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Speaker 1: The Nikki Glaser Podcast. Here's hello here I am It's

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Speaker 1: Nikki Laser Podcast. It's Tuesday. Welcome to the show. Um,

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Speaker 1: Andrew's here, Noah's here. Anya Marina is also with us

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Speaker 1: again today. She was here yesterday. She is going to

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Speaker 1: be at Rockwood Music Hall. Um, what's the date again?

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Speaker 1: What are the seven o'clock Rockwood Music Hall? Onday? Thursday night?

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Speaker 1: Thursday March mark This Thursday, March se seven pm. Um

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Speaker 1: is also St. Patty's Day that day. So if you're

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Speaker 1: in the New York City area, Rockwood Music Hall. It's

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Speaker 1: a nice little venue. It's like it's a cheap ticket

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Speaker 1: to right, Yeah, come down to stage three. I think

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Speaker 1: it's fifteen dollars if you get ahead of time, twenty

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Speaker 1: day of maybe something like that. It's an hour show.

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Speaker 1: Say hi to Anya, tell her you're a bestie. We'd

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Speaker 1: love for you to the show and support um the

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Speaker 1: people we love. And also, yeah, if you're a best

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Speaker 1: see and you come down, I will give you a

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Speaker 1: free CD. How about that? Just tell me? Okay, now

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Speaker 1: we're talking merch. Speaking of March. Our merch is up

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Speaker 1: on the in the Merch Store pod shop dot. Nicky

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Speaker 1: Glazer dot Com. We got to T shirts, we got hats.

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Speaker 1: Very excited to get my my March too that I

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Speaker 1: haven't ordered it yet. But what really fun about the

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Speaker 1: merch is that it's available to our international listeners. Oh well,

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Speaker 1: that's great news because we have a lot of those,

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Speaker 1: as we know from when we do fan fax. One

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Speaker 1: guy in India, one one girl in Romania. We've got

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Speaker 1: people in Ireland, we got people in Australia, we got

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Speaker 1: people in um, the UK. I mean it's we're global,

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Speaker 1: baby Jamaica. Remember our friend in Jamaica, Canada, tons of

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Speaker 1: best seas in Canada. We appreciate all of you so much. UM.

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Speaker 1: Today we are going to do questions for the later

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Speaker 1: part of the show while we have on you here.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to open this thing that I just got

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Speaker 1: from UM. I just got sent to me because I

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Speaker 1: ordered it and paid money for it. UM. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like how it was just like a treat. It is

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Speaker 1: called UM. I know Onya will be into this. It's

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Speaker 1: called the Flawless Face Pillow. Okay, I advertising this on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I posted about on my story, you know, a couple

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Speaker 1: of weeks ago. It's a hundred and seventy nine dollars.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the funk I was thinking, it's

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Speaker 1: so much money. I don't even it was just like

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Speaker 1: it was there was something going on. There's I don't

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Speaker 1: know what it was, but here it is just having

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Speaker 1: a moment. It is a it's a it's called wake

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Speaker 1: up flawless. This is for people who sleep on their

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Speaker 1: stomach and squish their face a lot when they sleep

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Speaker 1: in order to not have a squishy face or squished

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Speaker 1: up face, which you know that I don't even go

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Speaker 1: skydiving because and if this won't protect me from that either.

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Speaker 1: So I've just opened it. I've had this for like

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Speaker 1: a week, and I'm meant to bring it on the show.

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Speaker 1: So um yeah, I am now going to How do

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Speaker 1: you even put this on? It looks like if like

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Speaker 1: an astronaut forgot the rest of the shield. It looks

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Speaker 1: like a neck brace for someone who's going through like surgery.

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Speaker 1: So it's a silk pillow and you position it like this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Get in there. I take off my hat.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, she's putting this on. Sorry, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: be able to hear on you or on? No? All

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Speaker 1: right now, because I had to take off my Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Are you sure that's how I definitely

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Speaker 1: goes up. Oh my god, it looks like a toilet.

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Speaker 1: And then you sleep like this. Oh okay, now I

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Speaker 1: can hear you. You look like a sleep like this

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Speaker 1: commercial I And then it protects you from your face

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Speaker 1: when you like this could also be good for the

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Speaker 1: plane ladies and gentlemen. It's marshmallow after he showed his

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Speaker 1: face the DJ I'm talking about. Okay, here she goes.

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Speaker 1: But why's it different? Because because oh god, so wait

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Speaker 1: so the so the idea is that your cheeks don't

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Speaker 1: you're getting attacked. It doesn't. She's flawless. This is what

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Speaker 1: And all the you know injections that I was going

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Speaker 1: normal photos. She looks she's smiling with smiles when they sleep.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Christie, if you're sleeping on your stomach,

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Speaker 1: So do you sleep like this like a little angel

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Speaker 1: with your hands beneath your so you you keep your

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Speaker 1: How do you seriously, you must think about your face

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Speaker 1: when you sleep on? Yeah, woman, I mean just what

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Speaker 1: I have to sleep on my right side. But for

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Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, it's your house. So I guess

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Speaker 1: you do you sleep in the middle of the bed? Oh? Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: if you have it all to yourself? No? I always

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Speaker 1: to ourselves? You why? Because we have four We have

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Speaker 1: Like that's why I like an out back. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: like you could just hide inside the It's all both

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Speaker 1: back in it. Who doesn't want to eat in there?

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Speaker 1: have some news, no no, no, But over the weekend

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Speaker 1: I was watching Love Is Blind with my lover. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: just scared him. Uh, And we were watching it and

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Speaker 1: And I was like, you haven't asked me, and he's like,

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Speaker 1: I go, you know what this means? Right? And he

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Speaker 1: was like what? I was like? Responsibility like you you are? No,

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Speaker 1: He's like, so, why does that change? Were you being sarcastic? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I was being sarcastic, But there is something in me

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Speaker 1: it's just that that's the partner in love right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just kind of was. I just knew it was already there,

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Speaker 1: five and a half years, so since the last time

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Speaker 1: and new and um just you know, I met as

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Speaker 1: thinking about my future and I like, you know, what,

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Speaker 1: Um gosh, there's so many good questions. Can relationships where

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Speaker 1: What do you think. I just it depends on how

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Speaker 1: radical they are about whatever their choices. Even if it

426
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Speaker 1: was like, you know, I would say, I guess I'm

427
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Speaker 1: like left where like I don't even I hate that

428
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: in the center, but I'm just like, I'm just like,

429
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: do you here's some things that like I care about.

430
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Speaker 1: But but if you over care about anything that's like

431
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Speaker 1: outside of yourself to the point of like it's like

432
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Speaker 1: your whole personality, that's what it's more about to me.

433
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Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, I think that to me, it would

434
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Speaker 1: be tough. It'd be it'd be very tough, I think

435
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: for a relationship if if yeah, it's just two extremes,

436
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: and it depends how much it gets brought up, if

437
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: it's kind of just like, hey, you know, I can't

438
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: you know, I grew up Republican and you know, these

439
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: are some things that we care about, some values we

440
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Speaker 1: care about, you know, that's what my parents, that's how

441
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: it's raised it. But I don't really yeah, I don't.

442
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: Just I would have a tough time because to me,

443
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 1: even if you're saying I'm fiscally republican, you're greedy. You

444
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: don't you think that you think that you did something

445
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: differently than the people that don't have money, that you

446
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: I pulled myself up by my bootstraps. No, you had

447
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: advantages that some if you were in their shoes, you

448
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been able to do that you had. I

449
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: know that you worked very hard. I'm reluctant to ever say, like,

450
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: I worked hard for my career. When people are like, nicky,

451
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: you work hard from your money, you deserve this, I'm like, oh,

452
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: I got lucky. Yes I do work hard, but I

453
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: got lucky that I have a brain that even wants

454
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Speaker 1: to work hard. So anyone that goes I don't want

455
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: to support poor people who are choosing not to work

456
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: or be lazy. You don't know what they've been through

457
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 1: that's making them choose to want to be lazy, And

458
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: it's not really a choice. You would do the same

459
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 1: thing if you were them. So that's harder and I

460
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 1: have a problem with Republicans in that way of like,

461
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't want to help others,

462
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: and listen, I'm greedy in ways with my money. I

463
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: don't like give as much as I should. But I

464
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,239
Speaker 1: am open to the idea of it, and I like

465
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: paying taxes is good, and I think rich people should

466
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 1: pay more taxes. That's just my belief. And as a

467
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: person that's has more income, I'm happy to do more

468
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: because that's I have. I got lucky that I make

469
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: that much money to do that with. So that's my belief.

470
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 1: So to answer your question, no, I don't believe that

471
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: they but you know, who knows. Maybe I'm I'm too

472
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: close minded for that. Okay, next question, all right. Next

473
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: one is from Sammy Groovy. How do I stop saying

474
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: analyze instead of analyze at work? Help? Oh my god,

475
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: get a new job. I guess where you don't have it? Yeah, analyze.

476
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: It really exploded, I guess I told you. I told you.

477
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: I called it that. I think they exploded because of

478
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: the conversation around how domadus to name your special that

479
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: as opposed to like that that's a good that's a

480
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: good point. That was never my argument. I think you

481
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: keep saying analyze at work you you embrace it. It

482
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 1: sounds like your workplace is a place where that joke

483
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: can even fly even once. So letter rip scientists, right though,

484
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: like that who says analyze? Yeah? Well no, I think

485
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: people are using analyze a lot and different Yeah, like

486
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: business settings, and you could probably sneak it in and

487
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: no one, no one's gonna go did you say analyze, Like,

488
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: no one's going to call you out analysts. We're bringing

489
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: in an analyst. Um, I don't know analyzing these reports.

490
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: You're not going to say conversation cannot be helping this person. Yeah,

491
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: keep an keeping, no one's going to call you out,

492
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: and just just try to think, Um, what about um scour?

493
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: You can use that word. I'm going to what's the

494
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: word like, use a synonym? Breakdown? Yeah, go ahead and

495
00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: give it to me breakdown area sound Okay? Next question Okay,

496
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: actually this is a good one for this question by

497
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Speaker 1: Shay r Re. Shay Re. Okay, if you could produce

498
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: a tribute show to any dead musician, who would it

499
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: be and why Petty for you? Yeah? Petty like like

500
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: have a bunch of musicians like play their music. Is

501
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: that what a tribute show is. Yeah, I think so

502
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: a million percent. Tom Petty, I mean I always want

503
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: someone that I just like know the music of. It's

504
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: probably like bos Scats. I'm just kidding. I don't even

505
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: know if he's like I'll ever dead, Um, I mean Lennon,

506
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: I guess is, but I think that's been done like

507
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: a bazillion times. George Harrison, Yeah, probably that the musician

508
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: that's dead. Yeah, probbly George. Probably. I want to hear

509
00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: my sweet lord question. Did they get to play the

510
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: Beatles songs or just George's and Lenin songs? Just George's

511
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 1: and what like? They can play my wa my guitar

512
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 1: gently like, he wrote some good Beatles tunes, so they

513
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: can play those, and then then we just get into

514
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: his catalog and then we have a lot of fun.

515
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: What's your favorite Lenin song? Watching the Wheels? Jealous Guy,

516
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: Jealous Guys so good mother I got. I was in

517
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: a weird state where I would listen to that a lot,

518
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: where hit the bottle full throttle pretty much that it's

519
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: like the most bone don't it's it's fucking you know what?

520
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: I love? Oh Yoko in the middle of a dream

521
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: in the middle of a dream, I call your name.

522
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: Oh that's so good, mother, you left me. I never

523
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: left you. Oh my god. Just type in the acoustic

524
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: version of that where it's just him on a piano.

525
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: They're just not music like dad anymore, where someone is

526
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: just like fucking just raw man. I am so into

527
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: Phoebe Bridgers right now. There's a song called Kyoto with

528
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: it you know what to remind you of, like lost

529
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: in translation, but in a song form. Oh yeah, it's

530
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: about her dad. It's about her dad. Like I thought

531
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:19,959
Speaker 1: the person she was thinking about was a guy, like

532
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 1: a romantic address, But it's about her dad, and it

533
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: gives a whole new meaning to it. It's so good.

534
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: Ask you a question, yes, pretty serious. How do you

535
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: still have that ring on? And can you not get

536
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: it off? And I cannot get it because this is

537
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: an insane thing. It's still on. I a Bessie wrote

538
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: to me and said, windex is what's going to help

539
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: get it off. It was so traumatic that night I

540
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: tried to remove it that I just don't want to

541
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: do that again because once you start trying and you

542
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: kick it off, like I, get so much anxiety wrapped

543
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 1: around it. That I just I need to, like, when

544
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm ready to take it off, I need to just

545
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: like really do everything that's going to it's going to

546
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: do it, like I just I haven't been in the

547
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: right frame of mind to actually go back in and try.

548
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: I think Urgent Care could do it for you. They

549
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: have like little sauce, like little jaws of life. No,

550
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to. This ring costs a lot. I

551
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: gotta get back to Danny and Emma because it is

552
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: probably like an eight ring. I'm not even choking you.

553
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: It's worth getting it off, though, but it can get

554
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: I can get it off if I do the window

555
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: like method and need to be there for reason and

556
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: you don't get worked up because I feel like if

557
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: you're doing it alone, no, because someone else watching. Have

558
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: you like it, Like when you're choking and someone's like,

559
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: are you okay, You're just like, yes, fucking leave me alone,

560
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: you know what, You're like choking on water and someone's like,

561
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: You're like, I just need to cough a lot, And

562
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: now you're gonna keep asking me if I'm okay. Clearly

563
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm breathing. Stop asking me if I'm okay. I get

564
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: really annoyed. Any whople. Doyeah, I mean well as someone

565
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: that's afraid of choking, I'm like bringing on. Thank you

566
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: for your annoyance. I appreciate you paying attention to me.

567
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, keep going. Are you okay? And you're

568
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: just like drinking water. You're just like, yes, there's nothing

569
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: worse than when you're just quiet. You just want a

570
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: quiet day. And someone's like, why are you so quiet?

571
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh god, who so yeah, that's amazing. I love just

572
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: let's keep checking in on this ring ring. I just

573
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: have an idea that it's going to be on seven

574
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: months later. And you're does it hurt your finger at all?

575
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like it's stuck on, Like no, sometimes

576
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: my finger gets a little swollen, like if I'm sleeping

577
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: in the morning and it'll be a little tight, But

578
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: it doesn't like it's perfectly fits this part of my finger.

579
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 1: The problem is the knuckle right here. It's like perfectly fitting.

580
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: I'm so glad it's not on my ring finger, because

581
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: sometimes I do wear things on my bring I would

582
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: just look like a permanently married but with this like

583
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: kind of I love you getting nutley and it's like, no,

584
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: I had a deviated symptom, like like you're trying to

585
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: make yours. Want my knuckles to be like smaller so

586
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: I can fiss myself. Um, yeah, my fingers are all

587
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: fucked up recently. Oh god, I gotta get off. You

588
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: ever bite your ship and like two days later you're

589
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: like I have for like my ship is hurt and

590
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: right now anyways, go ahead, Okay, next question, how about

591
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: another relationship question? Yes on from Aaron? Okay, what would

592
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 1: you do if your family didn't like your partner for

593
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 1: shallow reasons? For shallow reasons? What's a shallow reason? Give

594
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 1: me one too old for you, too young for you? Uh,

595
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: you know, don't make enough money? Maybe active enough, isn't

596
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 1: tall enough, don't make enough money? Then your family is

597
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: the problem, you know, Like that's they got They got

598
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: to work on themselves like you should. That should be

599
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: a good sign that you're doing something right. That whatever

600
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 1: it is that you were raised with to judge people

601
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,479
Speaker 1: with didn't make it to you to to put put

602
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: towards this person. So I think that that is, Um,

603
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: I mean, it'd be so far if you're if you're

604
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: a Thanksgiving dinner and you're like, he really drove that car?

605
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: And you're like, so, tim um, I think we should.

606
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I have a man to talk to you

607
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: about this, like you and I like, it's just like

608
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: it's bigger than this. But it's it's like it's the

609
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 1: love is blind thing. Yeah, yeah, it really is. But

610
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: agreeing with your horrible family because maybe it's an out

611
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: for you to like, you're like, oh, yeah, I could

612
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: just say his car. Oh yeah, that's great when when

613
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: you have an out of why you want to break

614
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: up with them, when they've given you something that you

615
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: can put on it instead of the real it's like

616
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: love is blind. When the girls like, oh, it's because

617
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: you're an atheist and I'm Christian, it's like, no, it's

618
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: because he's short and the guy you really liked is

619
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: actually more attractive than him, and the other guy you're

620
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: talking to is more attractive, and now you want him

621
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: and that guy is Muslim. So I think it's a

622
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: high thing. Yeah, it's uh definitely okay. Next question, if

623
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: you had to live in a country that you've never

624
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: been to, what would it be and why So you've

625
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: never been to so it's just I want to go

626
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: to I want to live in Berlin. I thought Paris, Berlin.

627
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: Why Berlin, I don't know. I saw it unorthodox and

628
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: it just looks like a cool, accepting, beautiful place. And

629
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: I've just it seems like people speak English there. I

630
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: could like probably get around a little bit and it

631
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: just sounds it just seems cool. It just seems like

632
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: clean and beautiful and the people seem nice. But that's

633
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: from me watching a scripted TV series. A couple of

634
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 1: music students were featured in one classroom. I don't know, Yeah, Berlin,

635
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: I just kind of understantasy. It just sounds cool. It

636
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,919
Speaker 1: sounds like you're off to be in path while being

637
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: on it. Yeah, where would you live in Berlin for

638
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: like six It's just so I don't know something about it,

639
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: just um ship I would say, like in my mind,

640
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like like sid me Australia somewhere like they

641
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: speak English. So then I'm like, I also don't feel

642
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: like that you know, out of it right away. I

643
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: could kind of like pick up on things. I don't

644
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: want to try too hard there. And then Buenos Aires,

645
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: which I don't know why, it just sounds cool. Argentina.

646
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: I just heard it. Is it ras or aras fin

647
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: Now when I'm getting know, what about you? Where would

648
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: you live? I think, um, the first place that popped

649
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: into my mind was Thailand. Oh yeah, beautiful. I love

650
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 1: the food and the people are so nice and it's

651
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: just it's awesome. I've only been to Pouquet, and I

652
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: say that like a resort. But we got out and

653
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: amongst the people and it was like just it was

654
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 1: just lovely. I loved it. There's something when you're ever

655
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: asked like what country? Also, I think they asked what

656
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,919
Speaker 1: country and we both named city. I mean I was naming.

657
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: I've understand that Berlin isn't uh no, no, I know,

658
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: I know. It just hit me though now that it

659
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: was like that we named cities, but we feel like

660
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 1: we have the name cities like Thailand or like it

661
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: could just be a town somewe you know, as country

662
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: that like, oh, you just don't want to be in

663
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: a city, like I don't know, you hear that question,

664
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: you think city, you know what I mean? I pictured myself.

665
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: I know I was even thinking of like Bali or

666
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: like somewhere like exotic. That's like, but I don't want

667
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 1: to live there kind of where you could live. We

668
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: lived in Cabo for seven weeks and yeah, and I

669
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to live there. I just it's um, I

670
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: just didn't. I just didn't find my my Cayman. I

671
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: could live there. But yeah, I could totally live in

672
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,280
Speaker 1: Cayman because they it just felt more like a regular

673
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just liked it. I just knew

674
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: my way around. I don't know, I just liked it. Um.

675
00:38:54,360 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: Um your family movie, growing up, family movie movie watched

676
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: with your family. Yeah, um, I would say the Christmas

677
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: story really comes to mind of just one that we

678
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 1: always watched and Peewee's Christmas Special. It's always Christmas eve things.

679
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: I guess um mine was the National Lampoons Vacation Christmas Vacation.

680
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: My dad hated that movie, not the Christmas one. It

681
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: was the one where they went to that amusement park.

682
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was Christmas Wally World. Yeah. Yeah, oh,

683
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: I say, I know what you're talking about. Yeah. Um,

684
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: and Home Alone and Home Alone So good, so good. Yeah, yeah,

685
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 1: these are all Christmas so my list, no, just like,

686
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: not Christmas at all. But I don't remember one movie

687
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 1: watching as a family. My funked up. I just remember

688
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: seeing something about Mary with my mom and never seen

689
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: her laugh more, so I guess yes, I'll go with that. Okay, Yeah,

690
00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: that's weird. Not one time watching something altogether. It's so

691
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: weird as a kid like kids movie. I can't, I can't,

692
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: I can't picture one time of us. I'll say on

693
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: a couch. I remember I saw say on a couch

694
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: playing Jeopardy. But that's about it. Okay, that's something. I

695
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: think TV shows for me are more family thing. Seinfeld.

696
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,479
Speaker 1: I was watching Seinfeld this night. Fuck, it's so good.

697
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: Watch it with your Yeah, she was my grandma love

698
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: Seinfelt too, I mean insane obsessed. It was so funny,

699
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 1: which makes me like upset that I didn't find out

700
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: more because she probably had like atually able to get

701
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: Seinfeld is wasn't like an older woman. Yeah, totally, Okay,

702
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: let's go to break and come back with more questions

703
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: were questions, Let's get to it. Luigi stretching top one,

704
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 1: bottom one high school memories. Bottom one memory, I mean

705
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: finding out my friend fucking killed himself. It's pretty bad one.

706
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: But if we're talking about just like more on festive

707
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: like bottom memories is when I, um might my friends

708
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 1: teacher madam Hood, like was just disgusted with me. One

709
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: time when I went in for a private Like I

710
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: went in during contact period, which is like a free

711
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,760
Speaker 1: period that you could go and get help for stuff.

712
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: And I was struggling in French and I went in.

713
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: I did not know what law and law were, like

714
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 1: you know articles that like the I didn't know what

715
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: it was. And she was like, how are you even

716
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: in this class? And I was like, because I got

717
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: a bad teacher for fiddle school, like it's not my fault.

718
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: She would just hate it. She was such an evil, mean,

719
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: miserable woman. If you're out there, Madam Hood, I hope

720
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: you've gotten help. You sucked so much. No one liked you,

721
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: no one. I remember when the projector fell on you

722
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 1: one day and we were happy about I don't know,

723
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: because I'm a fucking idiot, apparently, Madam Hood. One day

724
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 1: she wrote pamal on my test. I know I talked

725
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: about this before are because it's so fucking she wrote

726
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: pama on one of my tests. And I was so

727
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: excited and it means not bad and it was the

728
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 1: nicest thing she had ever even attempted to say to me.

729
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: She was evil. She was like like you imagine a

730
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: woman at like, um, like a Nazi honestly, like you

731
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: imagine like a female Nazi and like the guards like

732
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: just cruel, cold, soulless, cruel, like just that was what

733
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: she was, like, we're seeing school ties. Uh, there's a

734
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: French teacher in that that causes a kid to go

735
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: into a mental Uh. She must have liked that. It

736
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 1: must have been her like dangerous smiles and she was

737
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: like that's would I'll be like like everything he was

738
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: breaking down and he was so good for a high

739
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: school student. He was so good and like speaking and

740
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 1: this guy was just take picking apart everything and it

741
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: drove him insane. And that's what I envisioned. She was

742
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: just the worst because it sounds pompous too while they're

743
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: making fun of you. On top of it, even saying

744
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 1: this right now, shots fired. I'm scared of her because

745
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: she was so she was so terrifying. Top moment was

746
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: no kidding. Top moment was just when huffy, Um, there

747
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: was a door that was jammed and everyone that would

748
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: you know double doors. There was one side of the

749
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: double stores that would like push open and the other

750
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: side was like locked, and people kept going for the

751
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: locked one and would like struggle with it, and then

752
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: they would go to the free one. And we were

753
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: sitting in the quad like watching people struggle with this

754
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 1: door and just like laughing because they would always struggle

755
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: with the first one and then they'd finally result to

756
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 1: going to the next one. And Huffy was like, I'm

757
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: just gonna like, I'm gonna go and do it and

758
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: just make a hute seat. I think it's the hardest

759
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: I've ever left in my life. I remember like marking

760
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: it as like the hardest I could I've ever left.

761
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: She went over the she like did. We saw her

762
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: like walk down the hallway, look like really pissed, walking

763
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: just like with so much like gumption, and then she

764
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: went up to the door. It was just like the

765
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: jand one was like what it's just like like screaming

766
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: trying to get it open. Everyone was staring, just seeing

767
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: your friend make a fool of herself in the name

768
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: of comedy and then burst through the door next to it.

769
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: I would give anything too to have a video of

770
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: that now. It was the It was the funniest thing

771
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: because she was so embarrassing. You don't like pranks, would

772
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: you consider that a prank. No, because no one, no

773
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: one's getting hurt, no one's being embarrassed except her, except her. Yes,

774
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: that's not a self prank. Is good. Yeah, when people

775
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: are confused by someone doing something weird, it doesn't bother me.

776
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 1: But if they're implicated in it, absolutely out of line,

777
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: I don't like it at all. What about you? Top one?

778
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: Bottom one? Bottom one is probably shifting my pants? Uh?

779
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: At school, have my friend Scott Woodard's house and oh yes,

780
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: I remember that, and they were just like get in

781
00:44:55,440 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: the bathroom crying naked. I was like all Moore year.

782
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: It was like a cool guy hang out. I smoked

783
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: like two hits of weed and I got like a

784
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: twenty four hour virus, so I was high with shipped

785
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: all over. I went to Shart in his bed. Or no,

786
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 1: I didn't go to Shart. I went to Fart and

787
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 1: then I shipped. I didn't even chart. It went above

788
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: shifting or charting. It was a full ship. It was

789
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: like I took out a paper and like was like

790
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: reading for a while, and then I could just hear them.

791
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: I stumbled into the bathroom. I think I handled and

792
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: gretteled this ship down the hallway and I just hear

793
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: them going, do you smell is that that ship? Dude?

794
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: That ship? And then like I hear them playing hot

795
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,839
Speaker 1: and cold with my with my reputation. Yeah, and they

796
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 1: found me all right and uh and then I guess

797
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: my top one is someone else shifting their pants. The

798
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: next week's way worse. And then everyone forgot about me

799
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: shipping my pants because this kid wiped his ass with

800
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: Scottish celts have been in the family for five years.

801
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: He left his bath he passed out in the bathroom.

802
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: He was so fucked up that he went into the

803
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 1: parents bathroom thinking it was the toilet and was in

804
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 1: the closet shipping all over the closet and wiping his ass.

805
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 1: God playing bagpipes, which was weird. And the mom comes

806
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: in and was like, what the what the And he

807
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 1: ran out and somehow he slept there didn't get caught,

808
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: And then he got caught because they found him in

809
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: the yearbook and the mom pointed mout he goes, that's,

810
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: oh my god, like a lineup. Yeah, like a lineup?

811
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: Did you ship oh my Scottish celts? Oh my god,

812
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: did you shot up my dad's skirts? I would be like,

813
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 1: your dad is skirts? Yeah, so of course I did. Yeah,

814
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: of course I did. And then she's like, oh she's

815
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: now she's embarrassing. Now it goes to her, did you

816
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: in my mom's pants? And then that guy is like, yes,

817
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: I passed it on. Oh my god. And so everyone

818
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: called it. His name was Mike Procter, which I don't

819
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: think he'd mind me saying it because he moved on,

820
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: I think. But but he he took his own life. Yeah,

821
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: he moved he's no longer with us. Yeah, he's burning

822
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: questions with Procter. Uh he uh. But so whenever someone

823
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 1: would fart or take a nasty ship, so it became

824
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: a diet like a word. So how many times have

825
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: you thought you weren't in a proctor and then you

826
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 1: took that Procter and gamble? But it could have been

827
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: a college like yeah, it's like Munson from Kingpin. Yeah,

828
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: having your name become associated with something terrible yourself, didn't you?

829
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: I he'd be right there being like this and they're like,

830
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,879
Speaker 1: what about Remember remember everyone girls when he said it's

831
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: you know, attendance, because it's like yours just just saying shit.

832
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: He changes his name to Feces. No, what do you

833
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: have top one, bottom one, or oh yeah, I'll save

834
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: them real quick. Um. The bottom one was, uh, this

835
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 1: girl I was friends with she started dating this like

836
00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: bad boy who was like a drug dealer, and um,

837
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: I smoked weed with them, uh like in sophomore year,

838
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: and I hallucinated so bad. It was like the worst experience.

839
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: The girls had to take me home and then my

840
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: mom like obviously I had to tell her that I

841
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 1: smoked something. I don't know what's going on with me,

842
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 1: Like I'm just hallucinating, And of course at that moment,

843
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: she starts giving me the whole spiel. Noah, you have

844
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: to be careful. This is how girls get pregnant and

845
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: this they get raped, and and I'm already like, oh

846
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: my god, I'm like so paranoid. Right, can you just stop?

847
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 1: That was my bottom. Oh that sucks, just being the

848
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: one that needs to be babysat and taking care of

849
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: and like getting sicker than all your friends who can

850
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: handle it. But also parents like give your kid two

851
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: days then half like yeah, when they're fucking tripping, it's

852
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: like you took mushrooms? What are you? And then you

853
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:24,280
Speaker 1: just see your mom being like like just they don't understand,

854
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 1: all right. And the top was there was this boy

855
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 1: that I had a crush on. His name was Norman Sherman,

856
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: and he like finally but he was he was a

857
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: little bit nerdy, but he was so cute. I just

858
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: had like the hugest crush on him, and um, somehow

859
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: he invited my best friend and I to go to

860
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 1: the movies with him and his older brother who was

861
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: like him but even like way cut. So we just

862
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 1: had this like wow, we're like with two really cute guys.

863
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: We're going to kings Blows to see the movie. And

864
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: it was just I think we saw I wish I could.

865
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: I think it was like like one of the Freddy

866
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 1: Krueger movies that we went to see. It was just

867
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: like so fun, like really like our first date and

868
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 1: I got to go with like my best friend, Oh

869
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: my god, that's amazing. Like yes, the the idea of

870
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 1: a crush finally coming through is another great. Would you

871
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: be jealous when he brings a hotter friend? Like were

872
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: you jealous of her getting to be with the they

873
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: we both kind of had a crush on him, and

874
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: we were not competitive with each other at all. It

875
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: was just like whoa his brother is even cuter. He's

876
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: just like, we're so so exciting. God, Oh my god,

877
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: what you do? You just solidify like this is my

878
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: if it's like a first date I never had that

879
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: never happened to me. What am I looking in an

880
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: episode to say? By the bell? Yeah that does that

881
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: doesn't happen. No one's that is a story that it

882
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 1: just doesn't happen. Um, but that's so God. Crushes are

883
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: the fucking best when you would find out that they like,

884
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: I still love crushes, I mean, like crushes are so

885
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: that is the one thing about a relationship that I'm

886
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: bummed about is that I will not have crushes anymore.

887
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: That I will. I know, people are like I still

888
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: have crushes. It's like I'm married, but I still get crushes,

889
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 1: not ones that can pay off ever, you know, Like

890
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: that's why I like crushes, it because it's like might

891
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: happen that when you lose that? But I also I

892
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm just like I kind of have a

893
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 1: crush on my boyfriend. How many times, though, have you

894
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: had a crush on someone? And then finally when like

895
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 1: things start, you know, like if you guys started talking

896
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 1: to each other, you just automatically lose it. Oh, immediately.

897
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: That would happen every single time to me, every time

898
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 1: in my life up until this guy I'm dating now.

899
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: I every time I liked the guy a second, he

900
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 1: would like me back. I was disgusted because I hallo

901
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: self esteem. But then you would also realize, I don't know,

902
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 1: you would learn that that would make me not want

903
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: to have a cr like I would like, Okay, there's

904
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: no point to have a crush if it's not gonna No,

905
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: I couldn't help it though. It wasn't like you can't

906
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,799
Speaker 1: control crushes. Oh, and they feel so good, it's almost like,

907
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's the way I feel about orgasms. Like

908
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:12,920
Speaker 1: the best thing about an orgasm to me is the

909
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 1: build up to an orgasm, right before you get it.

910
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: When you finally get it, it's like great, but it's

911
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: it means it's going to be over, because once it's started,

912
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: it means it's gonna be like the fun is going

913
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 1: to be soon over. When the anticipation is building, it

914
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 1: could you know, there's no, you don't know when it's

915
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: gonna end. I think I just realized why, Like orgasms

916
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: are not as good as before orgasms which is always

917
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's because you know it's gonna be over.

918
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: Like I'm always more excited before a meal arrives than

919
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 1: when the meal is on the table. Not me, I like,

920
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 1: I want the food in my mouth, But what about

921
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: when that's when it's done? How sad? Is it not

922
00:52:56,719 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: over fulfilled from this that I can take on other

923
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: things in my Oh my god, I just start going,

924
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,399
Speaker 1: what do I What's the next thing I could put

925
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 1: in my mouth? Like? What else can I? Like, I

926
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 1: get sad when I get full. It's I mean it's

927
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: totally eating disorder of like you hate when you get high,

928
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: because then the literally like then what I got up?

929
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: My feelings are still not being there's I gotta keep

930
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,879
Speaker 1: doing something and like you can't eat anymore because you're

931
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: sick and you're just like fuck Like I I um,

932
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to ever feel like full from

933
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: food ever and be like I don't want more food

934
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: Like I always want more. I just had to force myself. Not.

935
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: My favorite part is the actual orgasm obviously for me,

936
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: like swallowing like a chicken parm on the hill or

937
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: whatever at the hill and like it was the best

938
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: chicken partm I've ever had. My favorite part is put

939
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: down in front of me. Obviously, it tastes good, and

940
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 1: that's what I'm expecting. But the second I start eating it,

941
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: it starts going away. But before it arrives, Man, it

942
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: could be endless. I don't know what's going to happen.

943
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: Maybe the third bite best, you know what I mean,

944
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: Like when you're drinking the second or third, that one

945
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: that feeling of still being aware while feeling like you

946
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: can do anything. The second I start having an orgasm,

947
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding you, I start getting sad that it's

948
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: going to be over. The second I open a Christmas present,

949
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, Christmas is almost over. The second anytime something starts,

950
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: I start getting sad about losing it. Summer even oh,

951
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: I had this happened when we just spent like, you know,

952
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: two months in Cabo. I came back here and it's cold,

953
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: and I started thinking that this cold weather was fall

954
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: because it was like I just had warmth. So the

955
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: cold is like taking me. And I started getting like

956
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: this fucking dread of like winter's coming. And then I go,

957
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: wait a second, no, it's spring. It's gonna get warmer.

958
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 1: And I already started getting upset about the fact that

959
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: spring is almost here, which means summer is almost here,

960
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: which means summer is gonna go away soon. That is

961
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: how insane I am. Dude. Yeah, there's nothing to say

962
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: other than in the present. But it's just like no

963
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,279
Speaker 1: love is blind. Like, I'm so excited right now because

964
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 1: I have like three more episodes left, and I'm about

965
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: to get really sad when it's over. I just I

966
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,879
Speaker 1: don't like the ending. I don't like starting things because

967
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: it means they're gonna be over. But before you start something,

968
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: it's always the possibility you will never end. Uh. One

969
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: more question, all right, I really love this one. Could

970
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: you all describe honestly your first impressions of each other?

971
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: Oh that's a great question. Oh my god. Um, honestly,

972
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 1: first impression far away or like from when we actually met.

973
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: I think just like first impression before you even got

974
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 1: to know one another. I don't remember not knowing and

975
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: I don't remember knowing Andrew before I met him at

976
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: bed bath and beyond the day that we met. Um,

977
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: and I just honestly like the same that I do,

978
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: the same impression. I think I read him pretty well, funny, anxious,

979
00:55:53,800 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: honest um, silly um, just like spur the impulsive lacks

980
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: lax um um uh, what's the word when you're just

981
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:12,840
Speaker 1: yeah you you you impulsive and like just funny impulsive

982
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 1: and funny, yeah, I think and sexual, yeah, using sexuality.

983
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: Sorry for putting it off like that at that bed

984
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: Beth and beyond. Sorry, I'm so sexually. I'm glad we're

985
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: in the towel section because it was getting wet over there. No,

986
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: it was immediately the same vibe of now, like I

987
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: feel like it and maybe I can just maybe I'm

988
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 1: imagining something more. You know, you always remember things differently

989
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: than they actually occurred. But I think I had a

990
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,439
Speaker 1: pretty good read on you right away. I think it's

991
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: like different because you were already somewhat famous in the

992
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 1: sense of like I had an idea of what you are. Yeah.

993
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,959
Speaker 1: By the way, Anthony de Vito back to him said

994
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:01,439
Speaker 1: that you're special perfect is like one of his top

995
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 1: three like favorite specials. Um, that's a hand drip. I

996
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,879
Speaker 1: guess that's like a very like non hand raw. Hey,

997
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: by the way, it's a good one. I think it's

998
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: that means a lot to me coming from him, um,

999
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: I would say when I like met you a bed

1000
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: bath and beyond, like I just had a vision of

1001
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: you of being because you're you were so successful in

1002
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: my eyes at that time that you obviously have it

1003
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: all together, like you're like this like mature adult, you

1004
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like I just thought maybe you

1005
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: would like I don't know, like something quickly realized just

1006
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: being in bed bath and watching you shop that it's like, oh,

1007
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: she is just like like we are not people were

1008
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 1: cover from the same bed bath and beyond cloth. Yeah,

1009
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: when you were looking, I think you're looking either for

1010
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: a big powel or like a run. You were looking

1011
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: for something. I was like, oh this this this, this

1012
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: girl's like neurotic like all over the place. And then

1013
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: when you you know, the thing you did that I've

1014
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: said before is like you offered me to host literally

1015
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: within probably thirty minutes of meeting you to host that Carolines,

1016
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: And I was like, Wow, you're incredibly giving and like

1017
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: you don't take comedy too seriously. Where it's like it

1018
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: was just refreshing yea to like not feel like like

1019
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: I had to like earn it from you, like right away.

1020
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: It kind of felt like, oh, let's just have a

1021
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: conversation and like it by being nice and being cool

1022
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: and like being like an interested back, you know, like

1023
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:53,919
Speaker 1: you were, like you weren't just all about like you

1024
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: like it was. I could just tell that this is like, oh,

1025
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: this is someone that like you know, it doesn't only

1026
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: care about comedy. Yeah, and then Noah, my first impression

1027
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 1: of you was idiot. Oh my god, don't like that.

1028
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: You know, um young, I thought you were much younger

1029
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: than me. I also thought, like, really, um really professional

1030
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: people are shocked to find that out by the way,

1031
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 1: really like professional and like quiet, maybe not like going

1032
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: to be as like fun as you ended up being,

1033
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: because you were like so serious and like wanting to

1034
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: do go do a good job and come off like professional.

1035
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: I think when we first met that and which you

1036
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 1: are all of those things, like you're one of the

1037
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: best at your job and like getting things done and

1038
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: just being just being you're such an accountable person and

1039
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: a reliable person and just like a talented person. But

1040
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: I think at first I think you were I thought

1041
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: you were more serious and like not going to be

1042
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 1: as fun, Like maybe we weren't going to be best

1043
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: friends like we are and not as like and obviously

1044
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were going to be as empathetic

1045
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: and like spiritually like just emitting positivity and kindness that

1046
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: that you were, but like badass for sure and intimidating. Yeah,

1047
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 1: from Noah trying to think that. The first time we

1048
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: met Andrew, I just remember coming. I feel like I

1049
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: came in for like a test show. Yeah it was

1050
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: No One. Yeah, No, you were there, right. I think

1051
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: you just came into the I think you were like

1052
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: a like a guest or sort, you know, just like yeah,

1053
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: and you're in like a back corner. So I didn't

1054
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: really get to know you. But from what I remember

1055
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: of you, it is just like, like you said, warmth,

1056
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: like you have a an air to you that is

1057
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: like it's not like I wouldn't say motherly because that

1058
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 1: sounds like like but like but there's just a feeling

1059
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 1: like you can you can count on you and you

1060
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 1: can like tell you like I don't know, there's like

1061
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: no judgment. It doesn't feel like there's a lot of

1062
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: judgment coming positivity and like just yeah, like that's all

1063
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 1: we want and doesn't and you didn't feel like I

1064
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: think because we're around comedian so much there was no

1065
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: sense of like entitlement or feeling of like having to

1066
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: be the star, and it was just a sense of

1067
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: fresh air in that way. Yes, no ego. Yeah, yeah

1068
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: they didn't. And now that I know you, I was wrong. Yeah,

1069
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 1: you're now that you took the news from me like

1070
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: a fucking heartless That was diabolical. It was planned, It

1071
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: was calculated and really a slow play by her. My

1072
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: my first impression both of you was definitely way off

1073
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: because when I first saw Nikki Um, I remember seeing

1074
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: you like in an office having a meeting and you

1075
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 1: walked in and you're wearing this blazer. You had your

1076
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 1: hair up in a ponytail, and I was like, I

1077
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: was probably dirty, That's why I didn't see Yeah, I

1078
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 1: just noticed you and I was like, okay, her body language,

1079
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, this woman is like that's a

1080
01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: boss bitch. Like so, I like, who's who's in that office?

1081
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: He said Nikki Glazer. I was like, Wow, she's probably

1082
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: like all business and just like really tough. She's probably

1083
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 1: gonna be like such a diva too to work with,

1084
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: you know, just by like and I just remember, like wow,

1085
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: her posture is like really straight, like she knows how

1086
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: to do these meetings. Then when we met, um, like

1087
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: for the first time, when we when we started working

1088
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 1: in the lobby. I remember you you like, you are

1089
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: so sweet to me. I think you like opened your

1090
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: arms to hug me, and I was just like, wow,

1091
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: she's so sweet. This is not anything I thought it

1092
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: would be like. And I was kind of nervous, like

1093
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: I thought I would really have to impress you, but

1094
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: you were just so cool, um and just like so sweet.

1095
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: I just remember seeing this just like like your eyes.

1096
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: There was just this like caring essence that was just

1097
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: like emanating out of it. I was. I just felt

1098
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: so safe. And then with Andrew, at first I remember

1099
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: thinking like, oh, wow, andrews like a very quiet and

1100
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: reserved guy. I thought you were very very like kept

1101
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 1: to yourself and like nervous. But then as I got

1102
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: to know you and hearing your stories, I realized, Wow,

1103
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 1: Andrew is like a cat with nine lives. He's lived

1104
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:33,439
Speaker 1: all these different versions of life. He has so many good,

1105
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 1: funny stories, and um, he's very interesting. Yes, I think

1106
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: at first you were nervous and so you were quiet.

1107
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 1: I mean on the pod, I just felt like around

1108
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: the pot on the show. Yeah, it just I just

1109
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: want to make a good impression. You just don't want

1110
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: to like funk up, so you're a little bit nervous.

1111
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 1: And I didn't realize I probably how quiet I was,

1112
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: and like, but god, that is the second time I've

1113
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 1: heard this week that I have good posture, which is

1114
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 1: so not something I really like. I know for a fact,

1115
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: I do not have good posture of technic like, but

1116
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,439
Speaker 1: I went to um, that's when your neck goes forward

1117
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: because you're looking at but I was. I went to

1118
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: a singing lesson the other day. I went to uh

1119
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: uh say with my dad this weekend at the venue

1120
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 1: that he was playing with his band, And I went

1121
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: to a singing lesson before that with my sound healer,

1122
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 1: which if you're in the St. Louis area, definitely go

1123
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 1: do a sound healing session with my sound healing lady

1124
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: Aria her Um. I would love to send besties to her.

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01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 1: She is just like so sound healing. Obviously in raiky

1126
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: Is she also does that it's all about like energy

1127
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: that you don't even get touched. You just like lay

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01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 1: on this bed and then they do all that. She

1129
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: does all this like like gongs and like makes these

1130
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: sounds that you're just like, where are you even getting

1131
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: these sounds? But your eyes are close. It's so healing

1132
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 1: and um if she does like pain management work, but

1133
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: she also does voice lessons and I take and she's

1134
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: turned into one of my best friends. But you can

1135
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 1: go to it's like aria Sound one oh eight, I

1136
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: think dot com you can just go to aria a

1137
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: r I Sound Healing. But um I told her I'd

1138
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: give her a shout out because she just is starting

1139
01:05:12,600 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: the sound healing journey and she's really good at it

1140
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 1: and like tapping into this like and where we were

1141
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: relating because I'm like I've always like secretly wanted to

1142
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: be a um A singer songwriter. I think that's like

1143
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: what I've always like it really am deep down and

1144
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 1: like I just have this like suppressed it. And she

1145
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: was like a choired director and she's also trans and

1146
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 1: so she is like very well versed in like feeling

1147
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 1: like something is locked inside of you that you should

1148
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: be that you aren't able to be because of people

1149
01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: either telling you you can't be or whatever it is.

1150
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: And so we really like talked a lot about that.

1151
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,240
Speaker 1: But she's amazing And I was going to a lesson

1152
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 1: the other day and she was like, one of the

1153
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:54,520
Speaker 1: first things I noticed about you is that you have

1154
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: great posture, and so I was just like, what, I go,

1155
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 1: You're I didn't want to be mean, but I'm like,

1156
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 1: you're wrang Like I just know that I don't. I've

1157
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: taken an Alexander technique class and was lacking um. But

1158
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 1: it's really nice to hear that two times in a row.

1159
01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: I do feel like if you're wearing when I put

1160
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:13,919
Speaker 1: a suit on, yeah, when you're wearing a blazer blazer,

1161
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 1: it just it does something make your shoulders just like

1162
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 1: even if they might be shoulder pads, like maybe shoulder pads,

1163
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: but when I put a suit on, I'm instantly you

1164
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: don't want to sit like this in a suit because

1165
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 1: then it crumples up and you just look posture. It's

1166
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: so it's so crazy how much it can change people's

1167
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: perception of you. In your own perception of you, like

1168
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 1: when I walk straighter or you know. I remember reading

1169
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: one dog book about like how to train your dog,

1170
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: and they were like, when you walk your dog, your

1171
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: dog is looking for a leader, like once you're the

1172
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: pack leader, and they were like, walk like your Cleopatra,

1173
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 1: and it was stuck with me. And sometimes I remember

1174
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: it on walks when I need like like he's being

1175
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: a little bit pully on the leash or just kind

1176
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 1: of being annoying, I'll be like, remember to walk like

1177
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: Cleopatra and just you just all of a sudden, like

1178
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: have this power and grace about you, just pretending to

1179
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: be like more just like me, sitting like this is

1180
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 1: a different person than me. Like this, I'm like, yeah,

1181
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: this is comfortable, and I want to sit like this

1182
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: most of the time. But good posture can be also

1183
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: be very comfortable, Like this is actually putting a lot

1184
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: more strain on your bones and your neck right now

1185
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,200
Speaker 1: than if you were to sit like the Alexander technique

1186
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: is all about sitting so that you're all of your

1187
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: all of your bones are like balanced on each other.

1188
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 1: So it's really like holding up up like when you

1189
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: do this with a broom handle or something. You know

1190
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 1: you're balancing in your hand. You're not like it's not

1191
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 1: working hard. You're not working hard like when you're going

1192
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,280
Speaker 1: like when you're sitting like um, like if I'm saying

1193
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 1: like this, like I'm having to support this, but if

1194
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: it's all balanced on top of each other. I don't

1195
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: have to do anything, And it's all about just like

1196
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 1: you can sit upright and just balance it on top

1197
01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: of each other and it won't feel like you're having

1198
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 1: to like stick it up and it's like building it

1199
01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 1: like blocks, like you're trying to balance a Jenga. And

1200
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: if you're like it, actually that makes sense. Now. Just

1201
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 1: imagine your favorite newscaster sitting like this and giving you

1202
01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:08,479
Speaker 1: the news like you want to Oh my god. Yeah,

1203
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 1: it's just not it's not a good look. It just

1204
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: doesn't so I think we should go to war. Like

1205
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:16,919
Speaker 1: imagine the president like so I'm like whatever, like Ukraine,

1206
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: Like I don't really like I'm not really with this.

1207
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: And it's just like even if it was a great speech,

1208
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: it was like, um, Joe, like you talk like posture

1209
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 1: means so much it's hard to correct though, Like you,

1210
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 1: it's not just about like, oh, just did a self

1211
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 1: esteem thing though, because sometimes I think maybe I don't

1212
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 1: believe in myself. Why would I sit up like that

1213
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:40,559
Speaker 1: to like where would I do? Like why would I?

1214
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's about like, yeah, having enough respect for

1215
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:45,560
Speaker 1: yourself to sit up straight whenever I'm feeling nervous, like

1216
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: I can see to my body language, like I can

1217
01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 1: just read how I'm my mood is if I see

1218
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: like a picture of myself or something like it just

1219
01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:56,440
Speaker 1: it's all over my body. Like you just get smaller,

1220
01:08:56,680 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 1: like I get very small when I'm feeling like insecure,

1221
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 1: and when I'm like engage as like excited, like I'm out,

1222
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: like I'm sitting up straight um, And sometimes you don't

1223
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 1: have that like loose guy like sometimes that's what when

1224
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 1: I wear heels and dresses, it forces me to have

1225
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: a certain kind of you stand a certain way, but

1226
01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: my hips shut out. I mean on the set of

1227
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 1: Perfect Strangers, I was constantly being reminded to suck in

1228
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 1: and put my hips back and squeeze my ass so

1229
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 1: that my stomach goes in because I was wearing all

1230
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 1: these tight dresses and just like your stomach like goes

1231
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 1: out because I would just like stick my hips out.

1232
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 1: It's just more comfortable. Oh God. Jamie Lake Curtis recently

1233
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: came out and was like, I've spent I've been sucking

1234
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,479
Speaker 1: in since I was eleven. I'm done, And she just

1235
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 1: like posted this picture where her like gut is out

1236
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 1: It's like that is like being a woman is in

1237
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 1: on TV. You're sucking in. I get so comfortable. And

1238
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 1: then if I've got posters because I'm having a good time,

1239
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,800
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta go. That's all our shows for

1240
01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: this week. We will be back next week with U

1241
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 1: I Plug Something What. We'll be back next week with

1242
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: what with one episode one episode network next week. Oh no,

1243
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: we're gonna people are gonna get Don't worry, guys. Is

1244
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 1: not like a trend. We're not trending towards like doing less.

1245
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 1: We're always going to be doing aiming for four week. Um,

1246
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 1: we're just starting a new season soon, so we're just

1247
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:22,759
Speaker 1: getting that in place. A lot is going on behind

1248
01:10:22,760 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: the scenes. So we will be back and we'll be

1249
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 1: going live on Instagram. In the meantime. You can also

1250
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: subscribe to Andrew's new version of his like second season

1251
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:35,679
Speaker 1: of his podcast Puddles, so for extra Andrew content during

1252
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: the time away Hill um A new episodes coming out Tuesday.

1253
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 1: I hope it's Tuesday on today because yesterday. I'm hoping

1254
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 1: either Tuesday or Wednesday. I haven't done I've only done

1255
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: like two Puddles in five months, which is my podcast

1256
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 1: that you were on multiple times and uh yeah, I'm

1257
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,639
Speaker 1: Brenna is now a reoccurring Yeah, because she didn't want

1258
01:10:57,640 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 1: to be. It was so funny. She's like, I don't

1259
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 1: want to be. I don't want to be called a

1260
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: co host. Too much pressure. Yes she's here, Yeah, ring

1261
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: on my finger. Let's not do this podcast and let's

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Speaker 1: grow up. Uh yeah, no so puddles. Yeah, thanks, please listen.

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Speaker 1: I think it's really fun and we just you know,

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Speaker 1: it's silly. Did you do two episodes? Did you do

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Speaker 1: a couple of We just did one yesterday and we're

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Speaker 1: going to have gas probably, but mostly it's just it's

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Speaker 1: kind of a similar format to this, but just two

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Speaker 1: people brown here. Okay, so it's so different. It's so different.

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you so much for listening. Uh oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. This week. We will

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Speaker 1: be back next week with one episode, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: be back to our regular scheduled four episodes a week

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Speaker 1: after that. I love you, Besty so much. Don't give

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Speaker 1: up on us. And oh, don't be Curl. I don't

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Speaker 1: know I say cul, don't be Curl, don't be cure

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Speaker 1: and jes what