WEBVTT - Putting on the New You – Part 3

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<v S1>Today on Bold Steps with Mark Jobe, we'll learn how

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<v S1>to face the issues that are holding us back.

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<v S2>Do not live in stuckness. Deal with it now so

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<v S2>that you can continue to go from glory to glory

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<v S2>to glory. Deal with the issue that's holding you from

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<v S2>the past. Let it go and say, by the power

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<v S2>of God, I put on the new. I don't just

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<v S2>repent of the old, but I put on the new.

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<v S2>Today is the day.

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<v S1>Nobody likes to be around and Doctor Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

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<v S1>But why do we have such a hard time shaking

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<v S1>our old man off? Welcome to Bold Steps with pastor

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<v S1>Mark Jobe. Mark is the senior pastor of New Life

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<v S1>Community Church and also president of Moody Bible Institute here

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<v S1>in Chicago. And I'm Wayne Shepherd. Our current series is

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<v S1>called When You Believe Everything Changes. And Mark is going

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<v S1>to show us why we can't keep living in the

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<v S1>past and holding on to our old lives if we've

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<v S1>become a new man in Christ. Today's message from the

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<v S1>book of Ephesians chapter four is titled putting on the

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<v S1>New You. And it starts now.

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<v S2>He's basically saying, listen, your old life. Maybe you were

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<v S2>a taker when the boss wasn't looking. You would take

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<v S2>things from your job. Uh, I heard when revival struck

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<v S2>in Wales years ago, the great Welsh revival, it was

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<v S2>a mining community, and they talked about people getting things right.

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<v S2>And if they had stolen, making restitution, so many miners

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<v S2>had stolen tools from the mining place that they all

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<v S2>started returning the tools they had stolen. And the bosses

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<v S2>finally had to say, stop returning the tools, because they

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<v S2>had piles of tools from the miners who had been

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<v S2>stealing them from their mining jobs. Hey, you know, there's

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<v S2>a lot of ways of stealing. Oh, maybe you're not

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<v S2>a shoplifter, But you know what? You can steal at

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<v S2>your job with a time card. You could steal cable

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<v S2>with a little black box you figure out that your

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<v S2>cousin gave you. I'm not hurting anybody. I mean, hey,

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<v S2>you're really stealing. It's illegal. Well, I wouldn't call it stealing, pastor.

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<v S2>I mean, I'm just kind of borrowing. You know, I'm

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<v S2>just borrowing, you know, television stations and. No, no, you

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<v S2>call it what it is. Come on. We allow stuff

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<v S2>to get into our house. We allow the compromises to

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<v S2>start getting into our our system and start taking. Stealing

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<v S2>is taking that which doesn't belong to us. And we

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<v S2>take it, and we use it and act like it's

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<v S2>our own. That that's that's called stealing. Now, Paul says, listen,

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<v S2>you used to be like that. You used to look

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<v S2>for opportunities to take which was not your own and

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<v S2>use it, But now you belong to God, so therefore

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<v S2>you still no longer. In fact, you know what you do.

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<v S2>You get a job. Yeah, you get a job and

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<v S2>you get a job. Why not just so that you

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<v S2>can meet the needs of your yourself and your family,

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<v S2>but you get a job in order so that you

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<v S2>can actually give to other people that are in need.

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<v S2>You see, I take off my stealing, I get a job,

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<v S2>and now I become a giver. I'm not just taking

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<v S2>stuff off, I'm putting it on. And I went, you

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<v S2>go from stealer to giver. You go from the person

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<v S2>that was trying to put their hand in the offering,

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<v S2>take and take some out to someone that's putting it in.

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<v S2>You go from someone that was trying to figure out

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<v S2>how you could take tools away from your cousin. You

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<v S2>would borrow them on an unlimited basis, and now you're

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<v S2>looking to to figure out how you can give things

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<v S2>to people. Why? Because now you've taken off the old

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<v S2>and you're putting on the new. You're starting to walk

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<v S2>like God. Talk like God. You're starting to walk like

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<v S2>a new person, a new believer. Uh, people can trust

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<v S2>you now. Why? Because now you've you've you've begun to change.

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<v S2>The Bible says that that you do something useful with

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<v S2>your hands. That you may have something to share with

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<v S2>those in need. Verse 29. Well, if I haven't gotten

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<v S2>to you yet, now this is really going to get

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<v S2>to you here. Do not let any unwholesome talk come

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<v S2>out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for

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<v S2>building others up according to the needs, that it may

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<v S2>benefit those who listen. Now Paul starts messing with the

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<v S2>way we talk. He's saying, in your old life, a

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<v S2>lot of unwholesome words used to come out of your mouth.

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<v S2>You would cut people down. You would gossip about people.

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<v S2>You would tell dirty jokes. You would laugh at the

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<v S2>expense of others to build yourself up. You would call

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<v S2>people names that hurt them. You would use your tongue

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<v S2>and cutting ways. That was the old Jew. A lot

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<v S2>of stuff used to come out of your mouth and

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<v S2>cussing and dirty jokes and and just talk. That was

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<v S2>rude and, and and crass kind of talk that would

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<v S2>come out of your mouth. But now it's a new you.

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<v S2>And what God has begun to do is begun to

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<v S2>clean up your talk. He's taken that away from you.

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<v S2>And now he says, and some people learn, I can't

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<v S2>talk that way anymore. But some of you, if that's

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<v S2>the truth, if that's so, you would have just lost

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<v S2>about 70% of your vocabulary. Come to Christ and people say,

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<v S2>can't say much. Doesn't tell you not to talk anymore.

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<v S2>It's telling you now I want you to talk. But

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<v S2>when you talk, build people up. Use your tongue to encourage,

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<v S2>to be positive, to speak truth, to speak goodness. Listen,

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<v S2>husbands and wives, sometimes we we've been in the old

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<v S2>world so long that we are used to cutting and

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<v S2>being negative and critical. What would happen if your husband

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<v S2>came back from work sometime and you said, hey, it's

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<v S2>so good to see you, and how was your day?

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<v S2>And have I told you recently that I really appreciate you?

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<v S2>You know, he would say, like, what are you hiding? Huh?

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<v S2>What'd you spend now? Tell me. What would happen if

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<v S2>you if you got back to your house and saw

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<v S2>your wife and you said, hey, you're looking great today.

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<v S2>Is that a new dress? Have I told you recently

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<v S2>how beautiful I think you are? And what would happen

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<v S2>if you began to encourage and speak into her life

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<v S2>and encourage her about things? And, hey, I know you're

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<v S2>trying to do this, and and you're doing a great

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<v S2>job at doing that, and and have I told you

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<v S2>I appreciate how you work with the kids in their

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<v S2>homework and man, this meal is so good. And how

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<v S2>what would happen if you began to change your lingo

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<v S2>and if you became an encourager, rather than looking for

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<v S2>something to cut down and discourage about? What if you

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<v S2>began to use your tongue and your words to speak

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<v S2>into the life and destiny of your children in a

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<v S2>positive way so that they don't just hear what they're

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<v S2>bad at, but they begin to hear what they're good at,

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<v S2>and they begin to hear that they could do something,

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<v S2>and they don't hear just negativity, but they begin to

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<v S2>hear that they can do something that you believe they

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<v S2>can do something, and that they have it in them,

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<v S2>and that you are praising them when they do well

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<v S2>and you are encouraging them to go forward, it could

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<v S2>change the atmosphere of your household if you began not

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<v S2>just to not say the bad stuff you used to say,

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<v S2>but if you begin to use your words to build

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<v S2>people up because that's what it says, he says. So

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<v S2>that you will build others up according to the needs,

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<v S2>that it may benefit those who listen. You understand what

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<v S2>Paul is doing. He's not only saying, take off the old,

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<v S2>he's saying, put on the new, take off the old

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<v S2>and put on the new. There's power in our words.

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<v S2>There's power in our words. It affects people when we

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<v S2>speak certain ways into their life. And many of us

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<v S2>have gotten so used to speaking negativity that there is

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<v S2>very little encouragement and positive reinforcement that actually comes out

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<v S2>of our mouth, and we wonder why we walk in

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<v S2>our household, and it's full of complaining and and sadness

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<v S2>and bickering and fighting. We wonder, because what's coming out

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<v S2>of the mouths of the people that are in that household.

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<v S2>Ask you that question what is coming out of the

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<v S2>mouths in that household? You want to change that household?

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<v S2>Start speaking something different into that household. Start speaking other

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<v S2>words into that household. Start changing the words that are

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<v S2>that are reverberating from the walls of that household. Start

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<v S2>changing the environment by the way you speak in that house.

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<v S2>And then lastly he says in verse 31. Verse 30,

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<v S2>and do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with

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<v S2>whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Do

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<v S2>not grieve the Holy Spirit of God. You see, the

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<v S2>Holy Spirit is not a power. He's not a force.

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<v S2>He's a person and you can grieve the person of

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit. You can make the Holy Spirit sad.

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<v S2>Have you ever gone to visit a friend that you

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<v S2>haven't seen in a while? And when you hang out

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<v S2>with that person, their life's a mess. They're doing bad

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<v S2>and you remember what they were, and you remember what

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<v S2>they could be. But they're living way beneath their potential.

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<v S2>And so it makes you sad to be around them

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<v S2>because you think, why are they living this way? They

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<v S2>could live such a such a different life. Why are

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<v S2>they choosing this way? And so being around them just

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<v S2>makes you sad. Have you ever been in that situation

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<v S2>because you realize that they could live a different way,

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<v S2>and it grieves you to be around them? Listen, the

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<v S2>Holy Spirit is inside of you and the Holy Spirit

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<v S2>grieves when you are living way beneath your calling. The

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<v S2>Holy Spirit is saddened when he knows what you could be,

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<v S2>but you live down here when he knows you could

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<v S2>live up here. The Holy Spirit is grieved inside of

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<v S2>you when you live like the old Jew, when you've

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<v S2>been given the power to be become a new you,

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit grieves inside. And here's the thing about

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit. Listen, when the Holy Spirit grieves, you

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<v S2>cannot be full of joy because the Holy Spirit is

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<v S2>the transporter of joy.

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<v S1>You're listening to Bold Steps with Mark Jobe. We'll continue

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<v S1>today's message in a moment. But first, Mark, I want

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<v S1>to talk about something that's become a growing concern within

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<v S1>Christian leadership circles. Our world is going through a whirlwind,

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<v S1>pretty dramatic developments and changes, not just here in America,

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<v S1>but around the globe. And we need to remind ourselves,

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<v S1>as Christians, we have a much higher calling than any

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<v S1>political movement, don't we.

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<v S2>Wayne? Turn on the news. And there is drama all

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<v S2>over the place.

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<v S3>From rumors of wars to economic crisis to actualization to

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<v S3>actual wars that are happening to bombings, and it is

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<v S3>easy to get distracted by all this, worried by it,

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<v S3>anxious by it, sort of sucked into it. But here's

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<v S3>what I want to say. This is a great time

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<v S3>for the good news of Jesus Christ and the hope

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<v S3>of the gospel.

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<v S1>Amen.

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<v S3>There are a lot of people coming to Christ throughout

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<v S3>the world, and you may not hear about it, because

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<v S3>there's other news that is prominent and is taking people's attention.

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<v S3>But there is an undercurrent of a harvest evangelism. And

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<v S3>that's what we're all about right now, is a moment

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<v S3>where people are shaken, where there's concern. But there are

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<v S3>so many people that are turning to the heavens, and

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<v S3>we at Bold Steps have determined we will not miss

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<v S3>that moment. And so we are asking you to partner

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<v S3>with us, help us out, because right now is a

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<v S3>great time to be calling people to Jesus.

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<v S1>We urge you to give online at Bold Steps. Org

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<v S1>or you can call us. The number is 800 Moody.

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<v S1>And that works out to be (800) 356-6639. And when you

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<v S1>do give, we'll be sure to send you a special

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<v S1>gift which will tell you more about later in the

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<v S1>program today. Well, thank you for that, Mark. But let's

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<v S1>go back to your message now here on Bold Steps.

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<v S2>The Bible tells us that the kingdom of God is righteousness, peace,

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<v S2>and joy in the Holy Spirit. Joy comes through the

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<v S2>Holy Spirit. So when the Holy Spirit is grieving, you

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<v S2>cannot be full of joy. So when you are living

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<v S2>your life in a way that's grieving the spirit, then

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<v S2>it robs you of your joy and you start living

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<v S2>your life when you have no joy. You have no energy.

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<v S2>The joy of the Lord is my strength. It tells

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<v S2>us in the Old Testament, so when you have joy,

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<v S2>you have energy. When you have energy, you have joy.

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<v S2>When you have joy, you're not grieving the Holy Spirit.

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<v S2>When you start grieving the Holy Spirit, you lose your

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<v S2>joy and you lose your energy. Listen, when you begin

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<v S2>grieving the Holy Spirit and you lose your joy, then

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<v S2>you lose the energy to tackle life, and you find

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<v S2>yourself in a state where you are just surviving in life.

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<v S2>Ever been there? Hard to get out of bed? Drag

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<v S2>yourself just one more day. I don't know if I

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<v S2>can do this another day. You just dragging yourself through,

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<v S2>forcing yourself to get up, forcing yourself to go to work,

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<v S2>forcing yourself to just handle basic existence in life. Listen,

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<v S2>there could be there could be a lot of things

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<v S2>that bring that about. But spiritually, you could be bringing

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<v S2>that about because you are grieving the Holy Spirit and

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit is is not producing joy in your life.

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<v S2>And when you don't have joy in your life, then

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<v S2>you don't have energy in life. And when you don't

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<v S2>have energy in life, you lose the strength to do

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<v S2>the things you know you need to do. So do

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<v S2>not grieve the Holy Spirit by whom you've been sealed

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<v S2>unto the day of redemption. He sealed you. He lives

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<v S2>inside of you. You can't take him out. We've talked

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<v S2>about this before. Listen, you can't go to the nightclub

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<v S2>on Saturday night. The Holy Spirit is. You can't check

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit out at the coat hanger checkout counter.

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<v S2>You can't say, Holy Spirit. I'm going in. Can I

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<v S2>check you here? Hey, you wouldn't like the music anyway.

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<v S2>The words are bad and the dancing would really grieve you. Listen,

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<v S2>I'll catch you on the way out, okay? Go do

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<v S2>your thing and then. Hey, come on, Holy Spirit. I'm

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<v S2>ready to go. No, no, no, no, you're sealed with

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit. You take the Holy Spirit wherever you go.

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<v S2>He's inside of you. When you grieve the Holy Spirit,

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<v S2>you can't check him out and check him in and

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<v S2>then say, hey, I'm going to take you to church, man.

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<v S2>You're going to love it. No, no, no, no. He

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<v S2>goes with you wherever you go all the time. The

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<v S2>Holy Spirit. So here's what happens. How do you grieve

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit? Listen, you are grieving the Holy Spirit.

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<v S2>If right now there is bitterness, rage, anger, a contentious

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<v S2>or brawling, slanderous kind of spirit, or if there's any

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<v S2>kind of malice or evil intent in your heart, you

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<v S2>are grieving the Holy Spirit. If right now there's someone

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<v S2>that is you've locked in the jail of unforgiveness, you're

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<v S2>grieving the Holy Spirit. If you are bitter right now,

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<v S2>you're grieving the Holy Spirit. If you're full of rage

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<v S2>right now, you're grieving the Holy Spirit. If inside of

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<v S2>you there is a contentiousness, a critical spirit inside of you,

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<v S2>you are grieving the Holy Spirit. And if you're grieving

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<v S2>the Holy Spirit, you will not have joy. And if

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<v S2>you do not have joy, you will not have energy.

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<v S2>And you're going to drag through life trying to do

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<v S2>the things you're called to do. There's something that's released

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<v S2>inside of you. When the joy of the Holy Spirit

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<v S2>comes upon you. You're living right in God and there's energy. Oh, listen.

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<v S2>I think some of you know what I'm talking about.

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<v S2>When you are living right in God and you are

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<v S2>fueled by the energy of God, there's a joy in

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<v S2>your heart and you have this zeal and this power. Oh,

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<v S2>it doesn't mean that life is easy, but it means

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<v S2>that you have the strength to do what is right,

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<v S2>because there's a joy of God inside of you, and

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<v S2>you have this energy that faith gives. And though life

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<v S2>may be hard at times, you know that he's in control.

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<v S2>You worship and you thank him and you praise him.

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<v S2>Then he goes on to tell us this. But instead

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<v S2>of this kind of bitterness, rage, anger, brawling inside of you,

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<v S2>verse 32, be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving

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<v S2>each other just as in Christ, God forgave you. So

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<v S2>instead of rage and anger and bitterness, there's compassion. There's forgiveness.

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<v S2>There's a willingness to release people just the same way

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<v S2>that God has released you. That's why I'm I am so,

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<v S2>so strong. And I emphasize it so much. This whole

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<v S2>issue of not living your life with bitterness or unforgiveness

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<v S2>in your life. Because here's what I know that if

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<v S2>you are, if you get that in your heart and

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<v S2>if you don't release it, it will do damage to

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<v S2>your spiritual life. It will bring you down. It will

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<v S2>clog up your spiritual arteries. It will it will put

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<v S2>a a stop on the spiritual funnel of God's grace

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<v S2>and goodness into your life, and you'll find yourself drying

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<v S2>up spiritually if there's anger, bitterness, unforgiveness in your life

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<v S2>towards someone in your life. What is the new you?

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<v S2>Let me close with this. I believe that we are

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<v S2>all on a journey of transformation. From now until the

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<v S2>day you die. You will be going from glory to glory,

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<v S2>to glory, to glory, to glory, to glory, to glory,

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<v S2>to glory. Some of you are going to get stuck.

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<v S2>When you're unwilling to let go of the old and

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<v S2>you stop going from glory to glory and you get

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<v S2>stuck in just one glory. I believe until the day

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<v S2>you die, they're going to be stuff from the old

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<v S2>that you're putting away and you're putting on the new.

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<v S2>I don't believe it ever stops. I don't believe anybody

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<v S2>ever on this life ever arrives to a point where

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<v S2>they don't need to change anymore. I don't believe that

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<v S2>you ever reach a point of perfection or holiness where. Hey,

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<v S2>I'm there. Nothing needs to change. I think I've arrived.

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<v S2>Nothing needs to be worked on. I don't think. I

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<v S2>think when you're 91 years old. You're going to be saying, alright,

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<v S2>from glory to glory, I'm taking off the old and

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<v S2>putting on the new. That's what it means to continue

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<v S2>to grow in our spiritual life. You get stuck when

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<v S2>you're unwilling to let go. And if you're stuck today,

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<v S2>here's what I want to say. Hey, we all reach

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<v S2>points that are things that are hard for us to release.

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<v S2>But if you're stuck today, I want to challenge you.

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<v S2>Inspire you by the Holy Spirit of God. I want

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<v S2>to urge you in Jesus, whatever you know you are

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<v S2>stuck in, do not do not leave this place without

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<v S2>dealing with it before God. Do not live in stuckness.

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<v S2>Do not say, well, I'm just going to put it

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<v S2>off for another month. Hey, if you are stuck today,

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<v S2>then deal with it now so that you can continue

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<v S2>to go from glory to glory to glory. Deal with

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<v S2>the issue that's holding you from the past. Let it

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<v S2>go and say, by the power of God, I put

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<v S2>on the new. I don't just repent of the old,

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<v S2>but I put on the new. Today is the day.

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<v S1>Mark job with bold steps. Mark. You said that when

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<v S1>you put on the new man, God is putting you

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<v S1>on a path that takes you from glory to glory.

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<v S1>Give us a final word of encouragement on this, if

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<v S1>you would.

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<v S2>Yeah. So I want to encourage you, if you're a

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<v S2>believer right now and you know, there's stuff you have

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<v S2>to take off, there's elements of your life that God

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<v S2>has been convicting you about, and maybe steps of obedience

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<v S2>that you need to take to put on. I want

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<v S2>to pray with you, and there may be some that

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<v S2>are listening. And you say, you know what? I have

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<v S2>a whole new person I need to take off and

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<v S2>put on. We call that being born again. And maybe

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<v S2>you're not born again yet. Maybe you've never taken that complete,

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<v S2>powerful step to surrender your life to Jesus and say,

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<v S2>change me from the inside out. I'd like to pray

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<v S2>for you right now. And then afterwards, if you need

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<v S2>to grow and understand more about what it means to

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<v S2>be born again, we'd love to give you some resources

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<v S2>and direct you to a place where you can get

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<v S2>more information. Father, I pray right now for that person

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<v S2>that's struggling with taking off the old. They know what

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<v S2>they have to take off, but it's so hard to

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<v S2>let go. I pray, Holy Spirit right now that you

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<v S2>would give them a boost of power, a gentle conviction,

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<v S2>but a powerful urge forward. And I pray, father, for

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<v S2>that person that right now is realizing I need to

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<v S2>be born again. I don't know God. I need to

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<v S2>transform my entire person. I pray in Jesus name that

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<v S2>you would lead them to a realization that that can

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<v S2>only be done through the sacrifice of Jesus when they repent, believe,

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<v S2>and invite you to be Lord of their life. And

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<v S2>so I pray God that you would lead them down

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<v S2>that path, even right now in Jesus name. Thank you

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<v S2>for the decisions that are being made today. Not being

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<v S2>procrastinated on, but today I ask this in Jesus name. Amen.

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<v S1>Amen. Thank you Mark. And if you would like to

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<v S1>learn more about taking your next step with Christ, even

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<v S1>your first step, we'd love for you to go to

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<v S1>our website and explore the video Mark put together to

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<v S1>help you discover who Jesus is and why. Having a

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<v S1>relationship with him is the most important thing you can do.

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<v S1>You'll find the video online by clicking the connect tab

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<v S1>Testament Bible, and the latest edition of Moody's newsletter Devotional

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<v S1>Today in the word. Speaking of valuable resources, let me

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<v S1>available that we recommend. In a world of social media

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<v S1>and constant comparison, the temptation of envy has never been

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<v S1>more prevalent. That's why pastor Mike Fabares of Focal Point

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<v S1>Ministries took the time to write an entire book about

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<v S1>the unique issue of envy, specifically how to identify this

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<v S1>destructive emotion and find freedom through Christ. Pastor Mike makes

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<v S1>some great distinctions on where this sin often creeps into

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<v S1>our lives, and what we can do today to start

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<v S1>living with authentic joy. The book is titled envy A

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