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S1: Christie writes Gary, my love language is gifts, but my

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S1: husband has a hard time speaking it. He'll bring me

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S1: home something from the hardware store and is just not

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S1: cutting it. Can you help?

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S2: What I would say is either you or someone needs

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S2: to sit down with him and communicate the love language concept.

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S2: Maybe he doesn't understand that whatever makes him feel loved.

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S2: This is what makes you feel loved. And just like

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S2: he would want you to speak his love language, then

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S2: you want him to speak your love language. You say

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S2: you give him suggestions on what he can buy. That's good,

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S2: that's good. I'd say even write them down. Maybe even

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S2: suggest he take his sister shopping with him when he

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S2: buys you a gift. Because chances are his sister will

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S2: do a better job than he does alone.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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