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Speaker 1: that y'all got. Y'all came here to listen to you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: I listened to the Black Who Tips podcast because Rod

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Speaker 3: and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 1: Y'all telling me that I need to get out and vote.

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Speaker 1: Why ain't nobody black wunning but crack girls. So while

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Speaker 1: I got still register, I'm thinking the better shit to

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Speaker 1: do with my time. Never smelled a roma of diploma,

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Speaker 1: butle I write that.

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Speaker 2: Deep ass rhymes.

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Speaker 1: So let me take y'all way back to when that

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Speaker 1: nigga stayed in Southwest atlantae a y'all could not tell

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Speaker 1: me nothing.

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Speaker 4: Thought.

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Speaker 1: I hit that bottom rock at age thirteen, start working

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Speaker 1: at the loading dock. They laying my mama off mann.

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Speaker 1: The romotere is tripping.

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Speaker 2: But I come back. I come home bank like Hank from.

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Speaker 1: Licking and dipping, doing dumb shit, not knowing what a

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Speaker 1: nigga know. Now, yeah that pretty yeah, that petty shit.

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Speaker 1: Well how you case stuff in lockdown?

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Speaker 2: I dipped over the East Point, still.

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Speaker 1: Acting the food. Wi's my time in school. I'd rather

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Speaker 1: be out shooting some pool. Cool is how I played

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Speaker 1: the tenth grade. I thought it was all about mcin

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Speaker 1: hoes and wearing a pimp phase instead of being in class.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather be up in some ass, not thinking about

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Speaker 1: them six coasters that I need to pass.

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Speaker 2: Graduation rolled around like roly police. Damn, it's fucked up.

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Speaker 1: I should have listen what my mama told me that

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Speaker 1: if I played now, I'm going to suffer. Later figured

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Speaker 1: she was talking ying yang, so I paid her no

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Speaker 1: what attention.

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Speaker 2: They kept missing the point. She tried to poke me

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Speaker 2: with the dope.

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Speaker 1: But that I get the more I'm feeling broken ship huh,

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Speaker 1: But that don't matter though I am a o U

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Speaker 1: t cast, So get up out your ass. You need

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Speaker 1: to get up, get out and gets something. Hey, welcome

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Speaker 1: to the black Out till his podcast, your host Rod A.

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Speaker 2: You were live.

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Speaker 1: On a Monday, everybody Everyone's favorite day of the week.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Shout out to Antonio Brown. Also his first

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Speaker 2: day on the job. Okay, it is congratulations of that nigga.

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Speaker 1: Okay uh oh man.

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Speaker 2: You know, I realized about ten a round.

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Speaker 1: I saw people black people on my Twitter feed and

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Speaker 1: they was they was defending him because this dude said.

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Speaker 2: Mike Mirk, Mike Greenberg, I thinks his name.

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Speaker 1: He's an ESPN analyst, and he was like, this is

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Speaker 1: the most unprofessional thing I have ever seen in sports

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Speaker 1: or whatever.

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Speaker 2: And so then a lot of black people was like, well,

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Speaker 2: what about Aaron hernandez huh? What about O. J. Simpson?

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Speaker 1: What about when Gilbe the Rents pull that gun out?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, those was crimes. I think

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Speaker 1: he's talking about like contract negotiation type shit.

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Speaker 4: Like niggas don't care. They yo know, you just made

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Speaker 4: a blanket statement.

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Speaker 1: They was like, word, yeah, So I figured it out, Cam,

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Speaker 1: I figured it out. So last week before he got

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Speaker 1: released from his team. He went into work and he

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Speaker 1: found the GM because the GM fined him because he

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Speaker 1: didn't go to some mandatory practices and stuff, which is customary.

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Speaker 1: No one's exception to that. You normally get fine when

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Speaker 1: you don't go to practice. Yeah, right, So he decided

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Speaker 1: not to go to practice. He got fined, so he

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Speaker 1: posted about it on Instagram. Then he went into work

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Speaker 1: and he called the GM straight in his face a cracker.

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Speaker 1: And then and he kicked the football and said find

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Speaker 1: me for that. And then he said, I'll punch you

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Speaker 1: on your motherfucking face. And ever since he did that,

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Speaker 1: black people.

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Speaker 2: Have been defending him NonStop.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, by the end of the day, they will

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Speaker 1: be comparing him to Martin Luther, King, Malcolm x Emmett Till,

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Speaker 1: like the great martyrs of our society. Uh, it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: It's honestly amazing to watch.

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Speaker 3: I like, because some of always they could do that,

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Speaker 3: but they never will get the chance.

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Speaker 1: That's really what I think is, it's projection of us

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Speaker 1: being like, we've all look, we might not be wilding

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Speaker 1: out like this dude.

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Speaker 2: I think he's a dick, but we all wanted to

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 1: We all have that fantasy of walking into work and

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Speaker 1: being like, shut your cracker ass up, Bob, I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of your shit.

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Speaker 2: And I think he got to live that fantasy.

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Speaker 1: So now it's he's the new like LeVar Ball, where

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Speaker 1: he's a flawed, fucked up person, not the kind of

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Speaker 1: person you really want to stand behind because he will

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Speaker 1: do something fucked up within twenty four hours. But everyone Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but everyone's standing behind him, like you can't say nothing

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Speaker 1: about the nigga right now. I'm like, yo, he does seem.

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Speaker 2: Like a dick.

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Speaker 1: Well, I root for the players, not the owners. I'm like, uh,

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Speaker 1: first of all, this isn't a players or owner. This

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Speaker 1: ain't every player nigga ever since Kaepernick.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, this ain't got nothing to do with.

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Speaker 1: Kaepernick, be ignorant like, and then today was the thing

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Speaker 1: like they were like people were saying like, it's not

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Speaker 1: even uh, it's not even a top twenty five unprofessional moment,

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Speaker 1: and I said, hold up, man.

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Speaker 2: Hold up.

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Speaker 1: Just last week, everybody thought this nigga had the CTEO,

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Speaker 1: was on drugs all of us. Nobody was like, nah,

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Speaker 1: this makes sense. We was like this nigga, he first

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Speaker 1: of all, he flash froze his feet, Yes he did.

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Speaker 1: Everybody saw the pictures of his feet that follows the

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Speaker 1: NFL flash froze his feet. Then he said he want

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Speaker 1: to go back to the old helmet to go out

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Speaker 1: there look like a power ranger and the fucking weird

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Speaker 1: ass helmet.

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Speaker 4: They was like, you can't do that for a reason, right.

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Speaker 1: Like we're trying to keep you from getting the concussion.

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Speaker 1: There are actual rules of regulations on what helmets you

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Speaker 1: can wear for safety purposes. No, you cannot wear a

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Speaker 1: motherfucking excite bike helmet out this bitch.

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Speaker 4: Come on.

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Speaker 1: And then and then he was like, ye'all need to uh, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm not coming to practice. They just had to be like, dog,

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Speaker 1: please come to practice, like what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: You need to get serious about this.

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Speaker 1: Then after that shit, he doesn't come to practices and

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Speaker 1: walk throughs. And John, poor John Gruden, he was the

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Speaker 1: most cooked white man I've ever seen in my life.

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Speaker 1: Like there are there are men that watched the sex

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Speaker 1: on black dot com that are not as cuckolded as

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Speaker 1: as motherfucker John Gruden has been the last like math

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Speaker 1: a choice, like he is just like anything. Antonio Brown says,

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Speaker 1: it's crazy he just acting like it's Ricky Jared from Barbles.

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Speaker 1: He's like, well, man, I wish you really would come

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Speaker 1: on there and consider, you know, we're just ready to

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Speaker 1: play some football man.

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Speaker 4: And then he's like, does any want to make him mad?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know we need you out there.

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Speaker 1: Antonio really needs you to just contribute to the team.

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Speaker 1: You know, It's just I understand you, man, I understand

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Speaker 1: what you're going through.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it's.

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Speaker 1: Impossible to understand this man. He's acting crazy. Stop acting

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Speaker 1: like you get it. You don't get it.

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Speaker 2: You like people to try to act like they get

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Speaker 2: what Kanye West is doing.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't. He crazy. You gotta let it go.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you just gotta step back and be like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what the fuck this is. No one's ever

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Speaker 1: acted like this before. It work, and then the nigga

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Speaker 1: came into work, threatened to punch the GM in the face,

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Speaker 1: called him a cracker. At Lord Jesus, you are the

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Speaker 1: thigh motherfucking he said, plymbing rock didn't land on. We

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Speaker 1: didn't land on plumbing rock, plmming rock lanting it on us.

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Speaker 4: Come on, cause niggas was.

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Speaker 2: Running around like what's so bad?

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Speaker 4: About that.

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Speaker 2: It'll never compare to the n world.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, this is what they call equality.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, nigga, you know that's not okay to do

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Speaker 2: it a john.

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Speaker 4: That's not what's.

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Speaker 2: Wrong with y'all. None of us would do that.

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Speaker 1: None of us go to work and be like, let

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Speaker 1: me find the white boss and call him a cracker

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Speaker 1: and expect to get.

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Speaker 2: A paycheck by the end of the week. Like none

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Speaker 2: of I was like, fantasy is something, man?

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Speaker 1: It was so good man, But then today it was

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Speaker 1: that white man said it was very unprofessional.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, he didn't.

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Speaker 1: Kill or rape somebody, So I don't see what the

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Speaker 1: problem is. I'm like, nigga acting like an asshole. God,

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Speaker 1: I love you of black it's the best.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we are so good.

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Speaker 1: All I know is if I ever get caught doing

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Speaker 1: some shane no business doing, first thing I'm doing is

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Speaker 1: calling a white person a cracking and looking at the car,

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Speaker 1: looking at the camera like, huh, they found this nigga

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Speaker 1: with twenty seven volumes of child porn. These crackers in

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Speaker 1: my right, guys, get on my side. You know, these

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Speaker 1: white people be dripping Okay, it's a cultural thing. They

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Speaker 1: just don't understand. Well, I mean some black people will

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Speaker 1: absolutely go to my side, even the ones that hate me.

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Speaker 2: You'd be like, you know what, he did say crackers.

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Speaker 1: And played the race card, so clearly support him anyway.

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Speaker 1: NFL is back, Oh my faith. Yeah, I could never start.

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Speaker 1: Right then, all Black Lady writing room. We've never had

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Speaker 1: If don't even get me started on Chappelle show, niggas

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Speaker 2: Okay, but I agree.

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Speaker 1: One of things that happened was right out the box,

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Speaker 1: We're six episodes and it's the first season is over,

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Speaker 2: Isn't that how white people always? All right, guys, isn't

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Speaker 2: This in for six weeks, so I gotta get this

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Speaker 1: They were, Oh, this is so fucking great. Let's shit

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Speaker 1: It wasn't just you know, slapstick fart jokes. It was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: The other thing that I hated that people tried to

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Speaker 1: This is why you can't listen to them or cater them.

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Speaker 1: of the worst fucking trolls on the planet.

436
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 2: And these woke niggas watch this shit weekly. They watch

437
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 2: it weekly.

438
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 1: That's why you like when I like, I don't even

439
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,720
Speaker 1: mean it in a mean way, but it's gonna come

440
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 1: off me. But when I say I don't listen to

441
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,320
Speaker 1: these niggas this why because it's like, y'all don't know

442
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,320
Speaker 1: what the fuck y'all talking about, Like this is my morality,

443
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 1: y'all don't.

444
00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't do this, this and this, but

445
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:43,720
Speaker 2: you do. You literally do.

446
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:44,479
Speaker 4: So.

447
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like.

448
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:50,399
Speaker 1: This show checked so many boxes and that's just and

449
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 1: it's just a shame that people wouldn't let it be

450
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 1: funny to them, like they had to cut it off

451
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 1: at the kneecaps and fire community and shit on it

452
00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 1: and all this stuff.

453
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,640
Speaker 2: And I'm so glad it got renewed for season two.

454
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,399
Speaker 2: I can't wait.

455
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: And as usual, you know, I talk about it with

456
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: my peeps, like Justin is in the sketch a lot.

457
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 1: You know, we watched all the Key and Peel Krawl

458
00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 1: show all that shit together, so you know, well, we

459
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,479
Speaker 1: love talking about these sketches when we get up together.

460
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 2: But you know, I really I really enjoyed it.

461
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 1: I really hate that hate spreads more than love on

462
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 1: the internet, because I did see a lot of people

463
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 1: that liked it. But then like it's like you say

464
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: you like something and someone jumps in your mentions to

465
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 1: be like I didn't like this or what about that?

466
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: And it's like, what are you doing? Like I like

467
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: this thing, you know, And then the other thing was

468
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: sketch that people don't give credit for. And what they

469
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 1: did was very difficult. It grows as the season goes on.

470
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: It finished stronger than it started, agree and that like,

471
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: that's a credit to writing, and it's also a credit

472
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,679
Speaker 1: to probably that they're on HBO, so they knew they

473
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: didn't have to worry about getting canceled or something in

474
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: the middle of the season.

475
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 2: But because.

476
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: They seemed like they saved something that strong sketches for

477
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 1: the end, which, at least from the shows I've watched

478
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 1: in the past, a lot of those shows can't afford

479
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: to say strong sketches for the end, so you.

480
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 4: Hit you with them all up front and yeah, and

481
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 4: the rest of the season, okay.

482
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you kind of limped to the end.

483
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: Unless they unless it's such a popular show, they know

484
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: they getting all their episodes. A lot of sketches like

485
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: Scotch sketch comedy shows. It's like the end of the season,

486
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 1: all the jokes that they was like, I'm not too

487
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 1: certain on this one, but it were running, you know,

488
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 1: you know, we.

489
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 2: Already got the top ten sketches out.

490
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: Let's let's just finish off the season, you know. So yeah, man,

491
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to season two. I don't know

492
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,239
Speaker 1: who answered the door at the end. I don't know,

493
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 1: hopefully another cast member. Maybe it's Asa, I don't know.

494
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: She was in a lot of sketches at the end.

495
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 1: But yeah, man, I just thought it was really funny

496
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: and I'm glad it's getting renew and I feel like

497
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,479
Speaker 1: I said, a lot of people, I don't know, they

498
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: showed they colors when this shit came out and not

499
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm not even just talking about like

500
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: you know, black men was hating nah nah, there was

501
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: a lot of white black women that was hating too.

502
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 1: There's a lot of people trying to like, I don't know,

503
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: like they didn't want this shit to exist even you know,

504
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 1: which is crazy, like y'all want power to exist, but

505
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,199
Speaker 1: not this that's I don't know. It's so crazy to

506
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: me to watch people like that but it is what

507
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 1: it is, all right?

508
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 2: Would you write something down to you? Good?

509
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 5: Oh?

510
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got some random thoughts.

511
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 3: Oh okay, go ahead, Yeah, I got several of the

512
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 3: first one.

513
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 4: Let's see. Oh the first one is and Rogers we

514
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 4: just rented joke, like you told me that.

515
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 3: For some reason, when I take a nap, like if

516
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 3: I'm in the bed sleeping myself and there's nobody in

517
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 3: there but me, when I wake up, I always look

518
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 3: like I am vic Thorugh number.

519
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 4: Three on Law Order. The way I stretched across the bed,

520
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 4: like you could just draw outline on me and around

521
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 4: my body. And I don't know why I do that.

522
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 3: You know, I be like, damn, this nap must have

523
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 3: been good to death because I am laid across this

524
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 3: bed like I am just random victim, nameless victim number

525
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 3: three that happened to be walking by with her pocketbook

526
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: and got shot dead.

527
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

528
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: I sleep on the couch now in the Old Man Post.

529
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: So I just turned her back to the TV from

530
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: my hand between my lens and just fall asleep.

531
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 2: Everybody knows the Old Man Post.

532
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: If you had a dad around, you'd have seen him

533
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: do it before. If not, then you grow old enough

534
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: and you get if you have a man in your house,

535
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 1: that's how they're gonna sleep. Just turn on some sports

536
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: and then next thing you know, you got a sheet over,

537
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: yell over the bottom of your half of your body

538
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: and you take away from the TV.

539
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 2: Maybe you got your hand. Maybe you do the hand

540
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 2: behind the head thing.

541
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: I do that one too, the elbow up. But that's

542
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: how I sleep. That's how I nap.

543
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 2: Now like an old man.

544
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 4: You were napped like an old man.

545
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 3: I lapped like a shop shot victim. That's that's how

546
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 3: we're sleeping. It gets rough sometimes a lot of times, Roger,

547
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 3: you have to wake me up and tell me to

548
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 3: move over the.

549
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 2: Whole bed.

550
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 4: My next random though is, uh, I got.

551
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: Some papers about being some in the court and I'm apparently.

552
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 4: This for jury duty. Oh sorry for jury duty.

553
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 3: And I guess there's a difference between being someming for

554
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 3: the county and the federal.

555
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 4: I didn't know there was a difference.

556
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:32,199
Speaker 2: I don't know.

557
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 3: All I know was that the letter was written out

558
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: really pretty, and it was like bring your ass to court.

559
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 3: You don't bring your ass a court. We don't come

560
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 3: in to lock your ass up. They was like if

561
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 3: you won't use any devices. You better bring this piece

562
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 3: of paper else you're gonna be sitting here standing at

563
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 3: the motherfucker. While I was like, oh, y'all ain't joking,

564
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 3: it was like love the Feds.

565
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how that works or whatever.

566
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: I know with the local Jerry duty, like they always

567
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: used to be like you'll know within like a day

568
00:25:59,240 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: or two or the things.

569
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: We'll call you and let you know.

570
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: If you even should come your ass down here every

571
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: time I got to it, and then they was like

572
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: you shouldn't even come down here. I'm like, damn, But

573
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,239
Speaker 1: with this one, I don't know how it works, so

574
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:15,719
Speaker 1: we'll have to show up and you know, see what happens.

575
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you do call them that before, so I'll think,

576
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 4: you know, you got a.

577
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: Slight chance to get out. But it's funny though, right

578
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:27,360
Speaker 1: because everybody hears Jerry Duty and they go, I don't

579
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: want to do it. But at the same time, if

580
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: my life of death was on trial with the fucking

581
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: federal government, I hope Karen is on the fucking jerky

582
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: and I hope somebody reasonable is on the jury that

583
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: I can be like cool. My dad has a story

584
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: about when he was on jury duty, and they tried

585
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,120
Speaker 1: to stick a dude with a drug possession charge when

586
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: he it was no evidence that he had possessed any.

587
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 2: Fucking drug drugs.

588
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: He literally had just walked in somebody's house he was visiting,

589
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,159
Speaker 1: sat on the couch. The police raided the place, was like, oh,

590
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: it's drugs in his house and they found some drugs

591
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 1: like under the couch or something. It was like like

592
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 1: everybody going to jail. It was like, I don't live here,

593
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 1: I don't know these people. I took a drug test.

594
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm clean, like I've never been charged with drug dealing.

595
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: And my dad was one of the people on the

596
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: jury and he was like no, I told him he's

597
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 1: not guilty, and you know, but they was ready to

598
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: Like basically, my dad had to be that annoying person

599
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: that was like, no, black man not going, I'm not

600
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 1: put him in jail for some shit that we don't

601
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: even have proof he did.

602
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 2: And then of course everybody.

603
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 1: Was like, oh, I guess if you're gonna be a

604
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: bit about it, we won't throw this nigga in jail.

605
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 1: And but literally, if it wasn't for my dad, maybe

606
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: they took niggas in jail.

607
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: And I know this might sound strange because I used

608
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 3: to have kind of.

609
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 4: The older you get, the.

610
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 3: More you realize how kind of fucked up the justice

611
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 3: system is and how fucked up juries are juries of

612
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 3: quote unquote peers.

613
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 4: And some of these people.

614
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 3: On these juries are not the smartest people, and a

615
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 3: lot of times they are older white people who actually

616
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 3: are a lot of them retired, very racist and has

617
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 3: the time to go.

618
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 4: Most people like, bitch, I got a job, I gotta work.

619
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 4: I don't have time for this.

620
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 3: And so yeah, like somebody said, you can't afford to

621
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 3: take the time off work because they don't really pay

622
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,359
Speaker 3: you that much, you know, unless you're just having to

623
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: be blessed to have a job that actually pays you

624
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 3: to go to jury duty. Some jobs do my job

625
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 3: does it pays you to go to jervy duty your

626
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 3: regular pay? And so this was the first time I

627
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: got it, and I was like, you know what, if

628
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 3: I get picked.

629
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 4: I won't be angry.

630
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 3: If I don't get picked, I won't be sad, don't

631
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 3: get me wrong, But if I get picked, I won't

632
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 3: be angry because, like you said, it's like for one

633
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 3: of the first times it's like, you know, people like

634
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: me normally opt out or are not picked, or even

635
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 3: if you get picked a lot of times you're disqualified

636
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 3: for various different reasons.

637
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 4: But you know, you do need the people.

638
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 3: That are reasonable to actually be on these juries and

639
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: be more mixed.

640
00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: My question is what happens if like what is your

641
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:01,239
Speaker 2: job gonna do?

642
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: You know, that's all that's the only thing, Like they

643
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: pay you for Jerry duty. They do not they do

644
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: what ain't no big thing?

645
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I done gets a question or some ship.

646
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: You can't come home every night.

647
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: That's what it was like, as long as it's not

648
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: you know, the big drug dealer dude, like it's like

649
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: he killing witnesses and you understand we're gonna gonna hand

650
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: like as long as it's not that at school.

651
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't want to have to go undercover,

652
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 3: no ship like that, you know, I don't think it's

653
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 3: nothing like that. And most of them, they were saying,

654
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 3: most if you do get selected, they were saying, most

655
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 3: of your trials are gonna be like really short.

656
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 4: You know, you ain't gonna be.

657
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: Going up for no O. J.

658
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 4: Simpson trial, no ship like that.

659
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: You know, most of them you check the news, see

660
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: what we hear, really sure see if it's any major

661
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: trials out there standing, hopefully get on then intant interesting

662
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: trial if you have to do.

663
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 4: It right, so you know, so for the first time,

664
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 4: I'm like not.

665
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 3: I think the very first time I got called for

666
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: Jerry duty, I think it was county when I was

667
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 3: in school, and I wrote them another ones like I'm

668
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 3: in school, I don't live in this county and they

669
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 3: excuse me.

670
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 4: So that's really interesting to see where that goes.

671
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,719
Speaker 3: And also, uh my next random thought, as I've been

672
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 3: watching Queer Rai on Netflix, y'all.

673
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 4: Know what, I've been really enjoying Career rid.

674
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: It's now when you say watching is it the did

675
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: they reboot it for Netflix or is it like the

676
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: old ship from years ago?

677
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 3: I think it's a rebook because I remember watching the

678
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 3: old stuff and I was like, oh, this.

679
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: Is a new a new set of people I know

680
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: on that right, the black dude, yes, yeah, yeah, and

681
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: I know they don't like black the black Twitter don't

682
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: fuck with him.

683
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 4: So oh oh, I see, I don't know.

684
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 3: I jumped in blind and it's not yeah, because the

685
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 3: old one used to be called queer RAI for the

686
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: straight guy.

687
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 4: This's just Quira the version.

688
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 3: I'm watching no Netflix, and I just randomly picked it

689
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: and started watching it. I really enjoyed because it's very

690
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 3: relaxing and all the stories are just super super super

691
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 3: positive and the way and so far they've had a

692
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 3: lot of brown people, Like they had two women that

693
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 3: like well barbecue pitt masters in Kansas City and.

694
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 4: And shit like that.

695
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 3: Like I was like wow, and you know, some of

696
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 3: the stories were like really touching to see the things

697
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 3: that people have gone through and their struggles and their

698
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: stories and people just being really open. It's kind of

699
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 3: like I've really been just flat binging it. So it's

700
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 3: kind of my escape from reality to an extent, and

701
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 3: I have really been enjoying. I think one of the

702
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 3: seens aboudy rock climbing, so it made indoor rock climbing.

703
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 3: So it made me ask, you know, people, has anybody

704
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 3: in rock climb before?

705
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 4: And I and I know.

706
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 3: I know black people do everything, but I was surprised

707
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 3: at the response I got from so many black people

708
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: were saying, yes, I've done indoor rock climbing.

709
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: It was fun.

710
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 4: I had a ball and shit like that. So I

711
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 4: think we have them here.

712
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 3: I'm not really sure, but it would be something that

713
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 3: I may do. You know, I don't know if I

714
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 3: got the courage to do it, but it will be

715
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 3: something at least to try. Because one thing about being

716
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: getting older, I'm starting to kind of think outside of

717
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 3: the box and branch out and do things that I

718
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 3: never have done before. And that's something that I've never

719
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 3: done before. It's something I never would have thought about

720
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 3: doing before. So I want to try that. And I

721
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 3: thought about that from the Queer RB. So for those

722
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: of you out there, you know, want something to watch

723
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 3: on Netflix, you know, you don't have to follow my suggestion,

724
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: but that's something that I've really been.

725
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 4: Enjoying.

726
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 3: And oh, my last thing I wanted to my last

727
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 3: quote unquote random thought is I started reading Slash audio

728
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: booking doing like the audio book of Harry Potter. And

729
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 3: I know Harry Potter is big, and I know a

730
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 3: lot of people love Harry Potter like I really do,

731
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 3: but but to me is a.

732
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 4: Brand new world to me.

733
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: And and I'm almost I've watched all the movies, but

734
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 3: I have never read the book.

735
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 4: And when I was telling people online, a lot of

736
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 4: people I didn't realize how big it was.

737
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 3: I know that's ignorant on my part, but you know,

738
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 3: when you're not in worlds, you don't realize how big

739
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 3: the worlds really are.

740
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 4: And a lot of people have read them to stay

741
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 4: with children, a lot of people have read them multiple times.

742
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 3: So it's been really really fun, uh read because because

743
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,479
Speaker 3: I started reading and then people were suggesting an audio

744
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 3: book on an audible, I forgot to do name.

745
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 4: It's two big versions of but one dude, he's really

746
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 4: really good. He won Dexter from Shadow Doll's Productions.

747
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 3: Was telling me to do play like five hundred something

748
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 3: character voices, like it's like one dude, he did them

749
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 3: all and he's been doing an excellent job.

750
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 4: But I've been having a bout listening to him. And

751
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 4: there's several.

752
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 3: Things I've realized about Harry Potter.

753
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 4: One Harry Potter and.

754
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 3: Now were told are kind of the same because both

755
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: of their parents died. They had powers, they didn't know

756
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 3: what to do with, uh, they didn't know their parents,

757
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 3: and they both began they both became the greatest of

758
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: their time. So I was just kind of making that connection,

759
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 3: you know, in my mind about Harry Potter. Also Harry

760
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: Potter's aunts.

761
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:27,720
Speaker 4: No, his yeah, his uncle.

762
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 3: I wanted to call the Magical Department of Social Services

763
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 3: on them niggas.

764
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 4: They was the fucking worst. Because the book goes into more.

765
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 3: Details, they had a nigga like up underneath for a

766
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:43,439
Speaker 3: care of staircase, locked up, bugs crawling on him and shit.

767
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 4: I was like, the fuck is this? I was like,

768
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 4: this is goddamn chid the puples. I was thinking them

769
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 4: out of owner one, just like this is not right.

770
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,240
Speaker 3: And apparently other people to greet me, yes, lock them

771
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: bitches up.

772
00:34:58,719 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 4: Uh, people say get worse.

773
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 3: Like I said, I'm I'm gonna continue to read. But

774
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 3: I was like, uh yeah, this don't sound right. And

775
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 3: uh when Harry Potter got to uh the school Hogwarts, uh,

776
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 3: he was like me on my first day at the

777
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 3: new job, going, oh my god, this beauty miss.

778
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,760
Speaker 4: Because he was like everything.

779
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,280
Speaker 3: Is beautiful and I was like, yes, everything is beautiful,

780
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 3: so I can relate me, Harry, me and you mean

781
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 3: you on the same page.

782
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 4: I don't know what.

783
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: They got four houses. I don't know what house I

784
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 3: would be in. Knowing me, I would be on what

785
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 3: was the puff house?

786
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 4: That that's that's that's that's not like, that's not like

787
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 4: my something right, Yeah, I don't know, I don't know.

788
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 4: Yeah hufflepuff. Yeah, that's not like me, the Hufflepuff house.

789
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 4: I'm not trying to get out.

790
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 3: Here and and then and and and do a bunch

791
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 3: of ship and get myself hurt. Nope, I am like,

792
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 3: let's get it done. I'm not you know, it just

793
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 3: me knowing me and my personality. That would probably be

794
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 3: the when they put that big ass hat in my head.

795
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 3: That's probably the first thing you're probably to scream, hupple

796
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 3: Puff House, car get your ass over there.

797
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 4: And that's it.

798
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 3: I just want to Those are just some things that

799
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 3: I willanted to share with you guys.

800
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: All right, those have been your announcements, all right. I

801
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: only have one random thought I will add to this though.

802
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: They really should have tried to sell Americans on switch

803
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: it to the metric system by saying that the men

804
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: could use the bigger numbers to explain how big our

805
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: dicks are. I think we would have switched over already,

806
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: because that's the real problem. Like our system is whack.

807
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 4: We're the only country that uses it. Nobody else in

808
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 4: the world uses it.

809
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 2: Like it's not multiple as a ten or no shit,

810
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 2: Like it's stupid. You know. The way they came up

811
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 2: with the measurements is stupid.

812
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: Oh yard is like you know three feet, you know

813
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: how that's how big my foot is? Like, it's stupid,

814
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: Like it's so fucking hard. That's why all our screws

815
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: don't make no sense. We should have just switched to

816
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: the metric system and being like, yo, it's much easier

817
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: kilometers ten of these bitches this much. We can't even

818
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: run the right amount of shit over here in America

819
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 1: run a five k Okay, how many mouths is that?

820
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,280
Speaker 4: You know? No idea?

821
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: You got people passing out because they don't know so

822
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: fucking what it is. But if you would have just

823
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: told men, because let's be honest, men are the dumb

824
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: asses who said let's.

825
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 2: Stick to this stupid ass system.

826
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 4: Of course they did.

827
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: If you would have just told men, hey, do you

828
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: know if you are talking about your dick, you can

829
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 1: sound like you have a bigger dick because the numbers

830
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 1: would be bigger in the metric system, that's all. Instead

831
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: of interest, you can do centimeters even be like, girl,

832
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: you want all twenty of these centimeters? I'm about to

833
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: lay down on your ass. I'm like, oh, whoa twenty CENTEMEO.

834
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 4: I don't know how big that is. But you said,

835
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 4: like you about to kid, you about to commit murder.

836
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: But you did right, because think about it, nobody knows,

837
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,720
Speaker 1: like if it's that, I don't know what that is either.

838
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 2: That could be six inches to twelve feet.

839
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know, because I'm just like twenty wow,

840
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: twenty centimes sound like a lot, right, right, that's like

841
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: these dudes, and then you go, oh you want this,

842
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 1: the big the BBC, the big black centimeter.

843
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 3: This girl, I got you, ain't We were still one

844
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 3: of the few countries that do celsius because I had

845
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 3: to change. We do fair, we do fair and right,

846
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 3: that's right, we do fahrenheit and uh. And even in

847
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 3: your car with the kilometers and mouths, it's like I

848
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 3: didn't realize for you the inside button was the kilometers.

849
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 3: I was like, the fuck is this little button down here?

850
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 3: I mean, like you know when your sphenometer goals. I

851
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 3: didn't realize the small numbers on the inside was kilometers.

852
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 3: Show you how small, my dumb ass.

853
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, man, And then everybody else is using

854
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:54,319
Speaker 1: it already, so like, why the fuck aren't we you know,

855
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: like it just doesn't make sense. And I really feel

856
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: like it was Dix that held us back. It was

857
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: that had to be what it was. Yeah, it was

858
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 1: just people. Oh no, man, we already got this and

859
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 1: this measurement over here.

860
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 2: Okay.

861
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, cold, cold, cold, But you know, instead

862
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: of six inches, you could be telling women you're working

863
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 1: with fourteen centimeters and you gotta make that your sound.

864
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 1: You know, gotta gotta get in there and get get

865
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,280
Speaker 1: what you can. You know, short men, how many short

866
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: men would love to be measuring themselves and and fucking

867
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: centimeters and shit instead of this like this height, this

868
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: foot system.

869
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 2: That fucked y'all up? All right, five? Put two. That's

870
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: what y'all gotta do.

871
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: Man, the next time you on a dating app, switch

872
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: your ship to centimeters.

873
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 2: Don't let don't let know, just switch just switch on

874
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: ship the you know, the centimeters real quick.

875
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: So she was like, I'm looking at your profile pick

876
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 1: trying to how tall are you six sixty centimeters governor,

877
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: and just switch to that ship and the like sounds

878
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: pretty tall to me. I'm tall, dark and handsome, and

879
00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: you know, what I mean, and then she show up

880
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: to the date and see like probably the lollipop gil

881
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: It's cool. But the point is you can get the date.

882
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: You would have never got that if you would have

883
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: said I'm four foot three that she would be like,

884
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: excuse me, I don't date children.

885
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: You know, it's still okay to discriminate against short men.

886
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: Come on, that's the only group is still okay to

887
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: discriminate against short men.

888
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with short man me catching that uh,

889
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,399
Speaker 2: catching that heat.

890
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: I feel bad for the little fellas, all right, speaking

891
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 1: of feeling bad for people, Five beta sigma removes when

892
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: Leek Yoga from the youth program at the Statutory rape

893
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: Allegation services. Oh seems reasonable to me. I mean, what

894
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna do? Well, guys, we gotta let them keep

895
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: being around your kids. And I hope that hope that

896
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: shit was false. You kind of gotta start being like, well,

897
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 1: let's look into this, right.

898
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: Uh So, Yeah, they said.

899
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: These reports allegah yo Bad been previously involved in an

900
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: innerprose relationship twenty years ago. Allegations that brother Yoba denies

901
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 1: this is an issue in the allegation is inconsistent with

902
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 1: and a distraction to the focus of Sigma Beta Club.

903
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: To safeguard reputation of the program at Five Beta Sigma

904
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Fraternity incorporated, the National Sigma Beta Club Foundation, and consultation

905
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: with the Five Beta Sigma Fraternity's leadership has determined it

906
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: to be the best interest of all concern that Brother

907
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: Malik Yoba no longer serves a national spokesperson for the

908
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: Sigma Beta Club program. And yeah, I'm I mean, it's

909
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: a comedy show, guys, so you know, take it with a.

910
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 2: Grain of salt.

911
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but I don't know if you

912
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: guys heard. He did put out a rebuttal oh to uh,

913
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: denying the the accusations, to which I said, okay, you

914
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 1: know that's that's good that you know he's denying it. Uh,

915
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: Except when I clicked on it, like, oh, let me

916
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: check this out and see what you had to say

917
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: about it.

918
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: It was not what I expected, guys.

919
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: It was I think, for example, Karen, do me a

920
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 1: quick favor and accuse me of something I didn't do.

921
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 2: Real quick. You picked the thing, It doesn't matter how

922
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 2: hard it is. Yeah, oh, you cheated on a test, guys.

923
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: This is your boy, Rod.

924
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 1: I'm on Instagram Live real quick, and I just wanted

925
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: to say I heard the rumors and the accusations that

926
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: I cheated on the test.

927
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 2: I did not cheat on that test.

928
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 1: Okay, under no uncertain circumstances did I cheat on that test?

929
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 2: Did I ever cheat on the test?

930
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: If they don't believe those things, and uh, you know,

931
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: I I'm really sorry for anybody that is caught up

932
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: in the back and forth about that. But I didn't

933
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: cheat on that test, right, That's what I would say

934
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: if you accuse me of something that I did not do.

935
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:00,959
Speaker 2: And I wanted to how.

936
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 5: Quickly people love to spread news with no proof for

937
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 5: child of diffused, I see you. You choose to try

938
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 5: to make me lose, but I can't. If you try

939
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 5: to stand in my shoes, you would lose. You can't

940
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 5: win when you live in sin. When you got to

941
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 5: begin where it begins again in the beginning, I told

942
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 5: you there was a word, and the word said, we

943
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 5: will love, and we will love each other no matter

944
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 5: what you my sister, my brother, will you be a

945
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 5: trans man or a trans one man? I do not

946
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 5: know if you do not understand. Yes, this is a freestyle.

947
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 5: I'm feeling kind of wild off the top of my

948
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 5: dome in somebody else's home.

949
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: Leave me alone with your words and.

950
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 5: Your comments and the shit you don't throw up on

951
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 5: the dome. As I think about it daily, made me

952
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,959
Speaker 5: move deeper and deeper into my warrior spirit. Here I come.

953
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 5: You're gonna see it, and you're gonna hear it. You're

954
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 5: gonna fear if you don't understand it. Lean into it

955
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 5: so you understand it. See, because all of this is

956
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 5: just the way God planned it. You the one that's confused,

957
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 5: You the one that's gonna how you like that? Those

958
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,919
Speaker 5: little freestyle you know a lot of nons.

959
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 6: Since it's floating around town the last few days, I'm like,

960
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 6: what am I gonna say about all this? I'm not

961
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 6: gonna defend myself. I'm ana dig deep. I'm a lean

962
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 6: into my creativity. I'm a lean into the purpose. And

963
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:15,280
Speaker 6: the purpose is the service. It's all. It's about.

964
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 4: Love.

965
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 6: September twenty seventh, Love and Trauma Workshop hosted by Yours

966
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 6: Truly and Missus Carmen Carrera and on the twenty eighth

967
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 6: of September, the trans March on DC. That's the only

968
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 6: reason I posted the video in the first place was

969
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 6: to draw attention to an important subject. The visibility of

970
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 6: all people is important.

971
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 4: Professional. Yeah, yeah, that's not professional. Not to find it like,

972
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 4: that's not professional, you know.

973
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 3: And I wouldn't want you representing my organization with that,

974
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 3: like you're basically connecting us to you with this. And

975
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure they got angry phone calls, Like the

976
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 3: organization people started calling them up immediately, like the fuck

977
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: is this?

978
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 2: He did it? Mm hmm.

979
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: It's my belief he did it. That's the defense of

980
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: a person that did it. If you didn't do it,

981
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: I didn't do that.

982
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: Ship. That is a lie.

983
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: If you did it, then you come up and you

984
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: say this ship, this is not what you say, Well,

985
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: you didn't do it. What is this, homie? The answer

986
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: is no, I didn't do it. What the fuck he's

987
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: gonna be in caught?

988
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 2: Like your honor and all now your honor and.

989
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 4: Give me a microphone in the stage.

990
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: All reasonable.

991
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: That was a freestyle. You cannot hold my words the

992
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: freestyle accountable. My client did not directly say that he

993
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: did not do it.

994
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 2: What he said was.

995
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 1: Peace, brothers and sisters. I don't care if you're a

996
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: trans man or one man. We all understand what's understood

997
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: that need to be understanding.

998
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: You see, so he already had addressed that, y'all. Honest.

999
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna just have to go ahead and ask

1000
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: for this to be dismissed. Yeah, that's not how it works. Hey,

1001
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: have you been cheating on me? You been getting in

1002
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: from work later and later, and I know it's lipstick

1003
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 1: on your collar. See what you need to understand, sister,

1004
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: is that we are all together on the interplanetary scale.

1005
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,280
Speaker 2: We go through hell, but I'm not gonna go through jail.

1006
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: You think I would be out here like a cat

1007
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 2: trying to chase a little bit of tail? All hell?

1008
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying you got to go. You got

1009
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: to grow because it ain't gonna show enough. Was it

1010
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 1: into the dragon? But you not fit to be dragging

1011
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 1: because you are hits to what my wagon?

1012
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 4: Nah?

1013
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 2: Fuck that ship? Do not tell me did you know

1014
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 2: it or not? What the fuck is this?

1015
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 1: Stop gas like me like these were not answers. These

1016
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: this is a bad rap with no beats. Oh brother

1017
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: in the night, ass nigga, Like, tell me what happened?

1018
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 4: You didn't even give me a beat?

1019
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, phil Oh I'm not, Oh, j did you

1020
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 1: kill your wife?

1021
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 2: Kill my wife?

1022
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: Spare the nine? Put some peanut butter on my jelly?

1023
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: You acting kind of smelly?

1024
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 2: Do you fail me?

1025
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: I might get some cheese and a steak because I'm

1026
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: from Philly, but I might be the goat. Don't call

1027
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: me billy. So see, clearly I didn't do it. Clearly

1028
00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: I didn't do it. Clearly I'm a man. These are

1029
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: the bars of an innocent man.

1030
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:03,439
Speaker 2: A man.

1031
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: An innocent man would never be able to rhyme this

1032
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: shit so fast. Okay, so you know I didn't do it.

1033
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 1: So guys, I'll see you on the twenty six down

1034
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 1: at the Don't Kill your Wife March, and then don't

1035
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: forget on the twenty ninth, we are gonna be hosting

1036
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: the I definitely didn't do that shit event, so we'll

1037
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: hope to see you guys out there. That's the whole

1038
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: reason I talked about in the first place. Okay, Gods,

1039
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 1: I know the people was like the.

1040
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 4: Fuck, no, no, you can't do this no more, Sir.

1041
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 2: Jesus christ Man.

1042
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: That that literally made me mad, Like I was just like,

1043
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: is this nigga browse my head getting hot?

1044
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 5: Oh?

1045
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: Because he because it's full of shit. Stop trying to

1046
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 2: trick me.

1047
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 4: Man, he ain't had no pace to it. I don't

1048
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 4: what we're doing. Sixteen thirty two, twelve bars. I don't

1049
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 4: get I would rather, I.

1050
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 2: Would, honest to god, rather him have said nothing.

1051
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 4: Right, I need have been better off.

1052
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: I honestly, guy would have rather have just been like,

1053
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna dress that shit.

1054
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 2: Nigga said, I'm not addressing it while addressing it. What nigga, I'm.

1055
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: Not addressing these allegations right now that I'm addressing in

1056
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: my free staff on. Excuse me, somebody give me a baseline.

1057
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 3: I am here to let you know that this is

1058
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 3: something that I did not do. You came out and

1059
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 3: said that I committed a crime. Who is the one

1060
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 3: committing a crime? I think it's you for telling me

1061
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 3: that I committed the crime.

1062
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 4: And then everybody just started clapping his good.

1063
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: Job, Oh man, thanks thanks for cleaning up, Malik. We

1064
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: appreciate you. What is child sexual assault any way? Okay,

1065
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 1: I guess you don't mind if I bump in crime,

1066
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: But I'm not r Kelly. You need to rewind, yes,

1067
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: rewind see, I am a brother, but I'm not New

1068
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 1: York under Cover. When I'm under the covers. Mm hmmm,

1069
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: I use Rubbus. My favorite invention is fluff. I was

1070
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: rooting for Yoba, but now I'm just like he did it.

1071
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, y'all know I got a little threshold

1072
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: for that ship. I'll just be like, everybody did it.

1073
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: You're like, y shit started looking sketch. I'm like, this

1074
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: nigga did it.

1075
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 2: Damn. I think that's why I don't cancel people, because

1076
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 2: I just be like, he did it. They all did it.

1077
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: You know Chris Brown, I had dancing real hard to

1078
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: beatailwards like he's guilty.

1079
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, that's something that I think he did too, Like.

1080
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: Just certain shiit man, like look at look at this

1081
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: nigga bowtie. Man, it's thinking never one no bow tie.

1082
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 2: He did that ship. Oh like everybody else a.

1083
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 4: Little bit of sweat. I don't mean I'm gonna forgive you.

1084
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody else is the opposite, Like if

1085
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: it's a black person, they always looking for excuse to

1086
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 1: be like they didn't do it. Guys, Okay, we're all black.

1087
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: We have to stick together. I know the blood was

1088
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 1: and the DNA was in his car and he had

1089
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: a suicide note that said I definitely killed my wife.

1090
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: But guys, guys, we owe it to the community to

1091
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: defend this nigga. And I just be like this nigga

1092
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: was crying.

1093
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 2: He did it.

1094
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: M Sometimes it's just how it is, man, And Malik

1095
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: Yova sounded like he did it.

1096
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 4: Man.

1097
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: All this is under the guys of comedy. So guys

1098
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 1: laugh at these jokes. That's what they are. They're all jokes.

1099
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 2: Guys.

1100
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: All right, let's see what else he got coming up.

1101
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: That's baller. Barry Gordon donates four million dollars to expand

1102
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: the Motown Museum. Oh, he finally give us some of

1103
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: that money he stole back. Good for him, Good for him.

1104
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 4: I've never been to it.

1105
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 1: Now that all the singers I dine, I guess I

1106
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: can use the money from their contracts to do a

1107
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: little something.

1108
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 2: You know.

1109
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 1: He gonna have a big as statue out front of

1110
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: himself and shit, the Barry Gordon Motown. That's what's gonna

1111
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: be very Gorday Motown Museum. An artist, I get to

1112
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,280
Speaker 1: use your likeness. You signed that shit away in nineteen

1113
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: sixty two. There ain't nothing you can.

1114
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 2: Do about it.

1115
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:10,879
Speaker 4: Not a thing.

1116
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: Uh so good, you know, I just think that'll be cool.

1117
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: Hopefully they're building in Detroit.

1118
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah I do. It doesn't say where they're building it.

1119
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,280
Speaker 4: I can't see. Nohell's Motown motile ragons.

1120
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 2: Hm.

1121
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: See, museum is seeking fifty million dollars expansion. Oh so

1122
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: it's already built. Oh so they're expanding it, oh to

1123
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: expand Okay, my bad. Okay, so it's already a motime museum,

1124
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm assuming in Detroit. And uh then they're gonna expand

1125
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 1: it with a fifty minute for a fifty million dollars expansion.

1126
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 2: And he gave four million.

1127
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 1: Dollars of it, so uh, good for him. That's probably

1128
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: just like one our green royalty check.

1129
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 2: So uh just like a child. That's dope. Good for him.

1130
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: Sorry about those people that got ripped off, All right,

1131
00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:59,919
Speaker 1: let's see what other news got.

1132
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 2: Some people don't like you, and that's okay.

1133
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 4: Yes it is, And.

1134
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 3: I am so glad I got to that point where

1135
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:14,839
Speaker 3: I did because I used to care, used to care

1136
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 3: a lot. That shit will drive you up the fucking wall.

1137
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 3: I know some of y'all out there and never cared

1138
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 3: about what nobody ever said about you bless your heart,

1139
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 3: but I actually gave a goddamn and it drove me nuts.

1140
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, man, it'll like help for me, Like it's

1141
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: about the people you who do you want to like you?

1142
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: And who's worth that shit and not everybody is. And

1143
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: then for my personality, there's certain people that try to

1144
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: get to me by withholding liking me, like holding it

1145
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: over my head, like if you make one mistake, I'm gonna.

1146
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 2: Stop fucking with you.

1147
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: And what I realized a couple of years ago is

1148
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: that those people are really just manipulative assholes that are

1149
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 1: just waiting holding it over your head, kind of waiting

1150
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: for you to fuck up so they can discard you

1151
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 1: or something, or you know, justify being like bullies an

1152
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: abusive towards you online And honestly, that type of energy

1153
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 1: was really making.

1154
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 2: Me anxious online. It was really bothering me. And I

1155
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 2: have too many real people.

1156
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: In my life that don't treat me that way, and

1157
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,879
Speaker 1: so to be discarded and disposable. I think that's why

1158
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: some of my protection methic mechanisms with with this podcast

1159
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: and stuff like I don't know who listened to our

1160
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 1: podcast and who does it?

1161
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: If you tell me you do. I'll take your word

1162
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 2: for it, but I don't keep up The.

1163
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: Second you tell me that shit, it goes in one

1164
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: ear and at the other, I don't keep track of it.

1165
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 5: I don't.

1166
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm never like I noticed that you wasn't watching the show.

1167
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 4: Right about it? If I'm if we cool, I talked

1168
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 4: to you and sometimes we never talk about the podcast

1169
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 4: because it don't matter.

1170
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 2: But you know, little stuff like that.

1171
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 1: But it's really for my protection, correct, because I have

1172
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: that thing in me that's like, am I letting you down?

1173
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 2: Am I disappointing you? Am I? You know? Am I

1174
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 2: bad person? Now? Did I do something you disagree with?

1175
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 2: And now?

1176
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: And every time someone has operated that way where I

1177
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: did something they didn't like or I or so I

1178
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: wasn't perfect, so they just started being like you ain't

1179
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: shit all the time. Every time that person like moved

1180
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: on or exited my life or whatever, I felt way better.

1181
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: Every single time.

1182
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: I like, I would love for there to be a

1183
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,399
Speaker 1: time where I look back and with land. I really

1184
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: missed that person every time, and a lot of times

1185
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 1: it was my own liver of brain trying to give

1186
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 1: somebody a chance that didn't deserve a chance, Like I

1187
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: really should have just been like, let me move the

1188
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: fucker on, leave this person in this cage they were

1189
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: already in, like just do not touch all the warning

1190
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: signs on this door. And I keep going, but someone

1191
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: in there might be lonely, and I open the door

1192
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: try to help them, Like I really do feel like

1193
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: that was a big hurdle for me, is learning to

1194
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: be okay with the idea and some people out there

1195
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: it's just not gonna fuck with you whatever, you know.

1196
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 2: And also.

1197
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 4: For me, and.

1198
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 3: I was the type of person that always wanted people

1199
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 3: to like me and always sought and seeked people's approvement,

1200
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 3: even to my destriment where it hurt and harmed me.

1201
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 3: But it was like the bigger cause was this person's approval.

1202
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 3: And I can personally say that I got abused and

1203
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 3: had to go through some things. This is part of

1204
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 3: learning process. This is how I am and why and

1205
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 3: how I am who I am today. I'm still loving, giving,

1206
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 3: caring and kind, but now I have boundaries, you know, because.

1207
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 4: That's the thing.

1208
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 3: You can't be mad at people that don't cross boundaries

1209
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 3: that you never set, you know, because I never had

1210
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 3: no boundaries. A lot of people are grown are raised

1211
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 3: differently than me. A lot of people are raised in

1212
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 3: different households. You know, a lot of people they just

1213
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 3: have a harder exterior, you know. And I'm not like that,

1214
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 3: you know. And also I've learned too, is that because

1215
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 3: I am a generally a very nice, sweet kind of person,

1216
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 3: and a lot of people think that that's fake and

1217
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 3: not real because most people ain't nice. Most people are

1218
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 3: not nice, and most people are not kind that you

1219
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 3: interact with, most people aren't And.

1220
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 4: So a lot of people think that's fake.

1221
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 3: And a lot of times I realized over the years

1222
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 3: that I've become a target because of that, Like people

1223
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 3: will actually targeting me versus you. But what they failed

1224
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 3: to realize my kindness and my givingness is you know

1225
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 3: a lot of people look at that as a weakness.

1226
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 3: I don't consider that a weakness. I consider it a

1227
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 3: good thing. But it's also one of those things where

1228
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 3: I had to learn that me being me, if it

1229
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 3: ain't enough for you, I don't know what to tell you.

1230
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 4: Because that's the thing.

1231
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 3: I was changing my personality, changing who I was seeking

1232
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 3: these people approval who never was gonna approve you, even

1233
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 3: family members. So I had to learn how to let

1234
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 3: some of them go, like, bitch, I don't care. And

1235
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 3: once I really let that go and began not caring

1236
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 3: and beginning to tell my truth and tell them how

1237
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 3: I felt, a lot of people were very shocked and

1238
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,439
Speaker 3: surprised because they never thought I would say these things

1239
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 3: because you never fucking got to know me, because you

1240
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 3: didn't care to know actually know me and what I

1241
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 3: thought in my thought process. And once you truly get

1242
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 3: to the point where you don't care anymore is a

1243
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 3: very freeing thing.

1244
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 4: It's hard to get there.

1245
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 5: Uh.

1246
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 3: That's why I believe that you got to find your

1247
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 3: tribe that allows you just to be yourself, goofy, corny, geeky, abstract,

1248
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 3: no matter how weird you are, as long as you're

1249
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 3: yourself and they accept you for who you are, because

1250
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 3: most people wouldn't because I'm such a strange eyeball. Well,

1251
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 3: I consider myself a strange job ball that I know

1252
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 3: that I'm not gonna vibe with everybody, and that's okay.

1253
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 3: Everybody not gonna get me. Sometimes you just existing is

1254
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 3: enough for people.

1255
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 4: Not to like you. And that was a hard thing

1256
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 4: for me to understand. I would like I've never tract

1257
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 4: with you, never said anything to you, never anything. I

1258
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 4: just don't like you.

1259
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 1: They come at you with their own insecurities too, Like

1260
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: everybody's working through their own shit. So I know I've

1261
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: had that feeling before where I just like assume the

1262
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: worst about somebody right away, and you know, luckily, my

1263
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 1: makeup is typically one I guess lucky unke where I

1264
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: kind of talk myself out of that. I'm like, if

1265
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: I have a bad feeling about somebody, I used to

1266
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: just the other part of my brain would be like, nope,

1267
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: got to balance the scale. Well, maybe they're this way

1268
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: because this happened to them, or maybe they just looked

1269
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: this way.

1270
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 2: From a distance, but really they're not that bad upfront.

1271
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: And then, you know, I hate to say it, but

1272
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: like I'm pretty much always right with my first instinct,

1273
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: but you know, occasionally there was times when I'm like, no, no, no, no, no,

1274
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: I was wrong about this right. So one of the

1275
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: things I think that happens is people do that to

1276
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:04,520
Speaker 1: us too. And I think having a podcast and having

1277
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 1: a podcast be successful and you know, somewhat popular, has

1278
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: really helped me see the bigger picture with us because

1279
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: then I started interacting and seeing people, and some people

1280
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 1: I was like I never interacted with, and I'm like, oh,

1281
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: this person just doesn't like us, or this person doesn't

1282
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: like me, or this person doesn't like Karen, or this

1283
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: person is saying something extremely mean about us. And I

1284
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: realized like, oh, this isn't my business. And that was

1285
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: a big thing for me. Was like I once I

1286
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 1: was able to process, you don't have to like me. No,

1287
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: you don't totally understand that. Pick whatever reason you want.

1288
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: But also, it don't have to be my business. I

1289
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: don't owe you a platform to tell me why you

1290
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: don't like me. I don't owe you interaction, you know.

1291
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: You know a couple of years ago when I was

1292
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: just kind of like trying to force myself to grow

1293
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:58,439
Speaker 1: and be like I'm gonna.

1294
01:00:58,120 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 2: Say yes to things I wouldn't say yes to.

1295
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: And one of those things was also like social media stuff,

1296
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 1: like Okay, this person wants to be my d quote

1297
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: unquote friend on social media.

1298
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, why not.

1299
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 1: I don't know this person, but maybe they're a fan

1300
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:13,320
Speaker 1: of the show or something, right, And you realize at

1301
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: some point, like, oh, some people see us as like celebrities.

1302
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 2: They see us.

1303
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: Different than what than just to people. And so, you know,

1304
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: you have people that you know take shots at you

1305
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,120
Speaker 1: or talk shit about you when they don't like something

1306
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: on the show or something, and I had to process like, Okay,

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01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 1: you know, back in the day, I would have wanted

1308
01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: to like confront them and be like, yo, is everything, Okay,

1309
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: what's going on with this? Why are you you know,

1310
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: basically talking shit about me? But then I realized, like,

1311
01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't owe them a fucking thing. The only thing

1312
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:44,439
Speaker 1: I do in this world is put a podcast out

1313
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: and they get to choose what they do with that

1314
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: and listen. They cannot listen, they can engage respectfully, they

1315
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 1: cannot engage. I don't owe them any of that. And

1316
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: so I was just like I started backing off of

1317
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 1: people like, oh, you got fucked up energy. And then

1318
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that you know, don't even

1319
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: fuck with our show, but they like our community. Agreed, like,

1320
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: look at this beautiful community you built, all these funny

1321
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 1: people who also are empathetic and care about other people,

1322
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: or you know, at least have some level of tolerance

1323
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: about things. You guys have are sex positive, you guys

1324
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: are pro LGBTQ. You guys are you know, politically minded.

1325
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 1: You know, all these things that people seem to like

1326
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: from a distance, and they go ooh a collection of people,

1327
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: you know, and you start seeing people who are attracted

1328
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: to that. You got narcissists that are attracted to that,

1329
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 1: You got trolls who are attracted to that. You got

1330
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: people that basically just attracted to wherever the black people are,

1331
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 1: so it just happens to be this is a place

1332
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 1: where they can go.

1333
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 2: You know. Years ago when we left the Facebook group,

1334
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:47,440
Speaker 2: that was a big.

1335
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: Thing for me was realizing, oh, some people just like

1336
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: to be in Facebook groups, and part of them being

1337
01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 1: in Facebook groups is getting in fights with people and

1338
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: running back and reporting to their friends outside of the groups,

1339
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: Like look at this fight I got into. And I'm like, oh,

1340
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: that's a thing that I didn't even know about or

1341
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: think about until and now I'm like, oh, I don't

1342
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: want to be a part of that. Like I don't

1343
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: want to be involved in your fights and your like

1344
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: that that's your thing, you know. And it's not that

1345
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: I'm saying you gotta stop it, because you know, we

1346
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: didn't say stop doing that. We went oh no, no,

1347
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: you can do that. We just don't need to be

1348
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: a part of it. I don't need to see it

1349
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 1: right and you know, shout out to the algorithm.

1350
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 2: I stopped seeing it. So let me get into this article.

1351
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 1: We talked a lots. That's only the titles. Some people

1352
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: don't like you, and that's okay. How to accept the

1353
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 1: fact that no one's university likable.

1354
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 2: It is on medium forge.

1355
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 1: Dot com, I guess forged dot medium dot com and

1356
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 1: it's written by Sarah try Leaving. Earlier this year, my

1357
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I moved to a waterfront lot in the

1358
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: middle of nowhere, Nova Scotia.

1359
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 3: Ooh.

1360
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 2: At first, it seemed like an ideal snapshot of royal charm.

1361
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: We shared a lane with just one other family, a

1362
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: couple in their year old baby. Shortly after we moved in,

1363
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: they gave us a welcome gift of produce they grown themselves.

1364
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: Over the next several months, though, a series of mishaps

1365
01:03:58,160 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: pushed our relationship with the father of the family and

1366
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: that recently Bunthly Territory workers we hired using their driveway

1367
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 1: tearing up a small patch of grass. Our neighbor tried

1368
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: to get into our house while we were out to

1369
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 1: fix a problem with the shared well, focusing, forcing an

1370
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 1: awkward conversation about boundaries.

1371
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 2: And then there was a wooden fence.

1372
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: He started building one with wide spaced posts that clearly

1373
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: weren't meant to contain this toddler daughter. Perhaps it is

1374
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: to keep cows out. I suggested, scanning the flat horizon

1375
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 1: for troublesome livestock, Sarah, My boyfriend said, generally defenses and

1376
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 1: for the kid or some crows. It means he doesn't

1377
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: like us. It should have been obviously given our recent

1378
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: share history. But still in the moment, the news landed

1379
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 1: like a punish of the gut.

1380
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 2: Didn't like us.

1381
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: I was not a huge fan of my neighbor either,

1382
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: and yet I felt like an immediate old woman urged

1383
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: to fix the situation.

1384
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 2: I wanted him to like me. Here's a problem with liability.

1385
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: If something was supposed to If something was supposed to possess,

1386
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: but not to nakedly strive for, working to become the

1387
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 1: most appealing, the most palatable version of yourself feels like

1388
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:58,919
Speaker 1: a superficial goal, even a little bit of a sad one.

1389
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 2: Instead, was suppose to pursue integrity.

1390
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: We're supposed to adhere to our principles, cultivate our character

1391
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: and not devote too much brain space to.

1392
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 2: Worrying about whether other people enjoy the results.

1393
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 1: That's all great theory, but when someone simply doesn't like you,

1394
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 1: it's hard to accept. It's understandably upsetting when someone you're

1395
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: fond of fails to reciprocate those feelings. After all, any

1396
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: unrequired affection feels like a personal rejection.

1397
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1398
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: Honestly, like with the show Too, we've had people do

1399
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 1: the if we can't be best friends, I will be

1400
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 1: your worst enemy.

1401
01:05:27,320 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 2: Shit too, We're just like, well, I.

1402
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: Don't even dislike you, but you literally are making it

1403
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:37,280
Speaker 1: where I now I have to pick this side of well,

1404
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: now you're doing things to make me dislike you.

1405
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 2: So you get it, y'all.

1406
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: You one, I don't fuck with you if that, if

1407
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 1: that's any if that makes you feel any better.

1408
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 4: But in reality, I don't have a problem with you.

1409
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm gonna move on from it, and I'm

1410
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: gonna trust me, I'm gonna be okay.

1411
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna come back to it.

1412
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: But cool, you got your moment, because sometimes people just

1413
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 1: want a moment like if I can't, it's.

1414
01:05:58,960 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 2: Almost like.

1415
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: They rather have a fight than to have a peaceful,

1416
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: just disconnection.

1417
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because the thing is with the fight, they can

1418
01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 3: justify their actions.

1419
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, that's perfect. Yeah, and oh that's why we

1420
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: fell out this fight.

1421
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 3: And if you don't get the fight, you can't justify

1422
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 3: your action. It's almost like now I can't stunt, now,

1423
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 3: I can't drag. I'm just keeping it real. Now, I

1424
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,720
Speaker 3: can't make a spectacle. Now I cannot be the victim

1425
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 3: because you never gave me the opportunity to. And that

1426
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 3: makes them, That infuriates them because you're like, the fuck

1427
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 3: okay and you've moved on, yep.

1428
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:41,919
Speaker 1: So, but being disliked by someone who you justlike right

1429
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 1: back can still serve its own breath brand of self

1430
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 1: righteous angst with social animals hard while with a desire

1431
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 1: to be like the way the brain process and social

1432
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 1: rejection looks a lot like the way it process is

1433
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:56,920
Speaker 1: physical pain dislike literally hurts. So how do you cope

1434
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: with it when you discover that you're not someone's cup

1435
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 1: of tea despite your best ever to treat them calmly

1436
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 1: and fairly.

1437
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 2: Essentially, I have two options.

1438
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 1: You can work on your likability and try to become

1439
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: someone they do like, or you can try not to

1440
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:08,919
Speaker 1: let it bother you. The latter sounds harder, but really

1441
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 1: it's the more achievab well the two, it's the one

1442
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: that gets you the greatest control. Yeah, that's the other

1443
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 1: thing about that likability shit. A lot of people have

1444
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 1: figured out, especially online, like how to get people to

1445
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: be like, Okay.

1446
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 2: You want me to like you. I don't just always be.

1447
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 1: On your ass because I like the idea of controlling you.

1448
01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 2: I like the idea of the things you say.

1449
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 1: You're gonna always have to be careful around me because

1450
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be your first person over here to say

1451
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: some shit to you.

1452
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 2: And it's like, yo, you're really trying to use my.

1453
01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 1: Goodwill against me, right and I And what you forget

1454
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 1: is I'm the only one allowing that to happen. I

1455
01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 1: can easily one day be like, I don't really give

1456
01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 1: a fuck if you.

1457
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 2: Like me or not. That's okay, So you don't like

1458
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 2: me anymore. Guess what.

1459
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: I keep breathing, You keep breathing, and we keep we

1460
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 1: move to the next day.

1461
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 4: Right.

1462
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 3: And for a lot of people that's hard for them

1463
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 3: to handle because I was and you're taking the control

1464
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 3: out of their hands and you're like, you no longer

1465
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 3: have the power the control here, and for a lot

1466
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 3: of people they look at.

1467
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,760
Speaker 4: Friendships as a form of control. That's not a friendship.

1468
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 1: Right to less and likabilities hold on you. It first

1469
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:16,520
Speaker 1: helps to understand exactly why we find it so powerfully

1470
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: tantalizing in the first place. Part of the problem, says

1471
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 1: psychologists and executive coach Sharon Melnick, is that we factor

1472
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,719
Speaker 1: it into our ever loving self concept how we're liked.

1473
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 2: As a reflection of who we are.

1474
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: There's an emotional factor to it, she says, has something

1475
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: to do with your essence as a person.

1476
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: That's real top because that's.

1477
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: The other thing that probably happened in the last few years,

1478
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 1: especially via the show and our fans and the support

1479
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 1: that we've gotten and the achievements that we've gotten doing

1480
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 1: what we do, working for ourselves. I've also just gotten

1481
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:54,600
Speaker 1: a lot more sure about what kind of person I am,

1482
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 1: and what kind of show we do, and what kind

1483
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 1: of people we are.

1484
01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 2: And so there's a certain level.

1485
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: Of and I hate to sound arrogant like this, but

1486
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 1: if you don't fuck with us, so I'm wrong with you.

1487
01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 2: We literally not here to hurt nobody.

1488
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: So if you don't fuck with us, you probably are

1489
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: not the kind of person I want to be around,

1490
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:12,879
Speaker 1: and probably not the kind of person.

1491
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 2: A lot of people want to be around.

1492
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: Or they just or they scared of you or some

1493
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: shit like you know, like it's never gonna beat us,

1494
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 1: like like there's something that that is off with you,

1495
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: you know, And I hate to be that way because

1496
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 1: anyone could fuck up. Obviously you can. But you know,

1497
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 1: I did inventory on myself. I did inventory ro shaw,

1498
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: I did inventory of.

1499
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 2: The things they do.

1500
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: I'm like DoD we ain't out here trying to hurt nobody,

1501
01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: you know, like people don't like us for shit like

1502
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 1: you know they do too. They be talking about that

1503
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: gay news and shit or you know, uh, these motherfuckers

1504
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: like Obama, you know, like it's stupid.

1505
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 2: Reason like yeah, it's stupid.

1506
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck if that's why it's so

1507
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: you don't like me cool dog, or that I didn't

1508
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: like this joke they said one time. Okay, if you

1509
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 1: think that's my heart, and I mean, like now I'm

1510
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 1: full of shit and I hate everybody cold. Oh that

1511
01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 1: you were waiting on that and you needed that. Congratulations

1512
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: you have it go lead, you know, like it's it's

1513
01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 1: like I had to take inventory of that cause it's like,

1514
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 1: I don't you know. Part of my mentality is I

1515
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,479
Speaker 1: don't take in these compliments a lot of times. And

1516
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 1: I had to be like, no, stop doing that, because

1517
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,760
Speaker 1: you're hurting your own self esteem. Right, You're like, cause

1518
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 1: you're basically saying to yourself you ain't shit. You're blocking

1519
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: all your blessings before you can get them. People literally like,

1520
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 1: y'all show is important. It's helping me with this. You

1521
01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: got a love y'all. Y'all are so funny, you know,

1522
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: like all this stuff right, like they tell us, you know,

1523
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 1: people tell us to our face to the point where

1524
01:10:37,080 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm like almost in tears sometimes, shit, we gotta email

1525
01:10:40,200 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 1: this this weekend.

1526
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 2: That put me in tears. And I wouldn't take that in.

1527
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 1: But if somebody were to say like you ain't funny,

1528
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:50,760
Speaker 1: or I didn't like this guest you had, or why

1529
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:53,160
Speaker 1: did you make this joke instead of that joke, I

1530
01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: used to take that in and then all the people

1531
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: that were like we love you, y'all are great, I'd

1532
01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: be like, nah, that you take that in, it'll go

1533
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: to your head too.

1534
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 2: It's not healthy, you know. Now you're not your compliments,

1535
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 2: You're only your your.

1536
01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 1: Your biggest insults, right, And that was a thing that

1537
01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 1: I had to fit deal with internally. And I think

1538
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 1: once you let that go, then liking or not liking

1539
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 1: you becomes a completely irrelevant thing because there's no value

1540
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 1: in whether they like you or don't like you, because

1541
01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: you like yourself. And if you like yourself, then what

1542
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 1: the fuck does it matter what everybody outside of you

1543
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 1: is trying to do. You know, like, as long as

1544
01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 1: you're not trying to hurt anybody, there's no harm in

1545
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:34,640
Speaker 1: liking yourself. No, the world tells us that we're not

1546
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 1: supposed to like ourselves, Like something's wrong with that? But

1547
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 1: why what's wrong with that? Why should I not like myself?

1548
01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,720
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do my best to be the kind

1549
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:44,719
Speaker 1: of person that I would admire.

1550
01:11:46,920 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 2: And having your.

1551
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 1: Essence as a person calling a question significantly more painful

1552
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: than isolated situation no based critiques. It's much more digestible

1553
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: to think that you've just talked too much in one

1554
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: situation than that you're someone people don't want to be around.

1555
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 1: Mail Nick says it's the difference between that person didn't

1556
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,000
Speaker 1: prepare enough for this meeting and that person isn't smart.

1557
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: Somewhat counterintuitively, likability and status are often conflicting concepts, says

1558
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 1: psychologists Mitch Prinstein, a professor of the University of North

1559
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:16,280
Speaker 1: Carolina Chapel Hill, Go Tar Hills and author of Popular

1560
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,439
Speaker 1: When we think of someone as likable, it's often because

1561
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:23,400
Speaker 1: we like ourselves in their presence. When people find someone

1562
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 1: to be likable, it's because they make them feel validated,

1563
01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,520
Speaker 1: that they had the same ideals and that it's reciprocal,

1564
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: and that they make them feel happy.

1565
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 2: We like people who are interested in us.

1566
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: Unsurprisingly, research shows that we demonstrate increased findness for people

1567
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 1: who ask us questions and engage with our answers. But

1568
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: status is different. It's not about making other people feel good.

1569
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,759
Speaker 1: It's based on how much someone is visible, powerful, influential,

1570
01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:49,600
Speaker 1: and dominant princetein says. For women, especially at work and

1571
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 1: especially in leadership positions, this dichotomy can be particularly fraught.

1572
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: Research has shown time and time again that likability is

1573
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 1: both more highly prized than women and seen as being

1574
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 1: at odds with competence in women, creating a sort of

1575
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: double bind. In which success both depends upon it is

1576
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: hindered by a woman's ability.

1577
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 2: To be liked mm hm.

1578
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 3: And that's why you get some women that are very

1579
01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 3: successful and they have a fucking gene like she's a bitch, and.

1580
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's a bitch, but she get the fucking job done.

1581
01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 3: But she had to become a bitch before you quote

1582
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:22,400
Speaker 3: unquote a bitch because she had to put people in

1583
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 3: their place.

1584
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 4: She had to tell y'all what to do. She wouldn't

1585
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 4: there for no bullshit.

1586
01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 3: She's like, look, just because I'm a woman, that don't

1587
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 3: mean I want y'all fucking around and.

1588
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 4: Not doing what I asked you to do.

1589
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:32,719
Speaker 3: You will respect my authority because a lot of times

1590
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:35,599
Speaker 3: people don't respect the authority of women, even of the people.

1591
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 3: I mean, even other women and particularly men buck up

1592
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:41,640
Speaker 3: at women over them. I've seen it happen over and

1593
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 3: over again. A lot of women have the hardest time

1594
01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 3: with dudes. And I'm not trying to be fun of,

1595
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 3: particularly white dudes. Particularly if you're a black woman over

1596
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 3: a white dude. Oh my god, I've seen them fucking lose.

1597
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 1: That got them mind, And it's a cash twenty two

1598
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 1: because if they don't like you, they don't want to

1599
01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 1: help help you, they don't want to do shit, they don't.

1600
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 2: See you succeed. But if they like you, then they

1601
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 2: do want to see you succeed, they do want to

1602
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 2: help you.

1603
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: But if they like you too much, then it's like, oh,

1604
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:12,640
Speaker 1: she's not to be taken seriously. Correct, Like you just

1605
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: can't win for losing if you're a woman, and it

1606
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 1: comes to that likability shit at work, it's you know,

1607
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 1: people are quick to, you know, to try to have

1608
01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:19,719
Speaker 1: it both.

1609
01:14:19,560 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 3: Ways right, and then that's why you have people who

1610
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 3: kind of like me and my old job, very confident,

1611
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:29,840
Speaker 3: knew I could do it, knew I could go up

1612
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 3: the ladder, was like I don't want the job.

1613
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 2: I don't want the job.

1614
01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: And that's before you get the harassment and shit too.

1615
01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:38,200
Speaker 1: You know, that's another thing we're not to worry about.

1616
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 1: But yes, it's like if I like you too much,

1617
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: I can't take you too serious because now you just

1618
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: either like a sexual conquest or just a ditsy girl

1619
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:48,840
Speaker 1: or something instead of just where. And obviously it doesn't

1620
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,040
Speaker 1: work that men go golfing together and shit and still

1621
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 1: do business.

1622
01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 3: Like I've seen men cut somebody fuck smack the fuck out,

1623
01:14:56,280 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 3: caught them all types of names and still keep they

1624
01:14:58,640 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 3: got damn job.

1625
01:14:59,479 --> 01:14:59,759
Speaker 2: Yep.

1626
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 1: Of course, there are times when being like does pay

1627
01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 1: off in a meaningful, uncomplicated way, with your in laws,

1628
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:07,960
Speaker 1: for example, or an acquaintance you're trying to turn into

1629
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 1: a friend, or a new roommate, and striving to treat

1630
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 1: everyone you encounter with respecting kindness should be the baseline.

1631
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 1: But the point is, no one's gonna be like by

1632
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:18,880
Speaker 1: one hundred percent of people they meet. There are always

1633
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 1: gonna be people who don't get you or simply just

1634
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: like you. You have a finite amount of mental and

1635
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,680
Speaker 1: emotional energy with which to try change in mind, so

1636
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:29,000
Speaker 1: it's worth thinking critically about which minds are worth that effort. Yeah,

1637
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: that was a big thing for me because I used

1638
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 1: to feel like I was always trying to be like,

1639
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 1: oh man, like, you know, it's a bummer that you're

1640
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: that you're going through it right now.

1641
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 2: Why you know?

1642
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 1: My big thing is I watch how other people treat

1643
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 1: other people, and that's pretty much the like if they're like,

1644
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 1: that's the weather channel for folk for people. You see

1645
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, if you look at how people

1646
01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:55,040
Speaker 1: treat you treat you. You never really know because a

1647
01:15:55,040 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: lot of times, at least in the position we're in,

1648
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 1: people be nice to us and don't be nice to

1649
01:15:59,880 --> 01:16:00,960
Speaker 1: the people around us.

1650
01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:02,280
Speaker 2: We see it.

1651
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:04,519
Speaker 4: We oh, we oh, we know we're not an exception

1652
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 4: to your room.

1653
01:16:05,080 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you think we can do something for you,

1654
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 1: but not these other people. So you're gonna treat them

1655
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: like shit. Right, it's okay, And I'm supposed to be

1656
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 1: okay with it because it's not happening to me. But

1657
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 1: Todd Avich, I got ours, and I'll be watching it.

1658
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, you just did my homie bad. It's

1659
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 1: just a matter of time till it's my turn. And

1660
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 1: so I'm you know, So I'll just pay attention to that.

1661
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: I don't go out and try to start conflict or

1662
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 1: any of that shit. I treat you cordial. I won't

1663
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 1: even say nothing to you about it, but I'll just

1664
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: be like, okay, yep, one day it'll be my day

1665
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: on the summer jam screen. And that's something that I

1666
01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:41,560
Speaker 1: think a lot of these people that try to manipulate

1667
01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 1: you with liking slash disliking folks, that's one of the

1668
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:48,200
Speaker 1: things they just never account for because you know, especially narcissism,

1669
01:16:48,800 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 1: their brain literally can't process those emotions that you have

1670
01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 1: is genuine because they don't genuinely have emotions sometimes, So

1671
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: it's just a.

1672
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 2: Matter of time.

1673
01:16:57,320 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: And the case is where you really genuinely believe it,

1674
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:02,320
Speaker 1: being like make your life easier more. President Princeton says,

1675
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:04,559
Speaker 1: ask yourself, if the dislikes thems with something you're doing

1676
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: that might be off put in, such as projecting, how

1677
01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 1: still get violating a social norm? Often the answer is

1678
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 1: surprisingly obvious and easy to fix. It could be that

1679
01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:13,720
Speaker 1: you're standing too close to people or over sharing your

1680
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 1: personal life and meetings, he says. Robert Kyl Deeni or

1681
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 1: Ci Audini, author of the book Influenced the Psychology of

1682
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:25,080
Speaker 1: Persuasion and president of the executive training company Influence at Work,

1683
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 1: says that two other behaviors can make you more like well,

1684
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 1: pointing out commonalities and offering compliments and praise.

1685
01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another one too, where like.

1686
01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 1: You can get into some weird territory of when you

1687
01:17:35,880 --> 01:17:38,240
Speaker 1: start trying to make people like you. You're also kind

1688
01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: of like, you know, you can get it to some

1689
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: faking and shit, like if you can genuinely do it cool,

1690
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 1: because like, sometimes there is a shit where you're like,

1691
01:17:45,640 --> 01:17:48,720
Speaker 1: maybe I'm not pointing out to this person enough that hey,

1692
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:51,080
Speaker 1: we got a lot in common, then that could genuinely

1693
01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:55,880
Speaker 1: just happen, you know, you know, naturally. And then there's

1694
01:17:55,920 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 1: times where people and we've all had this happen with

1695
01:17:58,520 --> 01:18:01,960
Speaker 1: someone putting a hard press on you and you're like, dog,

1696
01:18:02,040 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 1: did you read like a book telling you how to

1697
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:07,600
Speaker 1: be how to make friends? Like this is a US

1698
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 1: step two, step three, oh man, But there's no hard

1699
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,720
Speaker 1: signs to it. Often whether someone likes it dislikes you

1700
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 1: comes down to factors as nebulous as chemistry, as unfixable

1701
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 1: as generational misunderstanding, or as fleeting as the mood they're

1702
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 1: in that day, or it could simply be prejudiced. Excepting

1703
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 1: that not everyone will like you every day can lead

1704
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 1: to u can actually be a kind of a relief,

1705
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 1: and discovering that someone dislikes you, if you let yourself

1706
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:33,000
Speaker 1: sit with that information rather than try to act on

1707
01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,479
Speaker 1: it can be a useful prompt for introspection before you

1708
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:38,559
Speaker 1: launch a charm offensive. Ask yourself, why are you so

1709
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 1: troubled about being disliked that was the key to me,

1710
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:43,600
Speaker 1: because I was like, Man, this shit is bothering, but

1711
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 1: this is inevitable, you know, especially with what we do.

1712
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,800
Speaker 1: It's just too many fucking people know about us for

1713
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: me to be like, I need one hundred percent approval

1714
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 1: Like that ain't happening. It is simply irritating because you

1715
01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 1: know that your statuses are taken ahead. And even if

1716
01:18:57,280 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 1: it's just in the eyes of one person. If that's

1717
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,160
Speaker 1: the case, think about why that feeling is so crushing.

1718
01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 3: M H.

1719
01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 2: Lincoln.

1720
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:06,360
Speaker 1: Happiness and status isn't exactly sustainable, but feelings that insecurity

1721
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:09,320
Speaker 1: can be a drastic therapy and reflection come through. Are

1722
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 1: you projecting your own uneasy insecurity to exaggerate the intensity

1723
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 1: of the dislike perhaps there's something about yourself you want

1724
01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:18,400
Speaker 1: to change and another person's opinion feels like it's shin

1725
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:19,440
Speaker 1: in the spotlight.

1726
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:19,960
Speaker 2: On that particular trait.

1727
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 1: Yes, if that's the case, your efforts might be better

1728
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 1: spent on fixing the calls, not the symptom. Turn your

1729
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:28,200
Speaker 1: attention towards working on yourself rather than pursuing this other

1730
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 1: person's approval. Yeah, and then it goes on for a

1731
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:35,760
Speaker 1: little bit more. But yeah, I read this, I was like, hmm,

1732
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: this is like strumming my pain.

1733
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:38,640
Speaker 2: What the thing is like?

1734
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:41,759
Speaker 3: It was, Yeah, like I said, I've over the years,

1735
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:42,559
Speaker 3: I've grown.

1736
01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:44,160
Speaker 4: Over the years, I have growth.

1737
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 3: I was very naive about people and how their function

1738
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 3: and people manipulating and all types of things.

1739
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:54,640
Speaker 4: I'm not as.

1740
01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 3: Hard as I used to be because I'm the type

1741
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 3: of person you know, when I have wit do some things.

1742
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 3: Oh I went to the other way. I was like, oh,

1743
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,320
Speaker 3: I touched. I trust none of you bitches.

1744
01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:05,160
Speaker 4: Don't say nothing to me.

1745
01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:07,760
Speaker 3: Don't be it like I had got hateful because I

1746
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:10,640
Speaker 3: was like, and that's not healthy either. And there's a

1747
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 3: lot of people who are stuck right there where they've

1748
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:16,120
Speaker 3: been hurt by somebody and they like have shut that door,

1749
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,960
Speaker 3: They've cemented, they've glued it, they built the whole fucking

1750
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:20,720
Speaker 3: house and the bridge on top of it, and like,

1751
01:20:20,800 --> 01:20:23,120
Speaker 3: I will never be hurt again. But being hurt is

1752
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:25,519
Speaker 3: part of life and that's something that you have to

1753
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:27,479
Speaker 3: get over and you have to learn how to balance

1754
01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 3: that out. And that's very hard to do when you're

1755
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 3: somebody kind of like me who can easily be hurt,

1756
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 3: you know. And so I'm very protective on my circle

1757
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 3: of friends. I have a really really really super small

1758
01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 3: circle of friends, like super super super small, like people

1759
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 3: that I'm like, oh, that's my dog, and like I

1760
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 3: could kick it with you, I can call you, we

1761
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 3: can do.

1762
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:54,240
Speaker 4: This because you know I and I realized this too.

1763
01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 3: You have to value your friendship and I have and

1764
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 3: I've said this before and I continue to say this.

1765
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:04,920
Speaker 3: I have very super super super high standards on what

1766
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 3: my expectation of my friends are and I don't lower

1767
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 3: those standards. And my expectations on friendships are too high

1768
01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:14,599
Speaker 3: for most people. And I know this, and I understand

1769
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 3: this because I'm not here for the bullshit and I'm old,

1770
01:21:17,320 --> 01:21:19,799
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no, I'm I'm if you're a childish,

1771
01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:22,559
Speaker 3: I ain't got time for you, you know, just just

1772
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 3: from my personal perspective, I'm just keeping it for me.

1773
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:30,719
Speaker 3: And I've dealt with a lot of things. I've dealt

1774
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,240
Speaker 3: with people, you know, not liking me. I've dealt with

1775
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 3: with a coworker at my old job she had been gone,

1776
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 3: who literally look me in.

1777
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:40,959
Speaker 4: My face and tell me I don't like you.

1778
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:43,719
Speaker 3: You know, so, like I said, because I'm so nice,

1779
01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 3: people just think I'm I'm just a weak person, but

1780
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:50,040
Speaker 3: it does not mean that you are a weak person.

1781
01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:54,280
Speaker 4: And so when you deal with those things and go

1782
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 4: through those things.

1783
01:21:55,600 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 3: It actually makes you a stronger person. And you also

1784
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 3: can't understand the other perspective. But just because I understand

1785
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 3: your perspective, don't mean they got to fuck with you.

1786
01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:09,920
Speaker 1: I think also, just understanding yourself is like to me anyway,

1787
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:13,240
Speaker 1: understanding myself is a path to a lot of this shit,

1788
01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 1: because I just realized I'm focusing outward too much, and

1789
01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:19,160
Speaker 1: I have to focus inwards and be like what about me?

1790
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:21,559
Speaker 1: Like what kind of person am I? What kind of

1791
01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:22,800
Speaker 1: what motivates me?

1792
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:24,679
Speaker 2: You know? Why am I feeling this way?

1793
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 1: You know why am I getting anxiety over social media?

1794
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be that important.

1795
01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 1: You know why am I feeling pressure? You know in

1796
01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:36,759
Speaker 1: areas of my life where there should be no pressure?

1797
01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:40,840
Speaker 1: What is it about certain people that's like weirding me out?

1798
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 2: And stuff?

1799
01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,200
Speaker 1: And I had to learn, like to listen to myself

1800
01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:47,640
Speaker 1: on these things, and even the people that you know,

1801
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 1: were put in our paths to and the things don't

1802
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: go right. Even in those cases, there's still lessons to

1803
01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:56,640
Speaker 1: be learned and a lot of times, those lessons are

1804
01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 1: the ones that make your life better as you go

1805
01:22:59,280 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 1: on because you're like, Okay, this is what I learned

1806
01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 1: from that, and I'm not repeating those cycles or those

1807
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:06,840
Speaker 1: mistakes of those behaviors. And uh, yeah, that was the

1808
01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 1: thing that that that definitely feeled me in. I mean,

1809
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: like my I don't remember thinking one day. I think

1810
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:16,400
Speaker 1: I said it on the should before. But if people

1811
01:23:16,479 --> 01:23:18,920
Speaker 1: don't like Beyonce, yeah, it's gonna be some people that

1812
01:23:18,960 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 1: don't like me. You know, it's always somebody don't like

1813
01:23:22,240 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 1: somebody like It just is what it is.

1814
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:25,599
Speaker 4: So I'm not an exception.

1815
01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:29,719
Speaker 3: And also I've realized too, uh And this is something

1816
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:34,120
Speaker 3: that I had to realize. Sometimes your presence is intimidating

1817
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:37,080
Speaker 3: to people. And Roger kind of hit on this. Sometimes

1818
01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:43,040
Speaker 3: just being yourself you trigger insecurities in people, and they

1819
01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 3: consist certain things about you that they might lack or

1820
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 3: might desire amount want. So they try to beat those

1821
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 3: things out of you and try to attack those things

1822
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:53,800
Speaker 3: out of you.

1823
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:57,760
Speaker 4: Because like for me, I know, particularly in.

1824
01:23:57,720 --> 01:24:02,599
Speaker 3: Working environments, I work hard and you know, depend on

1825
01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:03,200
Speaker 3: the situation.

1826
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:05,679
Speaker 4: I don't deal with the bullshit.

1827
01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:07,920
Speaker 3: Let's get the job done, Let's get the truck in,

1828
01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 3: let's get to the finish line. Like I'm like, okay,

1829
01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:14,800
Speaker 3: let's let's do this. And I think being a hard

1830
01:24:14,880 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 3: worker is very intimidating to people that are lazy and

1831
01:24:18,640 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 3: to people that don't always work hard, because it's like, oh,

1832
01:24:22,120 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 3: you coming here to outshine me, out do me.

1833
01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:24,439
Speaker 2: No.

1834
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 1: No, There's also there's also that whole like you trying

1835
01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:31,040
Speaker 1: to be you know, like brown nosing or something. It's like, no,

1836
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do the best job possible for Like

1837
01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go in and do represent myself authentically,

1838
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:39,600
Speaker 1: and part of that is doing a good job. I

1839
01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: didn't get hired here to sit my ass around, and

1840
01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: if you sitting around, that's on you, dog, Like, don't

1841
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 1: be mad at me.

1842
01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:47,080
Speaker 2: It's it's kind of like that thing.

1843
01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:50,840
Speaker 1: Where and I know some people said like tongue in cheeks,

1844
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:53,120
Speaker 1: some saying pejorita of ly. But you know, you listen

1845
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 1: to podcasts and they'll bring us up every once in

1846
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:57,320
Speaker 1: a while and they'll be like, may be putting out

1847
01:24:57,439 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 1: x amount.

1848
01:24:57,840 --> 01:24:58,400
Speaker 2: Of shows a week.

1849
01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, don't be mad us for fucking doing what

1850
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:04,360
Speaker 1: we can do, Like what kind of shit is that

1851
01:25:04,479 --> 01:25:05,559
Speaker 1: y'all working too hard?

1852
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:05,960
Speaker 2: Fuck you?

1853
01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:09,599
Speaker 1: Like we we are doing what we're what we do.

1854
01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 1: You don't gotta listen. You don't gotta like it. You

1855
01:25:12,320 --> 01:25:15,160
Speaker 1: don't gotta. But we're not saying we're not getting on

1856
01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:16,960
Speaker 1: here every day calling people lazy.

1857
01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:18,280
Speaker 2: Why you ain't.

1858
01:25:18,080 --> 01:25:21,120
Speaker 1: Got enough episodes? What happened to your show? We don't

1859
01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 1: do any of that shit. We don't never come on

1860
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 1: here and be shitting on nobody else, work ethic or

1861
01:25:25,160 --> 01:25:27,559
Speaker 1: none of that. We just work hard, keep our nose

1862
01:25:27,640 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 1: to the grind and every you know. But it's that

1863
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:31,960
Speaker 1: kind of thing, like you said, it's that's not us.

1864
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 1: So somebody got a problem with that. It's okay, that's

1865
01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:37,800
Speaker 1: on you from Like, I'm gonna keep doing my best.

1866
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 1: You know, some people love it and some people don't.

1867
01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: Damn no, I know the only thing I promise is

1868
01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:45,400
Speaker 1: to keep working hard to try to put out the

1869
01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:49,800
Speaker 1: best quality we can. All right, let's get into the

1870
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 1: last segment or second. The last segment's just some guess

1871
01:25:53,040 --> 01:26:01,240
Speaker 1: or race. I don't know why Spotify you let me down,

1872
01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:06,840
Speaker 1: Like the volume is up, you let me down. Oh

1873
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:10,960
Speaker 1: it just says can't play current song? Okay, so that's.

1874
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:11,240
Speaker 2: A new thing.

1875
01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:12,879
Speaker 4: I mean we're doing this a cappella.

1876
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:14,960
Speaker 2: I mean, it's my internet still connected.

1877
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:17,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I see you, I see you moving on the screen.

1878
01:26:18,520 --> 01:26:20,880
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, it just can't play current song.

1879
01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:25,080
Speaker 4: Why we start thinking to this so I can play

1880
01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:25,719
Speaker 4: other songs?

1881
01:26:25,800 --> 01:26:30,360
Speaker 2: It just can't play that song? Wow? What the fuck

1882
01:26:30,400 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 2: did that song? Now that it's time for some guests

1883
01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:39,800
Speaker 2: the race. That's right, this guest the race time. Now

1884
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:42,599
Speaker 2: that it is time for some guests the race.

1885
01:26:43,320 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 1: La'st right, this guest the race time. But that's right,

1886
01:26:48,040 --> 01:26:50,800
Speaker 1: it's time for guests. The race the number one game.

1887
01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:52,800
Speaker 1: You'll go across all the podcasts land where we read

1888
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,600
Speaker 1: to play news arts from all over the globe. And

1889
01:26:54,680 --> 01:26:57,559
Speaker 1: we asked our contestants today Karen and the chat room

1890
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:04,439
Speaker 1: to guess the s And of course everybody playing is a racist,

1891
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,040
Speaker 1: all right, see.

1892
01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:08,719
Speaker 4: You here fucking giving him another reason not to like us.

1893
01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:13,679
Speaker 2: I know you know this already our second podcast this week.

1894
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:17,519
Speaker 2: It's gonna be problems. Uh all right.

1895
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:22,080
Speaker 1: A man accused of shoving propane tanks brisket in pants

1896
01:27:22,160 --> 01:27:23,960
Speaker 1: and assaulting officers at Walmart.

1897
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:26,720
Speaker 4: Propane tank brisket brisk.

1898
01:27:26,520 --> 01:27:31,759
Speaker 1: What a man's accused of shoving propane tanks, briskets, brisket

1899
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 1: in pants, and then assaulting officers at Walmart.

1900
01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 2: Okay, what the hell?

1901
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:39,800
Speaker 4: Okay, so brisket is a piece of the propane tank.

1902
01:27:40,520 --> 01:27:42,840
Speaker 2: No, brisket. You've eating brisket? Can?

1903
01:27:43,520 --> 01:27:48,200
Speaker 3: Yes, so he stuffed the propane tank. Okay, Yes, I've

1904
01:27:48,240 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 3: eaten brisket.

1905
01:27:49,120 --> 01:27:51,000
Speaker 1: There's a whole article I'm about to read that'skind of

1906
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:53,200
Speaker 1: explain everything. But we could just do this game for

1907
01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:57,320
Speaker 1: a while. No, No, you gotta player. Now, let's do

1908
01:27:57,360 --> 01:28:00,800
Speaker 1: it your way. Let's just keep ask you questions and

1909
01:28:00,840 --> 01:28:03,240
Speaker 1: then we'll read the court. We'll read what happened in

1910
01:28:03,280 --> 01:28:03,679
Speaker 1: a minute.

1911
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:06,720
Speaker 3: Okay, No, because what you about to read probably way

1912
01:28:06,800 --> 01:28:07,800
Speaker 3: bet way better.

1913
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:09,000
Speaker 4: Well my mind, we ain't go ahead.

1914
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:11,760
Speaker 2: No, what'd you think it was a brisket as a

1915
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:12,720
Speaker 2: piece of the propane?

1916
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:17,640
Speaker 4: Yes, or either it's a brisk brisket shaped like a

1917
01:28:17,680 --> 01:28:20,559
Speaker 4: propane the propane tank. Brisket. That makes no sense?

1918
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:22,719
Speaker 2: Okay okay.

1919
01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:28,679
Speaker 1: Man accused of shoving propane tanks, comma brisket and pants

1920
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:34,320
Speaker 1: semi colon, assaulting officers at Walmart. A man is accused

1921
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 1: of shoving stolen propane tanks and sliced brisket in his

1922
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:41,040
Speaker 1: pants before assaulting officers at a Walmart on Dickerson Pike.

1923
01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:44,000
Speaker 4: How big was his pants?

1924
01:28:44,240 --> 01:28:44,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1925
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:46,280
Speaker 1: I just want to know if Bobby Hill was with

1926
01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:51,959
Speaker 1: him at the time. I hope he's not accessory.

1927
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,840
Speaker 2: Move out of the heard me that Pane.

1928
01:28:53,200 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 4: Had them had them clown pants.

1929
01:28:55,560 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 2: Uh.

1930
01:28:57,280 --> 01:29:00,320
Speaker 1: John Allen Honeker was charge of the salt that's the

1931
01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:05,800
Speaker 1: merchandise under one thousand dollars in public intoxication. Officers were

1932
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:08,799
Speaker 1: here where Walmarts for lost Prevention Center on a separate

1933
01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:12,719
Speaker 1: call because it's always going down to the Walmart for real.

1934
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:16,800
Speaker 1: When they spotted, well, since we already heal, yeah, they

1935
01:29:16,920 --> 01:29:18,680
Speaker 1: was just having to be looking at the video when

1936
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:22,960
Speaker 1: they spotted Honeker on on surveillance, got.

1937
01:29:22,880 --> 01:29:25,200
Speaker 4: Nika put another crime and was like the fucks happened

1938
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:25,599
Speaker 4: on screen?

1939
01:29:25,680 --> 01:29:28,679
Speaker 1: Up a three This motherfucker putting propane bottles in his pants.

1940
01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:31,479
Speaker 1: They saw him putting two propaine bottles in a slice

1941
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 1: brisket into his pants.

1942
01:29:32,760 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 2: I guess it's gonna barbecue.

1943
01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:36,600
Speaker 4: He must have been the smaller tank, you know what

1944
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:38,439
Speaker 4: I'm say. Ain't no way you can fit a big tank.

1945
01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:40,040
Speaker 4: That's what that's what was confusing to me.

1946
01:29:40,120 --> 01:29:42,240
Speaker 2: My bad, Well, they could have had address.

1947
01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:46,120
Speaker 1: The items was valued at approximately thirty five dollars in total.

1948
01:29:46,160 --> 01:29:48,439
Speaker 1: Honoker gave up the items and sat and lost prevention

1949
01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:52,320
Speaker 1: office while the chain. Honiker kept spitting inside off the

1950
01:29:52,360 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 1: police vehicle and attempted to kick the windows out.

1951
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:58,040
Speaker 3: Oh, he didn't need to get the good Briskett found dollars.

1952
01:29:58,400 --> 01:29:59,799
Speaker 2: I know that's what the two propaine.

1953
01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:03,120
Speaker 1: He also tried to kick at the officer's head and

1954
01:30:03,280 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 1: midsection when the hobble restraint was being applied to prevent

1955
01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:10,000
Speaker 1: him from continuing to kick the vehicle and bash his

1956
01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:14,040
Speaker 1: head on the plastic partition. Police noticed that Honeker had

1957
01:30:14,040 --> 01:30:16,320
Speaker 1: a strong order of alcohol coming from his breath and

1958
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:20,480
Speaker 1: body prior to his admission to drinking. He admitted drinking telepolice,

1959
01:30:20,760 --> 01:30:24,559
Speaker 1: leave my drink, Leave my drunk fucking ass alone. While

1960
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:28,479
Speaker 1: being detained. Karen, guess the race of mister Honeker, White

1961
01:30:28,760 --> 01:30:31,400
Speaker 1: John Allen Honeker. Let's check the chat room see what they.

1962
01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:32,760
Speaker 4: Believe his names sound like.

1963
01:30:33,280 --> 01:30:42,960
Speaker 1: White Barbecue, Bobby Barbecue, Barbie, white propane tanks, no self

1964
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:47,360
Speaker 1: respecting negro using propane for barbecue, white tripled named White

1965
01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:51,519
Speaker 1: White Walmart, got the meats in the gas brisket, John White,

1966
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:56,320
Speaker 1: Caucasian propane and propane accessories living white.

1967
01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 2: Man, white white yep.

1968
01:30:58,920 --> 01:30:59,000
Speaker 6: Uh.

1969
01:30:59,120 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 2: The correct answer is everyone got it. He was white.

1970
01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:14,479
Speaker 1: He was white as those propane tanks probably were. I'll

1971
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:16,599
Speaker 1: try to get his picture on the screen for y'all.

1972
01:31:16,880 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's a.

1973
01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 2: Hell of a h hell of a crime. Oh yeah,

1974
01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:30,639
Speaker 2: he gave that. He gave up all the information too.

1975
01:31:30,680 --> 01:31:34,439
Speaker 1: I guess the police didn't need to grill him that long.

1976
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:48,719
Speaker 1: Oh all right, let's get to the next one.

1977
01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:54,840
Speaker 2: A man accused of fatally shooting.

1978
01:31:54,439 --> 01:31:58,240
Speaker 1: His boss has been taken into custody. And it wasn't

1979
01:31:58,280 --> 01:32:03,120
Speaker 1: Antonio Brown. I'm shocked that you guys are obviously, I mean,

1980
01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:07,879
Speaker 1: if somebody was gonna shoot somebody, Uh yeah, So Deputy's

1981
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:14,680
Speaker 1: arrested Jede Travius Williams twenty two, in connection with the

1982
01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 1: death of his boss, fifty six year old Leonard John Ruffer,

1983
01:32:17,600 --> 01:32:20,519
Speaker 1: after being called to Ruffer's home early Friday evening and

1984
01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:24,680
Speaker 1: finding him shot to death. Williams allegedly shot Ruffer, a

1985
01:32:24,720 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 1: neighbor who runs a floor installation company, after getting in

1986
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:33,160
Speaker 1: an argument that culminated in the in rougher firing Williams.

1987
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 1: While family member attempted to bring Williams into shrif's officer,

1988
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:39,479
Speaker 1: questioning deputy said Williams pulled out a pistol, prompting the

1989
01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:42,040
Speaker 1: family member to stop at the gas station to call authorities.

1990
01:32:42,320 --> 01:32:44,919
Speaker 1: Deputies engaged in the standoff of Williams for his surrender

1991
01:32:44,960 --> 01:32:46,880
Speaker 1: and was taken into custody.

1992
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:49,479
Speaker 3: Shout out to the family member, that's me, Nah, nigga,

1993
01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:51,320
Speaker 3: I'm calling the cops from your black ass.

1994
01:32:51,600 --> 01:32:54,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, black, Karen's going with black.

1995
01:32:54,560 --> 01:32:56,639
Speaker 1: All right, Let's check the chat room see what they

1996
01:32:56,680 --> 01:33:02,160
Speaker 1: believe the race of je Travius Williams is. All right,

1997
01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:07,920
Speaker 1: do we have to guess yes, Venmo sax congregation number

1998
01:33:09,040 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 1: in office space was black black black black black and

1999
01:33:13,439 --> 01:33:16,519
Speaker 1: will stop a mudhole in your ass black. His dad

2000
01:33:16,680 --> 01:33:19,160
Speaker 1: jahim and uncle Trey are going to be pissed to

2001
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 1: pay his bond. Black like when the TT shot Luther

2002
01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:27,000
Speaker 1: and set it off black arrest, says white, but I'm

2003
01:33:27,080 --> 01:33:31,960
Speaker 1: going to go against the green white blackety job.

2004
01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:33,240
Speaker 2: That's what's that now.

2005
01:33:33,360 --> 01:33:36,599
Speaker 1: Never had a chance blackety black black black, I mean

2006
01:33:36,840 --> 01:33:42,080
Speaker 1: dang black blackety black raised by his grandma. Black Damn

2007
01:33:42,600 --> 01:33:45,519
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. Correct, that's it is black though. You guys

2008
01:33:45,600 --> 01:33:59,080
Speaker 1: all got it right. Oh wait, one of you did

2009
01:33:59,120 --> 01:33:59,920
Speaker 1: miss it. One of y'all just.

2010
01:34:00,040 --> 01:34:00,559
Speaker 2: Say why.

2011
01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, he need a haircut and shout out

2012
01:34:13,320 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 1: to that rose tattoo on his neck. Oh no, yeah,

2013
01:34:16,640 --> 01:34:18,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's a workplace.

2014
01:34:18,600 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 2: That's fute.

2015
01:34:19,080 --> 01:34:20,799
Speaker 4: Man. Isn't that serious?

2016
01:34:21,280 --> 01:34:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'll get so get serious when you're talking

2017
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:27,280
Speaker 1: about that flooring.

2018
01:34:27,560 --> 01:34:30,480
Speaker 2: Okay, it's not a game out here for these motherfuckers.

2019
01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:32,519
Speaker 4: Mo li sa this grow up. My name was Rose,

2020
01:34:33,080 --> 01:34:33,519
Speaker 4: the Rose.

2021
01:34:34,360 --> 01:34:36,960
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the bonus round.

2022
01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:50,400
Speaker 1: Double the pon saying the race, double the point, saying

2023
01:34:50,479 --> 01:34:54,000
Speaker 1: the race. That's right, double the points, double the race,

2024
01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:56,479
Speaker 1: and the bonusround of guess the race carrying is two

2025
01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:59,360
Speaker 1: for two so far. Let's see if she can finish strongly.

2026
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:05,960
Speaker 1: All right, smart money's on. Note I'm older. Maryland woman

2027
01:35:06,080 --> 01:35:08,280
Speaker 1: is accused of beating her eighty two year old neighbor

2028
01:35:08,320 --> 01:35:08,919
Speaker 1: to death.

2029
01:35:08,720 --> 01:35:15,479
Speaker 2: With a brick. Well god damn yeah. Uh uh.

2030
01:35:15,640 --> 01:35:19,559
Speaker 1: Seventy three year old woman from Bladensburg, Maryland, is facing

2031
01:35:19,680 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 1: murder charges at the police say she beat eighty two.

2032
01:35:22,960 --> 01:35:25,200
Speaker 2: Year old neighbor to death with a brick during the dispute.

2033
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:27,120
Speaker 4: I notice has gotta be an elderly crime.

2034
01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:29,320
Speaker 2: It is seventy three versus eighty two.

2035
01:35:29,800 --> 01:35:30,880
Speaker 4: Oh, so they both old.

2036
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:32,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2037
01:35:32,120 --> 01:35:35,479
Speaker 1: The question I have though, is, well, you get that

2038
01:35:35,560 --> 01:35:37,640
Speaker 1: close to death and you still got the energy to

2039
01:35:37,680 --> 01:35:38,719
Speaker 1: have to kill the motherfucker.

2040
01:35:38,760 --> 01:35:40,200
Speaker 2: You couldn't just wait for the eighty two year old

2041
01:35:40,240 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 2: to die? What was that important? You know?

2042
01:35:44,080 --> 01:35:46,639
Speaker 1: It's like when somebody gets divorced and they both like eighty,

2043
01:35:46,680 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 1: It's like, what was the fucking point of that?

2044
01:35:49,120 --> 01:35:50,200
Speaker 2: Ya almost made.

2045
01:35:49,960 --> 01:35:52,360
Speaker 4: It, y'all almost had it. It won't even matter what it did.

2046
01:35:52,439 --> 01:35:56,360
Speaker 1: Did like, you really couldn't stand that motherfucker, Then, police said.

2047
01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:59,839
Speaker 1: Bladensburg officers found a victim September eighth behind an apartment building.

2048
01:36:00,200 --> 01:36:04,760
Speaker 1: The suspect, Chun Young Oh, seventy three, faces first and

2049
01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:08,439
Speaker 1: second degree murder charges. According to the Prince George's Police Department,

2050
01:36:08,479 --> 01:36:10,840
Speaker 1: the victim had upper body trauma. She was pronounced dead

2051
01:36:10,840 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 1: at the scene. Preliminary and then also, I guess with

2052
01:36:13,439 --> 01:36:15,320
Speaker 1: a brick, it probably doesn't take that much to kill

2053
01:36:15,320 --> 01:36:17,240
Speaker 1: an eighty two something year old person with a brick.

2054
01:36:18,439 --> 01:36:20,400
Speaker 1: You know, you probably just gotta barely drop it.

2055
01:36:20,400 --> 01:36:23,280
Speaker 2: On them and they be like, I'm dead. That was it? Yeah?

2056
01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:25,519
Speaker 4: Did you get old you you don't have saint strength.

2057
01:36:25,640 --> 01:36:26,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not coming back from this.

2058
01:36:27,240 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 1: Preliminary investigation reveals Oh and the victim had been in

2059
01:36:29,880 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 1: a dispute prior to the murder. Oh then instruct the

2060
01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:36,679
Speaker 1: victim multiple times with a brick. Shout out to Jeezi,

2061
01:36:37,360 --> 01:36:40,679
Speaker 1: police said, oh, call now one one to report the murder.

2062
01:36:40,920 --> 01:36:42,360
Speaker 1: She's being held without bond.

2063
01:36:42,439 --> 01:36:42,639
Speaker 2: Oh.

2064
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:44,720
Speaker 1: So she murdered the person with a brick and then

2065
01:36:44,760 --> 01:36:48,040
Speaker 1: called the police on herself, like, hey, uh, you're gonna

2066
01:36:48,080 --> 01:36:50,679
Speaker 1: find a person out back that's all brick to the head.

2067
01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:53,400
Speaker 2: It's me. Let's just solve the mystery tonight.

2068
01:36:54,160 --> 01:36:56,720
Speaker 1: I would like to be I like to be in

2069
01:36:56,800 --> 01:37:00,599
Speaker 1: jail before Jeopardy comes on. Come on, Karen, I guess

2070
01:37:00,640 --> 01:37:02,799
Speaker 1: the race Asian.

2071
01:37:03,400 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 2: Kara's gone with Asian. Let's check the chat room.

2072
01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 1: Uh, smack it, flip it, rub it down. Oh no, Asian,

2073
01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 1: crazy brick Asian. Damn she was a brick house egg

2074
01:37:13,479 --> 01:37:16,519
Speaker 1: dropped that brick soup Asian Asian Asian?

2075
01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:21,320
Speaker 2: When tai chie doesn't work, get a brick. Asian. You

2076
01:37:21,400 --> 01:37:22,679
Speaker 2: shot me in my pinky toe.

2077
01:37:22,760 --> 01:37:25,760
Speaker 1: Now I got to cut you white, says Marlene. So

2078
01:37:25,800 --> 01:37:30,479
Speaker 1: everyone went Asian except for Marlene, which means everyone got

2079
01:37:30,640 --> 01:37:46,120
Speaker 1: it correct except for Marlene. I guess they get down

2080
01:37:46,120 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 1: a little different than Chicago.

2081
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:57,599
Speaker 4: Marlene facehood like, I do that shit again, dag.

2082
01:37:57,760 --> 01:38:04,160
Speaker 7: She's like, I can't believe my motherfucking uh, I can't

2083
01:38:04,200 --> 01:38:07,920
Speaker 7: believe I'll stop like playing my game of uh what's

2084
01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:09,000
Speaker 7: that game that was playing?

2085
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,640
Speaker 1: That crazy rich agent. That's how she looked like, I

2086
01:38:11,680 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 1: can't believe I had to stop this game for you

2087
01:38:14,920 --> 01:38:18,720
Speaker 1: motherfuckers to like come arrest me. All right, she know

2088
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 1: what she did. That's what she knows what she did.

2089
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 1: Face like, why would you kill an eight c O

2090
01:38:23,560 --> 01:38:25,559
Speaker 1: one with a brick? That bitch knows what she did

2091
01:38:26,600 --> 01:38:31,960
Speaker 1: and I never forgot. Okay, all right, let's get into

2092
01:38:32,400 --> 01:38:33,720
Speaker 1: sore ratchetness.

2093
01:38:34,800 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 2: My John. That's the game, my John.

2094
01:38:36,479 --> 01:38:38,479
Speaker 4: La Like, look, I'd have been a gangster all my

2095
01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:40,519
Speaker 4: whole life. I thought I retired from this shit.

2096
01:38:40,760 --> 01:38:42,719
Speaker 2: That's the Asian version of all my life.

2097
01:38:42,800 --> 01:38:47,920
Speaker 4: I had to fight all my life. You can get

2098
01:38:47,920 --> 01:38:48,880
Speaker 4: some of this anger.

2099
01:38:55,600 --> 01:38:57,280
Speaker 2: He dead. Amen?

2100
01:38:57,880 --> 01:39:02,640
Speaker 1: H Hey, lima man is on probation after harming his

2101
01:39:02,800 --> 01:39:04,880
Speaker 1: mother with a samurai.

2102
01:39:04,360 --> 01:39:07,040
Speaker 2: Sword his own mother.

2103
01:39:08,479 --> 01:39:10,880
Speaker 1: Swords have no kouth and people that own them have

2104
01:39:11,000 --> 01:39:15,000
Speaker 1: even less. Okay, you're stabbing your mama with a sword.

2105
01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:17,679
Speaker 2: Fail, how's that? Okay?

2106
01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:22,240
Speaker 4: I don't know. Yeah, I be like, stay in jail.

2107
01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:26,599
Speaker 1: Twenty four year old Garrison Merchant has been sentenced to three.

2108
01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:31,599
Speaker 2: Years of probation after pleading guilty to harming his mother

2109
01:39:31,640 --> 01:39:32,960
Speaker 2: with a sword. That's it.

2110
01:39:35,360 --> 01:39:37,000
Speaker 4: No, you stabbed me, that's it.

2111
01:39:38,320 --> 01:39:41,439
Speaker 1: He got three years probation and for the January twenty

2112
01:39:41,479 --> 01:39:44,439
Speaker 1: second stabbing of his mother with what police called a

2113
01:39:44,520 --> 01:39:47,679
Speaker 1: samurai style sword. Merchant was originally indicted on one count

2114
01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:50,479
Speaker 1: of felonious assault, a second degree felony, but that was

2115
01:39:50,560 --> 01:39:52,920
Speaker 1: dropped by prosecutors when Merchant pleaded guilty to a bill

2116
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:57,680
Speaker 1: of information count of hilannitious assault. Merchant attorneys cited his

2117
01:39:57,760 --> 01:40:03,360
Speaker 1: mother's instigated the situation, but Judge Terry color User argued

2118
01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:06,040
Speaker 1: that a verbal confrontation did not warrant a physical response,

2119
01:40:06,360 --> 01:40:09,320
Speaker 1: and then turn around said three years probation, no jail,

2120
01:40:10,120 --> 01:40:12,799
Speaker 1: going to the means of picking up a sharp instrument

2121
01:40:12,880 --> 01:40:15,160
Speaker 1: like that and thankfully not impelling her, but certainly at

2122
01:40:15,200 --> 01:40:17,519
Speaker 1: least causing her to bleed when it comes to reality

2123
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,839
Speaker 1: the situation. I don't think it was strong enough provocation

2124
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:22,040
Speaker 1: to reduce that in light of the plea. However, I

2125
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:26,040
Speaker 1: understand that Element Merchant will be spending fourteen days in

2126
01:40:26,160 --> 01:40:29,720
Speaker 1: jail to give to give its probation officer time to

2127
01:40:29,720 --> 01:40:31,599
Speaker 1: figure out that future living arrangements.

2128
01:40:32,000 --> 01:40:34,240
Speaker 4: Wow, that right, you don't won't be living with Jo mama.

2129
01:40:34,240 --> 01:40:35,400
Speaker 4: If you will live with Jo Mama.

2130
01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:38,880
Speaker 2: And yes, he is all right, y'all.

2131
01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:41,200
Speaker 1: We'll talk to y'all tomorrow.

2132
01:40:41,680 --> 01:40:46,799
Speaker 2: Until next time, I love you. Wh