Speaker 1: These drivers talk. Then you know, when I get one,
Speaker 1: I do not a find. But at least I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be well rested and I'm gonna look great at my funeral.
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Calm Down Podcast, Week nine. This is
Speaker 1: what she looks like Fred nine in The Boss. My
Speaker 1: GIRLIM connect straight off of a flight from Green Bay.
Speaker 1: Where are we connecting to? Well connecting? I connected through Minneapolis,
Speaker 1: the Minneapolis. The problem is this The six fifteen flight
Speaker 1: haunted me all weekend long because you know it's a
Speaker 1: four to thirty pickup. Then here's my concern ready, and
Speaker 1: there was no need to have concern, But I like
Speaker 1: to add extra anxiety to myself. So what would you
Speaker 1: wake up is for? So I I'm up at twelve thirty,
Speaker 1: one thirty because we're a friend, We're gonna sleep. That
Speaker 1: alarm happened. The car pickup is by a young man
Speaker 1: who was great. He didn't make me feel a certain way,
Speaker 1: but because I have anxiety about how tired I am,
Speaker 1: he was telling me this is already his third trip
Speaker 1: to Appleton. So I'm thinking, are you tired? Are you caffeinated.
Speaker 1: Are you awake roads or you think about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Real psycho over here. So I'm sitting here in the
Speaker 1: backseat looking you did have an experience, though, I forgot
Speaker 1: about that guy that fell asleep. Okay, this is rooted
Speaker 1: in something that gets Okay, this is substantiated because you
Speaker 1: have had a situation where somebody fell asleep while driving you. Okay.
Speaker 1: I just don't trust people I don't know driving me.
Speaker 1: It is like, think about it. We just get in cars. Oh,
Speaker 1: I know, we've talked about it. Think somebody could have
Speaker 1: a medical condition, they could be under the influence, they
Speaker 1: could have been you know what I mean. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: Well this is where you and I are very different
Speaker 1: people because I'm just jumping in anyone's car and be next.
Speaker 1: I don't have that time. Greg and I. When Greg
Speaker 1: was on the podcast, him and I are the same way.
Speaker 1: We get off that plane and we get straight into
Speaker 1: that car, and we we don't know. When they say
Speaker 1: well such and such address, We're like this, sure have
Speaker 1: no idea If that's actually where we're going. It could
Speaker 1: be an empty warehouse and I'm going to get murdered,
Speaker 1: and I just go sure now, I even went a
Speaker 1: step further and I raised the Appleton Airport, so I
Speaker 1: knew how long I had to keep. Okay, this is
Speaker 1: crazy when you get this is me at four point
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning, when I'm getting in the car,
Speaker 1: I'm closing my eyes. I can't do that. I don't
Speaker 1: want him to close his eyes. This is what I
Speaker 1: say to the driver. I'm so sorry. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be rude, but I don't want to talk. I'm
Speaker 1: just going to go back to sleep. Is that okay?
Speaker 1: Because I don't want them to think that I'm rude.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you these drivers talk. Then you know what
Speaker 1: I get. Want I do not find. But at least
Speaker 1: I'm going to be well rested and I'm going to
Speaker 1: look great at my funeral. Okay, Because I do not
Speaker 1: want to spend the extra forty five minutes to the airport.
Speaker 1: I get excited when the airport's far away. I know
Speaker 1: it's forty five more minutes. I get to say, not me,
Speaker 1: I'm so worried about a medical condition, falling asleep at
Speaker 1: the wheel, being caffeinated. I got the ways. I'm like,
Speaker 1: make fifteen minutes. I'm so you got planned this week
Speaker 1: when do you go, like, I'm so concerned. I'm very worried.
Speaker 1: Did you ever think maybe they don't want to talk,
Speaker 1: maybe they're like starting He started talking to me. That's
Speaker 1: how I knew I was the third trip already at
Speaker 1: four thirty in the morning, so I was like, when
Speaker 1: did you start? He goes after the game last night,
Speaker 1: so I was like, wait, you've had no sleep, no sleep.
Speaker 1: So then I'm oh, god, look I'll chatting. I am
Speaker 1: probably on one of the Uber settings, like the lower rating,
Speaker 1: because all I want to do is talk. But anything
Speaker 1: before eight am, I ain't saying a word. After wrote
Speaker 1: We'll talk about any family, we'll talk about your your education,
Speaker 1: we'll talk about anything you want to, but not before
Speaker 1: eight am. No, no, nine night. Now get mad? Sometimes
Speaker 1: I think to myself, do they get mad because I
Speaker 1: am like putting my bag on the seat and then
Speaker 1: I'm using it as a pillow. Shoes off your lad
Speaker 1: the houses that have been on that seat. You go,
Speaker 1: it's not My face isn't on the seat. My head's
Speaker 1: on the bag, my own travel bag, my toe. See
Speaker 1: maybe you can do that with the backpack, you can
Speaker 1: do it with the toe. Tone I had to put
Speaker 1: the tote in a garbage bag on the field. I
Speaker 1: didn't even bring the tote out for a second half.
Speaker 1: I just said, leave the tote inside. You know, let's
Speaker 1: talk about this because my girl got herself a real
Speaker 1: Green Bay greeting. How many games have you worked in
Speaker 1: Green Bay? Two thousand right starting in the air two
Speaker 1: thousand to now, so twenty four years and two thousand games.
Speaker 1: It was a torrential downfore really as shating that you
Speaker 1: don't already know. I'm just trying to give you a
Speaker 1: minute to think about the like like rain fucking sideways,
Speaker 1: I'm doing my first hit that came seven minutes into
Speaker 1: the game. No, I'm kidding, And this is me. I
Speaker 1: told Aaron this earlier, and I'm just gonna tell it
Speaker 1: with you guys because we're all friends. I get so
Speaker 1: excited every time Aaron comes on TV. Again. I'm sitting
Speaker 1: in my little highlight desk area and i know when
Speaker 1: her game's going to come on, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: and I'm waiting, and I've got my phone up and
Speaker 1: I'm taking the video. And then when she doesn't come
Speaker 1: on right away, I'm like, what the hell is She's
Speaker 1: what's happening. And then I'm like, oh, we gotta wait
Speaker 1: for Detroit's first series and the second my little cream
Speaker 1: machine popped up on that screen, looking as cute as
Speaker 1: can be. Only Aaron can look that good in rein gear.
Speaker 1: She got the wool sweater on, She's got the cute cream,
Speaker 1: matching hat, matching boots. My girl was a monochromatic dream dream,
Speaker 1: Kurdas spouted me a mile away. Well, I want to
Speaker 1: pause this conversation, but I'm the same way with you,
Speaker 1: and I told you this today. Find me two other
Speaker 1: females that do this. You I get, you know, I
Speaker 1: got the TV going in the room, the hotel room,
Speaker 1: but I got stuff going on. I got masks, I
Speaker 1: got plucking, I've got teeth whitener. I gotta get ready,
Speaker 1: and so you guys are on. So I just bring
Speaker 1: my laptop and my YouTube TV. Not an AD, but
Speaker 1: i'd love it to be. And I'm watching you guys,
Speaker 1: and I love it so much. And then you go
Speaker 1: to commercial. I jump in the shower like I'm going
Speaker 1: to be out. Look you're in. I love you so
Speaker 1: much and here this this is going to be an
Speaker 1: Aaron and Crisa love fest. Of one another for a second.
Speaker 1: I don't think it can be overstated how wonderful it
Speaker 1: is you have a friend that not only does the
Speaker 1: exact same thing that the other one does, but also
Speaker 1: we'll take the time out to listen, because this is
Speaker 1: me at five point thirty in the morning in my
Speaker 1: dressing room before my Sunday show, I was on a
Speaker 1: three minute long voice note, just venting to Erin about
Speaker 1: a few things, you know, just work wise that you
Speaker 1: know we have. We have such high expectations for ourselves
Speaker 1: and we want everything to be perfect. So the ability
Speaker 1: that I had to vent to you and then you
Speaker 1: immediately calmed me down with response because you knew exactly
Speaker 1: what I was going through. If anyone out there has
Speaker 1: a best friend that does exactly what they do, it
Speaker 1: is a real goddamn gift because I just was able
Speaker 1: to then go out and do my job. But if
Speaker 1: I didn't have that, I probably would have called Steve
Speaker 1: and he would have been like, what, So thank you
Speaker 1: for letting me bother you on a day that you're
Speaker 1: working and getting ready for your job to bitch about mine,
Speaker 1: and just not in a negative way. I just we
Speaker 1: just really want everything to be wonderful. So thank you
Speaker 1: for being such a good friend. I love you. We
Speaker 1: care so much that it's almost to the point that
Speaker 1: it's suffocating and nauseating for it, and it frustrates us
Speaker 1: when others don't care as much as we do. So
Speaker 1: that's a problem and also a luxury. I'm the blessing
Speaker 1: occurs that, Yeah, I think that, And I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, whatever respective field you're in, if you're a lawyer,
Speaker 1: if you're I don't know, work in retail. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you were work in retail and you go
Speaker 1: into that dressing room and someone's just left all those
Speaker 1: clothes behind, and you're like, that's not that big of
Speaker 1: a deal, whatever the situation is. Yeah, I just want you, Aaron,
Speaker 1: to know how grateful I am that I convent to
Speaker 1: you about something and you always offer up a perfect solution.
Speaker 1: We got loved yesterday's weather. Hold on, we didn't finish that.
Speaker 1: I loved a weather like that because why I already well,
Speaker 1: I had really prepared and I felt good about my
Speaker 1: day in terms of like I knew the stories. I
Speaker 1: definitely wanted to hate. I'm also psycho. You probably know this.
Speaker 1: I bring laminated ye little things, and I put my
Speaker 1: health people on that because I know some people listening
Speaker 1: either are broadcasters or want to be or whatever, because
Speaker 1: I think that's an important tip and trick. So I,
Speaker 1: you know, I walk around, which I threw that out.
Speaker 1: My stupid leather thing, which I got to remind myself Morley.
Speaker 1: I got to buy a new one because it was soaked.
Speaker 1: I have like my notes, the flip chart that tells
Speaker 1: you the guy's numbers, names, where they're from, you know,
Speaker 1: because you sometimes you're like, wait, who the hell is this?
Speaker 1: What's going on? Yeah, after you're on your ninth string
Speaker 1: tackle exactly, so oh and then I have all my stories.
Speaker 1: But I knew since the weather was going to be
Speaker 1: really bad, I wasn't going to be able to flip
Speaker 1: around and look at all this. So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: how do I make this as easy as possible. Let's
Speaker 1: be honest. I'm only getting on three times a game,
Speaker 1: four if I'm lucky if it's a good day. So
Speaker 1: it was like, prioritize my really good stories that I
Speaker 1: know I'm going to do. How did you go in
Speaker 1: with a am I yelling like how many do you
Speaker 1: go in with? I? Go in. We probably ten to fifteen,
Speaker 1: but I'm a fifteen. Really, I'm going to only get
Speaker 1: three like that. Get it. I didn't know you. I
Speaker 1: don't love it, but I get it. Yeah. So I
Speaker 1: put all those on one sheet of paper and I
Speaker 1: put it inside these little laminated what are the little
Speaker 1: plastic covers? Plastic covers good? And then I put it
Speaker 1: in my little binder and so I was holding it
Speaker 1: out just like every time. I was like, hey, I
Speaker 1: want to do this update on Aiden, I want to
Speaker 1: do this on Brian Branch, I want to do this,
Speaker 1: I want to do this. So that's great. Also, another
Speaker 1: thing I thought it was so crafty with Bill Belichick
Speaker 1: in Bad Weather games is always using a pencil, So
Speaker 1: I use my pencil because what's the point of using
Speaker 1: pet It's getting everywhere as well. I was ready and
Speaker 1: I knew when rain Gear was cute. Rain's loved it,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I didn't send it to me.
Speaker 1: I paid for it, but I loved it. And yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just all the elements. It was like, you know,
Speaker 1: we really really wanted a game, unfortunately, but you know
Speaker 1: you have Dan Campbell's like flip chart or the play
Speaker 1: sheet fly or whatever. I was happy for Jared Goff.
Speaker 1: But I'm doing that first hit and keV comes down
Speaker 1: to me and talking about how it's the Lion's first
Speaker 1: outdoor game and the rain is just coming and slanted
Speaker 1: where I have my ear piece in. I took it
Speaker 1: out once there's water inside, and I'm like, am I
Speaker 1: gonna have a swimmer's ear because I'm pushing water in
Speaker 1: my ear? Actually that's not Sometimes I'd be like, Okay, relaxed,
Speaker 1: I'll be paranoid, but that one I actually get where
Speaker 1: you're like shoving it. Yeah, I thought about that even
Speaker 1: with like we clean our ears, but if you keep
Speaker 1: pushing those ear pieces in, so okay, we need to
Speaker 1: do that wax thing, I'm deaf. Yeah for sure. Well, anyways,
Speaker 1: I thought it was so fun, but we were soaking wet.
Speaker 1: And one more thing I'll shot up after this. The
Speaker 1: hotel we stay at in Green Bay has showers where
Speaker 1: you can like press the button up or down in
Speaker 1: terms of the temperature. So then it turns into a
Speaker 1: competition on our crew. And honestly, after you've been out
Speaker 1: on the field for four to five hours at Lampo,
Speaker 1: you want to just sit in a hot shower and
Speaker 1: I got to one ten. Dean Blandino said he did
Speaker 1: one fifteen, which is crazy, which is burning his skin off.
Speaker 1: I see wearing clothes in the shower because that is
Speaker 1: the only way you could withstand one hundred and fifteen degree.
Speaker 1: He I texted Aaron at one point the end of
Speaker 1: the game and I was like, how's my girl doing.
Speaker 1: She's like, just need a shower and a glass of wine.
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm but I love that you like those games,
Speaker 1: because I would be, like, to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: I don't like those games. I had little miss pre
Speaker 1: half in postgame over here. Now, I just I'm like,
Speaker 1: if it's raining, I'm like, ugh, I'd rather be inside.
Speaker 1: But good for you. I loved dressing up in the elements.
Speaker 1: I don't like dealing with the elements, but I like it.
Speaker 1: Like you know, Brady's upstairs and he's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you can just feeld the wind up here, and I'm like, shush,
Speaker 1: look down, I'm the one getting blown from the fifty
Speaker 1: yard line to the thirty yard line. There was points
Speaker 1: it was like closest to the end zone and the
Speaker 1: wind was blowing so bad. I had to put my
Speaker 1: back to the wind, but I'm like looking over my
Speaker 1: shoulder at the plate because I was like, it's just
Speaker 1: getting me in the sace. But good for I didn't
Speaker 1: need it in real time because the Fox scheduling and
Speaker 1: things didn't have your post game on, but I did
Speaker 1: see your post game with Jared Goff, and I love,
Speaker 1: I love you. You're the best at this. But like Katie, Jared, yeah,
Speaker 1: I saw it from that. Jared Goff isn't always he'll
Speaker 1: give you more sound bites than anything, and sometimes like
Speaker 1: he's not like overly animated on stuff. But I loved
Speaker 1: what he said to you about all of people like
Speaker 1: questioning if they could play in those elements because they're
Speaker 1: used to playing in a dome or whatever. But good
Speaker 1: for the Lions, man, Good for the Lions. I had
Speaker 1: a chance to sit down with Dan Campbell, if you know,
Speaker 1: is a Lions love best right now. So this is
Speaker 1: not an indictment on the other teams in the NFC,
Speaker 1: other teams in the NFL. But again, as Aaron and
Speaker 1: I have talked about, whether you for Aaron, she ends
Speaker 1: up covering a lot of Cowboys games or forty nine
Speaker 1: Ers games or whatever. When I first started, I covered
Speaker 1: all the lot of Detroit games because they were not good.
Speaker 1: I just started. So I was on like the D
Speaker 1: Crew and it was the oh and sixteen season and
Speaker 1: I probably had eight or nine of those oh and
Speaker 1: sixteen games. And after a while just watching the fan
Speaker 1: base just continue to be discouraged and like we shuck
Speaker 1: and this we just are always going to suck the
Speaker 1: same thing with the Commanders. We talked about it last
Speaker 1: week how exciting it is not only for those players,
Speaker 1: but you know, I asked Dan Campbell, like what he gets,
Speaker 1: like from the vibe of the town and he goes
Speaker 1: out to dinner, gets coffee or whatever, Like what are
Speaker 1: people saying? And it was so sweet. He was, like
Speaker 1: I get from fans like I wish my dad was
Speaker 1: still alive so he could see the success that the
Speaker 1: Lions are having as a long time a lifelong Lions fan,
Speaker 1: or you know, it's just so exciting that I get
Speaker 1: to bring my kids into a game and they're good
Speaker 1: and just like all of these different things. I think
Speaker 1: that that it can't be overstated that sports is not
Speaker 1: just about the game on Sunday, Monday or Thursday. It's
Speaker 1: like it's a family thing. It's like, you know, a
Speaker 1: community kind of a thing. I remember when the Seahawks
Speaker 1: were rolling and they were doing so good, like my
Speaker 1: nieces and nephews dressing up in you know, Seahawks colors
Speaker 1: and going to school and everyone got excited for the game.
Speaker 1: So the success of said team has a ripple effect
Speaker 1: on the community. And it's just really cool to see
Speaker 1: the Lions have success when that franchise has like been
Speaker 1: starving for something for so long. So see the best
Speaker 1: part that he said no about letting him down because
Speaker 1: I was dying. You know what was going through your
Speaker 1: head when you're like, I got him. Well, So Dan Campbell,
Speaker 1: for any of you guys that don't know, he's a
Speaker 1: very passionate, passionate person. He is. He's not bullshit. He's
Speaker 1: not bullshit he is. He is a man's man too,
Speaker 1: Like he played, he played in the league, got his
Speaker 1: coaching start from Sean Payton, and just you can feel
Speaker 1: like his unwavering like dedication to these guys as like
Speaker 1: a leader of men. The best way that I could
Speaker 1: equate it to like a general in the army, where
Speaker 1: it's like he's leading these guys into battle. That to
Speaker 1: sound dramatic, but like he will like risk his life
Speaker 1: for them, like he will do anything for them, and
Speaker 1: he's just so dedicated to turning this franchise around, and
Speaker 1: like his commitment to these players. Anyways, So I had
Speaker 1: mentioned something about Jared Goff, who, by the way, in
Speaker 1: his own story of like feeling like he got good
Speaker 1: for you, Jared thrown to the curb, you know, and
Speaker 1: I know it's a business, didn't take shit about it.
Speaker 1: We all have egos, Okay, we all have egos. And
Speaker 1: when you've been removed from, you know, a job because
Speaker 1: you didn't have, you know, the said success that you're this,
Speaker 1: you know, success that you were supposed to have in
Speaker 1: that certain position, and you get another opportunity to show that, No,
Speaker 1: I am a good quarterback or I am good at
Speaker 1: whatever the respected uh respective, whatever whatever the job is.
Speaker 1: I just love second chances and I love redemption stories.
Speaker 1: So in this particular case, I said to him, I
Speaker 1: was like, Jared Goff said, you're the best leader that
Speaker 1: he's ever known. And it got to Dan Campbell and
Speaker 1: he got emotional about it because you can tell how
Speaker 1: much he cares. And I just really like that. And
Speaker 1: I remember leaving that interview and being like, how do
Speaker 1: you not want to play for a guy like that?
Speaker 1: It just it's and he said, I don't want to
Speaker 1: let them down. Yeah, oh yeah. So can you imagine
Speaker 1: him on the trophy stand at absolutely? Super Bowl? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: And that's the thing where it's like, I just, you know,
Speaker 1: I root for people same. I just it's I love
Speaker 1: all of the underlying stories, not even underline. It could
Speaker 1: be overt storylines in the NFL, and we've talked about
Speaker 1: it at nauseum. These are people who have families, and
Speaker 1: so it's like you see the lows, and then it's
Speaker 1: also fun to celebrate. They said on the podcast he
Speaker 1: was thinking about taking his life. He was close to
Speaker 1: taking his life because of his rookie year in Chicago
Speaker 1: and people were crazy on him about fantasy stats and
Speaker 1: he was so close to doing it. And look at
Speaker 1: him now, like he's beloved, praised in Detroit. Second chances.
Speaker 1: Sports are great. Sports are so great, the ultimate unifier.
Speaker 1: This podcast is going to come out on Thursday, and
Speaker 1: I know that obviously in the political landscape, and we
Speaker 1: don't talk politics on this show. We are entertainment and
Speaker 1: and fun in sports. But I would just say sports
Speaker 1: is the ultimate unifier, and that's what I love about
Speaker 1: it is because it leads people together and it's like,
Speaker 1: so yeah, it's just great in so many different ways. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that was week. Where are you this week? You're
Speaker 1: in Tampa. If I have a rain game, I'm out.
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, what, is it supposed to ring
Speaker 1: down to Aaron on the field? No, Kevin, I'm not
Speaker 1: on the field. I'm in the booth with you. Enough
Speaker 1: of this. I'm not wait time out. It's not supposed
Speaker 1: to rain, is it? It always rains? I know you're right,
Speaker 1: You're right. I'm done. Seattle, great, I get it if
Speaker 1: I you know, no, Nope, nope, nope. Okay, so good
Speaker 1: luck when that's Dome game? Do I know when you're
Speaker 1: going to be back in the Dome. I'm heading to Baltimore,
Speaker 1: which I'm really excited. A hotel Baltimore in the primetime game,
Speaker 1: like great atmosphere and a great divisional game against the Bengals.
Speaker 1: The Bengals are so interesting. They always start off slow
Speaker 1: and then they've rattled off a bunch of wins. So
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope it's like we always do. But
Speaker 1: divisional games are close in these two teams historically always
Speaker 1: play each other very hard, so I'm looking forward to
Speaker 1: that game again. We'd also don't get a lot of
Speaker 1: AFC games in uh the Fox so excited about that matchup.
Speaker 1: Wait till you see Dereck Henry run in his purple.
Speaker 1: It's just think about trying to stand in front of
Speaker 1: our freight train. I don't know how he's diet eat fascinating.
Speaker 1: I don't understand how he goes all day and doesn't
Speaker 1: eat for someone that sides like, Okay, this is what
Speaker 1: I don't understand about nutrition, and I need to talk
Speaker 1: to a nutrition is because this idea. I thought you're
Speaker 1: supposed to feed your body to have energy. And then
Speaker 1: it's like this intermittent fasting that he does where it's
Speaker 1: like he doesn't eat all day and I know like
Speaker 1: a lot of people do that, but you're also not
Speaker 1: Dereck Henry. So it's like, how does he sustain or
Speaker 1: have any kind of energy. It's just like, yeah, reserve.
Speaker 1: I don't know. These are questions I don't have answers to. Okay,
Speaker 1: a lot of randomness. I'm only what what do we have?
Speaker 1: I have to full disclosure. Aaron, Kurt and Ryan are
Speaker 1: being very accommodating. I have thirteen minutes. This is how
Speaker 1: our lives work before I have to go get my
Speaker 1: hair done because this is the only appointment I could
Speaker 1: get because I had to reschedule it so we could
Speaker 1: do rapid fire. Rapid firefireleffix. Our list of things that
Speaker 1: we wanted to talk about, which will be rapid fire
Speaker 1: today is okay. My list started with, Uh, you're not
Speaker 1: getting rapid enough. I know, sorry, but you said this
Speaker 1: is yours. Bad posture ruins a good outfit. What's that not? Flat? Well?
Speaker 1: I just saw it on Instagram. I thought it was
Speaker 1: a phenomenal thing and great for me to remember even
Speaker 1: when it's raining on the sidelines. There was a quote.
Speaker 1: It was from like a chiropractor. Bad posture ruins a
Speaker 1: good outfit, and they showed all these celebrities in great
Speaker 1: outfits with bad postures. She was like, shit, yeah right,
Speaker 1: I know it's so true. I noticed that actually, even
Speaker 1: in a picture that I had just posted because we
Speaker 1: love Sarah Foster and her and her sister's band, Aaron's
Speaker 1: brand favorite daughter, like I was a little sloud. She
Speaker 1: in a gray jacket and you're right, just put those
Speaker 1: shoulders back. How are you doing on that comfy brace?
Speaker 1: I need to wear mine? I need I need to
Speaker 1: revisit it. Yeah, Aaron introduced me to something. It's like
Speaker 1: basically like backpackstraps and it pulls your shoulders back. I
Speaker 1: need to wear I wear is mine now that I
Speaker 1: think about it, But no, don't disagree. Yeah that's okay. Traveling.
Speaker 1: I had this today. You know, it's it's difficult to
Speaker 1: get on a six am flight. You feel so accomplished
Speaker 1: when you do. You're sitting down ready to go. I
Speaker 1: think everybody tries to have the same thing. Let's close
Speaker 1: our eyes. I had the two people diagonal laughing it up,
Speaker 1: cackling it up, talking so loud. Everybody is sleeping enough enough,
Speaker 1: zip it up, close your eyes and take a second.
Speaker 1: And also pull that freaking window shade down. Okay, we
Speaker 1: don't need to be looking out the window right now
Speaker 1: on a six am flight. It's all right. Hard, It's
Speaker 1: not hard, I know. And then inevitably we turn into
Speaker 1: the assholes. If you're like, hey, can you pull your shades? Like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the view. You're like, there's nothing out there. Okay,
Speaker 1: what are we doing? And then my gal, who was
Speaker 1: you know, diagonal, cackling it up with the guy next her.
Speaker 1: I could repeat half the shit they said because I
Speaker 1: was hearing it as I was falling in and out
Speaker 1: of sleep. She looked over at the lady across the
Speaker 1: aisleand and goes, did you get a nice nap? And
Speaker 1: I wanted to say no, none of us did, because
Speaker 1: you didn't shut up. Here's my thing. Get out about
Speaker 1: a six am flight. We know, Look, you're lucky if
Speaker 1: you for me, if I'm even making that flight, okay,
Speaker 1: because it's like we're paranoid about the alarm, we finally
Speaker 1: get there. Aaron's worried about the driver. Okay, I'm working
Speaker 1: in the extra twenty minutes of sleep because I love
Speaker 1: a twenty minutes sleep on the way to the airport. Anyways,
Speaker 1: if you listen to the pregame, all that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Aaron can't trust her driver. She's too afraid something's going
Speaker 1: to happen. I was taking a six am flight the
Speaker 1: other day. Where was I going? Where was my Detroit? No?
Speaker 1: I was taking it too, Oh, I was taking it
Speaker 1: to New York, which I get real excited about the
Speaker 1: LA to New York. And remember I used to live
Speaker 1: in New York, so I would do that like every
Speaker 1: other week. I love me a six am, a Delta
Speaker 1: Live flat. I know I'm going to get that off
Speaker 1: of champagne or orange juice, which I'm not taking at
Speaker 1: a six am plight. I just like that it might
Speaker 1: be an option because every now judging you if you
Speaker 1: do and helps you go oh no, no no. By the way,
Speaker 1: I'm not judging either, but like in this particular case,
Speaker 1: I just like that. I was like, Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be on that six am. I'm great. We're going through
Speaker 1: the new Delta one lounge. Everything's going great, but you're
Speaker 1: there's no fucking way I'm putting on makeup when we're
Speaker 1: going to it's a moisturizer. It is maybe a hat,
Speaker 1: and it's like sweats. This girl gets out of the elevator, okay,
Speaker 1: Delta one, Delta uh, just the just the elevator to
Speaker 1: go out to the terminal. She has her hair is
Speaker 1: blown out, full makeup, full outfit, like perfume. You both thin,
Speaker 1: And I was like this, like, you're lucky I even
Speaker 1: got to the airport. What time did you wake. I
Speaker 1: almost stopped her. I wanted to be like, what time
Speaker 1: did you wake up to do all this? She didn't
Speaker 1: look like a girl that wanted to be asked that question,
Speaker 1: like what where are you going right now? And the
Speaker 1: only excuse that you have for this much effort that
Speaker 1: early is that the second you get off the plane
Speaker 1: you got to go to work or do an interview
Speaker 1: or something. But that's the five hours sitting. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: my thing is like, just do it on the plane
Speaker 1: and then you got another hour and a half in
Speaker 1: the car once you land in New York. I mean,
Speaker 1: unless you're working like LaGuardia or JFK, you're fucked. I
Speaker 1: didn't know in that traffic mad or impressed. I was like,
Speaker 1: what's happening here? So anyone that puts forth that much
Speaker 1: effort on the six am flight is not a friend
Speaker 1: of mine, and I don't know what we are doing. Hey,
Speaker 1: I've been getting a lot of questions. That's an exaggeration.
Speaker 1: I've been getting a few questions. Chillian's dream got let down.
Speaker 1: I'm let down what we've developments in it? So many
Speaker 1: people have asked your husband's asked me so many poles. Well,
Speaker 1: that was one of the three people Ryan, Ryan, can
Speaker 1: you step in here real quick, I'm going to put
Speaker 1: you on this spot. Hi Ryan, Ryan, And that's a
Speaker 1: friend of the show knows this is one of our
Speaker 1: two wonderful producers, Ryan. What do we got?
Speaker 2: Okay? So, yes, we had so many people reaching out
Speaker 2: on the DMS literally offering their help to try and
Speaker 2: track this guy down.
Speaker 1: Sweet.
Speaker 2: So I did a group message on our ig account
Speaker 2: with Kylie and Jillian to see if there's any more
Speaker 2: details behind the scenes. Come to find out, Kylie goes, well, yeah,
Speaker 2: we know he was staying at this hotel because he
Speaker 2: asked us if we were only going to be there
Speaker 2: for one night?
Speaker 1: Got I go details, both of you?
Speaker 2: Wait you talked to this guy? Well yeah, it was
Speaker 2: kind of just a passing comment because when we got
Speaker 2: out of the elevator, he asked us if we were
Speaker 2: staying the night because we were only carrying our makeup bags.
Speaker 2: I go, wait a second, he talked to you. These
Speaker 2: are major details the development.
Speaker 1: Also, if he's inquiring if you're only going to be
Speaker 1: there one night, the first thing I think of is
Speaker 1: he wants to know if you're going to be around
Speaker 1: because now he's interested a one hundred and you're a guy,
Speaker 1: you're not going to ask. You are happily married, but
Speaker 1: in your single list, you're not going to ask a woman,
Speaker 1: are you here for only one night? If you're not interested?
Speaker 2: But I'm not talking to I'm not talking to any
Speaker 2: women or regarding where they're staying or how long they're
Speaker 2: staying in an area with my parents in the elevator
Speaker 2: unless I am dead set on I have got to
Speaker 2: engage with these.
Speaker 1: Bottom line, I'm not doing this anymore. I feel like
Speaker 1: I've really tried to put my life out there for
Speaker 1: her and these and we're not getting. We're not getting.
Speaker 1: It's it's a one same amount of effort in return. Okay, Jillian,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to give up on you yet, but
Speaker 1: I just need I'm going to in this this relay race.
Speaker 1: Aaron has ran the first leg. I'm going to take
Speaker 1: the second leg. So if she wants the baton, I
Speaker 1: don't think she wants to find him, because I said,
Speaker 1: do you do you want us to continue this? All right? Well,
Speaker 1: then I'd like to open this up for the listeners.
Speaker 1: Anyone out there that wants to find love that you
Speaker 1: know in finding a man that they might have met,
Speaker 1: and it was very overt that he wanted to find
Speaker 1: him continued to talk to them in an elevator or anywhere.
Speaker 1: Then we will take our matchmaking skills somewhere else. And
Speaker 1: I'm I have still not given up. I know we
Speaker 1: can't do during the football season because I can't even
Speaker 1: do a thirty minute podcast, but I want to make
Speaker 1: sure that we do our Love Connection show or singles, mingles,
Speaker 1: whatever it is.
Speaker 2: I love love people, people love love, the calm down
Speaker 2: listeners love love because there are like I don't even
Speaker 2: live in Washington, but I want to try and by
Speaker 2: this guy, so people. People were trying to make it
Speaker 2: happen for sure, guys, we wanted people willing to risk
Speaker 2: way too much.
Speaker 1: Actually where I like, let's make sure we don't. It's
Speaker 1: really funny. Ryan, Oh, Ryan, thanks for dealing with all
Speaker 1: of that. Sorry it's gone the wayside, but I mean
Speaker 1: so good. How did you feel about saying to the wayside?
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I used it correctly, even
Speaker 1: know what the expression is, gone by the wayside, by
Speaker 1: the wayside, I think that's right. I heard, Is that right?
Speaker 1: I said in the wayside? I mean that's why my
Speaker 1: kids are fifteen seconds long, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And I don't get that when fifteen at last. So
Speaker 1: if that one doesn't work, we'll get the next one.
Speaker 1: Don't worry about it. Oh shit, all right, Okay, one thing,
Speaker 1: I know, you have two minutes on before you have
Speaker 1: to leave. I am having a really hard time with
Speaker 1: the do not disturb settings on my phone. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: why do I give me your reason? Okay, our reasons
Speaker 1: are very different. I'm going to go through it right now.
Speaker 1: I like to put my phone on sleep or do
Speaker 1: not disturb when I'm trying to go to sleep before
Speaker 1: a big game or before a game, and there's the
Speaker 1: setting you can put on. I'm going to go to
Speaker 1: it right now. And it says people allowed to kind
Speaker 1: of like what's the word, I don't know what you're
Speaker 1: trying to say. They will, Actually, you're even if you
Speaker 1: have your app on silent, like I would always put
Speaker 1: Jared or I put my mom and dad. So if
Speaker 1: like my great Ryan just stay on, you will do that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But the problem is you can also do that with apps.
Speaker 1: I have tried different ways to take it off, and
Speaker 1: I can't. And I'm getting texts at two am when
Speaker 1: I like can't get back to sleep. I don't know
Speaker 1: how to set this right, exactly. I have a full
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not going to help you at all. Then,
Speaker 1: because I didn't know that you could exclude a few
Speaker 1: people from the do not disturb list. Let me ask
Speaker 1: you this, Ryan, if I have allowed notifications, noticatifications from
Speaker 1: selected people and apps will be allowed. I have none
Speaker 1: on my people and none on my apps. So does
Speaker 1: that mean I shouldn't be getting anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's my understanding. Generally, I'm had to
Speaker 2: do not the works.
Speaker 1: I'm still getting disturbed. I would say, let's go to
Speaker 1: the genius bar, but there's nothing fast and efficient about that.
Speaker 1: These we have an appointment in two months exactly, mean exactly.
Speaker 1: I can barely get to a hair appointment. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't have time to do an appointment. Here's my
Speaker 1: issue with the do not disturb. People are taking a
Speaker 1: lot of liberties with the do not disturb. So I
Speaker 1: was late to this whole idea of that. Anyways, Aaron,
Speaker 1: you were one of the first friends that I had
Speaker 1: that initiated this like at night, Well, I just never
Speaker 1: like I wasn't something. I'm only six months into the
Speaker 1: do not disturb. Oh, world, world. I don't like when
Speaker 1: I get do not disturb from you right well, so
Speaker 1: now I'm getting I'm gonna call him out. Andrew Whitworth
Speaker 1: has it on all day. Oh you're telling me all day,
Speaker 1: I can't disturb you. You're busy all day. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: It's like a false busy because then he'll write back
Speaker 1: right away and I'm like, well, what's the point of
Speaker 1: having the do not disturb on? Because, as we know,
Speaker 1: to get his notifications if it's on do not disturb, Well,
Speaker 1: this is my thing. So it's like, are you opening
Speaker 1: up your phone that many times where like you're seeing
Speaker 1: text because I don't know. I just feel like people
Speaker 1: and not just him. I'm seeing a lot more frequency
Speaker 1: with the do not disturb in the middle of the
Speaker 1: day and unless it's like you're taking care of the
Speaker 1: baby or you're doing whatever, and it's like you can't
Speaker 1: be bothered. I need people to be available in the
Speaker 1: middle of the day at three am. I get it,
Speaker 1: you don't want to be bothered, but it's noon. Relax.
Speaker 1: Getting real cocky with the do not disturbs. This is
Speaker 1: such a Larry David curb your enthusiasms mind, you'll kind
Speaker 1: of fit. It's like I go, but there, I have
Speaker 1: it on. Do not disturb, But if you want to disturb,
Speaker 1: and I'll allow you to disturb. I want to see
Speaker 1: who's disturbing exactly, and then there's exceptions to the disturbing.
Speaker 1: This conversation is disturbing. It really is. So there's that
Speaker 1: bottom line. If anyone wants to find love, you are
Speaker 1: not disturbing us. We would like to find that for you.
Speaker 1: Because Jillian's not invested and I'm done. We only want
Speaker 1: clients that really want to find, really in it to
Speaker 1: win it. I love you guys. Thank you for adjusting
Speaker 1: your schedules and being open for a thirty minute podcast.
Speaker 1: I love each of you guys so much. Thank you
Speaker 1: for listening. On next week's show, I'm going to give
Speaker 1: you a lot. I have a lot of things i'd
Speaker 1: like to continue to talk about. Buffets at the Delta Lounge,
Speaker 1: Yelp reviews, flashlights on your phone, people sneaking a pick
Speaker 1: and then the flashlight comes on. Lots of things I
Speaker 1: don't want to discuss, So put your shoulders back and
Speaker 1: enjoy your day and pull down that goddamn shade on
Speaker 1: the airplane at six am. I love you, guys, Go
Speaker 1: to bed, Do not disturb. Calm Down with Erin and
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