1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:04,440 S1: A man who has been divorced from his wife for 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,480 S1: three years, recently said to me, if I wrote a book, 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:11,000 S1: the title would be Divorce the Living Hell. 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,040 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love Language minute. 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:19,360 S1: Thousands of individuals can echo his sentiments. The emotional scars 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,720 S1: that come from divorce are never removed. The hurt that 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:25,919 S1: is indelibly printed in the minds of children will never 8 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:30,040 S1: be erased. Our whole society has been deeply infected with 9 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,960 S1: the throwaway mentality. When you are no longer excited about it, 10 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,680 S1: get rid of it. No wonder children are so insecure. 11 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,240 S1: No wonder there is so little trust in marriage. I'm 12 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,880 S1: not suggesting that the road to reconciliation is easy, but 13 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,240 S1: rather that it is right and that the results are 14 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:49,479 S1: worth the effort. 15 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,720 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,800 S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.