Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hey guys, hi, Hey, I'm sorry about the Starbucks stilima
Speaker 2: this morning.
Speaker 3: Oh the thing got it, I know, I know it
Speaker 3: was funny. I got the text she said Starbucks anyone,
Speaker 3: and guys, I got up at four and I've stayed up.
Speaker 3: Why I because Preston had a flight and I couldn't
Speaker 3: go back to sleep.
Speaker 2: Oh it's weird.
Speaker 3: I have never been this girl. But you said Starbucks anyone,
Speaker 3: and I missed it by I knew. I reapplied two
Speaker 3: minutes later and I already know the I know the window.
Speaker 3: We're all operating it. And I was like, I've missed it.
Speaker 3: I go, I do am I too late?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was like two minutes or something, but I
Speaker 2: know I did something really bad last year on this day. Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: June fifth, I forgot to call my dad and his birthday.
Speaker 2: Oh oh. It was one of those where I'm like
Speaker 2: so today, I was like, he was like six, first
Speaker 2: child that is saying to me today. I was like, well,
Speaker 2: I was also the child that didn't call you last year.
Speaker 2: And then when I got off the phone was when
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, I gotta go like, and
Speaker 2: then I saw yours, and I'm like, craps, let me
Speaker 2: go back to my little doordasher. Because I didn't send
Speaker 2: a time to go get it right, Catherine made called
Speaker 2: me out one time about what we what we DoorDash
Speaker 2: and what we don't door dash. Right, we need to.
Speaker 1: Tell this story. Actually, yeah, I'm in story to me.
Speaker 1: I think it's a good story.
Speaker 2: I'm interested. Okay, go ahead, you can tell it, sod same.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're out of town. I don't even know where
Speaker 1: we are, probably Wilmington.
Speaker 2: No, we were in Oklahoma.
Speaker 1: Oh, Oklahoma, Oklahoma, in Oklahoma, Okay, I just remember we
Speaker 1: were in bed Yeah, we talked about the entire time.
Speaker 2: We just sat there at beds. You did you just
Speaker 2: think of me? Yeah?
Speaker 3: And five things we love about Kristin go. I just
Speaker 3: was a little nervous about the accuracy and reporting. We
Speaker 3: didn't know the location. Go ahead, continue, Okay.
Speaker 1: I just remember that she got like a ring doorbell
Speaker 1: thing and she was like, oh is.
Speaker 2: It ethy oofy eu f y.
Speaker 1: I don't know, oofy, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: So she gets like a thing and she's like, oh,
Speaker 1: who's at the house, And She's like, oh, it's probably
Speaker 1: door dash and I was like, okay, you know, just
Speaker 1: like thinking. She was like, you know, it's just like
Speaker 1: does he just like drive you crazy when like man
Speaker 1: like like they DoorDash beer, Like he's gonna door like
Speaker 1: I guarantee you he doordashed beer, Like why not just
Speaker 1: go to the store and get the beer, like go
Speaker 1: through this whole thing. And I'm like, all I can
Speaker 1: think in my head, it's like, you DoorDash Starbucks every day?
Speaker 1: Say that every day.
Speaker 3: Okay, I've stopped you, but you say you stopped you
Speaker 3: did for I did sometimes.
Speaker 2: I just went through a phase. I went through a
Speaker 2: face and this is coming from the door. It was
Speaker 2: a new born phase of door dashing.
Speaker 1: Coming from someone that will DoorDash, like five of us
Speaker 1: will DoorDash every day. So I am not judging door dash.
Speaker 1: I love a DoorDash. I just thought it was very funny.
Speaker 1: So I sat there for a while in silence, and
Speaker 1: then I was like I can't.
Speaker 2: I can't hold it back anymore. I was like I
Speaker 2: just have to fire out too.
Speaker 1: I was like, so, how is that any different from
Speaker 1: door dashing Tarbucks?
Speaker 2: And I said, I don't even remember you said that,
Speaker 2: Remember I go, well, first I looked at you like
Speaker 2: they's alcoholic and one's not. Like one's alcohol and one's not.
Speaker 2: Be like, how dare you call me up that I go,
Speaker 2: I go, oh oh, I guess it's not any different,
Speaker 2: And I was like, ew, it's not.
Speaker 3: Well.
Speaker 1: I think your point was not that it was beer
Speaker 1: being beer, it was that it was door dashed. At first,
Speaker 1: I thought the point was that it was beer, and
Speaker 1: you were just like, eh, I don't love that he's
Speaker 1: like having beer. So I was like, okay, cool, Like
Speaker 1: I get that. But she's like, no, it's the fact,
Speaker 1: like go to the store and get the beer. And
Speaker 1: I was like okay, well now, and I'm like you should.
Speaker 2: Just a beer, right. It was that it was for me,
Speaker 2: it just seemed like we're delivering alcohol, like can't you
Speaker 2: go to the store and get it? But again to
Speaker 2: your point and since then, honestly, if I'm being totally
Speaker 2: I think that's when I stopped door dashing with Starbucks.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so hypocritical for getting on him
Speaker 2: for a door dashing boards.
Speaker 1: Both of y'all door dash that's what I do. Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean, Nick hates it. He never door dashes ever.
Speaker 2: But now it's like, I enjoy now my ride to Starbucks.
Speaker 2: But I didn't have time today because I had some stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's good.
Speaker 2: It was, it was. It was quite funny.
Speaker 3: I was like, how bad do we want it ten
Speaker 3: minutes late with Starbucks?
Speaker 2: Or do I just keep rolling? And then I looked
Speaker 2: at the clock. I didn't have time and.
Speaker 1: Never have time because you don't calculate in the Starbucks
Speaker 1: run And here are stars press are so hit or missed.
Speaker 1: Oh I can't get.
Speaker 2: I can tell you which one goes really fast and
Speaker 2: which one you need at least ten minutes in, But
Speaker 2: you always got to What I've learned is this is
Speaker 2: stupid story. I apologize to the listeners. Dear listeners, we
Speaker 2: apologize in advance. You got to go through the drive through.
Speaker 2: They're too slow when you go in, I know, and
Speaker 2: everyone thinks you'll beat them inside. They won't You do
Speaker 2: you do the car marker? Oh yeah you do.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: The quick read is order it on your thing and
Speaker 1: run it and get it.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true, but you got to really be thinking.
Speaker 1: You got to think it. It takes about eight minutes,
Speaker 1: five to eight minutes. So then you got a plan
Speaker 1: in your rise.
Speaker 2: This is the most nine felt episode ever.
Speaker 3: I know what I was thinking, how wildly beneficial it
Speaker 3: might be to someone who's driving right now, going, Oh,
Speaker 3: I can just type it in Holover, type it over.
Speaker 2: Safety first, get god totally. So there's that really as
Speaker 2: I drink my extra hot. By the way, let me
Speaker 2: just say one more thing about Starbucks. This is not
Speaker 2: a sponsored episode. It is not. I I like my
Speaker 2: drinks extra hot, even if it's one hundred degrees outside.
Speaker 2: So it's like nineties right now in Nashville, and so
Speaker 2: the other day when I went yesterday, I was like,
Speaker 2: can I play an extra hot? HI? And they're like
Speaker 2: extra hot? I go, yeah, I like it hot. They
Speaker 2: have to be hot like hot.
Speaker 1: If you're door dashing, you definitely have to do agree to.
Speaker 2: I've already microwaved because they get so cold by the
Speaker 2: time they get there.
Speaker 1: Anyways, it makes me mad.
Speaker 2: Oh lit life updates. So I didn't go to Georgia.
Speaker 2: By the way, can I just say how much I
Speaker 2: love you guys, because when I went onto the DMS
Speaker 2: on the wind Down episode, everyone was so supportive and
Speaker 2: they were like, go do it. You'll have so much fun,
Speaker 2: so supportive. I didn't do it, but I loved it,
Speaker 2: but it was good to see it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm glad everyone was behind, including us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just go do it. They were so supportive.
Speaker 1: So next time that comes up, you're going to be like,
Speaker 1: guess what, guys, I'm just gonna go do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally probably not convincing, that's probably.
Speaker 2: Not gonna happen. No, but I could bring it. Don't
Speaker 2: even know if it even went through. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: we'll see big TVD on the whole sit. Let us
Speaker 2: know how it ends. If it Yeah, I will for sure.
Speaker 2: But that's that's my only update. I did book another movie, though,
Speaker 2: and I'm very excited. Wait, how many movies do we
Speaker 2: have happening? And why I say we? I mean you? So,
Speaker 2: I've already filmed three, but I'm going to be filming
Speaker 2: my fourth one in July in Nashville. This will be fun.
Speaker 2: You guys can visit on set.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go together. It'll be so fun. I would
Speaker 1: love excited when you startbucks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, say much. But it is based on a best
Speaker 2: selling book, and uh, I don't know it. You probably
Speaker 2: know the author. That's all I can say. For now,
Speaker 2: very excited. I mean, who, like I get to link
Speaker 2: twice if it's Nicholas Sparks, it's not okay, I got
Speaker 2: really excited. Would be you know, it would have been great, okay,
Speaker 2: but anyway, so to be able to work and then
Speaker 2: go home will just be so amazing. I'm so excited.
Speaker 3: I'm excited for you. Part of Nashville all around so fun. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there's even a little bit of Franklin so yeah, so yeah, tbd.
Speaker 2: But that's that's my update, and I'm really glad that
Speaker 2: everything kind of worked out. We were supposed to be
Speaker 2: in l A. That was yeah, why are you here? Politely, Well,
Speaker 2: the plane was leaking hydraulic something fluid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, hydraulic fluid. They were in the engine for a
Speaker 1: good five hours.
Speaker 2: Which she finally was like, I wasn't going to tell you,
Speaker 2: but I didn't want to get on that plane. So
Speaker 2: here's the thing that takes a lot.
Speaker 1: I used to fly in like anything, yeah, and Sestna's
Speaker 1: I went into it. And as I get older, I
Speaker 1: definitely get more like if something's going wrong or if
Speaker 1: like I'm like, okay, God's telling me I don't need
Speaker 1: to be on this airplane, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna say it to her though, because she's already
Speaker 1: a little anxious, you know. I mean, and I don't
Speaker 1: think you realize I do get more ink, I've gotten
Speaker 1: a lot more anxious with flying and stuff like that
Speaker 1: as I've gotten older. I think that's normal to get
Speaker 1: a little bit more whatever. But that was what had me.
Speaker 1: As the hours went on and the engine stayed open
Speaker 1: and the pilot was looking at it, and like one,
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: Just like, and we saw the bucket and we saw
Speaker 2: it leaking. This is not a good sign. It just
Speaker 2: got bad.
Speaker 1: And then we missed by the time, we missed everything
Speaker 1: day one, and so it was just like it was
Speaker 1: such a mess.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad you stayed home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we stayed home, and here we are.
Speaker 2: It's interesting to me.
Speaker 3: We were at the dinner table the other night, and
Speaker 3: I don't know how this even came up, but we
Speaker 3: were talking about anxious flyers maybe or just flyers, because
Speaker 3: Preston just flies a ton and I think he's getting a.
Speaker 2: Little bit tired.
Speaker 1: Sure, Yeah, Like you.
Speaker 2: Know, if the bus leaves the night before, he's more
Speaker 2: likely to get on the bus. The night before.
Speaker 3: Now he's just like, I love being home with you,
Speaker 3: but also and I I just don't know how anybody
Speaker 3: does it.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: We're talking and I said, do you guys this is
Speaker 3: at the dinner table funny enough? And I said, does
Speaker 3: everybody here want to take a guess at which one
Speaker 3: of my best friends is a really anxious flyer, because
Speaker 3: I think it would shock you. And they were guessing,
Speaker 3: and nobody guessed you, and I was like, guess me.
Speaker 3: I said, it's Cramer and Preston was like what I said, yeah,
Speaker 3: and he goes for as much as she has to fly,
Speaker 3: and I said, I know.
Speaker 1: Every time gotten tremendously better. I think so too, like
Speaker 1: like it like night and day from when I first
Speaker 1: started working with her. Thanks and not getting you to
Speaker 1: even go into the airport.
Speaker 3: So oh yeah, there's only one way to get on
Speaker 3: the airplane in Atlanta.
Speaker 2: She goes, we just were talking about that too. I go, hey,
Speaker 2: remember that one time that I was in Atlanta and
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, I can't get on the airplane
Speaker 2: And I what do you mean you can't get on
Speaker 2: the airplane Like I can't get on the airplane. I
Speaker 2: mean we had just started working together.
Speaker 1: I had a baby in my arms, I'll never forget it,
Speaker 1: in my bedroom home holding a baby, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean you can't walk in to the airport.
Speaker 2: So she's like, so you're at the airport. I was
Speaker 2: like yes, She's like, and you can't go in the airport. No,
Speaker 2: what Like she just did not understand.
Speaker 1: I can't.
Speaker 3: I wish we had a time capsule. This is this
Speaker 3: is gold to me, capsule. Man.
Speaker 1: I should write a book, I should go back and
Speaker 1: I just can't remember. My problem is is I just
Speaker 1: can't remember everything. So but anyway, you've gotten a lot better.
Speaker 2: I have because I get of my app, my little
Speaker 2: flight Trader app. Oh yeah, I zoom out and I
Speaker 2: see all the other planes that are flying in the air,
Speaker 2: and it's like, okay, look how many flights are happening
Speaker 2: right now. And then I go to my turbulence tracker
Speaker 2: and I see the winds. Yeah, And it doesn't make
Speaker 2: you more nervous, no, because I see other planes going
Speaker 2: through it too, and they're okay, and they've passed through it.
Speaker 2: But then this is my thing and I kind of
Speaker 2: want to one day do a movie about because I
Speaker 2: think it'd be kind of cool because sometimes I know
Speaker 2: Alan on airplaness because I'm like, babe, Okay, so we're
Speaker 2: at twenty three thousand feet, this other plan's at twenty one.
Speaker 2: It looks like it's going like I'm like, they're gonnalye,
Speaker 2: should I go down the pilot? Okay, So that's what
Speaker 2: I was Actually, you're not going to save. I was like, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: I'm going to do one deck. I'm going to save
Speaker 2: like this one's coming.
Speaker 3: Literally. I was just about to say that to you,
Speaker 3: that doesn't make you nervous, but then I thought, I'm
Speaker 3: not going to plant the seed.
Speaker 2: Because that's not what you need. But you're already doing
Speaker 2: it your situation. Yeah, I mean, he just laughed. Every
Speaker 2: time we go on there, I'm already on there. Knock
Speaker 2: on the old pilot door. There's a plane coming at
Speaker 2: twenty four thousand, thank you. Thirty sixty. We weren't sure
Speaker 2: that was going to happen, you know, more for me
Speaker 2: at least a six egg definitely not thirty six feet.
Speaker 2: Sometimes anyway, okay, girls, we just we go all over,
Speaker 2: don't we? Does anybody want to go back to thirty
Speaker 2: thousand feet? Is there anything else we needed to catch
Speaker 2: up on days? Anyone else any updates?
Speaker 3: No lion at her first swim lesson. I'm pretty sure
Speaker 3: she's going to write to a therapist about me. I
Speaker 3: hate that feeling when they're crying and they're separated from
Speaker 3: you and they hate you. And she went up to
Speaker 3: the glass and made a whole spectacle.
Speaker 2: You guys.
Speaker 3: She got out and kept saying all done. I could
Speaker 3: see her mouth moving, and she walked up to the
Speaker 3: glass of the sea of people, and she was looking
Speaker 3: for me, and then she pointed straight you. She did,
Speaker 3: and I was like, this one hits different.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's the third.
Speaker 3: Or like yikes, yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, well I this
Speaker 3: is every time I say I'd rather her be crying
Speaker 3: here than unsafe there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what we have to do payment to that,
Speaker 2: all right. So we've got a few things to discuss
Speaker 2: and whine about it. Someone has to unpin So you
Speaker 2: rock paper scissors, one of you two me not it?
Speaker 2: Not me, Kike cat.
Speaker 1: My problem is is I've talked about mine, so it's
Speaker 1: not going to be that interesting. People already to know
Speaker 1: the process anyway, keep going, What are we going to
Speaker 1: say no.
Speaker 2: And then there's also you know our wine. I actually
Speaker 2: have a wine from what happened to us in the airport,
Speaker 2: and I want to talk about it because we actually
Speaker 2: never talked about it.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. Let's talk about it
Speaker 1: a lady in front of us. Oh oh that, let's
Speaker 1: do that instead of unpinning.
Speaker 2: That was unbelievable. I was uncomfortable. What I almost said
Speaker 2: something I want to say, getting nervous because boy, because
Speaker 2: she said something where I believe I make up that
Speaker 2: was her daughter. It was her daughter, Okay, and her
Speaker 2: daughter was ten eleven? Oh god, no, she's probably thirteen fourteen.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't think any more than thirteen. She's Emmy's age,
Speaker 2: if not older. Oka, wait where are you in the
Speaker 2: airport process? Sitting in the lounge and growing to They
Speaker 2: were also going to La TSA is usually where it
Speaker 2: starts for me. So that's why I went, yeah, yeah, no, no,
Speaker 2: this was this was lounge and I guess my wine
Speaker 2: about it and listen, this is like, this is a
Speaker 2: slippery slope because I'm I'm not trying to like mom.
Speaker 2: Shame sure. Having said that when she called her daughter
Speaker 2: a dummy, that bothered me first and foremost, Yeah, and
Speaker 2: I think it's because I'm super sensitive to two things
Speaker 2: that just happened with So my son Jace went to
Speaker 2: camp and he got called dumb and he was crying
Speaker 2: at camp. I mean it was like it broke my heart.
Speaker 2: Was the first time a kid has ever like said
Speaker 2: something mean to him, So that like broke my heart.
Speaker 2: And then also the other day too, Jolie made a
Speaker 2: choice about something, but she regretted her choice, and this
Speaker 2: is what we were happening. And then she was like,
Speaker 2: I'm an idiot and I was like no, Like I'm
Speaker 2: like and so I'm like, first of all, where did
Speaker 2: you hear that? Because it's like those aren't the words
Speaker 2: that we say in here, and so I couldn't. First
Speaker 2: and foremost was that that parent was saying like even
Speaker 2: though she was like joking, but like she was like,
Speaker 2: you're dummy, dummy, dummy, like said it like a couple
Speaker 2: of times, and then was like talking about she was
Speaker 2: saying all these other negative things, yeah, like really negative
Speaker 2: things where I'm like, is that age appropriate for you
Speaker 2: to be telling her about this cheating uncle?
Speaker 1: Like it was very abrasive and very she was very negative.
Speaker 1: Everything was night which I'm I mean, I'm I'm she
Speaker 1: was got better left and right. Every time the plane
Speaker 1: got delayed. I was like here it comes to like
Speaker 1: like she was like freaking out every time that part.
Speaker 1: I literally I sat there and I was like, would
Speaker 1: I have had that conversation with Emmy maybe just in
Speaker 1: a different way, which piece the conversation about the cheating
Speaker 1: uncle or whatever. Yeah, me and Emmy do have conversations
Speaker 1: like that, but this was the way.
Speaker 2: And it was like girlfriends talking like that sm P
Speaker 2: O s was you know, cheating on this one and
Speaker 2: the sick mother. Yeah, it was the way it was done.
Speaker 1: It was just all very abrasive, all very negative, and
Speaker 1: very public. Yes, very we were right there.
Speaker 2: That's why a few times I was like, oh boy,
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, because I'm like hello, right, you know, and
Speaker 2: then I just and then she I just felt I
Speaker 2: just felt bad because it just that negativity is like
Speaker 2: we they don't need any more negativity than they already
Speaker 2: see on their screens and this that and the other
Speaker 2: coming then from so it put it's hard because I'm
Speaker 2: I don't feel like mom shamed or like you're not
Speaker 2: trying to shame the mom, but it did make me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Image uncomfortable. Yeah, I think that's fair to say.
Speaker 2: But like to then speak that negatively to your kid,
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's they already have so much negativity going
Speaker 2: on at that age.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, I mean for sure, Yeah, no, absolutely,
Speaker 1: And I think that there's a there can be a
Speaker 1: time when they are a kid at that age is
Speaker 1: feeling a certain way, and that as moms we can
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I can't believe that, and we can
Speaker 1: get negative down in there with them, so they feel
Speaker 1: like you're kind of on their team, on their side,
Speaker 1: right or wrong. I don't know if that's right or wrong.
Speaker 1: Couldn't tell you, but I could think of the time
Speaker 1: where like Emmy's upset about something and so I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't believe they did that, and you kind of
Speaker 1: get down in that negative part too, like.
Speaker 2: That's so hurtful.
Speaker 1: Right, But this child was barely speaking. She just sat there.
Speaker 1: She didn't really even respond to any of it. And
Speaker 1: that's the part I saw use like, this isn't a
Speaker 1: conversation really between two people.
Speaker 2: It's like she wanted to be best friend talking with her,
Speaker 2: or she wasn't responding.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just felt bad for the yeah, the girl because
Speaker 2: I'm just like, but I just saw how negaive and honestly,
Speaker 2: it made me check myself to be like, Yep, I
Speaker 2: don't want to be that negative person around my kids
Speaker 2: because I saw, like you said, I watched her too
Speaker 2: to see how she reacted, and like she wasn't reacting
Speaker 2: in a really anyway, but not in an engaging way either.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't want to be that. I
Speaker 2: don't want to be that parent to my kids. Yep,
Speaker 2: to be negatives like so it reminded me at least like, okay, a,
Speaker 2: the swearing was not great, so I'm like check that
Speaker 2: on my part, but also like the negative piece and
Speaker 2: then how how you know to talk to them, not
Speaker 2: the dumb dumb part. I was like, I just don't
Speaker 2: like any of that, Like you got to speak nice
Speaker 2: and wautiful words.
Speaker 1: I think it's good sometimes to hear stuff like that.
Speaker 1: If that's how she wants to be and that's how
Speaker 1: she wants to be with her and her daughter like
Speaker 1: more power, Like if that's how they're gonna I'm okay whatever,
Speaker 1: But for me, it's helpful to hear it and see
Speaker 1: what I don't like and what kind of hits me
Speaker 1: and go ooh and make me think about how I
Speaker 1: will handle situations with my kids.
Speaker 2: And there right now with the word yeah, I don't
Speaker 2: like it. I don't either, and I've said it a
Speaker 2: couple of times in front of my kids, but I
Speaker 2: don't know handful. I don't know if it's like where
Speaker 2: we grew up.
Speaker 1: I used to not cousin in front of my kids
Speaker 1: at all, and now that they've got car it comes
Speaker 1: out a lot more. But I try not to say
Speaker 1: that word.
Speaker 2: I slipped the S word a little bit like shit,
Speaker 2: like yeah, so I'm trying to do the yeah too.
Speaker 1: It's weird. I didn't do it for so long, and
Speaker 1: now that they're all like, I can remember kind of
Speaker 1: the first times I did them kind of looking at
Speaker 1: me like what. But I'm like you you're older.
Speaker 3: Come on.
Speaker 2: Has gotten better being around Alan, even though he says
Speaker 2: the ff thing, oh yeah, Even though he says that
Speaker 2: but like it doesn't he doesn't put language within just
Speaker 2: a regular sentence like I would just add swearards and
Speaker 2: not just like a normal vocabulary of just regular talking.
Speaker 2: But his is I've class set up a little bit
Speaker 2: more for sure with being with him because he's he's
Speaker 2: more classier I guess in that area. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Also, the South just doesn't swear as much in my experience,
Speaker 3: Like I just.
Speaker 1: Don't that I would have been in so much trouble. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's strange.
Speaker 2: I mean great, It's just like a foreign feeling. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so it was foreign for me the first couple of
Speaker 2: times I did. That's in front of like even the
Speaker 2: older ones, and I know they've heard all of it obviously,
Speaker 2: but I just I just didn't grow up that way.
Speaker 3: Well, it holds more of a punch too, and use it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and you hold it tight and once in a while
Speaker 3: it comes out.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So that was my wine about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was it was rough.
Speaker 3: I kind of grew up in that we're gonna we're
Speaker 3: gonna pull out the pin, but not completely because it's similar.
Speaker 3: This pin is related, okay, in the negativity and the
Speaker 3: inviting that kind of negativity back in for like the
Speaker 3: unchanged people in your family. And so there's been hesitation
Speaker 3: for me to incorporate certain people back into my world
Speaker 3: because I do these temperature checks with them to like
Speaker 3: see like you know, do we have growth or progress.
Speaker 3: I'm not judging the progress, but I am really protective
Speaker 3: of what comes back into the space because I've given
Speaker 3: it a good amount of space. And that is a
Speaker 3: big part of it, because there's a lot of just
Speaker 3: really like it's kind of constant. It's part of the
Speaker 3: makeup of this person. I remember being in the mall
Speaker 3: with Love and this person, this family member, and you know,
Speaker 3: Love loves fast, so like she just like we don't
Speaker 3: walk through them all hardly ever, And so we were
Speaker 3: looking at the mannequins and the dresses. It was in
Speaker 3: Dillard's and there was a woman shopping near us, and
Speaker 3: I remember this family member going, oh, that's hideous, that's
Speaker 3: you know, and I and I just stopped Love and
Speaker 3: I said, somebody is going to feel really pretty when
Speaker 3: they put that dress on. And that's what's really special
Speaker 3: about that dress. Love, And I think it's cool that
Speaker 3: you like ruffles because it's, you know whatever, Like the
Speaker 3: empowerment someone gets when they put that on is going
Speaker 3: to be so special to them. Like, I just don't
Speaker 3: want that back in my world. And I'm that's the
Speaker 3: part where I'm struggling, and I will I think more
Speaker 3: go into more details time goes on on this podcast, probably,
Speaker 3: but like just still feeling it out. But that's a
Speaker 3: lot of my protecting myself right now.
Speaker 1: That negativity piece is so interesting because I think we
Speaker 1: all struggle with that, right, Like yeah, even like talking
Speaker 1: about clothes like oh that's ugly or something like that.
Speaker 1: You know, well we might think that, but somebody else
Speaker 1: may think it's beautiful and then create them. And that's
Speaker 1: a hard lesson And that's kind of part of my
Speaker 1: pin a little bit as well. And you know, teenagers
Speaker 1: growing up with kids that are super negative and trying
Speaker 1: to find your people that make you feel good and
Speaker 1: happy and not down and depressed because they're negative all
Speaker 1: the time. And that's kind of one of the things
Speaker 1: that we've been going through at our house is like
Speaker 1: you know, friendship breakups and realizing that like, yeah, they
Speaker 1: may have done X, Y and Z to you, but
Speaker 1: also recognize that, like this might not be your person
Speaker 1: because they are negative or they are not happy, not
Speaker 1: meaning that you shouldn't be there for them, but like
Speaker 1: it's bringing you down. So how how does that make
Speaker 1: you feel?
Speaker 2: And how?
Speaker 1: You know, there's it's a lot, it's a lot to
Speaker 1: deal with a lot of negativity, but as adults it
Speaker 1: still really creeps in on us too, you know, and
Speaker 1: especially if you're raised with it. Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think a lot of it though, is the
Speaker 2: reflection of the other person, and that sometimes where it's
Speaker 2: like maybe she is going like that mom at the
Speaker 2: airport or whoever it is. It's like they're going through
Speaker 2: something that they're going through, and that's their way of
Speaker 2: either making themselves feel better or ignoring what they're going through.
Speaker 2: Like I know, in any anytime I have been negative,
Speaker 2: I can look and go it's because either it reminded
Speaker 2: me of something bad or I was not feeling confident
Speaker 2: in myself, and so what's the easiest thing to do?
Speaker 2: And that will you know, not be nice to somebody
Speaker 2: else or sure have thoughts about this because it's maybe
Speaker 2: makes that person feel better or yeah, I don't know, absolutely,
Speaker 2: And then you know, think about other relationships too. It's like, Okay,
Speaker 2: this person was saying this, but it's because it was
Speaker 2: their own reflection of themselves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a hard one to teach young people. Hell,
Speaker 1: it's a hard one for me to remember a lot
Speaker 1: of the time. It's so true, and we know that
Speaker 1: that's to be true.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like the mean people that write nasty comments,
Speaker 2: is there's something with them that they're Yes, they might
Speaker 2: not like us, and they're they have to be unhappy
Speaker 2: in some part of their life to be that negative
Speaker 2: towards somebody else and be dealing with something, whether it's
Speaker 2: they don't feel whatever it is that they don't feelly,
Speaker 2: they feel, might feel lesson or not enough or whatever
Speaker 2: it is that they feel like, then they have to
Speaker 2: go being mean is the best option?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, hard rewiring as an adult, I think is
Speaker 3: the trickiest part. It really is, and knowing, you know,
Speaker 3: like when you have space from that, then you go
Speaker 3: back in you're like, wow, it's like toxic, Like it
Speaker 3: feels so like so identifiable, so quick.
Speaker 2: But then.
Speaker 3: To try to change it the trajectory, I think, yeah,
Speaker 3: And I don't want a toxic positivity environment either. That's
Speaker 3: the other right, Like it's like we don't want to
Speaker 3: be so avoidant that we're not like acknowledging something hurts
Speaker 3: our feelings or we don't like something or whatever.
Speaker 1: But also, but I don't think that's negative. I don't
Speaker 1: think it's negative to speak up and say something hurts
Speaker 1: your feelings, you know, I think that I see that
Speaker 1: as as different, you know. I mean, like, I just
Speaker 1: had a conversation with a friend today that was just
Speaker 1: a really and I love her, but it's a really
Speaker 1: just negative. She was just and she's negative, negative, negative,
Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, I don't have the energy
Speaker 1: for that right now, and so all I can do
Speaker 1: is match it with let's just think of the positive.
Speaker 1: Let's just trust this is going to work out the
Speaker 1: way that it should. Let's just be happy. And and
Speaker 1: she also didn't want to hear that right right then,
Speaker 1: but like, sometimes though, it can bring me down so much, yes,
Speaker 1: and bring me down to being negative too, that it's
Speaker 1: like I just I can't.
Speaker 2: I just it's hard. It's a misery. Loves Company is
Speaker 2: the same for a reason. Yeah. But also Amy had
Speaker 2: said something about the rewiring where you're at, and she's like,
Speaker 2: I know it's you know, not trying to be like
Speaker 2: that toxic positivity, but with the the gratitude stuff, it's
Speaker 2: really hard. She's like, if you do that every day
Speaker 2: for this my time, your brain actually does rewire. You're going, yeah, okay, no,
Speaker 2: this is good. Yeah, I'm not maybe where I want
Speaker 2: to be here, you know, whatever the case, but that
Speaker 2: you are, there are so many other beautiful things around you. Yes,
Speaker 2: and that's way. No, no, no, no, I think it's
Speaker 2: just grateful.
Speaker 3: But it is true because I think, isn't it Like
Speaker 3: I'm probably messing up this, But it's like scientifically impossible
Speaker 3: for you to be grateful and fearful at the same time,
Speaker 3: or grateful and worrisome at the same time. It's a
Speaker 3: teeter totter, so you can only really have like one. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: it's good to know. Yeah, well, I'm.
Speaker 2: Glad that conversation was the same person that you told
Speaker 2: me about. There.
Speaker 1: Well, the person I was actually talking to today is
Speaker 1: not and it is a good friend and it's just
Speaker 1: a circumstance that she's she's feeling down about and I
Speaker 1: understand it. But I'm like, you're stuck there. But she
Speaker 1: can hear it, like I love it, like she can
Speaker 1: hear it. I'm like, hey, you're stuck here. Let's let's
Speaker 1: let's just we don't even know yet. Let's be happy.
Speaker 1: Let's you know, you have a talk today.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: No, I was like, yeah, I think it's related to
Speaker 1: her child. Too, and just you know, and it's again,
Speaker 1: she'll be fine tomorrow. She's just in that negative spot.
Speaker 1: But I was feeling myself like kind of meeting her
Speaker 1: there and I'm like, nope, I'm like, all right, let's
Speaker 1: just think positive, let's you know whatever. No, the situation
Speaker 1: with us is just you know, we've had you know,
Speaker 1: officially friendship breakup, you know that we were dealing with. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: we're also friends and it has not been good for us.
Speaker 2: So the moms are friends, the kids are friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and like we travel together and we're
Speaker 1: not anymore, and you know, stuff like that. So it's
Speaker 1: been really and I don't want to talk about last
Speaker 1: week because like that had just happened. We had decided
Speaker 1: not to travel together. So I was like I'm going
Speaker 1: to cry, you know, Like I was just like it's
Speaker 1: too fresh. And then we just kind of had a
Speaker 1: situation where something floated around that a friend or an
Speaker 1: ex friend had sent of Emmy's that really embarrassed her
Speaker 1: and she was crying and she was upset, and I
Speaker 1: it just went to the parents and I was like,
Speaker 1: can y'all please like take care of this, you know,
Speaker 1: And it wasn't received well, and I understand because I
Speaker 1: was definitely coming from a mad place, but also like
Speaker 1: help me out place a protective place, for sure. And
Speaker 1: you know when children lie a lot and are not
Speaker 1: honest with their parents, but I know the truth. It's
Speaker 1: really hard because it's like I get you know, I
Speaker 1: got attacked back, like you don't know, this is not
Speaker 1: what happened, and I'm like, okay, you know. But then
Speaker 1: they come back and admit it later, you know that
Speaker 1: it that it did happen, and so it just was
Speaker 1: a really it was taking me to a negative place,
Speaker 1: for sure, and so it was one of those where
Speaker 1: we just have to step away from it. It's making
Speaker 1: us all unhappy, it's making the kids unhappy, it's making
Speaker 1: the moms unhappy. So we just have to agree to
Speaker 1: just separate for a while.
Speaker 2: And well that's hard to because you were friends with
Speaker 2: the mom. Yeah, yeah, it's hard. We were together all
Speaker 2: the time, you know, So that's it's hard. But every
Speaker 2: day I feel more peace about it in the sense
Speaker 2: I know that we'll be cordial.
Speaker 1: That's the one thing I know about this mom. She
Speaker 1: is not going to be mean to me. She's not
Speaker 1: going to you know, like when we see each other,
Speaker 1: it will be fine. We will be able to be
Speaker 1: around each other. I know all of that, and I'm
Speaker 1: thankful for that because, I mean, there's been things said
Speaker 1: on both sides that are hurtful, but I just I
Speaker 1: feel more peace every day knowing you know what this is.
Speaker 1: This is just kind of God's plan for us right now.
Speaker 1: But it does bring me to a question. It made
Speaker 1: me think about something. So have y'all ever heard I'm
Speaker 1: sure you have, but kind of like the whole saying
Speaker 1: about like friends are like a season like seasonal friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a reason a season or a lifetime they So
Speaker 2: does that.
Speaker 1: Bother y'all at all? Like have you ever had anyone
Speaker 1: say that to you, like when you're friends, Like when
Speaker 1: your friends are just seasonal, Kristen, they're just seasonal? Like
Speaker 1: would that bother you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think I'm a love delivering it though too. Yea,
Speaker 2: how they are. There's someone in our neighborhood that I
Speaker 2: could absolutely we're friends, but I we were both kind
Speaker 2: of making comments like she's she's a wife of a coach,
Speaker 2: she will leave right right, and so we yes, we're friends,
Speaker 2: but it's not it is a season friend because it's
Speaker 2: not tight enough to like, we're most likely never going
Speaker 2: to hang out unless she comes right back to Nashville
Speaker 2: when they move, right. Does that makes sense? That makes sense? Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I think. But if one of you guys said
Speaker 2: that's me, that would break my heart because I think
Speaker 2: we're life life life time life, right life. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think it's it's how it's it's where the friendship is at,
Speaker 2: right when that person says it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we had So this story is kind of
Speaker 1: obviously a lot of this is with cheer moms, but
Speaker 1: we're together so much and we've all, you know, become friends.
Speaker 2: So there is one that did turn out to be seasonal.
Speaker 2: A couple of years ago.
Speaker 1: She always said that, and it always took me back
Speaker 1: because I'm like, no, like, what are you talking about.
Speaker 1: We'll always be friends. It doesn't matter if she's on
Speaker 1: a different team, we live in the same town, it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Like always though, it was always Nope, friends
Speaker 1: are seasonal, they're seasonal.
Speaker 2: Sounds like she's a little protective for herself. She is, Yeah,
Speaker 2: she is, and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I very much recognized it as a coping
Speaker 1: you know, in her, And turns out, yes, she was
Speaker 1: very clear, we were seasonal, we're no longer friends, which
Speaker 1: is fine, great, right, that's wild. Well, then this friend
Speaker 1: that I just had this situation with threw that out
Speaker 1: there when we were talking. She's like, well, I guess
Speaker 1: it's a different season, and I was like, oh, okay,
Speaker 1: and that's just great.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just really took that as Wow. I didn't think
Speaker 1: that you really bought into that too, you know. I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't say that, but in my mind, I'm
Speaker 1: like wow, because like that always bothered all of us
Speaker 1: that she said that. But she was like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: she's right, they're seasonal. So it was like, okay, guess
Speaker 1: our season's over too. But I just thought, like, have
Speaker 1: y'all ever had I just didn't know if y'all ever
Speaker 1: had anyone tell you that. It's always been just a
Speaker 1: little bit of a I get that there's the truth
Speaker 1: to that once the season is over, but saying to
Speaker 1: a current friend just never felt good to me. It
Speaker 1: always felt like you very much planned for us to
Speaker 1: just be friends for a season. So why do I
Speaker 1: want to put in all this work into a friendship
Speaker 1: if you're already saying it it's just seasonal.
Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like when you're dating the guy and you
Speaker 3: know you're not going to marry him, what's the point.
Speaker 2: Right, you know what I mean? Yeah, like, yeah, it's
Speaker 2: a good question, and you raise a really good point.
Speaker 2: And I'm just thinking of kind of our you know,
Speaker 2: I think our you know, queen as everyone's very busy,
Speaker 2: we get together as much as we can. I think
Speaker 2: we because of the relationships that we have, we are
Speaker 2: we will always just like my high school friends, like
Speaker 2: we'll be lifelong friends, right. But I think in the forties,
Speaker 2: especially people that come in maybe some of them are
Speaker 2: truly just seasonal ones or just the sports ones. Like
Speaker 2: I have a girlfriend that I love, but I'm not
Speaker 2: going to go out of my way to hang out
Speaker 2: with her when I'd rather hang out with and I
Speaker 2: but I would see her. We're sports friends right right,
Speaker 2: because our kids love each other and we hang out.
Speaker 2: So I think, you know, there's that is a season, yeah,
Speaker 2: and the actual baseball season, yeah, you know, truly fall
Speaker 2: ball season.
Speaker 1: But I do think there is some truth to it,
Speaker 1: for sure, I just think. But there's also like it
Speaker 1: doesn't have to do so all or nothing. I think
Speaker 1: that's what I don't like about that.
Speaker 2: Same like you need to say it though, right, I
Speaker 2: know we know it, but we don't have to say
Speaker 2: because that's saying it, I think is the hurtful. Right.
Speaker 3: They also don't have to fit into three categories, you know,
Speaker 3: Like I love our friendships for a lot of reasons, right.
Speaker 1: I think they can like EBB and flow and they
Speaker 1: can't go different seasons and stuff like that or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, it's just the intentionality behind it
Speaker 1: from the get go.
Speaker 2: I'm just like, no, I'm sure that would would. I
Speaker 2: don't like that feelings. And also you kind of know
Speaker 2: who you're going to maybe start hanging out with, why
Speaker 2: or not? And right, but I feel like by this
Speaker 2: point you have your core group. Yeah, your peeps, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: for sure. Also very red flaggy. Yeah, I don't like it. Well,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, kits.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's you know, it'll it'll be fine, It'll be
Speaker 1: good in the end. It's just I mean, obviously feel
Speaker 1: worse for her daughter than you know, myself, But it
Speaker 1: does make it kind of uncomfortable for everybody.
Speaker 2: That's a tricky piece though, because I think about, you
Speaker 2: know what if our daughters there's a riff between her,
Speaker 2: you know, Harlow or I mean raims. They don't hang
Speaker 2: out as much, but like you know, if something would
Speaker 2: happen or and then it's like how that then affects
Speaker 2: the relationship between the friend We already kind of talk.
Speaker 2: I don't know if we talked about it on here,
Speaker 2: if it was just friend chat.
Speaker 3: But like birthday parties, Yeah, and they get to the
Speaker 3: age where they're like, yeah, they invite they pick the
Speaker 3: people they want to invite it, and you're like, well
Speaker 3: what about them?
Speaker 2: You know that's tricky through all of this.
Speaker 1: Just so y'all know, like protection mechanism for me is
Speaker 1: a major one with Ramsey, like her best friend, Like
Speaker 1: we're friends, but like I keep a little bit of
Speaker 1: distance because I can't I could. I could not do
Speaker 1: this again. I mean I could not do this again.
Speaker 1: That's why I am thankful for y'all though, because they
Speaker 1: don't go to school together. They don't, you know, so
Speaker 1: like they're not just always together. They're not.
Speaker 2: So if there was like a little bit of a thing,
Speaker 2: it would be so easy to like it's not like
Speaker 2: a big falling out, Like they don't go to school together.
Speaker 2: You know, all those dating the same boys and That's why,
Speaker 2: even like sports together stuff like that. I have been
Speaker 2: so hesitant with Ramsey in that sense doing this over
Speaker 2: because I feel like I did her a disservice by
Speaker 2: them being together all the time, or both of us yea,
Speaker 2: and then being involved and you know all those things.
Speaker 2: I also feel like you can't help that though, too.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of inevitable, especially when you're traveling. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it just can be too much at times. So yeah, anybody,
Speaker 2: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I think we both slightly unpinned. You're the only one
Speaker 1: that's not.
Speaker 2: We didn't even didn't a little I did. Last week.
Speaker 2: I was trying to pull something else out.
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought, yeah, we'll see.
Speaker 2: Teddy mellin camp. Cozy's up to a mystery man amid
Speaker 2: cancer treatment and divorce from husband Edwin. She's been spotted
Speaker 2: cozying up to her new mystery man on a walk
Speaker 2: in Encino, California. Did you guys see the photo? On
Speaker 2: her podcast? They were talking and saying, yes, I'm dating
Speaker 2: a guy. And yesterday we went on a walk and
Speaker 2: went to Gelson's. Then we went to the mall to
Speaker 2: pick up Slade's graduation dress. He is very kind and
Speaker 2: he's been helping her. It's private, private person, doesn't have
Speaker 2: any kids. He's taking good care of me. He's nice,
Speaker 2: he's not married. She added, that's good, just really really
Speaker 2: clarifying there. Yeah, so I kind of my thoughts on
Speaker 2: this is I love a man that comes in.
Speaker 1: Like that. You know.
Speaker 2: I also think of like Katie Thurston's husband, who they
Speaker 2: ended up getting married early because she's also got cancer
Speaker 2: and do you guys know who she is. She was
Speaker 2: one of the Bachelor Girls, bachelorette, sorry, she was the bachelorette.
Speaker 2: And you know, men that come in during that, I
Speaker 2: think they're just incredible to be there and to be
Speaker 2: a safe place for women. I even think of the
Speaker 2: same thing about, you know, men like Alan who come
Speaker 2: after you know a girl has been hurt really bad
Speaker 2: sure or you know, been through a bad relationship. So
Speaker 2: I have a lot of Kelsey Ballerini actually has a
Speaker 2: song to the to the men who love women after heartbreak.
Speaker 2: You know, I think there's something so beautiful about that
Speaker 2: type of man that can come and be such a
Speaker 2: support and loving, comfortable, you know, comfortable place for them.
Speaker 2: That's my thoughts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really happy for her too.
Speaker 2: She's wonderful. Yeah, and she's going through so much and
Speaker 2: so hard, and it seems like Edwin's being great and
Speaker 2: being helpful and so thank God for that. I mean,
Speaker 2: they've got these kids together. And then to have someone
Speaker 2: that she feels like like, I'm I'm I mean that's huge.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and life is again we go to this like
Speaker 2: life is so short and yes, and everyone just and
Speaker 2: everybody just get along. Yeah, exactly, especially in those kind
Speaker 2: of times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think just yeah, I mean imagine how tired
Speaker 3: spiritually physically to have any any newness is probably I
Speaker 3: mean even chemistry right biologically, that's got to be so
Speaker 3: good for her body.
Speaker 2: Yeah, give her some life, yeah, just like a little yeah. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 2: I know, I say, can everyone get along? But I
Speaker 2: me and my ex go back and forth, but there's it's.
Speaker 3: Everyone who's healthy get along. That would be my statement. Okay,
Speaker 3: too much, she said it. She always does. She's protesting it.
Speaker 3: It's very hard to co parent.
Speaker 2: It's hard to co parent with someone you can't trust,
Speaker 2: you know, and it repeats patterns. So it's that's you know, yep,
Speaker 2: it can't. It's not all sunshine and butterflies. You know,
Speaker 2: co parenting is tough in general, so but in this instance,
Speaker 2: I'm very happy for them because you know, she's they uh,
Speaker 2: she's going through a lot, so positivity I think also
Speaker 2: helps and heals, yes, all things. Anyways, enough about that.
Speaker 2: Chris Jenner reveals Kylie Jenner's breast surgeon did her what
Speaker 2: did her first face lift? Chris Jenner is hyping up
Speaker 2: the plastic surgeon who was behind her face lift fourteen
Speaker 2: years ago. Okay, wait time out. Didn't she just get
Speaker 2: a facelift? She did something she did.
Speaker 1: I think this one is referencing her first one, though
Speaker 1: not this.
Speaker 2: One, So you have to do more than one facelift.
Speaker 1: I think they definitely can go because like my mother
Speaker 1: in law, I think that's fine to say has had.
Speaker 2: One in about seven days. We're all gonna know.
Speaker 1: But like I mean, it definitely starts to change, yeah,
Speaker 1: because if they're referencing the one that yeah she said
Speaker 1: fourteen years ago, Oh yeah, no, she just had a
Speaker 1: new one.
Speaker 2: And have you seen the pictures? Yeah? I was confused
Speaker 2: and who she was.
Speaker 1: To be honest, we were talking, we were playing car
Speaker 1: was just here.
Speaker 2: Guys. Can we talk about that?
Speaker 1: I know, I'm so upset.
Speaker 2: She was with Maggie. She played beer pong with Maggie.
Speaker 2: She was that my friendie Maggie Maggie Walsh. Oh what yeah,
Speaker 2: I text hers top everything where she's so nice. It
Speaker 2: was like she was amazing. It was my girlfriend. They
Speaker 2: own that. I was like, what about it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's but we were talking about it and I
Speaker 1: was saying it and wonder my friend's death.
Speaker 2: She was just so.
Speaker 1: Funny because she was like, oh, yeah, cool, she got
Speaker 1: a face lift, blah blah blah. And I'm like showing
Speaker 1: this back up. She's like, yeah, okay, cool. So it's
Speaker 1: like her and Kim.
Speaker 2: She's like not into she was not into it.
Speaker 1: And I go, that is not Kim Beth and she goes,
Speaker 1: wait what it was? Her like, weird it is again
Speaker 1: I'm all about aging gracefully and like whatever, but I
Speaker 1: have never seen anything.
Speaker 2: No, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: It's unbelievable.
Speaker 2: No, Like it was like a weird feeling for me. Yes,
Speaker 2: I was like, wait, like.
Speaker 1: Does have happened? I know it's unbelievable. Also, like I
Speaker 1: want to know who did this one?
Speaker 2: The first one? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I guess I'm I'm not very tuned in to them
Speaker 3: right now at all or many things. No, no, this
Speaker 3: isn't like I'm not Kardashian shaming. It's fine, I'll get
Speaker 3: plenty of those message. Oh no, no, because I love
Speaker 3: a good Kardashian moment.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: I just haven't been as tuned in alger than probably right,
Speaker 3: so it feels like I haven't. I just saw Chris
Speaker 3: recently in my brain. But then all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: I'm like, where is time different for these people?
Speaker 1: Like unreal?
Speaker 2: They just go away for like ten minutes, I feel like,
Speaker 2: and come back with a new face.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing I've I think she's stunning beautiful.
Speaker 2: Before she always thought like I think she's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 2: I do think she's stunning, and just the way she
Speaker 2: keeps herself like she's so lover. Yes, I always say like,
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with Christian. I don't think she's fantastic, but
Speaker 2: I thought she was beautiful before the facelift.
Speaker 1: I did two facelifts. Corey's like twelve.
Speaker 3: I don't, I don't know. But I'm also like, at
Speaker 3: some point is she going to start?
Speaker 2: Wait?
Speaker 1: I mean, Corey's so young.
Speaker 2: Is he thought he's not? Yeah? How old is he? Oh?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he's definitely probably.
Speaker 2: Thirty years got to google around her head. There's no
Speaker 2: always don't know way he's thirty, No, forty four, thirty
Speaker 2: years younger, but maybe forty four. Yeah, I thought he
Speaker 2: was in his forties. I mean yeah, I mean, because
Speaker 2: I'm just like, yeah, this, I mean, I think she's
Speaker 2: just she's so beautiful. I you know, it's hard because
Speaker 2: if you got the money and I want to look younger.
Speaker 2: I love that people. I love that they talk about
Speaker 2: it at least. I love that they're opened about it
Speaker 2: and they're like, yeah, I have a facelift. I mean,
Speaker 2: surely she's I don't know if she's actually talked about
Speaker 2: this one, but there's literally no way to deny this one.
Speaker 2: I don't even know how she is her daughter now,
Speaker 2: and I haven't in which one make a daughter.
Speaker 1: She looks like every different daughter, every which way.
Speaker 2: Then again, though, stem cells are really doing a thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, and maybe it was her face, maybe it
Speaker 1: was something else, and maybe that's why it looks so good.
Speaker 1: Because maybe it's not an actual facelift. I don't know,
Speaker 1: let me know I mean because it's unbelievable.
Speaker 2: I'm shocked.
Speaker 1: I'm in shocked by this as I haven't done botox
Speaker 1: in like a year.
Speaker 2: Would you guys ever do a facelift?
Speaker 1: No, I would neither. I would never put a knife
Speaker 1: to my face.
Speaker 2: I never know. With me, I kind of feel like
Speaker 2: you would.
Speaker 1: Oh you would do anything, Oh in a good way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I'm like, I'm not scared of that stuff.
Speaker 3: No, I'm more scared of surgery. Injections don't scare me
Speaker 3: as much. Surgery is where I am tough. I would
Speaker 3: do boobs first, probably boobs are knowing before i'd facelift.
Speaker 3: I just am I am like I also have just
Speaker 3: been like recent, I've just been so in the deep
Speaker 3: dive of like internally the things that help us that
Speaker 3: can like just bring out like a use full glow
Speaker 3: and like help us support our collagen and blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: Like I'm more into that than I am like surgery.
Speaker 3: And also I've just seen so many that are not great.
Speaker 1: And I mean, if I were her, if I and
Speaker 1: I had Christianner's money, then maybecause you know you're getting
Speaker 1: top of you know, all that cream of the crop,
Speaker 1: like I can't, like with the money I got like
Speaker 1: a group bond, you know, Like again, is money can
Speaker 1: really make you pretty?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Right, right, you can look pretty with the money.
Speaker 2: Having said that, did you happen to see any of
Speaker 2: the d ms from that one baiting suit, because someone
Speaker 2: did say, well with all them, with with the money
Speaker 2: and the plastic surgeries, anyone can look like that. And
Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, I have my boobs done, but besides that,
Speaker 2: like I don't have a trainer, Like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 2: do botox, you workout well, I mean I also don't
Speaker 2: negate that. Yeah, But so that's my point. So I
Speaker 2: was like, why did you have to go straight to
Speaker 2: she has money plastic surgery? That was not cool to me.
Speaker 1: No, you've done nothing to make yourself look prettier, like I.
Speaker 2: Got my boobs done.
Speaker 1: That isn't like making you know what I'm saying, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that sounds how do I say without being.
Speaker 2: Sound judgmental, like that you can really change a face. Sure,
Speaker 2: and money and stuff too, right, but you've never done
Speaker 2: any of that. But that's what people automatically go to,
Speaker 2: is like, well, you know, and that was the comment
Speaker 2: because it was my friend Kelly Krueger had been like
Speaker 2: damn girl or something, or like m body goals or
Speaker 2: something like, you know, one of those things, and they're like, yeah,
Speaker 2: with with money and plastic surgery, like you just have
Speaker 2: it too people.
Speaker 1: Being negative and it's secure.
Speaker 2: Actually I wanted a tummy talk Alan straight up wouldn't
Speaker 2: let me love him so much? Did you want one? Later? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I wanted him. I wanted a mommy. I've always wanted one.
Speaker 2: I forgot you did always want one. I've always about
Speaker 2: it in a long time. The doctor talked you out
Speaker 2: of you like brought it up at one point with
Speaker 2: with doctor when I was doing my mAbs, He's like,
Speaker 2: you could. He's like, but you know, this is what
Speaker 2: we can do. And then he's like, basically I didn't
Speaker 2: know if I was done with I mean, I was
Speaker 2: right right, yeah, yeah, but he's like, you know, try
Speaker 2: actually working out. I didn't work out to the best
Speaker 2: of the ability then, and so that's a funny sentence though,
Speaker 2: I know, but we're actually working out.
Speaker 3: As if you've always been like a fit, well, especially
Speaker 3: because you are fit, you're a runner.
Speaker 2: Like you're always active. But when I was pregnant, with Roman.
Speaker 2: I was like, I really want to get a mommy
Speaker 2: talk and Alan was like, no, so's his reasoning. One
Speaker 2: of his friends that he played with his wife died
Speaker 2: because she got sepsis.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had a friend who almost like it was close.
Speaker 2: And I was like, and I have a friend who
Speaker 2: looks great tricky and she looked enough to scare me
Speaker 2: as my problem. Yeah, but you know I also so
Speaker 2: now I'm glad I didn't do it. Having said that,
Speaker 2: when we go back, I super digress, but I story
Speaker 2: of our lives. We should actually rename this podcast. Uh,
Speaker 2: you know, get whatever you want to get. I understand
Speaker 2: why Alan was like, know about it, and now I'm
Speaker 2: looking back, I'm you know, I am glad I didn't
Speaker 2: get it, because if we do have a friend that
Speaker 2: did get it, and she's got a lot of scar
Speaker 2: tissue and she hates it. So I want everywhere we
Speaker 2: have a lot of young listeners, I just want to
Speaker 2: say this to them in this moment, Please appreciate your
Speaker 2: beautiful young bodies. Yes, because I went through our attic
Speaker 2: spaces and I might have mentioned this to you guys,
Speaker 2: but I went through our addic spaces and the photos
Speaker 2: I found and how hard I was on myself at
Speaker 2: those times I should have been walking around naked NonStop.
Speaker 2: I was stunnying collegen boobs are high booty, like I mean,
Speaker 2: just and I was so hard on myself. So I
Speaker 2: want everyone in this moment to just be so freaking
Speaker 2: proud of yourself but also.
Speaker 1: Older and yourself. What do you like stay positive about?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean like I just don't think I appreciated,
Speaker 3: you know, like I've been recently trying to reframe the
Speaker 3: body piece for me as like, because this postpartum has
Speaker 3: just been a struggle. I lost all the muscle and
Speaker 3: dreaming the muscle and I'm getting the weight back, and
Speaker 3: it's like what size am I? And I can't go
Speaker 3: through my closet because everything's changing. And then I busted
Speaker 3: out of the dress. You know that this wasn't good
Speaker 3: for anybody, but I just am like going, but ten
Speaker 3: years from now, this body is banging, you know, like
Speaker 3: I'm going to be like, why didn't you just wear
Speaker 3: the swimsuit? So I just do what I want now,
Speaker 3: which is freedom, But I wish I could have and
Speaker 3: part of it could just be the era we grew
Speaker 3: up in which was. I mean, listen, it's like, everyone
Speaker 3: raise your hand if you've had an eating disorder. Like
Speaker 3: it was just rampant for our generation specifically. I don't
Speaker 3: know what it is like now, but so it was
Speaker 3: like you're battling that and the magic diet pills and
Speaker 3: all the things that just didn't support a healthy view
Speaker 3: of a body. Ever was like nothing was ever good enough.
Speaker 3: And now I'm going man like I wanted. I wish
Speaker 3: I would have just appreciated that body more, you know,
Speaker 3: not been so hard on her because she was cute.
Speaker 2: And she still does that have, you know, like for
Speaker 2: my the areas that I was self conscious of when
Speaker 2: you look into what maybe is an inflaming you Like
Speaker 2: when I did my gut stuff, I'm like, I realized
Speaker 2: I didn't need to do it anymore because I targeted
Speaker 2: what was actually going on and why I was inflamed
Speaker 2: the way that I was inflamed. And then we just
Speaker 2: get so used to being inflamed, and I think we
Speaker 2: think it's regular. It's a weird feeling, and now without it,
Speaker 2: it's like whow alex Kiper gets emotional as she opens
Speaker 2: up about trying to have a baby with husband Matt Kaplin.
Speaker 2: Did any of you guys watch it? So I thought
Speaker 2: it was great because she basically they had a plan
Speaker 2: and now they're not. She's like, I'm thirty, and you know,
Speaker 2: then you start thinking about the timeline and freaking out,
Speaker 2: and then realizing her she's hotter than ever. You know,
Speaker 2: she's got her new Hulushu show coming out, She's obviously
Speaker 2: got called her Daddy Podet. I mean, she's she's killing it,
Speaker 2: and then going wait a minute, like I want to
Speaker 2: enjoy this too, but I'm thirty and this but this
Speaker 2: wasn't our plan. We talked about having a baby now,
Speaker 2: and so I think just you know, she was saying too,
Speaker 2: it's not the plan that we talked about and that
Speaker 2: we agreed upon. Now I'm doubting myself and second guessing everything.
Speaker 2: I started to get so anxious and panicked, and I
Speaker 2: started to feel like it was all just getting away
Speaker 2: from me and I'm losing precious time. It's this all encompassing,
Speaker 2: overwhelming feeling. I know in my gut I need more time.
Speaker 2: And so I think when anyone says I know in
Speaker 2: my gut, I need more time, like for us women,
Speaker 2: and I'll say this like our gut is the most
Speaker 2: powerful tool that we have. Absolutely a lot of times
Speaker 2: I didn't listen to it, but now like that is
Speaker 2: it's always like no, I don't and if I don't
Speaker 2: know what to do, then I do nothing, you know, Yes,
Speaker 2: So discernment is everything, and we know it's a trust
Speaker 2: pushing because their plan was to go ahead and have
Speaker 2: a baby.
Speaker 1: But she's feeling like she needs to wait. Yeah, got
Speaker 1: it good.
Speaker 2: She's thirty, got plenty of time. That's a thing, too,
Speaker 2: plenty of time. Funny people.
Speaker 1: I hate that pressure that you know, even feels that
Speaker 1: pressure like she's.
Speaker 2: I did when I was thirty.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's crazy how you look back and it was thirty
Speaker 2: and yeah I had a baby with a man that chated.
Speaker 2: I was like, well I'm now thirty one. Shoot, I
Speaker 2: need to have kids or my eyes are going to
Speaker 2: dry up. Because especially ten years ago, yeah, women weren't
Speaker 2: having like not that I heard of babies in their forties.
Speaker 2: Yeah now it's pretty common. Yeah now, I feel like
Speaker 2: it's way more common back then when we were just
Speaker 2: having Jolie. It's like someone's thirty eight and having a baby.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't even have love till I
Speaker 3: was thirty four, So yeah, right, like I mean, and
Speaker 3: I just feel but I do remember my hometown friends, Yes,
Speaker 3: when I hit thirty and I was married at the
Speaker 3: time to someone else, and I remember them being like,
Speaker 3: you've been together forever, why aren't you guys? And I
Speaker 3: just they like thought I was going they were going
Speaker 3: to expire, that I wasn't going to be able to
Speaker 3: have children. I'm like, it's okay, I'm fine. I had
Speaker 3: an odd sense of no pressure.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it's a good good time for women knowing
Speaker 2: that they can have babies later on. Like I know
Speaker 2: someone who, funny enough, is actually my ex's ex girlfriend
Speaker 2: from like back in college, and she's freezing her eggs
Speaker 2: right now, you know. So it's like we have those yeah,
Speaker 2: abilities to be able to do that. It's like, don't
Speaker 2: rush for the wrong one just to have a family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I agree.
Speaker 2: So and with with her, it's like, enjoy the success
Speaker 2: that's going on. You'll have more time to chill. And
Speaker 2: she clearly wants to have a baby, just not right now. Awesome.
Speaker 2: And if you decide you don't want the end, okay,
Speaker 2: fine too. Yeah, there's this like wild thing that you
Speaker 2: have to have one or the other too. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: know right now, Like you can't be a great mom
Speaker 2: and be successful, and you can't want a career and
Speaker 2: be be the mom that you want to be. It's
Speaker 2: like I this isn't me saying we can have it all,
Speaker 2: but I just think we can do things that still
Speaker 2: make us happy and feel great and celebrate our successes. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and it's gonna make you better mom if you can
Speaker 2: enjoy that now, agreed, ladies. I've got a question about
Speaker 2: cousins and play time with littles. I've got a niece
Speaker 2: who is four years old and my son is two
Speaker 2: years old. When they play together, she shows bad behavior
Speaker 2: like screaming, hitting, and not listening to adults. My son's
Speaker 2: just too and I worry he's picking up on some
Speaker 2: of the not so great behaviors, but not all of
Speaker 2: it is horrible. They do have fun together, and I
Speaker 2: think it's good for him to be around other kids.
Speaker 2: I do step in and regulate when I see the
Speaker 2: behavior with my own eyes, especially if she's hitting my son.
Speaker 2: How can I settle my worries about spending time with
Speaker 2: his cousin? Do you think I should say something to
Speaker 2: my sister in law, kat, I think you have an opinion.
Speaker 1: Well not a strong one. I think that you're doing
Speaker 1: the right thing first of all, by stepping in when
Speaker 1: needed and regulating still allowing them to play. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't unless it's really bad behavior or something that's suspicious.
Speaker 1: I don't know that you should necessarily not allow them
Speaker 1: to play. But I think that if you see something
Speaker 1: that you don't like, maybe get permission from the sister.
Speaker 1: I don't know how how that is, but to kind
Speaker 1: of say, hey, we don't hit or whatever it is.
Speaker 1: So then the two year old sees also like that
Speaker 1: there is a repercussion for it. I don't think that
Speaker 1: that's a terrible thing maybe for them to see.
Speaker 2: Also, it doesn't last forever, I think sometimes so stages
Speaker 2: are so crazy. It's so wild West in stages.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like she could be great in a week, you know,
Speaker 3: like it could just be a thing that's something shouldn't Yeah,
Speaker 3: just like a little space maybe like you don't I mean,
Speaker 3: if someone's not also with them, they're not living with you,
Speaker 3: that's different.
Speaker 1: Too, right.
Speaker 2: But I also think this plays into just on a
Speaker 2: sidebar of people we have maybe stopped hanging out with
Speaker 2: because I'm like, I don't want my kids parenting their kids,
Speaker 2: and it's also different parenting, and so it's hard to
Speaker 2: then be friends with someone when yeah, when it's not like,
Speaker 2: it's not trying to judge the parenting, But the same time,
Speaker 2: I don't want my kids to see that too, So
Speaker 2: you've I have rewrap did certain friendships for the kids,
Speaker 2: primarily because I don't want my son or my daughter
Speaker 2: seeing that as being okay and then not then said like, hey,
Speaker 2: please stop you know or something you know, or or
Speaker 2: to be how it's the word for them to acknowledge
Speaker 2: that it's not a good bayor.
Speaker 1: And I think that it's a slippery slope to say
Speaker 1: you're not judging. You're obviously not judging, but it is
Speaker 1: still our job as parents to be in somewhat control
Speaker 1: of what we can and who were around and who
Speaker 1: they're around and what they see parent how you want
Speaker 1: a parent. But that does not mean that I have
Speaker 1: to be around for it. That does not make me
Speaker 1: a judgmental person. I think sometimes we get a little
Speaker 1: sensitive to that and we're afraid that people are. But
Speaker 1: if you're going to be parenting different than me, and
Speaker 1: we're going to be spending all this time with you.
Speaker 1: That's probably not in the end going to work out
Speaker 1: because you don't want your child making those And that
Speaker 1: is for all ages. I mean that continues till later
Speaker 1: on when they're starting to make some really bad decisions
Speaker 1: and you're like like, ooh, you're parenting a different way
Speaker 1: than me. I don't want my kid going down that path.
Speaker 1: Your kid's going down this path, So you have to
Speaker 1: make those kind of decisions. I do think at these
Speaker 1: ages though, like two and four, I think as long
Speaker 1: as you're stepping in and kind of regulating when the
Speaker 1: behavior is not, I think that it's still yeah fine.
Speaker 3: And sometimes they can go in the opposite way too,
Speaker 3: like when you step in and parent a certain way,
Speaker 3: and it can show another parent to have the courage
Speaker 3: to do that. Yeah, you know, absolutely, But.
Speaker 2: There is also we had something that happened with a
Speaker 2: neighborhood boy who comes over and plays with Jas and
Speaker 2: I actually I primarily only let them play over here
Speaker 2: because I want to be the eyes and he's a
Speaker 2: little bit older too, and so the play dates happen here.
Speaker 2: But there's some things that happen and it's like, hey, buddy,
Speaker 2: in this house, we don't say this. That's right. In
Speaker 2: this house, we use kind words. In this house, we
Speaker 2: don't do what that just So, if you're cool with that,
Speaker 2: you can stay here and play. But if that continues,
Speaker 2: you won't be allowed to play with him anymore. And
Speaker 2: so I've had to have those conversations, you know, with him,
Speaker 2: and if it happens again, well then he knows he's
Speaker 2: out because something did happen one time where I was like, hey,
Speaker 2: you won't be allowed to come back over here if
Speaker 2: if that happens again, he said, I'm sorry, you know,
Speaker 2: but he also didn't know that that was not acceptable.
Speaker 1: I'll start to know your rules. H Wait, so they
Speaker 1: get I'm okay to be that mom. I do it
Speaker 1: all the time. I got kids come in my house
Speaker 1: all the time. I look at them and they're teenagers.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know that is not tolerated my house.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, mis Catherine. I'll never
Speaker 1: do it again. Like you have the rules if you're
Speaker 1: going to come in my house. I have rules in
Speaker 1: my house, and you can abide by them or you
Speaker 1: can go hang out with somebody else. So you can
Speaker 1: go home.
Speaker 2: We called a date the other day.
Speaker 3: I called the play date the other day because Legend
Speaker 3: had a friend, and I said, it just was like,
Speaker 3: this kid is in kind of a loop right now,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, okay, So finally, I just.
Speaker 2: Said, but are you ready to head home?
Speaker 3: Just feels like you're not really having fun here and
Speaker 3: he was like no, and I said, well, like then
Speaker 3: we need to, like, yeah, let's switch it up.
Speaker 1: But I also expect this same sure if my kids
Speaker 1: are at someone's house and I tell my kids that
Speaker 1: all the time. Now their rule pamas ye Jolie before yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you follow their rules. Having said that, if
Speaker 1: their rules are less stringent, my rules still apply.
Speaker 2: Yes, right.
Speaker 1: So that's another thing that's been interesting, Like somehow in
Speaker 1: my kid's world, I'm the only mom that says they
Speaker 1: cannot be in a bedroom with the opposite sex. Don't
Speaker 1: believe I'm the only mom, but I don't.
Speaker 3: It's probably rare thought.
Speaker 2: I would think you're the rarity. Yeah, to be honest
Speaker 2: from my experience, yes, I don't care. So I'm also
Speaker 2: so Julie said the same thing because I won't let
Speaker 2: her sleep over at someone's house. Because they have the
Speaker 2: older brother. And I'm like, I'm sorry, you cannot sleep
Speaker 2: over there. She's more than welcome to sleep over at
Speaker 2: our house. But and again, that little boy is probably
Speaker 2: the old older brother is in middle school. It's probably
Speaker 2: he's he's such a sweet kid, and I still don't
Speaker 2: allow it. I don't want that to happen. I don't
Speaker 2: know if he's going to have a friend come over.
Speaker 2: I don't know the other people like no.
Speaker 1: So many to that. I've told my girls all the time,
Speaker 1: if someone can you good for them, spend the night
Speaker 1: because you have an older brother, we respect that, you know.
Speaker 2: Whatever.
Speaker 1: If I have to leave and Cayden is watching a kid,
Speaker 1: that kid, no matter what, cannot stay, cannot be in
Speaker 1: the house. I'm not putting a hymn in that position.
Speaker 1: I'm not putting another kid in position. We have so
Speaker 1: many rules about that, yep.
Speaker 2: But so with the like whatever, you know, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't care at that point what that parent's rules are.
Speaker 3: Though.
Speaker 1: My rule is still that you don't go into a
Speaker 1: bedroom alone with with the opposite sex. You know, that's
Speaker 1: just that rule applies. There's several of those, but that's
Speaker 1: a very good example, so I'll never forget. Not long ago,
Speaker 1: Emmy was at a friend's house and it was a
Speaker 1: group of them, but the mom was working in the
Speaker 1: bonus room, so she sent them all into this girl
Speaker 1: friend's room.
Speaker 2: But there were also boys.
Speaker 1: So Emmy literally sat the door was opened, she sat
Speaker 1: outside of the bedroom for her and she like sent
Speaker 1: us videos and like their friends were all and I'm like,
Speaker 1: there you go, and no one's making fun of you.
Speaker 1: They're like laughing about it, and y'all are like hanging out.
Speaker 1: But like I was like, rule still is a plus?
Speaker 1: Still apply? That's right.
Speaker 2: So to this listener, good on you for you know,
Speaker 2: watching and seeing and this is just going to lead
Speaker 2: you onto the older ages and and uh it's you know,
Speaker 2: mama bear instincts and just does she have to say
Speaker 2: anything to step at the sister in law like you said,
Speaker 2: like like.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think if she feels like she is
Speaker 1: not getting the permission to step in, if she needs to, maybe,
Speaker 1: but she'll follow, she'll see what she's doing exactly.
Speaker 2: All right, ladies, this is fun, love y'all. Where will
Speaker 2: our adventures take us next week? Oh man, stay tuned.
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Speaker 2: Stay duned, bye bye,