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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman with a Love Language Minute.

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S2: A few years ago, I teamed up with Doctor Ross Campbell,

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S2: a psychiatrist whom I greatly admire, and I wrote a

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S2: book called The Five Love Languages of Children. In that book,

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S2: Doctor Campbell made the point that during the pre-adolescent stage,

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S2: girls have a particular need for expressions of love from

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S2: their fathers. At the same time, fathers often withdraw from

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S2: hugging and kissing their daughters, feeling it's inappropriate at this stage.

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S2: In reality, the daughter needs the hugs and kisses of

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S2: her father, and if he withdraws, she will likely seek

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S2: physical touch from another male and often in an unwholesome manner. Certainly,

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S2: there is no place for sexual exploitation, but your daughter

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S2: deeply needs your loving and affirming touches.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S1: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.