1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,000 S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on speaking 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,200 S1: quality time. As a military couple. 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,840 S2: You learn each other's love language when you are together 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,960 S2: physically so that you get this established and each of 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,360 S2: you clearly know the primary love language and the secondary 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,160 S2: love language of the spouse. If you get that going 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,640 S2: when you are together, when you are deployed, how do 8 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,360 S2: we speak quality time? I found at least several wives 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,880 S2: have said to me that a letter, a handwritten letter, 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:35,080 S2: speaks more deeply to them than does the email. I 11 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,360 S2: think that's the sense that, you know, he took time 12 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,040 S2: to write this, find this paper, write this, mail this 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,640 S2: to me. And here I am holding it in my hand. 14 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,000 S2: It was in his hand. This is his handwriting. And 15 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,680 S2: for the quality time person that really does speak deeply. 16 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,040 S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:57,440 S1: Languages Military Edition. For more information, go to five Love languages.com.