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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they tell me.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I'll

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Speaker 2: stick around. I was thinking about going home, but I

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Speaker 2: think I'll stick around. I think it's a good idea.

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Speaker 2: I like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 3: Caylin go, thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like I'm typically someone who can kind

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Speaker 4: of usually take myself outside of my own perspective and

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Speaker 4: see other people's perspective. But there's like one thing that

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Speaker 4: I really just can't comprehend that people don't feel the

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Speaker 3: And if you have.

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Speaker 4: Allergies or like a dramatic story, please don't at me.

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Speaker 3: That's not what this is about.

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Speaker 4: But and people have called us out, specifically Fred, like

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Speaker 4: the way in which we love animals is a little

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Speaker 4: bit more probably than others, specifically dogs like I will

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Speaker 4: I'll put my face up to like a barn animal's face.

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Speaker 3: Will Yeah, Like I'm a sick Oh, I get it, because.

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Speaker 1: I don't think any of them are going to.

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Speaker 3: Hurt me, right, Why would they?

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Speaker 1: They wouldn't because they.

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Speaker 3: Feel us exactly, they know us.

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Speaker 2: As you know, Calin. I believe that I can reason

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Speaker 2: with the wild animal. And this is not a joke,

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Speaker 2: This is not a bit, this is not a gimmick.

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Speaker 2: Like I firmly believe that in the wild, if I

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Speaker 3: I feel the same.

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Speaker 2: I genuinely believe that if I were walking down some

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Speaker 2: Like I'm totally good, showing pictures on my phone and

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Speaker 2: I mentioned before with a jaguar, I just like saying jaguar.

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Speaker 2: By the way, it's not how you do yeah, anyway,

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Speaker 4: So I've always loved animals, and we love dogs specifically.

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Speaker 3: And while I have had dogs.

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Speaker 4: In the past, like family dogs, I you know, have

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Speaker 3: This is weird energy.

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Speaker 4: Another thing that I've noticed is like I always ask

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Speaker 3: To ask if I could bring a dog to your house?

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Speaker 5: First, I am a dog owner, I am a dog mom.

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Speaker 5: This is Lexus world, in my opinion. So when we

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Speaker 2: Well to some extent, I use that by the way,

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Speaker 1: It before too. Well you think of it. The dogs

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Speaker 2: No, that's not what I said, but I treat we've

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Speaker 1: Of course, Like I get it.

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Speaker 2: If it's a person eating or a dog eating, well,

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Speaker 2: That being said, I don't think people are going to

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Speaker 3: Well, I've gotten it.

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Speaker 4: Three times and I've taken it well. I'd secretly judge

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, they can be afraid, but ask for

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Speaker 4: And one of my friends, you know, she has let

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Speaker 3: And I said, okay, that's fine, and.

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Speaker 2: But because like we've had you know, we have dogs

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Speaker 1: And so there's just so many variables.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and so I think my mom, who loves animals

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Speaker 2: over and it's like no, it's deflating. It is deflating.

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Speaker 2: And you've admitted that you would judge the person and

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Speaker 1: Hey, Elene, Hey, what's that?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Elaine? What do you think about this? Do you think?

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Speaker 1: Do you think you have a dog?

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Speaker 2: Do you think that if you want to take the

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Speaker 2: bring the dog? Is that fair to the people that

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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: No, I don't think she'd say a hole? But I

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Speaker 6: But if someone called me and was like, hey, Alene,

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, I think it just puts people on

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Speaker 2: a spot that you don't necessarily need to put them in.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Because it's like her toys.

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Speaker 6: She doesn't want anybody to play with her toys, so

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Speaker 3: Them all up and put them all away.

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Speaker 7: And then it's like, oh, yeah, okay, oh no, my

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Speaker 7: They like for there dogs, but she wants them to

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Speaker 2: And also dogs in a dog park are different than

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Speaker 2: even know if it's about And thank you Elaine, by

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Speaker 2: the way, I appreciate you calling. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even sure if it's about. Certainly, if they

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Speaker 2: if they don't have dogs, it's kind of like I

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Speaker 2: don't know, Like I don't think a person. I don't

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Speaker 2: don't want another dog in their house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that.

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Speaker 3: Interesting, Yeah, I don't know if I do.

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Speaker 1: You're not a bed yeah, you're not a bed nur.

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Speaker 3: Also, I know my dog like I would love Willy

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Speaker 3: to come over. Now Benzo the tank is I'm not

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Speaker 4: The issue is there's another dog, I have the utmost respect.

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Speaker 4: I just would love if you guys would go, Can

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Speaker 4: I bring Benzo? Can I bring Lucks? Can I bring

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Speaker 4: them over? That would be the best day of my life.

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Speaker 4: But I love it, I get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just tend to to I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: tend not to ask questions like that because that's maybe

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Speaker 2: that's wrong on me, but it's just like that way,

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Speaker 2: I'm not putting anybody in a spot where they have

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Speaker 2: to say something that is within their comfort level and

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Speaker 2: their right, but then also would cause maybe you to

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Speaker 2: think differently about me, right, And I love dogs, love

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Speaker 2: you guys.

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Speaker 1: See, this is what I mean judgment