1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: Hey guys, what's up. 4 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 3: It's almost famous. It's Jess Ashley right now because Ben 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 3: is stuck in traffic. So if you see him, just 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 3: like pop into this interview, know that he's late to 7 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 3: arrive but always appreciated when he's here. The other person 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: that I have in the room with me digitally is 9 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 3: Rachel Rekya. 10 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 4: Hello, Rachel. 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 5: Hi, ash It's fine. I like it better home me 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 5: just do us too anyway, Love you, Ben? 13 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 3: Oh my god, why do you say that? 14 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 5: The last time meet you and Gabby did that girl 15 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 5: chat one was probably one of my favorite podcasts I've 16 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 5: ever recorded. 17 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 3: We did, we had some good tea in that, but 18 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 3: you know what we didn't have And not to like 19 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,319 Speaker 3: make this interview not about you right off the bat, 20 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 3: because I want it to be about you because you're 21 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 3: about to be a star on Bachelor of Paradise. But 22 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: at that point Gabby was dating her girlfriend Robbie, and 23 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 3: nobody knew in that room I'm assuming except for. 24 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 4: You, Yes, yes, Gabby. 25 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 5: It was kind of like very under wraps for a 26 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 5: long time, which I love that they did. They kept 27 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 5: it kind of just in between them too. But yes, 28 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 5: very exciting just met Robbie. Actually she is so incredible, 29 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 5: so very happy for them both. 30 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: Okay, nice, So how did Gabby come to you saying 31 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 3: that you had a girlfriend after you guys both had 32 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 3: a big pool of men to date together. 33 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 5: Ye As, So she had just gotten off of Dancing 34 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 5: with the Stars tour, which was just a whirlwind, and 35 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 5: we were out to dinner, we were catching up, and 36 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 5: she just kind of mentioned that she had been like 37 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,639 Speaker 5: thinking about it, that she had. 38 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 4: Gone on a couple of dates. 39 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 5: And I think at this point her date was set 40 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 5: up with Robbie, but I don't think she had gone on. 41 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 4: So we were all just super excited, so happy for her. 42 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 5: I think discovering that part of yourself is so huge, 43 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 5: so just like being able to be a part of it. 44 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 4: I just am so happy for her. 45 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: So there's some people out there saying that like Colton dated, 46 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: you know, he had a whole season of girls to date, 47 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: and then like the girls could have felt possibly, you know, 48 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 3: let on when they find out that he's actually interested 49 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: in men years later. So within a year, the guys 50 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 3: of your season find out that one of the girls 51 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 3: that one of the girls that they were dating ends 52 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 3: up to be interested in women. Do you think there's 53 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 3: a double standard on how the reaction went down between 54 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 3: Colton and Gabby. 55 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 5: I think it's a little different. Well, actually, I don't know. 56 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 5: I would assume Colton is only interested in men because 57 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 5: you didn't like a where is dated men, she was 58 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 5: engaged to a man. I think she will always have 59 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 5: a part of her that still is interested in men. 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 5: But I think right decided to explore something she maybe 61 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 5: has in the past. 62 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 4: And I really feel like it's been. 63 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 5: All positive across the board from the guys I have 64 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 5: heard speak about it. So I don't know, like, what 65 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 5: do you think about it? 66 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 3: No, I think that I think that it's really nice 67 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,839 Speaker 3: that everybody is just saying, you know, she they're they're 68 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: happy that she's just doing her thing. Yeah, I'm happy 69 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 3: when you ever she's with whoever, you know, whatever their sex. 70 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 5: Right, because I've seen comments too and they're like, oh, well, 71 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 5: the whole season was a waste, Like it was a 72 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 5: waste no matter what, just because we both didn't end 73 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 5: up engaged. 74 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 4: So I guess it really doesn't matter who she dates. 75 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 3: After speaking of your season being a quote waste, which 76 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: you guys got plenty from it, even if you didn't 77 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 3: get fiances. 78 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 2: That's stuck, Tino has. 79 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 3: Said recently, and he's actually been quite quiet, so I'm 80 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: surprised to hear this headline from him. Maybe we're misinterpreting it, 81 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 3: but he said that he is planning on watching your 82 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: season A Bachelor in Paradise. How does that make you feel? 83 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 4: Well, that wasn't the full quote, Okay, what is it? 84 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 5: No, he said he said he will be watching, but 85 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 5: he will not be watching me. 86 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: Woo. 87 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: So he's just gonna press fast forward through you. 88 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe it's just to close his eyes 89 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 5: every time I come on screen. I was very shocked 90 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 5: to see that. Honestly, it feels like so much time 91 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 5: has passed. I mean, I talked to you the last time. 92 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 5: We know he's moved on, he's dating, so happy for him, 93 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 5: like wanting him to be happy, so kind of hearing 94 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 5: the negative remarks, it was very shocking. 95 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 4: So yeah, a little disappointed. Honestly, that is super. 96 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 3: Weird, Like why would he even be invested enough to 97 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 3: watch the show if he's going to be fast forwarding 98 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 3: through you? Like, why does he care so much to 99 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: watch the show to like have to go through the 100 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 3: you know, difficulty of fast forwarding through you on a 101 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 3: show that like you're gonna be very intricately a part of. 102 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 5: He said he wanted to watch Tyler and Avon, who 103 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 5: you know may or not be on the be We'll see. 104 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 3: I think we don't see them in previews. 105 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 5: I mean there is one fully about Tyler's apps, Okay, 106 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 5: but never you never know who's gonna show up. 107 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: We think we know that Brayden shows up, and we 108 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 3: know that they placed you guys next to each other 109 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 3: at one of the recent tell alls. 110 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 4: Why with Braiden? Yeah, who knows. Everyone's gonna have to 111 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 4: tune in and find out. 112 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: We recently also heard from Wells regarding Bachelor and Paradise 113 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 3: cast that this cast has more former leads than anyone 114 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 3: else any other season, and I was like, hmm, but 115 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:51,239 Speaker 3: all I can think of cast wise is that Rachel 116 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 3: is a former lead. And then he told us we'll see. 117 00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 3: So so I'm looking at your and it's kind of telling. 118 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 3: Is the entire Bachelor of Paradise cast released yet? Or 119 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 3: are we going to have somebody who's not on the 120 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 3: list or not showing up at all in the teasers 121 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: we've seen thus far. 122 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 5: I think that this season is definitely stacked with bachelorettes. 123 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 5: I think the more bachettes the better, honestly. But who 124 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 5: is going to stay to date? Who's just coming down, 125 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 5: you know, to deliver a date card. That's going to 126 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 5: be something that everyone's going to have to tune in 127 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 5: and find out. 128 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 4: I for sure I am there to date. 129 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 5: But everyone else will have to wait and see what 130 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 5: they come down to the beach to do. 131 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 3: What encouraged you to go on this on Bachelor in 132 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 3: Paradise because before Becca Kuferin kind of well, she got 133 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 3: great success from going on Bachelor in Paradise and she 134 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 3: was a former lead, very popular one. She sort of 135 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 3: I think paved the way for it to be cool 136 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 3: and acceptable for a former lead who didn't have success 137 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 3: in the past to go on another bachelor show. So 138 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 3: was there any convincing that needed to happen with you 139 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 3: or were you pretty much like, yeah, I love this experience, 140 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 3: We're just gonna do it again. 141 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. So I this all started out as something where 142 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 5: they were kind of like, would you be interested? I 143 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 5: was like yeah, like joking, never thinking it was gonna happen, 144 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 5: and we start getting closer and closer to it, and 145 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 5: I start thinking about it as more of a possibility. 146 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 4: But it's actually funny because you. 147 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 5: And Ben were the two people who found out first, 148 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 5: because at the. 149 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 4: Time I was still keeping yeah, and the last time 150 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 4: we were together, you guys were like, are you gonna 151 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 4: do it? 152 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 5: And Ben actually had an hour drive back with him 153 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 5: and he really convinced me. 154 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 4: I was so on the fence. 155 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 5: And then Becca was the one I ultimately talked to 156 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 5: that really convinced me to go. And there's just so 157 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 5: much like success obviously you Jared Dawson, like, how can 158 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 5: you not take that opportunity if it's in front of you, 159 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 5: especially because mine it wasn't even like I got to 160 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 5: be successful for a little bit, like it failed before 161 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 5: the show even ended. So it was just I figured, 162 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 5: if if this is gonna work for me, it's gonna 163 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 5: be paradise. 164 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 4: And you guys all convincing and here we are. 165 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 3: Well, I'm so happy about that because I'm just such 166 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 3: a fan of the shows and I'm also just such 167 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 3: a fan of the experience. Yes, it like led me 168 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 3: to absolute wonderfulness with my family, today, But it's just like, 169 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 3: I don't know. The growth that happens when you've partaken 170 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 3: one of the shows and the friendships that are formed, 171 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: just like always seems worth it to me. And I 172 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 3: know that like other lums may not feel as passionate 173 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 3: about it as I do, but like I'm always like, oh. 174 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 6: They like want you back. 175 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: You have to do it. 176 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 3: It's gonna be so great, and you know. 177 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 5: I don't know, yeah no, but like exactly what you said, 178 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 5: I feel like I feel so strongly about it and 179 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 5: doing it three times, it was such a different experience 180 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 5: each time, and you probably felt the same way each time. 181 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 5: You do it so different and I'm so so happy 182 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 5: I did it. 183 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,559 Speaker 4: My favorite experiences A part is franchise. 184 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 6: Honestly totally agree. 185 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 3: Okay, so you are also in Paradise with a few 186 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 3: guys from your season. I know that in our last 187 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: interview you said that you were like pretty much not 188 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 3: interested in revisiting anybody from your cast. However, when you're 189 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: there in Paradise and underneath the Bachelor bubble again and 190 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 3: you kind of lose all space and time, did feelings 191 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 3: reemerge for anyone in your past? 192 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 5: So I wanted to go down and I know the 193 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 5: last time we talked to Mike, you know, I would 194 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 5: never do it again, but I wanted to really give 195 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 5: Paradise the chance it deserved fully, and I think I'm 196 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 5: not the same person that I was when I was 197 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 5: the bachelorette, So these guys have probably changed so much too, 198 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 5: not that they needed to, but being able to meet 199 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 5: some of these guys again for the second time, it 200 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 5: was really incredible. 201 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,479 Speaker 4: And I mean, maybe. 202 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 5: Not to give too much away, but I think there 203 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 5: might be a little bit of a rekindling, maybe with 204 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 5: an ex flang, So we'll have to wait and see. 205 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 5: But yeah, I was definitely super excited to see some 206 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 5: old faces down on the beach. 207 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: Cool good answer. We like to hear that because it 208 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 3: gets us excited. Was what was the guy that you had, 209 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 3: like on your list that you wanted to meet down there? 210 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 211 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 4: So I actually didn't have a list, which. 212 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 5: I I know, I thought the list was like not real. 213 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,319 Speaker 5: I thought it was just kind of like people were like, oh, 214 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 5: I want to see so and so. So I came 215 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 5: down just fully like like wanting to meet everyone and 216 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 5: just experience it. And I think that might have hurt 217 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 5: me just a little, just because I don't think I 218 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 5: was as prepared as they came down with plans, plans A, B, 219 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 5: and C, and I was just I don't think people 220 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 5: expected me to be there, and then I didn't have 221 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 5: a plan, so I was floundering a little bit. I 222 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 5: feel like in the beginning trying to catch my footing. 223 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 5: It was definitely a transition, but I eventually feel like 224 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 5: I got the hang of it. 225 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 4: Maybe should have planned a little bit better. 226 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 3: Wells told us that you were kind of like a 227 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 3: Mama Bear figure almost because you have been so experienced 228 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 3: in the process that possibly you were like more of 229 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 3: a guider than like somebody jumping into the dating pool. 230 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 3: Does this have to do with you not having numbers too? 231 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 5: I definitely had a conversation with Wells. He definitely kind 232 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 5: of had to steer me in the right direction because 233 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 5: I feel like I've just done this process in so 234 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 5: many different ways that I, you know, wanted to help 235 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 5: everyone and give everyone advice, and then I kind of 236 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 5: put myself in the situation where maybe I was like 237 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 5: friend zoning myself to everyone without realizing. 238 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 4: It because I was just trying to comfort everyone. 239 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 5: But yeah, he definitely had to give me a little 240 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 5: bit of a talking to get. 241 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: Out of that mind zone. 242 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 5: It was just a hard transition from like batcherette onto 243 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 5: the beach. So yeah, I definitely struggled just a little 244 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 5: bit in the beginning, and I think. 245 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 3: Well, what are you looking for and a guy there 246 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 3: that you haven't found before. 247 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 5: I think mainly I really really wanted to meet someone 248 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 5: who I was able to form a really solid friendship with. First, Okay, like, 249 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 5: these are the values I want, and of course those 250 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 5: are still the things I want, but I wasn't prioritizing 251 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 5: like a friendship, and I think that's what really kind 252 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 5: of hurt me in the end, because that is so 253 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 5: important in a relationship. So the first thing on the 254 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 5: beach I wanted to do is make sure that I 255 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 5: could see a life partnership in a friendship as well. 256 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 5: So that's definitely something I did different, I think this 257 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 5: time than the last couple of times. 258 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 3: People are always curious about the living conditions in Bachelor 259 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 3: in Paradise because it's kind of like camping in the tropics. 260 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 3: How did you deal with that and like what was 261 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: what was your tricks to survival? 262 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 5: So I, of course have had all my friends go down, 263 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 5: tell me it's going to be raining and there's me 264 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 5: crabs in my bed and it's going to be like insane. 265 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 5: And we actually got a pretty mild summer. We were 266 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 5: very lucky. It didn't rain much, actually didn't rain at 267 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 5: all while I was there, and I mean it wasn't 268 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 5: too hot. But I did bring like one of those 269 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 5: portable fans and it died within the first. 270 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 4: Couple of days. I don't know how, but I. 271 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 5: Just, you know, tried my best to embreak elements and 272 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 5: just make the most of it, like you're just gonna 273 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 5: look sweaty and the slickbag. Butns were definitely in the 274 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 5: summer for sure, so thank god they're like trendy now. 275 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, all right, So you you rap Paradise a 276 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 3: couple months ago. We hope that you're with a guy 277 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 3: or you know, you you have some good friendships from it, 278 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 3: but like, where are you with piloting right now? 279 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 280 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 5: So for me, I went back to teach in between 281 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 5: The Bachelor and the Bachelorette, and it was really difficult, 282 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 5: I think, especially being in a really male dominated industry, 283 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 5: getting everyone to take me seriously in general's already one 284 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 5: thing being on TV while I was doing it was 285 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 5: really really hard. The guys would like watch the show 286 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,479 Speaker 5: and people would talk about it. And so after Rechelorette, 287 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 5: it was like, I'm gonna give myself some time off, 288 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 5: and when Paradise came up, I'm like, oh no, I'm 289 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 5: gonna have to take more time off. But I think 290 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 5: I've just gotten to the point where I'm just gonna 291 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 5: accept it for what it is. I really want to 292 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 5: get back to flying. So the boys are just gonna 293 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 5: have to deal with it while it happens. But yeah, 294 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 5: it's just it's something that's hard to navigate. But I 295 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 5: think it's really something that I've missed for a really 296 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 5: long time. So I'm excited to get back into teaching. 297 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Okay, that's so exciting. I was worried 298 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 3: that you were going to lead that conversation into like 299 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 3: so we're just gonna take like a semi permanent pause. 300 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 3: But you're actually getting back into it. So when are 301 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 3: you officially starting? 302 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 5: So I have a really good friend that lives down 303 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 5: here I went to college with, and so he and 304 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 5: I are going to go back up and do reviewing 305 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 5: because I've been out of practice for almost a year, 306 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 5: which is the longest I've ever gone without flying. 307 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 4: So he's gonna take me back up very. 308 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 5: Soon, within the next week or so, and get back 309 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 5: in to hang at things, get back into like the 310 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 5: teaching brain because I've been like just all over the 311 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 5: place for the past two years. But I'm really excited 312 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 5: to get back in the air. And everyone's always like 313 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 5: all over my Instagram, like you gave up flying, and 314 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 5: I'm like, I promise I didn't. I just like needed 315 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 5: a second, so excited for everyone to like come along 316 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 5: in that journey as well. 317 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 3: Okay, so we know that Pilot peat was not in Paradise, 318 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 3: although we've all said on multiple podcasts we think that 319 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 3: he'd be a great Paradise cast member. He's like made 320 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 3: for reality TV, but we've only seen him in the 321 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 3: Bachelor role, you know, So wouldn't it been a cool thing? 322 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 3: And I don't know why I'm just hypothetically just coming 323 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 3: up with dates with you right now, But like if 324 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 3: you and Pilot Pete both led a date on Bachelor 325 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 3: in Paradise where it was like girls team boys, team whatever, 326 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: and you're both flying separately in different. 327 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 4: Planes you're facing there, actually is a pilot Peat in 328 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 4: your nice Oh the. 329 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 3: Other pilot Pete two point oh, two point oh. 330 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 2: I heard this guy's a great dude too. 331 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 3: Do we like this new pilot Pete romantically? 332 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 1: Oh? 333 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 4: Who knows? I mean, who knows? 334 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 7: I think I do after all the good things I've 335 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 7: heard about him. He sounds like a cat. 336 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 4: He's a great guy. He's a really great guy, and 337 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 4: he's funny. 338 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 3: I make you guys have a lot in common. 339 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 4: Yes, and sometimes I feel like that could be a 340 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 4: good thing more a bad thing. So we'll have to 341 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: wait and see. 342 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: Rachel's good to see you. It's good to be here. 343 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 4: He's Ben. 344 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 5: Who would have thought after our car ride, me and 345 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 5: Ashley were just talking like you guys were the first 346 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 5: people who found out I was going to Paradise. 347 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: Well, no, that's not true. That's not true at all. 348 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,239 Speaker 7: In fact, you were still questioning in our car ride 349 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 7: if you're going to Paradise, And I think I was 350 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 7: in the camp of you should go. 351 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 2: I think you had already made your decision. 352 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 7: You just didn't want to like tell us, yes, you're convinced, 353 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:04,679 Speaker 7: you're a little freaked out about the idea, But we 354 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 7: were both in the camp of you should make this work. 355 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 4: Yes, I was so on the fence. 356 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 5: I really wanted to go, but I kept thinking like, 357 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 5: is this the right thing to do? 358 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 4: Is it gonna work? 359 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 5: Is it gonna be just like embarrassing that I like 360 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 5: go again and if something didn't work out, But I'm 361 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 5: so happy I did it, like one of the best 362 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 5: decisions I ever made. 363 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 3: Okay, Rzel, this is such a hilarious vanity question. But 364 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 3: I know that the internet is taken quite the opinions 365 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 3: on your eyebrows being bleached, and you always have comebacks 366 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 3: for them. What's your ultimate comeback? 367 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 2: Here? 368 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 5: The ultimate comeback? Well, someone said I looked like Boltimore 369 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 5: the other day, and I was like, well, is it 370 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 5: at least like in a hot way? But they're not 371 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 5: bleached in paradise. So it's just like a new It's 372 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 5: like a phase I'm going through. 373 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 7: Wait time, understand this is this is where I have 374 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 7: the most fun on this podcast. I have no idea 375 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 7: why or what is happening, Like, why would you your 376 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 7: eyebrows bleached? 377 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 4: I just bleach them. 378 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: OK's just that it's just the thing. 379 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 7: I mean, That's what I'm saying, is I have I 380 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 7: don't keep up on these trends, and I don't understand 381 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 7: what's happening in the world. So like, it's just a 382 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 7: thing that you want to do. It's like cutting your 383 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 7: hair short or letting it grow out. 384 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, so I just bleach them to match the blonde. 385 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 5: But normally when people have blonde hair, they bleach their 386 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:45,120 Speaker 5: eyebrows to look darker. So everyone's really upset about the brows. 387 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 4: But I think, do you, girl, I just keep doing 388 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 4: it now. 389 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 3: Do you kind of love just snapping back at people. 390 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 4: I just think it's funny. I'm like, why not, Like, 391 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:59,120 Speaker 4: why not bleach them? 392 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, Rachel. 393 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,239 Speaker 7: I've known you since your time on the show, and 394 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 7: I would say this, I don't want to speak for you. 395 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 7: I've thoroughly enjoyed our times together, and I feel like 396 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 7: we've had moments where we've gotten to really have life 397 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 7: conversations and life moments where I've gotten to know you 398 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 7: better and appreciate you a ton. I think very highly 399 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 7: of you. So that's where I'm coming from in this statement. Okay, 400 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 7: when I first met you, I felt like you wouldn't 401 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 7: have handled the criticisms as well as you're handling them now. Like, 402 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 7: I think it would have really bothered you. I think 403 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 7: it probably would have kept you up at night. I 404 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 7: think it would have been one of those conversations we 405 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 7: would have had where You're like, I don't get it, 406 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 7: and I think I remember something similar when we talked 407 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 7: a couple of years ago, where I was like, it 408 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 7: happens to everybody, like You're never gonna do this thing right, 409 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 7: and you're just you got to build some Cali skin. 410 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 7: So can you talk to me a little bit about 411 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 7: how you've gotten to the point where you can do 412 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 7: this for yourself because you just want to also have 413 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 7: criticisms and clap back at them with like confidence and hilarity. 414 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean it's been crazy. 415 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 5: I think I've went through like every phase you can 416 00:21:11,840 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 5: in the bachelor world. I think people, you know, they're 417 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 5: really excited for me, and then they really disliked me. 418 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 5: And I think just I can see where people are 419 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 5: coming from in each stage, and I think there were 420 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 5: times where I made mistakes and I can honestly understand 421 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 5: where the criticism's coming from. I think at this point, 422 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 5: I've done so much work on myself that this is 423 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 5: I think the first time I'm on the show where 424 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 5: I really feel like I'm bringing my true self completely forward, 425 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 5: and if people have like things to say about that, 426 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 5: like that's fine, because I really am so proud of 427 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 5: like how far I've come and who I am now. 428 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 5: So yeah, I mean, it's always going to be difficult, 429 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 5: and I think it's easier said right now than when 430 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 5: it starts airing. But I am really confident with whom 431 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 5: I brought to the beach, and I think it's like 432 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 5: my truest self. 433 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 3: So I'm so happy about that, and I vibe that 434 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: very much. I concur with what Ben said for sure, 435 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: to change topics on something very scandalous, Are you willing 436 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 3: to talk scandal for a second? 437 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 4: I am all right, I don't know. I don't think. 438 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: I don't think. I'm so excited. 439 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 4: Okay, it doesn't know. 440 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 3: No, Ben probably hasn't been scrolling on Instagram over the 441 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 3: past twelve hours. 442 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 4: Now. 443 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 3: We saw you with Clayton get pretty chummy at our 444 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 3: event in February, and it looked like you guys like 445 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 3: almost could have rekindled something. Right then you were having 446 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 3: like deep conversations. You shake your head, but like you know, 447 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 3: you got friendly in the in like a true friend way. 448 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 3: You know, it's like the first time you guys got 449 00:22:55,200 --> 00:23:00,919 Speaker 3: together since the dumping, and this past day or so, 450 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 3: there has been something that's come out about him. He's 451 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 3: been served with paternity papers of a paternity lawsuit from 452 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 3: an alleged pregnant X And it's not just that she's pregnant. 453 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 3: She's pregnant with twins. 454 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: You you're kidding. Wait, I'm I really, I'm just. 455 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 5: What allegedly Well, when I heard about it, I just 456 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 5: think that's probably one of the craziest things I've ever heard. Again, 457 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 5: I guess we don't know completely what had happened, but 458 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 5: I just hope everyone you know, and figure it out 459 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 5: and so definitely insane. 460 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 7: So we won't make Rachel get completely put on the spots. 461 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 7: I don't think she knows anything more than we do, right, 462 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 7: But I do have questions for the two of you. 463 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 7: So can I cause I don't know about this, Can 464 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 7: I play or just try to understand? 465 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 466 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 7: Of course, Rachel. This is what I do with Ashley 467 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 7: in most situations when it comes to pop culture or 468 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 7: just anything happening in the world. 469 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 2: World. Okay, what is a paternity lawsuit? 470 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 3: Okay, so without reading it, what I'm assuming it is 471 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 3: is that, like she's pregnant with twins, and she's allegedly 472 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 3: claiming that she's slept with Clayton in May, and he 473 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,479 Speaker 3: is denying that they had any sexual encounter. 474 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: Okay. 475 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 7: So he has came out publicly and commented on this 476 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 7: and said he's not that he's denying, and. 477 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,680 Speaker 3: Maybe not publicly, but like within the two of them, 478 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 3: and like so like in the paperwork, it's saying that 479 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 3: he's denying it. 480 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 7: Okay, So he's so in the paperwork, she's claiming that 481 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,959 Speaker 7: it's his kids and that he said I'm that I 482 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 7: wasn't a part of this, and now she's saying, well, 483 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 7: you're going to have to be a part of this. 484 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 2: Is that how this plays out? Okay? 485 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 3: Yes, So apparently on August first, she filed the lawsuit, 486 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 3: So it's been a while alleging that she's pregnant with 487 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 3: twins after engaging in sexual activity with Clayton on May twentieth. 488 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 3: The the kids are due in February twenty twenty four, 489 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 3: and she's saying that she hasn't been with anyone besides 490 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 3: him since March of twenty twenty two. 491 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 7: Okay, So I'm trying to okay, and then the sources 492 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 7: of this are who this isn't like I don't know 493 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 7: the ones that we find at like grocery stores. These 494 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,439 Speaker 7: are legitimate sources or this. We do know for certain 495 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 7: that this lawsuit has been filed. 496 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,679 Speaker 3: It's via page six, and page six usually has you know, 497 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 3: it's usually pretty reliable. I'll continue with the with the 498 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 3: quotes here, it gets quite scandalous. So this is PG 499 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 3: almost r this is kind of our He's saying that 500 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 3: they only had oral sex that night. 501 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 4: Oh I didn't hear that. 502 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 2: That's not how you make kids. I will say that 503 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 2: just for an it doesn't know. 504 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,639 Speaker 3: The court filing includes screenshots of alleged tax from the 505 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 3: reality star, including the messages that include quote, I don't 506 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 3: believe you for a second. I legitimately hate you right now. 507 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 3: You have lost your mind. And I hope you think 508 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 3: about how terrible this is that you would subject me 509 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,959 Speaker 3: to this. My personal hell would be having to be 510 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 3: part of your life. 511 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 7: Okay, so this just came out. What I'm understanding is 512 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 7: the story is breaking. Rachel knowing Clayton having some sort 513 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,400 Speaker 7: of relationship with Clayton. 514 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 2: How do you feel about this. 515 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 5: I mean, I guess my first thought is, this is 516 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 5: obviously something that's very public. I've seen a lot of commentary, 517 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 5: a lot of people, you know, taking sides. I know 518 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 5: Clayton does struggle with his mental health, so obviously that's 519 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 5: something like I thought about first, like hopefully doing okay. 520 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 5: No matter what the situation is, obviously we're all going 521 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 5: to kind of be seeing the development on it. I 522 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 5: just hope everyone is okay, because this is definitely like 523 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 5: a very crazy, crazy situation that I said, you can't 524 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 5: even make up. 525 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 4: So we'll see where it goes. 526 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, just to add into the story, basically, what we're 527 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 3: waiting on is him to take a paternity test, which 528 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 3: the lawsuit has said that she's offered more than fifty 529 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,399 Speaker 3: times in runing to pay for one for him, but 530 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 3: he is unwilling to participate. 531 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 7: Oh my, I you know, I don't know if this 532 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 7: is gonna come off crazy, I feel, I mean, I 533 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 7: I don't know enough about this situation to really have 534 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,720 Speaker 7: any opinion whatsoever. But you know, what initially reminds me 535 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 7: of is like the moriy Show when they'd be like 536 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 7: you are the father or you're not the father, and 537 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 7: everybody celebrates or like that. That's kind of what I 538 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 7: feel like in my mind, that's what's coming to me. 539 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 2: Well, of course it is. Oh is that fair? Is 540 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 2: that fair? 541 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 7: Because that's the only that's the only like tangible example 542 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 7: that I have of this happening. 543 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 2: Is that crazy? Am I speaking like wild here? 544 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 7: No? 545 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 4: And I feel like you're not the first one to 546 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 4: have made that reference. 547 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I like, yeah, The Bachelor girl chat has 548 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 3: been blowing up. My seasons group chat has re emerged today. 549 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 2: There's a lot of gifts. This is crazy. 550 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 5: The what I just really hope everyone's okay, because this 551 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 5: is just yeah, very very you. 552 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,479 Speaker 7: Know, you know, Rachel in uh, however long we've been 553 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,119 Speaker 7: doing this podcast, the Bachelor world has never ceased to 554 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:33,640 Speaker 7: give us stories, good, bad, and different. They've never no, never, 555 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 7: And so with that being said, it always gives us stories. 556 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 2: Rachel. We hope that you give us a story. 557 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 7: Of love and peace and joy and happiness on the 558 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 7: beach in Mexico and onto the future. We hope you 559 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 7: are following Sue with the trends of the past. We're 560 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 7: leads fine love on the beach in Paradise. 561 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 4: Amen. Hopefully we'll see goodness Grace. Yeah, well, we'll have 562 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 4: you on soon. 563 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 3: But until then, I've been Ashley. 564 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 2: I've been Ben, and I'm Rachel. 565 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 3: Yeah there you go, all right, bye, see you guys. 566 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 2: See Rachel Bye. 567 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 568 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts