1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: There was the problem, we're taking money and we're back. 2 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 2: Well where were we really? 3 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, it's Joe Gadder from Two Cool Moms. I'm 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: here with my friend. 5 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 2: I'm here. 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, in the set of Two Cool Months, I was 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: just wishing I was here, and you're just Joe. 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 2: So we're here. It's so good to see you. Hey, guys, look, 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 2: we're all here, and you're here. You're here here, Steve. 10 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 1: Bird too, Cool Moms. Thank you so much for listening. 11 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 2: Guys. We are in the thick of it. We really are. 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 2: There has been. 14 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 1: So many dilemmas being thrown our way, and we've been 15 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: solving problems, a tsunami of them, if you will. 16 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 2: It's like Moses parting there. We're right in the thick. 17 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 2: That's it. 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: We're holding it down as Gandolf, you shall not pass 19 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: in these problems. And then we're all the surf boards 20 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: in the tsunami of life. And that's what I've always said. 21 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 3: Oh, you've always been consistent in that. In that regard 22 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 3: is one thing I've never not said that. 23 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I've ever not said that. We've 24 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: been surfboards in the tsunami of life. Oh, Stephen, you 25 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: if we were just speaking of this in my home 26 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,399 Speaker 1: about if you're if it came down to it and 27 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: you had to like protect your family or deal with 28 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: not protect, like as if somebody's coming to hurt them, 29 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: or like, okay, uh, there was you know, an earthquake 30 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: or a disaster or something. You'd have to be in 31 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: charge and do this. How much would your significant other 32 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: trust that you knew what you were doing and or follow. 33 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 2: You someone's doing maybe one or two most likely me. 34 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: Would you just say, Jess, get us out of this 35 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: and just hold on. I'll carry the kids. 36 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 3: The opposite, Yeah, I mean Jess would be the one 37 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 3: and be like, Okay, this is what we're doing, and 38 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 3: I'm okay, guys, just just. 39 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: Listen to the mom. 40 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 3: We're prepared for this, and I'll carry I'll be a 41 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 3: row I'm the donkey, I'll hold stuff and you all 42 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 3: get out. 43 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 2: I would just be dropping dogs in a backpack. Oh 44 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: my god, I'd have to be opening it with like 45 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: all these pops you have. Yeah, and in the sanctuary 46 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 2: we got like like thirty Yeah, Jess Jess is the 47 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 2: uh she does everything. 48 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: Did you when you were younger, did anything happen in 49 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: your house that there was like a scare or anything 50 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: like that, or anything like that when you were younger 51 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: that you remember your your parents had to jump into action. 52 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 2: I only had one thing that remind we. 53 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: Thought we thought there was gunfire, but it ended up 54 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: being uh, some uh rap scallions throwing U excuse me. 55 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 2: What? And I searched for that word you told me 56 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 2: looking for it? Is that a real word? Rap scallion? Yeah? 57 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 2: That's like a rabble rouser, right, a rap scallion, like 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: a little little bit rap scallion. Though I thought it 59 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: was something else. Have you tried the rap scallions? Uh? 60 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: Today's specials rap sky and look it up? 61 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 4: Is a. 62 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 2: Wow? That is it rap rip raps scallion? Would it be? So? 63 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: So there's there's this gang of raps scallions and uh 64 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: they we had remember those old screen doors that were 65 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: half ten on the bottom and the top of the screen. 66 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 2: So they threw some rocks at. 67 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: The door and they hit the door ding ding, think, 68 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: and we didn't know what the hell was And my 69 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: dad runs the doors and sees these kids running. 70 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: And my dad was big scary gentleman. 71 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: He was like six foot three, right. So he runs 72 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: out and he runs to the gate and says, he says, 73 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: well I get you know, get out of here. 74 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: Whatever. 75 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: And my brother in law, who was dating my sister 76 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: at the time, Vinnie Big vin Is, comes running out 77 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: behind my father to like protect the house. And I 78 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: was right with them, ran out and my dad just looks. 79 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: Vinnie opens the door and he goes get him, and 80 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: Vinny just starts. 81 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: Right and he's a big guy. Yeah, and they took off. 82 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 2: They took off. 83 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: He caught one, did yeah, and he dragged them back 84 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: to the house and we realized it with these he 85 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: realized was like these little kids. So we just like 86 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: run them in, and you know, my dad just called 87 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: the police to He said the cops, that would you 88 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: want to just scare them so they know I'm not 89 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: the message place. 90 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: So as the cops, the kid was like mouthing off 91 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: to Vinnie. He's like, he assaulted me. You know, I'm 92 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: gonna You're gonna go to a prison. 93 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: And Vinnie, who was just started dating my started dating 94 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: my sister at the time, goes, you think it, I'm 95 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 1: scared I'll go back like that, but he just said it. 96 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: I had my sister call. 97 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I was like, my mother looked at Call and call 98 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: what like like you're just saying it. 99 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but uh, that was the only thing I remember. 100 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 1: At my house, we were like, oh, oh something you know, 101 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: springing into action. 102 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember. 103 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,119 Speaker 3: I don't know anything at our home that we sprang 104 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: into action over. But I remember I was on. Everybody 105 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: else in college was going to Florida or Texas for 106 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 3: spring break, and me and my two roommates we went 107 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: to Canada. We're like, let's just go the opposite. Let's 108 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: still where nobody's going. Yeah, We're like, let's go to Toronto. 109 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 3: So we went to Toronto. We had a blast. 110 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 2: It was, it was. It was a total good time. 111 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: But remember one day we were walking along this main 112 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 3: drag and you just hear this yelp like this this 113 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,799 Speaker 3: high pit like that, and we all turned and looked 114 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 3: and and this woman got drilled by a car like 115 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 3: she got chucked up in the air. I saw food flying. 116 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 3: She must have been getting her lunch. Whatever food's flying. 117 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 2: She hits the ground. 118 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 3: We like run over and we see this jeep take off, 119 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 3: and I just like leath the weapon did like Mel Gibson, 120 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 3: I got in the and I am just sprinting down 121 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 3: the street and I was like forty pounds, like zoo. 122 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 3: And I rushed down and I catch this guy like 123 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: he's in traffic, and I go, you hit that woman. 124 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: You turn around right now, turn around, turn around. 125 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 3: He goes, well, I got to turn around, and go 126 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 3: I'll do it right now. And I stood in the 127 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: middle of the road. It is like a main drag 128 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 3: in Toronto, like like here in New York. Right, I 129 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 3: go, go ahead, turn around, turn around. The light turns green. 130 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 3: He floors it, so I take off after him again. 131 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 3: One of my other roommates is trying to catch up 132 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 3: and he's like he was like fat. 133 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: He's like, I can't do it. I'm going up. 134 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 3: And I get up to him to the next light, 135 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 3: and I wasn't gonna do the same thing. So I 136 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 3: ran inside to a bank. I go, that guy hit 137 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 3: a car, give me your phone, and I called the 138 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: cops and I wrote down the license plate and I 139 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 3: said which direction is that? They're like north, I go 140 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 3: what street? And then whatever, So I gave all the 141 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 3: information of the cops. I go, this red jeep hit 142 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 3: this woe and then that I ran back and an 143 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: ambulance was putting her into the into the thing. That 144 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 3: that was like the one time I like, wow, you're 145 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: really right into action. But I I hope they caught 146 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 3: the guy. Yeah, that was That was really my only 147 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 3: like heroic But you see a woman get plowed by 148 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 3: a jeep but you're getting. 149 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna run after and write down the letters 150 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 1: of a license plate like a real hero. 151 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 2: That's what you're gonna do. You're not gonna go and 152 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 2: you're not gonna try to open the door or whatever. No, 153 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna assault hire do that. No, you like, 154 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: I'll write a stern letter. I will write a stern 155 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: letter to the DM vehicles. 156 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: I I had the only time I had to spring 157 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: in that bad was I told you about the I 158 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: told you about the rundown. I had it Ross for 159 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: Less no back, and I was working in l A. 160 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: I was working at north Strom, Okay, and I used 161 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: to park at Ross for lees because you can park 162 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: for free there and they used to charge your five 163 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: bucks to park in the mall parking lot at the 164 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: growth growth. Yeah yeah, so I used to like just 165 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:27,239 Speaker 1: park at Ross for less. 166 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 2: So I'm going to look for a park It's about 167 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: a Ross for Less and a guy Russ. 168 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 3: Well Ross, you know, plus I eat at McDonald's. But so, yeah, 169 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: I'm at Ross. 170 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So I was at Ross. Does it say for 171 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: less underneath it? I think it does Ross for Less, 172 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 2: but you should just say Ross. Yeah, okay, So I'm 173 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: at Ross. Guys, what you want? You missed the next 174 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: to did it? Did the TJ Max? Okay? Yeah? All 175 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: one shopping center? 176 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: So I'm at Ross And as as I'm going to 177 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: uh find a parking spot, a guy there's a in 178 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: front of me. There's like an old school like civic 179 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: with the passenger door open, and it's just slow rolling. 180 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 1: And then a guy comes flying out with a fists 181 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: arms full of goods and dives in the car. 182 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 2: It slams and takes off out of the parking on 183 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: song go what the hell's does? 184 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: And as I'm slowly driving, a security guard stops in 185 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: front of my car and goes stop, and then another 186 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: one opens my my passenger door, jumps in and goes 187 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: follow that car, and the other guy jumps in the 188 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: back of security office security not cops, no security officer, 189 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 1: and I go okay, and we start chasing this chasing 190 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: the civic and we're through the streets LA, right, but 191 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: they don't know it's me because they don't know I'm 192 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: an unmarked vehicle, so they. 193 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 2: Don't know that the guy's got in my car. Whatever. 194 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: So the guy lays my seat back. The security guard 195 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: who's sitting shot the sea bag goes, Okay. 196 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 2: What we're gonna do, and he goes, I'm going to 197 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: I have this. 198 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: Uh he has one of a box cutter. He goes 199 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: the next light we get to, I'm gonna jump out. 200 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna slash his tires. Jesus like this sounds like 201 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: a plan, right, yeah, And so as they're going, he's 202 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: talking in the one guys from one guy's in the back, 203 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: and the guy goes, you know, he's like, he's like 204 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 1: in pursuit, and he reads the license plate out too, 205 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: He's like in pursuit, you know, in pursuit, uh, you know, 206 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: white Honda Civic r x V four two two. And 207 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: then oh, he's calling it in and the guy in 208 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: the back goes copy. He's not swear to God over 209 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: the walking talking like what. 210 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 2: The So I was like, all right, this is gonna 211 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 2: be fantastic. What happened. 212 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: So the light turns red. The guy pops out of 213 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: my car and he runs up next one. He starts 214 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: trying to slash the guy's tires and the guy sees this, 215 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: uh the the the purp sure and he guns it, 216 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: runs the light whatever. 217 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: So the guy comes running back. His pants will fall 218 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: and he was a bigger dude, right. He comes in, 219 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 2: he's like oh, and he's like all right. I was like, 220 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: I said, I'm not gonna run the light and chase 221 00:09:59,640 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 2: this guy. 222 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 3: Now. 223 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like he thinks you know, so I said, oh, man, 224 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: I go, I think this one got away from us. 225 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: And the guy looks from us, he goes, yeah, I 226 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: include myself. He goes yeah, could you just drop us 227 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 1: back off at the Ross far Less? 228 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 2: He said, Ross for Less. By the way, you dropping 229 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 2: the back off. 230 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: I ended up just in silence driving these two defeated 231 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: guys back there. 232 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: That's how I sprung an action. I was with my 233 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 2: son recently at Lids. 234 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: Iph Lids Lids for More. 235 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 2: They're expensive. 236 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: I love lidds and we are inside and my son's like, oh, 237 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 3: can I get this hat? 238 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 2: Dad? I go, yeah, of course, yeah. 239 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 3: So we walk over to the register and we're waiting 240 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 3: to pay. We're next to line, and this guy comes 241 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: in and he's rapping like really loud, like obnoxiously loud, 242 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 3: like a spectacles, a spectacle, Yeah, and just goes over 243 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 3: and takes four hats and just walks out, and like 244 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 3: because he was making spectacle, everybody stops. 245 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 2: We're like, what's going on here? Like, and the dude 246 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 2: just walked it. 247 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 3: So we're waiting to pay, and then the guy just 248 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 3: walked out, just took the four hats he wants, and 249 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 3: then I'm like looking and I'm like and the guy's like, okay, next, 250 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 3: and I was like no, Like I'm not gonna no, 251 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 3: I put it back. 252 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 2: But I was like, why would. 253 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 3: I pay when you're just letting people like I was 254 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 3: just the principal, and I understand, like they're the employees 255 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 3: are told not to go and pursue or whatever, but 256 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 3: still it was just like I was just sitting there, like. 257 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: It's a weird experience for you. 258 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: Why am I going to pay my harder money, Yes, 259 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: my harder money for this overpriced cap? 260 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, very overpriced. 261 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, hats were like twenty five dollars pre pandemic, and 262 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 3: now they're all thirty eight dollars. You can't get a 263 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 3: hat at Lid's cheaper than thirty eight dollars. Really, that's 264 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 3: a normal Like it has tough for you too, because 265 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 3: you wear a lot of hats. I love hats. 266 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 2: Caps. 267 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: You're a director, you're a producer, you're a comedian, your father, 268 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: your lover, you're a fighter. 269 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: There's a lot of for you. Jeep chaser international, you're. 270 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: An athlete, you're an international man of mystery and international. 271 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 2: Did you have to call seven to one in Canada? 272 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 2: How does that work? Is then one the number? I don't. 273 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: I asked the woman at the bank to whatever, receptionist whatever, 274 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: and they were probably all sorts of like polite, like 275 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: what you see the score the leaves game. So that 276 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 2: was I think those are the only two. 277 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 3: There was one time my brother my father would take 278 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 3: my brother and I to the Clarion River. We get 279 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 3: these light preservers and we just float down the river. 280 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 3: And my brother is three years younger than me. It 281 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: was fun, though, just floating down the river. 282 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: That sounds as lazy parenting your parents like put this, 283 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: we'll see that. 284 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 2: Flow with us. It was I loved that. I thought 285 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 2: it was cool, my brother. But you hear you hear 286 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 2: yourself like this is a funny sentence. Yes, yes, but 287 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 2: he is foot. 288 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 3: His foot got caught in a rock, and my father 289 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 3: and I are floating and you just hear get and 290 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 3: we turn around and there's like this little wave of 291 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 3: like water over his head and he's popping up and 292 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 3: he's trying to catch his breath. And my dad turns 293 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 3: around and he starts trying to swim up swim upstream salmon, 294 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 3: and I'm like, I'm seeing it. I'm like, oh my god, 295 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 3: So my dad's trying to swim, and I am I'm 296 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 3: probably ten years old at the time. I got to 297 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,719 Speaker 3: the side of the bank and I just ran up 298 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 3: the side of the bank running. 299 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: You look to Tea two and then I I'm like 300 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 2: the Asian tea too. 301 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 3: And then I then I got to where he was 302 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 3: and I jumped in and I kind of like started 303 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 3: swimming towards him and got underwater and dislodged his uh, 304 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 3: his foot and saved my brother's life. And knowing what 305 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: I know now, I should have fucking let him drive 306 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 3: A hundred percent. I would not I would never have 307 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 3: a gray hair on my head. My forehead would be 308 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,839 Speaker 3: so much smaller. I lost so much hair, and the 309 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 3: night's over, my over my little brother. 310 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 311 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: I love how you and I asked you about your 312 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 1: story of heroisms acts of heroism on two cool moms. 313 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: The first one you were, that's a full blow hero 314 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: saved your brothers, like the other one you were like, 315 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: I ran and made a phone call in Canada, I. 316 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 2: Mean a n one in Canada. Yeah, or I don't 317 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 2: underwater and saved a human's life. 318 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: W Yeah, he wouldn't. He wouldn't. He knows it happened, 319 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 3: but he would never be like, oh, yeah, my. 320 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 2: Brother saved my life. Yeah, we wouldn't do it. Wouldn't 321 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 2: do it never. Yeah, foot stuck under a rock. That 322 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 2: seems very movie like. Yeah, it would seem very little convenience. 323 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 3: Yeah right, but his foot did because because every now 324 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 3: and then you hit these little pockets and you can 325 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 3: kind of like moon walk or whatever. 326 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 2: But he just, uh, just because your feet would touch 327 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: a certain points and then. But but this is what happens, 328 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: you know. This is why I don't let my kids 329 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 2: float in a river. Guys. 330 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 5: So this is just all your parents know home. They're 331 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 5: just throwing kids and remember, let him float. Let this 332 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 5: be less Let this be the lesson. My dad's a 333 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 5: horrible fom. Okay, but that's we're not talking about dad. 334 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 2: Now, talk about Too Cool Moms, talking about mom. 335 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for submitting your dilemmas here at 336 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: at two Cool Mom's Pod, either on Instagram or at 337 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: too Cool Mom's Pod at gmail dot com. 338 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 2: Email on them in. We love you. Thanks for the 339 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 2: love and support. We appreciate you all. And let's get 340 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: to it. Let's solve some props. Joe, here we go. 341 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 3: You're a man of many towns many I know you 342 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 3: said I wear many hats. 343 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 2: You you know. 344 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 3: Obviously we're in different tax brackets. You're you're more clairvoyant 345 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 3: than I am. People have always said this about you, 346 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 3: and I think this question in particular is directed towards us, 347 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 3: is coming to us from Valerie. 348 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I need advice on, so please 349 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 2: help me. That's it. That's it. You know what I 350 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: need some help on flea, So please help me. Right, No, 351 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: I know what needs help with. 352 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: All Right, Well, I'm gonna shoo you stight because most 353 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: of you friends won't tell you tell you this. It's 354 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: because your breastings. Okay, so get out there, brush the choppers, 355 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: and everything will be much better. We have more friends, 356 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: You'll be able to interact more socially. You get that 357 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: job promotion. All all be roses. Just you gotta get 358 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 1: up in there with the colgates. 359 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 2: And it's not as easy as brushing. You're gonna fluss. 360 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, gotta get in there, get underneath, because the rotting 361 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: food is really what makes the stank. 362 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 2: And you got some caught and. 363 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: Some you have some pockets from some capital pockets. Gotta 364 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: be careful. 365 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 3: I wear these damn and visil lines and it's the 366 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 3: bane of my existence, right you do? Oh? 367 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah? Because this tooth Wait, this this tooth 368 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 2: is fake? How long you been wearing it? Uh? Maybe? 369 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 3: Well I had I had uh these other ones for 370 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 3: like two years. 371 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 2: No, and it didn't work. That isn't true. I've never 372 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: seen you pop your teeth out. Oh yeah, I know, 373 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 2: but I eat with you a lot. You don't have 374 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: to do it now. 375 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: No. 376 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: I was washed my hands and then I got I 377 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 2: pop them out. When did you pop them out? We 378 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: just had lunch. When did you where'd you put them? Remember? 379 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 2: When I went to go I wrap you in and 380 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: then I put them in pocket. 381 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 6: I told use, you should do in a quick peeps, 382 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 6: but you're doing a quick pot. But I wear these 383 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 6: what was my points? I wear these damn it visilies. 384 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 6: So they shift your teeth like every week you can 385 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 6: feel them kind of shifting or whatever. And and and 386 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 6: what I realized is like all of a sudden, these 387 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 6: gaps are created in the because always. 388 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 2: And you have little foods stuck in there. How you 389 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: get get a pumper nickel back? Then, oh painful sesame seed. 390 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: But there's something so satisfying when you when you make 391 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 2: a pull. 392 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like when you do the cue tip, you're 393 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 3: like yellow, like, yeah, I got it all. 394 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: When you get a good booger, yeah right, like we 395 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: get a good like you got a hog crust older, No, 396 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: like a crusty like you feel all crusted up. And 397 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: then you get up in there and it's like bink 398 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 1: and you're good and you do it right on right 399 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:42,120 Speaker 1: in the airplane. 400 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: Binks do that sometimes. You know, it's easy for me 401 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 2: to pick you a nice roll. I could. I'm the 402 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: only guy I know. 403 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 1: Like he use his whole fist when he picks his 404 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: nose excuse me, use my old huge nose. 405 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 2: Like I feel something just like the camel Joe. Yeah, 406 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: that's right. Yeah, I love a good floss fluses to well. 407 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: I have a water pick too. 408 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, I was literally gonna say 409 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: that the thing that I bought and not used the 410 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 1: most of my life is I've bought and not used 411 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: a water pick, full blown, unpackaged. 412 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: Not putting on the site, and not used four to 413 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 2: five times in my life. It's the best feeling I know. 414 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 2: People love it. I put warm water in it. Oh 415 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 2: because it's warm. 416 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's like it's like a treat. It's like 417 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 1: a jacuzzi in your mouth. 418 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 2: Put warm water in. 419 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,679 Speaker 3: It's like hold it and then just blast away. You 420 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 3: feel it all and then you just like you open 421 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 3: your mouth like you last that warm. 422 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, there's a lot of like food in there. 423 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: You get some warm blasting in the morning to start 424 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 1: your day. 425 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:44,479 Speaker 2: It's great. Did you know a nice warm blasting? Did you? Uh? 426 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 2: Who put you onto the water pick? The missus or 427 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 2: the dentist. 428 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 3: You know, you know what I needed? It is when 429 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 3: I I broke my jaw. 430 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 2: Oh. 431 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 3: So from that long ago, from that long ago. Really 432 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 3: when I broke my jaw. My my jaw is wired shut, 433 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 3: and oh that's how you have to do it. So 434 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 3: I would I would have these milkshakes and I would 435 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 3: throw cookies in there, so I get all these bits 436 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 3: of cookie in there and I. 437 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 2: Just water pick it all out. Oh my gosh. And 438 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 2: so ever since then, I or all the boys to 439 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: the god. 440 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: Your cookie dought mouth bore all the boys of the 441 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: odd did you You're not supposed to cookies in the 442 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 1: double because you're supposed to chew. 443 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: Oh, I see what you're saying, like crumble, Yeah, it would. 444 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 3: All get yeah, oreo chips, holy, all of it. Oh yeah, 445 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 3: I would do sprinkled cupcakes. Oh really, buy me downtown 446 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 3: La when when it happened. 447 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:30,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my good. 448 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 3: I get fresh bake cookies right downstairs at Ralph's six 449 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 3: and Hope is where I lived. 450 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 2: It was great, fantastic. Yeah, that's not. 451 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,920 Speaker 1: A milkshake though. Everycomes like a fat smoothie. That's like 452 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: my it's my version of a smoothie. People like I'll 453 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: take a kale and spinach. I'll be like, I'll take 454 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 1: a cupcake and chocolate chip cookie. 455 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: Though, thank you. It was the best. 456 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,160 Speaker 3: When you when you break your dawn, you can't eat, 457 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 3: you don't You don't realize, like as a normal human being, 458 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 3: how much advertising there is about like food. So when 459 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 3: you can't eat, you're constantly seeing like Golden Corral, Wing Buffet, 460 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 3: Pizza Hut, Domino's, Papa John's, McDonald's, BK and you're just like, 461 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 3: oh god, I do anything for any of this stuff. 462 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 3: So I just dump everything I could in those uh, 463 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 3: in those smokeshakes. 464 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: How much did you lose when you did that? You 465 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 2: had to have big weights. 466 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 3: I was down to one sixty five American sorry American. 467 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: Pounds or what are we talking? 468 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 3: Definitely pounds? Yeah, wow, I got gaunt. I looked like 469 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 3: Christian Bale on the Machine. Did it was like it 470 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 3: was bad? Yeah yeah, because. 471 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,120 Speaker 1: It looked like Burt Kreischer in the Machine. 472 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: Wow, that was a good one because he's a bigger 473 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 2: bad than that. I think we've got our social clip. Yeah. 474 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,120 Speaker 2: My line was they were recast in the movie Philadelphia. 475 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 2: I could have been na Yeah, okay, well val you know, 476 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 2: oh Joe knows. 477 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm hey, listen, take your time, figure it out, 478 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: get advice from people you trust, that's it. 479 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 3: It's coming to us from Alexa, Ola Ola to my 480 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 3: favorite mama Sidas. I'm not Spanish, but I just thought 481 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 3: it was fun. Anyways, I have two questions. First, if 482 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 3: you both separately won the lottery, what would you do 483 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 3: with it? Second, what's one tangible thing you cannot go 484 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 3: one day without? Thank you, mommies for making my days 485 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 3: better with your voices. The next time you're both in Vegas, 486 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 3: my husband and I would love to take you both 487 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 3: out to Delilah at the Wind By the way, that's 488 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 3: an awesome spot. It's literally like quality bstro but with 489 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 3: like a night life. 490 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: We're going out now. 491 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: Thank you for that offer, Alexa. So if we both 492 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: won the lottery, what would you do with What would 493 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 3: you do with your winnings? And what's the one tangible 494 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 3: thing you couldn't go one day without? 495 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: I'd like to play the the lottery game, like everybody says, 496 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: all same stuff, right, I would do a pay off 497 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 1: the house, all those things, right. I would like to 498 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 1: think what would be the one thing, like crazy thing 499 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 1: that you would do with you'd get Yeah, because I'm 500 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,360 Speaker 1: gonna do all that stuff, right, How are you gonna 501 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: treat yourself. 502 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: Right, I'm gonna do. I gonna at stuff. 503 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: I gonna give money to people that care about pay 504 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: off the house, you know, bills by cars. I think 505 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: the one thing I would probably do with with it, 506 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: let's let's say obnoxious amount of on it. Okay, let's 507 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: say you one two hundred million dollars, take on two 508 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: hundred million. 509 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 2: I probably would build my own robot. I'd get a 510 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: robot built, and I want a robot in my house. 511 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 3: You would build like fucking Rocky for I would get 512 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 3: a robot, yeah, poly yeah, like I think I would 513 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 3: get a robot. 514 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 2: What the robot look like? Like a robot? Or like the AI? No no, no, no, 515 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: no no, like a robot. I wanted to be. I 516 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 2: want people to know what the dealing with when they 517 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 2: come in the door. 518 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 3: Like a Japanese fifties wind up toy robot. 519 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: Somewhere in between, somewhere in between those two. Okay, yeah, 520 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: more like yeah, probably more like that. Yeah, you wouldn't 521 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: do like an AI cool like robot. No no, no, I 522 00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: don't want that human. 523 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 3: No. 524 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 1: I want to feel I want to be kitchy like 525 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: it's see always got a robot? What's going to do 526 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: though whatever I wanted to really because like a program it, 527 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: but I would think like I would make it really 528 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 1: excited about I would. I would like it probably to 529 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: bring my my midnight snacks, like I would have it 530 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: to come cut in my bedroom. 531 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 2: Because technology, that's it. She could just sit on a 532 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 2: couch and have some not the couch in bed, my bane. 533 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: My existence right now in my life is that I 534 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: sleep with eight dogs in my room. 535 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So when I want. 536 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: To get up, when Papa Bear is getting his rumble 537 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: rumbles in his tummy, he's at ten thirty five pm, 538 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: Bessie's already out cold. I want to get something to eat. 539 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: I got to go downstairs and get my own snack 540 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: when I come back up. If everybody go nuts, everybody 541 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: has to resettle. It takes weight, does it? Wait, Bessie up? 542 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: The dog's not really no, No, she's pretty sleep prettymuch. 543 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: Sure they don't go super crazy, but it's enough that 544 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: the resettle. They're only I'm eating, so they're all like 545 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,679 Speaker 1: trying to sit on me. So what I like to 546 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 1: do is I would love I had a robot who 547 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 1: would just come up stres and bring my ten thirty 548 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 1: five pm stack. 549 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 2: That's the that's that's how you reward. I think that'd 550 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: be like my that'd be my weird thing. I would 551 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 2: spend some winnings on. Yeah, fuck that that's lame. Okay, 552 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 2: what's yours? You ready? Go ahead? 553 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 3: Are you ready? I buy the Batmobile? Okay, I absolutely 554 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 3: buy the Batmobile? And I would go were. 555 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 2: You driving it everywhere in the mellow one hundred percent? 556 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 3: And and actually it might be a coin flip between 557 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 3: the DeLorean or Batmobile. 558 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: Deloorian's type tough for you, a lot of in and 559 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: out lo what yah got a careful got a canfl 560 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: with that Batmobile? 561 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 2: Batmobile's cool? That is Laurien. 562 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: I think as far if you're doing, if you're doing 563 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: like straight up kee chi like like the Batmobile is 564 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: like a state. 565 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 3: I'm going sixties of course. No, you gotta go open top, 566 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 3: you know with the with the red globe. Oh my god, 567 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 3: you got the fucking defence of the caution thing falling. 568 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 3: That's the one you How coolt I mean that's the 569 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,120 Speaker 3: first car for sure, coolest. 570 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I feel like somebody owns that that 571 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 2: won the lottery? Who owns that car? Now? The the 572 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:48,360 Speaker 2: you know who own TV. 573 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 3: One you've done them owns owns the eighty nine Batmobile? 574 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 1: No, no, I mean the one from like the TV series. 575 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't know where that is. I wonder 576 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 1: who owns that. Somebody has to. 577 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 2: I think somebody fired you. I would have said, Duke's 578 00:24:58,840 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: a hazard. But you get canceled it. 579 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 1: You drive that probably because as a huge Confederate confusion car. 580 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 2: That was pretty cool car. Well you still well. 581 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 1: The thing was it had a very slide worthy roof, 582 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: trunk roof like not roof. 583 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 2: What's the word on the hood? Yeah, the hood was 584 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,719 Speaker 2: very slide worthy. Yeah, I love that. Do you ever 585 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 2: try to slide across the hood? 586 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:22,439 Speaker 1: I did my first true story, true story dent did 587 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 1: my mother's called my father, Hey, my father, maybe pay 588 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 1: for it. I ran and I was like trying to 589 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: be cool and I wanted to try to slide one 590 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: thing I could conquer right in on my mom's white Saturn, 591 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,879 Speaker 1: big ass ass print. My dad was like, okay, well 592 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 1: you're paying for that, and then I had to go 593 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 1: get it done. It was like three hundred dollars and 594 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: I had to get my I had to get it done. 595 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: I'm a sucker. 596 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 3: For any movie where it's a comedy and somebody slides 597 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 3: across and falls, I will always laugh the best. 598 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,400 Speaker 4: It's a gentleman named Rick Champagne who bought the car 599 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 4: for four point two million dollars in the lottery. No, 600 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 4: he's an Arizona based logistics company owner. So if you 601 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 4: got a logistical problem, people call Rick, and he bought 602 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 4: the car for four point two million dollars. Is the 603 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 4: original Batmobile the Adam Westman. 604 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 2: That's so great. You think he's right driving around at 605 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: full point two. I bet he isn't, but if I was, 606 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 2: I would. If you got the money to spend on 607 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 2: the bad anywhere, well he probably puts it on gives 608 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 2: it on loan to some things too. 609 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 1: But you know that's a lot of people don't realize 610 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: that it's an investment because you get you got all 611 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: back from places that have events, like if they're doing 612 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: a Batmo Batman's one hundredth anniversary or whatever, they'll call 613 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: you up and be like, hey, name your prices. Batmobile's 614 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,360 Speaker 1: got to be here, and then people lease them back 615 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: for like these big events. 616 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 4: Car shows will pay to. 617 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 2: Have it yeap. When I when I when we had 618 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 2: Sullivan's Son. 619 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 3: We we could you could do anything on the warn 620 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 3: a lot, right, and they have the Warner Museum. So 621 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 3: it was the Christian Bale movies were coming out. Dark 622 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 3: Knight Rises and they had this big event where they 623 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 3: had all the Batmobiles on display and. 624 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 2: It was so cool to see the Keaton. 625 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 3: One, Yeah, Val Kilmer, George Clooney, Uh, then the Tumbler, 626 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 3: the tumbling like it was all there was so cool. 627 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 3: And they had the uh, the bike, the bat Bike 628 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 3: from Dark Knight, Dark Knight. 629 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, they's cool, fucking They're so cool looking. That is 630 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 2: to be able to could you imagine, like that's your job. 631 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: You had to design that. 632 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 1: Like it's like, oh, you're the prop You're the prop 633 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 1: master for the ship movie, Like god make that. 634 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, have fun. Even the new the New Batman they 635 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 2: had like a muscle car version. Did you see the 636 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 2: new one yep yep with Riddler? Yeah, yeah, so awesome. 637 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 2: I definitely buy the Bat Movie. So that was a 638 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 2: good purchase. Yeah, that's good. Four point two mil. 639 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 1: You could buy multiple ones of that one two hundred, 640 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: you could buy both. Probably you could buy the Loreen 641 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 1: and that. 642 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,640 Speaker 3: I wonder how much it would be to custom make 643 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 3: your own batmobile. 644 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 2: I've better be cheaper, probably cheap. Yeah, maybe to do 645 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 2: a replica. 646 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean the replica you're paying for the 647 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: kish Yeah yeah, oh at all. 648 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 2: It's like that's the real one, you know what I mean? Right, 649 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 2: fuck it, I just I'd make a replica. That's what 650 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 2: I do. The second, what's one tangible thing you could 651 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 2: not go one day without? But I mean stay away. 652 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: From the basics like phones, comput or stuff like that, right, 653 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,479 Speaker 1: think about be a little bit more fun with it. 654 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: One tangible thing, I would say my three pm coffee. 655 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,679 Speaker 1: I gotta have my three pm coffee. Really, my midday 656 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 1: coffee is defines my day for sure. 657 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 2: I need it. So your three. 658 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 3: Pm coffee is like my lunch. Yeah, exactly, Like I 659 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 3: cannot wait for that. Yeah yeah, yeah, I have to. 660 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 1: I have to have a three pig And it also 661 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: it just feels like you know what, you know what 662 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: I might I might even say, jiggy a casino coffee. 663 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: I will say for me when I'm gambling, I love 664 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 1: if I have a cup of coffee in my hand. 665 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm having so much more fun and I actually feel 666 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: luckier if that makes any sense. 667 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 2: It doesn't. 668 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: But I just like feel like it's more of a 669 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,719 Speaker 1: thing if I got my casino coffee. Like if I'm 670 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: ends up like losing some money at the at a crap, 671 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: Jiggy's bad with me, a crap. Say, if I end 672 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: up losing some money, I'll be like, oh, I don't 673 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 1: even have a coffee. And then I'm like, oh, I 674 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 1: might be you know, but then I'd be like, oh, 675 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 1: this was one expensive cup of coffee. But like I think, 676 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: I think a cup of coffee is a tangible thing. 677 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: I can't go out with that. Coffee is a big 678 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: part of my life. 679 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you have one in the morning. I have 680 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 2: three cups a day. That's not healthy for you, right, 681 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know much about colleeans, do 682 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 2: you ask? Yeah, I love the smell of coffee. Yeah, 683 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: I know. 684 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: That's why you smell my breath all the time, he says, 685 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: Joe breathing my breathing my face. 686 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 2: Would you have the hazelnut? I would say a book, 687 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,719 Speaker 2: I have to have a book, you do, or a documentary. 688 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 2: I would say it's a big part of your life. Honestly, 689 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: I'm not my love docs, but I yeah, I love 690 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 2: every time I fly. I have to have a book. Well, 691 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: both of us. I don't know how our life would 692 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 2: be good without movies. Oh, dude, movies are the greatest. 693 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't ah man. I might replace coffee with a movie, really, 694 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: I might. My movies are such a huge part of 695 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: my life. 696 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: See everybody watches streaming. You gotta see the show, you 697 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 3: gotta see. I'm like, I'll just watch a movie movie. 698 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 699 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 3: I just watched The Killing by Stanley Kubrick. Uh, this 700 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 3: great kind of like heist film. Yeah, I've never even 701 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 3: heard of it, and so I was watching this documentary 702 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 3: about it on Stanley Kubrick, and I was like, The Killing. Wow, 703 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 3: I got to see that, and remember the Police Chief 704 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 3: and Godfather the Pacino Shoots. Yeah, he's the lead in it, 705 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 3: and he's young and handsome. Wow, this guy's like charismatic. 706 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 2: Did you make the connection or you knew that before? 707 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 2: I knew it. As soon as I watched it, I 708 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: was like, holy shit, he's from the Godfather. 709 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 3: And I looked on my Apple TV because you go 710 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 3: out of look and you see the other movie I love. 711 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 3: I checked that out and he was he was in it, 712 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 3: and he was the lead, and it's one of those 713 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 3: endings where it's just like, wow, don't tell people. 714 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: I won't tell you. But it's very like Ocean's eleven 715 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 2: really where it kind of hits you like, oh my god. 716 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 2: So it's called The Killing. I've never seen that, I 717 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 2: should say The. 718 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 3: Killing great film, black and white and just again like Kubrick, 719 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 3: the way he shoots things, it just aesthetically they look 720 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 3: unlike any other film. 721 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is about him. Would you say, so, 722 00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 2: now you have to go Booker movie? Which one? Which 723 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: is your tangible between Booker movie? 724 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 3: I'd say I absolutely say movie, because I probably watch 725 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 3: one a night or doc a knight when home home 726 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 3: and when I'm on the road, I definitely watch, oh 727 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 3: for sure a dock room movie after the show's. 728 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's just doing watching a movie with you watching 729 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: half of them falling asleep? 730 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 2: Are you not watching it in the bedroom? She doesn't. 731 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 2: We film in the bedroom. We don't watch. 732 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:21,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, like olda documentary the guys getting mind out, 733 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: the other making a documentary about being married. 734 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, she doesn't. 735 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,959 Speaker 3: She works so hard all day that when it's like 736 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 3: eight thirty, she's like good night. 737 00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, really, you can't watch anything. She's like, I would, 738 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 2: but I'm exhausted. Bessie is all dogged out. Same. 739 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, I'll be up till two or three 740 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 3: in the morning. 741 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 2: What time? Just get up in the morning. She's she's 742 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 2: a morning press and I'm not. Bessie's a five thirty 743 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 2: five with the dogs. Get up a six six yeah, 744 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 2: five thirty six, yeah, which is crazy. Yeah. Yeah. So 745 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know. 746 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: But I'm also been. I'm also and you are too. 747 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 1: But I think those of our lifestyles, we're night owls. 748 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean we're getting we're getting on stage at nine pm, 749 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: you know, eight pm, nine pm. Hmm, I don't know. 750 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 1: I would wonder. I mean, all a lot of movies 751 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: come out of books, but not a lot of not 752 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 1: a lot of books come out of movies. There's not 753 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 1: a movie first and somebody writes a book about it. 754 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: Does that ever happened? 755 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: No? Right, that's not a thing, right, a movie to book, 756 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 2: book to movie happens. No. 757 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 4: I actually think that's a very nineteen eighties thing, Like 758 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 4: you saw a lot of those like Indiana Jones movies 759 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 4: would come out and then they would write the novelization 760 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 4: of it. 761 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, how Star Wars came out? No, Star Wars was 762 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 2: books too. No, but they would go, oh, you're right, 763 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 2: it went back to book. 764 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm an asshole. I'm a complete stupid answer 765 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 1: the next question, I agreed with you, but I think 766 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 1: there were both assholes. 767 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 3: All right, this is coming us from Annetta. How do 768 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 3: I help a friend get over a relationship? The man 769 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 3: she fell in love with had a previous marriage and 770 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 3: a child, chose drugs and alcohol, lost that relationship. He 771 00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 3: would call my friends since they were friends, and get 772 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 3: a woman's perspective and advice. 773 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 2: That's how he got her hooked, lo and behold. 774 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 3: They started dating and had a kid. The minute he 775 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 3: found out she was pregnant. Here you go, this is 776 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 3: not funny. I'm so sorry. 777 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 2: The minute he found out she was pregnant, he kicked 778 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 2: her out. So it's just so factional. It's still not funny, 779 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 2: but it's like, oh my god, that's fucking upful something 780 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 2: A short story. 781 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 3: Then he found out she was pregnant, He kicked her 782 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 3: out and she had to move back in with her mom. 783 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 3: He's cheated on her, spend all his money on drugs 784 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 3: and alcohol, threw away his relationship with her and their kid. 785 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 2: She's still in love with him and wants to help him. 786 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do or say anymore. 787 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 3: I think I need too cool moms help you guys 788 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 3: are older and wiser and maybe can help me out. 789 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 2: Thank you. Wow, that's a that's a whole morsel of 790 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: situation going on there. You can only do so much. 791 00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 2: That's the that's the responsibility. 792 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: Mamma, Steve you you nailed. You nailed the hammer on 793 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: the head there. He really hadn't head shocked it, Mama say, mama, Mama, 794 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 1: Mama says, you're right. I mean, there is literally only 795 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: so much you could do because at the end of 796 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: the day, it's not your life, not your problem. 797 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,399 Speaker 2: Like I know, wanting to be there for your friends. 798 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 1: I've had seen many friends make many bad choices and 799 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: have had to help them to the best of my ability. 800 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:23,879 Speaker 2: But there's at the end of the day, there's only 801 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 2: so much you could do. 802 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you could be supportive, you can be there for 803 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 3: your friend, but you know she ultimately is going to 804 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 3: make these decisions. And I think it's it's that that 805 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 3: person is in a difficult situation because not only did 806 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 3: she get like dumped and kicked out of the hell, 807 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 3: she has a kid with the guy, so I think 808 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 3: I think anybody would. And he's not yarning for it too, 809 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:47,879 Speaker 3: but he's not right. 810 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: He's probably not helping to pay or anything like that too, 811 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 1: so she's probably addicted. 812 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: He's an addict. 813 00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,600 Speaker 1: It sounds like, yeah, I've had friends in my life 814 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: where situations have gotten too big for me to handle, 815 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 1: and the only way that I knew how to handle 816 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 1: them was remove myself from the situation. I had friends 817 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 1: who fell in the you know, mid late nineties, early 818 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 1: two thousands, fell in the drugs, and I wasn't a 819 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: drink taker, but we'd all go out together and have 820 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: a good time. And it got to a point where 821 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: I was the only one that was sober, and it 822 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: started affecting my night and I wasn't having fun. I 823 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: didn't feel right about any of it, and I was 824 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 1: like I had I remember sitting them all down talking 825 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: to them. It was literally all of them and me, 826 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: and I was the only one not doing anything. I 827 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,440 Speaker 1: was like, guys, this isn't fun for me anymore. So 828 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,919 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna do this anymore. I said, 829 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: you know, I wish you guys all the best, but 830 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: this is not my kind of thing. I love to 831 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: hang out with you, like, you know, when we're not 832 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: going out and stuff, but I can't go out anymore. 833 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I remember that talk. 834 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: Right after that talk, one of my friends said, oh, no, 835 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: I just won't do anything anymore. Then right in that moment, 836 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: I said really and he he said yeah. He goes like, 837 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,879 Speaker 1: be losing you or losing this is like, no. 838 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 2: Way, I did beat you. So I was like, oh, 839 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 2: so that was cool. 840 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,959 Speaker 1: So maybe it might be a situation where you can 841 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: be like, hey, like I've done all I can. 842 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 2: It's affecting me now. It's hurting me watching you hurt sure. 843 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: I you know, I'm just gonna wish you the best 844 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 1: and hopefully you'll be okay. And it might take something 845 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: like that for her to realize, wow, I need to 846 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: really think about this in a different way of like 847 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 1: the people that love me and support me, you know, 848 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 1: are telling me and I'm just it might make their 849 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: ears open in a different way. 850 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, you hope. So obviously when there's a child involved, 851 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 2: you hope for the best for the kid. But yeah, 852 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 2: well that's a tough one. That's a tough one. 853 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 1: That's a big one. That's what we handle here two 854 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: cool moms. It's not all bread and butter. It's not 855 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 1: all what's your favorite tangible thing or what movie do 856 00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 1: you like? Sometimes we get into that. We put us 857 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: sleeves up the weeds. Yeah, they call it the weeds 858 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 1: of life. 859 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:32,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would. 860 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,759 Speaker 1: I would you've done if you feel like you've done 861 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: as much as you could with this friend, but there 862 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 1: also might be more that you can do. Think about 863 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,759 Speaker 1: what you can do, think about honestly, take a look 864 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 1: in the mirror and be like, have I done everything 865 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: I can to help this person? 866 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 2: And realize what they could do? 867 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you feel like it, you know, I mean 868 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: they're like you said, there's only so much you can do, 869 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: and if you feel like you've done everything you can, 870 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 1: you just have to exist in this reality for your friend. 871 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 2: Sure, I can't believe he kicked her out when she 872 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:55,840 Speaker 2: was pregnant. 873 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: I mean, that is that's a hard, lower, low life move, 874 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:00,360 Speaker 1: you know. 875 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 2: But hey, we don't have all the information. It's like 876 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 2: something you joke about, right, you don't really It's like 877 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:05,720 Speaker 2: you wrote that story. 878 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh the poor girl. 879 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 2: I hope whomever she is sending love her way. 880 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, but the good news is it sounds like she's 881 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 3: got a great friend. 882 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 2: That is what we call the silver lining. You know, 883 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,439 Speaker 2: you are. 884 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 3: Pretty cool, pretty cool way it's coming to us from Julian. Hey, guys, 885 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,239 Speaker 3: I have a question for both of you. So right now, 886 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 3: I'm a junior in high school and I'm getting kind. 887 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 2: Of upset at myself. 888 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 3: In my pe class, I'm always one of the last 889 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 3: people picked to be on someone's team, and I understand 890 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 3: why because I have terrible hand eye coordination at sports. 891 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,439 Speaker 3: But I feel like most people in my class could 892 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 3: be talking bad about me behind my back because I suck. 893 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 3: I was born with spastic cerebral palsy, where my leg 894 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 3: muscles are really tight, so it's harder for me to 895 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 3: keep up when it comes to moving fast or anything. 896 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 3: No one knows though, because it's mild, so I look 897 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 3: completely normal. And I don't want to tell everyone I'm 898 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,200 Speaker 3: unathletic just because I'm disabled, because to me, it seems 899 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 3: like an excuse or I or like I want attention. 900 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 3: I just want to ask you, guys, if I should 901 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,720 Speaker 3: be telling people about my disability or if I should 902 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,839 Speaker 3: just do something else. I hope this wasn't too much 903 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 3: to read and isn't a Debbie Downer kind of question. 904 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:26,000 Speaker 3: Thanks Julian, that's a that's a thank. 905 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 2: You Julian for writting in. I appreciate great. This is 906 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:32,839 Speaker 2: a good question. Uh, my first thing? Do I tell 907 00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 2: people about my disability? Okay? 908 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: So the first thing that you have to in my 909 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: opinion too, is accept your full self, like this is 910 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:40,919 Speaker 1: part of you. 911 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:41,359 Speaker 2: You're not. 912 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: It's it's It's different than keeping like a secret. It's 913 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 1: kind of more like this is a part of you 914 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,840 Speaker 1: and it actually impacts part of your life. 915 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: So people aren't going to see as an excuse. I 916 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 2: don't think. 917 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,440 Speaker 1: I think that people will just be more under it, 918 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 1: which I hope and I because I hope you're the 919 00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:58,359 Speaker 1: best humanity. But I think people would understand that, oh, 920 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: this is the result of something, because I know, if 921 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,320 Speaker 1: I flip and reverse it, if I miss Elliott this 922 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 1: shit and I'm looking at it from the flip side, 923 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: on the other side of the mirror, saying who's the 924 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 1: fairest of them all, I would say it's Julian, because 925 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: the thing for me is if I knew that he 926 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 1: that was the reason I would feel like shit if 927 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: I was making and I'm not saying that it's making 928 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 1: fun of him, but I would feel like shit, and 929 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:21,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't make fun of him, right, So, and he 930 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: doesn't one hundred percent know that they are making fun 931 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 1: of him, but he feels like it. So but I 932 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,360 Speaker 1: would just say, I think you need to embrace that 933 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,080 Speaker 1: part of your personality and part of that's part of 934 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 1: who you are, that's what you're dealing with, that's your reality. 935 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 1: So embrace it and live your life as that person, 936 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: not trying to put up a front that you are 937 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 1: something you're not. 938 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. I really respect the fact that Julian. 939 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 3: Hasn't made himself a victim and like in this day 940 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 3: and age, we're just like, oh, I have a slight 941 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 3: and here's why you should you know, find solace or 942 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,200 Speaker 3: you know, give me more likes or whatever the case 943 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 3: might be. I really respect the fact that Julian has 944 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,240 Speaker 3: kind of kept this to himself. 945 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 946 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 3: I always just go back to that template of the 947 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 3: Rudyard Kipling poem. If and it's talking about you know, 948 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what people say, is it's just about 949 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 3: your own truth. The whole poem is just keeping your 950 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:15,920 Speaker 3: own truth. It doesn't matter people lie about you, does it. 951 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 3: You don't get too high in your horse all these things. 952 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 3: I think it's one of those things where it's like 953 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 3: going back to what you're saying, Yeah, you know who 954 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:27,399 Speaker 3: you are, Embrace yourself, appreciate who you are, and those 955 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 3: hiccups make you who you are at the end of 956 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 3: the day, and it shapes your outlook on life, how 957 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 3: you interact with people. I guarantee Julian's a hell of 958 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,840 Speaker 3: a lot more sympathetic sure to anybody with a slight 959 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 3: than nine times out of ten people, you know. So 960 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 3: I think, just live your own truth, go through it, 961 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 3: just go okay they don't understand. But it's also like 962 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 3: I don't need to brag about it. I just keep 963 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 3: to myself it is what it is. There's plenty of 964 00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,960 Speaker 3: things I'm not good at. Yeah, sure, but my wife 965 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:05,719 Speaker 3: will tell you, you know, it's you know, where to begin. 966 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 2: Where to end? 967 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:13,359 Speaker 1: Really, I would think, I, you know, it's This also 968 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 1: brings up another weird point where people who say it 969 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 1: doesn't matter what like other people say what other people 970 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: are saying. But in this in this part, it's affecting 971 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: his reality in a way, because it's kind of like 972 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,400 Speaker 1: when somebody says something to you and they don't understand 973 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,319 Speaker 1: the whole truth, and you have the whole truth right, 974 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: and you kind of just want to be like stupid, Right, 975 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 1: this is why, you know what I mean? So I 976 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,799 Speaker 1: feel like that's he's dealing with that because it makes 977 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 1: it even harder if you understand why and people don't 978 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: understand why and people are. 979 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 2: Saying things right. 980 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: So I mean, I just think I just go back 981 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 1: to that is who you are, you know, so be 982 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:47,920 Speaker 1: your true self. 983 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 3: But I'll also tell you this, he's got another year 984 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 3: and a half of it, So think of it that. 985 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 2: Think of it that way. 986 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,439 Speaker 3: You got one more year to plow through your junior now, 987 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 3: then you'll be a senior. You never have to deal 988 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,879 Speaker 3: with this shit again, and ten fifteen years from now 989 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 3: it'll be a blip on the radar. And again it 990 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,480 Speaker 3: just shapes your character and who you are and defines 991 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 3: you as a person. And I think anytime you have, 992 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 3: you know, any hiccup or anything, it just or. 993 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 2: The hiccups in general, or the hiccups in general. 994 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it really makes you a more empathetic 995 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 3: and sympathetic person as you forge forward in your own life. 996 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,280 Speaker 3: So as much as it may seem like a handicap, 997 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 3: it's actually a strength. I think as you go forward 998 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:36,600 Speaker 3: and you're interacting with people and meeting people, especially as 999 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 3: you go off to college for sure, the workplace or whatever. 1000 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 3: So I think you got a bright future ahead of you. Julian, 1001 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 3: And I think the fact that you've kept this kind 1002 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,400 Speaker 3: of to yourself, it's almost like having a superpower. 1003 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,280 Speaker 2: Yeah that's pretty cool. Yeah, so we love you, Julian. 1004 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, Julian and just I'll never played basketball. Ye, yeah, 1005 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 3: you suck, especially if it's for like money, like what 1006 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 3: men can't jump? Like sure, fuck no, you're not my kingbody. 1007 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:01,879 Speaker 3: You know you're a nice guy. But by the way, 1008 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 3: i'd be right next to you because basketball is the 1009 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 3: worst sport for me. 1010 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,160 Speaker 2: I'm horrible. Really, is the only one I'm actually not 1011 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 2: I'm not good at it, so I would get picked 1012 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 2: less than that. 1013 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,160 Speaker 1: Hockey is the number one for you if you have 1014 00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,840 Speaker 1: to play, hockey is my number one. Mine's tied between 1015 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:19,719 Speaker 1: bowling and volleyball. Those aren't sports that says the man 1016 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 1: who can't play. 1017 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 2: Neither. Should we do what? One more? One more? This 1018 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 2: is Jiggy telling me this. It's forty five minutes. Hes 1019 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,320 Speaker 2: like this, he goes, there's not even one five and 1020 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,319 Speaker 2: there he goes like that. It's like, what is this? 1021 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 2: Like this are you doing? 1022 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 1: Are you practicing mining? We should get maybe a light 1023 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 1: or something. We should make this, we should make this 1024 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: spot like this is I go, there you go. 1025 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 2: That works. That's the way to do it, all right? 1026 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 2: Last one? Well we got we gotta talk for one more. 1027 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, Emma, not a question, but random idea I sent 1028 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 3: to Steve Wiley go. I rarely check dm s, so 1029 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 3: sorry about this. Am I funny idea for our two 1030 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 3: Cool Moms episode. 1031 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:08,880 Speaker 2: If we think it would be fun, stopped onto this one. 1032 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 2: Do a different one. This is a real good one. 1033 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 2: It's gonna take us a while. Okay, we'll do that 1034 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 2: one tomorrow. Okay, let me do a trying to find 1035 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:24,200 Speaker 2: a short one and pick it up clean for us too. 1036 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 2: I mean, they're they're pretty serious after this. Do you 1037 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 2: want a serious one? 1038 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 1: It could be serious. If it's gonna be the ens, 1039 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,720 Speaker 1: it could be shorter. That other one's like playing a game. Okay, 1040 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,360 Speaker 1: do a clean all right. I think you're saying we 1041 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: have time for one more. 1042 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 3: Okay, this is coming to us from I can't get James. 1043 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 3: I have a weird one in a million situation. I 1044 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,760 Speaker 3: was on a bachelor party trip to Charleston, Charleston, South Carolina. 1045 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 3: The groom and other groomsmen were being assholes to me 1046 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 3: and we were there for four days and the last 1047 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 3: evening I had enough of it and walked off from 1048 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 3: the group. I told them I'm heading to this bar 1049 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,879 Speaker 3: nearby and didn't want to talk to them. They kept 1050 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,399 Speaker 3: on trying to talk to me, but I just would 1051 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 3: stay silent. A couple days later, text, I text them 1052 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,600 Speaker 3: and I'm like ready to talk now. In two days, 1053 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 3: they decided they couldn't trust me and kick. 1054 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:21,040 Speaker 2: Me out of the wedding. 1055 00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,279 Speaker 3: I told them, well, then you're gonna just have to 1056 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 3: pay for this six hundred dollars suit I just got. 1057 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,319 Speaker 3: They told me no at the time, but then I 1058 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,440 Speaker 3: sent a letter acting like I talked to a lawyer. 1059 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 3: After that they were willing to talk and paid me. 1060 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 3: It's been almost two months since the wedding. Should I 1061 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 3: cut my losses and try and not try to mend things, 1062 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,439 Speaker 3: or how do I go about mending things. I've always 1063 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 3: been closer to the bride than the groom. Wow, that's crazy. 1064 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:53,759 Speaker 2: That is nothing. 1065 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,799 Speaker 1: So they kick him out of the He he's not 1066 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 1: having a good what's going on at the bachelor party 1067 00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 1: that he doesn't like it? Maybe it's getting a little 1068 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 1: too crazy. It's not for him and not his speed. 1069 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 2: The groom and the other grooms when we're being assholes 1070 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 2: to me, we're therefore to him. So he's getting picked on. 1071 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 1: He didn't like the way he's being treated. So you 1072 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 1: have the writer moviees off in that situation. Fine, but 1073 00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 1: he's closer to the bride. Yeah, so maybe they felt 1074 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: obligated to bring him. So that's that's the first part. Yeah, well, 1075 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 1: how much do you miss the bride? Great, because it 1076 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:22,560 Speaker 1: all ends with the almost telling sentence at the end 1077 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: there is I'm more close with the bride anyway. Okay, 1078 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: so how much do you miss having the bride in 1079 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,440 Speaker 1: your life as a friend? 1080 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,479 Speaker 2: Right? So then dude, cut your losses. Yeah, I would 1081 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 2: just get out of that situation. For me, there's no mending, 1082 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 2: there's no need for that. 1083 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 3: She's married, she's gonna be over time. She's going to 1084 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,279 Speaker 3: spend more time with her husband, and just you know 1085 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:40,320 Speaker 3: that's going to be a problem. 1086 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1087 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can check in with their center of text 1088 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 3: every now. Hi, Kathie, how are your husband? 1089 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:50,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? And just who cares the suit? Take it? Who cares? 1090 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 1: He got the money for it? But you know what, 1091 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,879 Speaker 1: here's something for you. I'm just gonna go there. This 1092 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 1: this guy pretends to be a lawyer to get a 1093 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,440 Speaker 1: six hundred dollars. That's such a kind of person he is. 1094 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:00,879 Speaker 1: It's a letter, he says. 1095 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he's just a liar. Yeah, well to suit. 1096 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 2: I mean that's good. You got your money back. But 1097 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 2: I think you know you got your money back, you. 1098 00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 3: Keep your It's not like you're It's not like you 1099 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 3: only were going to wear that suit to just one wedding. 1100 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 2: It's not like the Grammys. For sure, You're gonna wear 1101 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 2: that suit forever. Yeah. No, I think I think I agree. 1102 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything to mend here, my friend. 1103 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 2: I think you move on. Yeah, that's it. 1104 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:27,960 Speaker 1: I said, you know, you know, you check out what 1105 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 1: they say, you know, the because the bride knows the 1106 00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,920 Speaker 1: whole situation. I'm sure, you know, yeah, he will used 1107 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 1: to be in the wedding, now he's not. She had 1108 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 1: to get the scoop skinny dupe from the friend here 1109 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 1: from the from the boyfriend turned fiance turned husband. 1110 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you turn about face and don't even go 1111 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 3: to the wedding, yeah, it's like it's over. 1112 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you already. Yeah, you've already decided there's 1113 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 2: no mending. Yeah, I think maybe here. 1114 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: I mean, the only thing that I'm worried about is like, 1115 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 1: did he what made him say this? Does he not 1116 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,479 Speaker 1: want to look like a jerk? Does he genuinely missed 1117 00:47:58,600 --> 00:47:59,360 Speaker 1: his friendship? 1118 00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:02,360 Speaker 2: You know? What's the motivator behind this all? Why do 1119 00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:04,120 Speaker 2: you want to get back into it? For me? 1120 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:05,880 Speaker 1: At this point, I would just like keep going, move on. 1121 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 1: I think we're an agreeance. Yeah, the too cool moms. 1122 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's uh, that's what we call some pretty cool 1123 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,240 Speaker 3: advice from two cool moms. 1124 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. I know it might not be what you want 1125 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:19,000 Speaker 2: to hear, but this is just how we play it. 1126 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 2: It's just nice and cool, cool guys. This is what 1127 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 2: we do. Guys, moms. That's it. 1128 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: The minivan has been started. 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