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Ikaylin Hi, 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 1: Jason Brown, Hello, Paulina Hikeki Shovin Shelley is here money? 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: Next hour in the showdown, if you can beat our 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: pop culture expert in five questions four fifty is the 17 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: prize bella that means here on the phone in the 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: text eight five, five, five nine one one o three 19 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 1: five stare go well, debate some relationship drama that's coming up. 20 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghost? In 21 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: this hour we'll do headlines, vlogs and the Entertainment Report. 22 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: What are you working on? 23 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 3: K I will tell you who. 24 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 4: Joe Exotic says, all the guys are listening to. There's 25 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 4: one specific song. It's a female. She just dropped it. 26 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 4: And I gotta tell you what they're listening to, Opra 27 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 4: in jail. 28 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: What is the I know Klin's it's it was putting 29 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: on leather pants, I think. But what is the the 30 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: dumbest way, most insane way, most unexplainable way that you've 31 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: injured yourself? Because I woke up this morning in excruciating 32 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 1: pain with back. My back is messed up again. How 33 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: could this be? I did nothing. I did nothing like 34 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: I want to. I want to tell you a story 35 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: about how I saved a kitten from the river or 36 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: I uh, you know, something like like something good, like 37 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, an old lady was slipping on the 38 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: ice and I I risked my life. I jumped, you know, 39 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: so she fell on top of me. And I mean, 40 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to be this amazing story, but I don't 41 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: have one. I simply woke up feeling this way, really 42 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: like I can barely walk, Like how does this happen? 43 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: Aside from getting well? 44 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 3: I know, sorry, I don't want to say it. 45 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: We didn't you had no problem saying it. You didn't 46 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: want to say it, but you had no problem. 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 3: Saying I'm not the same person I was five years ago. 48 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 5: Ten. 49 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: I amn't really follow at that was really hard for 50 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: her to say. If you couldn't tell it just flew 51 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: right out. 52 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 6: It was hard. Said oh that's what she said. No, 53 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 6: sound great, Oh, here we go, yeah, here we go. 54 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 6: She just called me old with him two minutes. I mean, 55 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 6: that's that is the answer. But like I didn't need 56 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 6: to hear it. I didn't need you to tell. 57 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: Me that you are great. 58 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 1: But I'm not great though, which is the problem. I'm 59 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: not great like any any slight movement and I just 60 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: feel like I'm going to break in half, not in 61 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: a good way, not in the kind of way that 62 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: you hope for. In the weekend, Jason, No things done. Yeah, okay, 63 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: well nobody. 64 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: Oh I fell off of I tried jumping off of 65 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: a pier onto my inflatable unicorn and landed on the 66 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: bottom of the lake and hurt my knees. 67 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 1: All right, and now we're having surgery. Yeah, if insurance 68 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: will ever approve it. 69 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know this that was another knee. The 70 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 2: need that I have to have surgery on was just 71 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: from walking here, That's kind of what I was looking for. 72 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: So you were just walking and now you have to 73 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: have me reconstructive surgery. 74 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 2: Form my little moniscus. They're like, oh, were you like 75 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 2: doing anything, you know, exerting yourself. I was like, does 76 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 2: it look like I'm athletic? Like, no, I wasn't running 77 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 2: a half marathon. I was walking. 78 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: Well, what's wrong with the other knee? 79 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: Nothing. I just had to get a shot and do 80 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 2: some therapy and it's good. So that needs that needs 81 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 2: golden kay the other one? 82 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: You know? 83 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 2: My knees, my knees, this is right? 84 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. I really wish I could explain 85 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: to you, well I feel this way, but I I 86 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: really can't. But I slept, I slept the wrong way. 87 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: I slept in a ball, I slept on the wrong side. 88 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe someone came in the night and 89 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: maybe they were fun activities. I just don't remember them. 90 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: I didn't even have a dream about fun activities that 91 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: would have led to me feeling this way. 92 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 6: When did this this pain started last night? Or did 93 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 6: it start it started weekend? Because you were lit on Friday? 94 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: Was well, I was lit because at the Tangent Live, 95 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: every single person bought me a drink, every single person 96 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: in attendance. I mean you just laughed. I mean you you, 97 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: you left you, you you put me in the line 98 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: of fire. You made me deal with it. 99 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 6: When I left, you were on top of the bar 100 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 6: doing splits. I said, I don't know what's going on. 101 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: That might that could explain. That's probably, that could Actually, 102 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: that makes a lot of sense now, But no, it 103 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: didn't start until last night and then it just it's 104 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: just progressively worse. Yeah, I don't know I could do splits, 105 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: but I can do it. But when I'm at the 106 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: Tangent Live. 107 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, you've never seen you so happy. 108 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was just I don't know 109 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: if it was happy. 110 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 3: You were drunk. You guys, they got us drunk. It's fine. 111 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, everyone else left. You left us to the animals. 112 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: Were dug together. 113 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: But you no use state. I'm looking at Kiki and 114 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: I'm looking at at Paulina. You guys just knew you left. 115 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: You threw us to the animals. 116 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 3: We didn't see a chance. 117 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: I didn't. So we did a live Tangent for a 118 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: certain section, for a certain region of our listening audience 119 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: who could attend. Maybe we'll just start doing it around 120 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: the country so that various people can see this. But 121 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 1: are Tangent go to the war area the Tangents are 122 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: Offare Uncentered Podcast. Oh, don't you worry. I gotta go 123 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: to West Palm Beach around February for my quality assurance check. 124 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: I do. No, I always, I always go to West 125 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: Palm Beach in February for a couple of weeks. I 126 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: got to make sure that everything is running properly. I 127 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: have to. It's my job is to host it the 128 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: show quality control. But I you know, I'm not available 129 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: in August. No, I got other places to go in August, 130 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: like Salt Lake City. It's much nicer there. So we 131 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: did our Offare Uncentered podcast? Did it live? In fact, 132 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: that's up on the iHeart radio efforts going up so 133 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: you can hear it. Uh that that particular episode, I 134 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: guess because we've got hundreds up there already. It's anything 135 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,559 Speaker 1: that if you haven't heard of it before, it's anything 136 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: that we really sort of like get to a certain 137 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,919 Speaker 1: point on our show here on the radio where we 138 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't say anything more. Believe it or not, we 139 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 1: do have some limits and then we go and do 140 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: it there. So we did the live Tangent and several 141 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: hundred people showed up and that was amazing. And then 142 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: at the end of it, we walk out and I 143 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: didn't get within five feet of the backstage door for 144 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: two hours. And I'm very grateful that that many people 145 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: lined up. They wanted to meet us, take pictures, they 146 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: wanted to do but then everyone wanted to do a drink, 147 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: doing a shot or have a drink. They wanted to 148 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:30,679 Speaker 1: do a drink. 149 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 2: I didn't were still a thing, but ye are. 150 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: And I probably did twenty because I just stood there 151 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: and then people just kept handing it me. They could 152 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: have been anything, there could have been anything in there. 153 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: I just kept drinking it. 154 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 3: Yeah. When I heard that you shut that place down. 155 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: They locked the door behind me like they were like, 156 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: we gotta leave, dude, Like that everyone owned the place left. 157 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: It was the janitors. They were cleaning, like, sir, you 158 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: need to go home. 159 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 3: We didn't go home. We went to another bar. 160 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: Yeah we did. 161 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 3: Why was I shocked about you? Because well, yeah, in 162 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 3: shocked about me? Well, no, like. 163 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: Paulina, I'm a man of the people. Okay, I'm a 164 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 1: man of the people, and those were my people. They 165 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: wanted to hang out. You're right, You're right, and and 166 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: you know, there's always a story that the propositions that 167 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: I was offered the I mean, it's it's amazing. So 168 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for you people that listen to this thing. 169 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: You really are a special group. And I wouldn't have 170 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: it any other way. And I'll say that that being said, 171 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with what my back feels 172 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: this way. I don't know. I got aj saying, rotate 173 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: your mattress. I mean, or I could just go to 174 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: the other side of the mattress because no one sleeps 175 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: on that side. Yeah, I have no explanation. Someone said 176 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: you slept wrong. Yeah, I guess so, like excruciating pain. 177 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know if I I was doing the thing 178 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: I had to lay down to put my socks on, 179 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: like pants, like one leg's not coming off the ground. 180 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: So that was interesting. I have no idea. I know, 181 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: if it's nerves, I don't know if it's on I'm 182 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: not sure you have a chirop. I'm going to have 183 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: to find somebody. 184 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 3: We need to get you home. 185 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: If you don't want to work today. You could just 186 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: say that, okay, we don't want to work. You also 187 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: could have told me that an hour ago when I 188 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: was in bed very much considering I had. 189 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 6: I know, I will gash you up anytime, like you 190 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 6: know what needed lay down. 191 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: That's like my mom. Like when I want to spend 192 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: money on something, I call my mom, Hey, should I 193 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: spend money on this? And she'll always enable me. You apparently, 194 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: if it comes to not working. 195 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: And spending money, call me. 196 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: But see if I told you when I like I 197 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: was it was about five, what time was it? It was 198 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: five something with five just after five When I was like, 199 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, you already would have been halfway here. 200 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: You would have then it would have been like a 201 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: waste of your time. So I came in anyway. Never 202 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: think about wasting my time. 203 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 3: Never worry about that. You don't ever have to worry 204 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: about that because I can turn around. 205 00:08:55,480 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 2: Best way has off rail the other way. I'm kidding. 206 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 3: I want to be here. 207 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: I said you were lit on. I guess how, Yeah, 208 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: I was. I was just standing there while you're acting. 209 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: You're acting like I put on a full on strip tease, 210 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 1: which I saw, well did you enjoy it. 211 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 3: I did. 212 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: Me and Lieutenant Steve we saw you. He's a captain, 213 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: you know, let's get it right. Let's let's get our 214 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: boys rank correct. 215 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 6: Kept saying, hey, friend, because I couldn't. I didn't realize 216 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 6: what the right title was. So but yeah, you were 217 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 6: lit and you were having a good time, and no 218 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 6: one saved me. No one, No, because you need to 219 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 6: have a good time, you need to lay. It was 220 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 6: not I mean for your back to get messed up. 221 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: You know, all right, start the show. I guess somebody 222 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: say it's getting old. Sucks. I'm reading through all these 223 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: texts of people. Yes, you were turned, Yes you're the 224 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: picture of Yeah, yeah I was. Yes, it was someone 225 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: who sent a picture of us together in the corner, 226 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: so that the picture that you sent in that corner. 227 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: I didn't leave that corner because it was it's allowed 228 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: to for two hours like I couldn't. I couldn't leave. 229 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: I couldn't take like two steps. It was shot. It 230 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 1: was heroin, it was cocaine, it was no it was crazy, man, 231 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: we were doing lines of it. It was wild. You missed 232 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: all this. 233 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 4: Imagine if no one came though, I'm so grateful that 234 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 4: you guys gave me the worst hangover ever. 235 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I you know, on Saturday I 236 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: questioned whether I wouldn't have preferred if no one came. 237 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: But it was good. 238 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I hadn't been that hung over it a 239 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 3: long time. I was good. 240 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm sure I was reading here through all. I broke 241 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: my foot going down a stair in twenty twenty two, 242 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: that's it, huh. In twenty twenty three, I broke my 243 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: other ankle going down a hill. Well, I mean, at 244 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: least stairs are kind of dangerous. 245 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 3: They really are. 246 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: We don't talk about that enough about how dangerous stairs are. Right, 247 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: I got me one wrong step. 248 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 7: And then boom, you're on the floor and you're just tumbling. 249 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 7: That's yes, But at least at least there was a 250 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 7: stair involved. Like there wasn't even a stair involved in this, 251 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 7: Like this just happened. I have no excuse, I have 252 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 7: no explanation. I don't know what to tell you. 253 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: But we're gonna We're gonna do the thing. I guess 254 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: how many how many add milk can somebody take? Friends 255 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: and biggest stories of the day. It's nothing worse for 256 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: someone who has anxiety than to be reminded constantly, Oh 257 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: yeah you were drunks on whatever night. Yes, I was 258 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: in a bar and party, Yes I was, and I 259 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: was stirred a lot of alcohol, Yes I was. Did 260 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: I do anything illegal? 261 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 8: No? 262 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Did I do anything career ending? No? Did I do 263 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: anything regrettable? No? My friends, except for Caitlin, all left 264 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 1: me to the wolves. 265 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah you remember that. 266 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 1: That's right. People said they had a good time though, 267 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 1: So thank you, yes, thank you. 268 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 3: Ran out of that. 269 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 9: Thank you guys, Thank you guys for letting me perform 270 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 9: and do my big one and start my career. 271 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Paulina, it was life performance. It was something I 272 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: don't know what that was. Yeah, yeah, it was something 273 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: you did. You did. The people were stunned. The people 274 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: in the audience day seem stunned. 275 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 3: When they stared at me and nothing. 276 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was a little surprised after an hour and 277 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: some minutes of us being rowdy with these people and 278 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden they just seemed like perplexed 279 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: by you. You finishing the show with one of your 280 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: original productions. 281 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 3: They're probably very confused, like, you know, is she for real? 282 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 9: Like is this a bit I don't know what they 283 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 9: thought us, and I admitted that. 284 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: I said, I said that at the end. I said 285 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: at the end that this was a dare. We did 286 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: this to see if she would do it, and she 287 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: did do it. I pulled my back putting my sock 288 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: on a few weeks ago, worst pain of my life. 289 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: I couldn't walk or move without screaming in pain. That's 290 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: basically what I'm talking about. Like, I'm close, I'm close, 291 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm close to walking, and every every step I take 292 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: being a scream and not in a good way. I 293 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: cracked a rib having sex with my husband. Oh yeah, 294 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: that'll do it for you. Yeah, I think it's sciatica 295 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: as what I think it is. But this is old 296 00:12:55,800 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: people's stuff. I don't know what was he doing? Wow, 297 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: I mean it was a good night. 298 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: I mean that's crazy. 299 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. Then you got to go explain that 300 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 1: to the you know, emergency room or the doctor or whatever, 301 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 1: like what'd you do? But see if I when I 302 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: go to the if I go to someone today, if 303 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,839 Speaker 1: I find someone who will like fix this somehow. I 304 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know, surgically, I don't. I don't know what they're 305 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: gonna do. Is there anyone who can fix this surgically today. 306 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 2: I mean, please with insurance, right, let's tink about six 307 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 2: to eight months to get approval. 308 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 1: At this is when I'll just spend cash, like the 309 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: cash I don't have. I'm not how much I write 310 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: you and check just don't catch it. For about ninety days, 311 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: thought that, God, I don't know. 312 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 3: It's terrible. 313 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, are you no? 314 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: I really am? 315 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? I could, really, I can tell I can I can? 316 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: I hear a lot of sympathy coming from you today. 317 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 6: Oh, I really am, because they say if you laugh 318 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 6: at somebody when they're in pain, it's gonna happen to you. 319 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 3: And I don't need that. Sorry that I don't know. 320 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:55,359 Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm gonna do. 321 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 3: You need a chiro PreCure? 322 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 1: I need something. I need a physical therapist. I need 323 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: a massage therapist. I need some anyone want to come 324 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 1: up here and just with a table and just do it. Yeah, 325 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: I'm pulling my back out, pulling up my pants at 326 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: the GUYO. 327 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah's office. 328 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: Wrong kind of doctor. But like you know, at least 329 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: there were medical professionals around. I'm serious, Like this morning, 330 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know how I'm gonna get my 331 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: pants on, like I do. I was not sure that 332 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: we were gonna have pants on today, and then I 333 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 1: was starting to this is like, it's insane to me. 334 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: You take I think you take mobility for granted. Yes 335 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: you do. Because I was like, Okay, now what do 336 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: I do if I can't put my pants on? Well, 337 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: I can connect from home, Okay, so I'll sit in 338 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: my underwear. I do the show, I guess, but I 339 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: can't put my pants on. Can I even like put 340 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: my arms up? The type? I don't know. This is 341 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 1: just not it's not pretty, guys, it's not good. And no, 342 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: I don't want a shot to ease the pain. I don't. 343 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: I think that's a bad idea. Yeah, that's how you 344 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: wind up in the parking lot of a holiday and 345 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: express us on on that attic show intervention. It starts 346 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: with one shot to the back, and before long your 347 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: your family's chasing you around, trying to put you in 348 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: the minivan to go to promises. You know what I mean? 349 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 3: That's so true, that's so true. 350 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: Right, I'm scared. So we were not here yesterday, so 351 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: we have to recap Jason's NFL picks. Do we know 352 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: how well he did have we tallied them? 353 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 3: No, hold on, just pardon me for one. 354 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: Okay, Paul, pardon this live show. But I'll go through 355 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: the winners and then I don't know, maybe we can 356 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: figure this out. But Broncos won. But I don't think 357 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: you picked that correct wrong, even though the game had 358 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: already been played. Colts, Ravens, Bears, Dolphins, Seahawks, Lions, Jets, Saints, Patriots, Texans, Rams, Chargers, 359 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: and then the Eagles won last night. And I have 360 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: no idea about the Parsley. We can get back to 361 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 1: you on that. 362 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 3: Okay. Yeah, I don't have a tally here. 363 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll figure that out from based on what you 364 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 4: just said. 365 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 3: And he did not do well. I will have Italian 366 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 3: a moment. 367 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: The Senates on Monday, it proved a bill to reopen 368 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: the government. Yay government, Yay government. Right. I'm sure there's 369 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: some people like yay getting paid, like our air traffic controllers. 370 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: Shout out to you, guys. To vote went sixty forty, 371 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: with nearly all Republicans and eight Democrats voting for the measure. 372 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: The deal restores funding for federal agencies through January thirtieth 373 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty six insurance that there are no further 374 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: federal worker layoffs until that date and back pays furloyd 375 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: furloyd fur lloyd, furload employees. That's a weird word for 376 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: me today. I don't know how many times can I 377 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: say it. But it doesn't include the extension of the 378 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: healthcare subsidy tax credits that the Democrats that demanded, triggering 379 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: major party backlash to build out moves to the House 380 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: of Representatives, where approval is expected this week before being 381 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: sent to the President. Some of the autumns the autumn. 382 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: I think if you say autumn instead of fall, because 383 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: automan falls are synonymous, right, it's the same thing. Yeah, 384 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: But autumn just seems like you're fancier if you call 385 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: it the autumn. Some of the autumn's coldest weather yet 386 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 1: is bearing down on the continental US, enveloping the eastern 387 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,640 Speaker 1: two thirds in Arctic air. This Monday was crazy, affecting 388 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: millions of people. The National Weather Service forecasters said the 389 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: weather could bring record low temperatures in the US southeast, 390 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: including all of Florida, where parts of the state were 391 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: near eighty degrees the day before. The cold air brought 392 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 1: gusty wind and reg flag warnings for the Great Plains 393 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: on Monday, and forecasters said that the Great Lakes and 394 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: Appalachian or however you'd like to say it, Appalachian. Do 395 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: some people say Appalachians. I can't even say words now, 396 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 1: and no offense, Paulina, But I'm not quite sure that 397 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not. A four to eight inches of snow 398 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: could fall there, yeah. Cold weather warnings issued for Ohio, West, Virginia, Kentucky. 399 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: Freezing temperatures predicted for a large swath further south from 400 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: Texas to Oklahoma, Alabama, and Georgia. The wintry weather, combined 401 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 1: with the government shutdown, contributed to flight to lays across 402 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,199 Speaker 1: the country, including four hour wait times at airports like 403 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 1: O'Hare in Florida. Forecasters said the windshiels could dip to 404 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: the thirties. You're in Florida, guys, Florida. You using me 405 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: in the thirties? Sorry. A United Airlines flight attendant was 406 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: busted for being drunk on a San Francisco to London flight, 407 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: later found to be ten times over the legal limit 408 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 1: for alcohol for aircrew. The fifty six year old veteran 409 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: admitted chugging vodka to calm down while working the long 410 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: haul flight. Paramedics met the plane and Heathrow after the 411 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: crew noticed her slurred speech and unsteady walk. Test show 412 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: to blood alcohol level of two hundred and sixteen mg milligrams. 413 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: I guess I'm not sure. The UK aviation limit is 414 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: twenty milligrams. Who So she pled guilty to performing an 415 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: aviation duty well intoxicated, avoided jail, paid a fine, and 416 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 1: then resigned. Her lawyer said that she had been under 417 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: emotional strain and deeply regrets her actions. We've all been there, girl, 418 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: We've all been there. I'm there right now. I have 419 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 1: a bottle of tequila right there, but it's just a 420 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: little tiny one. Oh yeah, I have. It's a joke. 421 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: But I have like a break glass in case of 422 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: emergency tequila bottle right there, which I can't believe it's 423 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 1: not broken and consumed. The number of times that I 424 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: you know, we've had emergency. 425 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say Jason Brown got seven correct out of 426 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 4: fourteen and only one of the legs of his parsley hits. 427 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: Okay, last week, you're you know fifty percent? 428 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what's happened to you? 429 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 2: And I'll take fifty percent. 430 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I mean you were an expert. You worry 431 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: you are an expert, and I don't know what. I 432 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. I think you've had more 433 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: successful years in the past. I'm just not I'm not 434 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: sure what's happening. And this is a sweet story. Supporters 435 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: of the La Dodgers have donated about thirty thousand dollars 436 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: to Toronto's Hospital for six Children, a tribute inspired by 437 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: Blue Jays fans who had earlier donated to Seattle Children's 438 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: Hospital after their own playoff loss. The hospital says more 439 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: than four hundred Americans contributed, many leaving notes about baseball 440 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 1: and even setting up recurring gifts. Several donors sent fifty 441 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: one dollars a nod to Blue Jays fans, who wore 442 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: that number in honor of Dodger's pitcher Alex Vesla, who 443 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: missed the series following the death of his infant daughter. 444 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: A donor called it a classy response to a classy opponent, 445 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: while Jay's fan Marcus Kim, who floated the charity, wager 446 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 1: ideas that the kindness helped ease the sting of defeat 447 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: sick kids in the name of the hospital. Officials say 448 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: the money will fund new equipment and research. Silver Lining 449 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 1: born from sportsmanship and shared compassion. See, it's it's possible 450 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: to be kind to the people that you beat in sports. 451 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 1: You don't have You don't have to like throw beer 452 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 1: at them and spit on them. What you know, you don't, Galen, 453 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: I know that's what you do. But you don't have to. 454 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 3: I lay a couch on fire every time, right, win 455 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 3: or lose. 456 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: Right, you have to burn down your own city when 457 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: you win. Everybody knows that. Yeah, you have to cause 458 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 1: mass havoc where you live, right exactly, Yeah, cause problems 459 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: where you live for yourself, for your own car, Let 460 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: your own car and fire. You do that, or you 461 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: could also do something nice like this. It's a National 462 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: Sunday Day, and it's Veterans Day today. Shout out to 463 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: all the veterans. Caitlin's entertainment report is on The Fresh Show. 464 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 4: Simmy Sweeney is saying she doesn't really care that her 465 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,160 Speaker 4: movie flapped at the box office over the weekend. Christy, 466 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 4: that movie based on real life boxer Christy Martin, opened 467 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 4: in more than two thousand theaters but pulled in just 468 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:27,119 Speaker 4: one point three million, one of the weakest wide. 469 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 3: Release debuts on record. 470 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 4: After headlines were calling it a bomb, she fired back 471 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 4: on Instagram, saying that she was deeply proud of this movie, 472 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 4: adding we don't always make art for numbers. 473 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 3: We make it for impact. 474 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 1: Management every week no ratings, but it's not about that. 475 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: It's it's about impact. 476 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 3: Right, you're looking at it wrong art. 477 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 1: No what I've been telling him every week now for 478 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 1: a while. 479 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 4: She said that Christy was meant to honor a survivor's 480 00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 4: story of courage and resilience, not chase ticket sales. 481 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 3: So she doesn't give health but like, what is she 482 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 3: supposed to say? 483 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 4: Okay, by now you may have heard that miss Kim Kardashian, 484 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 4: it did not pass the bar exam. What's even more 485 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 4: is she's super mad because four separate psychics assured her 486 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 4: that she would pass the test, and now she's coming 487 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:15,360 Speaker 4: for them. 488 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:15,919 Speaker 3: Listen to this. 489 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 4: I'm just letting you guys know that all of the 490 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 4: psychics that we have met with and that we're obsessed with. 491 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 3: Are all full of shit. 492 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 10: They all collectively, maybe four of them, have told me 493 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 10: I was going to pass the bar. 494 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 11: So they're all full pathological liars don't believe anything they say. 495 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: I know people that very upset or otherwise. I have 496 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: gone to law school that did takes three or four 497 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: times to pass the bar. Yeah, So the fact that 498 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: she didn't go to law school and did this whole 499 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: thing herself, you know, which is legal in California somehow, 500 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: I mean, I would have been surprised if she had been. 501 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 1: It would have been remarkable if she'd passed the bar 502 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 1: the first time hundred percent. 503 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 4: And it's one of the hardest bars to pass because 504 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 4: everybody wants to practice there, so she has more chances. 505 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 4: But it just made me laugh that she's taking all 506 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 4: her anger out on these psychics. 507 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 3: Very funny. 508 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 4: Teddy Swims is the new sexy guy and a campaign 509 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 4: for booking dot com called This Guy Books, where he 510 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 4: leans into the idea that booking a trip for someone romance, 511 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 4: spontaneity is more attractive than just good looks or a 512 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,439 Speaker 4: big paycheck. The campaign backs us up with actual data 513 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 4: saying fifty six percent of women say that their partner 514 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 4: booking a trip is a rousing or as a rousing 515 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 4: or more than for play. Ninety three percent say taking 516 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 4: the lead on travel plans beats a good physique or salary. 517 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 3: I would have to agree. 518 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 4: The commercial shows Teddy in a robe channeling ron Burgundy, 519 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 4: like a similar vibe, and he's like, I'm gonna do 520 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 4: the sexiest thing a man can do, taking the reins 521 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 4: and booking a trip for your significant other. As part 522 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 4: of this promo, five couples will win a getaway to 523 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 4: Chicago in December. Meet Teddy enjoy ten thousand dollars in 524 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 4: travel credit, dining, VIP events. This offer opens on the 525 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 4: twenty fifth of this month for just one dollar and 526 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 4: forty three cents. So that's pretty cool and said He 527 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 4: says this campaign is his favorite that he's done to date, 528 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 4: because you know, it's fun. It was fun, and people 529 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 4: are gonna win a trip and have some romance. 530 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 3: And lastly, Hillary. 531 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,239 Speaker 4: Duff dropped a new single called Mature and if you 532 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 4: have not listened to it, she has certainly all grown up, 533 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 4: very mature, So give that a listen. 534 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 3: If you have not yet. 535 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 4: But I just wanted to point out that Joe Exotic 536 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 4: aka the Tiger King, who is currently locked up for 537 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 4: a murder for higher plot against you know, Carol Baskin. 538 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 4: He wrote in the comments of Hillary's Instagram and I 539 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 4: quote all the guys in here are listening to it, 540 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 4: which Hillary's husband responded things, Uncle Joe, So I just 541 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 4: want to let you guys know that wherever Joe is 542 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 4: locked up, all the guys are listening to the new 543 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 4: Hillary Duff single. 544 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,399 Speaker 12: And that is hysterical to me. Sure, yes, should to 545 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 12: some of its ok But I know, okay, you obviously 546 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,479 Speaker 12: like it. I've heard parts of it. 547 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 4: I've seen the lyrics. I have not heard it, so 548 00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 4: I'm interested to hear what it sounds like. 549 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: Take it a listen. I'm not gonna listen to the 550 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: whole thing, so don't be mad at me when I stop. 551 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 13: She's me of hers de Friston, just a few years 552 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 13: young newest. 553 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 3: Very really as you just gonna be. 554 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 4: Who is this Hillary? 555 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: This is it? 556 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 3: It just doesn't sell like her. 557 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 1: She so is pressed by a bus. 558 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:35,439 Speaker 14: She thinks you're deep and noise, you're nut. 559 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 13: She's a sweet she sinks, basically as. 560 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 1: It's kind of slaps my hairs. 561 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 14: WI sense, She. 562 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: Sla that slaps. Yes, good, I played the whole thing 563 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: in a minute. I don't know. I haven't decided yet. 564 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: You had me all worried, like I'm like, well, I 565 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: don't know. I haven't heard the whole thing yet, but 566 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: it says that it's Hillary. 567 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 3: I was saying, I don't know that voice, like I 568 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 3: know Hillary, and I don't know who that. 569 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: Was that was because I was like, oh wait, so 570 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: they're tricking me. Literally they put that there. Nothing would 571 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: surprise me more if we had the wrong song in there. 572 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: And I'm that's so good. So a thirty four year 573 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: old woman is demanding compensation from her ex boyfriend who's 574 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 1: thirty eight, for what she says is stealing or I 575 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: guess did steal. He did steal her child bearing years. 576 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: This is from Fox and Fox News. Do don't worry. 577 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 13: I think this is it. 578 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: You don't have to stop listening for m not that 579 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 1: it would have anything to do with anything, but it's like, 580 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: as soon as I say Fox, I think people are like, 581 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 1: oh no, Fox Local. 582 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 11: The la four year old woman is demanding her ex 583 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 11: boyfriend pay compensation, claiming he stole her child bearing years 584 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 11: after nearly a decade together. She says her thirty eight 585 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 11: year old X into things just as she was ready 586 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 11: to start a family. She said she put her career 587 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 11: and her goals on hold, believing they'd have kids, and 588 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 11: now wants them to cover fertility treatments like egg freezing 589 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,719 Speaker 11: or IVF. The story from The New York Post has 590 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 11: gone viral, sparking a debate. Some call it justified, others 591 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 11: say it's absurd to blame an ex. Legal experts say 592 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 11: her case wouldn't hold up in court, but it is 593 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 11: raising some questions about love timing and who really pays 594 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 11: the price when relationships. 595 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 3: In So what do you think? Does she have a point? 596 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so this is my question because this is kind 597 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 1: of my demographic, Like I'm in my I guess mid forties. 598 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:53,919 Speaker 10: Now. 599 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: I love how they and I say this every time, 600 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: but was supplying makeup, I'm sorry distract to think I'm sorry. 601 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I just didn't want to get away. Should 602 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: I look over and there's this mess Scara? And I was, oh, well, 603 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: this is very very distracting to me. Is that not mess, Scara? 604 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 3: No, but I'll put it. 605 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 14: What is it? 606 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 3: It's eyebrow? 607 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:15,199 Speaker 5: Joe? 608 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, YEA pass it over here. Okay, I got none. 609 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: I guess me too. Then I guess I feel now 610 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: I feel left out. I need some eyebrow, come over there, 611 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: and because I can't move my arms, so. 612 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 3: Get you somewhere. 613 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: Every time I say that, management's like, you know, you 614 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: shouldn't say how old you are, Like, well, I've been 615 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: here for sixteen years, so like, I don't know. I 616 00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: feel like people can do the math. I wasn't. I 617 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: wasn't twelve when I got here, but whatever, So, you know, 618 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: mid thirties is sort of it seems to be the 619 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: appropriate age. I think for me. Maybe people would say, 620 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: and I think that when I meet people who are 621 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: in their mid thirties, if they want to have kids, 622 00:28:55,840 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: they're very understandably, I wouldn't say, well in very states 623 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: of eagerness, I'll put it, but I understand why. You know, 624 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 1: it's like people kind of want to know, hey, where's 625 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: this going pretty quickly if they want to have kids 626 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 1: and don't have any. And it used to kind of 627 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: annoy me, but then I really sat back and was like, well, no, 628 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: I understand, like you there's only so much time, and yes, 629 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: you can freeze your eggs, there's other things, but like 630 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: just generally speaking, and yes, people are going to text me, oh, 631 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 1: well you can have a kid when you're fifty. Yes, 632 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: I know, and people are gonna text me, well this 633 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 1: and that. I'm I'm not talking about the exceptions. I'm 634 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 1: just saying generally speaking, you know, early mid thirties or 635 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: before people like to have kids, I guess. And so 636 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 1: if you're not sure, then that could be a problem, 637 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: because what if you date somebody for two or three years, 638 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 1: four or five years even, and maybe you didn't freeze 639 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: your eggs, then you get to a certain point where 640 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: you're at an age where it would be more difficult 641 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: to have kids safely. And then I mean, whose fault 642 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 1: is that. I don't think you can't blame it on 643 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: in this case, the guy. But I also think that 644 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: a guy should be thoughtful about the fact that if 645 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: that's something that you are absolutely wanting to do, and 646 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 1: and and the dude if he knows in his mind 647 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: he absolutely doesn't want to do it, and he's not 648 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: telling you that because he doesn't want you to go anywhere. 649 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: That's wildly selfish. Now, should I have to pay for 650 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: your fertility? No? But like, let's say that this person 651 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: brought up over the course of that relationship, I want 652 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: I want to have I I want to freeze my 653 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: eggs and he's like, no, no, you don't have to 654 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: do that. Well, that's messed up too, because like that 655 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 1: might be the only way, that might be one of 656 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: the only ways that you could have a natural child. 657 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,959 Speaker 1: And and maybe oh yeah, I don't want the expense 658 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: or I don't want to deal with the you know, 659 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 1: the process, because I know even though it's the woman 660 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 1: who who endures most of that process. I mean, a 661 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: guy can help. But it's like, as far as all 662 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: the different things that come with that, there's a dude. 663 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: A dude who says don't don't freeze your egg because 664 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: you don't want to deal with it is the ultimate 665 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: level of selfishness in my opinion. But I mean, does 666 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: a guy. Does a man hold any level of responsibility 667 00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: eight five, five, five, nine one one oh three five 668 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: If he's dating a woman who wants to have kids 669 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: in a certain demographic and it's not extremely vocal or 670 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: extremely communicative about his intentions, does the guy hold any 671 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: responsibility perhaps not financially, but morally or ethically. You're saying no. 672 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 9: I almost want to say yes, only because a man 673 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 9: will waste your time if you let him. 674 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 3: And I'm big on that, and I know. Yeah, No, 675 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 3: that's very true. It's very true. 676 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 9: But if you're a woman and you know you want 677 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 9: kids or you know you want this, I do think, 678 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 9: like in your heart, like you have to decide if 679 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 9: this is something that you're gonna pursue or how long 680 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 9: you're going to stay in this. You don't have to 681 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 9: like tell the world like you have tail years, but 682 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 9: you can't say, like, I do want children, and like 683 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 9: if that's not something you want or like we can 684 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 9: do it by a certain time, then like then this 685 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 9: might not be for me, this relationship, just. 686 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 3: Because I don't know. I just feel like already, like I'm. 687 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 9: A mom where I'm thirty three, I'm a mom of 688 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 9: a one and a half year old, and I personally 689 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 9: like don't want children later. I only want one. But 690 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 9: I also don't want kids later in life because this 691 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 9: is so harder. I feel like a team mom some 692 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 9: days and other days I feel like a nan on 693 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 9: because it's just like it's the hardest, most exhausting thing ever. 694 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 9: So for me, if hobby was like over here, like well, 695 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,239 Speaker 9: I don't know, like I'm not gonna let a man 696 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 9: anybody waste my time. 697 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, for me, it's more nuanced than just like a 698 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 3: blanket yes or no. 699 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 4: However, if I do think of a dude as like 700 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 4: constantly telling you that's what he wants and that's what 701 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 4: the plan is, then yes, the same way that he 702 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 4: would want me to respect him in that relationship, I 703 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 4: would demand or I ask for, at least that respect 704 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 4: in return of the second you know you don't want 705 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 4: to do this with me. You know, you have to 706 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 4: be transparent about it. Now, if a guy is never 707 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 4: sure if he wants kids, then it's on the woman. 708 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 4: You're entering that at your own risk. 709 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. I agree with that, I. 710 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 1: Said, interrupt her. I don't mean to say to you. 711 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: I hate the counter argument. You know, guys do this, 712 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 1: we'll so do girls. I hate that argument, but it 713 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: is true. I mean, I've been in different types of 714 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: situations where women are biding time dealing with things, but 715 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 1: they don't want me to go anywhere. So it's like, yes, 716 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: this happens. So people do waste each other's time that 717 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: and they do it in dating, and they do it 718 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: on the dating apps. So they do it in all 719 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: forms relationships, marriage otherwise, So you know, but in this 720 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 1: particular case, if a dude knows that he doesn't want 721 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: to have kids, or in this case, apparently he said 722 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: to her. This guy to his girlfriend, He tells me 723 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 1: he feels at thirty eight as though he still has 724 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 1: a decade of enjoying his lifestyle and powering through with 725 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: his career and is not ready for marriage and children. 726 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 1: But he knows that it's become a priority for me, 727 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 1: So he's off. So he broke up with her as 728 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: a result of it, I guess, And now now you 729 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: know she wants I guess, compensation or something for this, 730 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 1: which I have to be honest, Based on that quote, 731 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like he misled her. It just sounds 732 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: it sounds like she always knew that and hoped that 733 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 1: he would change his mind and hedged her bets, and 734 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: now she had a position where it's going to be 735 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: a little bit more challenging and she's mad about it. 736 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: That's kind of what it sounds like. I mean, I 737 00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 1: think if a dude is like, yep, I want to 738 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: do it. I want kids. I want kids. I want kids. 739 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: I want kids, and then you know, four or five 740 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 1: years later, now I don't want kids. That's his right. 741 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 1: But I think you would have every right to be 742 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: really upset about it. Now do you get financial damages 743 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: for that? I don't know. 744 00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,240 Speaker 3: I wish you should, right like you should. 745 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,959 Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of women waste their time 746 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 6: in relationships and men may not understand how important it 747 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 6: is that time window. Like you have your your child 748 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,800 Speaker 6: bearing years and you waste them with a guy who's 749 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 6: just leading you on. But it doesn't seem like this 750 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 6: guy was leading her on. It seems like he was 751 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 6: clear about what he does want and what he doesn't want. 752 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,359 Speaker 6: And you can't stick around hoping somebody's going to change 753 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 6: their mind. 754 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: That's on you. Well, then you can say, well, guys, 755 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: had you know you can. You can be Mick Jagger. 756 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: You can have kids until you're eighty years old. You can. 757 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: But I suppose the same And here I go flipping 758 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: the argument again, which I really don't like that as 759 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: an argument tactic. But I mean, I could date someone 760 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: for five years and then wind up being five years 761 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: older than I wanted to be having kids, and then 762 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 1: it turns out we don't have kids and break up, 763 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 1: and now I have to start over, which means a 764 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: couple more years maybe to meet someone else, and then 765 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,520 Speaker 1: get to the point where so now I'm five six, seven, eight, 766 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,359 Speaker 1: ten years older than I wanted to be having kids, 767 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: and now I'm a really old dad. I mean, so, 768 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: I it's not physiologically impossible for a man, but I 769 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: still run the risk of it not lining up with 770 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: how I wanted my life to be. And I can't 771 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 1: sue for that. 772 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 10: You know what I mean? 773 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 6: I mean, I share yours on each other. Yeah, let's 774 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 6: just meet both stops in each other time. 775 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 3: I'm so fry. 776 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: Hey, Eric, what's up? Eric? 777 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 15: Hey? 778 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: Are we doing? Hey? Man? So what do you if 779 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 1: a woman dates a guy in her mid thirties wants 780 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: to have kids, and after years, you know, he decides, 781 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want kids, and uh, even 782 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 1: if he said he wanted kids previously, and then they 783 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: break up, I mean, does he have any kind of 784 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 1: moral or ethical or financial obligation? I mean, I know 785 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: this is kind of a ridiculous question, but on the 786 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: financial front, but like, I mean, is he responsible in 787 00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 1: some ways for the position that she finds herself in 788 00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: late thirties and no kids. 789 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 16: No, I don't think he owed her anything financially, but 790 00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 16: you definitely morally if someone wants kids and you don't. 791 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 16: You definitely should let them know up front. If it's 792 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 16: a situation where the two just split and she feels 793 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 16: that she wasted her time, then it's her choice to 794 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 16: stay in that relationship. She definitely could have frozen her eggs. 795 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 16: I think a woman has the right to do that 796 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 16: without acting a guy, so she still had played a 797 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 16: part in it as well. 798 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. I guess she very easily could have 799 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 1: just gone ahead with that. And yeah, she didn't need 800 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 1: him to say one way or the other weather she 801 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 1: should or shouldn't do it, unless she was expecting him 802 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 1: to pay for it for some reason. But yeah, I 803 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 1: mean I've dated people who are in the process of 804 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 1: freezing their eggs who who did before did right after 805 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: we I mean, that's something you don't need me for that, 806 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 1: You don't need my certainly don't need my permission for 807 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: that either. 808 00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 16: Exactly exactly, so, so he definitely should just go ahead 809 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 16: and do that if you want to. But at the 810 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 16: same time, though, I don't think he owed her anything financially, 811 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 16: But definitely, guys don't hold up women. 812 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you know what you want to have kids, 813 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 1: just go for it and do it all right, Eric, 814 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Thank you guys, love 815 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 1: me to I've walked from a lot of early situations 816 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: that I never saw developed because it seemed that the 817 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,400 Speaker 1: she wanted kids so badly and I was unsure that 818 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: I thought it was unfair, and so it's possible I 819 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 1: could have changed my mind. But again, you know, I'm 820 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: respectful of the fact and aware of the fact that 821 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 1: it only would become more difficult depending on your age. 822 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: So like I'm holding you up in some ways. Yeah, 823 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: and that's not fair to her, No, But is it 824 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,359 Speaker 1: worth ending a relationship that could have been I mean 825 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,800 Speaker 1: it was I a little maybe over sensitive to it 826 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,320 Speaker 1: on your behalf, or was I a little reactive to 827 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: it in some strength? And I'm not saying I'm a 828 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: hero by any means, but I just mean, you know, 829 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: did I wind up? Did we wind up not pursuing 830 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: something that could have been great? And it could have 831 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 1: led to that because I was concerned with you not 832 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 1: meeting your needs and being resentful to me for it. Hey, Jessica, Yes, Hi, 833 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 1: good morning. Final, say what do you want to say? 834 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,040 Speaker 17: I definitely think that there's some sort of case for 835 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 17: holding them financially responsible. This happened to my sister. She 836 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,919 Speaker 17: was with a guy for eleven years, from twenty four 837 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 17: to thirty six, and he just up and left her. 838 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 17: But the whole time they had talked about it, like 839 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 17: she wanted multiple kids. He wasn't really into multiple kids. 840 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 17: But yeah, we'll have at least one kid. Yeah, let's 841 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 17: have kids. She's like, well, she had some health issues, 842 00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 17: maybe I should freeze my eggs, do like that sort 843 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 17: of thing. No, No, well you know we're gonna we'll 844 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 17: get into that. We'll get into that over and over 845 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,279 Speaker 17: and over again for years and then just up and 846 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 17: left her. And here she is now, like thirty seven 847 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 17: years old, trying to start over again. She still wants kids, 848 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 17: but now you have to start over, You have to 849 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,879 Speaker 17: find a partner that you trust and like and all 850 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 17: of these things. And now, because of the fult that 851 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 17: she was, is she going to be able to have 852 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 17: kids in what is now after thirty five considered a 853 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:16,800 Speaker 17: geriatric pregnancy, So it they is really a hard situation, 854 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 17: but it is hard. Jes definitely need to take that 855 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:20,720 Speaker 17: into consideration because. 856 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: Mary, he genuinely was on the fence and didn't want 857 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,359 Speaker 1: to I mean, and I'm not defending him, I don't 858 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 1: know him, but maybe he was genuinely on the fence, 859 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: didn't want to lose her, and then you find yourself 860 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 1: at a point of no return, where it's now you 861 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 1: look like a jacka, but like you genuinely maybe he 862 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 1: really didn't know, or maybe he hoped that he would 863 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 1: come around to the idea. I think we all take 864 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,239 Speaker 1: risks in dating and in relationships and on the dating 865 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: apps and everything else, and I think, you know, unfortunately, 866 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:47,880 Speaker 1: this is a place that you can find yourself. But 867 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 1: I think that the key is, you know, and I'm 868 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: not saying your sister did anything wrong, but maybe she 869 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,280 Speaker 1: should have just proceeded with some of these backup plans 870 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,360 Speaker 1: on her own and did not and not wait for 871 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: him to just side what she should or shouldn't do, 872 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: or you know. It's almost like creating a backup plan 873 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 1: ahead of time by freezing your eggs. 874 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:06,839 Speaker 5: Right. 875 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,000 Speaker 17: But some people, I think, misconstrue that backup plan as 876 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 17: like disloyalty or you know, or not having faith in 877 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 17: that relationship. And I think that's probably which is not 878 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 17: right at all. But that's probably what he would have 879 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 17: thought and why he pressured her not all so much 880 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 17: to not do those things because then he thought, well, 881 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 17: then why are you making a backup plan for not 882 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 17: being with me. 883 00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: It's complicated, Jessica, thank you. Have a good day. Yep, 884 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: you Cuba multiple what so that you wind up having 885 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: a kid going on Maury, you don't know whose kid 886 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:42,719 Speaker 1: it is? 887 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:44,919 Speaker 3: You know who kid it is the one who wanted 888 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 3: to have one, but you probably do, you know, I 889 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 3: want to give it to somebody. 890 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: I was about to say here, we are not solving 891 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 1: the world's problems, and then Kiki says, so we're definitely 892 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 1: not solved. The more Fread show next right here, this 893 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,400 Speaker 1: is the Fread Show. 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By the way they made a 917 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,360 Speaker 1: department store. I don't know, man. From the outside, I 918 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,759 Speaker 1: was like, what did this used to be? Because now 919 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: it is a Now it is a high class, high 920 00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 1: quality venue period for all sorts of entertainment. I'm told 921 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 1: they do all kinds of things there, parties and concerts 922 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: and everything. So if you're in that Griffith, Indiana, go 923 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 1: check them out. Avenue was nine. I couldn't remember his 924 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: nine one two or nine one three. It was nine 925 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,759 Speaker 1: one three at the time I left. By the time 926 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,960 Speaker 1: I left, it was it was we were on the 927 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 1: State Street. It didn't really matter. Oh my god, Yeah 928 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 1: that was something. But honestly, thank you to everybody who 929 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:55,920 Speaker 1: came out on a Friday night hung out with us. 930 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,759 Speaker 1: And and I haven't looked at my credit card bill yet, 931 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,040 Speaker 1: but I know I bought a lot of shot. I 932 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: know you bought a lot of shots. I stood in 933 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,920 Speaker 1: that corner, did a lot of shots. And the bartenders, 934 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: I think it was like they were looking at it 935 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 1: like they were scientists doing some kind of focus group, 936 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 1: like how much alcohol can this man consume before he 937 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 1: like implodes? And then you're right? And then Caylen and 938 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 1: I went to another bar after that with Captain Steve 939 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: and his wife, because well, why wouldn't we. But we 940 00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:22,799 Speaker 1: did not drive. I will have you know. We did 941 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,719 Speaker 1: not drive. I may have fallen asleep in the back 942 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,280 Speaker 1: of the uber a couple of times, but that's okay. 943 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: I did check to make sure that no one like 944 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,919 Speaker 1: puked in my uber I'm checked to make sure because 945 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: Caylen and they dropped me off, I think right, and 946 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,080 Speaker 1: then you went after and you went home after me. 947 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 3: I don't know, you tell me. I know we both 948 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:38,799 Speaker 3: got home. 949 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: I did too, and I think I got dropped off first. 950 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 1: I think so, But then I went to check to 951 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: make sure that you didn't puke in the back of it, 952 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 1: because oh, well, no, you say that, but that's happened 953 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 1: to me a number of times. And I finally am 954 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,279 Speaker 1: getting my score back up from the times I either 955 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 1: got somebody an uber or like got out of the 956 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: uber so that they could get dropped off somewhere else 957 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 1: and then wake up the next day and it's like 958 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty bucks in my tren cord. I'm like, 959 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 1: what did you do? But that didn't happen, So thank 960 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 1: you for coming. We'll do it again. I don't know 961 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:08,400 Speaker 1: what are we gonna do it spring? Maybe? Yeah? Another 962 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: Tangent Live. Yeah, and uh, I think there were some 963 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 1: interesting things I recall in our Tangent because we did. 964 00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 1: We did tape the episode, so if you weren't able 965 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:20,919 Speaker 1: to make it, it will be on the iHeart radio 966 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: and you could search for the Friend Show on demand, 967 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 1: wit anute. So you only follow pretty people? 968 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 6: Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on 969 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 6: my timeline, ugly people all my time. 970 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 3: I'm like it, like it triggers. I'm like, oh god, 971 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 3: not like wow. 972 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:39,800 Speaker 1: So nuts to you again. So frend show is on, 973 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:46,320 Speaker 1: damn Kiki, Wow, I know you're not You're not. Tuesday, 974 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: November eleventh, The French Show is not Happy Veterans Day, 975 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 1: Good morning, Kaitlin. 976 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,320 Speaker 3: Always give it up to the veterans. 977 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, and yes, all active duty and and in former. Yeah, 978 00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,080 Speaker 1: any member of our military first responder. You know what's 979 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 1: it too? You know what's a new I don't. Oh yeah, 980 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 1: you've done it. You continue to do it. I do 981 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:04,759 Speaker 1: a good fight. 982 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 17: You. 983 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 3: I do it for everybody. 984 00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 1: Jason Sun goes for mechanics, I got you. You gotta 985 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 1: do it. Give it up to mechanics, Kik what same 986 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 1: goes for guys who proposed to you. 987 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 6: You should give it up to now after the wedding though, yes, 988 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 6: that's right, that's right. 989 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,040 Speaker 1: Thanks. She'll be sholling four hundred and fifty bucks in 990 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: the showdown in about twenty five minutes. You can win, 991 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,239 Speaker 1: Belaha means here on the phone of the Tech State 992 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: five five five nine three five forty five minutes commercial 993 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: free Fred show starts right now, we'll get to blog, 994 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: stay or go, we'll debate some relationship drama, and the 995 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:38,880 Speaker 1: entertainment report is in there too. 996 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 4: What are you working on, k It looks like Orlando 997 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,280 Speaker 4: Bloom may have moved on with a woman who dressed 998 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 4: up as Katy Perry very recently. 999 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 1: So we got to unpack this because it's weird. Oh boy, 1000 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 1: we all know the people. Man, They date the same 1001 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 1: person over and over and over again. In this case 1002 00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 1: this person who dresses up like the same person. 1003 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, they talk better than These are the radio blogs 1004 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 8: on the Fresh shows already in our diaries, except we 1005 00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:08,839 Speaker 8: say them a lot. 1006 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: We call him blogs Kiki. Yeah, dear blog. 1007 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 6: So I've been waiting and excited all weekend to update 1008 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 6: you about the photo shoot that you didn't come to 1009 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:21,360 Speaker 6: for my engagement photos. 1010 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 1: I was hobbling around. I guess, yes, he didn't want 1011 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 1: me with my walker with my bad back. You know 1012 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,800 Speaker 1: you didn't confirm. You didn't confirm at the time and location, 1013 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: or I would have been there. What at your engagement photos? Yes, 1014 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 1: it was it was. 1015 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:37,800 Speaker 3: Quite the party. 1016 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,239 Speaker 6: We did have our engagement photo shoot, and I told 1017 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 6: you guys, I was extremely nervous about how Big Tim 1018 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 6: would perform. 1019 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 3: At this photo shoot. He's not like a G co 1020 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,879 Speaker 3: Q model. He doesn't like a camera in his face. 1021 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 3: He's not me so. 1022 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,840 Speaker 6: Very concerned. We posed, you know, did our practice poses. 1023 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 6: You know, we had his outfits all laid out, and 1024 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 6: I am happy to say the photo shoot went extremely well. 1025 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 3: He pulled it off. 1026 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:10,799 Speaker 6: He had his little Tira eyes and smising down pack. 1027 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,319 Speaker 3: He was like in his element. But then he did 1028 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,520 Speaker 3: get sick in the middle of the photo shoot. 1029 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he got sick. 1030 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 6: Got sick to the point where he had to go, 1031 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 6: Like we were shooting at a hotel. Shout out to 1032 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 6: the version here in Chicago and my girl Trician who 1033 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 6: set it up with me or for me and Jason. 1034 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 6: But yeah, he went and had to go lay down 1035 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,399 Speaker 6: in one of the rooms because he was so sick. 1036 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 6: And I was like, oh this diva, Like I was 1037 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 6: so over it in the middle of the photo shoe 1038 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:38,600 Speaker 6: like are you okay? 1039 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,439 Speaker 3: And my hair Styalace was like, you know, it's weird. 1040 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 6: I see this happen a lot on like photo shoots 1041 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,839 Speaker 6: somebody who like the grooms a lot of time, they 1042 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 6: get nervous and the nerves make them sick, and. 1043 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 3: I'm like, are you serious? So he got sick. I 1044 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 3: had a little solo shoot for a while. 1045 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,320 Speaker 1: I was gonna say no, time was wasted with a 1046 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: bunch of cameras around. I'm sure. Oh I had to 1047 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:00,959 Speaker 1: get my kiky. Yeah. 1048 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 6: So but he came back and you know, a true professional, 1049 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,399 Speaker 6: he was great and the photos turned out really well. 1050 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,360 Speaker 6: We we went all over that hotel, like when I 1051 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 6: cannot wait to show you guys the photos. We went everywhere. 1052 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 6: We were on a rooftop it started snowing. 1053 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, but well, you need lots of photos 1054 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,120 Speaker 1: to line the wedding with of just you, so I'm 1055 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: glad that you took a variety. 1056 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,560 Speaker 6: Oh I have so many I'm just gonna blow your 1057 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 6: phone up one day with all of the photos back 1058 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:29,879 Speaker 6: to back to back. 1059 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 3: But it was great. 1060 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 6: It was great, And so shout out to all the 1061 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 6: men who you know, put on their little tucks and 1062 00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 6: do what is asked of them. 1063 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 3: But yeah, big tim he did a great job. 1064 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 1: Wow, it was so overwhelming. He had take a nap 1065 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:42,440 Speaker 1: in the middle of it. 1066 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 16: He was so sick. 1067 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,920 Speaker 1: He was so overwhelmed with your beauty. That's where it 1068 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 1: was the pop princess and me kind of like yeah, 1069 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 1: And my favorite part about playing songs like I'm a 1070 00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 1: Hillary Duff, I'm I'm a big Hillary Duff guy. A 1071 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,839 Speaker 1: lot of people don't know that big Hillary Duff guy. Yeah, 1072 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:57,359 Speaker 1: she was very nice to me back in the day. 1073 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: There's a picture of me somewhere. I'm more a turtleneck. 1074 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 1: That was the last time the turtlenecks were in. But 1075 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:08,800 Speaker 1: my favorite part about this is now the record company's 1076 00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 1: gonna call the bosses in six cities and be like, oh, 1077 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,480 Speaker 1: amazing you ahead of the song, and then they're all 1078 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: gonna go you know what I'm talking about. I love 1079 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 1: to do this because they can they can see, like 1080 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: they get alerts on their phones right when they're when 1081 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 1: they're the songs and the different labels are working, you know, 1082 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,399 Speaker 1: like when they get a little alert on their phone 1083 00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 1: and whoever it is, it's like, yeah, Hillary duffs in 1084 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,440 Speaker 1: Chicago and West Palm and Rawl, this is so exciting. 1085 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 1: And then they got to call Trevor and he's like, 1086 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't even know what you're talking about what she 1087 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:49,839 Speaker 1: has a song gotium or like our boss is trying 1088 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 1: to like maneuver something and Nope, I just went ahead 1089 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 1: and did it. Hi, Marry, how you doing? 1090 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 18: Hey? 1091 00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 3: I'm okay. How are you guys doing? 1092 00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,359 Speaker 1: I don't know how you can be just okay after 1093 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 1: that new Hillary song? But okay, that's fine. So whatever 1094 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm all fired up. 1095 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:05,200 Speaker 17: For me. 1096 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:07,520 Speaker 1: It's like so Yesterday all over again, Like it's just 1097 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 1: the same kind of feels. Nonetheless, what's going on with 1098 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: you and your husband? You guys are high school sweethearts. 1099 00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,319 Speaker 1: You've been together for twenty years, and he wrote us 1100 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,800 Speaker 1: a note because you want to be on Stair or 1101 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,360 Speaker 1: Go so that we can talk about you and decide, 1102 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: you know, how you should live out the rest of 1103 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 1: your life. So tell us at the end of this, 1104 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: we will give you the pathway to follow to live 1105 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,440 Speaker 1: the rest of your life. Because everyone who comes on 1106 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,680 Speaker 1: Stay or Go agrees to do exactly what we tell them, 1107 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,280 Speaker 1: So go ahead, Okay. 1108 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:43,000 Speaker 3: So we openly talk about this all the time. 1109 00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 10: We neither one of us have been with anybody else, 1110 00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 10: and you know, since we've been together since high school, 1111 00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 10: and we talk about the fact that it's just been 1112 00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,400 Speaker 10: us and we always talk about this. 1113 00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 1: Okay. 1114 00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 10: Recently though, while we were talking about it like usual, 1115 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 10: he kind of shocked me because he asked if I 1116 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 10: would ever be interested in opening up our relationship. 1117 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:12,400 Speaker 1: Why are you talking about? Like what is the context? 1118 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:12,600 Speaker 9: Like? 1119 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 1: Is it just like, Oh, I wonder what it would 1120 00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:16,560 Speaker 1: be like since we've only been with each other, Like 1121 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,319 Speaker 1: I wonder what other people you know? I wonder if 1122 00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:19,920 Speaker 1: it's different or is it like kind of in a 1123 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,520 Speaker 1: cent or is it or is it coming you know, 1124 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 1: from your perspective because you don't really know necessarily where 1125 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 1: it's coming from within him? But for you, is it? 1126 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 1: Is it your curiosity? Like do you wonder, Hey, it 1127 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 1: could be better, it could be different, So you're satisfied, 1128 00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: You're you're not having this conversation because you're unfulfilled in 1129 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:37,839 Speaker 1: some way. 1130 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:44,480 Speaker 10: Yeah, I I honestly talk about it, and we joke 1131 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 10: about it, and I thought he was joking that he 1132 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 10: was actually being serious, and it's it's not something I've 1133 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 10: ever considered, But I told him. 1134 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 3: I would think about it, because what else am I 1135 00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:58,520 Speaker 3: going to say? 1136 00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,560 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I guess for me, I'm I'm just curious 1137 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,080 Speaker 1: why that conversation because you said earlier like that you 1138 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 1: guys talk about it a lot, like the idea of 1139 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,359 Speaker 1: and then and now all of a sudden, it's why, 1140 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 1: you know, one step further in that conversation. So I 1141 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 1: just wonder, is that I don't know what it's like 1142 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 1: to be with only one person, so I wouldn't even 1143 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 1: know how to have a conversation like that. But I 1144 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 1: just I was curious, like what the impetus was. But nonetheless, 1145 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 1: this time he says, well, what if we what if 1146 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,200 Speaker 1: we uh, you know, what if I stepped out? What 1147 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,359 Speaker 1: if you stepped out? I assume that's what he's talking about, 1148 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,879 Speaker 1: like that you guys would individually go maybe do other things. 1149 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:37,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, like maybe this would add to our relationship because 1150 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:42,120 Speaker 3: we've been together so long and and I just talked 1151 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 3: about it. But I really I don't want to share him. 1152 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 10: I mean, I feel stuck because I don't want to 1153 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,799 Speaker 10: lose him, But I can't stay and tell him. 1154 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,920 Speaker 3: I don't want an open relationship, right, I. 1155 00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, you can. Like this is all very confusing 1156 00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 1: to me, Like when I hear about situations where one 1157 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 1: person wants and believe it or not, I know, more 1158 00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,200 Speaker 1: than one person who's kind of secretly in an open relationship, 1159 00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 1: and oftentimes he told me one person that really wanted it, 1160 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:10,879 Speaker 1: and the other one went for it because they wanted 1161 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,239 Speaker 1: to appease their partner in some way even though they're 1162 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 1: very uncomfortable with it. And in fact, at least two 1163 00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: of the situations I'm aware of, the relationship is ending 1164 00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 1: because the person was uncomfortable they did it anyway, and 1165 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 1: then that wound up being the thing that sort of, 1166 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,000 Speaker 1: you know, created the whole thing. It was like, well, 1167 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,720 Speaker 1: I'll do this for you because maybe adding some spice 1168 00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 1: or some variety, maybe that adds some spice and variety 1169 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 1: to our lives or whatever. And it turns out, no, 1170 00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,200 Speaker 1: the person who didn't want to do it was always 1171 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,080 Speaker 1: uncomfortable with it. So no, I don't think in the 1172 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,919 Speaker 1: confines of a relationship, of a marriage, or any form 1173 00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:45,440 Speaker 1: of committed relationship that you have to agree to something 1174 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:46,880 Speaker 1: or risk losing someone. 1175 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 4: But how do you stay knowing they want that the 1176 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 4: whole That would be in the back of my mind 1177 00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,360 Speaker 4: for the rest of our relationship. 1178 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,600 Speaker 1: But within relationships, don't people ask for a lot of things, 1179 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 1: and maybe you do some of them. And maybe you don't. 1180 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, do you do you get 1181 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,080 Speaker 1: the idea that he's really committed to this or or 1182 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 1: is it just like he just threw it out there 1183 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,400 Speaker 1: as a curiosity. And if you were to say no, 1184 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: do you really believe that he would resent you if 1185 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 1: you said no? 1186 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,520 Speaker 3: If I don't go along with it. I do feel 1187 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 3: like he would. This is really tough, you know. It's 1188 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 3: like I don't want to share him. 1189 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 1: You don't have to. My thing is I don't think 1190 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,799 Speaker 1: you don't have to agree to anything you don't want 1191 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 1: to do. And if he's going to leave you over 1192 00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: this now all of a sudden, after twenty years, but 1193 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,080 Speaker 1: he might cheat. 1194 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1195 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,399 Speaker 6: Like he's telling her he wants a variety, he wants 1196 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,880 Speaker 6: to try to other things, and if she doesn't agree 1197 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 6: to it, she can run the risk of him cheating 1198 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,279 Speaker 6: on hearing him or together. 1199 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:38,759 Speaker 1: I would like to give him the benefit of the 1200 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,759 Speaker 1: doubt and say that he's being transparent because he wants 1201 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 1: to to do this something up and up, and if 1202 00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,759 Speaker 1: she says no, he'll respect his wife. I would like 1203 00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 1: to believe that after twenty years, I feel like if 1204 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,960 Speaker 1: he were going to cheat. He doesn't have to communicate anything, 1205 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,719 Speaker 1: he could just go cheat. So I don't know that 1206 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,319 Speaker 1: one necessarily leads to another. I mean no, I would 1207 00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,360 Speaker 1: say that you have to protect your piece. If you 1208 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:01,880 Speaker 1: don't want to do it, then you say no. And 1209 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 1: if he cheats on you or leaves you, then I 1210 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: think that, as painful as that would be, that tells 1211 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,200 Speaker 1: you absolutely everything you need to know, doesn't it. 1212 00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:11,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, I guess I just wanted to know if anyone 1213 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,400 Speaker 10: had been with someone as long as we've been together, 1214 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 10: and if they experienced this, and if they went for 1215 00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,240 Speaker 10: it or it was a bad idea. 1216 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,000 Speaker 1: Okay, well, let me take the whole calls what to do, 1217 00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:24,839 Speaker 1: because this is where it comes in. You don't really 1218 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 1: have to do what we tell you. I mean, you 1219 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 1: should because we're usually right, especially usually me, I'm usually 1220 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,880 Speaker 1: most right, but because I'm the voice of reason. But 1221 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,520 Speaker 1: but the thing is, there are people listening out there, 1222 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure who have been through something like this, and 1223 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:40,920 Speaker 1: then who will call and and and share their their perspective. 1224 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,000 Speaker 1: So I'm going to take some calls, have the radio one. 1225 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:44,879 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, We wish you the very best, 1226 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 1: and thanks for sharing too. 1227 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:47,319 Speaker 3: Thanks guys. 1228 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:48,160 Speaker 1: Eight five. 1229 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:52,360 Speaker 3: Morning. 1230 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: Hi, So your theory by the way, just to recap 1231 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:58,520 Speaker 1: if someone's just joining in. This woman, Mary has been 1232 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:00,879 Speaker 1: with her husband now for twenty years. They were high 1233 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 1: school sweethearts, so the entire you know, span of the 1234 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,719 Speaker 1: relationship is twenty years they've only been with each other, 1235 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 1: and she had mentioned that they talk occasionally about what 1236 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:10,960 Speaker 1: it would be like openly, you know, to be with 1237 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 1: other people, and finally, in this one conversation recently, he said, well, 1238 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,440 Speaker 1: what if we just open the relationship. She doesn't want 1239 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,400 Speaker 1: to do it, but she's afraid if she doesn't do 1240 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 1: it that he'll leave her, there'll be repercussions or resentment 1241 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:22,879 Speaker 1: or what do you think. 1242 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 19: So from my understanding, they joked about it before. I 1243 00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:30,560 Speaker 19: think he stepped out of the marriage already. 1244 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:36,719 Speaker 1: I really do, based on what's I mean. Here's the thing. 1245 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 19: If he brings it up here and there jokingly, I 1246 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 19: feel like it's not a joke. I kind of feel 1247 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 19: like he already stepped out of the marriage. And he 1248 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 19: keeps trying to push it to see like, hey, maybe 1249 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:50,320 Speaker 19: do you want to give it a try to kind of, 1250 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 19: you know, ease his guilt and maybe he wants to 1251 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,840 Speaker 19: do it again twenty years together and you're bringing it 1252 00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:57,440 Speaker 19: up now? 1253 00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,840 Speaker 1: But are you people telegraph their their I mean, I 1254 00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 1: guess people project all the time. But I mean, again, 1255 00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:08,279 Speaker 1: if he's willing to be that communicative about it, is 1256 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 1: he really telling on himself in that way? I mean, 1257 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: I feel like if you're gonna really because I think 1258 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,640 Speaker 1: if you're gonna cheat you, I don't have to tell 1259 00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:16,440 Speaker 1: you about it. I don't have to. I don't have 1260 00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: to try. And I guess I could manipulate you into it. 1261 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 1: But if I'm already doing it, then why don't need 1262 00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 1: your permission now? 1263 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 3: To esu guilt? 1264 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 19: He doesn't need permission. It's a narcissistic thing where he 1265 00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 19: feels like, I'm going to tell you a little bit, 1266 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,560 Speaker 19: but not enough to rat on me, do you know 1267 00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:32,000 Speaker 19: what I mean? 1268 00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 1: So there's no way that this guy after twenty years 1269 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 1: actually respects his wife and is having an open communication 1270 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 1: about something that he would like to try and running 1271 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: the risk that she says no, there's no way, but 1272 00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:43,960 Speaker 1: that's possible. 1273 00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:47,600 Speaker 3: She needs to leave. 1274 00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 19: I'm sorry, No, no, don't sorry. 1275 00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm playing devil's advocate here. I yeah, but yeah, 1276 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,640 Speaker 1: I would like to believe after twenty years in open communication, 1277 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:58,440 Speaker 1: and it sounds like she admitted that they had a 1278 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 1: lot of communication about things that are sort of taboo topics, 1279 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,080 Speaker 1: I'd like to believe that it's not that cut and dry. 1280 00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:06,080 Speaker 1: But all right, thank you, Maya, I have a good day, 1281 00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 1: me too. Bye. 1282 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:08,240 Speaker 17: Yeah. 1283 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 1: I mean this is a pretty overwhelming thought that he's 1284 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 1: already doing it. Hey, Shelley, Yeah, Hi, Hey, good morning. 1285 00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: You say go because he's already at it. 1286 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 19: You know what, I think that he might have met someone. 1287 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:24,760 Speaker 19: I really do, and you know what, open herself up, 1288 00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 19: do what makes her hurt feel good? You know, if 1289 00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,200 Speaker 19: she doesn't feel comfortable with it, go. 1290 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:32,000 Speaker 3: Just just let him go. 1291 00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think she has to agree to anything. 1292 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,160 Speaker 1: And I think if the relationship is if the relationship 1293 00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: is contingent on her allowing him to be with other 1294 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 1: people or introducing other people into their relationship, then that 1295 00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 1: relationship is highly fractured in my opinion. 1296 00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 19: In my opinion as well. And you know what, she 1297 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:54,240 Speaker 19: is never going to trust him after this. The trust 1298 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:58,760 Speaker 19: line is broken, She's going to be miserable. You will 1299 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,000 Speaker 19: be missing out on a great opportunity for. 1300 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: Herself maybe, But I also don't want to encourage people 1301 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: not to communicate the things that they might want to do. 1302 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:09,320 Speaker 1: And granted that's an extreme one, but I mean, wouldn't 1303 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,920 Speaker 1: you rather that your partners say hey, I've thought about this, 1304 00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:14,919 Speaker 1: or would you consider this, rather than never talk about 1305 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 1: it and then keep it inside. I mean, I mean, 1306 00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 1: you know, I. 1307 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 19: Agree with the communication. I'm one hundred percent with you 1308 00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:23,000 Speaker 19: on communication. 1309 00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:25,240 Speaker 3: But my opinion is. 1310 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 19: Her trust is now altered and she's not going to 1311 00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 19: trust him whether they communicate. She tells him no, she's 1312 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 19: always going to wonder, Okay, fair. 1313 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: Enough, thank you, sheelly, have a good day, Oh you too, 1314 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:39,840 Speaker 1: buy And I've got a bunch of calls to get to. 1315 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 1: But like Paulina, so if Hobby comes to you and 1316 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,480 Speaker 1: says he wants to do X y Z, whether it's 1317 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: an activity or a specific thing or bringing other people 1318 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 1: in or whatever, do you feel like, I mean, you 1319 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: have a good marriage. Do you feel like if you 1320 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: say no, that that automatically means he'll just go do 1321 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 1: it with someone else, or do you feel like he 1322 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:58,640 Speaker 1: would should be able to come to you and say, hey, 1323 00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about this. This would be and then you 1324 01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:03,320 Speaker 1: say no and then all right, well that kind of sucks, 1325 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,960 Speaker 1: but then you're still married. 1326 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, that did happen to us. And it wasn't a 1327 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,080 Speaker 9: question of like can we do this? It was just like, oh, 1328 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 9: what do you think of something like this? My hot 1329 01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 9: take on the like kind of what essentially opening up 1330 01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:16,640 Speaker 9: your marriage? 1331 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:16,800 Speaker 14: Right? 1332 01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:18,720 Speaker 3: So like seeing other people, my hot. 1333 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:21,439 Speaker 9: Take on that is like I would almost feel like why, 1334 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:23,880 Speaker 9: like are you not satisfied with us in the bedroom? 1335 01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 9: Like I'm also a little insecure sized sart thinking a 1336 01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,200 Speaker 9: little deeper. I'm like, are you not attracted to me? 1337 01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:28,360 Speaker 17: Like? 1338 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:29,160 Speaker 1: Do you not want me? 1339 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 3: Do you do not want this marriage? I get a 1340 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:32,640 Speaker 3: little deep with it, Okay, So like it could be as. 1341 01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 9: Simple as like I just want to, you know, spice 1342 01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 9: things up, whatever the reasoning is for this couple, Like 1343 01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,760 Speaker 9: I would feel some type of way, but I think 1344 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,600 Speaker 9: once you shut it down and your partner's like, okay, 1345 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 9: that sucks, but it is what it is. I think 1346 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,440 Speaker 9: that's like fine. I don't think how he's going to 1347 01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:46,920 Speaker 9: go off and do things. I don't see that. 1348 01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't know that one leads to 1349 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:50,440 Speaker 1: the other, but I agree with you it might be 1350 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:51,720 Speaker 1: hard to unring that bell. 1351 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 10: It is, it is, it is. 1352 01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,480 Speaker 3: It makes you kind of question like okay, like like 1353 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:56,680 Speaker 3: why why would you want that? 1354 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,040 Speaker 1: What would you just mean? 1355 01:00:58,360 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 3: And that's how I think, and I think a lot 1356 01:00:59,960 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 3: of women do. 1357 01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 1: But I'm afraid that if you say, oh my god, 1358 01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:07,120 Speaker 1: absolutely not, you've probably shut down all communication on that 1359 01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 1: topic and maybe some others moving forward, like if you 1360 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 1: shame some and granted adding another person's different than I 1361 01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,000 Speaker 1: want to. I want you to do X y Z 1362 01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,400 Speaker 1: between the two of us. But you know, I guess 1363 01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:19,280 Speaker 1: it's a tough spot to be in because depending how 1364 01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: you answer, how you react, you know that could that 1365 01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:28,520 Speaker 1: could really change trajectory of things. Judah, whatever, right, what's 1366 01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:28,840 Speaker 1: your name? 1367 01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:29,440 Speaker 16: Hear me? 1368 01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:30,600 Speaker 1: All right. 1369 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:32,800 Speaker 14: Now? 1370 01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:38,680 Speaker 1: When you called the radio station, Hey, Kim, Kim, I 1371 01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:40,240 Speaker 1: know that you don't want to miss a word of 1372 01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 1: the things that we're saying because they're usually you know, 1373 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 1: dead on. But you can't have the radio one because 1374 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:47,720 Speaker 1: this is his delay, Kim, what did you want to say? 1375 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:48,160 Speaker 1: Good morning? 1376 01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:54,160 Speaker 5: So I think she should stay. Twenty years is a 1377 01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:59,920 Speaker 5: long time she's been talking and adding it as spice. 1378 01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 5: But you have to be very, very confident in yourself and. 1379 01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 17: In your marriage. 1380 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:11,440 Speaker 5: I've been married a very long time and we have 1381 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:15,280 Speaker 5: talked about it numerous times, and one time we went 1382 01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:21,480 Speaker 5: to Vegas and it happened. I don't know if you're 1383 01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:27,160 Speaker 5: talking about an open relationship adding a person to it, 1384 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 5: but I don't think she should leave. I think he's 1385 01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:36,520 Speaker 5: talking to her. It's communication. It doesn't mean that he's 1386 01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 5: already done it. You guys are sitting there saying, oh, 1387 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,600 Speaker 5: he's in it, he's doing it. 1388 01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't think some people are saying that. Yes. I 1389 01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:49,640 Speaker 1: don't think that necessarily means that he's done it. I 1390 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,720 Speaker 1: think it means he's curious about it. But which could 1391 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: have its own problems. Kim, I have to be nosy. 1392 01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,280 Speaker 1: Was that the beginning of something that you guys started 1393 01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,400 Speaker 1: doing in your relationship or was that just a one 1394 01:02:58,480 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 1: off thing. 1395 01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:03,320 Speaker 5: It was a one off thing, and we talk about 1396 01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:08,240 Speaker 5: doing it other times. But it's we thought about swinging 1397 01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,560 Speaker 5: way back in the day, probably be married ten years. 1398 01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:14,240 Speaker 15: But it wasn't. 1399 01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 5: It was something we said to each other that added 1400 01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:23,200 Speaker 5: spice to our relationship. But I have to say, you know, 1401 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,400 Speaker 5: I'm I trust him. I don't think he would ever 1402 01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 5: ever do something like that without me. And that's where 1403 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,280 Speaker 5: your relationship has to be. Yeah, it has to be 1404 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:41,640 Speaker 5: where you're trusting, even not swinging or open or one time. 1405 01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:43,960 Speaker 15: You guys have to trust each other. 1406 01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,000 Speaker 5: And obviously they do they're married twenty years. 1407 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:51,400 Speaker 3: Kim, I'm down for it, Kim, you were down for this, Woeman. 1408 01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:54,440 Speaker 1: She doesn't want to do it, and she's what I 1409 01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:56,240 Speaker 1: don't know, And thank you for calling, Kim. I appreciate you. 1410 01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,080 Speaker 1: Have a great day. What I don't know is is, though, 1411 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:05,480 Speaker 1: is there no Why is she so trepidacious about saying 1412 01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:08,640 Speaker 1: no to him? Like? Why is she so convinced saying 1413 01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:11,439 Speaker 1: no to him leads to something bad like that? That's 1414 01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 1: the part of this that's interesting for me, is she 1415 01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,000 Speaker 1: I think she should be able to say no and 1416 01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,320 Speaker 1: then okay, and he can be disappointed, but that's the 1417 01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:18,680 Speaker 1: end of it. 1418 01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:21,040 Speaker 6: But you you would think about this like if your 1419 01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 6: partner came to you and had that request and you 1420 01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 6: said no. I know, in the back of your mind 1421 01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 6: you would be like, okay, but that's something she wants 1422 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 6: to do, and you would think about that over and 1423 01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,840 Speaker 6: over again, like I know I said no, but does 1424 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:34,960 Speaker 6: that mean they're not going to do it. 1425 01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe, But if I say no and then we 1426 01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:42,080 Speaker 1: move on from it, I hope that that our marriage 1427 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,640 Speaker 1: continues and that we have a functioning relationship and all 1428 01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:46,520 Speaker 1: the other things I get with you would mess with me. 1429 01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,560 Speaker 1: But I also I don't know that I would assume 1430 01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:50,240 Speaker 1: it's already happening. I don't know that I would assume 1431 01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: everything's over. I'd like to believe people can say a 1432 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,600 Speaker 1: lot of things in a marriage and they're not just 1433 01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:56,080 Speaker 1: gonna leave when you don't agree with it. 1434 01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,960 Speaker 6: Yeah no, But having you know another person is a 1435 01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 6: different type of thing. I wish I could be like Kim. 1436 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,440 Speaker 6: You know, Kim was down, She's like, let's go to Vegas. 1437 01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:06,280 Speaker 6: Let's get it out. That's how you want it to be. 1438 01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:07,720 Speaker 6: You want to be on the same type of time 1439 01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,880 Speaker 6: with your partner. But if one of you was like, 1440 01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:11,320 Speaker 6: oh no, I don't want to do it, then that 1441 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,680 Speaker 6: leaves the other person like, man, I really want to 1442 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:13,960 Speaker 6: do this. 1443 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 1: But I will tell you this much, Kiky. In one 1444 01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:17,960 Speaker 1: hundred percent of the examples that I'm aware of, and 1445 01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:21,320 Speaker 1: it's more than one, one of the people didn't want 1446 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,959 Speaker 1: to do it but gave in to a piecy other person, 1447 01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 1: and it still didn't work because I don't know that 1448 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,760 Speaker 1: that's something that you I feel like you're either into 1449 01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,080 Speaker 1: it or you're not. And if you're not, I don't 1450 01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,120 Speaker 1: know that you can be convinced by actually doing it. 1451 01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:36,360 Speaker 1: So that's a tricky one. No, we didn't solve this 1452 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,720 Speaker 1: person sprout. Paul now An's entertainer report is on the 1453 01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:40,360 Speaker 1: Pread Show. 1454 01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:44,480 Speaker 4: A Mississippi college student has been arrested after and I 1455 01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 4: have to say allegedly, but it seems pretty clear to 1456 01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:50,480 Speaker 4: me yelling an anti Semitic comment at Barstool Sports founder 1457 01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,080 Speaker 4: Dave Portnoy as he filmed one of those pizza reviews. 1458 01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,600 Speaker 4: You may have seen the video making its rounds on 1459 01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,240 Speaker 4: social when a twenty year old named Patrick McClintock was 1460 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 4: heard yelling. 1461 01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:05,080 Speaker 3: F the Jews as he was filming this pizza review. 1462 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,680 Speaker 4: You know, the one bite everybody knows the rules at Dave, 1463 01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:12,320 Speaker 4: who is Jewish, and he was filming in Mississippi on Friday. 1464 01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:15,320 Speaker 4: Then this video started making its rounds going viral, and 1465 01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:19,400 Speaker 4: the police department did confirm that he was arrested and 1466 01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:24,160 Speaker 4: later released on bond. He was a junior and mechanical 1467 01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:28,320 Speaker 4: engineering major at Mississippi State University, but he voluntarily left 1468 01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 4: the college I think yesterday, since all of this happened. 1469 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,920 Speaker 4: And there's a lot of talk these days about freedom 1470 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,960 Speaker 4: of speech and what that means, but you can't just 1471 01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:39,560 Speaker 4: say whatever. He was hit with a misdemeanor charge of 1472 01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,600 Speaker 4: disturbing the peace, and the police department did say, yes, okay, 1473 01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,240 Speaker 4: offensive words alone are protected, but when the behavior disrupts 1474 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,480 Speaker 4: a public event or risks violence, they will step in 1475 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,680 Speaker 4: and help to maintain the safety and security of everyone. 1476 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:55,520 Speaker 4: In the video, you can hear Dave saying okay, come on, 1477 01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,760 Speaker 4: say that on camera, and he does say that he 1478 01:06:57,880 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 4: gets these anti Semitic attacks every single day. Said it 1479 01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:05,240 Speaker 4: certainly ramped up in recent years. Actress Rachel Lynn Matthews, 1480 01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 4: who some people say is Orlando Bloom's like maybe girlfriend, 1481 01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:10,800 Speaker 4: or maybe they're just you know, getting with each other. 1482 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,480 Speaker 4: I have no idea, but she's going viral for dressing 1483 01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:17,920 Speaker 4: up as Orlando's ex fiancee Katy Perry. Now this was 1484 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 4: from a Halloween party, but we're just now seeing the 1485 01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,360 Speaker 4: photos or at least figuring out Okay, wait, they may 1486 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,600 Speaker 4: be talking and this is what she dressed up as 1487 01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:27,600 Speaker 4: and she chose to go as Katie in her astronaut era, 1488 01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:29,640 Speaker 4: remember when she was an astronaut. 1489 01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 8: So she. 1490 01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:34,720 Speaker 3: Went to space and she should have take. 1491 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:37,240 Speaker 15: She did. 1492 01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:40,240 Speaker 4: She also took Lauren Sancho's bezos if you if you 1493 01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 4: do not remember any fashion nova Space, they did and 1494 01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 4: that's what she wore. And she even recreated the photo 1495 01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,720 Speaker 4: of Katie kissing the ground when she came back, so 1496 01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:53,920 Speaker 4: like she did all this weird though, yeah, and then 1497 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,959 Speaker 4: like just interesting either way that Orlando would like pose 1498 01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:57,280 Speaker 4: with her. 1499 01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's the timing seems very weird. It's interesting, 1500 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:01,440 Speaker 3: isn't it. 1501 01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,120 Speaker 4: So you know, I don't know, wash out for her, 1502 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,600 Speaker 4: I guess I would say, because that's a little creepy. 1503 01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:07,040 Speaker 3: Speaking of axes, Vivica A. 1504 01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:10,160 Speaker 4: Fox is warning women not to date fifty Cents specifically 1505 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,000 Speaker 4: or any rappers because it quote took her years to 1506 01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,880 Speaker 4: be able to laugh about it. Fifty obviously responded saying, 1507 01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:19,000 Speaker 4: either way, I'm gonna have that ass in the matrix. 1508 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,280 Speaker 3: You know, I love me some you girl, but damn, 1509 01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,040 Speaker 3: it's been twenty two years. So there you go. That's 1510 01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,320 Speaker 3: what he had to say about that. 1511 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:26,920 Speaker 4: And if you want to catch up on anything that 1512 01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,720 Speaker 4: we had to say the frend Show on demand on 1513 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:29,760 Speaker 4: the free I heard radio. 1514 01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:31,720 Speaker 3: But I don't know what he means having me in 1515 01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 3: the matrix face. He's so confused, say, why are you 1516 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:37,880 Speaker 3: gonna have my ass in the matrix? What does that mean? 1517 01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 2: What is the matrix exactly? 1518 01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,799 Speaker 3: I don't know, but don't shoot the message. 1519 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm cleary. 1520 01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:46,800 Speaker 14: It's the Fread Show. Do you have what it takes 1521 01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:50,599 Speaker 14: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Business Showdowns show, 1522 01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 14: Shelley's here. 1523 01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:02,720 Speaker 1: For fifty surprise one eighty three wins, only seventy five 1524 01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 1: losses all time, You've won six straight in Desiree is 1525 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:09,200 Speaker 1: your challenge? Good morning, Desiree. How are you good? How 1526 01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:12,720 Speaker 1: are you doing all right? Desiree. Fun fact about you is. 1527 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 3: I am a veteran. 1528 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:21,800 Speaker 1: You're a veteran, a veteran of which branch? And tell 1529 01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:24,120 Speaker 1: me more? I am a marine. 1530 01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 3: I got out six years ago and now I'm the 1531 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:29,599 Speaker 3: special education teacher. 1532 01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,960 Speaker 1: Well, thank you for your service on multiple front. You're amazing. 1533 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:37,200 Speaker 1: I would say Shelley has to now lose, except Shelley's 1534 01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:38,559 Speaker 1: husband also. 1535 01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,000 Speaker 3: Serves, so you know, I don't know it's all yeah, 1536 01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:41,640 Speaker 3: cancel out right. 1537 01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:46,360 Speaker 1: Both are extremely important. You're the spouse of a member 1538 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,800 Speaker 1: of the military, so I think we're gonna have to 1539 01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:52,000 Speaker 1: do this fair and square. Okay, Desiree. And what was 1540 01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:53,760 Speaker 1: your rank? Do I have to call you by your rank? 1541 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,000 Speaker 3: I was a lance corporal when I got out. 1542 01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,559 Speaker 1: All right, Lance corporal, I'm we're all saluting you right now. 1543 01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:01,720 Speaker 5: But here we go. 1544 01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,800 Speaker 1: No, thank you for your service. Four hundred and fifty 1545 01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:06,280 Speaker 1: bucks is a price. Let's play five questions? Good luck guys, 1546 01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:09,360 Speaker 1: good luck, Desiree. All right, jelly, if you go sound 1547 01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:12,639 Speaker 1: booth poof ouh. Okay, here we go, Lance corporal, Desiree. 1548 01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:15,639 Speaker 1: Question number one. The cops were called to this Amazon 1549 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:19,280 Speaker 1: founder's mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints over 1550 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:21,320 Speaker 1: a birthday party for Chris Jenner. 1551 01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:24,679 Speaker 15: Three. 1552 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:27,960 Speaker 1: When like gazillionaires get called like you're having a high 1553 01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:32,120 Speaker 1: school party, get called. Outcast was inducted into the Rock 1554 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:33,840 Speaker 1: and Roll Hall of Fame over the weekend. Name the 1555 01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:35,640 Speaker 1: rappers that make up Outcast? 1556 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:39,200 Speaker 3: Three I do not know? 1557 01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:41,600 Speaker 1: All right, you got three left? You're good. Cardi B 1558 01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:44,679 Speaker 1: posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown Sunday. Which 1559 01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:46,720 Speaker 1: NFL team Does he play for? 1560 01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:49,320 Speaker 6: NFL team? 1561 01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:57,120 Speaker 1: Yes, Cardi B's boyfriend. All right, all right too left, 1562 01:10:57,160 --> 01:10:59,719 Speaker 1: you're gonna get both of these. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriends 1563 01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:02,679 Speaker 1: going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiance. 1564 01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:07,240 Speaker 1: We just did the story. Name is X, yes and 1565 01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,840 Speaker 1: which link? One eighty two drummer ran a five K 1566 01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 1: then performed on Sunday all before lunchtime. Oh, Travis Barker 1567 01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:22,720 Speaker 1: to Travis Barker, Yeah, Lance corporal, you're so good. That 1568 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,160 Speaker 1: is a three. We're gonna bring Shelley back. She got 1569 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:31,080 Speaker 1: a three because she's a Lance corporal. She's and all that. Yeah, 1570 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:33,760 Speaker 1: she's fine as hell. All right, you should see her. 1571 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:40,000 Speaker 1: I've never seen her, but I'm going with Okay, wow, 1572 01:11:40,160 --> 01:11:43,479 Speaker 1: all right, Ques, you gotta get Yeah, you get three? Ready? 1573 01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:43,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1574 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 1: I got a little distracted there a minute. 1575 01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:47,720 Speaker 3: Since you heard that? 1576 01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:52,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I never hear that. Actually never, certainly never from 1577 01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:56,320 Speaker 1: a lance corporal. The console called to this Amazon founder's 1578 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,720 Speaker 1: mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints over a 1579 01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,880 Speaker 1: birthday party for Christian genner Jeff Bezo. Yes Outcast was 1580 01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:04,599 Speaker 1: inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame over 1581 01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,799 Speaker 1: the weekend. Name the rappers that make up Outcast. 1582 01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,679 Speaker 3: That's a big boy and Andre Breeth South. 1583 01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,320 Speaker 1: That would be correct. Cardi B posted a video cheering 1584 01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:17,599 Speaker 1: for her boyfriend's touchdown on Sunday. Which NFL team does 1585 01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:18,280 Speaker 1: he play for? 1586 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:20,879 Speaker 3: The Patriots? 1587 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:27,200 Speaker 1: The Patriots is correct? Orlando Yes. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriend 1588 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:29,320 Speaker 1: is going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his 1589 01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:32,439 Speaker 1: ex fiancee. Name is x Katy Perry Yeah? And which 1590 01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:35,320 Speaker 1: Blink one eighty two drummer ran a five K then 1591 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,559 Speaker 1: performed on Sunday all before lunchtime. 1592 01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:40,240 Speaker 3: Travis Barker, Yep, there you go, that some five. 1593 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:42,880 Speaker 1: That's the Windlands corporal Desiree. I'm sorry. I We'll try 1594 01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:44,479 Speaker 1: and find you something because its Veterans Day and you 1595 01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:46,920 Speaker 1: deserve it, but you have to say, my name is Desiree. 1596 01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 1: I got showed up on a showdown and you can't 1597 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:49,879 Speaker 1: hang with the gorilla. 1598 01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 17: Go. 1599 01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:53,439 Speaker 5: My name is DeBary and I got showed up on 1600 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 5: the showdown and I can't hang. 1601 01:12:55,200 --> 01:13:00,720 Speaker 1: With the gorilla. That was really good, and I don't 1602 01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:02,599 Speaker 1: know if I can do this. I know this may 1603 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:04,479 Speaker 1: this may exert me in ways I don't need to, 1604 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:08,519 Speaker 1: but desiree you. Lance corpwalk Hey with a reel. 1605 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:19,480 Speaker 3: O cat cat cat Cat shout out. So all the vetteransoo. 1606 01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,680 Speaker 1: Wow, oh man, even in my crippled state, I did 1607 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,519 Speaker 1: that for the veterans. Okay, yeah, yeah, you did that 1608 01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:32,760 Speaker 1: for the veterans. Don right, Lance Corporal Hey, thank you 1609 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,120 Speaker 1: again for your service and to all of your all 1610 01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,920 Speaker 1: of your former members of the military and or fellow 1611 01:13:37,920 --> 01:13:39,920 Speaker 1: I should say, and hang on one second, all right, 1612 01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 1: all right, right, We're gonna get you some sort of 1613 01:13:43,400 --> 01:13:46,280 Speaker 1: wildly underwhelming price, but you'll you'll love every second and 1614 01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:50,719 Speaker 1: you will, you will. Budgets real low, Jason, It's real 1615 01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:54,120 Speaker 1: low at this time of year, real low. Five hundred 1616 01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,360 Speaker 1: bucks tomorrow, one thousand and eighty four wins in a 1617 01:13:56,680 --> 01:13:59,559 Speaker 1: seven game win streak, Shelley, Let's do it again tomorrow. 1618 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:01,200 Speaker 3: Let's do it sounds good. 1619 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:03,680 Speaker 1: And I had a military mic for us. I know 1620 01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:06,200 Speaker 1: he's not a baron just yet, but boy is that guy. 1621 01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:07,880 Speaker 1: What's he gonna do with is like, he's gonna have 1622 01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 1: to be He's gonna have to be missus Showbiz Shelley 1623 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,080 Speaker 1: at some point, and that's gonna be something point, Yes, 1624 01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:13,719 Speaker 1: at some point. 1625 01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, just I don't know where he is right now. 1626 01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:16,880 Speaker 3: He's in the ocean somewhere. 1627 01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:19,160 Speaker 1: Oh is he? Yeah, I don't see one of these 1628 01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 1: top secret missions. Yeah, except he's gonna except he's gonna 1629 01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:26,400 Speaker 1: pop up on on Instagram with his shirt off and 1630 01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:27,479 Speaker 1: Barbados or something. 1631 01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:28,280 Speaker 6: Let me know. 1632 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I guess it's close friends only when 1633 01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 1: hes like that have a good day. And that joke 1634 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:39,240 Speaker 1: is that, uh, you know, Shelley's husband's in the Navy. 1635 01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:42,519 Speaker 1: He's a big time, big time Navy guy. But whatever 1636 01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:45,880 Speaker 1: he does is top secret or something something with I'm 1637 01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:47,840 Speaker 1: not gonna make Shelley explain this, but it's some sort 1638 01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,760 Speaker 1: of tech thing and we're really unclear exactly what he 1639 01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,920 Speaker 1: does or where he does it. We just know it's 1640 01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:55,160 Speaker 1: an aircraft carrier. So she's explaining to this to me 1641 01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:57,880 Speaker 1: and this is no joke. Like, right around the time 1642 01:14:57,960 --> 01:14:59,960 Speaker 1: she explains it to me, I look on my Instagram 1643 01:15:00,200 --> 01:15:03,240 Speaker 1: and it's him in Dubai with his shirt offs. He 1644 01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:05,760 Speaker 1: had a club with a bottle of champagne in his hand. 1645 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, Shully, I think I know where he is. 1646 01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:12,040 Speaker 1: Take us out. I think I found yeah. Way, he 1647 01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:13,200 Speaker 1: was on a little bit of a break. 1648 01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:15,880 Speaker 3: They do get nights off. Yeah, yeah he was. 1649 01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:17,800 Speaker 1: It was all about for I was well aware of 1650 01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:21,080 Speaker 1: where he was, so not much of a secret. Waiting 1651 01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 1: by the phone. Is his next more Bread show? Next, 1652 01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:29,400 Speaker 1: this is the Pread Show. Zane is taking over Las 1653 01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:32,840 Speaker 1: Vegas this January for his seven night Resident Adobe Live 1654 01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:35,080 Speaker 1: at Park MGM. And we've got a trip for two 1655 01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:38,280 Speaker 1: to the January twenty fifth show to night Hotel State 1656 01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:41,320 Speaker 1: Park MGM January twenty fourth through the twenty sixth and 1657 01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:45,360 Speaker 1: round trip airfare. Text forever to three seven three three 1658 01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:47,599 Speaker 1: seven now for a chance to win. A confirmation text 1659 01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:49,760 Speaker 1: will be said. Standard message of data rates may apply. 1660 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:51,160 Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation. 1661 01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:04,639 Speaker 3: Wait, somebody has a voodooed all of me and they're 1662 01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:05,120 Speaker 3: poking it. 1663 01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:08,400 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll stop. I'm sorry. Oh yeah, okay, I think 1664 01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:09,880 Speaker 1: I've been poking it for years. I didn't think this 1665 01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:10,639 Speaker 1: thing worked. 1666 01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,920 Speaker 3: But finally working, I'm sure we out of context. 1667 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:15,120 Speaker 1: That's gonna be something. I've been poking it for years 1668 01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:18,240 Speaker 1: and I didn't think this thing works. Save that. In Please, 1669 01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:21,640 Speaker 1: Fred's show is on. Somebody got a voodoo dollar me 1670 01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 1: stab me in the back. With it. Let's see that's 1671 01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:30,280 Speaker 1: the theme this year. Stabbed in the back. Oh it 1672 01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:33,439 Speaker 1: Souit's time to roll into twenty twenty six. Man, girl, 1673 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:36,000 Speaker 1: don't I know it? A lot of good things have happened. 1674 01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:37,320 Speaker 1: But you know we can roll right on and we 1675 01:16:37,360 --> 01:16:39,320 Speaker 1: can leave some stuff and we can leaves this up 1676 01:16:39,360 --> 01:16:44,439 Speaker 1: behind too. Mand Morning everybody. It's Tuesday, November eleventh. The 1677 01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:46,760 Speaker 1: Fred Show is not Hi Klin, Hi, Hi Jason Brow 1678 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 1: and Hi Paulina Hikky Morning. Shelley is here? Bellaha means 1679 01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:53,439 Speaker 1: here as well. Eight five five five three five. You 1680 01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:56,000 Speaker 1: can call in text us anytime the iHeartRadio app. Search 1681 01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:58,479 Speaker 1: for the Fred's Show all of the socials. It's the 1682 01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:01,679 Speaker 1: Fred Show YouTube. We can listen and watch live throughout 1683 01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 1: the morning and catch up on videos and subscribe. Search 1684 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:06,760 Speaker 1: for The Fred Show, The Friend Show, TikTok. Those are 1685 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,080 Speaker 1: my announcements waiting by the phone in just a second. 1686 01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:11,479 Speaker 1: Why did somebody get ghosted? Headlines fun fact d and 1687 01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:14,280 Speaker 1: the Entertainmer Report all this hour? What are you working on? 1688 01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:16,719 Speaker 3: K something for Joe Bro's fans. 1689 01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:20,760 Speaker 4: Also a story that ties into Veteran's Day, so that'll 1690 01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:21,720 Speaker 4: be possibly good. 1691 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:27,960 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 1692 01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 1: Hey Carly, good morning, welcome to the show. How are 1693 01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:32,640 Speaker 1: you good? Are you doing okay? What's going on with 1694 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 1: this guy Stefan? Or is it Stefan? Are we going 1695 01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:40,720 Speaker 1: with Stefan? It's Stefan? Okay, I don't know Stefan. I 1696 01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:43,799 Speaker 1: mean that would be fabulous, but anyway, it says Stefan. 1697 01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,240 Speaker 1: So you how did you meet Stephan? Tell us about 1698 01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 1: if it's Stefan, I might know what the problem is. 1699 01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,960 Speaker 1: But anyway, how did you meet Stefan? And tell us 1700 01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:55,720 Speaker 1: about any dates you've been on? And then where things 1701 01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:56,080 Speaker 1: are now? 1702 01:17:56,960 --> 01:18:01,920 Speaker 13: Okay, So we met on him at normal We went 1703 01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:06,560 Speaker 13: on one day. So after he met he asked me 1704 01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:08,160 Speaker 13: if I wanted to go to one of the days 1705 01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:11,800 Speaker 13: of Lollsalooza with him because he had an extra risk band, 1706 01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 13: and I was like, absolutely yes, I would love to. Okay, 1707 01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:19,040 Speaker 13: So we're having a really good time until I went 1708 01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 13: to the bathroom and I came out of the bathroom 1709 01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:25,439 Speaker 13: and he was just gone, like he didn't answer any 1710 01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:27,559 Speaker 13: of my calder texts and he hasn't sold me at 1711 01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:28,680 Speaker 13: all since then. 1712 01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:34,760 Speaker 1: So he's up, he's out, and I mean huh, you 1713 01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,320 Speaker 1: are you sure he laughtered you lose him because Lotapalooza 1714 01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:38,639 Speaker 1: is like it's a very big place. 1715 01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:39,000 Speaker 8: Uh. 1716 01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:42,080 Speaker 1: You know, tens of people attend this thing every year, 1717 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:44,960 Speaker 1: and by tens, I meet hundreds of thousands. So is 1718 01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:46,479 Speaker 1: there any way that you lost him in the crowd, 1719 01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:48,240 Speaker 1: Like were you guys trying to watch Two Friends or 1720 01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:50,400 Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter And then you know, I don't know, he 1721 01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,240 Speaker 1: got mesmerized by the drones and you never saw him again. 1722 01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:55,400 Speaker 13: I mean, it's possible, but he didn't answer any of 1723 01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:56,240 Speaker 13: my calder. 1724 01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:56,960 Speaker 17: Texts and I. 1725 01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:58,280 Speaker 13: Called and texted him a bunch. 1726 01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:00,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I had a lot of cell phone 1727 01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:03,000 Speaker 1: coverage there. I found. I'm trying to come up with 1728 01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:06,519 Speaker 1: a reason why hopefully he didn't ditch you. But you're 1729 01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:08,760 Speaker 1: saying that it looks like he ditched you. 1730 01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:10,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, it does. 1731 01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:11,920 Speaker 13: And I'm still a little confused. 1732 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:14,160 Speaker 1: And when you look back on this, really well, but 1733 01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:16,400 Speaker 1: when you look back on the conversation and everything up 1734 01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:19,439 Speaker 1: until that point, I mean, everything was cool. You guys 1735 01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,720 Speaker 1: were getting a long fine, The conversation was good. No 1736 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:24,000 Speaker 1: strange topics. Means are all questions that I ask every 1737 01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:25,760 Speaker 1: week and people don't tell the truth. But I mean, 1738 01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:29,519 Speaker 1: just overall, though you were feeling a good vibe, you're 1739 01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:32,800 Speaker 1: genuinely surprised this guy ditched you at Ladapalooza, which is 1740 01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:33,599 Speaker 1: very end cool. 1741 01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:36,920 Speaker 13: By the way, Yeah, definitely. I don't understand what happened. 1742 01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:39,120 Speaker 13: Like it was going well for sure. 1743 01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:42,559 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's see if we can get this guy 1744 01:19:42,760 --> 01:19:45,679 Speaker 1: stepping on the phone. We're going to play a song. Comeback. 1745 01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:47,560 Speaker 1: We'll call him. You'll be on the phone to The 1746 01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,080 Speaker 1: hope is that we can straighten this out and set 1747 01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:51,680 Speaker 1: you guys up on another date and pay for it. 1748 01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:56,200 Speaker 1: Sound good, Hey, Carly? All right, welcome back. You're right 1749 01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:57,840 Speaker 1: over there, Carly. I mean, energy is low. I know 1750 01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:01,519 Speaker 1: you're disappointed, right, You're bummed because it's this guy Stephan. 1751 01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:02,960 Speaker 1: You went to a lot of peloza with him, you 1752 01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:05,519 Speaker 1: met on the dating app. You felt like everything went 1753 01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:08,960 Speaker 1: really well, except he ditched you. A lot of pelooza, 1754 01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 1: You didn't get lost in a crowd, you reached out 1755 01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:12,519 Speaker 1: to him, he tried to get a hold of him, 1756 01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:15,400 Speaker 1: he didn't respond, and you haven't heard from him since. 1757 01:20:15,400 --> 01:20:17,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you could even argue that you got separated 1758 01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 1: and he didn't have any cell phone coverage. But then 1759 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 1: he could have text you later and been like, oh 1760 01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:24,200 Speaker 1: my god, I'm so sorry. But that didn't happen either. 1761 01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:26,880 Speaker 13: No, it's been nothing since then, and I'm pretty bummed 1762 01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:27,160 Speaker 13: about it. 1763 01:20:27,479 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. Well, let's call him and figure 1764 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:30,439 Speaker 1: this out. Good luck, Carly. 1765 01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:31,080 Speaker 15: Thanks? 1766 01:20:39,840 --> 01:20:40,080 Speaker 10: Hello. 1767 01:20:40,479 --> 01:20:45,439 Speaker 1: Hi's is Stephan? Yeah, Hey, good morning, Stephan. My name 1768 01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:47,080 Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning 1769 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:48,519 Speaker 1: radio show, and I have to tell you that we 1770 01:20:48,600 --> 01:20:50,800 Speaker 1: are on the radio right now, and I would need 1771 01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:52,760 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 1772 01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:54,360 Speaker 1: for just a second on the air. You can hang 1773 01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:57,120 Speaker 1: up anytime? Yeah? 1774 01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:58,320 Speaker 15: Sure, what's going on? 1775 01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:00,360 Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much for calling on half of 1776 01:21:00,439 --> 01:21:02,840 Speaker 1: a woman who said she met you on Hinge, the 1777 01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:04,640 Speaker 1: dating app. Her name is Carly. You guys went to 1778 01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:09,080 Speaker 1: a lot of Palooza. Do you remember Carly? I hope, yeah, 1779 01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:12,400 Speaker 1: I remember Carly. So what happened? Because we just spoke 1780 01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:14,680 Speaker 1: with her and she, you know, said that she had 1781 01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:16,800 Speaker 1: met you on the dating app and you matched and 1782 01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:18,439 Speaker 1: you chatted and you agreed to go to a lot 1783 01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:21,000 Speaker 1: of paluza together and you did and she felt like 1784 01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,880 Speaker 1: the vibe was good, everything was going great, and then 1785 01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:27,200 Speaker 1: you guys were separated and she hasn't heard from you since, 1786 01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:28,800 Speaker 1: so it would look like you ditched her. Had a 1787 01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:30,559 Speaker 1: lot of plouza, which is not a very nice thing 1788 01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:30,840 Speaker 1: to do. 1789 01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 15: All right, if you really want to know, it's actually 1790 01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:35,679 Speaker 15: kind of gross. 1791 01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:38,160 Speaker 1: But I can tell you, I really I think we 1792 01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:41,120 Speaker 1: all really really want to know actly, But I'm not 1793 01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:42,880 Speaker 1: sure if I do, But I do, you know what 1794 01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:43,200 Speaker 1: I mean? 1795 01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:47,080 Speaker 15: Yeah, no, you'll heal the sid after listen. We were 1796 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:50,240 Speaker 15: having a great time. It was super fun, and then 1797 01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:52,840 Speaker 15: we went to the porta potty she needed to use it, 1798 01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:56,600 Speaker 15: and she's inside. I'm waiting outside for her, and I 1799 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:59,760 Speaker 15: get a text from her that says come in here, 1800 01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:04,280 Speaker 15: and so I was like, is everything okay? Like I 1801 01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 15: you know, I thought maybe she's having a medical problem 1802 01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:11,639 Speaker 15: or something. Turns out she wanted me to go into 1803 01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,080 Speaker 15: the porter potty to hook up. 1804 01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:17,200 Speaker 1: Okay, absolutely not, absolutely not, But that's you know what 1805 01:22:17,400 --> 01:22:19,519 Speaker 1: that right there, That is how you get yourself ditched. 1806 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:23,120 Speaker 1: A lot of palooza that right there, yes, right, or 1807 01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:26,080 Speaker 1: some sort of issue, some sort of ratch that you 1808 01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:29,760 Speaker 1: don't know what. That is the least sexy place on 1809 01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:32,840 Speaker 1: the planet and I assumed this was one of the 1810 01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:35,360 Speaker 1: nice ones, right, even that's gross. But this wasn't like 1811 01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:37,760 Speaker 1: one of the VIP or conditioned ones, right, this is 1812 01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:38,840 Speaker 1: like a porta potty. 1813 01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:40,880 Speaker 15: Yes, it's like a hole in the ground where all 1814 01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:42,400 Speaker 15: the smells are coming up. Like I don't want to 1815 01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:44,040 Speaker 15: I don't want to kiss someone. I don't even want 1816 01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:45,400 Speaker 15: to use it myself, you know what I mean. I 1817 01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:47,240 Speaker 15: avoid them at all costs, let alone. 1818 01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:51,200 Speaker 1: To hook up with I got to be on the 1819 01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:54,479 Speaker 1: verge of a bladder explosion to do that, Like, we 1820 01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:58,160 Speaker 1: have to be in dire, dire circumstances in order for 1821 01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 1: me to be just to use the restroom exactly. 1822 01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:04,759 Speaker 15: I think it's I mean, I am so so turned 1823 01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,759 Speaker 15: off by it, like the opposite it is. It's disgusting, 1824 01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:12,639 Speaker 15: to say the very least. And so I ran out 1825 01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:14,320 Speaker 15: of there before she could even come out because I 1826 01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:15,920 Speaker 15: was like, I don't know how to respond to someone 1827 01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:17,400 Speaker 15: who thinks this is a good idea. 1828 01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:19,519 Speaker 1: So that means that may have been a little dramatic, 1829 01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,240 Speaker 1: but still that is disgusting. And let me bring Karly, 1830 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,040 Speaker 1: and I forgot to mention Carly is here. Carly. I'm 1831 01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 1: all for a little improvisational fun. You know, we find 1832 01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:32,800 Speaker 1: a nice dark corner or a bush, you know, or 1833 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:35,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, hide behind a tree or something. 1834 01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:35,679 Speaker 17: I don't. 1835 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:39,760 Speaker 13: I don't know, but I'm okay, let me get this strate. 1836 01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:43,200 Speaker 13: So you're mad because a girl wanted to hook up 1837 01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:43,360 Speaker 13: with you? 1838 01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:44,439 Speaker 9: Is what I mean? 1839 01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:48,400 Speaker 18: In a potty Yeah that's what you hear? Yeah, okay, 1840 01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:57,679 Speaker 18: important detail. I am appalled. I can't I why not rest? 1841 01:23:58,800 --> 01:23:59,240 Speaker 17: I mean. 1842 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,040 Speaker 1: There was no better idea. I mean you could have 1843 01:24:03,080 --> 01:24:05,000 Speaker 1: even can you leave and go back? I don't know. 1844 01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:07,639 Speaker 1: There's gotta be there has to be a better place. 1845 01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:09,479 Speaker 1: There has to be a better way. I mean, that 1846 01:24:09,640 --> 01:24:12,720 Speaker 1: is a very disgusting place in general, even to use 1847 01:24:12,760 --> 01:24:14,320 Speaker 1: it for what it's intended. 1848 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:14,599 Speaker 3: In and out. 1849 01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:18,200 Speaker 15: It's honestly no fun, red flag for me. 1850 01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:19,200 Speaker 6: No fun? 1851 01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:20,120 Speaker 15: Are you kidding me? 1852 01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:25,519 Speaker 1: I don't know fun. I don't want lysteria. I don't 1853 01:24:25,520 --> 01:24:27,439 Speaker 1: know what. Let them trying to think of whatever random 1854 01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,439 Speaker 1: disease you can get from in there. No, no, no, no, no, 1855 01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:33,040 Speaker 1: no no, no, huh uh. I don't even want. You 1856 01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:36,320 Speaker 1: could even find me a new one, a clean one, 1857 01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,639 Speaker 1: and I still don't want to. It's human. It's hot 1858 01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:41,639 Speaker 1: in there. It's gross. 1859 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:44,240 Speaker 15: No, I don't want to look up in like. 1860 01:24:44,280 --> 01:24:45,440 Speaker 1: A nice bathroom. 1861 01:24:45,520 --> 01:24:47,519 Speaker 15: I truly not any kind of bathroom where I know 1862 01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:50,720 Speaker 15: what it is meant for a specific reason, and that 1863 01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:53,559 Speaker 15: reason does not line up with the the reason. 1864 01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:53,960 Speaker 2: You were looking for. 1865 01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:56,880 Speaker 15: It's a real hard task for me. I think that's 1866 01:24:57,400 --> 01:24:58,960 Speaker 15: so gross, and I think you all kind of agree 1867 01:24:59,000 --> 01:24:59,120 Speaker 15: with me. 1868 01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, why can't we can have a little fun, 1869 01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:03,240 Speaker 1: a lot of blues made, we can chat about a 1870 01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:05,880 Speaker 1: little bit, a little flirty conversation, and then we go 1871 01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:09,120 Speaker 1: to a bed, you know, we go to a place 1872 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:12,960 Speaker 1: that's not an enclosed essentially hole in the ground that 1873 01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 1: everyone in the entire festival p's and like, I mean. 1874 01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:18,599 Speaker 13: Come on, all right, you know what, it's fine if 1875 01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:19,920 Speaker 13: he doesn't want to imagine my freak. 1876 01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:24,200 Speaker 1: No, I you know what, I don't want to match 1877 01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:26,840 Speaker 1: your I don't think anyone here wants to match your freaks. 1878 01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:28,880 Speaker 3: Not one single person who wants to match a freak. 1879 01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:36,799 Speaker 1: Usually I'm but this one, I'm occasionally in this particular 1880 01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:39,559 Speaker 1: case that that's I'm not trying to match your filth. 1881 01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:41,400 Speaker 3: I can smell it right now, like I can. 1882 01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:44,320 Speaker 1: Taste it, Like I think that that environment would cause 1883 01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:48,920 Speaker 1: my parts to retract into my body. Yeah, Like, I don't. 1884 01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:50,840 Speaker 1: I don't think there's any way I could even perform 1885 01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:51,960 Speaker 1: under those circumstances. 1886 01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:53,400 Speaker 5: No, I cry. 1887 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:56,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done a lot of things in my life, 1888 01:25:56,640 --> 01:25:59,880 Speaker 1: but like, that's no, No, I don't think so, Carli, 1889 01:26:00,000 --> 01:26:01,400 Speaker 1: you need to find a different freak. I think. 1890 01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:02,720 Speaker 17: Yeah, sounds like it. 1891 01:26:04,360 --> 01:26:12,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, would never be me, Flora right up there. That's 1892 01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:15,840 Speaker 1: terrible advice for the ladies. Do not do any of that, 1893 01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:19,040 Speaker 1: all right, Stefan. Look, I'll ask the question, what if 1894 01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,400 Speaker 1: we set you guys up in an environment where there 1895 01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,960 Speaker 1: is not a porter body. We've got a nice restaurant, 1896 01:26:23,960 --> 01:26:27,560 Speaker 1: hard path. Oh wow, we're not even going to consider that, 1897 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,400 Speaker 1: all right, Carly, Hey, I I'm sorry it's not going 1898 01:26:30,439 --> 01:26:32,920 Speaker 1: to work out. I hope that you find someone who can. 1899 01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:35,719 Speaker 1: I hope maybe we we adjust the freak a little 1900 01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:37,920 Speaker 1: bit and then somebody can match that freak, the one 1901 01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:42,160 Speaker 1: that's the adjusted freak. Yeah, I'm not sure if you will. Okay, 1902 01:26:42,360 --> 01:26:44,479 Speaker 1: all right, good luck to both of you, guys. Than 1903 01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:48,240 Speaker 1: Caitlin's entertainment report is on the Pread Show. 1904 01:26:48,880 --> 01:26:52,240 Speaker 4: Former NFL player Antonio Brown has put not guilty to 1905 01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:56,200 Speaker 4: a second degree attentted murder charge semming from that shooting 1906 01:26:56,520 --> 01:27:00,479 Speaker 4: outside a celebrity boxing match in Miami on Mason Steenth. 1907 01:27:00,960 --> 01:27:03,759 Speaker 4: His lawyer said that he was acting in self defense 1908 01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:06,720 Speaker 4: after being attacked and claimed he was protecting himself from 1909 01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:11,080 Speaker 4: someone who'd allegedly committed violence against him and the incident, 1910 01:27:11,240 --> 01:27:14,479 Speaker 4: he is accused of grabbing a gun from a security 1911 01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:17,559 Speaker 4: guard and firing shots at a man, with a bullet 1912 01:27:17,600 --> 01:27:21,559 Speaker 4: reportedly grazing the victim's neck. He was extradited from Dubai, 1913 01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:23,559 Speaker 4: where he was found when they were looking for him, 1914 01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:28,160 Speaker 4: and is currently in Jersey waiting his expected transfer to 1915 01:27:28,320 --> 01:27:31,400 Speaker 4: Florida for trial. If convicted, he could face up to 1916 01:27:31,520 --> 01:27:35,639 Speaker 4: fifteen years in prison. Travis Kelsey's ex, Kayla Nicole, deleted 1917 01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:42,240 Speaker 4: her ex account after allegedly some old racist, homophobic tweets resurfaced. 1918 01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:45,800 Speaker 3: The influencer formerly went by I Am Kayla Nicole on 1919 01:27:45,920 --> 01:27:46,479 Speaker 3: the platform. 1920 01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:49,719 Speaker 4: However, a page that used to be hers now reads 1921 01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:52,439 Speaker 4: this account doesn't exist as of the time. 1922 01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:52,920 Speaker 15: You know that. 1923 01:27:53,040 --> 01:27:53,800 Speaker 3: I last checked. 1924 01:27:53,880 --> 01:27:57,440 Speaker 4: The thread of old posts, though, which was shared on Wednesday. 1925 01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:01,799 Speaker 4: Last Wednesday, showed a lengthy catalog of evidence allegedly revealing 1926 01:28:02,160 --> 01:28:05,320 Speaker 4: her problematic past dating back to the early twenty tens. 1927 01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:07,160 Speaker 3: I'm not going to read any of them. There's enough 1928 01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:07,880 Speaker 3: hate in this world. 1929 01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:11,240 Speaker 4: But if they were hers, they are very much not good, 1930 01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:13,120 Speaker 4: and I have not seen her say anything about it. 1931 01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:15,200 Speaker 4: I think people reached out to her team, but I 1932 01:28:15,280 --> 01:28:16,080 Speaker 4: haven't seen anything. 1933 01:28:16,520 --> 01:28:17,040 Speaker 3: Excuse me. 1934 01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,519 Speaker 4: The Jonas Brothers are gearing up to ring in twenty 1935 01:28:19,600 --> 01:28:22,000 Speaker 4: twenty six with a live New Year's Eve special. The 1936 01:28:22,120 --> 01:28:24,599 Speaker 4: trio will perform at the hard Rock Hotel and Casino 1937 01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:26,840 Speaker 4: in Florida, Hollywood. 1938 01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:29,599 Speaker 3: I missed that part of the name. Hard Rock Hollywood 1939 01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:31,160 Speaker 3: Casino in Florida. 1940 01:28:31,320 --> 01:28:34,200 Speaker 4: There you go on December thirty first, starting at nine 1941 01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:36,720 Speaker 4: or ten, depending on where you're watching from. It will 1942 01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:40,759 Speaker 4: be live streamed exclusively on Samsung TV Plus. 1943 01:28:41,439 --> 01:28:44,439 Speaker 3: So if you're a fan, figure out what that is 1944 01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:47,760 Speaker 3: and how to get that, because I don't know what 1945 01:28:47,960 --> 01:28:48,120 Speaker 3: you know. 1946 01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:52,080 Speaker 4: We got this Laguna Beach thing happening on roadcu ray, 1947 01:28:52,160 --> 01:28:53,640 Speaker 4: I gotta get this and then it's like. 1948 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:56,719 Speaker 3: The damn NFL schedule. Fans going in person. 1949 01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:59,600 Speaker 4: You can buy tickets with pre sale starting tomorrow and 1950 01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:01,919 Speaker 4: then on Friday via Ticketmaster. 1951 01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:03,560 Speaker 3: I also saw they had a red carpet for that 1952 01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:07,000 Speaker 3: holiday movie they have going on. So that's going on, 1953 01:29:07,120 --> 01:29:09,320 Speaker 3: but good luck figuring that one out if you're a fan. 1954 01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:11,920 Speaker 4: And lastly, in honor of Veterans Day, I just want 1955 01:29:11,960 --> 01:29:14,400 Speaker 4: to mention that country singer Riley Green, who is a 1956 01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:17,680 Speaker 4: beautiful human, will play three military dates in March for 1957 01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:22,040 Speaker 4: service members in Hawaii and Japan at those respective military bases. 1958 01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:25,400 Speaker 4: And he has a really big history of supporting the military. 1959 01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:29,080 Speaker 4: He established a charity fund in twenty twenty three to 1960 01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 4: support different organizations such as Folds of Honor and other 1961 01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:36,400 Speaker 4: veteran focused charities to help out. So he is putting 1962 01:29:36,439 --> 01:29:38,920 Speaker 4: his money where his mouth is and just wanted to 1963 01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:40,920 Speaker 4: mention that on today of all days. By the way, 1964 01:29:40,920 --> 01:29:43,160 Speaker 4: if you missed any part of our show from today 1965 01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:45,439 Speaker 4: or any day, you can catch up on the free 1966 01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:46,320 Speaker 4: iHeartRadio app. 1967 01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:48,200 Speaker 3: Just search the Fred Show on demand. 1968 01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:52,760 Speaker 1: Tomorrow, Game Show, Wednesday, Kiki Karaoke definite going to be 1969 01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:55,400 Speaker 1: Paulina of course if a five hunder Buck show be 1970 01:29:55,439 --> 01:29:57,880 Speaker 1: shilling in the showdown, New Waiting might have phoned tomorrow 1971 01:29:57,960 --> 01:29:59,800 Speaker 1: morning and more. Guys, you know, I read a lot 1972 01:29:59,840 --> 01:30:01,960 Speaker 1: of psychology today. One of my favorites one of my 1973 01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:07,559 Speaker 1: favorite publications when I'm not reading the Journal of Medicine, 1974 01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:10,519 Speaker 1: New England Journal of Medicine. That's a big one. I 1975 01:30:10,560 --> 01:30:13,920 Speaker 1: also read at the house. In addition to all of 1976 01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:18,680 Speaker 1: the FCC regulations, I'm constantly reading the regulations. Yeah you 1977 01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:23,720 Speaker 1: need a bread refresher on, we're refresher now. Now my 1978 01:30:23,760 --> 01:30:25,639 Speaker 1: back pain is extended to my mouth. Now now I'm 1979 01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:29,680 Speaker 1: just However, if you'd like to improve your relationship in 1980 01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:32,559 Speaker 1: one minute, In just one minute, I have the solution. 1981 01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:36,439 Speaker 1: That's all it takes. With just one minute of focused 1982 01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:40,719 Speaker 1: connection in the entire day, partners can strengthen emotional safety 1983 01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:43,840 Speaker 1: and build resilience against these stresses of daily life. All 1984 01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:45,760 Speaker 1: you got to do if you want to keep your 1985 01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:51,040 Speaker 1: relationship going strong, it's set aside sixty seconds each day. 1986 01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:53,479 Speaker 1: That's all it takes. And here are some of the 1987 01:30:53,760 --> 01:30:57,519 Speaker 1: one minute rituals that you could follow. According to Psychology Today, 1988 01:30:57,680 --> 01:31:00,320 Speaker 1: if you want to keep your relationship going strong, A 1989 01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:05,439 Speaker 1: one minute long hug after a day at work. Yes, 1990 01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:08,679 Speaker 1: one minute that is a a lingering on, are. 1991 01:31:08,600 --> 01:31:09,080 Speaker 18: You for you? 1992 01:31:09,240 --> 01:31:09,679 Speaker 3: That's tough? 1993 01:31:09,800 --> 01:31:10,000 Speaker 17: Yeah? 1994 01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:14,320 Speaker 1: One minute hug really long? That is a long time. 1995 01:31:14,800 --> 01:31:17,160 Speaker 1: That is a long time. I don't care how close 1996 01:31:17,200 --> 01:31:18,920 Speaker 1: you are to someone. That's a long time to be 1997 01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:20,320 Speaker 1: that guy. A minute long. 1998 01:31:20,240 --> 01:31:24,400 Speaker 6: Hugg Jason on Friday, and I can feel the discomfort 1999 01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:24,920 Speaker 6: A minute. 2000 01:31:25,120 --> 01:31:26,479 Speaker 3: No it wasn't a minute, but he was like, get 2001 01:31:26,520 --> 01:31:26,840 Speaker 3: off of me. 2002 01:31:27,200 --> 01:31:29,040 Speaker 4: Let's tell me that you and Jason hugging for a 2003 01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:31,240 Speaker 4: minute after the show, and we'll put it on some show. 2004 01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:33,639 Speaker 1: Hopefully that's a long At what point you start looking 2005 01:31:33,720 --> 01:31:35,519 Speaker 1: around like like what else is there. 2006 01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:37,200 Speaker 3: To do at love? 2007 01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:40,760 Speaker 1: A hug for a minute, let me rub you down. 2008 01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:42,559 Speaker 1: That's but that's more than a hug. 2009 01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:44,439 Speaker 2: That's rubbing. YEA hug. 2010 01:31:46,040 --> 01:31:48,439 Speaker 6: When you're a partner though, after a long day of work, 2011 01:31:48,479 --> 01:31:50,280 Speaker 6: like let me hug you, let me caresh you. 2012 01:31:50,439 --> 01:31:52,680 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I can just imagine myself chasing like 2013 01:31:52,800 --> 01:31:53,360 Speaker 2: around the house. 2014 01:31:56,920 --> 01:31:59,479 Speaker 1: A hug is one thing, A minute long. 2015 01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:01,800 Speaker 3: Know, we're all supposed to get eight touches a day. 2016 01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:09,479 Speaker 1: I do that to anybody else for that nobody else? Yeah, 2017 01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:12,040 Speaker 1: I do know. And I don't worry. That's a slow day. 2018 01:32:13,720 --> 01:32:18,320 Speaker 1: It's aw afternoon, Jason, I'm talking, Yeah, I got so, 2019 01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:21,479 Speaker 1: don't worry about it. A moment of gratitude. This is 2020 01:32:21,560 --> 01:32:24,880 Speaker 1: these are ways in one minute to make your relationship stronger. 2021 01:32:24,920 --> 01:32:28,240 Speaker 1: From Psychology Today before Bad, where each of you shares 2022 01:32:28,439 --> 01:32:31,719 Speaker 1: one thing that you appreciated that day. Could be anything 2023 01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:32,519 Speaker 1: big or small. 2024 01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love this. 2025 01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:38,080 Speaker 1: Research shows that couples who regularly practice daily gratitude report 2026 01:32:38,160 --> 01:32:42,479 Speaker 1: greater intimacy and resilience because appreciation shifts the emotional climate 2027 01:32:42,800 --> 01:32:45,960 Speaker 1: of the relationship from criticism to connection. I don't like 2028 01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:47,599 Speaker 1: I don't like list. You know, I don't like doing 2029 01:32:47,640 --> 01:32:49,519 Speaker 1: list because I think it's the laziest thing morning radio 2030 01:32:49,560 --> 01:32:52,640 Speaker 1: shows can do. But the minute long hug made me 2031 01:32:52,760 --> 01:32:57,560 Speaker 1: laugh because honestly, like today, hug someone and time it 2032 01:32:58,120 --> 01:32:59,880 Speaker 1: for one minute, and I want you to be very 2033 01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:02,360 Speaker 1: honest with me about the point in which you think 2034 01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:05,000 Speaker 1: it was enough, and it will happen about forty five 2035 01:33:05,080 --> 01:33:08,439 Speaker 1: seconds before it's over. Yeah, a fifteen second hug is 2036 01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:12,440 Speaker 1: a long hug. But honestly, experiment today. 2037 01:33:12,320 --> 01:33:15,559 Speaker 3: Don't hugger. Let's do it, right, I hugging for an hour. 2038 01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:18,800 Speaker 1: You're gonna be standing there, You're gonna be like, uh, 2039 01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:20,080 Speaker 1: it just feels so good. 2040 01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:22,160 Speaker 3: It's got to release endorphins or something, or some form 2041 01:33:22,200 --> 01:33:22,719 Speaker 3: of happiness. 2042 01:33:22,840 --> 01:33:26,240 Speaker 1: It does. Shows reduced cortisol response compared to those who didn't. 2043 01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:30,160 Speaker 1: If you do that, a quick morning check him taking 2044 01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:33,240 Speaker 1: one minute to ask, what's one thing that you're carrying today? 2045 01:33:33,280 --> 01:33:36,880 Speaker 1: And how can I support you? Maybe come up with 2046 01:33:36,880 --> 01:33:37,400 Speaker 1: a different ways. 2047 01:33:37,400 --> 01:33:39,840 Speaker 3: So yeah, let's say all that I'm gonna unpack and 2048 01:33:40,320 --> 01:33:40,880 Speaker 3: josh you. 2049 01:33:41,360 --> 01:33:44,000 Speaker 1: And then a silent ritual For those who prefer more 2050 01:33:44,160 --> 01:33:48,759 Speaker 1: nonverbal connection. Yeah, hello, you can be holding hands, sitting 2051 01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:53,040 Speaker 1: forehead to for that's the one you're going to do today, 2052 01:33:53,360 --> 01:33:58,759 Speaker 1: even doing some quick breath work together. Oh words aren't necessary. 2053 01:33:58,920 --> 01:34:03,200 Speaker 1: Forehead to four. That's what I do with my nieces, 2054 01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:05,599 Speaker 1: like you know, I don't know, but that doesn't last 2055 01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:07,160 Speaker 1: for very long. It's not a minute. 2056 01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:09,920 Speaker 3: Oh my god. Couples yoga would freak you the hell out. 2057 01:34:10,800 --> 01:34:17,599 Speaker 1: I don't. That's all it takes. 2058 01:34:18,680 --> 01:34:19,519 Speaker 3: He's out the door. 2059 01:34:19,680 --> 01:34:20,519 Speaker 1: You had me a couple. 2060 01:34:20,760 --> 01:34:21,439 Speaker 3: That was it. 2061 01:34:21,600 --> 01:34:26,160 Speaker 1: That's more Fred Show. Next, the Fread Show is on 2062 01:34:27,040 --> 01:34:37,000 Speaker 1: Fred's Fun Fact Fred Fun You learned so much? Do 2063 01:34:37,160 --> 01:34:39,000 Speaker 1: you guys remember in the history of the show. Do 2064 01:34:39,040 --> 01:34:41,280 Speaker 1: you guys remember when some of you laughed all over 2065 01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:43,840 Speaker 1: my dreams? Do you remember you left all over my 2066 01:34:44,000 --> 01:34:47,760 Speaker 1: dreams of becoming a hot air balloon pilot. Do you 2067 01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:50,640 Speaker 1: remember this? You left all over my dreams. Some of 2068 01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:53,280 Speaker 1: you didn't, but some of you clowned me so hard 2069 01:34:53,640 --> 01:34:55,679 Speaker 1: because I wanted to become a hot air balloon pilot. 2070 01:34:55,720 --> 01:34:57,840 Speaker 1: You weren't here, Peking, No, I did not know. I was. 2071 01:34:58,080 --> 01:35:01,240 Speaker 3: I believe in you. Thank you, hot air dream. 2072 01:35:01,320 --> 01:35:03,720 Speaker 1: Thank you because it comes in so handy. You know, 2073 01:35:03,800 --> 01:35:05,840 Speaker 1: a hot air balloon pilot. There's just a lot that 2074 01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:06,519 Speaker 1: you can do with that. 2075 01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:09,480 Speaker 2: There's always balloons around right everywhere. 2076 01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:10,960 Speaker 3: If you want to go somewhere in a hurry, you know, 2077 01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:12,120 Speaker 3: like there's just there's. 2078 01:35:11,960 --> 01:35:14,080 Speaker 1: A Sandem comic that does that routine where he's like, 2079 01:35:14,400 --> 01:35:16,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, let's we got to get there, take 2080 01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:20,040 Speaker 1: the balloon, or like this. 2081 01:35:20,160 --> 01:35:21,080 Speaker 3: Is sorry to that man? 2082 01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:21,680 Speaker 13: I have heard that. 2083 01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:24,040 Speaker 1: No, well, I played the I know you didn't, but 2084 01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:25,920 Speaker 1: I back in the day, I played the clip. But 2085 01:35:26,800 --> 01:35:28,320 Speaker 1: what else is this part of this show? I can't 2086 01:35:28,320 --> 01:35:30,000 Speaker 1: remember his name, but he was like, yes, of course, 2087 01:35:30,080 --> 01:35:34,000 Speaker 1: let's get in a wicker basket with fire with fire 2088 01:35:34,120 --> 01:35:36,960 Speaker 1: attached to it and float away. No, I, you guys know, 2089 01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:39,599 Speaker 1: I'm a pilot, and there is There are all kinds 2090 01:35:39,600 --> 01:35:42,640 Speaker 1: of different ratings you can get as a pilot. You know, 2091 01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:48,080 Speaker 1: one is obviously airplane, helicopters, different kinds of airplanes, sailplanes, 2092 01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:49,600 Speaker 1: like the gliders that I learned how to fly. I 2093 01:35:49,640 --> 01:35:52,120 Speaker 1: remember that they don't have an engine on them, right, 2094 01:35:52,280 --> 01:35:55,080 Speaker 1: blimp of seaplanes. So this is where I'm going. I 2095 01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:56,760 Speaker 1: have a seaplane rating. I can land the kind of 2096 01:35:56,800 --> 01:35:59,000 Speaker 1: planes and have floats on them. You know, I can 2097 01:35:59,080 --> 01:36:01,479 Speaker 1: do that. But I did want to become a hot 2098 01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:03,240 Speaker 1: air balloon pilot because if I'm going to get all 2099 01:36:03,280 --> 01:36:06,080 Speaker 1: the ratings, then that's one of them lighter than air. 2100 01:36:06,120 --> 01:36:08,240 Speaker 1: You got to do it. And then there's blimp. There's 2101 01:36:08,240 --> 01:36:10,600 Speaker 1: a blim rating. However, did you know you know the 2102 01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:13,400 Speaker 1: blimp Goodyear blimps. They fly over sporting events or whatever. 2103 01:36:13,720 --> 01:36:16,760 Speaker 1: The blimps. There are only twenty five blimps left in 2104 01:36:16,840 --> 01:36:20,719 Speaker 1: the whole world, with fewer than twenty of them still 2105 01:36:20,760 --> 01:36:23,519 Speaker 1: active in service. These iconic airships are primarily used for 2106 01:36:23,600 --> 01:36:27,080 Speaker 1: advertising in aerial photography, and their decline is attributed to 2107 01:36:27,120 --> 01:36:32,280 Speaker 1: several factors, including the high cost of helium, limited pilot 2108 01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:35,280 Speaker 1: availability which I'm about to change that, and the need 2109 01:36:35,360 --> 01:36:38,240 Speaker 1: for specialized training to operate them. Despite their rarity, blimps 2110 01:36:38,280 --> 01:36:41,880 Speaker 1: have a rich history and could potentially experience a revival 2111 01:36:42,479 --> 01:36:44,719 Speaker 1: in tourism and scenic travel in the future. 2112 01:36:45,240 --> 01:36:46,960 Speaker 4: I'm in for this, and I think if you drop 2113 01:36:47,040 --> 01:36:48,920 Speaker 4: that at a bar on a woman, I think that'll 2114 01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:49,479 Speaker 4: get you laid that. 2115 01:36:49,560 --> 01:36:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm a blimp pilot, like you know, I could drive 2116 01:36:51,280 --> 01:36:53,879 Speaker 1: a blue The word blimp is sort of what's. 2117 01:36:58,040 --> 01:36:59,639 Speaker 3: Compared to his hot air balloon. 2118 01:37:00,360 --> 01:37:02,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, honestly. I think there are people to 2119 01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:03,960 Speaker 1: think hot air balloons are romantic, and I think they 2120 01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:06,400 Speaker 1: would think that that was kind of hot. I told 2121 01:37:06,400 --> 01:37:08,479 Speaker 1: you I've already I've only been in one hot air balloon, 2122 01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:10,680 Speaker 1: and I was I had a parachute attached to me, 2123 01:37:10,720 --> 01:37:12,519 Speaker 1: and I jumped out of it. That was the intention 2124 01:37:13,080 --> 01:37:14,960 Speaker 1: to do that. The intention was to jump out of it. 2125 01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:17,479 Speaker 1: I'm a sky diver and the point was to go 2126 01:37:17,640 --> 01:37:19,280 Speaker 1: jump out of a hot air balloon. But I'm telling you, 2127 01:37:19,360 --> 01:37:21,160 Speaker 1: thank god I had a parachute on because I didn't 2128 01:37:21,240 --> 01:37:23,640 Speaker 1: like one second of that. I did not like it. 2129 01:37:23,800 --> 01:37:26,000 Speaker 1: I don't understand why people like that. You don't know 2130 01:37:26,040 --> 01:37:28,680 Speaker 1: where you're going. I can't stir it right, No, you 2131 01:37:28,960 --> 01:37:30,560 Speaker 1: can only go up and down, and you go the 2132 01:37:30,640 --> 01:37:34,519 Speaker 1: direction the wind goes. I'm oversimplifying it, but I don't. 2133 01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't love it. Now, if I want 2134 01:37:37,120 --> 01:37:38,400 Speaker 1: to get all the ratings, I got to be a 2135 01:37:38,560 --> 01:37:41,200 Speaker 1: hot air balloon pilot. That would you know me? You 2136 01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:43,400 Speaker 1: know me that when whenever my time comes, whether it's 2137 01:37:43,400 --> 01:37:44,760 Speaker 1: at the end of the day because my back hurt 2138 01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:47,400 Speaker 1: so badly, or if it's in thirty years. All I 2139 01:37:47,479 --> 01:37:50,880 Speaker 1: want people to say is you know, in lieu of 2140 01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:53,320 Speaker 1: a great relationship and kids and all the rest of it. No, 2141 01:37:53,360 --> 01:37:55,280 Speaker 1: I just want people to be like that guy was interesting. 2142 01:37:55,680 --> 01:37:58,479 Speaker 1: He was interesting, he was different, and he used his 2143 01:37:58,680 --> 01:38:02,400 Speaker 1: time to do things. And you could say that about me. 2144 01:38:02,560 --> 01:38:04,760 Speaker 1: If I were a hot air balloon pilot or a 2145 01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:08,080 Speaker 1: blimp pilot. I looked into it. They're just school where 2146 01:38:08,120 --> 01:38:09,439 Speaker 1: you can go and learn how to fly a blimp. 2147 01:38:09,479 --> 01:38:11,040 Speaker 1: The problem is, for as much as that costs, I 2148 01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell you do with it. I mean, 2149 01:38:12,960 --> 01:38:15,240 Speaker 1: I would be more exactly, I'd be more likely to 2150 01:38:15,439 --> 01:38:17,519 Speaker 1: fly a hot air balloon than I would drive a blimp. 2151 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:19,120 Speaker 1: Because there's only twenty of them left. 2152 01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:20,120 Speaker 2: Where are the blims? 2153 01:38:20,280 --> 01:38:21,840 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I think most of them are 2154 01:38:21,840 --> 01:38:25,679 Speaker 1: in Florida. What I think they live in Florida, the blimps. 2155 01:38:25,920 --> 01:38:28,760 Speaker 1: I don't know they live in Florida. Anyway, if the 2156 01:38:28,800 --> 01:38:30,800 Speaker 1: blim School wants to hook me up, I'll go. I'll 2157 01:38:30,840 --> 01:38:32,120 Speaker 1: go to the blim School. I'll learn how to fly 2158 01:38:32,240 --> 01:38:35,800 Speaker 1: the thing and then an endorsement, Yeah for the blim School. 2159 01:38:35,800 --> 01:38:37,960 Speaker 1: Why are you laughing at me? Are you dry again? Yeah? 2160 01:38:38,080 --> 01:38:44,400 Speaker 3: But why I am dry? Very draft. Let's land the plane. 2161 01:38:47,200 --> 01:38:49,000 Speaker 3: She's wrapping your fun facts. 2162 01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:50,439 Speaker 1: You don't like my fun facts. 2163 01:38:51,479 --> 01:38:54,519 Speaker 3: It's a like happening here. We're talking about blimps in Florida. Like, 2164 01:38:54,600 --> 01:38:55,160 Speaker 3: what is going on? 2165 01:38:57,760 --> 01:38:57,800 Speaker 15: This? 2166 01:38:58,680 --> 01:39:00,640 Speaker 1: This might be the most un I think we've met 2167 01:39:00,720 --> 01:39:02,320 Speaker 1: all morning, and now you complain it about it? 2168 01:39:02,680 --> 01:39:03,000 Speaker 3: She said. 2169 01:39:03,080 --> 01:39:06,439 Speaker 1: Next, we only talk about one thing. Kick is about 2170 01:39:06,479 --> 01:39:08,600 Speaker 1: to push the button on me. Man, it's my john up. 2171 01:39:08,600 --> 01:39:10,000 Speaker 1: Why are you stand up? Come over here, get on 2172 01:39:14,160 --> 01:39:16,760 Speaker 1: Missen and do any for you, Ticky, because you know 2173 01:39:16,920 --> 01:39:20,040 Speaker 1: that's my litmus tests and Tiki's I entertainment. But we 2174 01:39:20,160 --> 01:39:24,679 Speaker 1: hear more Fred show. Next, this is the fread Show. 2175 01:39:25,520 --> 01:39:28,479 Speaker 1: Zane is taking over Las Vegas this January for his 2176 01:39:28,600 --> 01:39:31,720 Speaker 1: seven night Residents Adobe Live at Park MGM. And we've 2177 01:39:31,760 --> 01:39:34,000 Speaker 1: got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth 2178 01:39:34,080 --> 01:39:37,599 Speaker 1: show to Night Hotel State Park MGM January twenty fourth 2179 01:39:37,680 --> 01:39:41,080 Speaker 1: through the twenty six and round trip airfare. Text forever 2180 01:39:41,560 --> 01:39:43,920 Speaker 1: to three seven three three seven now for a chance 2181 01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:46,360 Speaker 1: to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard message 2182 01:39:46,360 --> 01:39:48,639 Speaker 1: of data rates may apply all thanks to Live Nation. 2183 01:39:49,320 --> 01:39:52,559 Speaker 8: They talk better than they tye tell me. These are 2184 01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:55,160 Speaker 8: the radio blogs on the Fred Show who are. 2185 01:39:55,120 --> 01:39:57,080 Speaker 1: Running in our diaries, except we say to them aloud. 2186 01:39:57,120 --> 01:40:00,360 Speaker 1: We call him blogs Paulina. Yes go, Thank you so much, 2187 01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:01,120 Speaker 1: dear blog. 2188 01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:04,519 Speaker 9: I'm curious if anybody feels this way, maybe with like 2189 01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:07,680 Speaker 9: a niece or nephew or maybe their own kids. I know, 2190 01:40:07,840 --> 01:40:10,000 Speaker 9: growing up we all probably experienced this, but I thought 2191 01:40:10,040 --> 01:40:12,040 Speaker 9: this came like at a later age. I'm talking like 2192 01:40:12,120 --> 01:40:14,960 Speaker 9: maybe teens or something, not when you're one point five 2193 01:40:15,040 --> 01:40:18,759 Speaker 9: years old or eighteen months old. But my daughter Gigi, 2194 01:40:19,240 --> 01:40:23,000 Speaker 9: we're starting to get into things like Disney characters stuff 2195 01:40:23,040 --> 01:40:25,160 Speaker 9: like that, and it's really fun actually to like introduce 2196 01:40:25,200 --> 01:40:29,200 Speaker 9: her to like toy story, We're into Frozen now, Princess Elsa, 2197 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:31,200 Speaker 9: stuff like that, because it's just the cutest thing ever. 2198 01:40:31,240 --> 01:40:33,559 Speaker 9: And I also am kind of preparing her for Disney 2199 01:40:33,680 --> 01:40:35,400 Speaker 9: when we go in twenty twenty seven. 2200 01:40:35,400 --> 01:40:36,560 Speaker 3: I have it all planned out. Guys, It's like the 2201 01:40:36,600 --> 01:40:36,920 Speaker 3: whole thing. 2202 01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:39,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm saving. 2203 01:40:39,640 --> 01:40:42,800 Speaker 3: Now my piggy. I'm literally putting going into my little 2204 01:40:42,800 --> 01:40:43,960 Speaker 3: piggy bang. That's where we're at. 2205 01:40:44,000 --> 01:40:45,400 Speaker 9: But I wanted to be a fun trip, and I 2206 01:40:45,479 --> 01:40:47,280 Speaker 9: really wanted to be memorable. But I also want her to, 2207 01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:50,519 Speaker 9: like know when she sees characters, So I'm introducing them 2208 01:40:50,680 --> 01:40:53,439 Speaker 9: to her, like through whatever, like movies and stuff. But 2209 01:40:53,520 --> 01:40:56,679 Speaker 9: you know, with those movies come songs, and my girl 2210 01:40:56,960 --> 01:41:00,320 Speaker 9: is a music girly. She likes the songs. She loves 2211 01:41:00,479 --> 01:41:02,599 Speaker 9: you know, the animation, she loves it all. We've got 2212 01:41:02,600 --> 01:41:05,040 Speaker 9: a couple of favorites. Perfect Day from Legally Blonde is 2213 01:41:05,080 --> 01:41:07,840 Speaker 9: still her favorite. Thanks j Yeah, thank you, Jonathan. It's 2214 01:41:07,880 --> 01:41:10,400 Speaker 9: still her favorite. It's perfect Day all the time. She's 2215 01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:11,160 Speaker 9: just screaming at me. 2216 01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:12,519 Speaker 3: So I played, Yes. 2217 01:41:13,120 --> 01:41:14,680 Speaker 1: She comes over to my house and she's quoting Keith 2218 01:41:14,720 --> 01:41:19,200 Speaker 1: Morrison from Dateline episodes Bobby, Mommy, he lights up the room. 2219 01:41:20,760 --> 01:41:21,920 Speaker 3: She picks up things so quick. 2220 01:41:21,960 --> 01:41:23,519 Speaker 9: So now I get the whole Like kids are sponge 2221 01:41:23,560 --> 01:41:25,080 Speaker 9: just knowing as she was, She's been like you know, 2222 01:41:25,240 --> 01:41:26,920 Speaker 9: two hours with you guys, and she'll come home and 2223 01:41:27,000 --> 01:41:27,680 Speaker 9: sound just like you. 2224 01:41:27,800 --> 01:41:28,559 Speaker 3: It's it's crazy. 2225 01:41:28,680 --> 01:41:31,280 Speaker 9: She does it with like her her aunt and Jonathan everybody, 2226 01:41:31,720 --> 01:41:35,120 Speaker 9: and it's it's cute though, But with the music and everything, 2227 01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:38,000 Speaker 9: you know, if I'm gonna play music, whether it's a 2228 01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:40,960 Speaker 9: Disney song. She actually saw a Brittany video yesterday maybe 2229 01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:42,560 Speaker 9: one more time. Yeah, it was like kind of like 2230 01:41:42,600 --> 01:41:44,360 Speaker 9: trying to play her old stuff, you know, and something 2231 01:41:44,400 --> 01:41:47,080 Speaker 9: that makes her dance a little bit. She's dancing, guys, 2232 01:41:47,120 --> 01:41:49,800 Speaker 9: She's dancing, you know, she's moving her little like hip 2233 01:41:49,880 --> 01:41:51,759 Speaker 9: and this and when whatever she's she's dancing. 2234 01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:53,599 Speaker 3: So then I'm like, mom, gonna dance too, Like I'm 2235 01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:56,040 Speaker 3: not gonna stand here. So then I started dancing and 2236 01:41:56,120 --> 01:41:59,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, you guys. 2237 01:41:59,439 --> 01:42:00,960 Speaker 1: She so mad. 2238 01:42:01,200 --> 01:42:03,240 Speaker 3: She literally tells me no no no, no, no no 2239 01:42:03,360 --> 01:42:09,320 Speaker 3: no no, I can't sing, I can't dance, And I'm like, 2240 01:42:09,320 --> 01:42:11,280 Speaker 3: what am I supposed to do? Just watch and just 2241 01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:11,680 Speaker 3: hang out? 2242 01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:16,759 Speaker 1: Like is it because she's embarrassed at you or because 2243 01:42:16,840 --> 01:42:19,680 Speaker 1: she needs to be the center of attentions? 2244 01:42:20,320 --> 01:42:22,040 Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't think it that way. 2245 01:42:22,200 --> 01:42:22,400 Speaker 19: Star. 2246 01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:26,080 Speaker 1: You don't get to dance like I dance and you 2247 01:42:26,240 --> 01:42:27,799 Speaker 1: watch like that's how this works. 2248 01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:29,840 Speaker 3: Oh okay, I thought she was just embarrassed with me. 2249 01:42:30,880 --> 01:42:33,160 Speaker 9: Could be both, but everybody else can dance with her, 2250 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:35,960 Speaker 9: like if you know, Grandma's there or Bobha's there, like 2251 01:42:36,040 --> 01:42:37,719 Speaker 9: they can dance and dad can dance. 2252 01:42:37,800 --> 01:42:41,760 Speaker 3: But when mom dances, no, no, no, no, no, she's embarrassed. 2253 01:42:41,840 --> 01:42:42,479 Speaker 15: I think so. 2254 01:42:43,400 --> 01:42:45,320 Speaker 3: I think somebody you're right, but just mean her. Maybe 2255 01:42:45,360 --> 01:42:48,439 Speaker 3: it's like, hey, your audience, I'm the star. I'm performing here. 2256 01:42:48,479 --> 01:42:52,439 Speaker 3: You're gonna watch. It could be I don't know, just. 2257 01:42:52,479 --> 01:42:54,519 Speaker 9: I know, like growing up, I know we were all 2258 01:42:54,560 --> 01:42:56,519 Speaker 9: embarrassed of our parents, but I didn't think it started 2259 01:42:56,560 --> 01:42:59,880 Speaker 9: as young. Wow, she putting that together of like my 2260 01:43:00,040 --> 01:43:02,120 Speaker 9: mom is dancing, she looks probably foolish. 2261 01:43:02,800 --> 01:43:03,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. 2262 01:43:03,320 --> 01:43:03,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. 2263 01:43:03,880 --> 01:43:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm just yeah, I'm moralizing if my own kid right now. 2264 01:43:07,640 --> 01:43:09,800 Speaker 3: Literally, I'm a weird thing. I hate. I'm like, yeah, 2265 01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:13,720 Speaker 3: you know, she's like, no, I guess not. But you 2266 01:43:13,760 --> 01:43:15,280 Speaker 3: know she is a star. You're right, I must give 2267 01:43:15,320 --> 01:43:17,880 Speaker 3: her her flowers the respect that she is owed. Yeah, 2268 01:43:17,880 --> 01:43:18,679 Speaker 3: it's not to do at. 2269 01:43:21,040 --> 01:43:22,599 Speaker 1: If you want to be held honest in your life, 2270 01:43:22,680 --> 01:43:25,160 Speaker 1: just ask a kid, because there's no filter, there's no 2271 01:43:25,360 --> 01:43:28,360 Speaker 1: you know's, it's just pure honesty. They haven't they haven't 2272 01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:31,679 Speaker 1: learned yet, like what you know, internal dialogue is and whatever. 2273 01:43:32,880 --> 01:43:34,800 Speaker 1: So if you want to be if you really want 2274 01:43:34,840 --> 01:43:37,280 Speaker 1: to be humbled, then talk to a kid. Ask a 2275 01:43:37,360 --> 01:43:38,960 Speaker 1: kid the question, how does this look? You do I 2276 01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:40,479 Speaker 1: look fat? You know? Or just whatever? 2277 01:43:41,520 --> 01:43:44,479 Speaker 9: I've been humbled. She uh grabbed a she left in 2278 01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:45,800 Speaker 9: my shirt. One day, I was laying on the couch. 2279 01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:48,800 Speaker 9: She lifted my shirt and she smacked my stomach and said, mommy, 2280 01:43:48,840 --> 01:43:49,320 Speaker 9: pooh poop. 2281 01:43:52,400 --> 01:43:54,200 Speaker 3: But all I saw was my stomach movement. Is that's 2282 01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:54,960 Speaker 3: probably what she thought. 2283 01:43:55,000 --> 01:43:55,360 Speaker 8: I don't know. 2284 01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:58,160 Speaker 9: I was like grosses from you. First of all, this 2285 01:43:58,280 --> 01:44:00,920 Speaker 9: is crazy, like say, hi, and this is your fault. 2286 01:44:01,360 --> 01:44:04,559 Speaker 9: All you right here, we're working on it. But yeah, 2287 01:44:04,600 --> 01:44:06,080 Speaker 9: and then she'll go in front of me and she'll 2288 01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:06,759 Speaker 9: started saying. 2289 01:44:06,680 --> 01:44:08,280 Speaker 3: Push ups and she'll just do push ups. 2290 01:44:08,600 --> 01:44:13,519 Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, I'm like, yeah, G is not allowed 2291 01:44:13,560 --> 01:44:16,800 Speaker 1: to come over to my I am too. I don't 2292 01:44:16,800 --> 01:44:18,840 Speaker 1: need to get roasted by by a two year old