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S1: A listener, writes Gary. I'm in the military and I'm

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S1: about to be deployed. How can my wife and I prepare?

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S2: I think the first thing is to acknowledge to each

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S2: other that we're going to have to work together now

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S2: to find a new way to relate to each other.

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S2: This is where I think the five love languages can

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S2: be very, very helpful to you. Because if you know

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S2: each other's primary love language in those early days, you

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S2: want to speak volumes of that language because if they

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S2: feel loved, it's much easier to negotiate the other differences.

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S2: So preparing for that, I think you'd find a new

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S2: book we've just released to be helpful. It's called the

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S2: Five Love Languages Military Edition. A lot of practical help

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S2: on reintegration.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the best selling book,

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S1: The Five Love Languages. For more information on the five

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S1: Love Languages Military Edition, go to five Love languages.com.