1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: and culture, start with headline news and then journey to 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, Marcel Swally. That dude, 6 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: how you. 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: Guys out there feeling as good as I look right now? 8 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Extra Crispy got my graduation cut so I could represent 10 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: from a daughter so she could point at her daddy, 11 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: and then everybody said, where your daddy? 12 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: That ain't your brother? You know how it goes. 13 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: I got a lot of love for where I'm about 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: to head right now, Pump to see my daughter walk 15 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: across that stage with those heels and that gown and 16 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 1: throw that tassel and let's go into this world world 17 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 1: and tackle it and handle it. 18 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: Pump, Pump, pump. But you know how we start off 19 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: every show with what's up with that? Dude? 20 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: Well, your boy went to a spot again, had another 21 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: meeting again with a couple of cats that once again 22 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: we're talking pickleball. Pickleball man. Just lett y'all know, if 23 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: you don't already know. The next wave, which is the 24 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: wave right now, is pickaball. Everybody is trying to get 25 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: into that sport and from a brand perspective as well, 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: So obviously I got an affinity for the sport. 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: I play it. I have a pick a ball court 28 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 2: and a lot of my friends challenge me. 29 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: And surprisingly, even though I can't move as well as 30 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: I used to. 31 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I can't move well at all, but 32 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: I'm good at pickleball. 33 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: Man. 34 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 2: I love it. 35 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: It's a great sport where grandparents can play their grandkids 36 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: and still have some fun and get a little activity in. 37 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 2: So all is good on that front. 38 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna try and join these forces and to 39 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: hit the marketplace and hit it big. 40 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 2: Well. 41 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: See, I also went to Takekwando. Don't want to tell 42 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 1: y'all my schedule every single show, but y'all got to 43 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: get y'all kids into some martial arts. I don't know 44 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: which one. Could be karate, yah, it could be takekwando, 45 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: it could be whatever you want, jiu jitsu, a little gangster, 46 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: the little dude on the ground, just trustling with people. 47 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: Whatever you want to do, but get them into it 48 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: because the mental discipline, how they get locked in, how 49 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: they start to see how they can contribute to something 50 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: greater than themselves in terms of them being with their 51 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: other classmates and the discipline and respecting their space, respecting 52 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: your space. But also if you look at that wall, 53 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: you see those belts and those different colors. Every time 54 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: I go, I'm just fascinated at how it's designed to 55 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: really build up great little kids into adults of high character. 56 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: Very few people I know that no martial arts. 57 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: That are assholes, that are bad people, that got bad character, 58 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 1: that are not disciplined, that are not hard workers. Like 59 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: you know, just something about that man. It seems like 60 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: it's a secret sauce over there. So make sure you 61 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: guys get you a little taste of that secret sauce 62 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: for your iddy bitties. 63 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 2: And other than that. 64 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: Last night, man was watching that Legger game, looked over 65 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: the wife of sleep. I was like, damn, don't I 66 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 1: got a trip to take tomorrow. You know what that 67 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: means appointment? I got an appointment with your lady. Wake 68 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: up and let's think about pro creating something. 69 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: Let me. 70 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,839 Speaker 1: She ain't even wake up. Dog Lakers didn't wake up either. 71 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: They were sleeping through that whole game as well. Man, 72 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,679 Speaker 1: we knew that Lakers weren't gonna win that game. We'll 73 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: talk through that later, but right now, let's get the 74 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: show started with topic number one, women's pay gap in sports. 75 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: Let's talk through it. The women's tennis world has been 76 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: shaken of late because they're Italian Open is going to 77 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: pay women the same amount they're gonna pay men. However, 78 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: they're not doing it today. Supposedly, all that's supposed to 79 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: take place in a. 80 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 2: Couple of years. 81 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: So the world ranked number seven, I don't know how 82 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: to say her name ans Jopya. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I 83 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: gotta go to her country and get that one right. Sorry, disrespectful. 84 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: I'm John Anderson and I just disrespected your name. Man, 85 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: y'all need to stop playing. You know, when people call 86 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: me Marcus, I don't give a damn long as I 87 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: know you talking to me, I get you, big dog, 88 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: and I'll correct you. But she's the number seven in 89 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: the world, and she says the female players shouldn't have 90 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: to wait to receive the same prize money as their 91 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: male counterparts. As the Italian Open and their tournament organizers 92 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: announce the plans to get that pay parody in twenty 93 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: twenty five. Well, she has a point already. If we're 94 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: gonna do it while we can't do it right now. 95 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: Now that's a point, doesn't mean that that is everything, 96 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: and that's the entire premise now to get to that point, 97 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: maybe they're making some adjustments, maybe they're making some constellations, 98 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: Maybe they're looking to get future earnings and future sponsorship 99 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: to support that. You don't know what their game plan is. 100 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: You just know how you want the game to end. 101 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: So sometimes you can't rush someone in this situation. But 102 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: pay parody is the discussion, right, So she is talking 103 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: about what tennis has been seeking, which is trying to 104 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:49,279 Speaker 1: be the leader in the battle of equality in terms 105 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: of pay equity, all right, with equal prize money going 106 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: to the men and the women at the four Grand Slams, 107 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: that's what they're trying to do, all right. Here's something 108 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: of evidence. WTA tour events, they still offer less prize 109 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 1: money than to the women than they do to the men. 110 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: In the Rome tournament, the total financial commitment for the 111 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: men nine and a half million, for the women three 112 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: and a half million. Ooh, we're gonna talk about why, 113 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: all right, So all of this is happening. I could 114 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: bore you with some of the details, but basically, there 115 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: are some events that already have equal the pay field. 116 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 2: Right. 117 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: Similar events like Indian Wells where I go all the 118 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 1: time shout out to BNP PA, Ribas, Miami Madrid offer 119 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: equal pay for the women, although they're listed as mandatory 120 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 1: tournaments also for the players. 121 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Now, the last. 122 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: Thing about this is they go out there and say, 123 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 1: and some of the tennis players are speaking out and saying, 124 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 1: I don't know why it's not equal right now. They 125 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: didn't inform us. They say, this is what you get 126 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 1: and you have to play. Okay, why is there this 127 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: big pay gap, any equality for the women and men 128 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: in sports? 129 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 2: Well, do you really want to hear the answer? Right? 130 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: I always tell people when people ask me to hey, 131 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: Marcell's I got a question for you, I'm like, all right, 132 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: it's gonna be one of those kinds of questions. All right, 133 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: it's a good question. And they asked the question, I said, 134 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: do you really want the answer? 135 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 2: Okay? 136 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: All right, let's go through the major sports in our 137 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: country is football. Let's go with the counter of women 138 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: in football. So that will be what the professional women's 139 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: football league, which they actually have. I hope you guys 140 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: support or Legends League, which is the lingerie league, right basically, 141 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,679 Speaker 1: And so there's no equality in terms of pay gap 142 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: in football basketball, all right, let's do it the NBA 143 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: and WNBA and can't go there, right. WNBA is actually 144 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: in the red right they are always subsidized by the NBA. Okay, 145 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: Well it's the other major sports baseball and can't go there. 146 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: Why baseball? Major League Baseball? And what softball? Is there 147 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: a professional women's softball league? So well that's a struggle 148 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: with a k Okay, what's the other one? 149 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 2: Major sports? Hockey? All right? And professional women's hockey lee? 150 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: All right, So now we go to the auxiliary sports, right, 151 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: the ancillary sports, the other sports. And this is as 152 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: a parent, as a father of three girls, I understood this. 153 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: I used to always say, man, that tennis and golf, 154 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: that's where it's at. That's where it's if you have girls, 155 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: do not let them play Well, let me say it 156 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: the right way. Let them play whatever they want. But 157 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: they gotta play golf and tennis or one of them. 158 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 2: You have to. If not, you're robbing them of a 159 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 2: career opportunity. Think about it. If they play. 160 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: Any of the other sports and they're amazing, even softball people. 161 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: I know some parents that play their kids play softball 162 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: just for the scholarship, and that's it. 163 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: That's it. Volleyball, that's it. 164 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: All right, there's a women's professional volleyball circuit, but I 165 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: know some of them on that tour tough sled. 166 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 2: Let's just say that. 167 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: Okay, So golf and tennis, and that's why this is 168 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: taking the lead. That's why tennis is taking the charge 169 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: of saying we're gonna be first and we're gonna do 170 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: it because they're justified and doing it. It's just that 171 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: simple between the audience in the ratings and attendance for 172 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: men and women. I mean, you can squint and maybe 173 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: find a difference, but most times you won't. Matter of fact, 174 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: in terms of sponsorship and brand building, you can look 175 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: at some of the women who are outpacing the men. 176 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 2: So in that sport, it's not. 177 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: Like they are sitting there altruistically with this big pure 178 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 1: heart saying yeah equality, they're actually being supported by. 179 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, they are bringing in the dough women in tennis. 180 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: Golf is right there close second as well, close second, 181 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: but still distant second. Right, So that's why we're talking 182 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: about tennis in terms of pay equity, and that's why 183 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: we're not gonna talk about it in any other sport 184 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: except maybe golf. 185 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 2: Pretty interesting right there. 186 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: Right, somebody comes out out and sounds waxed poetic about oh, 187 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: we're gonna take care of the men and the women, 188 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: and you say, yeah, equality, and then you realize, oh, 189 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: y'all just getting paid to do that, and say that, man, 190 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: feeling good. Thank you guys for your viewership on Brings 191 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: TV and your membership into Wyley's World. I keep getting 192 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: members I like that. Loves you guys for it. All right, 193 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: let's talk about Anthony Davis. But right now, let's just 194 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: be real. Even as teammates, Man, you gotta be losing 195 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: love for Anthony Davis because he just keeps getting hurt. 196 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: As we used to say when I play, you can't 197 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: get right. You ever met Mr can't get right? Just 198 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: no matter what, can't get right. Pig Pin always Dusty 199 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: always got a problem. God dog, Anthony David stay hurt. 200 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 1: I guess they were saying that about me because I 201 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: stayed hurt too, but I was having surgeries. This sucker 202 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: just be having issues, right, like, I'll get into it, 203 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: all right. So he left midway through the fourth quarter. 204 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: We saw they were down at the. 205 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 2: Time, what twelve eleven, and then you look up they 206 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 2: were down on eleven twelve, So it's like, where's the difference. 207 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: But they could have made a run with the defensive presence, 208 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: especially of Anthony Davis. 209 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: But that happened in the fourth quarter. He got struck 210 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: in the head accidentally. 211 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 2: By Kevin Looney. All right, Kevon Looney, we get it 212 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 2: all right. 213 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: So while both players they were over their position in 214 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 1: the lane, Daniel Russell was going in for the layout. 215 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: I hit ad. Now this is where it gets interesting. 216 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 1: So he was initially evaluated on the bench by the 217 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: Lakers athletic training staff and before he went back in 218 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: the arena to the back room for further medical attention. 219 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: But that was one part of this story that made 220 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: it really interesting. They put him in a wheelchair and 221 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: carded him to the training room after filling quote unquote woozy, Okay, 222 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 1: you take an elbow to the head. Oh yeah, it's 223 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: gonna be a problem. And I'm not just talking about 224 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: like a controlled elbow, because I know everybody like man 225 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: I've been hitting the head with elbow before game let's 226 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: say game five, fourth quarter backs against the wall, against 227 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: the reigning champions. One of their their big like they're 228 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: big oaths, they're big bodies, right, one of their shields, 229 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: y'all hit you upside here? 230 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 2: That does hurt? I give Anthony Davis that. 231 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 1: However, when I saw him on the sideline and I 232 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: was looking, and you know, I've been hurt so many times, 233 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: I think I know body language and I'm an expert 234 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: on that body language when compromised, when hurt, and I 235 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: was looking at him, I was like, Okay, this is 236 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: the production that we talk about all the time on 237 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 1: this show. There's a production when you lose a game, right, 238 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: Oh come on, man, damn, come on, y'all. You know 239 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: you gotta do the production. Meanwhile, your phone goes off, 240 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 1: and also you're doing all that, and you're like, oh, man, damn, 241 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: it's a production. Even though it hurts you feel it. 242 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that everyone's faking it. 243 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 2: I'm saying there's a layer of sauce and condiments that 244 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 2: you pour on it because you know everybody is trying 245 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 2: to read your response, so you give it to him 246 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 2: all right. 247 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: Now, there's also a production when you get injured. So 248 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: Anthony Davis gets hurt. And then your trainer with the 249 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: mask on do was like, hey man, you're looking real 250 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 1: soft out here right now. 251 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 2: How you feel, Anthony? You can't see? 252 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 1: Hey, hey man, you bet it's tough enough. Man, it's 253 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 1: the fourth quarter of a game, a little nature game. 254 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: We can get these fools out. 255 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: You good, Anthony. 256 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: Anthony just sitting there going like this, he doing like this, 257 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, all right, look, rubbing your head ain't 258 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:31,359 Speaker 1: gonna help nobody. 259 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: Including you, like what. 260 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: And then and then the guy you can tell, the 261 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 1: guy was like, I think you're okay, or he was 262 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: just like trying to push him and urge him. Hey, 263 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: DoD know the moment right now, can you play? And 264 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: if the answer is a yes, you should be out there. 265 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: Are you gonna die in this moment? If the answer 266 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 1: is a no, get your butt out there. And Anthony 267 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: was just like and then this is when I was like, 268 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 1: all right, now I found his teammate. 269 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 2: I'm questioning him and it's okay. 270 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: All you guys who have big hearts out there in 271 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: the common section, don't ever. 272 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: Question the man's toughness or how he feels. 273 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna do that because I've been questioning as well, 274 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: and I know there are levels to this. Right, So 275 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm looking at a walk away and he just you 276 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: know that last walk away. When he turned the corner, 277 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: he knew he was still in camera shot. 278 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 2: He was like, this. 279 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:21,079 Speaker 1: Man, look, this is not a wake up in the morning. 280 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't want to go to work, 281 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: so let me make my excuse up kind of r like, 282 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: what kind of moment is this, Andy David? This game 283 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: five dore, you on the road, this team could get 284 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: put away. You get your butt back in the game 285 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 1: and let's play. And then this is one all right? 286 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: So I don't tweet stuff like that out. I don't 287 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: like to go that far. I just got jokes, right, 288 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: Everything I say always is with a joke, damn it. 289 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: So then I'm like, all right, I want to tell everybody, yo, 290 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: he faking this a little bit. 291 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 2: So then he went even further. He went to the wheelchair. 292 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 2: I said, ah, Paul Pierce in the building. 293 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: I said, ah, I said, this dude is really doing it, 294 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: and I don't understand why. But there are some people 295 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: who like woe is me. Some people just like the 296 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 1: negative fatims. Some people do for real. Some people just 297 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: can't get right because they like that. And then there's 298 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: another person out there who's like, I want you to 299 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: need me clamor for me, always need me when I'm 300 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: not there, you feel my loss. And then there's some 301 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 1: people just soft like ah, and then you're like, dog, 302 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: that didn't hurt like that? 303 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 2: Did it hit me? 304 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: And then you always say, well hit me like that. 305 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: See man ain't hurting, and you're like, cause you're tougher, 306 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: that person is softer. And I do know that because 307 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: my wife is soft and sensitive like that, like little 308 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: things really hurt her. She exaggerates them too. She'll let 309 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: you know. My son is the same way. Right, My 310 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: two little girls, shoot man, they running. They are running 311 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: to a truck and ask the truck how you feel? 312 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: Like seriously, they don't care. So I do understand that. 313 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: Anthony Davis a he one of them. 314 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 2: He like my son. I get it. 315 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: So then you go beyond that. I'm like, all right, 316 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm good at that. You hear the reports. He looked good, 317 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: he looked fine. Darvin Ham's talking about it. He walks 318 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: to the bus no problem. I'm sure he's not doing 319 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: this when he's walking to the bus there's no cameras. 320 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: Sure he's not doing this where he's on there talking 321 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: to Lebrono probably like brother, if you don't stop playing. 322 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: So point being, I thought it was done then, and 323 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: then I watched inside the NBA and I saw Charles 324 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: and Ernie. Ernie, you are amazing at what you do, 325 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: but you gotta let moments like this just live, have 326 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: a life of his own. Ernie was over there playing 327 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: hating on this moment. I don't get the joke. 328 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 2: All right, guys, come on, man, stay on topic. 329 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: Like them dudes were clown and Anthony Davis in the wheelchair. 330 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: That's part of the camaraderie that comes with sports. We're 331 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: taking you guys behind the veil, right That's why I'm 332 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: in the locker room right now. 333 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 2: This is the locker room. 334 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: This is the show where we talk it like they 335 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: really talk it and walk it. Trust me, every brown 336 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: on the Lakers got jokes for Anthony Davis. They're only 337 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: gonna be funny if they win this series. All right, 338 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: let's talk about college basketball star. I'm not a star, huh. 339 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 2: I got a jumping in ohe hundred. 340 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: Dickenson applies nil a factor in transfer to Kansas from Michigan. 341 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 2: Go from Kansas to Michigan. 342 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: Let's talk about why, he said, Well, it was an 343 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: increase in my name, image and likeness for y'all who 344 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: like acronyms in il earnings played a role in his decision. 345 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: Is transfer to Kansas? 346 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 2: All right? So who is it? You know? 347 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: He's an ap All American Honorable Mentioned average eighteen and 348 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: a half points nine rebounds as a junior at Michigan 349 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 1: last season. 350 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so his. 351 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: Critics are clowning and mad at him because he made 352 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: this transfer. Well, he went on his own podcast, Roundball 353 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: Good Name, and he broke it down. He said, look, 354 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: quote the people hating on. 355 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 2: Me, why you wanna play hate on me loonies. If 356 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 2: y'all don't know that song, google it is dope. All right. 357 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: The people hating on me will leave their job right 358 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: now for a ten thousand dollars increase I got at 359 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 1: Michigan less than six figures. I got less than six 360 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:09,239 Speaker 1: figures at Michigan for the year. Damn that dude had 361 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: to double down and say it again like he ain't 362 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: said it the first time, said it with his chest 363 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 1: the second time. Right now, he's the number one transfer 364 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: in ESPN's rankings in the portal, and everyone is saying 365 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: when I say everyone. 366 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 2: I loosely mean that. But y'all know how the game go. 367 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: They he made a selfish decision. Ah, but it's a 368 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 1: rival elevated Kansas. Yes it did, all right, so let's 369 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: do that. He said, I still do love Michigan, all right. 370 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: I still do love Michigan, all right? How meany classes? Well, 371 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: these athletes be telling on themselves. I still do love Michigan. 372 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: I still there. 373 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 2: You go. You gotta write second. I still love the 374 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 2: school and everything. I love the program. 375 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: That's why it was so hard to leave, because I 376 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: really didn't want to leave. I didn't, but I just 377 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: felt like, man, it was the best decision for me. 378 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: It took a lot of courage. I don't think people 379 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 1: realize how much courage it took for a guy who 380 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: was there for three years and all. 381 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:08,200 Speaker 2: American for the team. Wooh woo. Pat myself on the back. 382 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 2: I did have a legacy there, Oh my god. 383 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: He all in the sauce, and I basically gave that 384 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: up to try to be selfish and do what's best 385 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 1: for me in my career, not what's best for anybody 386 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:23,119 Speaker 1: else's career. Okay, two things here. One, he loves him him, 387 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 1: and I like that too. I love me some meat. 388 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: Right. 389 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: It's just you gotta be really careful how loud you 390 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: tell everybody how much you love yourself. That's one thing 391 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: I did learn in life, Like trust me between my ears. 392 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm one cocky sucker. I got my doubts, but that's 393 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: just management. That's what confidence is, the management of doubt. 394 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: Doubts come in, we whoop, they ass and they get 395 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 1: up out of here. I'm a cocky dude, but when 396 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking, trust me, I just sound confident. 397 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: Right. 398 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 1: You can't leak like this a legacy here, Oh my god, 399 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: I was courageous. Courageous that's not the choice word. I 400 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: would use to go to another school paid more. That's 401 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,719 Speaker 1: not courage. There's a different word. I'm gonna let you 402 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: find it, my man Dickison, all right, so the courageous part, 403 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: miss me with that dog, don't prop yourself up. Give 404 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: you a badge honor in this moment when you just 405 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: basically gonna get more money. 406 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 2: Dog Chase the dough. Ain't nothing wrong with that, But I. 407 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: Do like that he did focus in on being selfish 408 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 1: because one of the things I always talk about, We're 409 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: gonna bring it up again is what's in common between 410 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: being selfish and selfless self? Right, there's this trickery going 411 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: on in this world where people want you to be 412 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: selfless in a lot of your power decisions, and then they, 413 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: when introduced to the same opportunity, will be selfish. 414 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 2: And then if. 415 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: They're selfish, it comes off with a negative connotation when 416 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: really it's just about self selfless and selfish. 417 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 2: Talk through it. 418 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 1: Okay, So someone comes to us, say, I got this 419 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: opportunity for you to play college basketball to major program, 420 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: got this opportunity for you to play here, here's miss 421 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: Here's Kansas. 422 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 2: Oh, Kansas is given you more. Oh, but you're at Michigan. Well, 423 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 2: coach was at Michigan and he left. The administrators are 424 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 2: at Michigan. They left. Other students go and no one cares. 425 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 2: Why can't I go? 426 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 1: And there's an obvious reason. And there's still gonna be 427 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: a tremendous opportunity for me to go pro and get 428 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: paid more. While I'm in pursuit of going pro so selfish. 429 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 1: Even though it is the proper word, the connotation is wrong. 430 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 2: We shouldn't look at situations like that. 431 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 1: With this situation, because the dude is making the decision 432 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: that's best for him. 433 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 2: But you could tell that it's hurting him. 434 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: You could tell that it's irking him, and you could 435 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 1: tell that this is not a smooth role just yet. 436 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 1: Because why he has to justify it by saying he's 437 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,439 Speaker 1: so courageous. He has to justify it by saying, oh, man, 438 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: you know so difficult. 439 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not even difficult. 440 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: The toughest thing is it's just gonna be a new place, 441 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: going so somewhere new for anybody. 442 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 2: It's just gonna be an interesting discussion. 443 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: It's gonna be an interesting discovery, right, But always making 444 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: everything you leave. 445 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 2: Oh, it's such a difficult decision. 446 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: Look right now, if some company out there wants me 447 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 1: to do this, and I'm like, all right, can I 448 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: do it the same way? 449 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 2: Can I do it my way? 450 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 1: And they're like, yeah, oh, by the way, we're gonna 451 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: give you way more money, I'm like, this wasn't that 452 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 1: difficult decision? 453 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 2: Right? 454 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: People be doing that just to kryd to keep two 455 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: loyalties going. I want this fan base not to hate me, 456 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: and I want this woe to love me. Well, if 457 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 1: you're speaking out of both sides of your mouth, guess 458 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: what you're gonna get a little of this and a 459 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: little of that. 460 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 2: Or you could have had it all right. So it's 461 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 2: just stop it. Man. 462 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: In terms of this situation, it's okay to be selfish. 463 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: It's okay to be selfless because they're both coming from 464 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: the same spirit, from the same person, from the same mindset, 465 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: from the same body, that of self. 466 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 2: And that's okay. 467 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: So I said, my man, enjoy your stay to Kansas, right, 468 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: Enjoy You're a new time in your new riches. 469 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 2: Right, But next time, leave the sauce behind. You know 470 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. 471 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: There was enough meat and potatoes to the story where 472 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 1: we get it, big dog, you're getting paid more. That's 473 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: the new world. It's the nil wild wild West. We 474 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 1: totally get it. Leave the sauce to the side. I 475 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: think this story tastes better that way. Time to get real, 476 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: time to get raw. Y'all know where I'm from. Y'all 477 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: know where I'm from. Y'all know where I'm from. It's 478 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 1: over there. Compton to Columbia. Right, so I've done seen 479 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: some gang violence. Unfortunately, Well, this story kind of lands 480 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: in that space and we're gonna have to walk through this. 481 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 1: Eagles first round defensive lineman. We all know who he is. 482 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: Jalen Carter is getting criticized by social media for repping 483 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: Blood Gang in video where he's in the car where 484 00:22:52,960 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: his former Georgia now Eagles teammates check out the video. Okay, 485 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: you know, I think this is a good time for 486 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: us to talk about is this nothing something or everything? 487 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 2: This is something? And let me tell you why. I 488 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 2: don't think he's repping Blood Gang. 489 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: Now, I don't act like since I'm from Compton, I 490 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: know every single gang all across America. And it was 491 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: weird when the gangs were starting to take over all 492 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: of America because I thought it was just gonna be 493 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: an LA thing. 494 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 2: Then you leave La. It's just like Compton, homie. 495 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: You know DJ Quick saying you were like, damn everybody 496 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,160 Speaker 1: bagging next thing. 497 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: You know, you hearing dudes claim sixties and it ain't 498 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 2: a street that is numbered sixtieth in theyhood. 499 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all claiming a street y'all don't even live 500 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: on But that was a silly ass. The dudes who 501 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 1: were claiming the neighborhood that they ain't even own catch that. 502 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: So we all out here renting and then some of 503 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: these cats banging. I'm like, do we don't own none 504 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 1: of this? Let's change our mindset. I digress. So watching 505 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: that video nothing something or everything for me something because 506 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: it's not that he's banging blood gang even though it's 507 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 1: not gangster what he's doing, it's gang ish, like the 508 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: whole uniform. We know what gangsters look like, at least 509 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: they used to look like that. I think that kind 510 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: of stopped with the cash money, the cash money records 511 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: and all that stuff. Was the last time we saw 512 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 1: uniform gang looks. And then now I know real gangsters 513 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: and they wear button downs. I know real gangsters. They 514 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: throw a suit on and be sitting there in the 515 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 1: cut ready to snipe. So be careful, right, But that harsh, 516 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: strict uniform of the eighties, you know. 517 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 2: The flag out the pocket and all that. 518 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 1: In the nineties and then the band dann the early 519 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: two thousands, I think that's played. So I don't think 520 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,959 Speaker 1: this is gangster, is gang ish, but I do know 521 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: what it is. There are two things I know this is. 522 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: One is the survivor's remorse is on full display right now. 523 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: This young black man who just got millions of dollars, 524 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: along with his teammates who are in the car with 525 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: him as well, have this survivor's remorse. And this survivor's 526 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 1: remorse is that they not only survive whatever conditions they 527 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: went through, and sometimes they didn't even go through it. 528 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 2: I'm not certain of these guys, but sometimes people will 529 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 2: represent the culture at large and say I survived the 530 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 2: black cultural experience, right. 531 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,880 Speaker 1: John Morant comes to mind, and people will talking about 532 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 1: cats who are balling out there who are from nice neighborhoods. 533 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 2: I wish my son MJ. Wood try to get gangster. 534 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: I'd be like, man, we grew up and then Sino 535 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 1: we raised you in the Sino. I'm from Compton and 536 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 1: I ain't at gangster. Yr ass gonna do it in 537 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 1: Sino boy stop. So anyway, I'm watching this the survivor's remorse, right, 538 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 1: I survived it and now I'm thriving in it. But 539 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: guess what, I feel like I'm leaving my people behind. 540 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm leaving some people behind. Me in 541 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 1: terms of resources and assets. I'm up here now they 542 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: down here. Basically, real survivors remorse. You have experienced the 543 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,400 Speaker 1: same thing somebody else, but you didn't have the consequences 544 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 1: that they have. Right, we're all in this together, we're 545 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,360 Speaker 1: all black, we're all from this neighborhood. 546 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 2: Whatever it is. My boy's in this car, and then 547 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 2: damn not all of us made it like me, right, 548 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: get it? So the survivor remorse is on full display 549 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 2: right here. 550 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,479 Speaker 1: Also what comes from that, what's connected to that is 551 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: how you all of a sudden start to represent things 552 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: to show that you're down. 553 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,959 Speaker 2: Right. So gangst the look or just whatever, that is 554 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: what he's doing. 555 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 1: The costume that he's wearing is not the same costume 556 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: he will wear to sign his new deal, I would hope, right. 557 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: Not the same costume he will wear the sign is endorsment, 558 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: I would hope, right. So it's like, I want to 559 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: be down because you know the symbolism in what you're 560 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: doing right there, but we're not done. But the symbolism 561 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: in this situation is the show. I'm still down. I'm 562 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,239 Speaker 1: not gonna change. I'm still down, I'm still rapping. I 563 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: hope you will change. I hope you are not down. 564 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 1: I hope you are up, and I hope you do 565 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 1: change because soon as you get some change. 566 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 2: Yes, I hope you do change. 567 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 1: And it's okay once again, just had that conversation about 568 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: being selfish. 569 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 2: It's okay to change. 570 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 1: Anybody who tells you it's not, that's somebody you need 571 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 1: to question, because it's not about oh, I'm anna act different, 572 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: But with change comes different actions. Correct, So you ain't 573 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 1: gotta go out there and say, oh, look at you. 574 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: Now you're completing your sentences. Now you're talking proper. Now, 575 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: oh you ain't dressing gangster. No more like what the 576 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 1: changes you're going to make are all. 577 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: Going to be good changes if you accept your new 578 00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 2: affluence and accept your new level of professionalism that affected 579 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 2: and responsibility. Right. 580 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 1: I don't know the statistics, but guys who try to 581 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: rep the streets and Tupac comes to mind obviously like 582 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: he wanted to be the symbol of going through it. Right, 583 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,679 Speaker 1: the outcomes aren't so positive for those guys versus the 584 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 1: people who want to rep something else that's more responsible. 585 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,120 Speaker 1: You get it, It's that simple. But here's the real 586 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: issue with that. Forget all the gang stuff and stuff, 587 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: because I don't really think he get out there gangstering 588 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 1: all that. 589 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 2: Let's stop. 590 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,199 Speaker 1: He was driving distracted, even though it looks slow, even 591 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 1: though it looked like a traffic and even though I 592 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: am no angel behind the wheel, even though I have 593 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: a Tesla and it drives itself. But the point is, 594 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: come on, man, Jalen Carter, you ain't learned yet. Already 595 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: on probation from the incident that happened that killed two 596 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 1: people where they were racing and driving recklessly earlier this year, 597 00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: we remember, right, so driving distracted. Come on, man, your team. 598 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't think your team is even gonna trip on 599 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: the gangster stuff. They're gonna say, hey, man, whatever that is, 600 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: just cease that, like, keep that behind you. But this 601 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 1: driving distracted, reminding people of why there were criticisms and 602 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 1: issues even drafting you, and why you slid. 603 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 2: If you want to call it that in the draft. 604 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: Come on, man, You on probation for the incident, and 605 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: at that time two people died, one of them was intoxicated. 606 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: And on top of that, driving one hundred and four 607 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: miles an hour and you racing them and they die. 608 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 2: I ain't say you kill them. 609 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: But people are saying you killed them in part because 610 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 1: you out there racing, and that's the consequence. 611 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 2: Once again survivor's remorse. You're catching this. 612 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: So my thing to him is, man, forget all that 613 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 1: blood gang and sorry for those who lost their life 614 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 1: when you were driving recklessly and racing them and their 615 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 1: blood alcohol level. Forget all that blood stuff. Forget all 616 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: this gang stuff. Get into the ball because your issues 617 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: right now seem to be behind the wheel, and it 618 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 1: seems to be the choices that you're making now once 619 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 1: again behind the wheels. So man, leave all that stuff 620 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 1: alone and behind you. People always used to come and 621 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: clown me. Oh man, but I've always been this way, 622 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: so it wasn't like I changed. They just thought that now, 623 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: oh since I made it that, I wouldn't care to 624 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,560 Speaker 1: give them some change. And I always said, dog, you 625 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,479 Speaker 1: ain't gonna twist me mentally in terms of making me 626 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: think you more important than me. You know, repping this city, 627 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: in this street is more important than me and my legacy, 628 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: like cause I gotta have this legacy anywhere, right, So 629 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: you gotta know that balancing act between oh yeah, I'm 630 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: always I'm always here, I'm always thorough. I'm always on 631 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: my square, but at the same time, I'm trying to 632 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 1: build these squares brick by brick, So man, Jalen Carter. 633 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: So far, a rocky start to this professional career off 634 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: the field looks like a baller. Looks like it's gonna 635 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,239 Speaker 1: translate to the NFL level. But let's hope things like 636 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 1: this don't come in undermine him. All Right, y'all, y'all 637 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 1: know how we finish every show. We finish it with 638 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: a why it? Oh, I can't do that after talking 639 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: about gangs while he isn't. Keep your hands to yourself, 640 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 1: Keep your hands to yourself. 641 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 2: Let's do it, all right. 642 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: Advice is what we asked for when we already know 643 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: the answer but wish we didn't. 644 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 2: Let me read that again. 645 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: Advice is what we asked for when we already know 646 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 1: the answer, but wish we didn't. 647 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 2: How many times you done picked up the phone, called 648 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 2: your boy, called your girl? Right, yeah, man, let me 649 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 2: just oh no, I'm good, I'm good. 650 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: Let me just let me just say something real quick though, 651 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: like moms and you know, and moms and dad are 652 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: going through it and you know, I gotta go over here, 653 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 1: and I just want to know what you think I 654 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: should do. I've been on that call a thousand times, 655 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: the one calling and the one listening, and I always 656 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: felt the same way. I know what needs to be done, 657 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: I just need to do it. Case in point, my 658 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: wife is this person and I get upset when I 659 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 1: do it, and she really gets upset, but I gotta 660 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: do it. I was like, baby, we're talking about what 661 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 1: you need to do, but we already know what you 662 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: need to do. 663 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 2: So let's stop talking, let's start walking. Let's just do it. 664 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: You know, you asked me questions about your homegirl, call 665 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: your own girl. You asked me questions about your mom, 666 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 1: Call your mom. You already know what to ask. You 667 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: just need somebody to build you up to get to 668 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: that place. 669 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: Understood. 670 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,480 Speaker 1: But this advice is what you're asking for when you 671 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: already know the answer you calling me for. I'm a 672 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: middle step, and an unnecessary middle step. Be powerful, be yourself. 673 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 1: You know what you won't go, get it, conquer it? 674 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 2: Right. 675 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: So it's funny because my wife we had this discussion 676 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: this morning. She had a lot on her plate and 677 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 1: she was looking at it like woe is me? And 678 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: she was talking through it and saying, man, I feel 679 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: a little anxiety. It feels heavy, And I said, baby, 680 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: I don't you know me. Sorry, I love you so much, 681 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,959 Speaker 1: and my support comes this way. I'm looking at everything 682 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: you just said as a blessing. We're gonna flip it 683 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: upside down. We're gonna make those lemons lemonade. 684 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 2: Right. 685 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: Oh, you gotta film this, you gotta go here, you 686 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 1: gotta call there. People will beg for those moments and 687 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: the opportunities beg for the platform you have now. So 688 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: don't look at it that way, or you're gonna tell 689 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: the universe. Ah, I'm good. I don't need any more 690 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 1: on my plate, and the universe will nicely and respectfully oblige. 691 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: They won't give you another blessing, right, so be careful. 692 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: And also I was like, maybe you know what to do. 693 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: Just look at all these things as a positive, right, 694 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: and that's it. And literally I thought I was gonna 695 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: get the same on. You never support or you never 696 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: listen because I'm always trying to fix it or just 697 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: help her or really tell her. Mental health is like 698 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 1: physical health. You know y'all caught that lesson before we 699 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: talked about it. I was like, look at it that way, 700 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: do the right things. Physical health it's easy to see. 701 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: Physical dimension is the easiest to see. The emotional. The 702 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: mental is the tough part. And we talked through it 703 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 1: and next thing you know, she gave me a hug 704 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: and she smiled through it, and I was like, damn, 705 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: that's dope, which made me have to come to you 706 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: guys today and remind you of this wily ism that 707 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: advice is what we ask for when we already know 708 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: the answer but wish we didn't. 709 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 2: All right, y'all, that'll do it. 710 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 1: For More to It, check the show notes for all 711 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: the information on our topics today. 712 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,399 Speaker 2: Today, I want to keep the conversation. Go on. 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