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S1: Desiree writes. After taking the love language quiz on your website,

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S1: I discovered that I scored equally on all of them.

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S1: Is this normal?

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S2: People who score evenly on all the five love languages

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S2: typically fall into two categories. One, it's a person who's

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S2: always felt loved. Their whole life, and consequently, they're not

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S2: really sure which of those makes them feel loved. They

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S2: like all of them, and they've received all of them.

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S2: I would trust that would be your case. On the

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S2: other hand, there are those who have never felt loved.

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S2: And consequently, again, all of those things sound good to

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S2: them and equally good because they've never had any of them.

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S2: That is a person who is indeed needy. I would

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S2: suggest that you look back in your life to your

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S2: relationship with your parents and ask, was it healthy? Did

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S2: I feel loved in that relationship? Have I always felt loved?

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S2: If so, you're in a good position.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S3: For more answers, visit Start Marriage Right.com.