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S1: Dana asks Gary, how do I get my husband to

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S1: open up more and talk to me?

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S2: Well, there are people that I call Dead Seas. They

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S2: receive just like the Dead Sea receives from the Jordan River,

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S2: but it goes nowhere. There are those of us who

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S2: receive information, receive emotions, receive experiences. But we have no

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S2: compulsion to talk. And it sounds like you're probably married

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S2: to a dead sea. The best way to get them

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S2: to talk more is to ask specific questions, and then

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S2: don't condemn their answers, no matter what they say. Receive

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S2: their answer. Say that's interesting. Tell me more about that.

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S2: But if you make it safe for them to share

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S2: and you ask specific questions, chances are they'll learn to talk.

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S3: This has been a love language. Minute. Doctor Gary Chapman

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S3: is the author of The Five Love Languages. For more,

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S3: visit five Love Languages. Com.