Speaker 1: If you would like to have us answer your questions.
Speaker 1: If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
Speaker 1: a terrible throuffle. Guess what You've got Decisions? Hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: welcome back to another episode of You've Got Decisions. It's wheezy.
Speaker 1: I'm in Los Angeles at the moment at WTF Media Studios.
Speaker 1: Here I'm by myself, so sad you miss Mandy, I
Speaker 1: know me too. We are heading to Vegas for the
Speaker 1: Avian Awards. Fingers crossed. You're probably hearing this after we've
Speaker 1: gone to Vegas, but hoping that we win Best Podcast.
Speaker 1: For those of you that don't know what the Avian
Speaker 1: Awards is, they are also known as Support Awards. I'm
Speaker 1: here at my girl Denisha, and she's one of our
Speaker 1: lead engineers here at WTF Media Studios, and she is
Speaker 1: going to read off some questions. So normally on You've
Speaker 1: Got Decisions, we find one issue that's fucking you up,
Speaker 1: and today we're doing an amak me anything. Hopefully these
Speaker 1: aren't too bad. I actually only looked at like one
Speaker 1: because I just screen shot it like in the car Tiia.
Speaker 2: So I just want to start by saying people say
Speaker 2: crazy shit to you when you're like some of these
Speaker 2: are crazy?
Speaker 1: Oh, like can they?
Speaker 3: Can you sit on my face? Is crazy?
Speaker 1: Like I'm so used to this, I have to doing
Speaker 1: horrible decisions for you. Like I'm trying to think of
Speaker 1: the craziest request that I don't even fulfill. But I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, like I feel like that's like level two.
Speaker 3: That's funny.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you think it's possible for a relationship to
Speaker 2: succeed with just one partner being open?
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'll start because I'm definitely ethic. Hellll I
Speaker 1: have racist everybody ethically no a monogamous person. And then
Speaker 1: Denisha want your answers. So, for one, I hospital, Dick,
Speaker 1: if you've been a listener of decisions decisions for a minute.
Speaker 1: With someone I dated that was totally monogamous, all I
Speaker 1: wanted to do was sleep with other women with him,
Speaker 1: and he was like no, Like, if you don't want
Speaker 1: only me, this doesn't make sense one person having such
Speaker 1: an open and like free brain, it really fucks up
Speaker 1: because what ends up happening is you make the other
Speaker 1: person feel so unwanted. Like, for example, if you were
Speaker 1: dating somebody and they had sex with another woman. You
Speaker 1: may feel insecure, like they don't care about you. You
Speaker 1: might feel unloved, you might feel like you're not doing enough,
Speaker 1: you're not pleasing sexually. My brain doesn't go there, which
Speaker 1: is weird. I should, but I just be thinking, Oh,
Speaker 1: he's just super horny, or he wants to try something new,
Speaker 1: and I'm able to detach. So like, I have a
Speaker 1: lot of conversations with my homegirls where they judge me
Speaker 1: on the other end. Sometimes even in a friendship is
Speaker 1: difficult and they be like, oh, he doesn't want to
Speaker 1: do this, it's hyper sexual, or this isn't good for
Speaker 1: a family dynamic. And it's like, I've been like this
Speaker 1: my whole fucking life. And I honestly I can remember
Speaker 1: even like the college age, not that I finish college,
Speaker 1: but the college age have a girlfriend and then having a
Speaker 1: boyfriend and always being that kind of girl. And I
Speaker 1: feel like it really carried on to me being a
Speaker 1: middle aged woman thirty five middle aged No easy, it's okay,
Speaker 1: Well I feel close. Okay, so you meet somebody great,
Speaker 1: they're ethically no monogamoust but you're not. Do you think
Speaker 1: it could work?
Speaker 3: I do not.
Speaker 2: They're ethically no monogamous and I'm not. Yeah, and he
Speaker 2: wants to sleep with other women. That's not I don't
Speaker 2: think I could handle that.
Speaker 1: Now. What if he told you, like, okay, well I
Speaker 1: could try being monogamoust would you even have faith in that?
Speaker 3: Probably not, if I'm being honest.
Speaker 2: It would just be in the back of my mind,
Speaker 2: like you really you just want to fuck other bitches
Speaker 2: for real?
Speaker 3: Not even yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't think that, Like I would feel secure knowing
Speaker 1: that that other person is used to a lifestyle. It's
Speaker 1: almost like I'm vegan, you eat meat, but you go
Speaker 1: vegan for me.
Speaker 2: But I feel like if I was a man and
Speaker 2: I was monogamous and my girl wanted to be no
Speaker 2: and she wanted to be with other women, I would
Speaker 2: be like, cool, what's it?
Speaker 1: See? This is the thing men say that, and I
Speaker 1: think after a while you're just like, okay, so you
Speaker 1: get to do all this and I can't. And I've
Speaker 1: actually read letters from women had I can't remember who
Speaker 1: it was, but someone close to me. Maybe we had
Speaker 1: them on horrible I don't know, But long story short,
Speaker 1: she was really getting annoyed with the fact that her
Speaker 1: boyfriend wanted to be involved with her other women. She's like,
Speaker 1: I'm not with any other man. I don't understand why
Speaker 1: he needs to ruin this. This is my thing. This
Speaker 1: is my thing solo. I'm like, okay, but you don't
Speaker 1: let him have.
Speaker 3: Him his thing.
Speaker 2: So, but is it she's just not letting him do
Speaker 2: it or he has the option too, he just doesn't
Speaker 2: want to.
Speaker 1: I don't think he has option either. That's the rule.
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Just like you said, so, the
Speaker 1: open shit is just really fucking weird. The only time
Speaker 1: it does work. Unfortunately, this is very misogynistic to say,
Speaker 1: but I believe it could work if the man is
Speaker 1: not monogamous and you genuinely don't want to sleep with
Speaker 1: anyone else, and they respect the boundaries. I only say
Speaker 1: that because we've been having this mindset of men cheat,
Speaker 1: men want other things, but they'll always come home in
Speaker 1: our brains for so long that I actually think some
Speaker 1: women can handle that. I don't know I could know,
Speaker 1: but I do think some women could. And let me
Speaker 1: just say for the record, me being open it open
Speaker 1: and closes all the time, Like we talk about when
Speaker 1: I want to have children then and at that point
Speaker 1: it'll be closed. There's times where I get really depressed
Speaker 1: and stressy about my family stuff and our relationship is closed.
Speaker 1: Like I might to be crying about some shit, but
Speaker 1: my mama, you gets wis me right? But like everybody
Speaker 1: has different rules for me. Opening and closing is the best.
Speaker 1: If we're in an argument, we don't act on other things.
Speaker 1: If we're having a tough week, No, Like, what do
Speaker 1: I look like entertaining some bitch on my phone and
Speaker 1: we're not good?
Speaker 2: I feel like that's how you can tell if a
Speaker 2: couple is actually ethically no monogamous because they like genuinely
Speaker 2: want to be you know what I mean, Like, you
Speaker 2: guys have boundaries and all that stuff, Like you're not
Speaker 2: just doing it just to do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're doing it just to do it though,
Speaker 1: that's the ego.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, this next question, would you stay with
Speaker 2: a man you love through erectile dysfunction.
Speaker 1: Back to the open? Yeah, because I feel like that
Speaker 1: could be fixed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they have pills for that.
Speaker 1: I don't really, I say, And I will say this.
Speaker 1: I have like a lot of weird pussy stuff that
Speaker 1: happens not smell, but sometimes I have areas of vagin
Speaker 1: it's missed throughout my life. When I was nineteen years old,
Speaker 1: it happened with like clenching or super tightness needing to relax,
Speaker 1: like I've had it happen twice from nineteen to today
Speaker 1: at thirty three years old, and I can't imagine if
Speaker 1: somebody was like, oh, yeah, I'm not dealing with this,
Speaker 1: so yeah, am I.
Speaker 3: A supposed to answer?
Speaker 1: I know you staying with that limp D.
Speaker 3: I've never experienced it.
Speaker 2: But the guy that I'm kind of dating right now,
Speaker 2: he's older, and sometimes I feel like.
Speaker 1: What's that mean?
Speaker 2: Well, he's thirty six, girl, how do you thirty? But
Speaker 2: I feel like that's like the age where that starts
Speaker 2: to happen.
Speaker 1: That is not older. I really thought when you heard
Speaker 1: that Clara, didn't you think she was about to be like,
Speaker 1: he's forty five fifty? She said, I'm dating someone older's.
Speaker 2: She's like, first off, thirty six is older to you,
Speaker 2: not older, but he's older than me thirty.
Speaker 1: And thirty six is not that much. When you said
Speaker 1: I'm dating someone older, I was ready for him to
Speaker 1: have an ARP card.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's go to the next question.
Speaker 1: Agreed, Yeah, you're tripping you right there.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is not for them. I met him on hinge.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's where a mama and he ain't got no ed,
Speaker 1: you'll be straight.
Speaker 3: That's funny. Okay, let me find another one.
Speaker 1: To answer the can I sit on your face question?
Speaker 1: What did you think I was gonna reply?
Speaker 3: That's all imagine like, yeah, let me just I.
Speaker 1: Just want to know when people are like, let me
Speaker 1: fuck you in the ass in a random comments if
Speaker 1: someone's like, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, how you tell him you don't want to have
Speaker 2: sex with him anymore? No hard feelings, just done with it.
Speaker 1: How do you tell someone you don't want to have
Speaker 1: sex with him anymore? Okay? Number one the ghosting shit,
Speaker 1: We have to stop this. In twenty twenty five, ghosting
Speaker 1: someone is just so fucked up because even if you
Speaker 1: just lose interest, you literally make them feel like, holy shit,
Speaker 1: they're walking back the days they spent with you last,
Speaker 1: the last conversation. They're thinking they did something to piss
Speaker 1: you off, hurt your feelings. And if it's literally just
Speaker 1: a disconnect and energy, ugh, simple text be like hey,
Speaker 1: this really sucks, but moving into a new phase, I'd
Speaker 1: like it if we could just continue our our relationship
Speaker 1: at a friendship level, like I don't even leave room
Speaker 1: for maybe open ended. No, just like this is what
Speaker 1: I need. We're friends now. I like a text message too,
Speaker 1: because I feel like once you get somebody on the phone,
Speaker 1: they'd be trying to talk you off the ledch and
Speaker 1: get back in a pussy.
Speaker 3: Okay, this is a good one.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about when men have a great masculinity energy.
Speaker 2: I'm assuming they mean masculine energy. But the dick size
Speaker 2: is three T. Do you leave three T isn't tomer?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, this is the difference between sexual arousal. I think
Speaker 1: in the actual sex, if he is a small dick
Speaker 1: and that can't get you off, but his masculine energy,
Speaker 1: his presence, and all of that seems to be satisfying you.
Speaker 1: I don't know. If you can't handle a small dick,
Speaker 1: you do gotta go. Nothing is worse than getting fucked
Speaker 1: and feeling like you can't feel it. Now. I've dated
Speaker 1: somebody with a small dick before, and the reason it
Speaker 1: wasn't bad is because I was so into them. I
Speaker 1: didn't even I realized the sex was bad until I
Speaker 1: gave him some pussy. Once we broke up, and I
Speaker 1: was like, this was what I was having, this little
Speaker 1: shrimp beak. Yeah, I know. I would figure out if
Speaker 1: you enjoy the sex with him outside of penetration, whether
Speaker 1: it be oral, whether it just be I don't know,
Speaker 1: the making out, fucking riding him that can also make
Speaker 1: it feel another inch bigger, anal, whatever it is, like,
Speaker 1: do you enjoy the things outside of him? Because I
Speaker 1: would keep a motherfucker on the roster if they were
Speaker 1: fun and fine, and I'd be like, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: suck that little dick later and put up with it.
Speaker 1: And then you have your BBD on a feed dial.
Speaker 2: All right, it's six months too early to have a
Speaker 2: baby by someone you just met.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say no because I don't want
Speaker 1: to have to get rid of it. So next question,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm trying to find this is crazy, Like
Speaker 1: are you pregnant now? In what state do you live in?
Speaker 1: Do I need to say I knew something?
Speaker 3: Jeez?
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no way. I actually think you need to
Speaker 1: live with somebody before you coparent with them. No judgment.
Speaker 1: If this hasn't happened to anybody who's listening, I know
Speaker 1: things happened by surprise. I'm a cream pie girl too.
Speaker 2: It's okay, tell us about a time sex made you cry.
Speaker 2: I've been having a lot of these moments, good cries.
Speaker 1: Okay, ooh the last time I had a good cry
Speaker 1: during sex? Okay, it was last week. I was really
Speaker 1: stressed out about work. And the thing that sucks about
Speaker 1: crying during sex is it's not always about the person.
Speaker 1: So what happened was I was having a bad day.
Speaker 1: I was falling asleep on the couch. After hyping him
Speaker 1: up there he was gonna get some pussy, and once
Speaker 1: he carried me into the bed, I started to just
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, I feel so bad. I'm
Speaker 1: always hired, I'm always this, I'm always busy. Now he
Speaker 1: starts kissing me, massaging me. We start fucking, and I
Speaker 1: don't know if the dick just hit this little emotional
Speaker 1: button in my piss's pussy, but I just start full
Speaker 1: on having a fucking breakdown, crying, and I think that
Speaker 1: he thought I was having a crazy orgasm from it,
Speaker 1: but it was just a very intense moment of release.
Speaker 1: It almost felt like the sex that I was having
Speaker 1: with him was for myself and not even him, and
Speaker 1: there's a lot of times where I get so overwhelmed
Speaker 1: with my own shit that I forget my own pleasure.
Speaker 1: I forget to masturbate, I forget to look pretty, I
Speaker 1: forget to just take care of my own sexual self.
Speaker 1: And so that was the last time I cried randomly,
Speaker 1: though I've definitely accidentally cried with like someone that I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about. And the entire time I
Speaker 1: cry when I'm getting fucked is it's really I'm just
Speaker 1: releasing I've said that Towice Okay. Rules for fuck buddies, ooh,
Speaker 1: I think this is a really good one. So Mandy
Speaker 1: and I talked about this with I feel like Mike
Speaker 1: the Poet, and it was a conversation we had regarding
Speaker 1: romance for fuck buddies. I think it's all up to
Speaker 1: what you can handle. For example, if someone had to
Speaker 1: make a rule book for Wheezy, I'm not even gonna
Speaker 1: say what rules you should make. I'm an overly emotional girl.
Speaker 1: I know what I can handle. I know what I
Speaker 1: can't handle. So I would say number one for me,
Speaker 1: no sleepovers, waking up next to someone, the cuddling, the
Speaker 1: getting to watch the movies. That's an intimacy that's so
Speaker 1: beyond sex that I'll start to get attached and you'll
Speaker 1: become the placeholder for that. Let's just say when I
Speaker 1: was single, I know me and a Keen Woods would
Speaker 1: watch back to back reality shit fucking dumb TV. And
Speaker 1: if I was doing that with my fuck buddy, it
Speaker 1: would literally make him the placehold. I would stop thinking
Speaker 1: about doing things with friends because I want to share
Speaker 1: them with you. You just start going beyond. I think
Speaker 1: another rule for fuck buddy to me, no fluid bonding,
Speaker 1: which means using condoms only. I think even when it's
Speaker 1: your only partner at the time, something happens when the
Speaker 1: condom come off where you're my nigga. Now rule number
Speaker 1: three for Wheezy again, I think no events that include
Speaker 1: friends front facing, like things where you're mixing and mingling
Speaker 1: with people that are in your inner circle. I think
Speaker 1: the fuck buddy should actually remain pretty anonymous to everybody
Speaker 1: you know, like of course your homegirls know who they
Speaker 1: are in the group chat. But I think once you
Speaker 1: start taking it outside of the bedroom, you lose control
Speaker 1: and you start to get the wires crossed, and then
Speaker 1: you end up wanting more, and then boom, Now you
Speaker 1: got no date next.
Speaker 3: With you?
Speaker 2: Show your ever show your partner publicly and why don't
Speaker 2: you just do?
Speaker 1: Okay, So this is an interesting one. What I would
Speaker 1: show my partner publicly? For me, it used to be
Speaker 1: a hard No. I've only done it with my ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend and that's because we dated before I had a podcast,
Speaker 1: so I say no. But me and this nigga are
Speaker 1: a dating app. So it's like, I don't know for
Speaker 1: right now. No, But I feel like if I was married,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind. But it's never gonna be like this
Speaker 1: in my head. I could be wrong. This still photoed
Speaker 1: me with him out. I feel like I'm gonnaybe have
Speaker 1: a story and I'm gonna be like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: we're doing this ha haa like some in the moment shit.
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I want like it on
Speaker 1: the grid. And for me, it's mainly because you do
Speaker 1: invite a lot of energy in once you start sharing,
Speaker 1: and this is the first someone that's not a podcast
Speaker 1: or a personality or what I genuinely feel like. Once
Speaker 1: you have a photo of someone on your page, you
Speaker 1: just invite a lot of energy and you invite someone
Speaker 1: to send it to them and say, oh, when did
Speaker 1: you start doing this? Or I don't know, fake pages,
Speaker 1: just weird shit. I just the private shit is really real.
Speaker 1: The more that you keep things private, the more peaceful
Speaker 1: your relationship is. But I also know, on the contrary,
Speaker 1: a lot of people like to share their partner publicly
Speaker 1: because they feel like they're claimed, right, Like a lot
Speaker 1: of my homegirls have said they feel way better when
Speaker 1: their man posts them, and I'm just like, but he'll
Speaker 1: still fucking rely bisuck he wants to. I really believe that.
Speaker 3: What about you?
Speaker 1: Have you ever like posted someone.
Speaker 3: You've dated or never?
Speaker 2: I don't really post anyway like that, and I just don't.
Speaker 2: I would, but I just don't.
Speaker 1: How many months or years would you have to date
Speaker 1: before you do it.
Speaker 2: I feel like I would want to post like my wedding,
Speaker 2: That's what I would want.
Speaker 1: I'll think about that too, Yeah, which I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: to sell my wedd into fuse. You know. Actually, there's
Speaker 1: one thing I almost posted recently. So my boyfriend and
Speaker 1: my mom have a really special relationship that they've been growing.
Speaker 1: In the day that they met, they were dancing together
Speaker 1: in the living room. She started playing music and I
Speaker 1: came out of the bath and they were dancing, and
Speaker 1: then I went to his parents' house. I made food
Speaker 1: for them. Yes, I made food for a Nigerian family.
Speaker 1: I can't believe it either. I was scared and we
Speaker 1: started dancing with his mom and I was like, damn.
Speaker 1: You know when you go to someone's wedding and in
Speaker 1: the vows they talk about what the couple liked to
Speaker 1: do together. I was like, Oh, this is like a
Speaker 1: really special thing of us. So I thought about posting it,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, this is only
Speaker 1: special to me, And if I posted, I'm just showing
Speaker 1: it off. Sure, I'm sharing my happiness, but like somebody
Speaker 1: will ruin it. And no, the most they gonna get
Speaker 1: out of me right now, I'm about to be a
Speaker 1: asia for a few weeks. S'all might get a little
Speaker 1: bit of a beach, his nipper ring and one or
Speaker 1: two dreds.
Speaker 2: That's what I think I got to get. Okay, I've
Speaker 2: been dealing with the same man for fifteen years. Do
Speaker 2: I keep fucking him?
Speaker 1: What the fuck kind of context is that?
Speaker 3: Bitch?
Speaker 2: I know, I'm assuming it's like a situationship type of thing.
Speaker 1: I think situationships are an interesting thing because, like, I've
Speaker 1: been stuck in so many of them just because I
Speaker 1: thought it would eventually happen. I actually think my relationship
Speaker 1: now could have almost been a situationship. Almost Once you're
Speaker 1: wit that six months mark, it's like, am I you
Speaker 1: a bit or now? Like what's going on? Fifteen years
Speaker 1: is a long fucking time. I'm gonna guess that your
Speaker 1: mid thirties, I must say, in fifteen years, someone isn't
Speaker 1: stepping up in the way that you want. You need
Speaker 1: to look elsewhere. And in those fifteen years you've probably
Speaker 1: become so comfortable with this person that like, you don't
Speaker 1: even look anywhere else where else, You're satisfied. Your family
Speaker 1: and your friends probably know him like he's just there.
Speaker 1: But no, I think it also shows how much they're
Speaker 1: willing to take advantage of you if they haven't stepped
Speaker 1: up in fifteen years, either pitch fifteen months out of it,
Speaker 1: out of there, Sorry, no, shade, we have time for
Speaker 1: one more.
Speaker 3: Yes, this is a little bit less on the sex side.
Speaker 3: How do you manifest?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is a good one. Okay, let
Speaker 1: me pull up what Okay, people have been asking me
Speaker 1: for a long time how I manifested my partner. I'm
Speaker 1: going to give this advice. Okay, there was a high
Speaker 1: level frequency Ooh, I'm a hotap where I was trying
Speaker 1: to manifest love. I would listen to it tonight and
Speaker 1: I don't know if it said words during or whatever.
Speaker 1: It was some ten hour YouTube, right, But this is
Speaker 1: what I will say for manifestation. This is the best
Speaker 1: tip I can give. I believe that everything I want hair, nails, money, friendship, love,
Speaker 1: everything I think comes to you from the way that
Speaker 1: you talk to yourself. So for the next three days,
Speaker 1: I want all of you listening to start talking to
Speaker 1: yourself differently. Every inner conversation that you're having in your head.
Speaker 1: The second it gets bad, you need to course correct.
Speaker 1: For example, Denisha, let's just say she walks outside and
Speaker 1: so she did the bitch field down yesterday. That's right,
Speaker 1: knee to the ground. So this kind of knocks you
Speaker 1: off your game for a second, and it makes you
Speaker 1: like be like fuck, like I'm so or whatever, I'm
Speaker 1: not paying attention. Instead of shitting on yourself, the next
Speaker 1: thing you say is something like I have the ability
Speaker 1: to be more still, to be more calm, to be
Speaker 1: more patient things like that. Normally when we trip or
Speaker 1: falls because we're in a rush, it's things like that.
Speaker 1: It's course correcting that thought. And of course your mind
Speaker 1: is going to be like, ugh, you're annoyed. But that's
Speaker 1: the next thing you say to yourself. And you also
Speaker 1: need to learn how to talk to yourself in your
Speaker 1: own head. So, for example, if I was trying to
Speaker 1: get a bank loan, instead of having nervous energy while
Speaker 1: the decision is being made, I'm gonna sit there, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be quiet, and I'm going to start feeling and
Speaker 1: seeing what it's like to have that I don't know,
Speaker 1: fifty thousand dollars extra that I need to be approved,
Speaker 1: And if it doesn't happen, I'm going to be like,
Speaker 1: maybe the APR was too high at this bank, because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it everything I want I get when
Speaker 1: it comes to like, I would say love, which is
Speaker 1: what many people ask me for about manifesting. The reason
Speaker 1: I think it happened is because I already talked about
Speaker 1: what he would look like, what he would smell like,
Speaker 1: the things he would be into. I've played this video
Speaker 1: so many times to myself and to him. I was
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn in Mandy's studio two years ago, maybe three
Speaker 1: years ago, and I literally said everything about what he
Speaker 1: would be like and the kind of conversations we would have,
Speaker 1: and what people would think of him, what I would
Speaker 1: think of him, and how he would make me feel.
Speaker 1: And I got it like eight months later. But it's
Speaker 1: because I knew it was coming. I felt very deeply
Speaker 1: that this is what was meant for my life. I
Speaker 1: also will say when it comes to manifesting, you have
Speaker 1: to actually believe it. It has to be a natural thought
Speaker 1: that's coming to your head. Manifestation and affirmation are not
Speaker 1: the same thing. You cannot look in a mirror and
Speaker 1: say I am beautiful, I am worthy and think that's manifestation.
Speaker 1: It's not. That's words coming out of your mouth. Your
Speaker 1: manifestation is your thoughts. If you are not actively and
Speaker 1: strongly thinking that you're a fucking winner, that you're fucking beautiful,
Speaker 1: that you are the most beautiful person walking down the street,
Speaker 1: external internal, that people could see it, you'll literally change
Speaker 1: your posture once you start talking to yourself like that,
Speaker 1: And if you can try to course correct bad conversations
Speaker 1: with yourself for three days, I think you will see
Speaker 1: a difference already. I really will attest to this. I
Speaker 1: believe it all the time. With money, I've had so
Speaker 1: many little pitfalls that will happen, something that will cancel,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, h it, really, I understand too.
Speaker 1: It It takes privilege to say that, but I want
Speaker 1: you to know confidence is everything when it comes to
Speaker 1: manifesting what you want. So I hope all of these
Speaker 1: tips help. If you want me to do another AMA,
Speaker 1: just write Decisions Pod at gmail dot com. I'm still
Speaker 1: getting used to not saying horrible decisions at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: And we won't answer all of your you got decisions
Speaker 1: questions also on Patreon if you're a Patreon member, we
Speaker 1: use those questions as priority lists, so we won't mainly
Speaker 1: get to those first before email. So see you next Wednesday.