WEBVTT - Banyabella 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:05.080 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.080 --> 0:00:12.440 I want to redo that intro. What just because we 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:14.800 took out the People's Choice Award winning and you know what, 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:17.640 we never lose that title. Just because years have gone 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.239 by that we didn't win doesn't mean that we are 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:21.160 no longer. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.760 I think Mark may have just chosen a different. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.360 One that's a regular intro. 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.840 Yeah, well, I'm going to take it back. You don't 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:30.160 have to worry. 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:34.000 Mark is giving me, this is giving me the energy 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:38.200 of like, here's the thing. Do I agree that? First 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:41.480 of all, hello, everybody strumming. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:47.400 Dub and okay, I. 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.599 Think the thing is what's the thing? 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:50.000 Okay? 0:00:50.040 --> 0:00:52.839 You know when someone goes on a show and it 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:55.920 was like, not they're not a scripted show, not like 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:57.800 a friends, but like a reality show, for instance, me 0:00:57.960 --> 0:00:58.680 going on the Bachelor. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:01.200 Okay, yeah, and then all I have to. 0:01:01.200 --> 0:01:03.960 Show for my whole life is my time on the Bachelor, 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:07.360 which I give nods to my Bachelor time all the 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:09.720 time because I'm it's it's the reason why I'm sitting 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:14.000 here with you lovely people doing this podcast. However, if 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:17.360 I never have anything beyond that, and I only hold 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.720 on to that and it's like my one thing that 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:23.119 I need as an intro for every day. 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:26.360 But let me play Devil's Attorney here because it's also 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:29.160 on the flip side. If if you're like one of 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.920 those people who are famous for the Bachelor, and then 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:33.640 you go on a talk show and you say, please 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:35.800 don't ask me any questions about being on the Bachelor. 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:37.200 I hate when people do that. 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:39.479 That's not the same thing I think we I think 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:43.480 every single episode of our podcast two times a week 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:47.880 hearing two times award winning podcast. 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:50.560 Subscribe, what do you think? 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.520 Do you want our title or would you like? 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:56.040 No, we're not stripped of our title just because it's 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:56.640 not in our intro. 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.680 We're always People's Choice Award winners. 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:01.200 It's sitting on my shelf for ever, like it's in 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.760 my heart forever. But I think our goal should be 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.880 for the next to win, to win a fresh one. 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:12.040 Yes, but I think it shouldn't be a People's Choice award. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:18.359 I think we should aim bigger, like what an Emmy? 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.639 Can we even be eligible for that? 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:23.800 In the award winning podcast? 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:25.919 That be something we're starting over. 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.360 Here we go scrubbing in with Tilly and Tanya rad 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:33.840 and iHeartRadio and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:41.520 She even sounds more exciting, so much better. 0:02:42.400 --> 0:02:44.880 I didn't know the tone was so different. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:49.799 Yeah, it's like, here's a podcast, man, podcast. 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.360 Here we go. It sounds better. 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:55.880 Yeah, I said so. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:03:00.440 And and we aim to continue to strive for Emmy's 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.480 and Grammy's and uh oscar. 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:03.880 Yeah. 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.720 I went on this pursuit a while ago. I don't 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:06.160 really know. 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.440 Yeah you did. I remember this what other awards. 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:09.480 We could win? 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:12.440 But I'm sure they're out there. There's got to be 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:13.280 other awards out there. 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.079 Even if we could win an iHeart Radio. 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:21.120 And you know what, I like the nomination. 0:03:22.919 --> 0:03:25.639 Yes, I'm not gonna sit here and be like, oh. 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.639 Does it matter to you know? It's an honor to 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:31.240 just do No. I love the nominations. 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:35.040 Well, no, of course. Like to be recognized for work 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.360 is a great feeling. Yeah, there's no denying that. 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:42.520 No, no new So I love your hair length, Thank 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:43.120 you so much. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:45.680 It's giving what big wife energy? 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:47.760 Yes, you know what somebody said to me. 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.160 I saw Molly May. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.760 They said, it's giving Molly May, and I have never 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.960 felt felt more of a compliment in my core in 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.760 my life, like Molly May is like. 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:03.920 Peak, Okay, see that means nothing to me. I saw 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:05.720 you posted that, but I know it means a lot 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:06.119 to you. 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:07.520 It means the world to me. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:08.520 Are you joking? 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:11.760 It means the world. It's giving Molly May. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.960 You basically could say like it's giving. 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:20.360 Jesus christos like I don't know how much higher up 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:21.960 you can get Jesus. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:25.360 Correct, Yeah, Molly May is Jesus Christ. 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:35.960 Of Tonya's life looks of looks okay, Well, I mean, 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:37.840 I of course know who that is. 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:39.120 Anyone listening who might not. 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.760 Molly May was on season five of UK Love Island. 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:47.159 She ended up with Tommy Fury. They had a child 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.520 named Bambi together. They are no longer together, although I 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:51.480 do think they will get back together. There was rumors 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:55.480 of infidelity. We're not totally sure. But she's like an icon. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:58.040 She is a legend. She's so cute. I always think 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.040 her fashion is so cute. I think her style. I 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.240 was so cute, obsessed with her. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.160 Well. They actually had a viral moment on TikTok because 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.080 there was a photo of them leaving the. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.480 Airport, Molly and Tommy. 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:12.560 And the baby and she was pushing the stroller and 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.080 rolling luggage, and he just had like one thing in 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.440 his hand. And people are like, this is the ultimate 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:21.840 red flag. Why is he not carrying everything and just 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.520 letting her push the stroller? And so people are like 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:27.800 posting photos of like other men just like carrying all 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.280 the luggage and the woman having like barely anything. 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:31.520 Do you understand. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:35.360 I didn't even realize until I started after we got 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.320 married and I was doing a couple trips solo. I 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.840 hadn't lifted a bag into the overhead compartment in years 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:43.240 because Robbie just does it for me. 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:47.200 Neither has Hayley I do. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:50.200 Yeah, and he like rolls my bags like I don't 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:51.880 have to. I literally don't have to lift a finger. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:55.960 Yeah, Well take note, Tom, Molly Ray does apparently. 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.920 Just better off. Well, I don't know, maybe they're back together, 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:01.680 as you said, rumors are speculating. 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:06.279 Well, I think she deserves better anyways. Anyway, MOLLI may side, 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:06.800 How are you. 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.480 Feeling about the hair, because there was just like a shift, 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.520 like you went from like girlfriend fiance to like wife 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:13.680 with the haircut? 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:14.400 Really? 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:15.920 Yeah, what does it, dud? 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.000 Does it sophisticate me? 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:18.040 Yeah? 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:22.440 It just is like you know, in a parent trap. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:26.920 Don't like old. No, Okay, sophisticated is a good word. 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:32.760 Like it's just like acquired, sure, acquired Meredith Blake and 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:35.000 the parent trap. Uh huh kind of that vibe. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.159 I don't like her. 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:41.720 Okay, she's a legend, thanks mart. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:47.920 She's a legend, but like not a nice one. 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:51.200 Yeah. But people in the people have been also saying 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:54.599 I understand Meredith Blake more now as an adult, because 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:59.320 you have these two parents who purposely separated their twins 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:01.920 on purpose, they chose not to see one of their 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.280 children for forever, and. 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:05.720 Then that is so weird if you think about it. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.039 And then you have these two, these little brats that 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.600 are trained places on you, and you're just trying to 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.760 marry a rich man in your twenties and have a 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.200 good life for yourself and they're making it hell. And 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:19.200 I was like, they're not wrong. 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.880 No, No, I. 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:24.240 Looked her up too. Meredith's hair is way shorter than 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:24.800 Tanya's hair. 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:26.600 Yeah, But like I'm just saying it, it's like this, 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:29.520 like she was in her mid twenties in that show, 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:30.280 and I remember. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:31.920 The same same, same mid twenties. 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.680 It's giving just elevated new phase of life. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.280 Yeah, that's for just new phase of life. 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:39.640 Yeah. 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:43.360 Yeah, how I'm giving that energy because I feel it 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:44.200 in my soul. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:49.280 Good. I'm glad the Molly May Wife era. How was 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.040 your weekend? How are your celebrations? 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.320 My weekend was good. How was your weekend? 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.840 It was good? Pretty low key, yeah, yeah. 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.200 Chill vibes. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:00.360 They're just like working away on our house, so it's 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:05.200 just construction all day, all every day, and Haley goes 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.720 ga on the weekends. Well, so the first weekend they 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:09.320 didn't come until I was like, oh, I guess they 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.160 don't do the weekends, which I'm indifferent about. I'm like, 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:15.680 they deserve a break obviously. Yeah, and it's nice not 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:16.760 to have the sound. 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.280 And your neighbors probably enjoy them too. 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:23.120 And then they came this Saturday and Haley was like, 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:26.040 maybe you could call and see if they could give 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:27.800 us a heads up if they're coming on the weekend. 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.360 I'm like no, I was like, I just want them 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.760 to come, and like, the the more they're working, the 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:35.679 faster it's done. Yeah, like this is just a small 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.960 bloop in time. Don't sew them down. 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.240 No, I agree, but it might not be nice to 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:40.800 your neighbors. 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:43.240 My neighbors are going to be Okay, I've listened to 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:45.160 a lot of sounds around me first I. 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:46.640 Have too, and it's so annoying. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:47.760 I know it's not great. 0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:48.480 I'm like, if the. 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:52.040 People above me want to make one more floating statue 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:53.800 or what, I don't even know what they're making up there, 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:57.760 like throw us a bottle of wine. 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.720 I should maybe go deliver some wine. 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.559 Or something nice, maybe like a cute little like earphone, 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.640 like a ear plugs with like a you know, like 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:07.880 a sweet tree or. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:10.680 Something noise canceling headphones. 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:13.199 Yeah, like that'd be so nice, Ricey, Yeah, you know 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:14.839 what I'm saying, Like the little ear like the ones 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:15.760 you stick inside. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:16.920 Your ears that like block out noise. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.080 Yeah, with like a cute little like bottle of wine 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:20.080 and maybe like a sweet treat. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:21.680 Okay, well I'll think. 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:22.920 About that with a nice little poem. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:27.040 Yeah yeah, hopefully so sorry your saturdays are noisy. Hopefully 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:30.920 this alcohol will make it all noisy. 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.679 Yeah, but you just can't assume that everyone drinks. Like 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.240 what would East and Allison do if their neighbor brought 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.240 earphones and had a sweet. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.000 Treet you'd enjoy the sweet tree, and you made the 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:42.679 bottle of wine to take to somebody else. 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:44.880 Oh that's good a regift. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:46.720 Yeah, I had a boss one time gave you a 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:50.640 basket of booze. Yeah, not a good showed me how 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:52.960 little he knows about me. Yeah, so it was disappointing. 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:55.080 I just distributed amongst the staff because they all are 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:56.480 very happy to get the free booze. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.720 Yeah yeah, yeah, it's good. It's nice to have it 0:09:58.760 --> 0:09:59.199 on hand. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.720 It was like it was like beer and whiskey. But 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:04.280 I can't take this home to my wife. Gave it 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:04.640 all the way. 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:07.559 Yeah, but don't you think even if somebody didn't enjoy alcohol, 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:11.200 they would enjoy a nice little limerick with a gesture. 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:14.920 I think you can't go wrong. 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.560 Yeah, I'll think. Oh, I'll think. 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:30.280 Maybe iTunes gift card. 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:35.959 Down iTunes again. Speaking of music and tales and six 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:41.040 we neither of us went to Coachella, none of us. Yeah, correct, 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:44.760 we were not there, and I went through a range 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:48.320 of emotions. Oh, tell me about it, because I went 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:54.880 to Coachella in twenty sixteen, like I think there fondly. Yeah, 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:58.360 I mean it was, yeah, it was, but I went 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:02.920 hard you know, it was likest Bachelor peak, like right 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:05.280 when they started all the parties and stuff, so it 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:12.640 wasn't as chaotic an influencer heavy yet. And I remember 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.200 being like, I don't know if I ever want to 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.760 come back here. My feet hurt, it's dusty. I don't 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.160 know that I'm having the best time. And then I 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.840 went back when in twenty and eighteen Haley performed, until 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:26.000 I went and just saw her performance. Yeah, So I 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:28.800 haven't been since then. So I watch it every year 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:32.120 and I'm like, oh, man, like, should I be going 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:34.239 to that, Like I'm young. 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:41.760 Ish, I'm youngish, and you know, it's like looks like 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:44.679 such a vibe and everyone's getting ready and getting their 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.920 hair and makeup done and doing their videos, and then I. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.000 Really put myself there, and I'm like, I would be 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:55.040 so miserable there. Yeah, I would be spiraling over my outfit, 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:58.400 probably feeling bloated, not feeling cute, having to walk. They 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.920 took away the bikes where you can get on the 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:03.840 back of the bikes. I would have shut down. But 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.800 then there's this part of me that goes I think 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:10.319 what I envy is like the youth and the energy 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:13.000 you can have that. You literally still listen to do it. 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:14.000 I really don't. 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:16.880 Yes, you do. You act like you're like so old, No, 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:17.840 not old. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:20.480 But like the they're like energy and excitement to go 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:20.800 do that. 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:23.920 I don't have it, and that's fine, I know, but 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:25.600 I think what you long. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.400 For that in thefore, Like I look at Alex Earl 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:32.320 and she's just raging in her like booty shorts and 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:35.520 like cute like Coachella inspired aged. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.960 Three weeks ago, four weeks ago at my wedding. You 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:39.760 still have it in you for one night? 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:42.040 Yeah, I can for one night. 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:43.640 Yeah, but it's also about who you go with. 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:47.840 And all my friends are like old old and even 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:49.760 trying to have babies. 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:54.000 Or likes so funny is like I first got I've 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:58.160 live gone several years. I've gone like twenty fourteen, sixteen, 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.400 seventeen eighteen, like you name it. I was boots on 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:03.000 the ground. I love Coachella. I love the live music. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.760 I was never stressed about my outfits. I was just 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:06.840 like in it for like. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:10.440 The music, the festival, Yes of it, Yeah. 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:10.400 I loved it. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:14.240 However, this year I was watching videos and I was like, 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:16.960 there is not one part, not one ounce of me 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:20.280 that has fomo of not being there. Yeah, not to 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.840 say that I don't ever want to go back. I 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.120 think this year in particular, I feel like I've had 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:28.440 a very hectic month and like I've been so like 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:31.920 out of place and all over the place that I'm 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:35.640 like yearning for just like being home, nesting, nesting a 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.880 little bit, and so like I literally had zero. When 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:41.800 I say like probably negative fomo, I had like negative fomo. 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:44.160 Yeah, but I don't think of what I had was 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.920 fomo of the event. Like I know that being there, 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:50.160 i'd be over stimulated with the crowd and like cry 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:52.000 trying to get and was like in. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:55.080 The Coachella cough after, Yeah. 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.199 And like trying to get the uber and your feet hurting. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:00.480 So like I don't necessarily feel like I had that 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.640 I had foamo like youth. 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:08.240 Well, let's run it back in the summer. 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:11.800 Yeah, we'll call it. Oh, we're doing our own Yeah, 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:14.480 we'll call it Bonya Bella. 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:20.080 Oh and it's just like your cowboy boots. Oh. 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.480 Feels like a supplement would be advertising. 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:27.840 By Bella mixed between Coachella and stage coach. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.680 Okay for all. That's the thing is I've gone to 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:35.080 stage coach. Like last year we went for the day 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:40.120 Alie and I and I was exhausted. Yeah, we fought 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:42.480 to Hot Dusty. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:44.640 It's it's just a circle of life, though, isn't it. 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:47.040 I Mean, this happened to everybody, but and they fight 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.800 it because they still think. No, I'm still the same 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:53.240 person that raged at music festivals. I'm not older than that. 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:53.720 But you are. 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:57.120 And it's okay, I am and from my distant age, 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:58.840 it's it's just it happens to everybody. 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:01.560 Yeah, but I I don't know that I ever enjoyed it. 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:04.520 I think that's true of a lot of people if 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:05.040 they're honest. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:08.680 Yeah, Like I think that I romanticize what it was 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.640 or is and I actually wouldn't have fun. But I 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:14.400 also think those things are all about who you're with. Yeah, 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:16.640 and if you're not with people that make everything fun, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:18.560 it's just like anything, it's not fun. 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:19.200 It's true. 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:21.600 So that's a little bit about me. But I was 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:25.240 just like eating up the performances and the content. 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:26.360 Yeah. 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:28.640 The video of Lady Gaga, which I don't know which 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:30.400 song it is, it's the one that sounds like a 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.240 Taylor Swift song. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, just walking 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:35.880 down like the Lou like this is. 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:37.040 A mom so cool? 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.520 Yeah, how bad do you want me? 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:45.760 Yeah? I love that song. And then I'm obsessed with Lisa, 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.880 I know, but it's more like Mooke. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.640 I'm obsessed with But Mooke was such a non like 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:54.800 move nothing. I know, she was nothing, like literally nothing. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.000 She was a small role. But like I was obsessed 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:57.840 with her me too. 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:00.440 I think I just was introduced to her through Mook 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.320 and so when I saw her perform, I was like, 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.040 she's so beautiful. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:09.240 I'm like weirdly obsessed with the White Lotus cast this season, 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:10.160 Like I am. 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:11.320 Yeah, I agree. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.600 It's like I cannot get enough any story that comes 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:15.280 out about any of that. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:17.160 Clips come up on my TikTok. 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:18.960 I watch everyone, every single one. 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:24.040 Well, I wanted to talk about ah Amy Lou and 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:27.480 Patrick Swort Snagger, but first we're gonna take a break. 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:48.960 All right, we're back. So wait before we moved to 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:52.480 the White Lotus cast, I love that Lady Gaga saying 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:56.000 like shallow and all her old stuff, like it wasn't 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:58.000 just all her new stuff, which I know that most 0:16:58.000 --> 0:16:58.720 people for Coach. 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:05.640 They she's on the super Bowl halftime show, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:06.080 yeah yeah. 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:08.720 I was like, this is her audition for the super Bowl. 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.760 And then I was like, what would be the lineup 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:12.480 to get you back at Coachella? 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:20.760 Like headliners, it'd be it'd be a steep Jonas brothers. Oh, 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:22.119 they got the Jonas Brothers. 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:24.399 There, you go for the Jonas Brothers. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.960 I think, yeah, wow, yea, even. 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:29.400 Though you could just go to Jonas Cohn and hang. 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:32.720 Out different it's different in the fields, you know, it's 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:33.520 a different vibe. 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:43.120 My headliners would be Taylor Swift, Uh, Harry Styles. 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.320 He did it, yeah, I know, yeah, but if he 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:47.840 came back, yeah yeah, Beyonce, Beyonce. 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:49.120 That was pretty big. 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:51.119 Yeah, okay, well that was the one that Haley performed, 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:53.120 but we didn't stay with left. Yeah. 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:56.119 That was like a euphoria and I went I was 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.560 alone for that performance, by the way, Like I literally 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:00.359 it was with my boss. Piatta was there for work 0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:02.240 and she was like, I don't want to go in 0:18:02.240 --> 0:18:04.199 the crowds. I was like, I'm going by myself. I 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:05.600 just like wheeled my way in there. 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:07.960 I bet you were. You could have gotten really close 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:08.600 when you're a. 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.000 Lone ranger, like, oh my gosh, I didn't get so close, 0:18:11.040 --> 0:18:12.120 but like I was not far. 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.000 But I was like sitting watching it on my couch, 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:18.119 and I thought, well, this is a nice way to 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:20.800 see it. Yeah, feel closer than you know. 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:21.439 We could do. 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:25.600 We could have Vania Bella and we could watch it 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:27.680 on the TV and the comfort of like our couch 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:29.480 and like our sweats. 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:35.560 Oh so like it's a Coachella party, yeah, like a yeah, 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:38.200 even though that's not what I'm longing for. 0:18:38.880 --> 0:18:40.320 Ye, let me think on it. 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:42.240 Yeah yeah, yeah, well we'll troubleshoot that. 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:42.600 Okay. 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.920 So your obsessed with white Lotus cast? Yes? What who 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:48.200 are who? And what are you obsessed with about them? 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:48.920 All of them? 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:49.560 But what? 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:53.840 What are you obsessed the inter personal relationships? 0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:57.120 The Like I love the story that Patrick Schwarzenegger told 0:18:57.160 --> 0:19:00.200 about how like he couldn't even tell his fiance who 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:02.800 his love scenes were with and that she was like 0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:05.520 wanting to know or whatever. Then when spoiler alert she 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.679 found out that it was his brother, she was like. 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:09.120 You kind of told me that. I wouldn't have been 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:10.320 like upset, you know what I mean? 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.720 Like, do you know what's so funny is that someone 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:15.760 I think chicks in the office posted that story, just 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.800 like the quote of what he said about Hobby, and 0:19:19.840 --> 0:19:22.640 everyone in the comments was like, this is not healthy, 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:26.800 Like she like, oh, she's healthy in this relationship. And 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:31.520 I was thinking, Okay, if your fiance was going off 0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:34.760 shooting a show, especially like White Lotus, and you knew 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:37.000 that they're gonna be hooking up, you'd want to know 0:19:37.000 --> 0:19:41.840 who it is. Yeah, so normal people are so you guys? 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:48.240 Yeah see, yeah, definitely. 0:19:49.200 --> 0:19:51.800 It was like a meeting with new clients and I'm like, why. 0:19:51.680 --> 0:20:04.000 Are girls so funny? 0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:05.800 I was like, it's a little older man. 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:12.560 I'm like, oh bless, Yeah, that's really funny. 0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:15.760 But yeah no, and then like all the drama between 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:19.240 like Amy Lou and uh Walter Goggins. 0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:25.200 What Everton is not as normal as well as Walter. 0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:28.920 Yeah that like one of them unfollowed the other on Instagram, 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:30.359 so there was all this scuttle that they were. 0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:31.920 I missed that drama. 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:34.160 Yeah no, I did, too, well, Get in my lore, 0:20:34.320 --> 0:20:35.440 get in my lore algorithm. 0:20:35.560 --> 0:20:39.000 I've only seen that she was upset with the SNL impression, 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:41.600 which I didn't watch. I don't watch SNL, but what 0:20:42.000 --> 0:20:43.200 she upset about. 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:47.280 I've watched SNL religiously. Uh, for longer than most of 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:49.600 you listening have been alive. I love that show. I 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:51.359 watch it every week. I'll never miss it. I have 0:20:51.400 --> 0:20:54.240 since I was in middle school. That's a very funny sketch, 0:20:54.320 --> 0:20:56.800 But that the joke about Amy loeu Wood was not funny. 0:20:56.840 --> 0:20:57.119 What was? 0:20:57.680 --> 0:20:59.680 It was just they put Sarah Sherman in these big, 0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:02.919 gross teeth and it just wasn't it just mean? It 0:21:03.000 --> 0:21:05.880 just seemed mean. It seemed like the SNL of old 0:21:06.680 --> 0:21:07.639 company evolves. 0:21:07.800 --> 0:21:09.359 But I feel like that's what they do. They just 0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:10.720 like make fun of people all the time. 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:12.720 Every other joke on sketches making fun of like a 0:21:12.760 --> 0:21:14.800 political figure. Yeah, and this was just making fun of. 0:21:14.760 --> 0:21:18.360 Her team yourself, But that was simply about Amy Leewood's teeth. 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:20.719 And I did not like it, Yeah, like just on 0:21:20.800 --> 0:21:24.480 her personal appearance as opposed to like something that she 0:21:24.560 --> 0:21:26.440 did or said. It was just like based on how. 0:21:26.600 --> 0:21:28.960 I feel like, that's what SNL does all the time. 0:21:29.000 --> 0:21:30.320 That's why I don't like it. 0:21:30.320 --> 0:21:31.000 You don't watch it. 0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:35.080 I know that's not true. Are you sure they are 0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:36.639 constantly making fun of people? 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:38.720 Well, that's true, but it's usually people who bring it 0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:40.680 on themselves. Like politicians for. 0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:42.359 Example, No, it's not justice. 0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:44.080 And even if it's politicians, you don't just make fun 0:21:44.119 --> 0:21:47.240 of their physical appearance. You make fun of their mannerisms, 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:51.200 things they do, things they've actually politically done. 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:54.480 What about non politicians, I mean. 0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:56.359 Actors and stuff. I mean sure, but typically you're not 0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.960 making fun of somebody just because you find them unattractive 0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:02.280 or they're too heavy. Although in the old days they did, 0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:04.840 and that's what it felt like. It felt like SNL 0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:06.679 from the eighties, where they would actually make fun of 0:22:06.720 --> 0:22:10.159 somebody just for being heavy. That's not comedy anymore. We 0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:12.000 have evolved as a society. 0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:15.399 Right, Yeah. And also the thing is is that I 0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:19.040 feel like everyone loves her for how she like. I 0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:21.440 think they love that she doesn't look like everybody else, 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:23.040 that she has her unique features. 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:25.720 There's a reason she's the breakout star of that cast. 0:22:25.880 --> 0:22:29.080 Whether it's because she's beautiful or because she's likable or 0:22:29.359 --> 0:22:31.320 whatever it is, there's a reason all of it. 0:22:31.720 --> 0:22:34.719 I think very unique. Like I definitely feel like her 0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:37.840 teeth make her very unique. I think she's stunning, and 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.760 I think her personality and I don't know her, but 0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:44.000 I her character that her personality that came through in 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:48.879 her character was so like gleeful, yes, yeah, yeah, So 0:22:48.920 --> 0:22:51.000 it's like all those three things combined I feel like 0:22:51.080 --> 0:22:52.080 made her like But. 0:22:52.000 --> 0:22:54.000 That's also what added to the tone deafness of the 0:22:54.080 --> 0:22:57.240 joke is that America clearly loves her and so you're 0:22:57.240 --> 0:22:59.239 just gonna make fun of her face. Like that's not 0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:01.159 that's not the vibe right now. The vibe is how 0:23:01.200 --> 0:23:01.840 amazing is shit? 0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:02.399 Yeah? 0:23:03.119 --> 0:23:03.480 Into that? 0:23:04.560 --> 0:23:08.240 If anybody is obsessed like I am, and you want 0:23:08.280 --> 0:23:12.080 to take your loure to the next level. Watch the 0:23:12.160 --> 0:23:14.920 creator Mike White on his season of Survivor. 0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:17.160 It is so good. 0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:21.120 And he brings in past contestants like cast mats from 0:23:21.160 --> 0:23:23.480 his season of Survivor and like puts them at as 0:23:23.520 --> 0:23:28.560 like people, passer buyers, whatever, like extras. 0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:30.440 So what in the white lotuses? 0:23:30.720 --> 0:23:33.400 What did he do before he was a writer. 0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:35.640 Or not always been? So when he was on Survivor, 0:23:35.680 --> 0:23:37.320 he was like a producer. 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:39.280 I knew who he was when he was on Survivor 0:23:40.119 --> 0:23:40.760 White That's like. 0:23:41.119 --> 0:23:44.120 He didn't have the white lotus. 0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:47.080 He was like well before yeah. 0:23:46.640 --> 0:23:48.719 He was like I didn't know who I was, Like 0:23:49.000 --> 0:23:52.359 cool producer of Hollywood stuff, you. 0:23:52.359 --> 0:23:52.800 Know, what I mean. 0:23:52.920 --> 0:23:53.200 Okay. 0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:54.760 And by the way, the reason they started the White 0:23:54.760 --> 0:23:56.320 Lotus in the first place, I just heard this and 0:23:56.320 --> 0:23:58.080 an interview he did. I thought that was so interesting. 0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:00.600 During the pandemic, he was super bored, and so we 0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:03.040 reached out to HBO and said, hey, maybe we could 0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:05.480 do something like a bubble show where the whole cast 0:24:05.520 --> 0:24:06.960 and crew are together and we could just do it. 0:24:06.960 --> 0:24:08.920 And that shy was like, oh, you mean, like everybody's 0:24:08.960 --> 0:24:10.959 on zoom and everybody talks to no, no, no, no, no, it's 0:24:10.960 --> 0:24:13.280 not a zoom show. I'm thinking all these resorts in 0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:16.560 Hawaii are empty because nobody's traveling, so they're all closed down. 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:18.600 What if we take over one of these resorts, the 0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:20.560 cast and crew all stay there, so it's a bubble 0:24:20.640 --> 0:24:22.840 nobody leaves nobody, you know, everybody's tested every day and 0:24:22.840 --> 0:24:24.840 you get you know, get sick, and I'll just come 0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:28.000 up with something. Whoa, That's how it started. 0:24:28.480 --> 0:24:29.680 It's so genius. 0:24:29.920 --> 0:24:33.880 I wish that as me when I was born. Right, Yes, 0:24:34.720 --> 0:24:37.399 I'm bored. I just like scrawl on my phone. 0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:40.240 I need to find something to do, like clean a 0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:43.320 drawer or something I don't like in your water bottle. 0:24:44.560 --> 0:24:48.280 Nope. I think I've watched it once since we've had 0:24:48.359 --> 0:24:49.080 that conversation. 0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:53.080 Oh my god, man, I think have you ever time 0:24:53.119 --> 0:24:54.800 a washman? Which is a week? 0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:57.600 Often waste of time? 0:24:58.560 --> 0:25:03.400 So some people went to space this morning? Yeah, eleven minutes. 0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:07.679 I was very confused by this because I thought they 0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:13.040 were going on like a kind of not the moon, 0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:17.560 but like I thought they were somewhere longer and further. 0:25:19.000 --> 0:25:22.439 I don't know. I didn't like look into it that deeply, 0:25:22.520 --> 0:25:24.600 but what I knew about people going on trips to 0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:27.119 space was it lasted longer than eleven minutes. 0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:29.320 No, that's what many people say about many things. 0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:29.520 You know. 0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:32.840 That was a good one. I think it's coming out 0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:34.439 of my mouth. I thought she could make a good 0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:35.160 joke right here. 0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:39.080 Thank you. Can I say something that's kind of controversial, 0:25:39.320 --> 0:25:40.080 Oh my god. 0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:43.640 Please answer your question. That's what the space tourism thing 0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:45.520 is because they're not trained astronauts, so they just go 0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:48.119 up kind of touch space and come back down again. 0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:51.320 That's the origin idea. 0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:53.440 That's the new concept, I guess. 0:25:53.480 --> 0:25:57.040 Yeah. Anyway, so much as it, Oh, it's a lot, 0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:58.720 but I don't than Katie paid that. I think. 0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:09.639 Bezosa I don't care about space. Everybody's so fascinated about 0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:11.040 like all. 0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:13.680 This stuff out there, like, yeah, let's got a space. 0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:16.200 I'm like, I we have enough. 0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:19.199 Issues on our own planet, Like let's figure out our 0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:23.040 own before we start flying into the sky and like 0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:24.600 doing all this other stuff. 0:26:24.640 --> 0:26:28.480 Like let's like, let's focus on our planet a little bit. 0:26:28.520 --> 0:26:30.800 We know the bottom of the ocean where you stand on. 0:26:30.760 --> 0:26:34.200 That, no desire to go down there, happy to swim 0:26:34.200 --> 0:26:36.520 in the ocean, don't need to go down into a 0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:37.560 submarine to go see it. 0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:39.280 Because they say we know less about the bottom of 0:26:39.280 --> 0:26:40.600 the ocean than we do about outer space. 0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:42.159 Yeah, fine by me. 0:26:42.960 --> 0:26:45.480 But you know, my thing with the ocean, though, is 0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:49.680 that that directly affects our planet right It's outer space 0:26:49.880 --> 0:26:52.720 directly affecting what's happening to our planet right now. 0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:54.480 I mean, I guess when you like think about like 0:26:54.480 --> 0:26:59.520 the push and the pull of the like atonomic. 0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:04.280 Controversial now thank you. 0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:11.440 Excuse me, but Megan Mark, I guess. 0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:13.240 In the big picture you would say it is. 0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:15.600 But like I'm with you, I feel like it is 0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:19.920 no correlation to our day to day I'm lessening. 0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:25.040 Like Haley loves space, She's into. She loves everything, astronaut movies, anything, 0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:29.680 she eats it up. I could care less. Really, someone 0:27:29.880 --> 0:27:32.600 was like, you can go ride and go up to space. 0:27:32.720 --> 0:27:35.159 I'd be like, no, thank you, Like I need you 0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:35.840 care that much. 0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:39.440 I'd like to keep my boots on the ground, stay here. 0:27:39.920 --> 0:27:40.679 No thank you. 0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:43.560 I'm not even reaching for the stars. That's the rest 0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:44.680 of your feet on the ground. 0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.200 Keep reaching for the stars, my feet on the ground. 0:27:47.720 --> 0:27:51.800 But I'm with you the amountain, Let's like, let's like. 0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:54.880 Put all this money and like, let's try and find 0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:57.600 a cure for cancer, find a cure for all these things. 0:27:57.680 --> 0:28:03.080 Let's fear our ecosystem of poverty. There's there's a lot 0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:06.160 that these resources that are going in to fly these 0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:08.679 six people up there. Let's take that those millions of 0:28:08.720 --> 0:28:10.119 dollars and put it elsewhere. 0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:12.919 So get off my soapbox. 0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.199 No, no, no, it was good. It was good. And 0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:17.800 I don't know that that's very controversial. 0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:21.640 But so people seem so obsessed with these watching these 0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:24.040 nine people for nine months in space, I'm. 0:28:23.840 --> 0:28:26.280 Like, oh, well that was kind of a thing because 0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:27.240 they were stuck up there. 0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:30.000 Let's not send them in the first place. 0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:32.680 Well, they're doing those people are doing. 0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:39.200 Like research is anti sciences line. We need to know science, 0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:43.560 research things to solve our problems, and much of that 0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:44.520 can happen in space. 0:28:44.640 --> 0:28:46.920 Those people who were stuck up there, we those people 0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:50.520 are very important. But I'm saying these rides up and down, Yeah, 0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:54.280 maybe that money and energy could be place elsewhere. But 0:28:54.280 --> 0:28:56.080 I guess you could say that. You could say about Coachella, 0:28:56.120 --> 0:28:57.160 you could say about everything. 0:28:57.240 --> 0:28:58.920 True facts, back up facts. 0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:02.440 So but my very thing is that my TikTok algorithm 0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:05.600 is like very anti this whole. They're just like, this 0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:06.800 is kind of our opinion. 0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:08.680 Was it her? 0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:09.560 Was it Olivia Mon? 0:29:10.120 --> 0:29:10.520 Who was it? 0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:11.360 That was on the Today Show? 0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:12.400 That was like, was it em Rada? 0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:13.520 Was it? 0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:14.400 Who? 0:29:14.520 --> 0:29:14.840 Was it? 0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:15.640 Marketing Google? 0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:17.719 Em Rada was saying like why are we doing this? 0:29:17.800 --> 0:29:20.880 Somebody was on The Today Show with Jenna and they 0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:21.280 were like. 0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:25.160 Kind of like why are what? What? 0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:25.360 What? 0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:25.680 Like? 0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:30.080 Why? But there's Olivia Mon. Gail King, huh, I thought 0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:31.120 it was Olivia Mon. 0:29:32.240 --> 0:29:33.680 I'm going to spend some time looking for that. 0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:35.720 Gotta be a quick one. 0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:39.840 Gail King said that when they got back, she was like, Yeah, 0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:45.080 there's this amazing moment where Katy Perry started singing, what 0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:49.200 a wonderful world, just like what is going on? 0:29:49.520 --> 0:29:52.800 Literally the way? 0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:54.000 Yeah, what did she say? 0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:56.080 She said, what are they doing? I know this probably 0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:57.800 isn't the cool thing to say, but there are so 0:29:57.840 --> 0:29:59.720 many other things that are so important in the world 0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:01.800 right now. If you want to go to space, why 0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:03.280 do you need to tell us about it? You know, 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:05.320 just like, go up there and have a good time, 0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:07.959 come on down. What's the point Is it historic that 0:30:08.000 --> 0:30:09.600 you guys are going on a ride? I think it's 0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:13.000 a bit gluttonous. Space exploration was to further our knowledge 0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:15.800 and to help mankind. What are they going to do 0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:17.360 up there that has made it better for us? 0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:20.400 On here, I'm going Olivia mon on this one weirdly, 0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:24.320 and I never thought i'd agree with her here I am, Yeah, I. 0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:27.120 Don't know, it's it's it's one of those things where 0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:31.000 I guess you could go, you could say this about 0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:32.880 so many things that happened in the world. But I 0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:36.640 think because there's been so much direct focus on it. Yeah, 0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:40.040 obviously people there's gonna be more opinions on it, but 0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:42.920 I also I also don't need to know what's at 0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:46.360 the bottom of the ocean. It's scarier to me than space. 0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:50.280 You know, I'd like to know what's at the bottom 0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:55.400 of my stomach. Why, yeah, I don't know, Like you 0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:58.120 gotta use the bathroom noo, just like i'd like to 0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:02.120 know down. Yeah, like you can search for answers for 0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:03.160 things I'd like to know. 0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:06.520 As within the realm of possibilities, you can actually go 0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:09.680 get that nut. Yeah, speaking of medical procedures, I tried 0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:14.040 to start the pit. It was so intense. I like, couldn't. 0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:15.640 I had to turn it off. 0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:19.000 Oh well, I haven't tried it yet, but that makes 0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:20.840 me more excited to try it. I love intense. 0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:24.680 There's not there's not like music. So the scenes of them, 0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:30.560 like cracking bones, feels really wild. Yeah, it's it's very intense. 0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:32.840 But Taylor Banks told me that once you get past 0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:35.040 the first episode, which is like a hard watch because 0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:38.400 you have to adjust to the sights and sounds. Sure, 0:31:38.880 --> 0:31:39.800 it's like addicting. 0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:42.520 Oh well that might be next time. I've been watching 0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:45.640 a lot of TV lately. Oh yeah, for you, thank 0:31:45.680 --> 0:31:46.200 you so much. 0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:49.479 Yeah you're not You're not Mike White developing for shows 0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:50.800 watching TV. 0:31:50.920 --> 0:31:52.760 Yeah, my part, Well, like I f I think back 0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:54.920 on my week. I had a double date on Friday. 0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:57.880 It was passover on Saturday. I did a lot of 0:31:57.880 --> 0:32:00.840 like family stuff this weekend. But I feel like I've 0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:03.920 watched I watched Love on the Spectrum a full season 0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:09.600 and I loved it. We're watching Million Dollar Secret, which 0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:13.800 is so good. It's like Traders meets the Mole. 0:32:14.080 --> 0:32:17.800 Oh wow, yeah yeah yeah. 0:32:17.960 --> 0:32:21.560 And we're watching The Residents on Netflix. 0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:23.160 Oh do you like that? 0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:24.200 Yeah? 0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.080 Do you know what? I think it is? And I 0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:30.760 think it's just that every Shonda Rhime show has the 0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:31.959 same tone. 0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:36.240 This one's different really because we tried to watch it 0:32:36.280 --> 0:32:38.040 the first episode and I was like, oh, I just 0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:41.600 feel like I'm watching like Grays or Scandal, with like 0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:45.120 a monologue, but with different characters in a different plot. 0:32:45.280 --> 0:32:46.640 It's a little Scandally, I guess. 0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:50.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah, which I love Scandal. Yeah you know, 0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:52.400 but I don't know. Sometimes you just need a palate. 0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.280 I'm giving me the poll like Million Dollar Secret, Yeah yeah, yeah, 0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:57.520 yeah yeah. I could barely fall asleep last night without 0:32:57.640 --> 0:32:59.680 watching the final two episodes. I cannot wait to get 0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:01.440 home to night to watch the final two episodes. 0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:02.720 How sick I am? 0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:08.000 Yeah, that's pretty pretty intense, not wanting to sleep. 0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:11.120 I was about stay up till midnight on a school night, 0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:13.719 just to finish this season night. 0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:17.080 You know what, I was thinking about, how like we 0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:19.360 have free will as an adult, and I was thinking 0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:22.960 about how I could just go and rent a bike 0:33:23.000 --> 0:33:25.440 and ride on the beach path if I wanted to, Like, 0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.640 I was thinking about doing that, just like going and 0:33:27.680 --> 0:33:29.600 renting a bike at one of those little places and 0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:32.920 just like riding because I love riding bikes, but I 0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:35.760 don't really want to ride it around my neighborhood, you know. 0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.680 I just want to ride somewhere with like a view 0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:40.960 and just like put my headphones on and just. 0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:44.880 Great one from Venice down all the. 0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:47.400 Way down, or like Hermosa, you can go like Hermosa 0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:48.360 to Santa Monica. 0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:49.680 Yeah, on the bike path. 0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.920 We ride bikes in Washington Boulevard. There's a little bike 0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:56.080 shop there. We'd rent bikes and go down around the 0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:58.520 Marina and then down towards Medondo till you get to 0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:02.560 like the fact that smoke, Yeah, come back, A's gorgeous. 0:34:03.480 --> 0:34:04.880 And I was thinking I used to do that. I 0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:06.800 used to want to live in San Diego and I 0:34:06.800 --> 0:34:08.279 would come up to l A. I would do it 0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:10.920 all the time, and I was like, I could do that. 0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:14.759 I could just do that. Why don't I do that? 0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:15.239 Yeah? 0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:17.960 I don't know, but I'm going to know. I'm going to. 0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:20.399 But I was just thinking about it and I was like, man, 0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:22.480 it'd be so fun to go ride bikes on the beach. 0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:24.840 And I was like, so I should do it. I 0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:27.279 should do it because I have free will and I'm 0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.399 an adult. I can do whatever I want. 0:34:29.600 --> 0:34:30.919 Do you want to come over for an Easter egg 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:31.640 hunt this weekend? 0:34:33.160 --> 0:34:39.560 I could be interested. I was like, is there who's 0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:40.080 going to. 0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:42.680 Me and the kids? 0:34:42.880 --> 0:34:45.000 Oh? Yeah, yeah, that'd be fun. 0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:49.080 I'm probably just one kid at this point, because our 0:34:49.160 --> 0:34:50.600 teenager is probably gonna be like. 0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:55.080 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it'd be I. I that sounds fun. 0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:58.960 I'm gonna be alone. Haley's in Chicago. Oh yeahs a 0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:01.120 lone ranger. So I mean, if you need me any 0:35:01.120 --> 0:35:01.800 other nights. 0:35:01.800 --> 0:35:05.480 Week do you want to watch a million dollars? You're 0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:08.440 gonna say that you should come over tonight. Since it's 0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:09.440 our one month anniversary. 0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:11.759 We're gonna watch videos and photos from the wedding on 0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:13.560 the We're gonna mirror it to the TV. 0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:15.040 You don't think you just want to do that with 0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:16.760 with your husband as husband? 0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:19.400 Oh was that? 0:35:19.560 --> 0:35:19.759 Yeah? 0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:22.480 Okay, give it the two of us maybe tomorrow. 0:35:22.719 --> 0:35:26.839 Someone said that someone posted about doing their wedding and 0:35:26.880 --> 0:35:29.960 the seating arrangements, and they were saying, like, no way 0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:32.000 am I putting all my friends at the table. If 0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.600 I have to sit at a separate table like my photos, 0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:36.680 too bad. That's what I did. 0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:40.120 I was like, I don't want to sit at a 0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:42.560 sweetheart table, like be away from all my friends and 0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.000 have them all sit together. Like no, thanks, Well you 0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:47.520 were never at the table. Yeah, I barely even sit 0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:47.879 to eat. 0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:52.120 Yeah you were dancing. Yeah, okay, I want to talk 0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:56.719 about There was people confess their least favorite things about weddings, 0:35:56.880 --> 0:35:59.520 which I thought was an interesting fresh topic for us. 0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:19.759 But first we're going to take a break, all right, 0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:24.640 we are back. So people, I think someone, uh, this 0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:28.319 girl named Lana posted a TikTok saying she's planning her 0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:31.120 wedding and she wanted people in the comments to say, 0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:36.319 like things that they don't like about weddings so she 0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:38.960 knows not to do them, or we'll consider not doing them. 0:36:39.040 --> 0:36:39.520 Mm hmmm. 0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:42.640 And so I thought it would be fun to go 0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:43.439 through some of those. 0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:45.839 I'd be curious if Tanya did any of these. 0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:52.440 Yeah, the cheesy bridesmaid's groomsmen entrance into the party. Please 0:36:52.520 --> 0:36:53.040 don't do that. 0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:57.160 Yeah, we do that. That at that at that they 0:36:57.200 --> 0:36:59.200 are you're all ready for this? They do that every time, 0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:00.920 and it's not it's not it's not great. 0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:02.160 Yeah, we didn't do that. 0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:07.000 I think as the bridesmaid slash made of honor and 0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:09.279 in the weddings I've been a part of I get 0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:12.960 so stressed about what I'm gonna do to not be 0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:17.879 cringe doing a dance, and so yeah, I think it's 0:37:17.920 --> 0:37:20.560 just better for everybody. But Tonya did not do that. 0:37:20.760 --> 0:37:21.239 No, I did not. 0:37:23.200 --> 0:37:26.400 I hate when couples don't send thank you cards. But 0:37:26.560 --> 0:37:29.520 if I take an evening off, buy address, travel to 0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:31.560 your wedding, and spend one hundred bucks on a gift, 0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:35.200 a card would be nice. Well, you know. 0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:42.480 We wrote individual cards at the wedding that wins yea. No, 0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.839 you know what's interesting, So we didn't register because we 0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:46.720 were like, it's actually very funny. 0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:46.960 I was. 0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:48.920 We went to dinner with Brad and Gary on Friday 0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:51.000 and I was telling them because they got us a 0:37:51.040 --> 0:37:52.400 gift and they're like, you guys are a register and 0:37:52.400 --> 0:37:54.319 I was like, well, it feels weird being like, please 0:37:54.360 --> 0:37:56.359 spend thousands of dollars to come to Mexico for our 0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:58.480 wedding and please buy us a blender, you know what 0:37:58.480 --> 0:38:00.320 I mean. Like if it's felt like weird, you know 0:38:00.360 --> 0:38:02.520 what I mean. And they were like, it's very classy 0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:04.400 of you. And I was like, thank you, that's what 0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:06.719 we were going for. But we have gotten a couple 0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:09.640 of gifts. And then I'm like, but we weren't keeping 0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:12.040 track because we weren't planning on getting any. So then 0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:13.960 Robbie is like, were you keeping track of like the 0:38:14.000 --> 0:38:17.239 gifts we got and I was like no. So now 0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:18.759 I was like, He's like, we have to send thank 0:38:18.800 --> 0:38:19.160 you cards? 0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:21.000 And I was like, we already wrote cards for everybody. 0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:23.800 Yeah, I think that y'all are fine. 0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:26.000 I think I wrote yeah, right, I feel like I 0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:27.160 need to send you a thank you card. 0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:31.399 I was like, shoot, do we need to send thank 0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:34.240 you cards to the people that did like send us stuff? 0:38:34.880 --> 0:38:37.399 No, I don't think so, Like I think you did 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:40.080 the card, which was like all encompassing of the efforts 0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:42.040 of coming to the wedding. I think then getting you 0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:47.080 a gift outside of that, I don't know that they need. 0:38:47.280 --> 0:38:49.160 I don't know. I'm stressed because I was not. 0:38:49.400 --> 0:38:51.400 I was like, no, maybe just a text. 0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:53.080 We didn't keep track. 0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:56.319 Well, then maybe they'll listeners. 0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:58.480 Podcast on the podcast did you get us a blender? 0:38:58.560 --> 0:39:00.200 Thank you? So cute? 0:39:01.080 --> 0:39:02.680 It's mostly cash we've gotten. 0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:07.799 Well, that's nice. Yeah, this one's interesting that I disagree with. 0:39:07.920 --> 0:39:10.440 If you want to prescribe or expect things from your 0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:15.040 bridesmaids new dress, hair, makeup at bachelorette trip, you should 0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:20.200 be fronting the cost or not expecting gifts because to me, 0:39:20.520 --> 0:39:24.279 I think obviously they're if you're not able to contribute, 0:39:24.320 --> 0:39:26.920 and it's like a financial thing. I think that's a 0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:29.680 conversation you have with the bride and just like see 0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:32.360 where y'all can meet in the middle. But to me, 0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:35.040 the bachelorette trip and like all these things is like 0:39:35.239 --> 0:39:38.000 the gift from the bridesmaid to the bride. 0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:40.600 Yeah, but I do think that there's also stuff that 0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:44.200 the bride should cover, Like I'm trying to think. That's 0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:46.200 why I was pretty lenient on even though I had 0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.600 a color. I was like, I want my bridesmaids to 0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:50.319 like their dresses. So I just kind of gave you 0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:53.759 all like freedom to choose whatever dress you wanted, and 0:39:53.840 --> 0:39:57.280 also like make up, hair and makeup. I paid for 0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:00.400 a lot of you didn't want it, so if you 0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:02.920 didn't want it, but like that type of stuff, you 0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:04.439 know what I mean, Like I felt. 0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:06.719 But I'm saying like I think that, Well, yeah, I 0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:08.719 guess if the bride is like, you need to have 0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.160 your hair and makeup professionally done, then I think that 0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:14.360 the bride should cover that, right. But I think the dress, 0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:17.280 even though I think everyone has an about the dress, 0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:19.960 it's just part of it. Bacheloretrop I think is more 0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:22.960 of a conversation because they've gotten like very extravagant compared 0:40:23.000 --> 0:40:24.560 to what they used to be. But I think that's 0:40:24.560 --> 0:40:27.200 just a conversation you have amongst the bridesmaids and the 0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:31.600 bride if she's involved. But I think there's more of 0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:36.560 a balance there. Someone said, I won't contribute to your honeymoon. 0:40:36.560 --> 0:40:38.880 I'm a single girl already going to your wedding. I'm 0:40:38.920 --> 0:40:40.560 not paying for your vacation. 0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:43.120 That's very funny. 0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:46.440 I kind of it's it's so tough because I like, 0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:51.160 go when you're when you're in it, right, like the 0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:54.200 decision not to register, that's why we decided not to register. 0:40:54.280 --> 0:40:57.040 But then I was like maybe I was like people 0:40:57.160 --> 0:40:59.160 want people if people want to give you something, like 0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.399 let's put up a honey fund, And Robbie's like, we're 0:41:01.440 --> 0:41:05.239 not putting up a honey fund, Like that's on us. 0:41:05.320 --> 0:41:06.719 This is our honey you know what I mean? Like, 0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:08.120 and it's I don't know. 0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:09.560 I feel like I always go back to like, if 0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:12.080 you're doing a destination wedding, you're expecting people to like 0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:15.360 travel and go like that's the gift in itself, do 0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:16.000 you know what I mean? 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:19.319 I think I think it is different if you do 0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:22.600 a destination wedding versus a local wedding that's like a 0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:27.880 one night ask, right, I think there's more. Here's my 0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:31.839 honeymoon fund, here's my registry, right. But I think when 0:41:31.880 --> 0:41:33.759 people are flying and spending money to come and save 0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:34.879 for a whole weekend. 0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:37.520 Yeah, because it's a flight, it's a hotel, it's close, 0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:38.839 like it's like a whole thing. 0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:39.640 You know. 0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:43.759 What I always found gross is the dollar dance? Yeah, 0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:47.200 what is that where you're the bride goes out on 0:41:47.239 --> 0:41:50.160 the dance floor and she dances with who willever give 0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:54.640 her a dollar? Right? You put a dollar like on herself. Yeah, 0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:56.480 you pint a dollar to her dress and then you 0:41:56.520 --> 0:41:58.640 can dance with her, and then you guys line up 0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:01.239 and she ends up covered in dollar bills and that's it. 0:42:01.320 --> 0:42:02.520 Goes through the honeymoon funders. 0:42:02.600 --> 0:42:04.680 I gets so uncomfortable because I'm like, I'm gonna poker 0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:05.200 with the pin. 0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:07.399 Yeah. 0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:09.279 I've seen it a lot. Yeah, me too. 0:42:10.320 --> 0:42:12.799 So anyone can go up and put a dollar on 0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:14.239 the bride and get a dance with her. 0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:16.800 It's typically the males in the room. It's kind of 0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:18.080 an old school tradition. 0:42:18.520 --> 0:42:21.480 Oh my god, I hate that. I don't know. Maybe 0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:23.480 there's just something sweet that I'm missing about it, but 0:42:23.480 --> 0:42:24.080 I don't like it. 0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:24.880 I don't like it either. 0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:29.240 The garter toss yealed and do a garter toss? 0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:33.040 I did, Like, I don't even think I had a garter? 0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:33.839 Did you do it? 0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:34.319 Like? 0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:36.239 I was No, I was wearing the garter. 0:42:36.360 --> 0:42:39.200 I had a Captain America garter that I wore the 0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:43.520 whole wedding. 0:42:46.320 --> 0:42:47.400 That's so funny. 0:42:47.480 --> 0:42:48.000 That was awesome. 0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:53.880 I don't know if there's any others. 0:42:53.640 --> 0:42:56.240 That strangers that's ae. 0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:58.720 Or like if I don't know anyone at the wedding, 0:42:58.760 --> 0:43:01.320 let me bring a plus one. Please give me a plus. 0:43:01.120 --> 0:43:03.080 One, I will say. 0:43:03.080 --> 0:43:05.120 Because it was a big debate on the podcast prior 0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:10.279 to my wedding, the blusher or what is it, the 0:43:10.320 --> 0:43:12.719 veil over my head? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I didn't need it. 0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:16.040 I didn't need to do it. The photos didn't come 0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:16.800 back magical. 0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:18.320 They just didn't. 0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:20.759 And I'm like, you would change that if you could 0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:21.160 go back. 0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:23.799 There's a few things I would change about my wedding 0:43:23.840 --> 0:43:24.520 if I could go back. 0:43:24.719 --> 0:43:27.960 None of them. None of them like made or break, 0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:30.719 were make or break, you know what I mean. Like 0:43:30.760 --> 0:43:33.480 I'm not literally like nothing. 0:43:34.640 --> 0:43:36.080 I don't know how glorious. 0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:38.239 Yeah, but yeah, I look back at. 0:43:38.200 --> 0:43:40.040 The photos of the veil over my head and I'm like, 0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:42.600 they are not giving what Like you know, Everybody's like 0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:44.160 it's going to blow in the wind and it's going 0:43:44.200 --> 0:43:46.480 to be this like you're gonna this angel and I'm like, no, 0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:49.560 I look like I have like a thing flopping over my. 0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:50.480 Face, you know what I mean. 0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:54.560 It's not it was not the image that everybody told me. 0:43:55.680 --> 0:43:59.480 It would be, so I would have just warn my 0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:03.120 veil back. Okay, I would have taken more photos in 0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:05.239 my reception dress. I'm like, really sad, I don't have 0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:08.360 like actual photos in my reception dress. 0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:13.200 Yeah, yeah, no photos, just memories. 0:44:13.360 --> 0:44:13.600 Yeah. 0:44:14.120 --> 0:44:14.839 I have some. 0:44:15.000 --> 0:44:17.239 They're like blurry and I'm like drunk, and I know. 0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:21.640 I wish I would have taken more time to eat. 0:44:22.760 --> 0:44:26.399 I feel like I didn't eat enough, So I wish 0:44:26.400 --> 0:44:27.879 I would have like built that in at some point 0:44:28.000 --> 0:44:28.720 to like eat. 0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:33.520 And there was one other regret. 0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:37.680 I had if I could go back scouting for the photos. 0:44:37.480 --> 0:44:42.600 Ye, scouting for photo locations. Yeah, but that's it again. 0:44:42.600 --> 0:44:43.600 None of these were make or brain. 0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:45.880 Yeah, it's a short look. 0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:48.000 That's good for people planning weddings or thinking of the 0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.600 future wedding. Keep those things in mind, Avail. 0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:52.359 You don't need to put it over your head. It's 0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:54.319 not going to be this magical photo. It's just not. 0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.680 But I think that was of course, we had the 0:44:56.719 --> 0:45:02.920 photo conversation, but Robbie really wanted that, right, didn't Robbie robise? 0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.520 For some reason, he was like, I love the idea 0:45:05.560 --> 0:45:07.560 of me like unveiling you. 0:45:09.080 --> 0:45:12.680 See me, all right, bro? You did a first look 0:45:13.320 --> 0:45:13.960 like you've seen me. 0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:16.480 Literally we wrote on a golf cart here together, like 0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:21.160 I don't know what you're trying to unveil. Yeah, he 0:45:21.280 --> 0:45:22.880 like loved the idea of me having it, So I 0:45:22.880 --> 0:45:24.839 was like what I was no skin off my back 0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:29.120 and I was like it could look cool, didn't need it. 0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.799 Well, that's good for the brides to be to know 0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:33.920 about the blusher. 0:45:34.160 --> 0:45:37.959 Yeah, and make sure your uh bustle is bustled tight. 0:45:38.360 --> 0:45:41.480 Oh that was me. I tied it in a double knot, 0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:45.320 but in a bow instead of a just a single knot. Yeah. Fail, 0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:46.320 I know fail. 0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:49.000 I'm watching all my first dance videos. All the photos 0:45:49.000 --> 0:45:52.240 are just like slowly starts to unravel. 0:45:52.800 --> 0:45:57.360 To Haley, and I was like, oh my god, and 0:45:57.400 --> 0:46:04.120 I was like, I'm sober wrong No, but I I like, 0:46:04.239 --> 0:46:05.560 I was like, oh, I'm going to do a double 0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:09.200 knot so it stays that baby was strong. No, So 0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:12.360 make sure you do a tight knot on the bustle. 0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:14.560 Yeah, tight, nice and tight. 0:46:14.640 --> 0:46:16.640 By the way, Becka, you show the earthquake this morning. 0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:20.279 Oh weirdly, I was in I was getting acupuncture when 0:46:20.320 --> 0:46:20.800 it happened. 0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:21.759 It was dangerous. 0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:24.319 I didn't feel it, but I was thinking, like that 0:46:24.320 --> 0:46:28.120 could have been chaos, yeah, right through, because like I looked, 0:46:28.400 --> 0:46:30.279 I looked at my phone and everyone's like, did you 0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:31.960 feel the earthquake? And I was like, where was it 0:46:32.880 --> 0:46:34.360 was in San Diego? I know it was like six 0:46:34.480 --> 0:46:35.560 a six something. 0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:37.759 Five three, but we felt the way up here on 0:46:37.760 --> 0:46:39.080 the floor it was it was strong. 0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:39.760 Yeah, strong. 0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:43.480 Oh my gosh from San Diego. I mean that's far 0:46:44.480 --> 0:46:46.640 drive yesterday, that's far from here, that's far. 0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:47.760 What do you do in San Diego? 0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:48.800 Well, thank you for asking. 0:46:48.840 --> 0:46:51.760 My daughter was in the us UCSD production of Footloose 0:46:51.800 --> 0:46:53.520 over the weekend, so we went down to watch that 0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:55.600 and her birthday next weekend, so we did a little 0:46:55.600 --> 0:46:57.879 birthday brunch with her friends down there. It was really 0:46:57.960 --> 0:46:59.719 nice in La Joya, Yeah, very nice. 0:46:59.760 --> 0:47:02.000 Are they wholesome or are they like party girls? Like 0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:02.359 are you? 0:47:02.440 --> 0:47:06.280 Well, that's been That's a good question because some are girls, 0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:09.800 some are not. And she gets kind of torn between 0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:12.080 the two, the party girls and the non party girls. 0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:14.280 Oh, she's like she has a balance. 0:47:14.600 --> 0:47:16.880 Yeah, we really like the sweet ones that aren't the 0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:20.560 party girls. But she really is drawn to some of 0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:22.440 the party girls, but not the extreme party girls. She 0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:24.400 doesn't like them. So it's like a balance. 0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.000 Don't want to be in. You don't want the extreme 0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:31.359 of anything, right, So you don't want the. 0:47:31.280 --> 0:47:33.800 Ones that are throwing up regularly. 0:47:33.840 --> 0:47:36.280 Right just once every few years, yes. 0:47:36.360 --> 0:47:38.120 And you don't want the ones that are that never 0:47:38.200 --> 0:47:40.080 go out either, that are boring, right. 0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:42.239 Right, there's some boring about that. 0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:44.640 I'm with you. I've lived I've lived that life. 0:47:44.640 --> 0:47:47.279 But there's something fun about, especially at that age of 0:47:47.320 --> 0:47:49.640 the girls who are just like, yeah, let's go to 0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:52.880 the frat house, you know whatever they do living at 0:47:52.920 --> 0:47:55.360 the front. Yeah, I know you are living at the 0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:57.680 frat house, probably rolling on the ground. 0:47:57.320 --> 0:48:03.200 And sliding into the like yeah, then your feet. 0:48:02.960 --> 0:48:04.720 Like stick to the ground because of the beer. 0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:07.520 It's actually so gross, Like when I look back on 0:48:07.560 --> 0:48:09.960 my college experience because like especially how I am now 0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:11.879 with like cleanliness and like things like that. 0:48:12.320 --> 0:48:13.920 Like they used to have these things. 0:48:13.680 --> 0:48:17.880 That were called fu bar, which stands for beyond all recognition, Yes, wow, 0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:20.799 And they would make like there they basically had like 0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:23.600 imagine like an apartment complex where like all the rooms 0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:25.200 are like in a square and then they have like 0:48:25.200 --> 0:48:28.280 a big courtyard in the middle. They would somehow block 0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.160 off this courtyard and make it a giant pool and 0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:33.319 you would have to like slide in and like it's 0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:36.080 just like a giant pool and you're just in it 0:48:36.120 --> 0:48:37.920 all day and you're bathing to do and you're going from 0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:40.480 frat house to frat they're all doing it, frat house 0:48:40.520 --> 0:48:43.919 to frat house. They're disgusting. There's beers in there, there's 0:48:44.000 --> 0:48:45.719 like you don't even want to know what's in there. 0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:50.920 Ew gross. But that's you know, college life, the college experience, 0:48:51.000 --> 0:48:51.560 I suppose. 0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:53.160 Gosh my, it was crazy. 0:48:54.880 --> 0:48:57.239 It is hard to picture you in that environment now 0:48:57.760 --> 0:48:58.160 I know. 0:48:58.600 --> 0:49:00.880 And like there were so many at my school and 0:49:00.920 --> 0:49:01.960 I never did any of them. 0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:07.560 There was never one too about like drugs at Coachella 0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:09.799 and like who's they were? Like is are people just 0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:12.680 drunk and like gardening or are people doing like. 0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:15.760 No, people are doing like crazy stuff. It's like scary 0:49:15.920 --> 0:49:16.960 kind of Yeah. 0:49:17.040 --> 0:49:18.880 I'm always like, is there at least one person in 0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:20.719 the group making sure everyone's getting home? 0:49:20.880 --> 0:49:21.480 Hardly not? 0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:25.040 I bet. Yeah, it's kind of scary to think about. 0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:28.320 But that's all for today. 0:49:28.520 --> 0:49:30.560 Yeah. I would like to wish a happy passover to 0:49:30.560 --> 0:49:33.680 anybody who celebrates hawk, sameya, happy past. 0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:36.520 I have one quick thing to say to really quick. 0:49:36.920 --> 0:49:39.600 I got a DM the other day from Shelby Delaney 0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:43.000 and she said she wanted to watch the East Awards. 0:49:43.040 --> 0:49:46.640 She was pregnant and after she watched me sing this 0:49:46.719 --> 0:49:49.360 song a Rednecker, something fell off and her water broke 0:49:49.760 --> 0:49:54.160 and sent her in too early labor delivered. She delivered 0:49:54.160 --> 0:49:56.320 baby Lily, who was born nice and healthy. 0:49:56.560 --> 0:49:56.799 Wow. 0:49:57.560 --> 0:50:00.439 But I thought that was a funny that the see 0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:04.839 send her into labor. So congratulations, Shelby, thank you, fortulations 0:50:05.719 --> 0:50:07.080 to you for inducing labor. 0:50:07.200 --> 0:50:08.880 Yeah, that's a nice feather in my cap. 0:50:09.360 --> 0:50:10.880 Yeah. 0:50:11.080 --> 0:50:14.959 Not many people can say that, you know. No, all right, 0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:17.440 that's all for today, but we are back on Thursday 0:50:17.480 --> 0:50:21.000 with the Dear Bonya and we honestly just cannot even wait. 0:50:21.200 --> 0:50:23.840 So stay tuned for that. And we love you, someone 0:50:23.960 --> 0:50:25.200 love you. To be continued