1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,560 S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on how 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:06,880 S1: to recover after deceiving your spouse. 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,080 S2: We have to be honest with each other. If we're 4 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,960 S2: going to have a healthy marriage, how do we restore? 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,720 S2: First of all, there has to be genuine repentance. Honestly 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,279 S2: sharing genuinely with him how deeply sorry you are that 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,240 S2: you were deceptive. And if his failure on his part, 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,320 S2: which very likely there is, he needs to confess to you. 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,760 S2: There can be healing of anything, so long as we're 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,400 S2: willing to turn from it, to acknowledge it as having 11 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,640 S2: been wrong, and then to begin to rebuild the relationship. 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,640 S2: My book, Hope for the separated Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed, 13 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,040 S2: I think would be a help to you in the process. Also, 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,959 S2: the five love languages would be extremely helpful to you 15 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:47,800 S2: in my opinion. 16 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:52,280 S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the best selling book, 17 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:57,320 S1: The Five Love Languages. For more, go to Start Marriage Right.com.