: my college experience because like especially how I am now
Speaker 2: with like cleanliness and like things like that.
Speaker 5: Like they used to have these things.
Speaker 2: That were called fu bar, which stands for beyond all recognition, Yes, wow,
Speaker 2: And they would make like there they basically had like
Speaker 2: imagine like an apartment complex where like all the rooms
Speaker 2: are like in a square and then they have like
Speaker 2: a big courtyard in the middle. They would somehow block
Speaker 2: off this courtyard and make it a giant pool and
Speaker 2: you would have to like slide in and like it's
Speaker 2: just like a giant pool and you're just in it
Speaker 2: all day and you're bathing to do and you're going from
Speaker 2: frat house to frat they're all doing it, frat house
Speaker 2: to frat house. They're disgusting. There's beers in there, there's
Speaker 2: like you don't even want to know what's in there.
Speaker 3: Ew gross. But that's you know, college life, the college experience,
Speaker 3: I suppose.
Speaker 5: Gosh my, it was crazy.
Speaker 3: It is hard to picture you in that environment now
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 5: And like there were so many at my school and
Speaker 5: I never did any of them.
Speaker 3: There was never one too about like drugs at Coachella
Speaker 3: and like who's they were? Like is are people just
Speaker 3: drunk and like gardening or are people doing like.
Speaker 2: No, people are doing like crazy stuff. It's like scary
Speaker 2: kind of Yeah.
Speaker 3: I'm always like, is there at least one person in
Speaker 3: the group making sure everyone's getting home?
Speaker 2: Hardly not?
Speaker 3: I bet. Yeah, it's kind of scary to think about.
Speaker 3: But that's all for today.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I would like to wish a happy passover to
Speaker 2: anybody who celebrates hawk, sameya, happy past.
Speaker 6: I have one quick thing to say to really quick.
Speaker 9: I got a DM the other day from Shelby Delaney
Speaker 9: and she said she wanted to watch the East Awards.
Speaker 9: She was pregnant and after she watched me sing this
Speaker 9: song a Rednecker, something fell off and her water broke
Speaker 9: and sent her in too early labor delivered. She delivered
Speaker 9: baby Lily, who was born nice and healthy.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 9: But I thought that was a funny that the see
Speaker 9: send her into labor. So congratulations, Shelby, thank you, fortulations
Speaker 9: to you for inducing labor.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a nice feather in my cap.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Not many people can say that, you know. No, all right,
Speaker 3: that's all for today, but we are back on Thursday
Speaker 3: with the Dear Bonya and we honestly just cannot even wait.
Speaker 3: So stay tuned for that. And we love you, someone
Speaker 3: love you. To be continued