1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,840 S1: Did you know that 70 years ago teenagers did not exist? 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:07,920 S1: That is as a separate cultural group. 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:10,280 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language. 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:14,600 S1: Minute before the Industrial Age teens worked on their parents 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:19,480 S1: farms until they got married. With industrialization, teens had a choice. 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,160 S1: They could be a weaver, a cobbler, or a mechanic, 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,160 S1: but they still live with their parents until they got married, 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,720 S1: usually in the late teens. In the modern world, young 9 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,720 S1: people have high school, college, and often graduate school before 10 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,760 S1: they get married. So they are with parents much longer. 11 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,000 S1: This is good news because it gives greater opportunity to 12 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:44,200 S1: influence their lives for good. Remember, the quality of your 13 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:48,280 S1: marriage is your greatest means of influence. They will remember 14 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,920 S1: your model long after they have forgotten your words. 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,840 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,960 S2: For more, visit five Love languages.com.