1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,640 S1: Marcy writes. Gary, what would be some good suggestions on 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:07,360 S1: how to work on communication skills and marriage? 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:10,760 S2: Well, one would be to read a book on communication. 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,799 S2: I'm thinking of a book right now that I wrote 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,480 S2: some time ago called Now You're Speaking My Language. It 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,680 S2: has nothing to do with the love languages. It's a 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,720 S2: book on communication and intimacy. How do you build positive 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:26,320 S2: communication patterns, and how do you build intimacy into a 9 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:30,600 S2: marriage intellectually and socially and spiritually and physically? Reading through 10 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,319 S2: a book like that, read the chapter, talk with each 11 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,960 S2: other about what can we learn from this chapter. That's 12 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:40,840 S2: an easy, organized way to learn some new skills in communication. 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:45,199 S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 14 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,720 S1: For more information on his book Now You're Speaking My Language, 15 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,720 S1: go to five Love Languages.