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Speaker 1: I also would like to dedicate this podcast to my son, Thomas.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to dedicate this podcast to them. Today's

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Speaker 1: the Gary Sinise Foundation. Let's welcome Gary Sinise. Hi, Gary, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I am so geeked out to get to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: When I heard about your new book that's just come out,

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Speaker 1: So grateful American is a culmination of well, it's a

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Speaker 1: You're sharing so much with me and my listeners, Gary

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