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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better, very nasty.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like

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Speaker 2: you're running in our diaries, except we say to them aloud.

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Speaker 1: Kaylin, we would discuss this out the year we did.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to remember. Oh yeah, yeah, you're right.

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Speaker 4: So you know what I was singing about my favorite

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Speaker 4: winning song, and it's My Love is Your Love?

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Speaker 3: And I got distracted.

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Speaker 1: No, that is not one that you would always hear. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a hot take.

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Speaker 3: I could listen. Yeah, I love that song.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that would be on most people's top three.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, yeah, that's true because she has the big bangers.

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Speaker 2: I think it's I think most people will go like

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Speaker 2: the classics and then maybe it's not right, but it's okay.

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Speaker 3: And the remix of that song, Oh Chef's Kiss, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, for like a newer generation anyway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, you're right, because.

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Speaker 2: There's three you get the people. Listen to the show tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: We'll do at leash an hour on this. Don't worry,

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Speaker 2: it'll be exciting. Caitlyn take it away with the blog.

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Speaker 3: Yes, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: So I saw a TikTok the other day and then

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Speaker 4: I had a conversation about this with some of my friends,

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Speaker 4: and I never really thought of this. So to test

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Speaker 4: my theory, Paulina, if I were to walk up to

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Speaker 4: and I said, are you single?

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Speaker 3: How would you answer? I feel like most girls do this.

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Speaker 1: I already know the answer.

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Speaker 5: We would first say I'm sorry, I'm not or sorry

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Speaker 3: Am I wrong one hundred percent? You're right, you're not wrong.

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Speaker 4: Or we give some sort of explanation like I'm flattered

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Speaker 4: On TikTok, you are supposed to say one word and

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Speaker 4: if you say other words, that could lead to more

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Speaker 3: Yes, right.

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Speaker 4: Really, I never thought of it because I am, you know,

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Speaker 4: I do feel bad for that, But a lot of

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Speaker 2: For first of all, don't do that. A lot of

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Speaker 2: that's condition, and it makes me sad. Yeah, you don't

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Speaker 2: Paulina to get her to stop apologizing for just asking

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Speaker 2: question around here like nuts, you don't need to do that.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to apologize for being in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I would agree though, that there there's some kindness and

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Speaker 2: Then screwed because I've seen a lot of stuff where

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Speaker 3: Done and now and it could go both ways.

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Speaker 4: So what would you guys say if someone asked if

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Speaker 2: I would say if I were were not, I would

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Speaker 6: Oh and be like, yeah, my wife's right here, even

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: If someone approached you, like downstairs at just salad, yeah, well,

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Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm sorry that I have to do this

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Speaker 4: Apparently sorry is like making people feel like, oh, like

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Speaker 2: I think if anything, it's like sorry for you. You

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Speaker 2: I don't think you have to say you're sorry. But

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Speaker 1: It's a challenge.

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Speaker 6: It's a challenge to men because they want to do

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Speaker 1: Men to be like I could, I don't care. I

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Speaker 3: You can't score yikes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Yeah, but I won't tell you.

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Speaker 2: And this is it's not great, But I know, I

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it comes back around where that person does become

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Speaker 2: People tend to have various responses to that, and I

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Speaker 1: Either way they answer that question.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't necessarily mean that I get to poach you,

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Speaker 2: but I mean, I think it's I feel like that

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Speaker 2: be like, you know, hey, are you married? Like well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's just like before, it's like sometimes that answer, that answer,

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Speaker 2: is are you giving me an ind like are you

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Speaker 2: telling me that you you don't want to be married anymore?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Are you telling me that you want me to flirt

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Speaker 1: with you? Are you?

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Speaker 2: Are you telling me without telling me that you're not

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Speaker 2: happily married or that you're out of your marriage or whatever. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think that's where it can be a little blurry

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Speaker 2: sometimes it's like, well, what are you saying to me?

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Speaker 1: That's crazy?

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Speaker 2: And and and I will say those answers are are

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Speaker 2: some wild responses to like, well, technically, like I've gotten

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Speaker 2: that one a lot. So you're married, like technically how

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Speaker 2: long you've been married? Well?

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Speaker 1: Wow? But oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Anytime it like the tone goes like that, it's like,

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Speaker 2: are you telling me that? Are you like waving the

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Speaker 2: or disengage? I don't really know?

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Speaker 4: Or yeah, we need to see a signature on divorce

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Speaker 4: papers these days.

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Speaker 5: Okay that that part, that part, yes, Yeah, that's excellent.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's excellent. What a great Uh has some

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Speaker 2: great insight? Kaylea. Thank you should be one. But you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you, Kevin Roberts. Everyone back to you,

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Speaker 2: all right. Next on the program, The Entertainment Report. I

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Speaker 2: don't know why I had a difficult time getting out

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Speaker 2: of that one, but anyway, let's push the button more.

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Speaker 1: Fredshaw Next,