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Speaker 4: Oh, you you cheated on me because there's no fun here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I cheated on you. You were taking care of the baby.

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Speaker 2: Here, you were giving the baby so much more attention

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Speaker 3: Well, it's like she always was very close with her friends.

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Speaker 2: I got her.

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Speaker 1: She's right here.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. Yeah, you definitely she was the dime.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I've never asked these kind of questions.

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Speaker 1: You you like women, right, I like both like everyone. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so whenever you are with a woman, are you usually

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Speaker 3: Oh no, oh my god, No, my name is not

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Speaker 2: I had to know.

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Speaker 1: Yes, come to that is hilarious. Let's go. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: you're you're you're a team sports special Wiener.

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Speaker 2: Special leader. Thank you so much for calling and enduring

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Speaker 3: And Sam, please always always stay yourself.

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Speaker 1: Special Leader. Ladies and gentlemen, Special Leader, we appreciate you,

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Speaker 1: I am sorry, Jane if that was rude. I just

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Speaker 2: What a what a?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know?

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Speaker 1: This was a learning experience. I'm gonna take it in. Hey,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to be a hero a day of village. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: Didn't you go to you? I was saying, go to

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Speaker 1: By protein is big protein? Big b Let's go routine? Anyways,

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Speaker 2: If you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love

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Speaker 2: you and see it all for real. This is an

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Speaker 1: Time for okop rewlash.

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Speaker 2: Today, I afked up by sleeping with my second cousin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is not good.

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Speaker 2: So I twenty eight male, just got out of my

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Speaker 2: I matched with a cute mixed girl. I mixed too,

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Speaker 2: and the conversation was fluent. From the day we match,

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Speaker 2: We're sending paragraphs to each other, talking about any and everything.

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Speaker 2: We had so much in common and honestly, we thought

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Speaker 2: Because this actually didn't you feel like a chour anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm just enjoying the deep, long convos. And during these

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Speaker 2: Everyone knows everyone here. But as I'm here staying with

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Speaker 2: come here to enjoy myself. And I've just gotten out

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Speaker 2: I was so close I felt like I was cheating

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Speaker 1: they're really like sorting things out, communicating, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So this morning I ask her about her day.

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Speaker 2: How's the farm? I know from yesterday's chat she's visiting

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Speaker 2: Okay, what did you tell her her? It's more about

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Speaker 2: what she told me me the fuck I'm lost? Well,

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to tell you me. I'm confused.

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Speaker 2: What are you on about her? Promise you won't hate

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Speaker 2: Did you do something that? What's going on her? You

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Speaker 2: Just tell me Jasmine for real? Her? Well, we might

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Speaker 2: be related oooo. I doubt it though, because lots of

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Speaker 2: people have your mother's surname. Me what and this is

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Speaker 2: She then sends his name. I forward to my mom

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Speaker 2: who's in London, asking if she knows this person. She does,

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Speaker 2: it's her first cousin. No. I feel disgusted, I'm upset,

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Speaker 2: I'm angry, and the anger came from me at this time,

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Speaker 1: Yeah for real.

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Speaker 2: My stomach was having this weird tingly feeling. My wiener

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Speaker 2: wanted to disappear inside my body. Straight turtle show, straight turtled.

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Speaker 2: I asked my dad how he couldn't know that the

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Speaker 2: my dad also lived between three countries in the past

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Speaker 2: twelve years. So anyway, I'm disgusted by the whole situation.

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Speaker 2: She's trying to justify it in a way, saying that

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Speaker 2: spoken fifteen years, and I've told her all this doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: You can dounce them all, but at the end of

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Speaker 2: the day, your blood is my blood.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I fly out this Saturday, and she's asked to come

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Speaker 2: talk about the situation face to face before I go,

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Speaker 2: so we'll see how it goes.

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Speaker 1: Edit.

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Speaker 2: I've read the responses and apparently genetically I'm all good

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Speaker 2: I doubt they are close to their second cousins. I've

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Speaker 2: to school with some. I have a huge family, so

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Speaker 2: the relation to a second cousin is real to me,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't imagine doing what we did with the ones.

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Speaker 2: I'm close to finding out she is one. I'll never

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Speaker 2: look at her the same.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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Speaker 2: Look your fam up before you start messing around, you know,

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Speaker 2: do your research, Do your research.

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Speaker 1: I'd be the ahole if I refuse to help with

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Speaker 1: my partner's daughter's grad party after I've been banned from attending.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I don't think so if you're if

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Speaker 2: you're attending, you got you got no obligation.

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00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 1: How am I going to help with something I'm banned

441
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 1: at no obligation? Come on, now, My long term partner

442
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 1: has been divorced for years. The divorce was acrimonious, and

443
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: he and his ex wife did not get along. I

444
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: honestly don't even know the true definition of acrimonious.

445
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: I think like acrimonious means not good.

446
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, but no, no, no, that's the definition now,

447
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 1: not good. The divorce was not good. Miriam Webster. We've

448
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: been asked to host their daughter's graduation party at our

449
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 1: home because my because my partner's ex dropped the ball

450
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: and failed to secure the venue. Way to go. I

451
00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: spent a week planning after the party, making arrangements, ordering

452
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: materials to make her vision of reality. This sounds like

453
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 1: a great friend. Yeah for real, right friend. A week later,

454
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 1: she informed us that my presence would anger her mother

455
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 1: and under no circumstances could I attend the party being

456
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 1: held at my own home.

457
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 2: Okay, that's especially ridiculous. Is is at your own home

458
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: and you couldn't attend the party.

459
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, I'm literally gonna be sitting back and

460
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 1: watching Netflix while all you are partying. I'm not in

461
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: the party. I'm not in the party.

462
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, go on, carry on, carry on.

463
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting near I'm just watching Is it a cake?

464
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: Don't mind me? We should react to is it a cake?

465
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: We really should. Yeah, we need to get our We

466
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: need to throw some reactions out there. I am expected, however,

467
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: to devote my time and creative talents to making her

468
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 1: graduation party beautiful. Would I be the a hole if

469
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: I refuse to plan, organize, and decorate for this party?

470
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: And there's an update?

471
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: Okay? Wait, first off, would I be the a whole?

472
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 3: No?

473
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: You wouldn't be the bro and not to invite you

474
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 2: to the party. This is ridiculous.

475
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: Also in your own you you really can't. It's almost

476
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: impossible to uninvite someone to a party in their own homes.

477
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 2: Like all right, Like I would understand maybe like if

478
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 2: they're paying her or him him or her, I don't

479
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: know that we know, all right. If they are paying

480
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:28,439
Speaker 2: they them for yeah, there we go. If you're paying

481
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: them for like setting up this party, then maybe you

482
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 2: can make it as a demand like that, Like maybe

483
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 2: it makes a little bit more sense. But if you're

484
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 2: not paying them and you're just expecting to put all

485
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 2: this time and energy into planning an event for you,

486
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: like come on, it's.

487
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: Ridiculous, completely ridiculous. Yeah, it's way o d in my

488
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: own my own home. That's the most offensive to me. Yeah,

489
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm ignoring all of you and staying my

490
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: ass in my own home. Update in our home next

491
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: or to this boring party, all of my best girlfriends

492
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: and I will be consuming the food that I had

493
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: planned for the party while dressed in LBDs.

494
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: Or doing some research. The research team is on it.

495
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 2: Little but little black dresses. Ooh, little boy dresses, ma'am

496
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: read it, y'all love acronym. So while we're dressed in

497
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: little black dresses, drinking champagne and contemplating my future.

498
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: Let it be known, Op, good for you with your life.

499
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I live your life, and uh, maybe.

500
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 1: Get out of there. I found underwear that isn't mine

501
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: in my boyfriend's drawer. Uh.

502
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: Oh, that is not a good situation.

503
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: No it is not, Samuel, look at it.

504
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: Suspicious.

505
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: So I female, twenty seven, have been with my boyfriend

506
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: twenty eight, male for four years. We've lived together for

507
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: three of those of you. A few days ago, I

508
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: was doing laundry as usual, as usual, and I opened

509
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: his underwear drawer and sitting right on top was a

510
00:25:55,080 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: pair of ladies undergarments that are are clearly not mine.

511
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 2: What color are they?

512
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 1: I'm guessing like like a light pink with like.

513
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: Little frills, light pink with frills. If only, if only

514
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 2: OP had given us I want. I want descriptions of

515
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 2: all right now, Now that sounds weird, Guys from the story, guys,

516
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: get all the details for you.

517
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, little do you guys know that we've been through

518
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 1: actually extensive like vocal podcast training to very deeply describe things.

519
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: Yes, this is professional coach. We we are professionals, and

520
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 2: we give you professional stories exactly.

521
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: But back to the story, op says, I clearly knew

522
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: they weren't mine because they were extra small, which is

523
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 1: not and has never been my size. Oh my, and

524
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: things were going really well in our relationship, and I

525
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: have no reason to think that he's cheating. We both

526
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: work from home and it would be extremely hard to

527
00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,400
Speaker 1: hide that. I immediately asked him, calmly what they were at.

528
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 2: First, what they were? He's gonna be like, it's a spatula.

529
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: Now you know what it is, bro, It's the worst

530
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 2: game of jeopardy ever. What is this object? Or actually

531
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: know it's the reverse? Yeah, yeah, it's like, what is panties?

532
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: At first, he lied and said that he didn't know.

533
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: Then he admitted he found them on the floor next

534
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: to the washer after he went back there to retrieve

535
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: some socks that he dropped. Now, the thing is, we

536
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: have our own washer and dryer in our apartment, so

537
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: this is not I I thought like, oh, this is

538
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: going to be like a building. It's their own private

539
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: washer dryer.

540
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,479
Speaker 2: That makes it very suspicious. That makes it very suspicious, right,

541
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 2: why you washing some panties? Man?

542
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: Now the other thing is it's in our shared guest

543
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: bathroom and we share it with just our roommates, so

544
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: the only other possible person is the roommate.

545
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 2: Oh so it could be the roommate could be Okay.

546
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: I pressed that they are not mine, and he admitted

547
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: he knew that, but he likes sniffing undergarments, if you

548
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: catch my drift.

549
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait wait I was not ready for that

550
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 2: third yeah yeah yeah, wait so does he know does

551
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 2: she know her man's has this this uh sniffing fantasy.

552
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: Only now this is the first time.

553
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: Oh what a way to find out, like truly true, dude.

554
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: I don't know if you know this. I will not

555
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: for this reason, but I want to go to Japan.

556
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: And I was doing research right, well, there are these

557
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: vending machines where you can buy use panties. Wow yeah,

558
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 2: and like these like like like Japanese businessmen will go

559
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: and buy them and sniff them.

560
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: Wow yeah. Because I I don't know where. I was

561
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: reading in some book and it was like cultures that

562
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,719
Speaker 1: are the cleanest on the surface are like the dirtiest underneath,

563
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

564
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: Dirty dirty? Yeah, So it's dirty dirty.

565
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: Like like very clean and respectful like, whereas American culture

566
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: maybe or like like, you know, American cultures a little

567
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: bit more like uh up front, and we're not as like.

568
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 2: Prude, I mean ish, we're kind of we're kind of

569
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 2: a little bit to the Europeans. We're way more prude.

570
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you're right, but we're like in the middle, right, Yeah,

571
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 1: I guess we're more than Japanese. And then so basically

572
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: the book was saying.

573
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 2: As Americans, we believe we are the normal.

574
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like they mentioned Germans as well. Germans are

575
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: again very kind of.

576
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: Like like more prude and yeah on the surface, but dude,

577
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 2: Germans are filthy, filthy yeah, bro, like the German boom

578
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: boom clubs.

579
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: No, no, no, oh wow, there you go. AnyWho, So

580
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,959
Speaker 1: you know, we we've discovered the op has this undergarment

581
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: sniffing thing going on. And her boyfriend said that he

582
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: saw them and just threw them in his drawer, which

583
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: is why they were right on top and there was

584
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: no attempt at hiding them. Still a little suss to me,

585
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: but I.

586
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: Don't know, like like I feel like you should disclose

587
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 2: that kind of thing.

588
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's the thing is like why has he

589
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: I mentioned this before?

590
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean maybe it's embarrassing. It's that. And also,

591
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 2: I mean, I saw I'm not a panty sniffer myself,

592
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 2: so I can't pretend to be involved in the mind

593
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 2: with the panty sniffer. My thought is, like you know

594
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 2: that experiment where they had a bunch of guys work

595
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 2: out and they had these like t shirts that were

596
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: full of sweat and they had the women smell. It

597
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, this smells so good, like

598
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: and it's like pheromones and stuff. No, I've never heard

599
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: of it, so apparently, so this is actually really interesting.

600
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 2: So they did a study where these guys so like

601
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: worked out in a shirt and put it in immediately,

602
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 2: like when it was wet and soaking with sweat. They

603
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 2: put it in a plastic bag and sealed it and

604
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 2: then without showing who these guys were, they gat that

605
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 2: like they put the shirts on a table and had

606
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: all these women select witch shirt smelled best to them,

607
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: and then they paired up, Like they paired these people

608
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: up just based on the smell, and there was a

609
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: ton of attraction based only on smell, and like a

610
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: lot of these couples were like, damn looking fresh. And

611
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:05,479
Speaker 2: so maybe it's the same with the panties.

612
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right. It's just such a funny

613
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: where it's like, so so they were basically there were

614
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: some women that liked certain shirts of certain guys. So

615
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: it's like, all right, if I if they liked Guy

616
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: Sees shirts and then they introduced her to guy see,

617
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: then they're hitting it off. That's basically what they're saying. Yeah, yeah,

618
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: that's interesting. I I do have to wonder if like

619
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: none of them were like, ooh, these smell like sweat.

620
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

621
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: I mean, like, that's a little weird.

622
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 2: So so my girlfriend will literally steal my shirts that

623
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 2: I've been wearing for a little bit and just wear

624
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: them so she has my smell. I don't know, it's

625
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: probably weird.

626
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: But no, I'll one up you. My my girlfriend actually

627
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: does like my bo So now I.

628
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I see, it's a thing. Happens, It happens. It's

629
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:52,479
Speaker 2: a thing.

630
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:52,719
Speaker 3: Bro.

631
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: Well, getting getting back to Op's ordeal, it gets a

632
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: little more complicated here.

633
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: See.

634
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: Op is willing to accept the door sniffing and just

635
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: move on. But here's the thing that she can't figure out.

636
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: She doesn't know who's underwear. It is, right, like She's

637
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 1: still like, it's a mystery. It's a mystery. So he

638
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: contacted her old roommate, twenty five female, and she swears

639
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: that they are not hers and she's never seen them.

640
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: She also contacted her new roommate, twenty three male and

641
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: his girlfriend who comes over occasionally. They aren't hers either,

642
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: And I confirmed with my roommate that he has not

643
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: had other girls in the apartment. What if that's what

644
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: it is. It's just that the roommate was sneaking around.

645
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 2: Oh the other roommatemate his girlfriend.

646
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: That would be a flat test. Oh, Now, the unit

647
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: is pretty new, so I don't know if it's possible

648
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: that they are from the old tenant. We've lived here

649
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: for three years. Three year old underwear year old. I don't.

650
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

651
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he saw it and kept it around for

652
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: a long time, because you know, like Panny's age, like

653
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: fine wine. They say, well, he's.

654
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: Well, he said that he like literally like I think

655
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: he said he recently found him and threw them right

656
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: on top existing and just so it seemed to be

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Speaker 1: like a recent event. Now I've only told a few

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Speaker 1: people because it really is just underwear sniffing, like it's

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Speaker 1: not that intense in op's perspective, and I don't want

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Speaker 1: to humiliate my boyfriend. I truly love him and I

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Speaker 1: see myself spending my life with him. My therapist thinks

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't cheat on me, and that it's not plausible

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Speaker 1: and I should let it go now. I disagree with

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Speaker 1: the therapist here. I'm like, h, I think it's still

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Speaker 1: plausible that he could be cheating.

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Speaker 2: But I think it's still plausible. But I'm just thinking, like,

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Speaker 2: sometimes I do laundry at my parents' house, and there

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Speaker 2: have been times where I come back with my laundry

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Speaker 2: and there is underwear that is that is either my

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Speaker 2: sisters or my mom's. I don't want that underwear, but

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Speaker 2: I forget to bring it back, and so I probably

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Speaker 2: have some my parents are sisters underwear. This is sod.

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Speaker 1: That is a good theory that have the parents visited,

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Speaker 1: has a sister law visited. That's actually a decent theory.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a lot. There's a lot that could

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Speaker 2: be going on there. I wouldn't say he's cheating. I

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Speaker 2: I don't believe it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess against that. A couple of my friends disagree.

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Speaker 1: They do think that he could be going out cheating.

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Speaker 1: I want so badly to just let it go, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know who's underwear it is, and they didn't

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Speaker 1: just appear out of nowhere. I honestly don't even know

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Speaker 1: what to think. I just came here to write it out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: It's tricky because if it really is the underwear sniffing thing,

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Speaker 2: then absolutely I agree with you. I don't think it's

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Speaker 2: a big deal, but I am I am still suss

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Speaker 2: about Op's boyfriend because I don't know, like how how

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Speaker 2: how would they get there?

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Speaker 1: I like your theory.

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Speaker 2: If he's just ordering it from the internet, that is.

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Speaker 1: Also possible, But then why did why didn't he say that?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because embarrassed about the about the situation.

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Speaker 1: It's possible, but he admitted to it, you know.

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Speaker 2: So Yeah, I don't know. There is some plot holes, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: definitely that are concern But if.

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Speaker 1: It truly is just an underwear sniffing, that's not a

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Speaker 1: big deal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sniff some underwear. I have a few laughs, It's fine.

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Speaker 1: You know what viewers could do other than the sniffing underwear?

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