WEBVTT - Play the Long Game

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<v S1>Coming to you from the Morning Star Mission sponsored studio.

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<v S1>This is Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>You know, have you ever watched one of those movies

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<v S2>where it doesn't use the words and everybody lived happily

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<v S2>ever after? But that's kind of how it it always ends.

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<v S3>Yeah, it's like like a sitcom.

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<v S4>It ends. Everybody's good.

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<v S3>I feel like I'm thinking of, like, The Wizard of Oz.

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<v S3>You know? Where there, like a shot where they're walking

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<v S3>away and then, like, the curse of the end starts

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<v S3>getting right up on the screen while happy music is

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<v S3>playing in the background? Yeah, something like that.

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<v S2>Well, everything gets tied into a nice bow. It's kind

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<v S2>of like the hallmark thing. Like the guy always gets

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<v S2>the girl. You know, there's some struggle along the way,

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<v S2>but they end up together and.

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<v S3>You know it before the movie's over.

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<v S2>And you're like, why can't life kind of be like that? Sometimes,

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<v S2>you know, that it just sort of the predictable ending,

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<v S2>the way that we'd like it to go. You know,

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<v S2>I had an interesting conversation with my son a couple

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<v S2>weeks ago. I picked him up from school. He's in

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<v S2>middle school, he's in sixth grade, and he got in

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<v S2>the car and he was a little ticked off, and

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<v S2>he's pretty demonstrative. So how was your day? I'm frustrated. Okay, well.

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<v S2>What's that? I'm just mad right now.

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<v S4>All right, buddy, let's break this down.

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<v S2>You want to explain why you were mad? And so

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<v S2>he starts to tell me he was in some class,

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<v S2>and they're not supposed to be on YouTube and other

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<v S2>websites during the school day.

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<v S3>Sure makes sense.

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<v S2>I think most of it gets blocked, but the stuff

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<v S2>there's still like workarounds. Oh yeah. So you're not supposed

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<v S2>to be doing anything on the internet that's not directly

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<v S2>related to your schoolwork. Fair rule. Here was the problem, though.

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<v S2>He he had gotten, you know, redirected and back on

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<v S2>task because he had finished early and was trying to

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<v S2>do other stuff like watch something on YouTube. And so

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<v S2>it was teachers like, you can't be doing that. So he,

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<v S2>you know, got off and read a book, but he

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<v S2>looks over and he sees we'll call him Jake. Jake's

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<v S2>over here and Jake's on YouTube. And not only does

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<v S2>the teacher see that he's on YouTube, she pretty much

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<v S2>is allowing him to do it. And there's no problem.

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<v S3>That makes me mad.

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<v S2>My son who's high. This is many of most of

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<v S2>what frustrates him is when things don't seem fair.

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<v S3>Absolutely.

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<v S2>So he was mad. He was like, Jake gets in

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<v S2>trouble all the time, and it's basically like he gets rewarded.

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<v S2>He's off in the corner watching YouTube and not only

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<v S2>is he not being stopped, he's got like the free

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<v S2>hall pass. Get out of jail free to just do

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<v S2>what he wants. And so he was so angry about this.

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<v S2>And I was trying to explain to him, like, look,

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<v S2>sometimes like, let's be honest, teachers have limited capacity. Teachers

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<v S2>are actual people too. So she probably is just like,

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<v S2>do what you need to do because we need to

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<v S2>keep the whole class moving. Like, she probably gave up

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<v S2>the fight that day and I can't say I blame her. Right.

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<v S4>Yes. Yeah.

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<v S2>And so he then it got kind of deep. He

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<v S2>was like, I feel like I try to do the

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<v S2>right thing. And what's the point? Because it kind of

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<v S2>feels like the kids who do the wrong things, they

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<v S2>pretty much get rewarded for it. They get to do

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<v S2>what they want. They don't get in trouble for it.

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<v S2>So I'm kind of feeling like it doesn't really matter

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<v S2>if I try.

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<v S3>It's a hard thing to wrestle with and it doesn't

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<v S3>get any easier.

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<v S4>No it doesn't.

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<v S2>I thought, huh. And so, you know, we I tried

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<v S2>to wrestle down some of these really big sixth grade

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<v S2>emotions about the injustices of the world as seen through

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<v S2>his lens. You know, life's kind of like that. You

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<v S2>can feel like I'm over here trying to do the

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<v S2>right thing. God, you see those people over there? They

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<v S2>don't seem to be even trying. And yet. Huh? Things

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<v S2>seem to be going a lot better for them than

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<v S2>they are for me. Yeah, that's a real emotion. Where

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<v S2>I landed with my son, I try to give him

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<v S2>like a principle or a phrase or things that he

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<v S2>can kind of take with him. And I told him, look,

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<v S2>I know that it doesn't feel like doing the right

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<v S2>thing brings the payoff sometimes. I said, but trust me,

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<v S2>it's worth it to play the long game. I said,

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<v S2>play the long game. Don't worry about the short term. Hey,

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<v S2>he gets to be on YouTube for a day. I said,

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<v S2>getting what you want because the teachers sort of given

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<v S2>up for the day. That's not a win. Maybe it

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<v S2>feels like a temporary win. I said, play the long game.

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<v S2>Coming up, I'm going to go to a really a

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<v S2>passage of scripture in Psalm that really ministered to me

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<v S2>what it looks like as a Christian to play the

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<v S2>long game.

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<v S1>She's a choreographer extraordinaire and everything is Greek to her.

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<v S1>Super die is in the crew. It's Carl and crew

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<v S1>on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>You know, so much of the Christian life I think

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<v S2>is playing the long game.

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<v S3>Yeah, I think so too. There's a lot of waiting.

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<v S2>It's a lot of waiting. There's a lot of trusting

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<v S2>in the Word of God and knowing that we may

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<v S2>not see the immediate payoff. Yeah, right.

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<v S3>Often not.

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<v S2>I mean, and there's the what we do get to

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<v S2>see in the immediate is kind of the unseen. We

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<v S2>get to see the unseen. Yeah. You know, the the

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<v S2>peace of knowing that you're right with God. A clear

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<v S2>conscience when you go to sleep at night knowing that

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<v S2>you've not done perfectly, but that by God's grace you're

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<v S2>fighting for integrity, to be a person of character, to

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<v S2>Make the decisions to honor God, to turn from evil

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<v S2>to when you miss the mark. Keep short accounts like

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<v S2>there's a there's a there's an intangible. There's a peace

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<v S2>that comes with that kind of living. Right where you

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<v S2>just just sleep better at night.

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<v S4>It's a freedom, right? Absolute freedom in Christ.

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<v S2>Go to Psalm 37. I found this to be just so.

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<v S2>I mean, all of Scripture is so rich, but different

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<v S2>passages hit you differently at different times depending on what's

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<v S2>going on in your life. Psalm 37 has been a

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<v S2>real blessing to me. It says, fret not yourself because

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<v S2>of evildoers. Be not envious of wrongdoers, for they will

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<v S2>soon fade like the grass and wither like the green herb.

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<v S2>Trust in the Lord and do good. Dwell in the

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<v S2>land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord and

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<v S2>he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit

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<v S2>your way to the Lord. Trust in him and he

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<v S2>will act. He will bring forth your righteousness as the

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<v S2>light and your justice as the noonday. Be still before

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<v S2>the Lord and wait patiently for him. Fret not yourself

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<v S2>over the one who prospers in his way, over the

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<v S2>man who carries out evil devices. Refrain from anger and

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<v S2>forsake wrath. Fret not yourself. It tends only to evil.

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<v S2>For the evildoers shall be cut off. For those who

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<v S2>wait for the Lord shall inherit the land. That's verse

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<v S2>one through nine of a really incredibly powerful psalm. And

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<v S2>this phrase, fret not yourself, is repeated a couple times.

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<v S2>You know, another translation says, do not worry. Don't worry

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<v S2>about evildoers. Don't be jealous of wrongdoers. They will soon

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<v S2>fade like the grass. In other words, the perceived prosperity

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<v S2>or the perceived wins of a person who chooses to

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<v S2>go against God's way is It's temporary. It will fade.

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<v S2>There is no lasting gain when you go against God.

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<v S2>And I don't think you cling to a Psalm like

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<v S2>this with, like, God's going to get them. That person

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<v S2>over there who got that promotion over me, even though

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<v S2>they're they're shaving time off and the boss doesn't even know.

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<v S4>No clue. Come on. I don't think.

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<v S2>I don't think we lord it over people like that.

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<v S4>No, but.

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<v S2>We hold to the principle that waiting on God brings rewards.

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<v S3>And I mean, the person who wrote this, David, is

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<v S3>probably one of the most experienced people in waiting on God.

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<v S3>And seeing the wicked prosper through the.

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<v S4>Wicked prosper.

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<v S3>You know?

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<v S4>Yeah.

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<v S3>The time it took from when he was anointed to

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<v S3>when he became king was 15 years. And God said,

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<v S3>I'm going to make you king. But through those 15 years,

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<v S3>he's actively, uh, the old king is actively trying to

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<v S3>kill him.

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<v S2>Exactly.

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<v S3>And it doesn't look like what God had promised was

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<v S3>going to come true at all. There's a lot of waiting,

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<v S3>a lot of hurt.

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<v S4>A.

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<v S2>Lot of waiting, a lot of trusting. Coming up, I

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<v S2>went through this whole Psalm and I just kind of

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<v S2>put into different categories these principles. What does it look

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<v S2>like to wait on God? What are the principles of

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<v S2>the payoff versus what will happen to those who go

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<v S2>against God? Even if it looks like right now they prosper?

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<v S2>That's coming up.

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<v S1>He was sharing the gospel on the radio and then

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<v S1>he got saved. Young thunders in the crew. It's Carl

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<v S1>and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Sometimes we wish we could speed up the rewards like

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<v S2>or have it be more predictable. Like today I showed

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<v S2>up to work on time. I worked really hard. I

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<v S2>tried to honor God and was diligent with my work.

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<v S2>Tomorrow I would like to get a promotion. Maybe. Maybe

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<v S2>that's how you feel.

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<v S4>Sure, right?

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<v S3>Sure.

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<v S2>That's certainly how my son feels.

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<v S4>How come you get one? And Jonathan and I don't. Exactly. Right, right, right.

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<v S2>I am doing the right thing over here, and I

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<v S2>don't feel like it's paying off. Meanwhile, there are other kids,

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<v S2>and I don't feel like they're doing the right thing.

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<v S2>But yet it seems like they're getting special privileges. They

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<v S2>get special access. And what's the point? That was what

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<v S2>my 12 year old son was wrestling with. Why do

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<v S2>I bother to try to do the right thing at school?

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<v S2>Because it doesn't seem like it really matters. Psalm 37

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<v S2>is so chock full of these principles of what it

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<v S2>looks like to wait on God and see the ultimate

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<v S2>payoff for that, versus what it looks like to be

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<v S2>opposed to God, to be an evildoer or a wrongdoer,

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<v S2>and maybe see some temporary success, but ultimately know that

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<v S2>there's no lasting power to it. So let me just

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<v S2>go through this. I went through this whole chapter and

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<v S2>I want to first talk about the wrongdoer, the evildoer,

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<v S2>the wicked. All of those terms are used to describe

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<v S2>somebody who is going against God. They will fade and wither.

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<v S2>They will be cut off. They will have no inheritance.

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<v S2>They will be broken. They will see their evil plans

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<v S2>ultimately thwarted or turned against themselves. They will perish. They

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<v S2>will have no future. They will be destroyed. They will

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<v S2>be cut off. It's like.

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<v S4>Whoa!

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<v S2>It's pretty intense. The immediate context of this, this was,

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<v S2>as Jonathan mentioned, this is a Psalm of David. So

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<v S2>he is speaking to this is the remnant of Israel,

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<v S2>the faithful ones. So the inheritance spoken of is actually

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<v S2>the inheritance of the land of Israel. But certainly these

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<v S2>principles are can be much more broadly applied. So for

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<v S2>the faithful, the ones who trust in the Lord, the

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<v S2>ones who dwell in the land, the ones who befriend faithfulness,

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<v S2>who delight themselves in the Lord, who commit their way

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<v S2>to the Lord, who wait for him, who fret not

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<v S2>over evildoers. What are the principles or the the assurances

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<v S2>for those for that group? Well, he will give them

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<v S2>the desires of their heart. He will act on their behalf.

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<v S2>He will bring forth righteousness and justice. That group will

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<v S2>inherit the land. They will delight in abundant peace. They

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<v S2>will see the little that they have may be feels

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<v S2>little compared to the abundance of the wicked. But that little. Oh,

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<v S2>it will be blessed. They will be upheld. They will

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<v S2>have a heritage that remains forever. They will not be

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<v S2>put to shame in evil times. They will have abundance

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<v S2>even in famine. The ability to be generous and give.

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<v S2>They will see their steps established and upheld by the Lord.

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<v S2>They will be protected. Even when they stumble and fall.

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<v S2>They will not be forsaken. They will see children blessed

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<v S2>and provided for. They will be preserved. They will dwell forever.

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<v S2>They will utter wisdom in words of justice. Their steps

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<v S2>will not slip. They will be protected, not abandoned to

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<v S2>the plans of the wicked. They will ultimately see the

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<v S2>wicked cut off. They will have a future. They will

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<v S2>have a stronghold. In times of trouble. They will see

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<v S2>their help and their deliverance. Just think about that for

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<v S2>a minute. I paraphrased a lot of that just directly

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<v S2>out of Psalm, but when I think about the weight

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<v S2>of that, it gives me great confidence in following God today.

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<v S2>That choosing to go God's way, even if there's a cost,

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<v S2>it feels like it's costly. Even if it feels like

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<v S2>short term. I'm giving up something. Man, that gives me

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<v S2>great assurance that it it it's worth it.

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<v S3>Yeah. Even before all that stuff comes and is fully realized.

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<v S3>You know, I think about just the fact of like the,

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<v S3>the presence of the Lord is with me. While I'm waiting,

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<v S3>while I'm hurting, I know he sees me. I know

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<v S3>he loves me. And I know he's with me. Yeah, and.

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<v S3>And that in and of itself is more than I

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<v S3>could ever ask for. And then all that other amazing

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<v S3>stuff comes to. It's a blessing.

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<v S4>It's the reward.

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<v S2>For the faithful. And this week, we're just going through

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<v S2>some of these very simple, basic principles of the faith

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<v S2>that if you have been in church, in Christ, even

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<v S2>for a little bit of time, this is not new

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<v S2>to you, but maybe you needed to be reminded today

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<v S2>that it's worth waiting on God. It's worth forsaking evil

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<v S2>and going his way.

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<v S3>Yeah. You know, at the beginning of this conversation, you

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<v S3>mentioned the movies that kind of have the happily ever

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<v S3>after scene at the end. You know, I think that

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<v S3>sometimes we think we're not going to get that because

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<v S3>we're Judging our lives at the wrong part of the movie,

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<v S3>saying that death here on earth is is the part

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<v S3>where the movie fades to black, but the part where

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<v S3>the ending really comes is when we're with him, where

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<v S3>all of this will be fully realized in its beauty,

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<v S3>where the wicked will no longer prosper, and where the

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<v S3>righteous will live with him in joy forever. And that's

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<v S3>where the movie will fade to black. So it may

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<v S3>not be in this life where everything that you've lived

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<v S3>out is fully realized. But it will be it. 100%

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<v S3>will be.

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<v S4>Yep.

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<v S2>Play the long game. Play the long game today. Wait

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<v S2>on God. Trust in him. We will see a reward.

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<v S1>A basketball mom who's mastered the dad joke. Ali is

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<v S1>in the crew. It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Did you know what day it was?

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<v S3>Uh, let me think. It's April 30th, so it's not

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<v S3>a holiday.

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<v S2>It's your favorite day of the week.

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<v S3>Mine.

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<v S2>Uh huh.

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<v S3>Why is it my favorite day of the week?

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<v S2>Because Ali thinks it's funny.

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<v S1>Making herself laugh no matter who joins her. It's time

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<v S1>for Ali. Thinks it's funny.

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<v S3>Sure, Ali.

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<v S5>We'll go with that.

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<v S2>Notice how I turned that?

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<v S6>Wow, that was just dry delivery.

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<v S2>You know, Jonathan secretly does wait for these jokes. He does.

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<v S2>He tries to pretend he doesn't like them. He came.

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<v S2>Then he. And you can see him grabbing his phone

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<v S2>and trying to discreetly text jokes so that he can

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<v S2>get them, and nobody knows every week.

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<v S6>That's the funniest thing we've said today. I'm lying.

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<v S2>He does it discreetly. My kids hate my jokes. Full

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<v S2>disclosure I have tried like. And I'll think I know

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<v S2>a lot of them that they won't like, but I'll

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<v S2>think I'll have a good one. Like, guys, listen to

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<v S2>this joke I told on air today. They're like, mom,

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<v S2>that's not funny. Every time these aren't for your average

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<v S2>15 and 12 year old. I'll just put it that way.

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<v S2>Or at least not the ones related to me because

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<v S2>they're not laughing at anything. But I digress. First up,

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<v S2>today I always give you two jokes. Twin boys. You

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<v S2>know any set of twin boys?

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<v S6>Twin boys? No, not twin boys.

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<v S2>Any. Any sets of twin boys?

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<v S6>Twin girls?

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<v S3>No, not boys specifically.

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<v S2>If you have a set of twin boys, just text

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<v S2>me and say I do. 800 555, 78, 98. This

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<v S2>is a joke about twin boys. Why did the twin

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<v S2>boys decide to join the Air Force? The twin boys,

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<v S2>we'll call him Danny and Johnny decided to join the

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<v S2>Air Force. Why?

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<v S6>Don't have names.

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<v S3>I don't.

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<v S6>Know. I don't know.

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<v S2>To become a paratroopers.

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<v S5>Oh my goodness.

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<v S6>You don't get it? Oh, I get it. Jonathan, do

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<v S6>you get it? I do, I do. Okay.

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<v S2>I is six out of ten.

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<v S6>A little lower. Five.

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<v S2>Okay. Five. All right, let's go for a strong seven here.

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<v S2>Did you know? Fun fact that laughing too loud is

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<v S2>illegal in Hawaii? There's a law on the books. You

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<v S2>cannot laugh above a certain volume.

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<v S6>Oh. That's sad.

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<v S2>There's a good reason for it, though. They only allow aloha.

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<v S7>Kalikimaka is the thing to say on a bright aloha.

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<v S6>We got it. Aloha. I get it. We got it.

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<v S6>Text jokes to 800 555, 7898. Where did you find

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<v S6>this song?

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<v S3>When you said grab some Hawaiian music. Kalikimaka is the

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<v S3>only thing I could.

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<v S6>Think of that was not what I was expecting. Text

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<v S6>jokes to 805 five five 7898 is Hawaii. This is.

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<v S2>Throwing me.

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<v S6>Tex jokes.

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<v S2>800 555 7898. A little insider radio thing. I never

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<v S2>give them a preview of the jokes, but I will

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<v S2>sometimes tell Jonathan find this song and then he doesn't

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<v S2>get it until I tell the joke, right.

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<v S3>I'm not sure where you're going.

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<v S2>I thought when I said grab Hawaiian music, I was

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<v S2>thinking like, you're kind of like relaxing on a beach.

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<v S2>Sort of.

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<v S3>I mean, that's fair. You know, I so I, I

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<v S3>grabbed initially some, some ukulele music. Yeah. But I was like, I,

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<v S3>I'm thinking about jokes and I'm like, I don't want

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<v S3>to have something to like, uh, like serious. And so

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<v S3>I was like, okay, maybe Mili Kalikimaka is the right way.

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<v S6>Oh, Texas jokes 805.

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<v S2>Five five 7898 jokes to 800 555 7898. That was

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<v S2>that was good.

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<v S3>I mean, my brain moves in mysterious ways.

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<v S6>So yes, it does. We'll go with that.

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<v S3>We'll end there.

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<v S6>This is Micah Tyler.

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<v S2>I see Grace. Thanks for your grace.

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<v S6>With those jokes on this Wednesday morning.

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<v S1>He was running from God, but God's love brought him home.

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<v S1>Carl is in the crew. It's Carl and crew on

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<v S1>Moody Radio.

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<v S6>You ever.

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<v S2>Heard the expression, but for the grace of God, there go.

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<v S6>I. Yeah.

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<v S2>I love to when we get reminded. Sometimes it's painful

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<v S2>to get reminded. But sometimes you get reminded of where

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<v S2>you would be without God, without the grace of God.

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<v S3>Absolutely we do.

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<v S2>And it keeps you from judging too quickly, too harshly.

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<v S6>Yes.

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<v S2>Because you see people making decisions or choices or mistakes

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<v S2>and it's easy to pass judgment. Then you step back

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<v S2>and go, if it wasn't for God's grace, what would

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<v S2>my life look like?

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<v S6>Exactly.

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<v S3>We can't trick ourselves into into thinking that we got

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<v S3>here because of something that we did.

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<v S2>And let's not be so professional in our Christianity that

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<v S2>we somehow think. that it's us doing this, keeping us

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<v S2>from train, wrecking our life.

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<v S6>That's so dangerous.

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<v S3>Yeah. God. God got me started. But once I kind

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<v S3>of got in it with him, I got going. And

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<v S3>it was then kind of me. No, it's not.

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<v S2>It's not us keeping us running the race. Well, do

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<v S2>we have a part to play? Absolutely. Are clinging to

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<v S2>the Lord. But don't underestimate the power of grace in

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<v S2>your life. Just a good reminder for me and for you.

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<v S2>It's the grace of God. Or who knows where we

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<v S2>would be coming up. Maybe your heart is breaking for

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<v S2>a child, maybe your own child, maybe a grandchild or

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<v S2>someone you love who is away from the Lord. On

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<v S2>a path that you know leads to destruction. And you're

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<v S2>trying to help them see. But they won't. They're rebelling.

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<v S2>They're determined to go their own way. And it's breaking

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<v S2>your heart. Coming up, we've got some encouragement for parents

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<v S2>of prodigals from a mom who's been there.

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<v S1>It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Well, maybe this scenario sounds familiar. You raised your kids

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<v S2>in a Christian home. You give them the books and

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<v S2>the resources, and they go to Sunday school, and they

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<v S2>seem to be doing okay. They're faithful church attenders. They

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<v S2>go to the youth group, maybe even they lead. But

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<v S2>then as they get into their late teens, early adult years,

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<v S2>something shifts and all of a sudden your Christian kids

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<v S2>go off the rails. This is a story that we

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<v S2>hear so often from parents. The heartbreak that comes with

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<v S2>having a prodigal and despite your best intentions, your children

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<v S2>or your child is away from the Lord. This is

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<v S2>a story that my guest knows all too well. In fact,

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<v S2>this happened to all three of your children despite being

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<v S2>raised in a Christian home. Had a prodigal season Elaine

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<v S2>lost and craft joining us right now. Give me your story.

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<v S8>Well, in the short of it, I did not grow

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<v S8>up thinking that this would be what I'm doing about, uh,

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<v S8>late 30s. I had the Lord come in and resurrected

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<v S8>our dead marriage. And the reason I mentioned that is

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<v S8>that was when we really pivoted from a religious type

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<v S8>mindset to a deeply personal relationship, because we got to

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<v S8>see the power of God move through our marriage. Well,

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<v S8>fast forward a few years. The Lord took me out

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<v S8>of a secular entrepreneur to going into the mission field,

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<v S8>and that ended up into a national magazine. Why I

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<v S8>mentioned that is while I thought I was doing everything

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<v S8>the Lord purposed me to do, my three children were

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<v S8>facing the darkness of the world and it involved drugs, alcohol,

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<v S8>porn and depression anxiety. The arsenal of the demons were

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<v S8>after my children.

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<v S2>Now, when you're parenting and you're attempting to raise your

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<v S2>children in the ways of the Lord, you can often

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<v S2>feel a sense of failure. If your children go through

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<v S2>difficult seasons, did you feel that that the the enemy

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<v S2>try to pounce and make you feel like somehow you

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<v S2>had failed?

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<v S8>Absolutely. That's why I shared that brief story, because there

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<v S8>was not only failure, but I felt such shame. I mean,

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<v S8>here I am, you know, in what I feel my

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<v S8>divine purpose. God rescued and resurrected my marriage. And yet

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<v S8>my three children were continuing to make self-destructive choices over

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<v S8>and over again. And I was like, okay, who can

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<v S8>I share this with? Because you're almost embarrassed. Then you

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<v S8>feel like a failure. And I'll tell you, it's very isolating.

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<v S2>Lane Lawson Kraft is our guest. Right now, she's a speaker,

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<v S2>host of the top ranked podcast Warfare Parenting, best selling

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<v S2>author of several books, including Warfare Parenting A Daily Battle

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<v S2>Plan to Fight for Your Child. Now, you discovered that

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<v S2>traditional methods, or things that are taught about raising teenagers

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<v S2>seem to be insufficient. What did you discover that prompted

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<v S2>you to kind of change your approach to how you

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<v S2>fought for your kids?

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<v S8>I think the biggest moment was when I realized that

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<v S8>I wasn't fighting with that rebellious teen or that child

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<v S8>that kept making these choices, that was destroying their destiny.

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<v S8>The aha moment for me was when I realized I

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<v S8>was fighting the enemy, and I realized, this is a

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<v S8>spiritual warfare. It says in the scriptures that the enemy

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<v S8>comes to seek, kill, and destroy. And boy, did I

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<v S8>see that in my own children. And that's when I realized, yes,

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<v S8>I believe in everything to use tools, counseling, whatever you need.

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<v S8>But but I will tell you, without the spiritual element,

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<v S8>this is a war, and it takes the keys of

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<v S8>prayer and connection with God and and leaning into Him

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<v S8>and His sovereignty as you journey through and wait for

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<v S8>prodigals to return.

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<v S2>So what did this look like for you? Break down

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<v S2>these warfare strategies that that you're outlining in this book

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<v S2>and on your podcast?

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<v S8>The strategies? I would think the first one is what

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<v S8>I shared is about prayer. I went from these little prayers,

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<v S8>you know, oh, father, be with them to dear God,

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<v S8>I need you in more ways than I've ever needed you. Lord,

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<v S8>please give me the wisdom to guide these children and

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<v S8>the patience not to elevate the situation we're in. And

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<v S8>I began to pray in the power of the blood

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<v S8>of Christ. You know, we don't talk about the blood

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<v S8>of Christ much anymore. And I found that that absolutely

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<v S8>was essential. So I would take a paintbrush and dip

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<v S8>it into the blood of Christ at the cross. And

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<v S8>I would paint it in my mind on each of

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<v S8>my children on their backs. And I would say, Father God,

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<v S8>in the name of Jesus and the power of the blood,

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<v S8>please give them protection and your wisdom. And I believe

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<v S8>with everything in me that opened the windows of heaven.

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<v S2>So how can parents maintain these honest connections with their

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<v S2>children who are making destructive choices? How do you maintain

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<v S2>the relationship and continue to extend the love without condoning

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<v S2>harmful choices?

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<v S8>I think that's the hardest part. I'm not going to

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<v S8>mamby pamby that either. I mean, listen, when your kids

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<v S8>are continuing to break your heart, when your kids are

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<v S8>living in a lifestyle that you know is not God's best,

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<v S8>it's really difficult. But I did learn. I learned to

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<v S8>treat them in a way that you see them broken.

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<v S8>Instead of seeing them rebellious, look at them as the

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<v S8>needing God in the most incredible ways. I say often

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<v S8>when our children are the most unlovable is, ironically, when

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<v S8>they need love the most. So I just challenge parents

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<v S8>to use the eternal lens, the the lens of God

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<v S8>in Christ and and look at that child as man.

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<v S8>Something is wrong. And how can I reach out to

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<v S8>them in an unconditional way that they feel the love,

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<v S8>but they also know I am not saying the choices

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<v S8>you're making are the right ones.

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<v S2>Give us an update on on what God did in

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<v S2>your own journey with your with your children.

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<v S8>In a personal way. It was so amazing. Very, very

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<v S8>true to the prodigal son. I was so elated to

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<v S8>see each one of my children get delivered and whole

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<v S8>and set free. And now they're all thriving adults. They

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<v S8>walked into the path of entrepreneurship like their dad and myself.

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<v S8>And what's incredible, and I know you see it every day.

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<v S8>Once someone has been touched with the power of God

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<v S8>in an intimate way, which all three of my children

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<v S8>had a personal touch from God. You're never the same.

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<v S8>And so they all have a fire, a Holy Spirit

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<v S8>fire to reach out to their peers, their friends, the

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<v S8>people they work with, and literally the people on the

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<v S8>side of the street. They will stop and pray and

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<v S8>believe for God to touch them too.

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<v S2>What message would you give to parents, particularly to those

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<v S2>who maybe are in an estranged relationship with a child,

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<v S2>or maybe who've lost a prodigal. And they hear. They

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<v S2>hear your hope and what could be considered a happy ending.

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<v S2>And there's still so much pain because they haven't experienced it.

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<v S2>Or maybe they can't anymore.

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<v S8>Yes, I touch on that in the parents battle plan

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<v S8>warfare strategies to win back your prodigal. That is where

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<v S8>all of this message began. And in that book there's

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<v S8>a chapter. And it's when the worst happens, when the

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<v S8>miracle you expected and you prayed for didn't happen. My

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<v S8>greatest thing I told the Lord is I did not

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<v S8>want to approach this in a Pollyanna. You know, if

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<v S8>you do this, they'll come home. Listen, with fentanyl poisoning,

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<v S8>we've got fentanyl poisoning, we've got suicide rates and depression.

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<v S8>So I want to first just say if in fact,

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<v S8>you've lost your prodigal. Possibly in the natural. I want

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<v S8>you to know the miracle you prayed for might not

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<v S8>be there, but the miracle is that your still moving

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<v S8>and thriving through the power of Christ. And there's a

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<v S8>lot of free resources on the website that they can

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<v S8>glean and learn from.

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<v S2>Excellent. If you want more from our guest today, Laine Lawson.

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<v S2>She's got a book. She's got a podcast. Just text

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<v S2>an age hug is a 15 second hug. And for

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<v S2>my son, it's 12. So one night, my son, he's like,

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<v S2>can I have an age hug?

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<v S3>Or.

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<v S2>And I said.

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<v S6>Yeah, but then.

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<v S2>Here's the kicker. He said, but let's do your age

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<v S6>It's sweet. It's so sweet. But yeah, it's a little

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<v S6>wait a minute.

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<v S3>That's a good.

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<v S6>Son, though. It was.

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<v S2>So funny. But then I thought, oh, he wants a hug.

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<v S3>That's sweet.

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<v S2>He wants to.

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<v S6>Go.

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<v S2>More than 12 because he's going to go up to

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<v S2>for a good long while, buddy. Because I'm.

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<v S6>Old.

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<v S3>I think that's a really good idea.

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<v S6>I love that idea. I like your age.

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