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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on military

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S1: couples and personality differences.

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S2: You know, it's a struggle in every marriage that one

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S2: person will be very focused and goal oriented, and other

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S2: person will be more laid back. And, you know, let's

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S2: just kind of see what happens here. But in the

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S2: military marriage, much of the life of the person who's

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S2: in the military is controlled by the military. And it

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S2: helps if you have that kind of personality that is

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S2: out there to accomplish the project, whatever it is. It

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S2: makes it easier for you in the military if you

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S2: have that kind of mindset, the person who's laid back

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S2: and just sort of wants to wait and see what's

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S2: going to happen. They don't usually do very well. They

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S2: don't last very long in the military, but if the

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S2: spouse doesn't have that kind of personality, they're going to

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S2: experience the normal frustration between those two different personality types.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love

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S1: Languages Military edition. For more information, go to five Love Languages. Com.