1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:06,159 S1: Martha, writes Gary. How can I discover my teenagers love language? 2 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,039 S2: Well, that's an important question, because if you don't know 3 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,680 S2: the teenagers primary love language, you're not likely to speak it. 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,120 S2: First of all, observe their behavior. How do they respond 5 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,320 S2: to you and how they respond to other people? Their 6 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,960 S2: behavior toward other people, toward you and others will give 7 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,079 S2: you a clue as to what their love language is. 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,720 S2: If they complain and say, you know, you didn't bring 9 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,960 S2: me anything. How could you go all week and not 10 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:34,880 S2: bring me anything? They're telling you that gifts is their language. 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:39,080 S2: What do they request of you? Most often, if they're asking, 12 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,879 S2: could we take a walk after dinner? They're asking you 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,080 S2: for quality time. Observe their behavior. What do they complain about? 14 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,000 S2: What do they request most often? And you can rather 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,920 S2: easily discover a teenager's primary love language. 16 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,000 S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages. 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,120 S3: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.