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Speaker 3: Try to cancel her. I don't know a feeling. I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's also one of those things too.

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Speaker 4: People don't want to have to think about that when

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And sometimes I feel like, you know, it's and

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Speaker 2: that is how the world should work. It's that simple,

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Speaker 2: maybe they should not have a host. No one wants

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Speaker 2: that gig, you know people online.

442
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Speaker 4: Right, because the thing is nobody wants that gig because

443
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 4: they was like, Hey, if I go, y'all gonna come

444
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 4: through my shit too, And I fucked up. So no,

445
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 4: I don't want the gig because I don't want to

446
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 4: be bothered with ya quote unquote canceling me.

447
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, Michael Chay's on s and now telling people like,

448
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: if you don't let Kevin Hart do it, you won't

449
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: let anybody do it. Like they basically made it until

450
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 2: he's the victim, and it seems to be successful.

451
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: So I don't think it's I think.

452
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Speaker 2: We may be the ones who are more holding him

453
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Speaker 2: accountable quote unquote, not even holding him acount.

454
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Speaker 3: That's a bad I hate that turn. We're more, we're

455
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Speaker 3: the I want to saying more attention. I'll put it

456
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Speaker 3: that way.

457
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: That's what it is, more attention.

458
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Speaker 3: I don't know him the whole.

459
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 4: The general masses, they don't. All they see he fucked up.

460
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 4: He apologized the end.

461
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 2: Patty m says, that thing that made me cringe on

462
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 2: this episode was when Karen said. The thing that made

463
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 2: me cringe on this episode was when Karen said, I

464
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 2: don't want any type of stickiness or gravy from niggas

465
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 2: ew and Rod. Please shame these reminiscent sucking on Mama's

466
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 2: teaches niggas LOYL. Thank you, Patty, I've got this episode

467
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 2: talked about them titties. Emil says, Hey, TVGWT, I'm visiting

468
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 2: from Earth thirty eight and.

469
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Speaker 3: I just wanted to comment on this episode.

470
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Speaker 2: I've only listened to the episode on my Earth, but

471
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 2: I'm assuming it was identical here on Earth. One also

472
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: Why do you get to be Earth one and us

473
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 2: at Work thirty eight? Is it because we had a

474
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 2: Supergirl and you only had a Flash and Arrow?

475
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 3: AnyWho? I wanted to comment on Kevin Hart.

476
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,399
Speaker 2: Isn't it great that after making these reprehensible homophobic jokes

477
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 2: in his stand up a few years.

478
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 3: Ago that he did the best minimum and apologize.

479
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,479
Speaker 2: I don't even think he meant the apology, but we

480
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 2: know the bar set solo for straight people that all

481
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 2: he had to do was at least a carefully word

482
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 2: of sincereious sounding apology through his publicis.

483
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 3: As soon as his old jokes.

484
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 2: We surface now everyone bought it, but ABC accepted it

485
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 2: and kept him on his host even alluding to him

486
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 2: doing it next year as well. He's appearing with Ellen

487
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 2: on her show this week, and he's fully on his

488
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 2: way to image rehabilitation.

489
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Speaker 3: This is just like that time last year when on

490
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Speaker 3: Earth thirty eight, Lenna.

491
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: Dunnell swiftly condemned the writer for his sexual assault, even

492
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: though he was her friend and colleague.

493
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Speaker 3: She's such an intersectional feminist.

494
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 2: I'd love to write about how great President Hillary Clinton

495
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 2: is doing an office halfway through her turn? Can you

496
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: believe that nut job Trump thought he could win in

497
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 2: what world? But I've got to go. My Earth One

498
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: host says that they have a Kevin Hart Instagram post

499
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: for me to watch and catch me up on all

500
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Speaker 2: the Earth one news. Tata ha oh Amelia about to

501
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 2: be so disappointed, I know, enjoy your Earth Great Uncle

502
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: Bab says, thanks for being one of the few podcasts

503
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: to actually go deep into the cond text of this

504
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: Kevin Hart mess to show why he's wrong all the

505
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 2: way around, the actual jokes that he told, the non

506
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 2: apology apology that folks are saying he already gave, so

507
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 2: move on, and the whack what about is them to

508
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 2: pivot responsibility away from him because someone.

509
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 3: Else has trashed you. Yeah, I think. I don't know.

510
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: People are so scared of I don't know. It's like,

511
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 3: I don't know.

512
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 2: It's like people don't want to think someone's bad, especially

513
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 2: when they're famous like that. And he's made a career

514
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: off of being like an affable, short black dude, so

515
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 2: you don't want to think that he can do anything

516
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 2: to hurt anybody. But I don't know. It's like, this

517
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 2: is what it keeps striking me. How sensitive his response was.

518
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 3: He was hurt.

519
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,440
Speaker 2: Right, he's laying in with his shirt off. He wants

520
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: everyone to like him, whether he you know, and that's

521
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: what probably what drives him to be so dedicated to

522
00:24:53,560 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 2: being funny, right or you know, affable. Well, what about

523
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 2: the way your shit hurts people too? How come your

524
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 2: hurt is the only hurt that counts? How come you

525
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 2: get to sit there and cry or sit there and

526
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: be sad and quote Martin Luther King out of context

527
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: and skip over the parts where he, you know, where

528
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: Martin Luther King went on to advocate for how you

529
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: should be advocating for your brothers and sisters.

530
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 3: And the people that are downtrodden.

531
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: That was like the next sentence in that quote, but

532
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: he just skipped over it. He made himself the victim

533
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,959
Speaker 2: in a way that I just it works because I

534
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 2: just don't think accountability is a thing for a lot

535
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 2: of folks. And if you say you're the victim, people

536
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 2: kind of will flock to that anyway. And unless you're

537
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 2: privy to the online discussions, which I wish I wasn't

538
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: but I am, I can't miss him. Unless you're privy

539
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 2: to the online discussions, you really don't see how harmful.

540
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: What he's doing is because once you see people defend

541
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: him on some y'all gay people need to lighten up.

542
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: The gay people are even more this gay these this game,

543
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: a culture and generation is way more sensitive and.

544
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 3: This, that and the other.

545
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 2: And essentially these people are advocating for, Hey, we should

546
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 2: be able to joke about killing gay children.

547
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 3: That's what they're advocating.

548
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 2: You know, he's advocating for, Hey, I'm too good to

549
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 2: apologize for this shit, especially if it's coming between. If

550
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: you're gonna make me apologize, I ain't gonna do it.

551
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 3: You know. It's just weird. It's weird and stupid.

552
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 2: But whatever, something is really wrong with Lena Dunham. Folks

553
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 2: really let her keep rocking after even after all the

554
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 2: stuff she admitted to in her own book, and it's

555
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 2: just been an issue at the issue with her. Yep,

556
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 2: that's white girl's phase man white and Judd appetite. Like

557
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 2: it ain't us holding her up. That's why when when

558
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Nick Cannon tried to say that, like, y'all, let these

559
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 2: white people win, like no black person gives a fuck

560
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: about these white people.

561
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 3: Leave us alone.

562
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 2: Who fucked up more? Kevin Hard or Lena Dunham was

563
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Speaker 2: the pole. Ninety said, who care? Lead him, done him,

564
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: lean them done him? That is correct.

565
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 3: How curry you call her? Lean them? Is Lena? You've

566
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 3: been saying that for years? Lean them done him? Ninety percent.

567
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 2: If you can't beat him, join him as what I say,

568
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 2: beat him, join them, lead them, done them. Kevin Hart

569
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 2: ten percent got comments. Brooklyn shoe Bay says, Lena done him,

570
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: stay fucking up, So I don't speak better.

571
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 3: But Kevin Hart only.

572
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: Fucks up with with his wife, So I'm very surprised.

573
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 2: I'm also a little disappointed because I'm a long time

574
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 2: Kevin Hart fan.

575
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 3: I appreciate this up.

576
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: So I thought the Oscars was a blow up for him,

577
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: something he hasn't been in the game long enough to get.

578
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 3: My daughters and I love Kevin.

579
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: If we just want if we just want him to

580
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 2: have or want to have fun, even at home, we

581
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 2: just throw on one of the specials of movies, order a.

582
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: Piece said, laugh out loud, pure silly.

583
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm just disappointed. He should have apologized off the bat

584
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 2: and shut the fuck up. Not counting his opinion on antidepressants,

585
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 2: you have never caught Tom Cruise being problematic so he

586
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: will remain my celebrity Favell. Yeah, what ever scientology thing,

587
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 2: but good luck. Here's the thing with Kevin Hart two.

588
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 2: I thought that was funny. Kevin Hart has made an

589
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 2: entire career politically being just like I don't talk politics, right,

590
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not divisive. I don't talk politics. I

591
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 2: just keep it at jokes. I stay out of that shit.

592
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 3: I don't want to. You know, he all lives mattered

593
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: to a comment just.

594
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 2: A year or two ago, very pull yourself up by

595
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 2: your bootstrap type of mentality. You would think he would

596
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,199
Speaker 2: just stay away from the idea of joking about sexuality

597
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 2: in that way because nigga, you don't want to be

598
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: involved in the politics of the LGBTQ community. You know

599
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: what goes under the radar When Nick Cannon pointed out

600
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 2: those three white women that he said, oh, y'all said

601
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 2: homophobic slurs and tweets, Well, they've actually done work, and

602
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: all of them have done work in those communities too,

603
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: and nobody wants to talk about that because it's inconvenient.

604
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 2: So all those women who apologize and then actually put

605
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 2: people gay LGBTQ voices in positions to be heard.

606
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 3: And to get paid on their platforms.

607
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: All of those women went on and did that, they

608
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 2: actually have more room to say I grew, I changed,

609
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: and this.

610
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: Is my work right here, the receipts.

611
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 2: Nobody want to hear that shit because at least not

612
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 2: the people around me, because you know, it's so like

613
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: you gotta almost be on board, where like a white

614
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: person's name come up, they trash, you almost gotta be

615
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 2: on board with that shit.

616
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: And because I'm like, no, no, it's nuanced to it.

617
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 2: You know, it's not convenient the folks, like people can

618
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: be whacking one area and great than another. You know,

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Speaker 2: Amy Schumer has had some jokes that she said she

620
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 2: wouldn't repeat. She's been he's a stealing jokes, being racist,

621
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: all this shit. You know, she's also had one of

622
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: the most feminist TV shows of all time. Inside Amy

623
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: Schumern was one of those. And it wasn't just her,

624
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 2: it was a lot of people that worked over there

625
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 2: that were getting voices heard. You know, it's not convenient.

626
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 2: You know, Wanda Sykes gotta check fucking with her, like

627
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: it's not black and white. And even with Kevin hart

628
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 2: Is you know the main thing for him is that

629
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 2: This is a very big weak spot for him because

630
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 2: he normally doesn't steps put in these areas.

631
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 3: But he's got other shit too.

632
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 2: Colorism, you know, obviously, cheating on his wife and shit,

633
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 2: which is personal, but it once you're a celebrity, that

634
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 2: becomes not personal for a lot of folks. So you know,

635
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 2: it's not even about vilifying him or whatever. It's just

636
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 2: I just wish she didn't. I just thought it was

637
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: so stupid and needless, and it was about pride for him,

638
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 2: and I thought, I thought he really messed up, and

639
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: I wish I wish he didn't come to that because

640
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: I think he could have been hosting the Oscars and

641
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 2: it would have been a great moment for everybody.

642
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: Not just him.

643
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 2: But if he really claims to have changed and whatever,

644
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 2: if he cared about that. I'm not saying he has to,

645
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: but if he cared, I feel like that would have

646
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 2: been a great moment for a lot of people to

647
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: be like, look, man, you can come out of this

648
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: like this mentality, this toxic shit.

649
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 3: You don't have to live in this.

650
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: But and not everyone's gonna like you, and everybody's not

651
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: gonna forgive you, And that's fine too. Erica says, can Grass,

652
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 2: Kevin Hard, you play yourself, should have just apologized. As

653
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: for Lena Dunn, a fucker. Phil says, this is a

654
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 2: no contest for me. That's sad excuse for human willingly

655
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: covered up an actual crime and claim to also have

656
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: evidence against another woman's story while sabotage in her career.

657
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: I believe Kevin should have apologized and got a great

658
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Speaker 2: lesson out of this. But as you said, Ry, you

659
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 2: can't teach those that don't want to learn, and that

660
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: man has zipped up his backpack and walked out the class.

661
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: That's a Lena Lena Dunham vote for me, Thanks all,

662
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 2: thanks for all the great content. Rider Karen. Phil Joe says,

663
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: Kevin has made a few blunders since acquiring platinum status,

664
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: but this L's affect him and him heales affect him

665
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 2: and him alone.

666
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 3: Okay, his wife, but it's still in the house either.

667
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: Every time I hear a story about Lena, it's some

668
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 2: horrific Heather's level treachery.

669
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 3: Heathers, oh, that's so good.

670
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 2: People talk about Taylor Swift, but she has nothing on

671
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: the bullshit that Lena done them seems to have pull

672
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 2: to pull regularly make me makes me wonder about that

673
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: whole crew, Her, Shumer, Jennifer Lawrence. They are all like

674
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: these those unpopular girls at every white TV high school

675
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: and the ones who try to convince everyone everyone that

676
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: the popular girls are so cruel, but meanwhile they're.

677
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 3: Doing much worse stuff to everyone. Yeah, can you not

678
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 3: throw Jay Long? No?

679
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 2: Though I don't feel like Jennifer Lawrence hadn't done nothing

680
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: to nobody. Can we just are we coming for her already?

681
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: I feel like Jay Long probably had like one slip

682
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: up and it's just mostly that she's a white woman,

683
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 2: So it's like throw it in the pot.

684
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 3: But can we wait? Can we wait till she does something?

685
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 3: She seemed to be pretty? You know, I don't know,

686
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: Am I missing something?

687
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 2: You know? I mean I get that she's I almost

688
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 2: said something real shady about her while I'm trying to compliment.

689
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 3: Her, moving on moving you know that's call growth, that's

690
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 3: called growl.

691
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I almost said with shady shield, Like why did

692
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: I do that?

693
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 3: Gen says, I, come on, you know you.

694
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: Won't do to remainer. You're differently.

695
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 3: I think we look at the hard facts.

696
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: Lena Dunham to a very public told a very public

697
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 2: lie to protect the rapis and discredit his victim.

698
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: Kevin Hart is, unfortunately just like a lot of people.

699
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 2: Even though it is possible if someone felt affirmed in

700
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 2: that homophobia after hearing Kevin Hart being homophobic and did

701
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 2: did something violent against the LGBTQ person, then maybe Kevin

702
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 2: Hard is worse.

703
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 3: His apology was.

704
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: Definitely worse, which is shocking, especially since dumbass had an

705
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 2: opportunity to learn just two weeks ago when.

706
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 3: He had that little Cowboys and Indians party.

707
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 2: That said, Lena Dunnell positioned herself as a champion of

708
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 2: feminism and then went against her own supposed values. If

709
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 2: last year you asked me if I thought Kevin Hart

710
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: was homophobic, I would have said probably. Lena Dunham almost

711
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: definitely knew what she was doing was wrong. Kevin Hart

712
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 2: probably still doesn't get it. They can both kick rocks. Yeah,

713
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 2: I feel you, And especially that part about if you

714
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 2: would ask if Kevin Hart was homophobic, Yeah, because I

715
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 2: remember we covered the article where he went on this

716
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: big rant about how he would never play a gay

717
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 2: character and all this shit. So yeah, I mean, yeah,

718
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 2: you'd probably be back in one hundred with just about anybody.

719
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: Sim Simmer says, Kevin Hart could have apologized for old offenses,

720
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: and males people would have moved on. Lena Dunham is

721
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: terrible on so many levels, and this time she used

722
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: her privilege and platform to attempt to shame and cover

723
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: up a rap. White woman privileges being offensive over and over.

724
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: But your apologies somehow.

725
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 3: Seen a sincere and worthy of redemption.

726
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't normally advocate violence, but if a white woman

727
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 2: were to done him out and knock her on her

728
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 2: ass publicly, I would tweet all the congratulatory gifts fuck

729
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 2: her forever ever. Yeah, And I gotta say I'm into

730
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 2: Lena Dunham camp too. I don't think I think she

731
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 2: was worse You about you, Karen?

732
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 1: Oh?

733
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 3: Yeah?

734
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, both of them was horrendous, But yes, for her

735
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 4: is worse.

736
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, covering up a right man, I can't believe. I

737
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 2: still can't believe. I think part of the problem is

738
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 2: they gave her a platform to then like edit the

739
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,479
Speaker 2: issue and shit, just like.

740
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 3: When is enough enough with her?

741
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 2: I don't I just don't get I know, nobody gets canceled,

742
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: but she's one of those people where I just don't

743
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 2: even get how she's so important to people.

744
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,240
Speaker 4: Right, and you like, like you said, y'all have people

745
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 4: there whose job is to read and edit this. Somebody

746
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: should have read that and edited that completely different. It

747
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 4: was like, what you not gonna do is put this

748
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: bullshit out.

749
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: It's like, don't y'all have a million white women like

750
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 2: Wna Dunna. What's so what's so special that she needs

751
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 2: to hang on?

752
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 4: Uh?

753
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: We had eighteen oh six with BOSSI called who is y'all?

754
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: And we had several comments, Let's get into it, okay, Uh,

755
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: Joe Wright saying, great episode. Y'all won with this one.

756
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 2: BOSSI is great. Hope she appears again really soon. Well,

757
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: the door's always open. This is a very good conversation

758
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 2: that you all had about Kevin Hart and Kyler Murray

759
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 2: and their respective actions regarding the ghost tweets pass. The

760
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 2: Internet is like the telephone before they came up with innovations,

761
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 2: private numbers, answer machines, Star sixty nine call ID. I

762
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 2: understand about the free speech argument, but the answer is

763
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,840
Speaker 2: somewhere between technology innovation and regulation where.

764
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: The government of private companies.

765
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: I don't like people playing on my phone and I

766
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: don't need to deal with outlandish people that I don't

767
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: know who. Which is worse, Kevin Hart trying to act

768
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 2: tough before ultimately apologizing any way, or the myriad of

769
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: brothers working hard to keep keV.

770
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 3: To keep the keV account.

771
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 2: I saw today that where Charlemagne clocked in for duty

772
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 2: even after seeing the fails with Cannon, Cedric and DL,

773
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: keV must give out great benefits.

774
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, all he had to do was be in a

775
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 3: dull about the situation explain himself.

776
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 2: But nope, keV thought that he had reached the A

777
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: list mountaintop and could big time people know, well, tough

778
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: shit CAV. There's always the Soul Train awards, I guess joking,

779
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 2: but keV needed that lesson on just how inexpendable he

780
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: still can be.

781
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 3: I hate that they got to Kyler Mary though. That

782
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 3: is really fucked up.

783
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 2: That said someone should have gotten to him before now

784
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 2: to delete those messages.

785
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 3: Last point, I think every black person of a certain.

786
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 2: Age can speak that haven't watched Jukes It Hazard when

787
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 2: we were kids. I don't know if any actual grown

788
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: people watch that show, because it is awful to attempt

789
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 2: to watch now. I figured out the problem not from

790
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: the flag on the car. But from the damn song

791
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 2: that the horn played, I believe it was Dixie.

792
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was Dixie.

793
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,479
Speaker 4: And when you learn about that history of that soul,

794
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 4: like I did listen and untill you was like, oh, oh, okay, okay.

795
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

796
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 2: As far as the stuff you said about Kevin Harren

797
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 2: and the people clocking in for duty to defend him,

798
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 2: I think that's the problem with a lot of this shit.

799
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 3: It doesn't become about.

800
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: The offense, the defense of what was and why no

801
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 2: one should be bothered by it. That just that's the

802
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 2: part that I always find draining. You know, I didn't

803
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: see Cedric Entertainer, but you know, it's all these people that.

804
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: Don't have to say nothing. They don't have to say anything.

805
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, I feel like d L is probably

806
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: the worse because DL is so super sensitive.

807
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 3: About race anything. He will find a way to be

808
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 3: offended about that shit.

809
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 2: If you you know, there's no defensive jokes and shit

810
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 2: for other people. As far as Charlamagne, it is what

811
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: he do, that's just what he does. Like you know,

812
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 2: Michael Cha was the same. I just think it's what

813
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 2: people do is you know, my thing is you still

814
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 2: it tell It's like the freedom of speech argument, it's

815
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 2: the people you defend and what you defend that they

816
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 2: say that tells a lot about your whole freedom of

817
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: speech thing, because you only pull that shit out when

818
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,479
Speaker 2: you really do low ki agree. And what what people

819
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 2: are telling me is that I low key agree with

820
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 2: you know, bullying gay people and shit, and then when

821
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: one of them dies or kills themselves or something, then

822
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 2: I will act all sad, but I don't really believe it.

823
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 3: And I believed when they had that.

824
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: Two days of the Breakfast Club where they talked about

825
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: trans people with Janet Mak and some of the very rude,

826
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: fucked up questions they asked. And then the next day

827
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: or whenever, they had Little tvall on and they made

828
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 2: jokes about trans people and how funny it was and

829
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: killing them and shit, How the fuck could do you

830
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 2: expect those people that didn't turn around and be like, well,

831
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 2: I was involved in that, but let me tell you

832
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 2: it's wrong. What Kevin Hart said, No, he's gonna agree.

833
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 2: You can break the troll over kids out face for

834
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: being gay, and that's funny. D raz A Phdune says

835
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: love having Basia on the show. She should do a

836
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 2: drive by at least once or twice a month. The

837
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: ducer has the flashback was everything. I'm at my desk

838
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: now on YouTube watching the WWE's top five best returns

839
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 2: for Stone Cold, Steve Austin hashtag Rednecks.

840
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 3: Dear Queen, Hey Queen, Karen, and Rob.

841
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm not sure I should use my real name for this,

842
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 2: so feel free to make one up.

843
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 3: All right? What name would you like to make up

844
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 3: for this, Lady, Carla? Carla?

845
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: All right, Carla, just finish up listening episode eighteen oh

846
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 2: six in your childhood loved the Dukes. That has you

847
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 2: have me snicking at my desk and brought back a memory.

848
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: I too have a Confederate picture somewhere in the universe.

849
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 3: Lol.

850
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 2: When I was still young enough to be in the daycare,

851
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 2: we were cleaning out of storage closet when I came

852
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 2: across what my auntie would call a do rag. It

853
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: was red, white and blue hat stars all over it.

854
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: I instantly asked if I could have it. I remember too,

855
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 2: if the teachers were black, they kind of froze. I

856
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 2: remember one of them saying you don't want that, and

857
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: not understand.

858
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 3: I quickly replied, yes, I do. Can I please have it?

859
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 3: I can if I can put my hair up at night.

860
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 2: I guess no one felt like putting up a fight,

861
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: so they said fine and continue cleaning the closet. I

862
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 2: went on, went on a summer camping trip at ward

863
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: enough times, and somewhere out there's a picture of me

864
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 2: wearing an unfoted Feederi.

865
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 3: Flag on my head, shaking my head. There's no mistake

866
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 3: in what it was at all.

867
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 2: You didn't know cut to the sun time in the

868
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 2: sixth grade. At the time, I was really self conscious

869
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: about my hair. It was broken and short and overpurned

870
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: and greased and generally a mess.

871
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,760
Speaker 3: It was teased.

872
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: I was teased mercilessly by teachers and students alike throughout

873
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 2: the elementary school and middle schoolers were ten times worse.

874
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 2: One day, I'm pulling our old clothes and I get

875
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 2: to the idea, try to be cute and repurpose some scars.

876
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: I come across my red and blue do rag with

877
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: white stars on it, folded into a headband, comb my

878
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,399
Speaker 2: hair into a swoop, and thought I was really doing

879
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: something because the colors played off my new shoes and

880
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 2: seen to fit the Yay American fat that took over

881
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,479
Speaker 2: in middle school at.

882
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 3: Them nine to eleven.

883
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 4: Oh No.

884
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 3: When I got to.

885
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 2: School, I remember feeling more put together than usual. I

886
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 2: was feeling myself all the way to after school when

887
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 2: I went to refold my repurposed headband, and boy, a

888
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 2: boy came up to me and said, what are you wearing?

889
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 3: He was visibly upset.

890
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: At first, I thought he was gonna roast me, so

891
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 2: I scrambled to put it back, to put it back on,

892
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 2: and I messed up my hair. He snatched it from

893
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 2: me and said, why are you wearing Confederate flag?

894
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 3: You're black.

895
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 2: Usually something like this would be said to me because

896
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 2: I knew every Lincoln Park single word for word.

897
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 3: But he seems so mad, and I was so lost.

898
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 2: I I feel like my education in this regard was

899
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 2: just joined up.

900
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 3: My school was diverse, but heavy on white lieutenant's kids.

901
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 2: In school, we would get lesson on slavery, Jim Crow,

902
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 2: Martin Luther King in February, then have to talk about

903
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,320
Speaker 2: random battles and war heroes and Civil War rest of

904
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 2: the semester. I never felt like it was all the

905
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: same subject and didn't hold much meaning.

906
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 3: To me.

907
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 2: Then that was the day the super pro black kid

908
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: in school who's not my wee connect taught me about

909
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 2: the Confederacy and the flag and it all clicked. The

910
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: random stairs, the looks on my daycare teacher's faces, everything,

911
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 2: the light bulb came on and I couldn't throw that

912
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 2: thing away fast enough that I was a whole last

913
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: preteam with no clue.

914
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 3: Thank god, this is before the internet. Woo. Sorry, this

915
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 3: is kind of lone.

916
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 2: Thanks for the memory, Love you too, and can't wait

917
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 2: till you're back on the West Coast. Happy holidays, y'all,

918
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 2: ate up. Thank you Carler, Thank you Carler. And that

919
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: is a nightmaster and a half damn.

920
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: Because if you don't know, you don't know. And that's

921
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: why people, it's really important. And it's hard though, because

922
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: you want the school to do the.

923
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,799
Speaker 4: Job, but the schools don't do the job, and a

924
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: lot of times parents don't have the time to do

925
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 4: the job unless your parents take the effort to teach you.

926
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: And a lot of parents can't teach you.

927
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,720
Speaker 4: Because they're not even aware of the history and things

928
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 4: themselves to give you their knowledge.

929
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: Who equipped you to know these things?

930
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's almost like I catch twenty two and

931
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 4: I think it's purpose really designed like that to keep

932
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 4: people ignorant.

933
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: The thing for me is, you got to you gotta

934
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 2: be militant about your kids if you're black, but you

935
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 2: don't want to ruin the child.

936
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 4: Right because you strip them away just from that pureness

937
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 4: and that happiness of just being a child, and you

938
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 4: don't want to dump the worries of the world on

939
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 4: them at such a young age where they don't even

940
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 4: you're a childhood. You know, you have a five and

941
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 4: a six year old, You know, this very militant and

942
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 4: next thing you know, they can't even actually go outside

943
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 4: and play and just enjoy being a child, you know.

944
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 1: So I do understand it, and it has to be

945
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: tough for parents, like when do we have these.

946
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 4: Conversations and when do we talk about things it was appropriate.

947
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: At what age?

948
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 3: Yeah?

949
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 2: I do wonder what adults were in your life that

950
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: never noticed you were wearing that head scarf, or if

951
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 2: they noticed it, then let it slide. That would be

952
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 2: the question I have, Like it's not your father, but

953
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: I would feel if I was an adult, I would

954
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 2: feel obligated to be like, hey, can I put you to.

955
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: The side and let you know.

956
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Shoe Base says BOSSI was a wonderful guest. Please

957
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 2: come on again, BOSSI and I will join your problematic

958
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: black kids. They love Duson has a club. We'd have

959
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: fights in school about which car was faster.

960
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 3: To generally or kick man.

961
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 2: I remember when I made the connection of the Confederate

962
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: flag generally in Civil War. It was like a punch

963
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 2: to the chest. I felt like a race trader lol.

964
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 2: Also had a huge crush on Bo Duke the Blond

965
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 2: with aka John Schneider and seriousness. When your eyes are

966
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: come open, it could be really depressing. It's like your

967
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,479
Speaker 2: innocent childhood has been horribly tainted.

968
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 4: Right, It can be very, very depressing. And even as

969
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:15,720
Speaker 4: an adult, once you quote unquote become woke and you

970
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 4: look at the world differently, you can't unsee it.

971
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: And before you know, you start.

972
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 4: Analyzing things around you differently, and you start questioning things,

973
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 4: and you start making connections to things in your past

974
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 4: and the history that you never thought about before. And

975
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 4: like you say, it's one of those things. And I

976
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 4: will continue to say this. Once you're woke, you can

977
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,240
Speaker 4: never go back to sleep. You might can take a nap,

978
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 4: but you can never go back to sleep again.

979
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: This is America. Come on, Oh got you slipping up?

980
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: Karen says, now listener, new listener here. So I'm still learning,

981
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: but I want to say I thoroughly in George's episode

982
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 2: and on Lautenix, I'm a Latina and I haven't fully

983
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 2: embraced using the term Latino to me and sometimes like

984
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 2: saying hey guys to a group of people regarding how

985
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 2: they identify. But really it hasn't caught on with me

986
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 2: because we already have a term to address our people

987
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 2: regardless of gender identity, Latin Latin music like Grammys, etcetera.

988
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 2: I'm not saying it won't catch on with me. I'll

989
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 2: call people latinix if they prefer. I prefer Latina, and

990
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:18,919
Speaker 2: Latino is fine with me as a group. I don't

991
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 2: feel excluded as a woman by Latino reference. Maybe I

992
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 2: need better education, but from scholars, because literally my whole

993
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 2: family will roll their eyes at latinix.

994
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 3: Nah. I've actually listened to I listened to.

995
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: Conversation with People who Hate Me by Dylan Marrin's podcast,

996
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 2: and he had one about somebody who used the term

997
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 2: of latinix and then this person that disagreed and the

998
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 2: argument they got into and all the stuff, and I

999
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 2: know enough to know that ain't my table, you know

1000
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Like, so you know, we had someone

1001
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 2: right in to be like, y'all should use it. We

1002
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: had people right in to say y'all shouldn't now, and

1003
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 2: you're writing in being like, I'm not really offended by

1004
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 2: it or not offended, but you know a lot of

1005
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 2: my family would be.

1006
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 3: I don't have the answer. I'm not a scholar on this.

1007
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 3: I'm not an expert on this, And like.

1008
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 2: BOSSI said, sometimes in the circles were rolling, you're just

1009
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 2: trying not to, Like, I don't want to give people

1010
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 2: shit if it's bothering them, you know, And I don't

1011
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 2: know what bothers people more. I haven't really had a

1012
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 2: lot of people that seem to be offended by saying LATINIX.

1013
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 2: But you know, at the same time, who knows, you know,

1014
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: maybe they're offended it is to have it approached me,

1015
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 2: or maybe it's not a big deal to them. But

1016
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 2: I've actually actually not had that many people offended by

1017
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: Latino or Latina either. Just a few people that will correct,

1018
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 2: like no it's actually this so I don't know.

1019
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, and just listening to that same commisation you was

1020
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 4: talking about, I think it might be somewhat of a

1021
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 4: generational change shift because seem like latin X is more

1022
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 4: newer to the culture. So you know, sometimes some people

1023
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 4: are they just rejected on his face because it's different.

1024
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 4: But I'm like Roger, I don't know. So it's like

1025
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 4: I just use whatever is considered inclusive. But if you

1026
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 4: tell me, you personally tell me. Otherwise I will try

1027
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 4: my best to adapt and to.

1028
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 2: Just yep, Trace Windle says, hey, Rod and Karen to uh,

1029
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 2: so glad you had BOSSI on the main the Blackout

1030
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: Took show.

1031
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 3: She is awesome. She's always an awesome informative guest.

1032
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: I can't thank her enough for sharing her own mental

1033
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 2: health journey on this too much. Often hearing another POC

1034
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: talk about their mental health helps in many, so many

1035
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 2: good ways. Thank you, Bossy, and Rod and Karen also

1036
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: can't wait to read her book.

1037
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 3: Thanks.

1038
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, all you guys are not alone. A ton

1039
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: of black folks Blue love Duce. It hasard growing up.

1040
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 2: But I understand now why my folks would never buy

1041
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 2: me that toy car.

1042
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 3: Ha ha.

1043
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: Sim Simmer says, hey, Rid and Karen. Karen's reaction to

1044
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,280
Speaker 2: the nigger fish story made me laugh so loud.

1045
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for making me cacking for a really frustrating story.

1046
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 2: BOSSI and Karen were so right about the celebration for

1047
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 2: white to Jay said in the Natural Hair Movement, I

1048
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: specifically search.

1049
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 3: For seed to see videos and images like me mm hmm,

1050
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 3: and on YouTube.

1051
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 4: It's really really tough because now that's why a lot

1052
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 4: of people get their knowledge and their wisdom.

1053
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: And you know, yeah, you.

1054
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 4: Can find like message boys and all this stuff, but

1055
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 4: it's so much easier to find videos like I got,

1056
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 4: like head wraps and things like that. So a lot

1057
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 4: of times I would actually go and find different women

1058
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 4: in different.

1059
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: Ways that they tie head wraps.

1060
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 4: But and to an extent, and even with that so

1061
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,360
Speaker 4: fucked up, like I said when she woke, it's certain

1062
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 4: styles that I don't even do that go oh that's cute,

1063
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 4: But then I will know white people are ignorant and dumb,

1064
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 4: and I don't want them to harass me thinking oh

1065
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 4: wa in a hey job because they don't fucking know.

1066
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 2: Did y'all break up? Cardian Offset was the pole. Yes,

1067
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 2: it was us. No, we were too busy being mad

1068
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: at nick minaj O. Care did you break up CARDI

1069
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 2: being offset? I didn't, so you were too being mad

1070
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 2: a Nick Minach. Sixty eight percent of people agree with you.

1071
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 2: Thirty two percent say yes it was us. I'm in

1072
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 2: the thirty two percent.

1073
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 3: I was not the y'all I broke them up.

1074
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 2: Mel Lady says, I hope Nicky never had he has children,

1075
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 2: especially with.

1076
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 3: Her to finished sexual offenders. She is out of control.

1077
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 2: Joe says, y'all must be with all set causes dick

1078
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:20,200
Speaker 2: as in y'all one.

1079
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 3: Now he gets to go inside. So many many more.

1080
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 2: We had episode eighteen oh seven, the Gender pay Gap

1081
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: Stars at Home.

1082
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 3: Not the most funniest title, but it was applicable.

1083
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: Yes it was.

1084
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 3: We got five.

1085
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:43,240
Speaker 2: Comments, I believe, yep, we got five ow nits oow oh.

1086
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 3: These are some long ones.

1087
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Shoe Base says, dear riding Karen, I became absolutely

1088
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 2: triggered listening to you talk about gender chores.

1089
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 3: I'm not even being funny.

1090
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: When I got married and would visit my grandmother's home

1091
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 2: on Thanksgiving, Christmas or Easter, anytime when large plays of

1092
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: food would be eating at Rod's cookout.

1093
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 3: Lol. My grandmother would always call my mother, my mom,

1094
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 3: and my aunt to fix our husband's plates when the

1095
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 3: food was ready.

1096
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 2: Instead of having all the adults fix their own plates

1097
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 2: or the husbands fix their wives plates. I will always

1098
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: protest and ask why can't he fix his own plate?

1099
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 3: His legs hain't broke.

1100
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 2: My grandmother would always jokingly replied that it was the

1101
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 2: wife's duty.

1102
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 3: Then when I had children, I.

1103
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:22,359
Speaker 2: Would then become responsible for fixing the baby's plates and

1104
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: my then husband's plate because that's the wife's duty. My

1105
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: children are damn their teenagers, and I'm divorced, and I'm

1106
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: still required to fix their place first. When I visit

1107
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 2: my grandmother's house, I look at my family and I

1108
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:34,720
Speaker 2: want to scream.

1109
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 3: My children can bake a potato.

1110
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,919
Speaker 2: Bake a chicken breast, and make a pot of rice,

1111
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: so they certainly have served up a goddamn plate of

1112
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: franks and beans, but I don't because I'm accused of

1113
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 2: being angry and full disclosure. My family is a matriarchy

1114
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 2: and number of women out number the men three to one,

1115
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: so it's just.

1116
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 3: A lot of internalized sexism.

1117
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 4: Girl right, and I'm not for you in particular, and

1118
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 4: then they wonder why you have a generation like I'm

1119
00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 4: not coming to your fucking family functions.

1120
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 1: Have my own thing E separate from me all because.

1121
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 4: I don't want to deal with this, you know, like

1122
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 4: I want to come and have a good time and

1123
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 4: I don't want to be stressed, you know, and I

1124
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,879
Speaker 4: don't want to have to deal with this type of thing.

1125
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: And they think something's wrong with.

1126
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 4: You for not wanting to come to the Christmas function

1127
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 4: of other things giving functions or whatever other functions that

1128
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 4: they invite you to. And a lot of times they

1129
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 4: don't realize a lot of times they're the problems because

1130
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,959
Speaker 4: you're willing to adapt and adjust and change.

1131
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: And the people that are.

1132
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 4: Always progressive always have to accommodate the people that they.

1133
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 3: Are all stuck.

1134
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: Why do I Why do I always have to accommodate?

1135
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: Why why isn't the change ever on your side?

1136
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 4: You don't ever have to change, you don't ever have

1137
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 4: to adapt, you don't ever have to adjust, you don't

1138
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 4: ever have to grow.

1139
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: And your mind is just the way it is.

1140
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 4: And there's something wrong with me because when I begin

1141
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 4: to irritate and agitate and be like, this shit is dumb.

1142
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 4: They're teenagers. They can make their own fucking place. There's

1143
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 4: nothing wrong with my husband. You know, if I want

1144
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 4: to let it be my choice, it's not because I'm

1145
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 4: obligated to out of these are the obligations of a wife.

1146
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 4: And so I completely under I understand your frustration, and

1147
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 4: I understand your anger behind that.

1148
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: And like I said, you continue to go with just fine.

1149
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,439
Speaker 4: A lot of people do, but a lot of people

1150
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:11,279
Speaker 4: just stopped going so all of a sudden they wonder

1151
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 4: why certain people just don't show up the functions. They'll

1152
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 4: be like, I don't want to deal with that shit,

1153
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 4: and I don't want to have to explain I have

1154
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 4: an argument with you about me not showing up.

1155
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 2: As kids and teens, my twin brother and I were

1156
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: being raised by my grandmother. My brother was allowed to

1157
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 2: do more dangerous chores and shoveling snow, buying the newspaper

1158
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 2: from the corner store, taking out the garbage. Even though

1159
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: I was more than capable, I was only allowed to

1160
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 2: do things like set the table.

1161
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 3: For dinner and drive put away dishes. But call spoiled

1162
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 3: by Aunt's Why Aunt?

1163
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: Because I was doing more? I mean because I was

1164
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 2: doing more to danger chores I.

1165
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 3: Couldn't win for losing.

1166
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,800
Speaker 2: Specifically, remember a time when my grandmother had trouble opening

1167
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 2: a jar.

1168
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 3: My brother was in the other room.

1169
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 2: I was on the weightlifting team in school and sitting

1170
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: right there next to my grandmother. She called over my head.

1171
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 2: She called over my head to have my brother op in.

1172
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 2: Although I was living as strongly person in the room.

1173
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,399
Speaker 2: When my now ex husband told me, after nearly twenty

1174
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 2: years of marriage, all the reasons he fell out of

1175
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 2: love with me, most of them were of how I

1176
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 2: didn't perform domestic duties well. My dinner dishes were boring.

1177
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 2: I couldn't corn row our daughter's hair. It took me

1178
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 2: too long to put away the clean laundry. I didn't

1179
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 2: do a good job of keeping our place organized. He

1180
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 2: literally said this to me with the straight faces.

1181
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 3: Though I didn't also have.

1182
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 2: A full time job working with small children all day,

1183
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 2: I had to come home and take care of our

1184
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,959
Speaker 2: two small children, including taking them to dance class, being

1185
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 2: their scout leader, and being the classroom mom chaperon in

1186
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 2: their class trips, and calling out sick for my job

1187
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: to take care of my children when they were sick,

1188
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 2: and there was never any discussion about that.

1189
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 3: It was just assumed that I.

1190
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: Had to stay home if my daughters were sick and

1191
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 2: redo my schedule if I had to take them to

1192
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 2: the doctor, and that Nigga hated his job and I

1193
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 2: loved mine. It's only now that I'm a single mom,

1194
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 2: living on my own and supporting myself that I realized

1195
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 2: that I was and in a more than adequate mother,

1196
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 2: and that I was and carrying the majority of the

1197
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 2: emotional labor of raising the child. I'm so sorry for

1198
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 2: the long rambling response. Like I said, I was really

1199
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 2: triggered by that story. I'm clearly still dealing with forty

1200
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 2: plus years a familiar familial sexism and gender favoritism. I'm

1201
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 2: just hoping that as a mom, I could teach my

1202
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,919
Speaker 2: daughters that they are capable of doing whatever they want

1203
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 2: to do without gender being a factor.

1204
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 3: Thanks for sharing and bringing this up, and how can

1205
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 3: I proces this?

1206
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 4: And you know what, baby, I am so glad that

1207
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 4: you realize your worth because so many women are where

1208
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 4: you were and they don't realize their worth.

1209
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: Because that's very insulting for.

1210
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 4: A man to look at you dead in your fucking

1211
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 4: face and tell you some shit like that when you

1212
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 4: know you are going above and beyond. I'm surprised and

1213
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 4: Nig's still living because I'd have been like, bitch, what

1214
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 4: what do you fucking like it had been a brawl

1215
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,760
Speaker 4: like you know, because it's like it's like they question your.

1216
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 1: Motherhood, they question you being a woman and everything.

1217
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 4: In most how household straight households, the emotional labor falls

1218
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 4: on the woman, the for the children, and the husband.

1219
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 4: Now a lot of these things fall on a woman,

1220
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 4: and it's not fair and it's not right, and you know,

1221
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 4: because society does not teach men to actually trip into

1222
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 4: the household. I'm bringing home the bacon quote unquote. I'm sorry, Peter,

1223
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,360
Speaker 4: I'm bringing home the bacon. Is all he's supposed to

1224
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 4: fucking do. And I'm supposed to take care of all

1225
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 4: these household responsibilities and still find the energy to fuck you,

1226
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,280
Speaker 4: and still find the energy to be attractive, and still

1227
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 4: find the energy to do all these other things that

1228
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 4: you demand on me. But these same demands are not

1229
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 4: placed on men. You know, it's been a shift in

1230
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 4: the generations when more men are starting to step up

1231
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 4: and willing to step up. I've seen more stay at

1232
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 4: home men. You know, I've seen more men going well.

1233
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 4: When I was growing up, my father really wasn't there

1234
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 4: and I didn't have a relationship or a connection with him.

1235
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: So now I.

1236
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 4: Don't want to be a man that my children are

1237
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 4: scared of. I don't want to be the men of

1238
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 4: the house and have my children. The only time I

1239
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 4: spend time with my children if it's something that I

1240
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 4: want to do.

1241
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 3: Sports.

1242
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 1: Really, that's why a lot of children get into sports.

1243
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 4: Little girls under the boys or or whatever your gender is,

1244
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 4: or however you identify, get into sports because they desire

1245
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 4: the approval of their parents. So, you know, and it's

1246
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 4: one of those things where a lot of times we've

1247
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 4: talked about it before, when men aren't taught to have

1248
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 4: empathy and sympathy and think outside of themselves when it

1249
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 4: comes to their household, and doesn't mean they don't love them.

1250
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 4: It just means the men aren't taught to actually look

1251
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 4: at the household as an entire fucking household outside of themselves.

1252
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 4: And you have to not only put money on the table,

1253
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 4: you need to be emotionally involved, you need to chip

1254
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,919
Speaker 4: in and all these other things, because you would drive

1255
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 4: a woman fucking crazy, and then when she snaps or

1256
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 4: have a mental breakdown or shit like that, everybody want

1257
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 4: to blame you for cracking when women are not superheroes.

1258
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big part of it.

1259
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: I think for me though, it's more about men, right

1260
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 2: because like the like one, the women in your life

1261
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 2: accepted that treatment and probably conditioned you to want a

1262
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 2: man that would want those values in a woman, even

1263
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 2: if they were values you never held high esteeming it

1264
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 2: didn't want for yourself, right, so you still can they

1265
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 2: still define what a man was for you and for

1266
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 2: a man is for a lot of people. It's something

1267
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 2: that in a lot of ways doesn't exist. It's a

1268
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 2: myth of a man, right, there is there are very

1269
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 2: few men who bring home the bagels, right, there are

1270
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 2: very few men.

1271
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1272
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 2: If we can kill two birds with the ones scone,

1273
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 2: if we can see two birds with one scone here.

1274
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 3: There's there's men who.

1275
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 2: We've been conditioned to do the least at home and

1276
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 2: call it the most.

1277
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 3: Right. It's just what privilege is.

1278
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 8: Right.

1279
00:58:56,400 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 2: It's like white people feel like, you know, every spot

1280
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 2: and a university belongs to a white person. Men feel

1281
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 2: like every job belongs to a man and sometimes a

1282
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 2: woman gets one and that's a firmative action, right, So

1283
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: that's kind of the conditions that we have.

1284
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 3: But I would.

1285
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 2: Address the men with this and be like, there's a

1286
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 2: lot of men right now listen to our show that

1287
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 2: think they're happily married, think they have a happy wife,

1288
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 2: think that everything is going great.

1289
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 3: But is it?

1290
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 2: What do you contribute to your household? Is your day

1291
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 2: over when you hit the door?

1292
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 1: You know?

1293
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 3: Is happiness in your home to fined?

1294
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 2: As I get to watch the game and you are

1295
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 2: looking after our kids and cooking and cleaning and all

1296
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 2: the other shit after you get off.

1297
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: Work closing them. It's a lot homework.

1298
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, Like what is exactly you know? And

1299
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 2: this isn't to be like uh because all men are

1300
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 2: blank I'm saying. I'm saying, like, are you asking yourself?

1301
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 2: What you what's your contribution to the to the household?

1302
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 2: Cutting grass once a week is an awesome thing that

1303
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 2: needs to be done, But is that it?

1304
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: You know?

1305
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 2: Like I think that matters. You know, my father cooks

1306
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 2: around the house, cleans ridiculously, to my opinion, but he's

1307
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 2: a clean freak. He cuts the grass. He's always working

1308
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 2: the second and third different jobs and all kinds of

1309
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: chores like hobbies and side gigs and yard work. I'll

1310
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 2: never work as hard as my dad period. Like, He's

1311
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 2: one of the hardest people working people I've ever met

1312
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:44,919
Speaker 2: in my life. But you know, it didn't just turn

1313
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 2: into like and that's it, you know, And that evolved

1314
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 2: over the years too.

1315
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 6: You know.

1316
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 2: It's not my mom cooks like And like I said,

1317
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 2: I'm actually a shame looking back on this, but I'll share.

1318
01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 3: I share with y'all every once in a while.

1319
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 2: To make this point, Me and my brother grew up

1320
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 2: calling this one type of dish my mom made slavery chicken.

1321
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 2: It was like gravy rice and chicken. There was a

1322
01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 2: casse roll type dish and it was smothered in there.

1323
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 2: And my whole life, you know, she would make this

1324
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 2: dish and I'd be like, oh, you made this, he

1325
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 2: made this slavery chicken.

1326
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 3: Week.

1327
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, me and my brother the slavery chicken again, you know,

1328
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 2: like making jokes and shit. Now, The first thing is

1329
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 2: when I went my ass to college. You want to know,

1330
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 2: the first fucking meal I wanted to eat right exactly

1331
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 2: like I was in college, and I was in the calf,

1332
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:40,959
Speaker 2: like this is some bull shit.

1333
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 3: Whay is the slavery chicken? My mama slavery chicken offics?

1334
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 2: My mama slavery chicken came back for Thanksgiving, I know,

1335
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 2: fall break, and she had.

1336
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 3: Made slavery chicken. I ate the fuck out of slavery chicken.

1337
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 2: And my brother had already, you know, he was like

1338
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 2: on some you know, he'd been at home. He's still

1339
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 2: in high school, so he was onso like whatever, Nigga,

1340
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 2: I was over there eating slavery chicken. Like I didn't

1341
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:06,440
Speaker 2: even need a fork. I was like, give me this

1342
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 2: motherfucking slavery chicken. Nigga, don too, Yeah.

1343
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 3: You done, you done? You're not gonna eat that cause like.

1344
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 2: It was, it was delicious then, right, But that's the

1345
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 2: first part, Like it's just shameful for that. But then

1346
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:21,040
Speaker 2: the second part of it is this women who and

1347
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 2: people who have to cook often in your household, cook

1348
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 2: for utility.

1349
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 3: Yes, they don't cook.

1350
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 2: It's about feeding the maximum amount of people with the

1351
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: least amount of costs, with the you know, the most

1352
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 2: amount of flavor and the least amount of effort. Because

1353
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 2: I have other shit to do, and I've been working

1354
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 2: all day and that's the difference, Like, so, wow, you

1355
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 2: can be like a fucking culinary culinary artist artiste with

1356
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 2: the meals that you make when you're making one meal

1357
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 2: a month, or when you're making you know, when you

1358
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 2: have unlimited time where you're just like, this is gonna

1359
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 2: be a project this weekend to make gumbo or some shit.

1360
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 3: Yeah you can. You can do that, and you can

1361
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 3: fancy it up. You can buy all the.

1362
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 2: Fucking like exclusive and yeah, let me get this exotic

1363
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 2: pair from so and so. Well, I looked up at

1364
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 2: me because it's still like a kind of fun thing

1365
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 2: for you. But if someone said, hey, so you need

1366
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 2: to cook for four people five nights a week, yeah

1367
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:25,919
Speaker 2: you god damn right, the dishes might get a little boring.

1368
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 3: You know what else is boring me? Having to cook

1369
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,320
Speaker 3: for your punk ass every day? That's also boring.

1370
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 1: You know what, It's gonna be some mother fucking repeats too, right, Like, what.

1371
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 2: The fuck you think this is? This is not an audition?

1372
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 2: Did you did you marry a chef? Did you allow

1373
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:41,959
Speaker 2: me a chef amount of time to make a fucking meal?

1374
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 2: Or do you want to eat by seven thirty every day?

1375
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 2: So you can then sit on the couch, drink a

1376
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 2: beer and watch the game and tune the fuck out,

1377
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 2: like let's keep it real. So I think that that's

1378
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 2: a huge part of the And this is why I

1379
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 2: said it's very important not to teach first of all,

1380
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 2: kids but especially male identified boy presenting type kids, how

1381
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 2: to cook so they can learn the labor, because if

1382
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 2: you learn the labor, you appreciate the labor. Now, my

1383
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 2: father was a hey, tell your mom, thank you for

1384
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 2: cooking type of dude. Didn't matter what the fuck the

1385
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 2: meal was, slavery, chicken, pot rolls, whatever the fuck.

1386
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: It was, Like, y'all, man, appreciate this shit.

1387
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,520
Speaker 2: Tell your mom. Yeah, tell your mom thank you? And

1388
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 2: then did you tell your mom thank you? And then

1389
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 2: you go and fucking do the dishes and all that shit.

1390
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 2: And we didn't let them. We couldn't use a dishwasher

1391
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 2: doing my hand and shit. So there was an appreciation

1392
01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:37,680
Speaker 2: that was kind of bread into us or forced into

1393
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 2: us to a certain extent. But it's not the same

1394
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 2: appreciation as having to do the work. You know, me

1395
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:43,960
Speaker 2: and my brother know how to cook somewhat. You know,

1396
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 2: I know how to cook more now, but you know,

1397
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 2: I always learned how to I knew how to do

1398
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 2: breakfast and stuff. My dad would teach us that stuff

1399
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 2: my mom, you know, my mom, And that's the other

1400
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 2: thing my dad's cooking.

1401
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,439
Speaker 3: Since you're not doing this often, it's experiences.

1402
01:04:57,560 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 2: Come in here, let me show you how to make

1403
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 2: some omeless you know, Come here, let me just okay this,

1404
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: how you do a stak this, how you do this?

1405
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 1: Right?

1406
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 2: But with my mom, man, she ain't got time for

1407
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 2: no fucking lessons. She gotta make this meal, you know

1408
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like she's a bunch of shit she

1409
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 2: wants to do. When she gotta do this shit five

1410
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 2: days a week, it's not fucking come in the kitchen.

1411
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 3: Then let's have a fairy tale song. Right. So anyway,

1412
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 3: all that to say, like, yeah, it's very gender.

1413
01:05:22,920 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 2: It starts at a young age, and ultimately it does

1414
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 2: affect our adulthood.

1415
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 5: You know.

1416
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 2: So I'm sorry that that happened to you, but it's

1417
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 2: probably better that y'all aren't together, because come on, that's

1418
01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 2: a lot of pressure, and only somebody that truly didn't

1419
01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 2: appreciate you or appreciate how much work that was would

1420
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 2: say something like that to you. Because the end of

1421
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 2: the day is it's a partnership, and anything he feels

1422
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 2: that you're insufficient on as a partner, as a partnership,

1423
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 2: one of y'all can be able to get it.

1424
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 3: Does you see what I'm saying?

1425
01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 2: Like, so rather than me coming in the house and

1426
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 2: being like, I can't believe the clothes aren't folded, well.

1427
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 3: Guess who.

1428
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 2: Guess who got two arms? Guess guess who can go

1429
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 2: over there and fucking fold the clothes too. You know,

1430
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 2: like it's more than that, you know, So I think

1431
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 2: if you approach it as a partnership, it'll work out differently.

1432
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 2: And you know, I'm I'm not trying to hold myself

1433
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 2: up as some great perfect example. I just think, you know,

1434
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 2: these are just the way the way I view the

1435
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 2: world sometimes, and it's just like, why let that hold

1436
01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:25,439
Speaker 2: my household back? Right?

1437
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:28,919
Speaker 4: And it's also and not to get off topic, but

1438
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 4: but to talk about the food.

1439
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: It's one of those things where.

1440
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 4: When you're a kid and your mama say take the

1441
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 4: food out the freezer, and you don't you wonder why

1442
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 4: they get home and they fucking liberty, right because you

1443
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:43,200
Speaker 4: have fucked up the schedule now, right, And now I have.

1444
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: To make alternate plans.

1445
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 4: For whatever I had, or now I have to go

1446
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 4: back out and go to the grocery store. Now, Like,

1447
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 4: as a child, you really don't understand the importance of that,

1448
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 4: But as an adult you're like, oh, now I understand

1449
01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 4: when my mama got home and she would be fucking.

1450
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: Like, oh, why didn't you do what I told you

1451
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: to do?

1452
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 4: And it will be problems in the household because in

1453
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 4: your mind you didn't think twice about it.

1454
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 3: Right. So yeah, I'm just thankful when somebody take the

1455
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 3: time out to cook. Really, Trey says, you just want

1456
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 3: to be left alone.

1457
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 2: Everyone else gets to be fucking left alone. Karen said that,

1458
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 2: thank you for saying this, Karen. There are so many

1459
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 2: days a black person I want to yell from this

1460
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:30,240
Speaker 2: from the hooftops, at the job or of course everywhere

1461
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 2: we have to deal with people hating us because he

1462
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 2: simply fucking exists. Thank you, guys for the opinions you give.

1463
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,960
Speaker 2: Those opinions have helped me and many others get through

1464
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 2: the bullshit we endure every day in this life.

1465
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 3: Thanks so much, Trace Windu, thank you.

1466
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 2: Even he says that woman wrote the apology to her

1467
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 2: husband's ex wife is the queen of audacity. Come on,

1468
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 2: nowhere was there a real apology in that letter? And

1469
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 2: actually in the very beginning, she tries to deflect by saying,

1470
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 2: I know this affair was painful for you, but I

1471
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 2: know you understand because you had an affair too. Bitch,

1472
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 2: what how the fuck do you know if you never

1473
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 2: met her? She clearly states she doesn't believe what her

1474
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 2: husband's has been saying about her asks because she knows,

1475
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 2: she now knows what a dickie is, but she believed

1476
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 2: that part.

1477
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 3: Fucked that bitch. I wish all the unhappiness she has

1478
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 3: coming her way. That's a great point. Casey Cologne says Karen.

1479
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 2: I have a three year old daughter, and I was

1480
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,200
Speaker 2: shocked at they're being apps for allowance. It didn't even

1481
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 2: dawn on me until Rod mentioned it. It was just

1482
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 2: as I was just as confused as you.

1483
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm glad I'm not the only one.

1484
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 2: Of course they would, but I wouldn't have known anything

1485
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 2: about it till it's too late and it was time

1486
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 2: to pay up. Technology has come a long way, thanks guys.

1487
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 2: Sofa King says, I'm a couple of years older than y'all.

1488
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 2: And I've never really heard of this candy cane business either.

1489
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 2: In fact, it sounds like the sort of bullshit ray

1490
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 2: Lewis would have made up in ray Lewis voice.

1491
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 3: If the J stands for Jesus, that's a good point,

1492
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:50,480
Speaker 3: I agree.

1493
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 2: Are the chores in your household divided by gender? Yes,

1494
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,599
Speaker 2: as an adult and yes when I was a child?

1495
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 2: Say yep, no, was an adult, but yes when I

1496
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 2: was a child twenty seven percent. No as an adult

1497
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,559
Speaker 2: and not when I was a child either fifty one percent.

1498
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:12,160
Speaker 2: That's like I said, our audience has gotta be a

1499
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 2: really progressive audience because there's no way, I feel like

1500
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 2: most people would say that. And then this, this is

1501
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 2: the lowest percentage two percent, which I just put this

1502
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 2: option on that just to cover all the bases. But yes,

1503
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 2: as an adult, but not when I was a child.

1504
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:28,840
Speaker 2: So you grew up in a place where the chores

1505
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:32,719
Speaker 2: weren't gender. You did whatever, you know, like towards chores

1506
01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 2: around the house, and then you come an adult and

1507
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 2: they're like, no, you're a woman, you do dishes, you're

1508
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 2: a man, you take.

1509
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:39,599
Speaker 3: Out the trash.

1510
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:43,719
Speaker 2: That's that's interesting, all right. We had comments. Joe says,

1511
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:45,680
Speaker 2: the vision is an interesting term here. When I was

1512
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,880
Speaker 2: a kid, I had a turn washing dishes and vacuum

1513
01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 2: and my sister had turns taken out the garbage. However,

1514
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,680
Speaker 2: only my brother and I had turns more in the law,

1515
01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:55,720
Speaker 2: and I'm sure there must be things my sister did

1516
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 2: and neither of us. I know my brother did, but

1517
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 2: I cannot think of anything. Ultimately, though, I would put

1518
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 2: things things that divided that said, I pay somebody.

1519
01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:05,839
Speaker 3: To mow my lawn. Now, okay, big ball of Joe.

1520
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 2: Mia says, I only had sisters and living a single

1521
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 2: parent home my mom, so we.

1522
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 3: Had to do all the shit.

1523
01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 2: Gender didn't matter, I guess since we were all the

1524
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:15,800
Speaker 2: same gender. But when I moved in with my husband,

1525
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:17,960
Speaker 2: who did things by gender growing up, we bump heads

1526
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,640
Speaker 2: for a while. Nigga, you use these dishes just like

1527
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 2: I can't. I do do so you can watch them

1528
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 2: come out. Took some breaking up breaking, but now he

1529
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:29,559
Speaker 2: don't associate chores by gender, and we work together to

1530
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:30,520
Speaker 2: get the housework.

1531
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 3: Done by the way.

1532
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 2: I do want to add, I'm not judging people for

1533
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 2: the way they do the chores or whatever.

1534
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 3: Their marriages and relationships. All these marriages and relationships are different, correct.

1535
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 2: Not enough respect is given to that, and not enough

1536
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 2: it is said about that from the so called experts

1537
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 2: and relationship advice people and all the folks that are

1538
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 2: judging online. As long as no one's being abused, I

1539
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. That's and that's really the realist

1540
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 2: of talk. Because for every person that's like, I absolutely

1541
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 2: hate this shit and I do not want this for

1542
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 2: my life, there is somebody out there that really does

1543
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 2: want to quote unquote take care of a man.

1544
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 3: And there's some dude that really does.

1545
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 2: He means it when he says he wants a housewife

1546
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 2: and to raise the kids, and he will provide the money.

1547
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 2: And if that's a deal that you make with somebody, hey,

1548
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 2: more power to you. I just want people to be happy,

1549
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 2: raise happy, healthy kids, all that type of shit. But

1550
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:27,639
Speaker 2: you happy, healthy adults whatever. I'm not rooting against anyone,

1551
01:11:27,880 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 2: to be honest. So if that's your if that's the

1552
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 2: way you kick it, that's cool.

1553
01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 3: You know.

1554
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 2: I think it's just something, especially as wages have frozen,

1555
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 2: we just don't have a lot of opportunity for that anymore.

1556
01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:42,720
Speaker 2: There's not a lot of men or there's not a

1557
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:46,679
Speaker 2: lot of one income household providers period anymore.

1558
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:48,719
Speaker 3: Bean says, WHOA.

1559
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 2: I could write a dissertation on this, but since there's

1560
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 2: a four thousand characters a character limit, I'll try to

1561
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 2: get to the point not only what your was divided

1562
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:58,800
Speaker 2: by gender, but essentially my girl slash womanhood or to

1563
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 2: a large extent, my little mandy wire put on the

1564
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 2: line due to my ability to do a chore and

1565
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 2: do them well. I have an older brother and a

1566
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 2: younger sister. And while my parents preached the nonsense of

1567
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:09,640
Speaker 2: we all live in the same house, we all use

1568
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 2: the same things, we all need to be responsible for

1569
01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 2: taking care of the house, that was blatantly untrue. My

1570
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:16,479
Speaker 2: father literally couldn't be bothered to pick up the remote

1571
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 2: a foot next to him and call my siblings, mostly

1572
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 2: my sister and I or my mother to fetch.

1573
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 3: It for him.

1574
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 2: Up until the last few years I'm thirty two, I'd

1575
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 2: never seen my father do domestic work. My mother will

1576
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: often go out of her way to insult me if

1577
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 2: things weren't to her liking and say that no one

1578
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 2: would want to even sit next to me because I

1579
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:37,720
Speaker 2: couldn't do x y or exit the way that she liked,

1580
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:40,400
Speaker 2: and even some of the more manly chores were still

1581
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:42,719
Speaker 2: relegated to the mother and to my mother and kids

1582
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:46,640
Speaker 2: through though my brother was increasingly excused because he was

1583
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 2: working and in school, despite my sister and I also

1584
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,680
Speaker 2: going to school and working. And I'm sure in my

1585
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 2: mother's mind that one day sister and I will be

1586
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:58,639
Speaker 2: wives and mothers. The jokes on her because we both

1587
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:01,280
Speaker 2: don't want kids and could go either way about marriage,

1588
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 2: And there's the idea you'll always be working, so you

1589
01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 2: might as well start now. There's also immigrants from the Caribbean.

1590
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 2: They are also immigrants from the Caribbeans even further and still,

1591
01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:14,559
Speaker 2: and they are almost no room for discussion because as

1592
01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:18,080
Speaker 2: far as they're concerned, you're just complaining for trying to

1593
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 2: ask or discuss her fairness.

1594
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 3: I have zero tolerance for it.

1595
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 2: I'll clean up after myself though my room is a mess,

1596
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,560
Speaker 2: but that's not hurting anyone because no one else is

1597
01:13:26,600 --> 01:13:27,840
Speaker 2: in that space, and help out.

1598
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 3: Around the house.

1599
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:30,680
Speaker 2: Though if my boyfriend and I do get married, he

1600
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 2: already knows what the deal is about these gender to yours,

1601
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 2: I feel you on all of that.

1602
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 3: CT says.

1603
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 2: I'm the oldest of three children with a little brother

1604
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 2: and sister. My brother is lazy. My mother enabled his

1605
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 2: laziness while it was expected for me and my sister

1606
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 2: to clean out our room, do laundry, and watch dishes.

1607
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 2: It was a victory if my brother succeeded by.

1608
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:51,919
Speaker 3: Watching his behind correctly.

1609
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 2: He got allowances, while my sister and I may have

1610
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 2: got a pat on the back. And my sister and

1611
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:59,560
Speaker 2: I were expecting to be were expected to be responsible

1612
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 2: for others, while my brother could be as raggedy as

1613
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,640
Speaker 2: he pleased. Hindsight is always twenty twenty and now I

1614
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,640
Speaker 2: can tell you that the girls in the house have

1615
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 2: much more discipline than my brother. And my mom is

1616
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 2: probably kicking herself now for not teaching my brother how

1617
01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 2: to appreciate the work that it takes to make a

1618
01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 2: home and keep him comfortable. And with all that being said,

1619
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 2: choices are divided in my house. But I enable my

1620
01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 2: husband to be lazy. I did all the cooking and

1621
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 2: cleaning in my house and then got mad because my

1622
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 2: husband acted like he was allergic to picking up a pan.

1623
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 2: But since I've been out of country for work, he

1624
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:31,839
Speaker 2: had to figure out how to do the basics himself.

1625
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,559
Speaker 2: So when I go back, trust and believe there's going

1626
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 2: to be a new standard. I do hate going outside

1627
01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 2: of cutting grass and cleaning girls as such, so I

1628
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 2: usually that work for him, but I've done it before.

1629
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 2: I just feel like if I do the majority of

1630
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 2: work inside the house, the least he can do is

1631
01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,719
Speaker 2: a yard work. Yes, Like I said, if that works

1632
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:51,480
Speaker 2: for y'all, that works, right. Like gender choices, not necessarily,

1633
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:54,960
Speaker 2: it doesn't have to be a ridiculous thing. There are

1634
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:58,560
Speaker 2: things where someone's physically stronger it would make sense. And

1635
01:14:58,760 --> 01:15:00,679
Speaker 2: if they have the knowledge, you know, how to fix

1636
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 2: a fucking car, why would it make sense for y'all

1637
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 2: to split that evenly? Let me spend an hour fucking

1638
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 2: the car up and then you spend an hour fixing it. Right,

1639
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 2: that's stupid, you know what I mean? Even if it

1640
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 2: is like we're adults and one of us knows how

1641
01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 2: to cook and the other one doesn't, and you know,

1642
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 2: and I've decided, okay, well cool, I'll be doing all

1643
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 2: this cooking inside, and shit, I don't mind doing that.

1644
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 2: That's my domain. You stay out of my kitchen. There

1645
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 2: are some people like that, but like I said, it's

1646
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:32,280
Speaker 2: just a matter of happiness. What is making people happy

1647
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 2: versus what is is expected. A lot of people fall

1648
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:36,680
Speaker 2: into these roles because that's what we've been told we

1649
01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 2: have to do.

1650
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:39,240
Speaker 3: But is that what's making you happy?

1651
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 1: Right?

1652
01:15:40,160 --> 01:15:42,599
Speaker 2: You know, if it's not making you happy, then think

1653
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 2: about it. Talk about it. Men, How many of us

1654
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:47,559
Speaker 2: have women do this work for us without asking and

1655
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 2: we don't even know if they're happy.

1656
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 3: We don't even know if it's something they want to do.

1657
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:52,760
Speaker 3: You know, what if you just.

1658
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 2: Said, hey, would you mind if I cook once a week?

1659
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 2: If you had a kind of woman that's like, no,

1660
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:01,280
Speaker 2: stay out of my kitchen or partner, really, it doesn't really.

1661
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 3: Have to whatever the relationship.

1662
01:16:03,080 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 2: If that person's like, no, stay out of my kitchen, okay,

1663
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 2: well that's that's the response, you know. But there's a

1664
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 2: lot of people that were like, oh, I thought you'd

1665
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 2: never fucking asked you exhausted?

1666
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: Thank god?

1667
01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh y'all you took out the trash okay, yeah, Or.

1668
01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 4: Be like but like, you know, at least, you know,

1669
01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:22,679
Speaker 4: once a week, me and the kids to do something

1670
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:24,879
Speaker 4: so you can spend a few hours here by yourself.

1671
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 1: You mind if I do that right.

1672
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 2: Now, We've got one daughter, so I don't have to

1673
01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 2: worry about what I pay my son versus my daughter argument.

1674
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 2: But I will make sure she does every chore, both

1675
01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 2: inside and outside the house, so she has to tools

1676
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:38,839
Speaker 2: take care of herself.

1677
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,520
Speaker 3: That is long enough. Thank you for reading and talking

1678
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 3: about this. It's really interesting. Thank you.

1679
01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1680
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 2: I saw Reagan go miss in this episode on Twitter

1681
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 2: and was saying how she didn't know this and thanks

1682
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 2: to us for bringing it up.

1683
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:53,759
Speaker 3: So thank you for listening. Reagan.

1684
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 2: Mm hm.

1685
01:16:55,360 --> 01:16:57,439
Speaker 3: The last episode was eighteen o eight What are you

1686
01:16:57,520 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 3: jerking it too?

1687
01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: What are you jerking to? In twenty eighteen? Hopefully Reagan's

1688
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 2: get this one. It was very pointy.

1689
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 3: Freezer says a fields Hyke.

1690
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:10,560
Speaker 2: I only really leave comments when i'm well, actually in

1691
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:11,839
Speaker 2: some pop culture trivia.

1692
01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 3: But get in where you fit in. I suppose. Well,

1693
01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 3: let's stop right here, Freezer. You do not have to

1694
01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:18,920
Speaker 3: do that now.

1695
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,560
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you don't have to write in to

1696
01:17:20,600 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 2: correct us, which I mean you don't take me, but

1697
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 2: you can write about other stuff.

1698
01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 3: We gonna let us know we're doing a good job.

1699
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:30,320
Speaker 2: You could tell us some conversations you enjoyed or something

1700
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 2: that made you laugh.

1701
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:33,719
Speaker 3: We don't mind. Und don't be a stranger, Freezer.

1702
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 2: And Plus, this way, I won't associate you with always

1703
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:39,920
Speaker 2: correcting us, and then I won't get a negative. You

1704
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,559
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying Like, it's just a human thing.

1705
01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 2: I know I'm saying this to you, but I'm really

1706
01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 2: saying this to everybody. It's a human thing. If you

1707
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,599
Speaker 2: mostly talk to somebody when it's to like correct them

1708
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:52,320
Speaker 2: or say what they did wrong, or to say something

1709
01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:54,800
Speaker 2: you didn't like, or to say how they could be better.

1710
01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 2: There's nothing necessarily wrong with those things, especially if you

1711
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 2: say them politely. But it does become like an eye

1712
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:02,719
Speaker 2: rolling situation when you're.

1713
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: Like this, nigga.

1714
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 2: We all do it so just as a hint to

1715
01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 2: everybody right in about something nice too.

1716
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 3: But I'm not saying this is gonna be me. You

1717
01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:12,760
Speaker 3: get my point.

1718
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 2: Discussing where Bozac came from and why there is enough

1719
01:18:16,960 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 2: point of her to justify porn. Her category is a

1720
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,559
Speaker 2: story of a meme culture at his best slash words.

1721
01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 2: Back when New Super Mario Brothers You was announced for

1722
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:27,760
Speaker 2: the Switch, they announced that the Toe That would be

1723
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,240
Speaker 2: a playable character and she would also have a power

1724
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 2: up itdem unique with her the Super Crown, which would

1725
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 2: turn her into a half Princess Peach character called peach At,

1726
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 2: who is basically Peach with Toda's pigtails. That started the

1727
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:45,760
Speaker 2: discussion among fans as to what other characters would look

1728
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:47,200
Speaker 2: like if they got the Supercrown.

1729
01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:49,040
Speaker 3: Cut to a few weeks.

1730
01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:54,599
Speaker 2: Later, and then artist called Ayyk ninety two tweeted out

1731
01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 2: a fan con oh wait a fan comic based on

1732
01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 2: the end and of Super Mario to see can you

1733
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 2: really spoil the end and of a Mario game where

1734
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 2: Peach rejects Where Peach reject Marios and Browser's marriage proposals

1735
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:10,680
Speaker 2: while consoling each other, Bowser reveals that he has the

1736
01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:13,360
Speaker 2: super Crown. Cut to a panel Mario walking arm in

1737
01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 2: arm with the newly transformed Bowser, then unnamed.

1738
01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:17,600
Speaker 3: To the shock of.

1739
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:22,960
Speaker 2: Peach and Luizi, the comic went viral and massive, forty

1740
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:26,000
Speaker 2: thousand likes and ten thousand shares in the day. The Suddenly,

1741
01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 2: every artist, including a few program and manga artists, decided

1742
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,519
Speaker 2: to try their hand at the newly dubbed bows At.

1743
01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:32,920
Speaker 3: From there, the memes in the.

1744
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:36,439
Speaker 2: Porn flowed, and at that point at this point, every

1745
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 2: Mario character I've been portrayed as getting the super Crown treatment,

1746
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,800
Speaker 2: though the only one who's taken off anywhere near the

1747
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 2: level of bow Set is Boo Set King Boo.

1748
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:48,639
Speaker 3: Personally, my favorite of the brunch is.

1749
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:52,639
Speaker 2: Non porn Blooper, the little floating squid tries on the crown.

1750
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:53,599
Speaker 3: It turns them into a.

1751
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 2: Squid ling from Platoon that got away from me on

1752
01:19:57,160 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 2: the word count.

1753
01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:00,799
Speaker 3: But hopefully it's still interesting enough. It was very interesting, Freezer,

1754
01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:02,479
Speaker 3: and it was very nice.

1755
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:03,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, very educational.

1756
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:06,719
Speaker 3: Doug me says about the categories in gay porn.

1757
01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 2: Twinks can be feminine but don't have to, but are

1758
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 2: always skinny and in that barely legal eighteen to twenty

1759
01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 2: something age.

1760
01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:13,120
Speaker 4: Real.

1761
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:17,440
Speaker 2: Oh as for straight there's a lot of porn scenarios

1762
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:19,800
Speaker 2: involved in sleeping with straight dudes. It's weird but kind

1763
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:22,320
Speaker 2: of funny as to how the porn industry pays men.

1764
01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 2: Most of the gay porn models are straight. Anyway, your

1765
01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 2: podcast Where's dougby?

1766
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 3: Yo?

1767
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 2: You know what I would be interested in, what is

1768
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 2: the pay gap between straight dudes doing saying you know

1769
01:20:32,200 --> 01:20:35,080
Speaker 2: I'm straight, but I'm doing gay porn and like gay

1770
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 2: dudes are just like I'm doing gay porn. I bet

1771
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 2: you they paid on straight dudes more too. Like inter

1772
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 2: racial porn quote unquote, it's only white and black. It's

1773
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:48,320
Speaker 2: never like interracial uh latina and a black man's.

1774
01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 3: Sorry's it's never.

1775
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:52,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's never like Asian person has sex with a

1776
01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:57,240
Speaker 2: with a black woman. Interracial porn. Nope, nope, no reason,

1777
01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 2: only inci eve, he says, I love me some Tiffany Hattish.

1778
01:21:04,880 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 2: I've been a fan of her since I saw her

1779
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 2: on the comedy Special some years ago. Amy Schumer and

1780
01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 2: Lanelle were also on this program, and when Amy Schumer

1781
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 2: blew up.

1782
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:13,839
Speaker 3: I wonder what happened to Tiffany.

1783
01:21:14,760 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 2: I've been so happy for his success, and I think

1784
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 2: most people were happy to But with.

1785
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 3: Success comes haters.

1786
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 2: People who hate Tiffany hate her because they're more concerned

1787
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:27,519
Speaker 2: about the white gays and how white people view us.

1788
01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 3: Because of her personality, I've heard people call.

1789
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 2: Her ghetto and have said that she's sending us back,

1790
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 2: when the truth is people see Tiffany Hattish and label

1791
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 2: all black people as ghetto as though, oh though those

1792
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:43,120
Speaker 2: are races in the first place, so there was really

1793
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 2: no change in their mind. This is the same thing

1794
01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:47,679
Speaker 2: that happened with well, Leslie Jones got some shine.

1795
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 4: I agree you because most of us have founded ombers

1796
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,720
Speaker 4: that fit some of the some of the characteristics of

1797
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,960
Speaker 4: these women. And you're technically going a little telling me

1798
01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:59,920
Speaker 4: you're ashamed of your own family member, your own people.

1799
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I still remember our episode about Leslie Jones, and

1800
01:22:04,240 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 2: I stand by everything I ever said about that, you know,

1801
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 2: and I know that makes me.

1802
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:10,120
Speaker 3: Makes it uncomfortable for some.

1803
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 2: Some of the like kind of wokyish you know, you know,

1804
01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 2: the kind of shade butter feminist types or whatever.

1805
01:22:19,800 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 3: But I don't care.

1806
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 2: I don't need to agree with you on everything. And

1807
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 2: that's when I will always no matter how you try

1808
01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:27,200
Speaker 2: to frame it. I'm always feel like it's a deep

1809
01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:29,760
Speaker 2: shame of the fact that she's a certain type of

1810
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 2: black woman and does a certain type of comedy. And

1811
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 2: then you couch it in a bunch of like big

1812
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 2: ass words and try to act like that's not what

1813
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:37,560
Speaker 2: it is.

1814
01:22:37,680 --> 01:22:38,960
Speaker 3: But I'll see you for who you are, Buo.

1815
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 2: You can't fool me with that bullshit. If she looked

1816
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 2: a certain type of way, you will be fine with

1817
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 2: that shit. And also that's her really a comedic voice,

1818
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 2: and people took her jokes and really made them into

1819
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 2: the most like vile, just the most harshest way of

1820
01:22:58,840 --> 01:23:02,640
Speaker 2: taking those jokes harshest way. They refused to relent on

1821
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:04,519
Speaker 2: the fact that she was talking to lived experience or

1822
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 2: she was making a deeper point, and we broke down

1823
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 2: joke for joke line for line, like why the fuck

1824
01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,360
Speaker 2: those jokes were not problematic and what they were really

1825
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 2: hinting at? And it didn't matter because people saw a big, loud,

1826
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:18,640
Speaker 2: black older woman and went the fuck off because they

1827
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:21,200
Speaker 2: felt embarrassed that white people would be laughing at anything

1828
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:23,800
Speaker 2: she said. And I stick by all that shit now.

1829
01:23:23,840 --> 01:23:26,519
Speaker 2: I'll never forget that day. And that's still people I

1830
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:28,599
Speaker 2: really don't fuck with after that because I saw their

1831
01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 2: analysis of it and was like, I know what this

1832
01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 2: is really about, and I'm not interested in sitting at

1833
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:37,439
Speaker 2: your table. People were route for someone until they surpassed you.

1834
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 2: I hope Tiffany get That's the other problem. Lesie got

1835
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:42,120
Speaker 2: too big because she made them same fucking jokes in

1836
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 2: front of black people and nobody had a problem with it.

1837
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 2: Had a fucking thirty forty forty year career of making

1838
01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:52,720
Speaker 2: motherfuckers laugh and being definitely funny. It wasn't n til

1839
01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 2: she got the s and L that motherfuckers decided like

1840
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:57,840
Speaker 2: these jokes ain't funny no more. Fuck out of my face.

1841
01:23:58,400 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 2: Worried about white people so fucking much. If they hate you,

1842
01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:03,479
Speaker 2: they hate you. Don't matter what you say to Jos.

1843
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:05,599
Speaker 2: It be massive square guard and it could be up

1844
01:24:05,640 --> 01:24:06,679
Speaker 2: the street, the comedy zone.

1845
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 3: It don't matter where you say them.

1846
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 2: If they hate you, they hate you. It doesn't matter

1847
01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 2: what if she's in the fucking in the Ghostbusters.

1848
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 3: Movie or not. Put another black woman in that, put

1849
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 3: one of the Sikes in there. They still gonna hate you.

1850
01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:22,120
Speaker 2: Stop worrying about them so fucking much. People will root

1851
01:24:22,200 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 2: for someone until they surpassed you. I hope Tivany gets

1852
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 2: out the money in twenty nineteen, and I'll be looking

1853
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 2: out for her season.

1854
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,000
Speaker 3: It's all because I will buy it, you know what,

1855
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:30,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put it on my list.

1856
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:33,560
Speaker 2: Uh, the poets, do you think twenty nineteen will have

1857
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 2: even more shootings school shootings than twenty eighteen?

1858
01:24:36,560 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 3: Care yes, sixty seven percent, The audience says yes.

1859
01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 2: Four percent says the number will go down and twenty

1860
01:24:43,040 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 2: nine percent say it'll be about the same. Phil says,

1861
01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 2: I'm still waiting on the live shooting to happen. I'm

1862
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:50,360
Speaker 2: very surprised it hasn't yet in the world we live in.

1863
01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:53,639
Speaker 2: As the December thirteenth of Indiana school shooting will stop

1864
01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:56,320
Speaker 2: because of tip given to police, they engaged in a

1865
01:24:56,400 --> 01:24:58,920
Speaker 2: firefight with the kid until he shot himself. With the

1866
01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:02,479
Speaker 2: NRA and the Second amendmentors fighting tooth and nail to

1867
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:04,759
Speaker 2: put a halt to gun for and talks to shootings

1868
01:25:05,000 --> 01:25:07,519
Speaker 2: will continue, and more thoughts and prayers will be the

1869
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:10,479
Speaker 2: solution because it's too soon to push an agenda and

1870
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:11,360
Speaker 2: so on and so on.

1871
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:15,760
Speaker 3: That's a good point. Yeah, And I remember that dude

1872
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:17,800
Speaker 3: that shot some dude on Facebook live.

1873
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 2: He was killing people because I think his girlfriend left

1874
01:25:21,439 --> 01:25:23,679
Speaker 2: him or something and he was just out killing people

1875
01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 2: and riding around. Took him a few days to find him. Like,

1876
01:25:27,880 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 2: it's crazy, man. Juan says, American exceptionalism can't stop.

1877
01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 3: Won't stop. I'm sorry, Go ahead, you know I said right.

1878
01:25:35,760 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 3: Cet says this administration has no.

1879
01:25:37,479 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 2: Intention of making more of restrictive gun laws. We aren't

1880
01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:42,160
Speaker 2: going to see any decreasing school shoots unless the states

1881
01:25:42,200 --> 01:25:44,400
Speaker 2: go ahead and make their own laws to protect their children.

1882
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,719
Speaker 2: With the recent election resulting at more liberals in office,

1883
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 2: we may see some change at the state level of governance,

1884
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:53,400
Speaker 2: but I doubt that it's enough to change gun laws.

1885
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:58,760
Speaker 3: I agree, sadly. I agree. Let's see. I think we

1886
01:25:58,840 --> 01:26:01,880
Speaker 3: got two voicemails. Let me see I could play these.

1887
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:02,839
Speaker 3: This is from yesterday.

1888
01:26:05,320 --> 01:26:07,240
Speaker 2: You know, I like to take a sweet ass time

1889
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 2: the voiceman number seven O four five five seven.

1890
01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:16,000
Speaker 7: When I see, Thank Rah, this is Kadisha.

1891
01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 1: I am.

1892
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:22,880
Speaker 8: Just getting home from work and just sitting.

1893
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:27,679
Speaker 7: In my car, perplexed by the ship that I keep hearing.

1894
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:40,840
Speaker 8: Just to be clear, being a black woman who is

1895
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:48,759
Speaker 8: not straight, it's such a fucking drag.

1896
01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:52,160
Speaker 7: It's it's sucking drags.

1897
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:55,200
Speaker 8: It's already hard to be a woman. It's already hard

1898
01:26:55,280 --> 01:26:57,839
Speaker 8: to be a black woman, and now you have to deal.

1899
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:01,880
Speaker 3: And then on top of it.

1900
01:27:03,600 --> 01:27:11,280
Speaker 7: To deal with the constant hearing of the block before

1901
01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:15,599
Speaker 7: you're good, You're being black trumps the game.

1902
01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:18,519
Speaker 8: Being what.

1903
01:27:21,360 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 7: We're born this way, we are born, the way we're

1904
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 7: fucking born.

1905
01:27:24,960 --> 01:27:27,599
Speaker 8: And to hear that ship from the people who look

1906
01:27:27,760 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 8: like us as a fucking drag on my day. Sorry side,

1907
01:27:38,960 --> 01:27:39,439
Speaker 8: that's a.

1908
01:27:40,960 --> 01:27:44,240
Speaker 7: Uh and let me get back to these jokes science.

1909
01:27:45,479 --> 01:27:51,200
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, sorry, Now Cadisa did call back, so let

1910
01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:52,479
Speaker 2: me play her next one.

1911
01:27:52,479 --> 01:27:55,720
Speaker 3: First and then we'll get it to feedback on it

1912
01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:00,280
Speaker 3: once again. Let's just let it take a sweet.

1913
01:28:02,520 --> 01:28:03,639
Speaker 8: Okay, it's gonna be sure yet.

1914
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 7: I had.

1915
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:11,560
Speaker 8: A little little little miner se down high again. I

1916
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 8: just want to go back and do you what I

1917
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 8: was talking about earlier.

1918
01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:21,920
Speaker 7: Referring to the Kevin Hart story, and there are the

1919
01:28:22,040 --> 01:28:24,640
Speaker 7: things that he joked about and stuff like that, Like

1920
01:28:28,280 --> 01:28:31,439
Speaker 7: I didn't ben feel simple to apologize because I didn't

1921
01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:32,080
Speaker 7: hear the joke.

1922
01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:35,320
Speaker 8: But now that I've heard the joke.

1923
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,880
Speaker 7: It's like, it's not funny. I understand people might have

1924
01:28:39,040 --> 01:28:43,599
Speaker 7: laughed then, but it's not funny. It wouldn't have been funny.

1925
01:28:43,640 --> 01:28:45,519
Speaker 7: Then I would have had a pause and probably still

1926
01:28:45,600 --> 01:28:48,680
Speaker 7: continued watching the comedy show and laugh at other things afterwards.

1927
01:28:48,720 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 8: But when you watch homedy shows, you.

1928
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 7: Do have that positive moment that you don't like what

1929
01:28:53,400 --> 01:28:56,920
Speaker 7: they say, but it doesn't mean that you're gonna, I

1930
01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,640
Speaker 7: guess write them off, but you know, would have made

1931
01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:03,160
Speaker 7: it so much easier than fucking comus.

1932
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 4: The sir.

1933
01:29:09,240 --> 01:29:12,439
Speaker 7: It's already hard and tressful enough.

1934
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 8: Than to hear from your own.

1935
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 1: Parents, you know.

1936
01:29:16,600 --> 01:29:26,080
Speaker 7: And it happens so often, so often, so often.

1937
01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:31,880
Speaker 8: Uh yeah, because that's when I was friend here earlier.

1938
01:29:32,680 --> 01:29:38,040
Speaker 2: Okay, bye bye, bye baby, Thank you for the Cadisha

1939
01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:38,800
Speaker 2: I believe was your name.

1940
01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:40,280
Speaker 3: Thank you so much for calling in.

1941
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 2: And yeah, that's the I'm sure that shit stresses everybody out,

1942
01:29:45,280 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 2: and especially stresses you out because you're black, you're a woman, you're,

1943
01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:51,840
Speaker 2: like you said, not straight, and then you have to

1944
01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 2: deal with motherfuckers defending people like him.

1945
01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:55,759
Speaker 1: Correct.

1946
01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:56,240
Speaker 8: You know.

1947
01:29:57,400 --> 01:29:59,439
Speaker 2: One of the things that I think doesn't get said

1948
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:03,160
Speaker 2: enough and a lot of this stuff is that when

1949
01:30:03,160 --> 01:30:05,160
Speaker 2: you're in a marginalized group, you actually are kind of

1950
01:30:05,320 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 2: used to being offended. You used to people fucking up,

1951
01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:12,400
Speaker 2: Like it's not something you necessarily want to get used to,

1952
01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 2: but you become used to it. You would come numb

1953
01:30:15,840 --> 01:30:18,280
Speaker 2: to it sometimes, not saying not all the time.

1954
01:30:18,120 --> 01:30:18,719
Speaker 3: But sometimes.

1955
01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:22,240
Speaker 2: But you know what else, you become used to people

1956
01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:24,320
Speaker 2: fucking up and being like, Okay, you know what you

1957
01:30:24,479 --> 01:30:25,599
Speaker 2: pologize is no big deal.

1958
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 3: Let's move on.

1959
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:29,960
Speaker 2: I prefer not talk about it as well. Now you

1960
01:30:30,320 --> 01:30:32,479
Speaker 2: got you're fucked up, you say it, why you fucked up?

1961
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:35,719
Speaker 2: I'm good, right, That's one of the things you've become

1962
01:30:35,800 --> 01:30:37,080
Speaker 2: used to, and it's that's one of the reason I

1963
01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:38,760
Speaker 2: don't think it's such a big deal now. I mean,

1964
01:30:38,800 --> 01:30:40,400
Speaker 2: it's just because the way I look at my life,

1965
01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:42,680
Speaker 2: and it's not as big a deal to me in

1966
01:30:42,800 --> 01:30:45,519
Speaker 2: my personal life as like if someone apologized for something

1967
01:30:45,560 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 2: they did, I'm mostly like, all right, cool, you know

1968
01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, what the fuck, I'm gonna just

1969
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:52,520
Speaker 2: sit around, fuck you nigger. I don't get fuck you apologize.

1970
01:30:52,520 --> 01:30:54,519
Speaker 2: I'm not one of those people for the most part.

1971
01:30:54,600 --> 01:30:56,679
Speaker 2: If you apologize, you've seem genuinely sorry.

1972
01:30:57,760 --> 01:30:59,040
Speaker 3: Whatever. I can't.

1973
01:30:59,080 --> 01:31:00,519
Speaker 2: I don't want to hold a grund every time I

1974
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:02,600
Speaker 2: see you. I'm not that person. And I think a

1975
01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:04,840
Speaker 2: lot of us work like that. I think the Internet

1976
01:31:04,960 --> 01:31:06,960
Speaker 2: is not really based on people like that. But in general,

1977
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 2: a lot of us are like, Okay, you fucked up. Cool, like,

1978
01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 2: you know, because most fuck ups aren't even like major shit.

1979
01:31:15,080 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 2: It's you know, we always think of a major like betrayals,

1980
01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 2: and just some fuck ups are just like, oh, you

1981
01:31:20,360 --> 01:31:23,120
Speaker 2: called me the wrong thing or you uh, you said

1982
01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:25,080
Speaker 2: you were gonna come to disavent, you didn't come, or

1983
01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:28,400
Speaker 2: you know something, and you just go all right, you

1984
01:31:28,479 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 2: fucked up.

1985
01:31:29,960 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 3: You sorry. Cool.

1986
01:31:31,800 --> 01:31:33,240
Speaker 2: Well that's kind of how a lot of this shit

1987
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:36,080
Speaker 2: with homophobia, racism and shit is to me too, where it's.

1988
01:31:36,040 --> 01:31:39,240
Speaker 3: Like the initial infraction. Ain't they even that bad?

1989
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:41,519
Speaker 2: You think it's the first time I heard somebody say

1990
01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:43,559
Speaker 2: something fucked up about a black person, or something fucked

1991
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:45,439
Speaker 2: up about a gay person, or something fucked up.

1992
01:31:45,400 --> 01:31:49,240
Speaker 3: About whatever group of people. No, it's not you.

1993
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:51,720
Speaker 2: You're actually quite common. This is what happens all the time.

1994
01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:54,400
Speaker 2: What I would like to hear, which is much more rare,

1995
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:55,360
Speaker 2: is I fucked up.

1996
01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:58,280
Speaker 3: I won't do that again, and I'm sorry. That's it.

1997
01:31:58,439 --> 01:32:01,680
Speaker 2: I don't even a fucking long as this shit that

1998
01:32:01,720 --> 01:32:03,560
Speaker 2: people claim they need to see on the internet that

1999
01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 2: they never I've never seen work, you know, I've never

2000
01:32:06,320 --> 01:32:08,360
Speaker 2: seen these people that claim they need a good apology

2001
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 2: forgive somebody for like that's a damn good apology. They

2002
01:32:11,360 --> 01:32:15,200
Speaker 2: always are like, no, fuck that apology, for it's always wrong. Well,

2003
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:17,920
Speaker 2: most people aren't like those people on the internet. So

2004
01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:19,920
Speaker 2: what about all these other people that are willing to

2005
01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:21,719
Speaker 2: forgive you, and it's not the end of the world.

2006
01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:24,559
Speaker 2: I think Kevin Hart really freaked the fuck out because

2007
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:27,680
Speaker 2: he wants to be liked and he's sensitive, and he

2008
01:32:27,880 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 2: thought everybody hates me and the people on the internet

2009
01:32:31,880 --> 01:32:35,320
Speaker 2: are so mean, and that's what he thought. And I'm saying,

2010
01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:38,400
Speaker 2: you're a guy making a joke about killing a child

2011
01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:41,320
Speaker 2: for being gay. You don't get to tell everybody else

2012
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:43,919
Speaker 2: they're the ones who are mean. I'm not even saying.

2013
01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:45,760
Speaker 3: You're wrong that they're not. Everyone is good.

2014
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,880
Speaker 2: Not everybody on the internet involved in this even cares.

2015
01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:51,680
Speaker 2: Some of them are just in it because fuck you, right,

2016
01:32:51,840 --> 01:32:53,960
Speaker 2: and it's something to do. But there's a lot of

2017
01:32:53,960 --> 01:32:55,760
Speaker 2: people that are sitting on the sidelines that are really

2018
01:32:55,840 --> 01:32:58,240
Speaker 2: like I wish you had have said that. You know,

2019
01:32:58,560 --> 01:33:01,920
Speaker 2: ultimately that's the apology at the end, but.

2020
01:33:02,000 --> 01:33:04,160
Speaker 3: He could have just been upfront about it, all right.

2021
01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:09,160
Speaker 2: Emails The blackoutips at gmail dot com is our email address.

2022
01:33:09,280 --> 01:33:10,680
Speaker 3: Let me see what we got new.

2023
01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:14,639
Speaker 2: We got one from Sweden, a new review five stars.

2024
01:33:15,479 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 2: If this doesn't deserve five stars, nothing does. This is

2025
01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:20,960
Speaker 2: by put her in the buck from Sweden. Oh my god?

2026
01:33:21,560 --> 01:33:24,479
Speaker 2: Uh five stars. Karen and Rod are pair of real ones.

2027
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:27,920
Speaker 2: They will not love me with a falsehood or paying

2028
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:29,880
Speaker 2: it to my feelings. They will give it to me

2029
01:33:30,040 --> 01:33:33,599
Speaker 2: raw than a brother owned blackthraw. You know one has

2030
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:35,680
Speaker 2: put him in the buck. You want to learn some

2031
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,719
Speaker 2: truth between the laughing and tears.

2032
01:33:38,800 --> 01:33:43,519
Speaker 3: This is a podcast for you. Thank you. All right,

2033
01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:47,160
Speaker 3: Let's go to the next email. Who does a lot

2034
01:33:47,200 --> 01:33:47,519
Speaker 3: of these?

2035
01:33:47,840 --> 01:33:48,200
Speaker 5: All right?

2036
01:33:48,640 --> 01:33:51,839
Speaker 3: What is this one to say? I think I got another?

2037
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:57,040
Speaker 3: Oh okay, maybe my email is acting stupid. It didn't

2038
01:33:57,080 --> 01:33:57,880
Speaker 3: delete that email?

2039
01:33:58,720 --> 01:34:02,880
Speaker 2: All right, Teresa writes, and love you guys, and hollered

2040
01:34:02,920 --> 01:34:07,960
Speaker 2: when Rod talked about titties not getting respect, so true,

2041
01:34:08,040 --> 01:34:09,040
Speaker 2: teach a class.

2042
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:09,599
Speaker 3: Rod to the men.

2043
01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:12,400
Speaker 2: I for one, will not be bothered by men who

2044
01:34:12,439 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 2: don't enjoy my babies. They deserve just as much attention.

2045
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:17,719
Speaker 3: Lol. I love to show key up the good work, Teresa.

2046
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:18,160
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2047
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to educate people. Look, anyone that's the

2048
01:34:22,080 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 2: titty enthusiasts. Okay, So even if you don't have to

2049
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 2: be a man, you know, if you're just into these titties,

2050
01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:32,680
Speaker 2: respect them, praise them, worshiping them. If Vonn says Rod

2051
01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:35,320
Speaker 2: and Karen, firstly, I'm proud advocate for White People News.

2052
01:34:35,400 --> 01:34:37,960
Speaker 2: I enjoy driving my car with my jaw drop listening

2053
01:34:37,960 --> 01:34:40,320
Speaker 2: to such atrocities, no matter what other people say about it.

2054
01:34:40,520 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2055
01:34:43,640 --> 01:34:45,680
Speaker 2: Secondly, tonight, I took a friend to get him out

2056
01:34:45,680 --> 01:34:47,360
Speaker 2: of the house. I'll spend the details. Don't need to

2057
01:34:47,400 --> 01:34:50,240
Speaker 2: dump emotional burdens on y'all. But he just experienced a heavy,

2058
01:34:50,280 --> 01:34:52,960
Speaker 2: heavy loss, and I'm driving him back home, and I

2059
01:34:53,040 --> 01:34:55,240
Speaker 2: had your podcast plan and he asked if I could

2060
01:34:55,280 --> 01:34:57,599
Speaker 2: turn it down. He puts both hands on the dash

2061
01:34:57,640 --> 01:35:00,240
Speaker 2: to start sobbing his life out until he he is

2062
01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:05,080
Speaker 2: ninety nine problems playing a He effortlessly switches to confuse,

2063
01:35:05,200 --> 01:35:09,160
Speaker 2: laughing to oh is this the remix HI ninety nine problems?

2064
01:35:09,240 --> 01:35:12,439
Speaker 2: Somebody trying to tell me something. He continues laughing though

2065
01:35:12,800 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 2: through the first verse, interjecting how awful it was. Unfortunately

2066
01:35:16,920 --> 01:35:18,679
Speaker 2: he only made it to the beginning of the verse

2067
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:21,040
Speaker 2: two and he turned my radio off. Okay, this is

2068
01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:23,880
Speaker 2: fucking horrible. Then he continues to cry so ultimately, thank

2069
01:35:23,880 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 2: you for the White People News to give me our.

2070
01:35:25,400 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 3: Friend a verse and the course to escape reality.

2071
01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:29,120
Speaker 2: I know it is in y'all's at ten for the segment,

2072
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 2: but I wanted to let you know that impact it

2073
01:35:31,560 --> 01:35:33,639
Speaker 2: had tonight. So on, so on the night I forever

2074
01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:36,679
Speaker 2: appreciated my friend could forget about his loss and confusion

2075
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:39,519
Speaker 2: and replace it with laughter, if even for a minute

2076
01:35:39,560 --> 01:35:40,200
Speaker 2: and some seconds.

2077
01:35:40,479 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 3: Love y'all, love the podcast.

2078
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:43,439
Speaker 2: Thank you, and I promise I office submit my five

2079
01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:46,760
Speaker 2: star review sooner the later, infinite. Thanks Yvonne, thank thank you,

2080
01:35:47,920 --> 01:35:50,360
Speaker 2: and uh yeah, I hope, I hope everything works out

2081
01:35:50,360 --> 01:35:55,639
Speaker 2: for your friends. Uh Tonia, I think maybe it's Tanya,

2082
01:35:55,720 --> 01:35:59,480
Speaker 2: but it looks like Tonia, says Kevin Harden not apologize

2083
01:35:59,520 --> 01:36:02,120
Speaker 2: and will fun his bag. From twenty sixteen to twenty eighteen,

2084
01:36:02,200 --> 01:36:04,280
Speaker 2: Kevin Hart has been in every comedy movie.

2085
01:36:04,360 --> 01:36:07,440
Speaker 3: However, now he has refuse apologize for the homophobia.

2086
01:36:07,840 --> 01:36:10,240
Speaker 2: Watch how many movies he'll be in for twenty nineteen

2087
01:36:10,320 --> 01:36:13,439
Speaker 2: twenty twenty ninety nine percent of the movies that Heart

2088
01:36:13,640 --> 01:36:16,080
Speaker 2: is in now are backed by white dollars. The white

2089
01:36:16,080 --> 01:36:18,599
Speaker 2: people are now going to see him as problematic. White

2090
01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:22,160
Speaker 2: folks don't like rebellious negroes. This will have a domino effect. Also,

2091
01:36:22,320 --> 01:36:25,000
Speaker 2: a Thanksgiving weekend, Hart had a baby a birthday party

2092
01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:26,040
Speaker 2: for his one year old son.

2093
01:36:26,120 --> 01:36:28,479
Speaker 3: The theme was cowboys. And Indians. It's like Hard is

2094
01:36:28,520 --> 01:36:31,000
Speaker 3: trying to be the new front man for assholes. Y'all

2095
01:36:31,080 --> 01:36:31,400
Speaker 3: saw that.

2096
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:35,160
Speaker 2: The only thing I'll add is, I'm not one hundred

2097
01:36:35,160 --> 01:36:38,200
Speaker 2: percent sure. Well one, I think he's probably already recorded

2098
01:36:38,240 --> 01:36:39,439
Speaker 2: all his movies for twenty nineteen.

2099
01:36:40,080 --> 01:36:41,320
Speaker 3: The niggas stay working.

2100
01:36:42,800 --> 01:36:44,599
Speaker 1: That's when we might see the decrease, right.

2101
01:36:45,040 --> 01:36:48,800
Speaker 2: But what I was gonna say, though, is I'm not

2102
01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:51,040
Speaker 2: sure that people gonna hold him to that. Do not

2103
01:36:52,240 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 2: laugh my ass off. Use a fucking fool. Your voices

2104
01:36:54,920 --> 01:36:57,519
Speaker 2: when you re enacting the story had me rolling nigga

2105
01:36:57,560 --> 01:36:59,320
Speaker 2: when you said they ain't even looking for me, they

2106
01:36:59,400 --> 01:37:02,040
Speaker 2: look for putting. I was dying on the floor. I

2107
01:37:02,120 --> 01:37:04,360
Speaker 2: had all the white folks on my floor asking what's

2108
01:37:04,640 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 2: so funny? Thanks for the laugh. I love you guys.

2109
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:09,639
Speaker 2: And if you want to shoot me a Christmas card,

2110
01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,040
Speaker 2: shoot me a card. My addresses and they leave that

2111
01:37:13,040 --> 01:37:15,479
Speaker 2: address made Christmas. The only thing is you didn't leave

2112
01:37:15,520 --> 01:37:17,560
Speaker 2: your name for this Christmas card. I don't have a

2113
01:37:17,640 --> 01:37:20,080
Speaker 2: signature or anything. Can you, if you're listening to this,

2114
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:24,560
Speaker 2: can you email me another email with your name for

2115
01:37:24,760 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 2: this address. I'll see it's in Arizona, so hit me

2116
01:37:28,120 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 2: up Allegra right, saying them Duke board, them Duke Boys

2117
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:40,080
Speaker 2: just some good old boys, never meaning no harm. Be's

2118
01:37:40,160 --> 01:37:42,479
Speaker 2: all you ever saw being in trouble with the Losses

2119
01:37:42,600 --> 01:37:46,240
Speaker 2: to dayDay with Bond. Guess who guess what's been on

2120
01:37:46,360 --> 01:37:48,639
Speaker 2: my mind since you and BOSSI talked about Slash saying

2121
01:37:48,640 --> 01:37:51,679
Speaker 2: about it on episode eighteen oh six. The Duke Boys

2122
01:37:52,040 --> 01:37:55,840
Speaker 2: were my shit as a young and Luke Duke was boyfriend,

2123
01:37:55,960 --> 01:38:00,280
Speaker 2: except he didn't know it, as I love saying sco

2124
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:04,800
Speaker 2: peak co train. My cousin and I watched that show

2125
01:38:04,880 --> 01:38:07,800
Speaker 2: religiously and stopped watching promptly after they switched actors played

2126
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:09,080
Speaker 2: Bow and Luke in protests.

2127
01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:13,240
Speaker 3: I was bitter. I remember that it was whacked by then.

2128
01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:15,720
Speaker 2: I was bitter my cousin had to do I say

2129
01:38:15,760 --> 01:38:18,840
Speaker 2: that like it wasn't always whack, but whatever, Uh, it

2130
01:38:18,960 --> 01:38:21,040
Speaker 2: was definitely whacked when they tried to replace them niggas, I.

2131
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:21,720
Speaker 3: Said, what is this?

2132
01:38:22,240 --> 01:38:26,160
Speaker 2: Who done switched out my coffee? I was bitter that

2133
01:38:26,320 --> 01:38:28,519
Speaker 2: my cousin had a duca has a lunch pay Loki.

2134
01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:32,160
Speaker 2: I obviously had not forgot that slight on my aunt's part.

2135
01:38:32,479 --> 01:38:36,240
Speaker 2: The other show that was our ship, the eighteen. Yes,

2136
01:38:43,720 --> 01:38:46,280
Speaker 2: eighteen was my ship. Thanks for sending me spiraling back

2137
01:38:46,320 --> 01:38:51,400
Speaker 2: down memory laying great episode. Yeah eighteen stayed killing people

2138
01:38:51,439 --> 01:38:53,360
Speaker 2: without killing people. They thought they were g I Joe

2139
01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:56,800
Speaker 2: out that motherfucker vand shit blowing up.

2140
01:38:56,880 --> 01:38:58,639
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they died. They ain't tell you they died.

2141
01:38:58,760 --> 01:39:01,880
Speaker 2: We're gonna drive past a lapsable thing that they just

2142
01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:04,240
Speaker 2: left under sucking bad guys lawn and it falls on

2143
01:39:04,280 --> 01:39:06,200
Speaker 2: top of the bad guys. So it's like, we didn't

2144
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:09,400
Speaker 2: kill nobody, even though we got machine guns and shit right, like,

2145
01:39:09,520 --> 01:39:10,840
Speaker 2: get a fuck out of here, y'all would have had

2146
01:39:10,840 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 2: to kill everybody. White People News Derna Caroen love the

2147
01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:18,360
Speaker 2: show Authenticity. If you hadn't had this and White People

2148
01:39:18,439 --> 01:39:20,880
Speaker 2: News yet, I think you should tamor Echo still in

2149
01:39:20,960 --> 01:39:23,120
Speaker 2: a million dollar errors had the chocolate cake decorated as

2150
01:39:23,240 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 2: Christmas tree this year to celebrate Christmas. I know it's

2151
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:28,720
Speaker 2: not punkin spice, but a giant chocolate cake has to

2152
01:39:28,800 --> 01:39:31,000
Speaker 2: be almost as good as comfort spice from Hannah, the

2153
01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 2: original Scandinavian pale Face, the home of the true Paleness.

2154
01:39:36,400 --> 01:39:40,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I will add it to my White

2155
01:39:40,160 --> 01:39:43,320
Speaker 3: People News rotation. We'll they time to do white people news.

2156
01:39:43,360 --> 01:39:44,200
Speaker 3: It'll be in there all right.

2157
01:39:45,280 --> 01:39:49,400
Speaker 2: Let's see Tristan right saying feedback, Hey riding, Karen, I stand,

2158
01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:52,840
Speaker 2: I stand with Kevin Hart thing on social media open

2159
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:54,280
Speaker 2: my eyes to human nature.

2160
01:39:54,880 --> 01:39:58,639
Speaker 3: I guess oh the I stand with Kevin Hart say okay,

2161
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:01,040
Speaker 3: I see what you saying. That wrong man, I almost

2162
01:40:01,040 --> 01:40:02,320
Speaker 3: made you look stupid, my bad dog.

2163
01:40:04,800 --> 01:40:06,760
Speaker 2: But I stand with Kevin Hart. Thing on social media

2164
01:40:06,800 --> 01:40:08,760
Speaker 2: really opened my eyes of human nature. He didn't die,

2165
01:40:08,920 --> 01:40:11,439
Speaker 2: go to jail or lose out on making any significant money,

2166
01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:14,360
Speaker 2: but black people really held him up like he lost everything.

2167
01:40:14,640 --> 01:40:17,720
Speaker 2: They really sounded like Trump supporters. As Karen always says,

2168
01:40:17,760 --> 01:40:20,400
Speaker 2: bigotry comes from the same floors. I really hate that

2169
01:40:20,479 --> 01:40:22,519
Speaker 2: so many of us don't see that we have to

2170
01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:24,640
Speaker 2: let the isms and the phobias go before we can

2171
01:40:24,720 --> 01:40:27,800
Speaker 2: all be free. That divided ourselves over a joke that

2172
01:40:27,960 --> 01:40:30,479
Speaker 2: isn't even funny, isn't worth it. I'm not surprised people

2173
01:40:30,560 --> 01:40:32,400
Speaker 2: feel the way they do, but it gave me this

2174
01:40:32,600 --> 01:40:38,599
Speaker 2: ving diagram between white Trump supporter and oppressed black people. Listen,

2175
01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:42,640
Speaker 2: they don't agree on Trump, right, Black people do not

2176
01:40:42,760 --> 01:40:47,640
Speaker 2: agree on Trump. But I'll never forget how many evangelicals

2177
01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:48,519
Speaker 2: fuck with George W.

2178
01:40:48,760 --> 01:40:49,040
Speaker 3: Bush.

2179
01:40:49,240 --> 01:40:50,600
Speaker 1: Yes they did like that.

2180
01:40:50,720 --> 01:40:53,920
Speaker 2: Shit, wasn't that Like I remember people taking trucks, I

2181
01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:56,880
Speaker 2: mean busses to be like wenvolved with Problagon and.

2182
01:40:56,920 --> 01:40:58,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, for what though?

2183
01:40:59,479 --> 01:41:02,000
Speaker 2: You know, and I'm not talking about some significant portion,

2184
01:41:02,160 --> 01:41:06,479
Speaker 2: but enough to make me go, oh, just black people.

2185
01:41:06,280 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 3: Conservative as fuck. It's just that racism thing. It's just

2186
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:11,320
Speaker 3: too much.

2187
01:41:11,840 --> 01:41:13,760
Speaker 2: You can give them a white dude that's conservative but

2188
01:41:13,840 --> 01:41:16,880
Speaker 2: convinces them that they not that racist. A lot of

2189
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:19,040
Speaker 2: people will make some strange bad fellas, if you know

2190
01:41:19,080 --> 01:41:22,800
Speaker 2: what I mean. I'm not sure if y'all said it

2191
01:41:23,120 --> 01:41:25,320
Speaker 2: or made it up, but we need to popularize the

2192
01:41:25,360 --> 01:41:29,240
Speaker 2: phrase burning the bag because that's all I've been seeing.

2193
01:41:29,080 --> 01:41:30,719
Speaker 3: From Kevin to City Girls.

2194
01:41:30,760 --> 01:41:32,439
Speaker 2: I'm sick of people not knowing how to play the

2195
01:41:32,520 --> 01:41:35,400
Speaker 2: game and fucking up their bag in the process.

2196
01:41:36,439 --> 01:41:38,720
Speaker 3: Two blocks from the bank and it just took a

2197
01:41:38,800 --> 01:41:39,360
Speaker 3: lighted to it.

2198
01:41:39,479 --> 01:41:42,719
Speaker 2: The bag has to be pocket holes in it, and shit,

2199
01:41:42,880 --> 01:41:44,759
Speaker 2: burning the bag might be the title of episode.

2200
01:41:44,880 --> 01:41:48,240
Speaker 3: Come on, the bag has to be depositive.

2201
01:41:48,280 --> 01:41:51,519
Speaker 2: Before Secure, you all had some drama with another show

2202
01:41:51,560 --> 01:41:53,719
Speaker 2: and you addressed it without making the show a negative place.

2203
01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:56,560
Speaker 2: For the advertisers who work with you. I respect that

2204
01:41:56,720 --> 01:41:58,559
Speaker 2: you recognize that they're a bag.

2205
01:41:58,720 --> 01:42:01,520
Speaker 3: There's a bag that could be burned over something insignificant.

2206
01:42:01,560 --> 01:42:04,639
Speaker 2: Win the other direction, I lose respect for the celebrities

2207
01:42:04,680 --> 01:42:07,599
Speaker 2: who are so self rightous they realize what they don't

2208
01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:12,280
Speaker 2: realize what they lost. Come on, dog, I noticed an

2209
01:42:12,280 --> 01:42:15,040
Speaker 2: audio podcast, but I just gave you the come on, doll,

2210
01:42:15,120 --> 01:42:17,320
Speaker 2: come on face, and Karen gave you the audio version

2211
01:42:17,400 --> 01:42:21,720
Speaker 2: of it. Cause nigga for real, Speaking of bags, I'm

2212
01:42:21,760 --> 01:42:24,679
Speaker 2: contacting a lawyer. When Rod said they could replace Kevin

2213
01:42:24,720 --> 01:42:26,680
Speaker 2: Hart with a little real same height, same nigga, I

2214
01:42:26,800 --> 01:42:28,760
Speaker 2: was eating grits. Do you know how much it hurts

2215
01:42:28,800 --> 01:42:32,160
Speaker 2: to choke on grits? I'll be suing you for throat damage.

2216
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:35,720
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, think about it, guys, did y'all get

2217
01:42:35,760 --> 01:42:38,000
Speaker 2: an allow us as kids? I remember saving money, but

2218
01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:41,560
Speaker 2: keeping the money left over from running the money in

2219
01:42:41,800 --> 01:42:44,120
Speaker 2: to pay gas at the running the money, kig pay gas.

2220
01:42:44,640 --> 01:42:47,640
Speaker 2: I'm realizing how old I am for gas to have

2221
01:42:47,760 --> 01:42:50,439
Speaker 2: been cheap enough for that to be changed for twenty

2222
01:42:50,560 --> 01:42:51,240
Speaker 2: in the nineties.

2223
01:42:52,280 --> 01:42:56,760
Speaker 1: Come on, doll, gas used to be dirt cheat. We're

2224
01:42:56,840 --> 01:42:59,360
Speaker 1: talking about thirty gallon.

2225
01:43:00,320 --> 01:43:00,720
Speaker 3: Let me see.

2226
01:43:00,800 --> 01:43:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the nineties, ny, no, no, no, no, Yeah,

2227
01:43:03,200 --> 01:43:06,920
Speaker 1: I was like eighty ninety. I'm sorry, eighty ninety.

2228
01:43:07,080 --> 01:43:10,000
Speaker 3: Karen was going back to nineteen seventy three or so long.

2229
01:43:10,320 --> 01:43:11,000
Speaker 3: I don't know about that.

2230
01:43:11,320 --> 01:43:12,639
Speaker 1: Eighty ninety. It was less than a dollar.

2231
01:43:13,520 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely less than a dollar, but I

2232
01:43:15,400 --> 01:43:17,360
Speaker 2: don't never remember twenty thirty cents.

2233
01:43:17,439 --> 01:43:17,920
Speaker 3: How old are you?

2234
01:43:18,920 --> 01:43:21,559
Speaker 2: I know, black women, magic and everything, black dog crack,

2235
01:43:21,640 --> 01:43:23,479
Speaker 2: but that's some great depression price.

2236
01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:27,680
Speaker 1: Karen's black don't crack, do you? But that is you

2237
01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:29,080
Speaker 1: know how old I am?

2238
01:43:29,880 --> 01:43:31,400
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm good.

2239
01:43:36,280 --> 01:43:40,000
Speaker 2: I definitely had it easier than my older sister relating

2240
01:43:40,200 --> 01:43:42,080
Speaker 2: regarding chores, but neither of us got paid.

2241
01:43:42,200 --> 01:43:42,519
Speaker 3: Lol.

2242
01:43:42,560 --> 01:43:45,200
Speaker 2: I wonder if I was her older brother, if that

2243
01:43:45,240 --> 01:43:46,960
Speaker 2: would have changed the chore gap at home.

2244
01:43:47,600 --> 01:43:49,920
Speaker 3: That's true. I didn't think about age. That's a good point.

2245
01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:54,960
Speaker 2: Lastly, and yes, I did get an allowance as a kid,

2246
01:43:55,160 --> 01:43:58,720
Speaker 2: but it was it was not a steady thing like

2247
01:43:59,520 --> 01:44:02,200
Speaker 2: it was so sometimes. You know, I think, look, when

2248
01:44:02,200 --> 01:44:04,760
Speaker 2: you black, if your parents got it, they might hook

2249
01:44:04,800 --> 01:44:07,080
Speaker 2: you up with a little something, or if you make

2250
01:44:07,120 --> 01:44:09,439
Speaker 2: the case for it. My parents are very It's funny.

2251
01:44:10,000 --> 01:44:13,040
Speaker 2: My parents are very receptive to us if we can

2252
01:44:13,120 --> 01:44:15,080
Speaker 2: make the argument for like, this is why I need

2253
01:44:15,120 --> 01:44:17,160
Speaker 2: an allowance, and there was a time when I did

2254
01:44:17,200 --> 01:44:19,720
Speaker 2: any one, you know, especially once you get a girlfriend

2255
01:44:19,800 --> 01:44:22,679
Speaker 2: and shit like you need some money. But that's also

2256
01:44:23,200 --> 01:44:25,640
Speaker 2: when I also had to get a job. So it's like,

2257
01:44:25,760 --> 01:44:27,640
Speaker 2: allow your ass to go to work and make some

2258
01:44:27,760 --> 01:44:29,320
Speaker 2: money and get a check.

2259
01:44:29,560 --> 01:44:29,720
Speaker 4: Right.

2260
01:44:30,880 --> 01:44:33,040
Speaker 2: Lastly, did y'all see that Mark Griffin has a YouTube

2261
01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:35,559
Speaker 2: channel for the bullet Ball. On that channel he has

2262
01:44:35,640 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 2: one of those Nike Kaepernick's Sacrifice of Everything ass as

2263
01:44:39,080 --> 01:44:39,479
Speaker 2: a video.

2264
01:44:40,439 --> 01:44:42,320
Speaker 3: Wasn't sure if you've seen it, just thought it was funny.

2265
01:44:42,360 --> 01:44:43,880
Speaker 3: See the pig attached.

2266
01:44:45,439 --> 01:44:47,519
Speaker 2: That as you make good sense though y'all were a

2267
01:44:47,600 --> 01:44:50,760
Speaker 2: well old machine that that one goes in the best

2268
01:44:50,840 --> 01:44:52,080
Speaker 2: of Rider Karen category.

2269
01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:54,600
Speaker 3: And for y'all that didn't watch the video, please do.

2270
01:44:54,920 --> 01:44:57,160
Speaker 2: It's funny in the comments r too, he was trying

2271
01:44:57,200 --> 01:44:59,559
Speaker 2: to teach that man regular bullet ball while playing bulletball

2272
01:44:59,600 --> 01:45:02,880
Speaker 2: extreet my point. Thanks for the podcast. Sorry this is

2273
01:45:02,920 --> 01:45:04,440
Speaker 2: along read Christian.

2274
01:45:06,040 --> 01:45:06,200
Speaker 1: Man.

2275
01:45:06,280 --> 01:45:08,559
Speaker 3: Thank you. Wow.

2276
01:45:08,680 --> 01:45:11,280
Speaker 2: He does have a picture says believing something even mean

2277
01:45:11,360 --> 01:45:12,240
Speaker 2: sacrificed everything.

2278
01:45:12,439 --> 01:45:15,920
Speaker 3: Just do it wow yo and his edge of yo.

2279
01:45:16,120 --> 01:45:18,120
Speaker 3: He look he done made him up to a little

2280
01:45:18,160 --> 01:45:18,800
Speaker 3: super fox.

2281
01:45:18,920 --> 01:45:22,439
Speaker 2: Now watch out now lateist, hold on, let me share

2282
01:45:22,439 --> 01:45:24,040
Speaker 2: it on on screen so y'all can see this too.

2283
01:45:24,840 --> 01:45:25,280
Speaker 3: I'll see you.

2284
01:45:25,400 --> 01:45:28,040
Speaker 2: Mark Griffin with to come up on the bullet ball money.

2285
01:45:28,400 --> 01:45:31,200
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, back then host didn't want me. Now

2286
01:45:31,400 --> 01:45:33,960
Speaker 2: rich should all of them? Like?

2287
01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:37,080
Speaker 3: I see him? Dog get you something, Mark Griffin? Is

2288
01:45:37,120 --> 01:45:37,720
Speaker 3: it showing up?

2289
01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:38,639
Speaker 1: Oh ship?

2290
01:45:38,920 --> 01:45:40,960
Speaker 3: Now the glow up is real?

2291
01:45:42,080 --> 01:45:45,439
Speaker 1: Sound? Come throughs looking like a silver fox.

2292
01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:49,000
Speaker 3: Come through living in my carcade.

2293
01:45:49,360 --> 01:45:52,000
Speaker 1: Come on, now, he don't got his shape.

2294
01:45:52,400 --> 01:45:54,720
Speaker 2: He done took his shades off, and though he took

2295
01:45:54,760 --> 01:45:56,439
Speaker 2: his reading glasses off and put him on the shirt

2296
01:45:56,439 --> 01:45:57,320
Speaker 2: and put the shades on.

2297
01:45:57,720 --> 01:45:58,760
Speaker 3: Got the guns out.

2298
01:45:59,439 --> 01:46:00,680
Speaker 1: Come on, I ain't living in this.

2299
01:46:01,840 --> 01:46:04,880
Speaker 2: Come on now, I guess his ex wife he said, Hey,

2300
01:46:04,920 --> 01:46:08,040
Speaker 2: y'all seen this. I said, ex wife, okay, she left

2301
01:46:08,120 --> 01:46:10,400
Speaker 2: me for my dreams came true. So you can come

2302
01:46:10,520 --> 01:46:12,639
Speaker 2: get this some of this bullet ball.

2303
01:46:12,680 --> 01:46:15,880
Speaker 1: Dick, Come on my point.

2304
01:46:17,640 --> 01:46:19,759
Speaker 2: The bullet balls.

2305
01:46:20,080 --> 01:46:27,200
Speaker 3: Come on, you're trying to juggle these old bullet balls

2306
01:46:28,240 --> 01:46:29,639
Speaker 3: and bulletballs extreme.

2307
01:46:30,280 --> 01:46:37,519
Speaker 2: Come on, oh man, we have fun slapping the mold

2308
01:46:37,600 --> 01:46:39,960
Speaker 2: bullet balls around. Guys, know what it's like.

2309
01:46:41,760 --> 01:46:49,080
Speaker 3: I need to save this artwork. Show the show light.

2310
01:46:49,840 --> 01:46:54,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, suck on these bullet balls. Extreme baby. All right,

2311
01:46:54,160 --> 01:46:56,200
Speaker 3: let's go to the next email. I think we got

2312
01:46:56,240 --> 01:46:59,320
Speaker 3: a couple more. What time is it?

2313
01:46:59,439 --> 01:46:59,960
Speaker 1: Five minutes?

2314
01:47:00,360 --> 01:47:02,160
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, we might be able to wrap this up.

2315
01:47:02,200 --> 01:47:04,960
Speaker 3: We got two more, no one more and didn't give

2316
01:47:05,560 --> 01:47:10,599
Speaker 3: yep Kiera says or miss ct says. Sorry. Just wanted

2317
01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:12,799
Speaker 3: to say thank you for uploading no episodes in the archive.

2318
01:47:13,720 --> 01:47:15,360
Speaker 3: Thank you. I have been uploading a lot of them.

2319
01:47:15,640 --> 01:47:17,840
Speaker 2: I'm going through it now and I'm actually enjoying having

2320
01:47:17,880 --> 01:47:19,920
Speaker 2: like thirty new episodes of the Blackoutists a day.

2321
01:47:20,280 --> 01:47:21,240
Speaker 3: Just a quick side note.

2322
01:47:21,240 --> 01:47:23,160
Speaker 2: As I'm doing research on Black Lives Matter, I went

2323
01:47:23,200 --> 01:47:25,519
Speaker 2: to dig through archives to find that first episode after

2324
01:47:25,640 --> 01:47:28,200
Speaker 2: murder Trayvon Martin. First episode I could file was two

2325
01:47:28,200 --> 01:47:31,120
Speaker 2: eighty seven the Jack Attack, Rod Carre, Jessica, Chris and

2326
01:47:31,240 --> 01:47:32,960
Speaker 2: Jay were all on the episode. I'll start off the

2327
01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:37,280
Speaker 2: episode on the brick of tears, naturally from being sad.

2328
01:47:37,360 --> 01:47:39,600
Speaker 2: Then I ended episode crying laughing because you.

2329
01:47:39,640 --> 01:47:40,800
Speaker 3: Are all ridiculous.

2330
01:47:41,120 --> 01:47:43,360
Speaker 2: It's an art to go from such a traumatic event

2331
01:47:43,439 --> 01:47:45,400
Speaker 2: like Trayvon to Homage buggy racing.

2332
01:47:45,680 --> 01:47:47,479
Speaker 3: You all hit the hard stuff, but always try to

2333
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:49,519
Speaker 3: make sure you leave listeners with some jeordge. Thanks guys,

2334
01:47:49,560 --> 01:47:50,479
Speaker 3: you treated out the best.

2335
01:47:50,680 --> 01:47:53,320
Speaker 2: I sent you both a postcard now I send it

2336
01:47:53,400 --> 01:47:55,160
Speaker 2: from a military base, so it may or may not

2337
01:47:55,360 --> 01:47:57,080
Speaker 2: make it to you before the turn of the century.

2338
01:47:57,360 --> 01:47:59,760
Speaker 3: But you both were in my thoughts this holiday season.

2339
01:47:59,760 --> 01:48:01,360
Speaker 3: Talk you something. Oh, thank you.

2340
01:48:01,520 --> 01:48:03,720
Speaker 1: We old to receive it soon, baby, Yeah.

2341
01:48:03,840 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 2: And I have been updated the archives and there's a

2342
01:48:06,280 --> 01:48:09,000
Speaker 2: lot of a lot of stuff there. I think I'm

2343
01:48:09,120 --> 01:48:11,880
Speaker 2: up to, like I want to say, eight thirty or so.

2344
01:48:12,439 --> 01:48:16,040
Speaker 2: So you know, hopefully you guys that are listening are

2345
01:48:16,120 --> 01:48:17,400
Speaker 2: getting those and.

2346
01:48:17,439 --> 01:48:19,519
Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep it up listening to them too.

2347
01:48:19,800 --> 01:48:22,280
Speaker 2: Yep, all right, gifts, let's get to them. We got

2348
01:48:22,360 --> 01:48:24,720
Speaker 2: a gift in the mail from Amazon, some one on

2349
01:48:24,800 --> 01:48:30,360
Speaker 2: our wish list. It says high TVGWT Happy Holidays from

2350
01:48:30,400 --> 01:48:31,160
Speaker 2: a loyal listener.

2351
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:31,519
Speaker 3: That's it.

2352
01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:32,479
Speaker 1: They didn't put that name.

2353
01:48:32,600 --> 01:48:34,200
Speaker 3: Didn't put that name, and it was Karen.

2354
01:48:34,439 --> 01:48:34,880
Speaker 4: What was it?

2355
01:48:35,640 --> 01:48:41,080
Speaker 1: Oh, my heat resistant gloves. I had wanted some myts.

2356
01:48:41,160 --> 01:48:43,680
Speaker 1: I think they can do. They can handle up to

2357
01:48:43,800 --> 01:48:44,799
Speaker 1: nine hundred degrees.

2358
01:48:45,200 --> 01:48:47,360
Speaker 4: They're actually made for grilling, but I'm gonna use it

2359
01:48:47,439 --> 01:48:49,719
Speaker 4: from the oven, so like if I got to, because

2360
01:48:49,720 --> 01:48:52,479
Speaker 4: I like to cook with the with the cast iron skinnet.

2361
01:48:52,800 --> 01:48:54,439
Speaker 4: That way I could just put my whole hands in

2362
01:48:54,560 --> 01:48:56,120
Speaker 4: there and I don't have to be fumbled with no

2363
01:48:56,240 --> 01:48:57,720
Speaker 4: mix because you know, when you got mits, you can't

2364
01:48:57,760 --> 01:48:58,400
Speaker 4: move your fingers.

2365
01:48:58,640 --> 01:49:01,519
Speaker 1: So this one allows me to fingers and they're really long.

2366
01:49:01,640 --> 01:49:05,280
Speaker 1: It comes up to like three quarters of my arm,

2367
01:49:05,479 --> 01:49:07,200
Speaker 1: So I actually like to be able to just to

2368
01:49:07,240 --> 01:49:07,800
Speaker 1: reach in the oven.

2369
01:49:07,840 --> 01:49:10,200
Speaker 2: And then when we do pizzas and stuff, I can

2370
01:49:10,280 --> 01:49:11,960
Speaker 2: pull out the pizza pan and I have to worry

2371
01:49:11,960 --> 01:49:14,360
Speaker 2: about brunning myself, hold the pizza pan down and cut

2372
01:49:14,400 --> 01:49:15,120
Speaker 2: at the same time.

2373
01:49:15,360 --> 01:49:18,360
Speaker 1: So I am looking forward to actually using it and

2374
01:49:18,479 --> 01:49:20,880
Speaker 1: have actually having the freedom of my fingers.

2375
01:49:21,640 --> 01:49:26,320
Speaker 2: We also got a Christmas card, a holiday card from Arion,

2376
01:49:26,439 --> 01:49:29,600
Speaker 2: who look at this little cute thing with these d

2377
01:49:29,720 --> 01:49:32,720
Speaker 2: You see this? Yes, all the thing ones on it,

2378
01:49:32,840 --> 01:49:35,120
Speaker 2: and inside it says high Rod and Karen, I'm a

2379
01:49:35,160 --> 01:49:37,479
Speaker 2: new listener going on a here now. Isn't that funny?

2380
01:49:37,479 --> 01:49:39,240
Speaker 2: You can be new and it's in a year that's all.

2381
01:49:39,280 --> 01:49:41,360
Speaker 2: Don't even knowing this My best friend got me listening

2382
01:49:41,400 --> 01:49:41,479
Speaker 2: to you.

2383
01:49:41,479 --> 01:49:41,679
Speaker 8: Guys.

2384
01:49:41,720 --> 01:49:43,920
Speaker 3: Hope your holidays are wonderful. Love alri Ps. I work

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Speaker 3: in the stationary.

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Speaker 2: Store, so all the cute holiday cards and it says

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Speaker 2: a warm, joyful wish to you Marry Christmas.

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Speaker 3: This car is fucking adorable.

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Speaker 1: Yes, baby, I'm gonna put it up there with my drawer.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how far back the cars go, but honey,

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Speaker 1: I got all of.

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Speaker 3: Them, and then we got this right before we got

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Speaker 3: on the air.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who is from I mean, open this, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know what it is. Who it's from yet?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's MS clearly from Amazon, and it's gift wrapped, yes, uh,

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Speaker 2: and it counts a look at this Amazon gift rapping. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'll see fancy. So it comes with a card that says.

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Speaker 3: Happy holidays.

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Speaker 2: Riding, Karen, I hope twenty nineteen is even better than

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Speaker 2: your dreams. I can't express how much having an endless

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Speaker 2: supply shows has helped me get through the mess that

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Speaker 2: has been twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy the smell goods. Love Simone and Simone. Oh, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna say John sorry about that? All right, Simone, Let's

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Speaker 3: see what's in him?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I think I know what this is. I think

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Speaker 3: I know what this is. How do I open the

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Speaker 3: rest of this? Sorry, I know I'm on the clock

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Speaker 3: because the show about the end. But one second, guys,

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Speaker 3: Yes it is. It's one of my fads. It's a

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Speaker 3: candle from Smell My Nuts.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Smell my Nuts.

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Speaker 2: Smell My Nuts one of my favorite candle companies. They

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Speaker 2: have the best smelling candles they do, yes, and they

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Speaker 2: come to this Mason Jars. Smell My Nuts banana nut bread,

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Speaker 2: toasted cocon.

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Speaker 3: Nut, hazel nut.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know what.

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Speaker 2: We went from talking about bullet balls to nuts, and

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Speaker 2: I think that's what we call podcasts.

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Speaker 3: Serendipity. Guys. Yes, it's not gonna get no better than that.

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Speaker 2: That's why you come to the best for the nuts

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Speaker 2: and the balls. Sorry, we'll talk to you guys tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Until then, I love you you why