1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:04,720 S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on dealing 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:06,880 S1: with imperfections in marriage. 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,720 S2: You know, everyone agrees to that. No one's perfect. Well, 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,880 S2: if we're not perfect, we're imperfect, right? So let's just 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:18,520 S2: say you're only 5% imperfect. He's 95% imperfect. I'm saying 6 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,800 S2: that the place for you to start is with your 5%. 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:28,040 S2: You see, she cannot confess his failures. She can only 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,840 S2: confess her own failures. But the good news is, no 9 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,159 S2: one can keep her from admitting her own failures. And 10 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:40,120 S2: the marriage becomes 5% better. And now she's free to 11 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,400 S2: start doing something positive, such as speaking his love language 12 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,879 S2: because she's dealt with her failures, whether he has or not. 13 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:51,519 S1: For more, read Gary's book, The Five Love Languages or 14 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,160 S1: visit Start Marriage Right.com.