Speaker 1: Second date. When you meet someone and you chat with
Speaker 1: him for just a few minutes, but there's an obvious
Speaker 1: connection there and you have a lot of fun together.
Speaker 1: Can that be considered an insta date or do you
Speaker 1: need to have like an official meet up for it
Speaker 1: to count. Yes, I mean it could be a hangout,
Speaker 1: it could be the first meeting, but it's not a date.
Speaker 1: That's the conversation. I disagree. I think it is like
Speaker 1: an insta date is considered a real date because I've
Speaker 1: had many many experiences that you wouldn't call a buy
Speaker 1: the books, pre prepared hangout, and next thing you know,
Speaker 1: all the paper towels are gone from the dispenser and
Speaker 1: you're both calling the maintenance guy asking for assistance. I
Speaker 1: want to know, I don't expect you guys to understand
Speaker 1: how fun works, but you just leave that to me.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I think that counts. And that's why
Speaker 1: we've got in touch with one of our listeners who
Speaker 1: said that she had an insta date recently. Her name
Speaker 1: is Amanda. So are you the clingy one in the
Speaker 1: relationship like Jeffrey is Amanda? Well, I guess we'll see right,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, you and I are on the same page, Amanda.
Speaker 1: But for my clued out co host over here, why
Speaker 1: don't you tell us what happened? Yeah, so I met
Speaker 1: this guy Zach a couple of weeks ago. My friend Claire.
Speaker 1: Her job is super cool and trendy and they usually
Speaker 1: have like a happy hour, like a work happy hour. Oh.
Speaker 1: Like her company is one of those that, yeah much
Speaker 1: moods you want, and they constantly drink together. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: pretty awesome. Her friends are much cloer than me. But
Speaker 1: that's why I went. Okay, And like I said, I
Speaker 1: met this guy Zach and he was extremely good booking.
Speaker 1: Oh and I don't usually go up to guys, but
Speaker 1: I mean, it just was the atmosphere we went to,
Speaker 1: like this traditional cowboy bar. Traditional that's funny, A dive bar.
Speaker 1: Whoa probably one was like line dancing and country music
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, Like the bar stools were a horse
Speaker 1: saddle and there was a merry ground. Yeah, yeah, there
Speaker 1: was there right now. So you said that you were
Speaker 1: the one who actually went and approached him, Like, what
Speaker 1: did you what did you do? How did that interaction happen? Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I went next to him, so I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that. I you know, I kind of gave
Speaker 1: myself a little more credit. But you were too aggressive
Speaker 1: with its exactly. But it's a good move, right, Like
Speaker 1: somebody stand in the bar, you go stand directly next
Speaker 1: to them, I imagine bumping into him by accident, over
Speaker 1: and over. Well that worked because we ended up talking.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing. I didn't know that a lot
Speaker 1: of people like to ride horses really until social media.
Speaker 1: You know, like I thought it was more of a
Speaker 1: thing than like justly and I thought it was more
Speaker 1: just much if you do it, oh, because she does
Speaker 1: like probably you know, she's like yeah, yeah, she's not
Speaker 1: a Western style. Yeah, so you're into horses and you
Speaker 1: didn't expect him to be also, Yeah, And so we
Speaker 1: got we started talking and I brought up a story
Speaker 1: of when I was younger, and it was going so
Speaker 1: well that he ended up fitting some of his drink
Speaker 1: out because I made him laugh so hard. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just about I brought up a story when
Speaker 1: I was younger, my favorite horse. He was like slower,
Speaker 1: he was older, and he was kind of chubby. But
Speaker 1: they called him a waffle face. Waffle face, they called
Speaker 1: him that was the name of the horse. That was
Speaker 1: the name of the horse. Yeah, and that's what made
Speaker 1: him laugh so hard. Yeah. Yeah, had to been there, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so. So you guys bonded over horses. That's cool, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: And unfortunately he said he had to go, so it
Speaker 1: was like twenty thirty minutes of us talking. But right
Speaker 1: before he left, there was this Britney Spears song that
Speaker 1: came on at the country bar, Just a Louisiana girl.
Speaker 1: You remember this song, hit Me Baby when We're going. Yeah,
Speaker 1: never started doing the dance and he started. He followed me.
Speaker 1: He was doing the same dance as I was doing it. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's an obvious sign of attraction when a guy is
Speaker 1: mirroring you. Yeah, that's a sign that he's actually into
Speaker 1: about it. Did you check in with your friend Claire
Speaker 1: because Claire works with him, right, Like that's how you
Speaker 1: guys all met. Yeah. So here's the thing. Right before
Speaker 1: we left, I was brave enough to ask him for
Speaker 1: his number. Okay, I was like, it's not every day
Speaker 1: that someone dances like mirrors you dancing? All right? Oh yes,
Speaker 1: I did. Well, let's help because I this is where
Speaker 1: you guys come in. I texted him a couple of
Speaker 1: days after and he said he was busy but that
Speaker 1: he wished that he could hang out. So I waited
Speaker 1: a couple of days after that, and he never texted
Speaker 1: me back after I texted him not again. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: so you brought up Claire and I asked her and
Speaker 1: she doesn't know. So it was a friend of a
Speaker 1: friend so him. Yeah, I see, So it's not someone
Speaker 1: that works with her that she could. Okay, well we
Speaker 1: have some information to work with here. We're going to
Speaker 1: play a song come back and call your horse loving
Speaker 1: cowboy Zach. I request that we don't play the Britney
Speaker 1: Spears song. Oh I would love to hear it. Are
Speaker 1: you joking me? I just want to see what this
Speaker 1: horse loving guy has to say when we ask for
Speaker 1: a second date. Is it going to be a yay
Speaker 1: or a name? Okay, we'll do a second eight update
Speaker 1: next second saddles for seats, boots for drinks, and a
Speaker 1: mechanical bull that's been out of order for the last decade.
Speaker 1: Sounds like every single country dive bar within a ten
Speaker 1: thousand mile radius. I just described there. But that's where
Speaker 1: one of our listeners went recently. Her name is Amanda,
Speaker 1: and she met a very well put together, good looking
Speaker 1: man named Zach while she was there. The two of
Speaker 1: them vibed over horseback riding stories and even danced to
Speaker 1: an old Brittany Spears song Country. Like I said earlier,
Speaker 1: this was an instant date. It wasn't something that they
Speaker 1: had planned to meet up beforehand. They just ran into
Speaker 1: each other. So we don't know if Zach is technically
Speaker 1: even single or what's going on that's you have, But
Speaker 1: he texted her back that he was excited to see her.
Speaker 1: I could see you, see I wish I could see.
Speaker 1: It means I can't see you because I have a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you just say that because dudes still like
Speaker 1: to be hit on him. And we're gonna see what
Speaker 1: you meant by that. And Brooke, you've been skeptical and
Speaker 1: bitter throughout most of this so far. So what are
Speaker 1: your thoughts before we reach out to Zach? I mean,
Speaker 1: I just don't want you to be too invested, Amanda. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's hopeful. Well, I don't you know. It's like what
Speaker 1: my mom taught me. You know, you you plan for
Speaker 1: the worst, hope for the best, right, that's a good,
Speaker 1: lesson mom, fun household to grow up? Amanda, how are
Speaker 1: you feeling? You feel a little optimistic? I I definitely am.
Speaker 1: But like you guys said, that has been something that
Speaker 1: Claire and I've been discussing, and I mean it wouldn't
Speaker 1: put it past him because he seems I mean, he's
Speaker 1: such a catch, right, like right, Well, let's get some
Speaker 1: answers from horse Love and Cowboy Jack. Zach. Oh you
Speaker 1: should be Jack though. It's a much better alright, Zach.
Speaker 1: Here we go by, remember that, Zach, Zach. Here we
Speaker 1: go Dollar's number right now? Look? Hey is it Zach? Uh? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey wait, Jeff what how do you want that? It's Jeffrey?
Speaker 1: This is Jeff Righting? Yeah, oh my god, what's up?
Speaker 1: Where are you? Where are you calling me? I'm calling
Speaker 1: from a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know what you do. We talked about it one night.
Speaker 1: What wait, Jeffrey, Now you're starting to freak me out?
Speaker 1: Are you joking? You don't know this guy? We know
Speaker 1: each other? Yeah, you know Zach from this far. We
Speaker 1: met like a month ago. Are you just every weekend?
Speaker 1: You don't remember? Yeah? Hey, Jeff, why Hey? Why are
Speaker 1: all these people on the line, what's up? Well? No, yeah,
Speaker 1: at work, and we're we're doing something right now. You know,
Speaker 1: that's how the show works. Okay, okay, so you're just
Speaker 1: doing your show. Yeah, that's so awkward. That's that's cool, man,
Speaker 1: that's really cool. We should we should hang again. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm always last time. Yeah, why are you so, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: I don't know any Zach, Za, Zach. We need to
Speaker 1: talk to you about something else. H We do a
Speaker 1: segment called a second date update. Oh my god, you're
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. And there's book stop. There's a girl named
Speaker 1: Amanda who reached out to us. She said that she
Speaker 1: met you at a happy hour the other night. Uh okay, hi, Zach.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so that's her. This is like a this
Speaker 1: is more of a business call, Zach. Pleasure call normally
Speaker 1: do it? You have one flustered host over there, Amanda.
Speaker 1: I think Amanda wanted our help to find out from
Speaker 1: you if you would be interested in seeing her. But literally,
Speaker 1: okay to day you're so you're saying, Amanda called you
Speaker 1: to call me. Yeah, that's how this works. It's called
Speaker 1: a second date update. So this is just this is
Speaker 1: just like a random thing. That's the only reason you're calling. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's just for our listener, Amanda, and not for anything else.
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is kind of new for me,
Speaker 1: but I felt like we had just great energy. I
Speaker 1: feel like we clicked. Remember, Zach, you guys talked about
Speaker 1: horses at the country at the Country bar. And remember
Speaker 1: waffle Face her favorite fat horse when she was little.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, I was having a normal conversation, didn't
Speaker 1: we have a Yeah, we got a long great Amanda.
Speaker 1: But uh yeah, I mean, and what's wrong? Are you
Speaker 1: not attracted to Amanda? And I know she's she's very beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh thank you. I'm really attracted to you. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: she's just coming out and saying it. I like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, that's what I said. Uh, I know you're shy, Zach.
Speaker 1: I just figured maybe I could take the reins here
Speaker 1: and jump fine on and see if a cowboy reference
Speaker 1: is Zach, how does that sound? I'm not shy. Um,
Speaker 1: we have comment you are fighting horses, and so do I.
Speaker 1: We were dancing at Britney Spears. Yeah. Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: It's like I love his responses. You seem really you
Speaker 1: seem really cool. And it's it's kind of like, you know,
Speaker 1: if huh, you know, if I was if I really wanted,
Speaker 1: if I would have reached out right, I would have
Speaker 1: found you know, like, Okay, Manna, you seem great. Uh,
Speaker 1: you're you're not You're not quite my type. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: very clear. At least it's blunt to the point. Yeah, Zach,
Speaker 1: are you disappointed in this phone call? Oh? Um, greatly?
Speaker 1: Actually uh yeah, yeah, I did not see this coming.
Speaker 1: This is all making sense now though it doesn't make
Speaker 1: you know, with just like interest in horses and the
Speaker 1: Britney Spears dancing and Zack you told me that like
Speaker 1: I can change my hair if I'm not like this
Speaker 1: color is not okay for you? Like the fashion tips
Speaker 1: that's yeah, okay, So Zach, this isn't for you? Um
Speaker 1: in so many ways? Yeah, okay, Zach. Is it just
Speaker 1: because you're not in the right spot or that maybe? Yeah,
Speaker 1: let's go with that one. And I say that I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. Just do you got to
Speaker 1: finish it, man, you got to ask a second date
Speaker 1: to do my job over here. So what we do
Speaker 1: on this segment, Zach, is we offer to send you
Speaker 1: and our listener out on another date. So that would
Speaker 1: be you and Amanda going out and we would pay
Speaker 1: for it. Yes, Zach, come on, it'll be a blast.
Speaker 1: I'll change what I wear like I don't. I just
Speaker 1: feel like our energies. You're good to give up or
Speaker 1: to ignore, so please give me a second chance, Zach
Speaker 1: offers on the table. I think you need to be
Speaker 1: more blunt. Amanda, girl, we no, don't change your hair.
Speaker 1: Don't choose your hair for some guy. This isn't grease,
Speaker 1: I like, I love all Right, Well, we should probably
Speaker 1: stop talking. You should hang out with Zach Moore. I
Speaker 1: don't think so. I just I'm sorry, what yeah, yeah, yeff?
Speaker 1: Well huh, I will be expecting a phone call from here,
Speaker 1: don't okay, I'm ending this now. I love it. That's
Speaker 1: your second date, A definitely no dame out of here,
Speaker 1: rookie Jeffrey in the morning. Well, we take that second
Speaker 1: date a few weeks ago, and it's given me a
Speaker 1: little bit more time to process and reflect on what happened.
Speaker 1: Do you remember, Uh, Well, in the moment, I didn't
Speaker 1: know what was going on. Really taken back, But now
Speaker 1: I can officially go on the record saying shrug emoji.
Speaker 1: That's very recordable. Yeah, you can quote me on that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I actually did meet that guy before,
Speaker 1: but even if let's say I had, clearly he wasn't
Speaker 1: that memorable. So yeah, cu the sad Mario sound effect,
Speaker 1: sorry effect. So that was one of the more awkward
Speaker 1: second dates we've ever done for Yeah, I loved it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it. Like you're sitting in that uncomfortable
Speaker 1: scene over there, Yeah, your face turned so red. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like trying to get your job done, but you're also like,
Speaker 1: what is going on? I hope that's the last time
Speaker 1: that that ever happened. I don't know, it's probably gonna
Speaker 1: happen again. Yeah, I hope it does. Anyway, if you
Speaker 1: ever need a second date, you can always email the show.
Speaker 1: We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back. May
Speaker 1: just need to get hold of Jeffrey No, no, no,
Speaker 1: broken Jeffrey in the morning.