1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: This this year, guys Morality Monday on a Friday. The 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: scenario is this woman who you're about to hear, says 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: that her daughter was invited to Disneyland for an entire 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: week by her dad's side of the family, but her 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: other kids, who he is not responsible for, the kid's 6 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: step siblings, I guess, were not invited. So this woman says, 7 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: the original kid can't go. 8 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 2: I am the mother whose daughter was invited to Disneyland 9 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: by her dad's side of the family, and I am 10 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 2: not allowing her to go unless the rest of the 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,959 Speaker 2: kids are invited. I have six kids in total, so 12 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 2: she has five sisters and brothers ranging from fifteen to one. 13 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 2: I am not going to allow one child to go 14 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 2: to Disneyland. Every kid's dream is Disneyland. How what did 15 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: you feel as a child if you hit sisters and 16 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: brothers and one of your sisters was invited to Disneyland. 17 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: You were watching them pack, You are watching them shop, 18 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: you know. 19 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,199 Speaker 3: For clothes for the trip. 20 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,639 Speaker 2: You were watching her leave for Disneyland with her Mickey 21 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: Mouse ears. 22 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: Well, first of all, you get the Mickey Mouse ears 23 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: at Disneyland. You're not gonna wear the Mickey Mouse ears 24 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: too Disneyland, so let you make the money, like, let's 25 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: keep for First of all, she didn't have the Mickey 26 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: Mouse ears yet. Second of all, and I want to 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: know eight five to five, five, nine one one three 28 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: five you can call them texta the same number. But guys, 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous, Like you're telling me that if I 30 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: have a child with a woman and then we break 31 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: up and she moves on and does whatever, that I 32 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: can't do. I can't take my kid on a vacation 33 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: because she has step siblings. I mean, I guess in 34 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: a perfect world, everybody loves everybody and it's you know, 35 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: but what interaction do I have with my ex's kids? 36 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: Probably not much, if any. And yeah, I guess in 37 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: a perfect world everybody goes to Disneyland and the whole 38 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: family and maybe I don't know, but I hate to 39 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: sound insensitive, I really do. But if it's my child 40 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: and my ex moves on and has more kids and 41 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 1: as a family with somebody else, I'm not responsible for 42 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: that family. I'm responsible for my family. I'm responsible for 43 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: my kid. So if I want to take my kid 44 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: to Disneyland during my visitation time, then I think I 45 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,399 Speaker 1: should be able to do that, and I don't think 46 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: that the other person should be able to say my 47 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: ex in this case hypothetically should be able to say 48 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: no because her kids can't go. I mean that that's 49 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: not fair to my kid. It's also not my responsibility 50 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: to take all of them too. That's assuming I even 51 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: really do anything with those kids. 52 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're not wrong at all, because on top of 53 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 4: that too, Disney is expensive. Yes, like I understand, like 54 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 4: that's not the point of this, but when you think 55 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 4: about it, all, Okay, so let's take all six kids 56 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 4: and five are not mine. I mean, if you can, 57 00:02:58,639 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 4: if you got it like that you. 58 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 3: Wanted to in them. I think he would. 59 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 4: I don't This man doesn't seem I don't know him, 60 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 4: but he doesn't seem like a terrible father. 61 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: He wants to take his kid to Disney, like. 62 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 4: I'm sure like if he wanted to or he I 63 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 4: don't know, had the funds, but like, you can't expect 64 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: all the rest of the kids to go somewhere, you 65 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 4: know what I'm. 66 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 3: Saying, or not that that's not dad. 67 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm so torn with this one. Yeah, I am 68 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 5: really because I feel I feel for the other kids. 69 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 5: Of course, and that they you know, she's right about 70 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 5: you know, them watching their sibling go and make those 71 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 5: memories without them. And I understand that happens when you 72 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 5: have a blended family. I wish so I wouldn't take 73 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 5: the stance of she can she can't go, but I 74 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 5: would make an effort to make sure that I can 75 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 5: create a trip for all of my kids to go. 76 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: So you know, you can go with your dad this time. 77 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 5: But I would be telling my kids like, hey, mommy's 78 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 5: saving up and I'm going to take all of you. 79 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 5: You know, but right now her dad wants to spend 80 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 5: time with her and allow her to go do that 81 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 5: because she doesn't deserve to be robbed of that experience 82 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 5: with her father. But I do understand the mother wanting 83 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 5: to protect the other keyids and there in their feelings 84 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 5: towards their siblings. 85 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 6: Right in the end, the peace of the home, right, Yeah, 86 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 6: you know, those other siblings might end up resenting her 87 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 6: because she got to do all this fun stuff. And 88 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 6: again it's not the dad's fault at all, like he 89 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 6: should be able to do what he wants. 90 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, I wouldn't do an no. 91 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 6: I would be like, okay, well then how do I 92 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 6: make it up to maybe that's a blended family. 93 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 3: Excuse me, that's what a blended family is. 94 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 4: You know, there's things where you sit out on things 95 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 4: that you get to go to. You know, like I 96 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 4: come from one, right, My sister and I have different fathers, 97 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 4: but I've never felt robbed because that was her dad. 98 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I just I think that that's that's 99 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 1: that's kind of up to the mom to deal with 100 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: to figure out how to how to do that with 101 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: the kids that she's had. I mean, I feel like 102 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: that's probably also something that she should have considered along 103 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: the way, because because that dad has a right to 104 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 1: have moments with his child, and I don't think those 105 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: should be thwarted because because he doesn't want to take 106 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: five other children. Yeah, And I also think it's kind 107 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: of a lesson, right, Like you know, you say to 108 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: the other kids, like, well, not everybody gets to do 109 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: everything all the time. And maybe you don't say it 110 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: like that, but I mean, she has a different dad. 111 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that she's not you know, part of 112 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: the family, but I mean it also means that she's 113 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: allowed to have I mean, what is the dad not 114 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: allowed to give her Christmas presents, right, is the dad 115 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: not allowed to give her birthday presents? Is? I mean, 116 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think this is a mom problem, 117 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: and unfortunately it is as as someone who also is 118 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: you know, my parents got divorced and and and I 119 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:29,559 Speaker 1: had to go visit with my dad for a while, 120 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: and he, you know, he he married another woman and 121 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 1: then she had kids, and it was all you know, 122 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: when we were together, it was all about making it equal, 123 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: which was really annoying by the way, because I'm like, Dad, 124 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm your kid, like my Amanda, and I like, you're 125 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 1: supposed to take care of us, Like I don't care 126 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: about these kids. Wow, be equal? You know why time 127 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: about equal. I didn't sign up for this, Like you're 128 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: the one that married the lady. I didn't marry a lady. 129 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: You know, these are your kids, So that there's that. Yeah, 130 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: And I understand what Jason was saying about creating a device, 131 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I don't think that means 132 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: that he or anyone doesn't get to do the thing 133 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: that they want to do for their kid, because their 134 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: job is to provide for their kid, not six kids. 135 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 5: Absolutely, no, you're right, You're right in that and I 136 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 5: grew up in a spot where like I would be 137 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 5: allowed to go on this trip with my dad. But 138 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 5: then my sister was very much like, if you bring 139 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 5: something home, like say, he drops me off with McDonald's 140 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 5: at home at her house with all the other kids, 141 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 5: I think you, as a father, you should buy McDonald's for. 142 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: All the kids in the house. 143 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 5: I agree, stuff like stuff like that, but yeah, don't 144 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 5: stop her from going on the vacation. 145 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: You're right, well, I would argue, you don't have to 146 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 1: buy McDonald's for all the kids. Just don't make it 147 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: so that the kids eating the food in front of 148 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: the other ones, Like take the kid to McDonald's and 149 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: then bring the kid home, and I guess you know, 150 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: then you run the risk of the kids saying, well, 151 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: I just got to go to McDonald's. But again, you know, 152 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't see how this is much 153 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: different from going to school and the kid in your 154 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: class got to do something you didn't get to do. 155 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: It's like, I realize you're not family, but those parents 156 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: are not responsible for me just because I'm friends with 157 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: the kid and I didn't get to do the thing. 158 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, how many times in life. Do 159 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: people you know and love get to do a thing 160 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: that you don't get to do, And it's just that 161 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: sort of life, right, I mean, and I don't think 162 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: it's someone else's parents' obligation. Now, in a perfect world, 163 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: everybody get If you've ever been in a divorced situation, 164 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: then you know this is not necessarily how it This 165 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: is usually not how it goes. But in a perfect world, 166 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: everybody gets along and then maybe they the old dad 167 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: and mom and stepdad and stepmom and everybody gets together 168 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: and says, hey, you know what would be fun is 169 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: let's go to six Flags. Let's go to Disneyland, and 170 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: then they plant it together and they figure out how 171 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: to pay for it and everybody gets to go. That 172 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: is not usually how it goes, So I think you 173 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: could expect a situation more like this than that. Hey, Kristen, 174 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome, Hi, good morning, Hi. What do you 175 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: think this woman on TikTok is saying that her child 176 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: with her ex can't go to Disneyland with her ex 177 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: child's father because she has since moved on had more 178 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: kids with someone else and it wouldn't be there to 179 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: the other kids, even though the other kids are not his. 180 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's ridiculous that she is acting that way. 181 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 7: I think that the other like the one child, should 182 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 7: be able to go with her dad, And if she 183 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 7: wants the other five kids to go, like she should 184 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 7: pay for it. She shouldn't expect like her ex to 185 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 7: pay for her kids with somebody else. Like, if they're 186 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 7: going to pay for the trip for them to go, 187 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 7: then fine, they can go. But if you're not paying 188 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 7: for it, how do you expect someone else to pay 189 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 7: for your kids with somebody else to go on a 190 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,079 Speaker 7: trip to Disney which is super expensive? 191 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing, Christ And it's not like maybe 192 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: let's let's say the ex moved on, I had one 193 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: kid with someone else. Maybe we figure that out, like 194 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: one kid, but we're talking about hundreds, if not thousands 195 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: of dollars, Yeah, to take someone to Disneyland, right, do 196 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: that time? Five more? However, many more kids she said 197 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: she had. That's not tenable, that's not real. You can't, right, And. 198 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 7: You're paying for their food the whole time. They're gonna 199 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 7: want some like that's a lot of money that you're gonna. 200 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: Be Yeah, and you're robbing your kid of experiences because 201 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: you can't afford to do it with the group. But 202 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: then again, the child who's missing the experience didn't have 203 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: any say in the fact that you moved on and 204 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: had a bunch of other kids. 205 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 7: That's you think that he's robbing the other kids, but 206 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 7: like you're robbing this Like yeah, you're right, you're like 207 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 7: you're robbing the kid that he wants to take to Disney. 208 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 3: I just think it's unfair. 209 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 7: I feel like in that situation, like when the other 210 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,719 Speaker 7: daughter goes to visit the dad, do you send all 211 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 7: the other five kids with her, Like, no, you don't. 212 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 7: You just send the one daughter whose like dad. That 213 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,199 Speaker 7: is not all the other kids. 214 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: Right right, Kristen, thank you, have a good day. 215 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,559 Speaker 3: Thanks you too, Glad you call? 216 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: Uh Diane is here? 217 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 8: Hi Diane, Hi, good morning guy. 218 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: Y you can name everybody because we're half the people 219 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: are gone, so it's it's a simple conversation. Yeah, And 220 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: what did you want to say that? 221 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 8: Oh? I want to say that is not fair for 222 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,439 Speaker 8: period that what if she is doing to the one daughter, 223 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 8: If you want those other kids from your previous relationship 224 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 8: or past relationship whatever to go pay for that on 225 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 8: your own And it's not his responsibility. 226 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean I think we all agree on that. 227 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: It's it means, it means no trip because the guy's 228 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: not going to pay for six kids. I mean, I 229 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: don't know how many people can do that anyway. 230 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 8: No, that's selfish. 231 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, yeah, I agree. Hey, Diane, thanks for callin, 232 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Have a great day, you two guys. Yeah, 233 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 1: a lot of people are saying uh in the text 234 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: that they would basically do it and then justly yeah okay, fine, 235 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: oh I won't take I won't take the kid, okay fine, 236 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: and then they and then take anyway. 237 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't take my kid across the just hurt my feelings. 238 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I don't. I don't know. I mean I hope, 239 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: I hope none of you find yourself in that situation. 240 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: But I mean, it's hard enough to take care of 241 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 1: one kid. I don't know why you're obligated to take 242 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: care of a bunch of others that you didn't really 243 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: have any part in. Yeah, I don't. 244 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 3: I want to be messy for two seconds. This is 245 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 3: why you got to choose your baby daddy really. 246 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 4: Carefully, because the other five kids can go too with 247 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 4: their father. 248 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 3: How about that crazy idea. 249 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: Well, and you could make the argument that a family 250 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: of six may not be able to go to Disneyland 251 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: because he is really expensive. He talks about that before, 252 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: and that does suck. And I recognize that that, you know, 253 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 1: he's an experience that those kids may not get. But again, 254 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: if I have one kid and one responsibility, and then 255 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: that that is ultimately my priority. And I don't know 256 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,200 Speaker 1: why I'm robbing the child of experiences because I can't 257 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: take a bunch of kids. I didn't I'm not involved 258 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: with necessarily. So yeah, uh wait a minute, So I 259 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: got to take care all your kids too with another guy, 260 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 1: Like we're talking about no. 261 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 3: Girls, take them kids at the carnival. 262 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: Okay, that's extensive too. I don't know. Hey, how about 263 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: this nice public park over here, they gonna slide over. 264 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: I get you. I'll get you some Mickey ears off 265 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: Amazon and one of those things you can watch TikTok 266 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: in his shower. It'll be great. Let's do headlines the 267 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: biggest stories of the day in three minutes. After the weekend, 268 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: French