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Speaker 1: Ever been last waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: He and good morning, welcome to the program. How are you,

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Speaker 1: good morning, I'm I'm doing okay, okay, well just okay.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman Nina? We're here on

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, trying to help you out and

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Speaker 1: hopefully straighten things out for you and get you set

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Speaker 1: up on a date here, but we got to know

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Speaker 1: all the backstory. How did you meet Nina? How many

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Speaker 1: dates have you been on? And you know what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Why do you think you're being ghosted? For sure?

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Speaker 2: Well let me just break it down for you. I

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Speaker 2: met Nina on the apps and we hit it off,

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Speaker 2: and I got to be honest, I was locked in,

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Speaker 2: like right away. I knew I wanted to guctually be

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Speaker 2: with her, and I asked her at dinner and she

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Speaker 2: said yes, and you know, we went and we're having

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Speaker 2: a blast. But I guess things could have gotten a

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Speaker 2: little weird on the date though, because my dad did

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Speaker 2: walk into the restaurant to grab carry out. Okay, so yeah,

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Speaker 2: like Nina handled it like a pro, and she even

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Speaker 2: invited my dad to have a drink with us, which

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Speaker 2: he took as a good sign, and I took as

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Speaker 2: a good sign, and you know, I was super relieved.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm not hearing from her at all, so

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Speaker 2: maybe she really did mind. I just you know, and honestly,

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Speaker 2: I just.

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Speaker 1: Need your help to find out. I mean, you felt

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Speaker 1: like everything went well with that though, Like you can't

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Speaker 1: really help if someone you know or family member walks

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Speaker 1: into a place where you are, so it's like, that's

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Speaker 1: not necessarily your fault. And then but it sounds like

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Speaker 1: that went smoothly at least. Nobody was like super uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: or anything weird, right.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, Like it was a weird thing at first, but

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Speaker 2: she made it not weird, and it was super calm

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Speaker 2: and chill. My dad had a drink and left like

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Speaker 2: it was it wasn't it was weird, but it wasn't

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Speaker 2: like off putting.

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Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, all right, well let's see if

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Speaker 1: we can get Nina on the phone. We'll call her

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Speaker 1: in a couple of minutes. You'll be on the phone too.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask these questions for you, and we'll see if

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Speaker 1: we can figure out what's up, and then hopefully we

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Speaker 1: can straighten things out and set you guys up. One

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Speaker 1: another day that we paid for. So good. You've got

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Speaker 1: to hear what happens next part to you. Wait a

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Speaker 1: minute phone after this song back in two minutes after

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Speaker 1: hoes your Fred's Show. Hey, Ien, hy, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call Nina. You guys, you met let's see on the

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Speaker 1: apps and you went on a date, set the date up.

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Speaker 1: You know, you did all the chatting and the sort

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Speaker 1: of preliminary stuff. You go on this date. You thought

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Speaker 1: the date went great, but you have not heard from

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Speaker 1: her since the date, and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty much it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's call her now, good lucky in thank you. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: is this Nina? Hey Nina, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the calls and cool for chat for

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Speaker 1: just a second.

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Speaker 2: Sure, we thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: I know it's kind of strange and a little bit

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Speaker 1: of brop, but we're call on behalf of this dude

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Speaker 1: named Ian who reached out to us. I guess you

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Speaker 1: guys met on the apps and went on a date recently.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember Ian.

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Speaker 3: Oh, yes, yes, that is true.

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Speaker 2: I met this guy Ian on the app.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so he told us about what he thought was

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Speaker 1: a really successful date. He did mention that his dad

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Speaker 1: showed up, but said you were cool with it, but

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Speaker 1: nonetheless he was hoping to hear from you again, or

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Speaker 1: that you would respond to him and go on a

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Speaker 1: second date because he thought the first one went well.

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Speaker 1: But he thinks that you're ghosting. So are you ghosting him?

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, Like the date was fine, and like

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Speaker 3: we did run into his dad and like it like

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Speaker 3: running into his dad like wasn't an issue at all

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Speaker 3: until it like was an issue.

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Speaker 1: Why was it an issue? What happened? Well, so, like at.

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Speaker 3: One point, like Ian got up, like to go to

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Speaker 3: the bathroom, and like when he was gone, his dad

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Speaker 3: absolutely mortifying, Like I don't know, he was like grabbing

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Speaker 2: How beautiful I was.

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Speaker 1: Oh damn, it was awful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, Like he totally ruined everything, Like I

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Speaker 3: don't know how. It was just very uncomfortable And how

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Speaker 3: do you how do you tell a guy that you

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Speaker 3: literally just met on an app like, Hey, your dad's

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Speaker 3: a creep.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your dad's a predator. He's a weird and by

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Speaker 1: the way, he's sea blocking his own son, right, so

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Speaker 1: where's the bro code'? Where's the bro code with my dad?

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Speaker 1: My own dad? Like, if I can't count on my

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Speaker 1: own dad not to scoop my girls, then I don't

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Speaker 1: even know what to do even who can I trust? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so wow, Ian, I've had to mention that Ian is here.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Nina, I'm sorry that also kind of

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Speaker 1: creepy but or weird. But Ian is here. Did you

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Speaker 1: know about this? Did you know that your father was?

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Speaker 1: I mean he was part of the day, which I

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Speaker 1: thought was very nice of Nina to sort of like

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Speaker 1: include him, considering you had just met and didn't plan

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Speaker 1: to meet him out. But now it turns out he's

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Speaker 1: hitting on her. I mean, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know if he was hitting on her, Like, I

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Speaker 2: have a really hard time believing that. Like, it's a

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Speaker 2: very friendly guy. You know, he's he's happily married. Well,

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Speaker 2: he's happily married to my mom.

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Speaker 1: So so you think I.

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Speaker 2: Don't think I don't think he would have done anything inappropriate.

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Speaker 2: I think he was just called being friendly.

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Speaker 1: So Nina, he was just being friendly. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: think Nina probably knows the difference.

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Speaker 3: I definitely know the difference. Your dad was not being friendly,

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Speaker 3: he was being very bold.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you talk to your dad?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know you think his dad's going to

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, I was totally hitting on her and

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Speaker 1: tempting a cheat on your mom. Like I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: that he's going to say that, but maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess we can try and well, no, he.

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Speaker 2: Won't say that because it probably didn't happen. He was

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Speaker 2: probably just being friendly. So yeah, let me touch him.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, why don't you Why don't you reach out

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Speaker 1: to him, because maybe we talked, let's suck to the dad.

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Speaker 1: Let's get the dad on here, right, I would love

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Speaker 1: to talk to let's suck to dad, because I'd like

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Speaker 1: to hear I mean, I do not think the dad

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Speaker 1: hitting on my son's date. But I mean, stranger things

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Speaker 1: have happened. I mean, I'd hate to crush your soul though,

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Speaker 1: Like what if we uncovered something here Ian that, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, things aren't all good back at home or

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Speaker 1: maybe your parents are swingers. Oh, maybe they swat. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you want to know all this.

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Speaker 2: Look I again, I I just don't really believe that

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Speaker 2: he grew to me. So yeah, I'm at let's get him.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you text him and see if we can

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Speaker 1: line him up here, uh, you know, for today or tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: and see if we can get him on the show

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Speaker 1: and we'll ask we'll ask him these questions and we

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Speaker 1: can all talk about it. How about that sounds.

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Speaker 2: Great to me? And then you know, Nina, after that,

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Speaker 2: maybe you'll see that maybe you're just a little over

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Speaker 2: over a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Well, now there's the question, Nina, is I mean, you

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Speaker 1: liked Ian enough. Ian didn't necessarily know that his apparently

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Speaker 1: he didn't know at all that his dad was doing this.

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Speaker 1: Now he's denying that his dad could have done this.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but you liked Ian enough. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: if can we straighten this out? I mean, would you

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Speaker 1: consider another date with him? If if you're comfortable with

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Speaker 1: what his dad has to say? Or is it just

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Speaker 1: sort of like you don't you don't want any part

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Speaker 3: I know, I mean, like even based on his reaction

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Speaker 3: right now, it's really hard to get between a boy

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean that is that is that would

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Speaker 1: be very strange. It's a very simple question, Dad, Why

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Speaker 1: was your hand on her leg? And where was mom?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Is that my mom? Really?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Do you love mom?

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Speaker 2: This is?

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Speaker 1: This is weird? Alright, So know then, Nina, you're not

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Speaker 1: You're not going to be interested or it matters what

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Speaker 2: What I mean, I guess what he has to say.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, everyone, hang on a second. Let's set

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Speaker 1: this up and see we'll see what we can do

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Speaker 1: with this. Hang on a second, all right, everybody