WEBVTT - Our New Identity As Sons and Daughters of Christ

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<v S1>This is Bold Steps with Mark Jobe. I'm Wayne Shepherd,

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<v S1>and today we're celebrating Good Friday with a powerful message

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<v S1>about identity. And Mark, this is such a significant day

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<v S1>in the Christian calendar. You're going to be sharing about

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<v S1>what the cross means for our identity.

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<v S2>Yeah that's right. This is a huge topic, Wayne. Especially identity,

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<v S2>because so many people struggle across the board with understanding

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<v S2>who they are that affects what they do. It affects

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<v S2>how they relate to people. It affects their calling. Yes.

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<v S2>And it all changed on Good Friday when Jesus the

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<v S2>Christ died on that cross and gave us a ability

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<v S2>to have a new identity in God.

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<v S1>I'm so excited about this message to come here on

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<v S1>bold steps today. The life changing truth about the Cross

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<v S1>on Good Friday. Here on Bold Steps. Once again, welcome

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<v S1>to this special Good Friday edition of Bold Steps with

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<v S1>Mark Jobe. Mark is a senior pastor of New Life

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<v S1>Community Church and president of Moody Bible Institute in Chicago. Mark,

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<v S1>as we reflect on their crucifixion today, many people understand

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<v S1>that Jesus died for our sins, but sometimes we miss

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<v S1>the implications of what that means for our identity. So

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<v S1>let's elaborate on that transformation.

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<v S2>Yeah, Wayne. The death of Jesus Christ is not just

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<v S2>about sin. That's a big component, but it is about

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<v S2>when our sin is removed, who we become. And the

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<v S2>power of the cross of Jesus Christ is exemplified. When

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<v S2>Jesus died and the veil of the temple that separated

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<v S2>the Holy of Holies from just the regular worshiper was

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<v S2>torn in two from the top down.

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<v S1>That's one of my favorite points of what happened that day.

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<v S1>I love that story.

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<v S2>Probably people on the outside didn't realize, but God wanted

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<v S2>to give a physical manifestation of what was happening there.

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<v S2>He didn't have to tear the the temple veil, but

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<v S2>for for decades and decades, man had been separated from

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<v S2>the Holy of Holies. But when Jesus died, he tore it,

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<v S2>symbolizing that now we have access to the Holy of Holies.

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<v S2>In other words, our identity has changed because now we

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<v S2>have been cleansed, and we are sons and daughters of

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<v S2>the Most High God. And as sons and daughters of

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<v S2>the Most High God that have been cleansed, washed and redeemed,

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<v S2>we have access to the very holiest place in the universe.

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<v S2>And that's the presence of God.

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<v S1>What a moment, huh? What a moment, I love that.

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<v S2>Yeah, and you know what I've discovered, Wayne, is that

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<v S2>a lot of people, well, even though they may know

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<v S2>the basics of salvation, they really still struggle with identity.

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<v S2>How does God see them? Him. And even when we

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<v S2>say God the Father, so many people have had bad

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<v S2>experiences with their father. Absent fathers, critical, demeaning, abandoned fathers.

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<v S2>When we say father, it doesn't conjure up this loving

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<v S2>image of an affirming person in their life. Oftentimes it

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<v S2>conjures up negative images.

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<v S1>I know it does.

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<v S2>I was at a women's retreat speaking about the father

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<v S2>daughter factor, and I had a young girl come and

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<v S2>stand in front of a mirror. She was about college

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<v S2>age and I said, tell me, when you look at

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<v S2>that mirror, how you see yourself. And she just started

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<v S2>looking at that mirror. She stared at that mirror and

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<v S2>started just saying, unworthy, ugly, no purpose, no call. As

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<v S2>she looked at herself and described herself, she started to weep,

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<v S2>just weeping. When she was done, I paused and I said,

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<v S2>and now I want you to look at that mirror,

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<v S2>and I want you to hear what God says about you.

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<v S2>Daughter of the Most High God, clean, made in the

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<v S2>image of God breathed in by His Holy Spirit. A

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<v S2>woman of destiny, purpose and identity in God. Someone that

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<v S2>God wants to spend eternity with. And she wept again.

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<v S2>But this time it was tears of. Yeah, that's how

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<v S2>the father sees.

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<v S1>That's so powerful.

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<v S2>Yeah, it was a really powerful moment. And I believe

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<v S2>there's a lot of people that struggle with those same issues. Now,

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<v S2>by the way, I love the story of the angel

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<v S2>of the Lord, which is God himself appearing to Gideon

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<v S2>in Judges chapter six, because I think it's such a

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<v S2>powerful image. He appears to Gideon, and he's ready to

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<v S2>call Gideon to do something extraordinary. And the Bible says,

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<v S2>and the angel of the Lord appeared to Gideon and said,

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<v S2>the Lord is with you, mighty warrior. Now Gideon at

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<v S2>the time was Scared young. Hiding from the Midianites. Defeated.

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<v S2>And it's just strange that God calls someone a mighty

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<v S2>warrior who's never, ever fought a battle. And Gideon protests

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<v S2>and he said, hey, Lord, I don't know if you

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<v S2>got this right, but I'm of the lowest. I'm small.

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<v S2>I'm of the smallest tribe. I'm defeated. But I want

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<v S2>you to know that God saw in Gideon not who

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<v S2>he was, but who God had called him to be

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<v S2>and who he was becoming. So, through the cross of

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<v S2>Jesus Christ, God has called you to be a son

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<v S2>or daughter of the Most High God. Sin has been defeated.

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<v S2>The accuser has been brought to his knees. You have

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<v S2>been given a new identity. You've been sealed with the

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<v S2>Holy Spirit unto the day of redemption. Your name is new.

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<v S2>Your identity is new. Your purpose is new. And that's

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<v S2>all through the cross of Jesus Christ. In fact, the

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<v S2>Apostle Paul tells us in Galatians chapter two, I am

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<v S2>crucified with Christ. I no longer live. Now I live

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<v S2>a new person in God. The person I live now

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<v S2>is a new person. It's a new identity, the new man,

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<v S2>the new woman. And that's what Good Friday is all about.

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<v S1>If any man is in Christ, he's a new creature,

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<v S1>a new creation, huh?

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<v S2>The old is gone and the new has come.

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<v S1>Mark, thanks for bringing up Gideon and that story of identity.

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<v S1>I'm just wondering, in your own life, has this ever

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<v S1>been an issue for you, perhaps when you were a

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<v S1>new believer?

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<v S2>Yeah, absolutely. I think that, you know, I had a

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<v S2>very strong, affirming father and so and mother that really

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<v S2>loved the Lord. And so I counted a huge blessing

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<v S2>that he spoke into my life. But I remember, like

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<v S2>any teenager, young college student trying to figure out where

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<v S2>I fit in, who am I.

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<v S1>As we all do, right?

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<v S2>Yeah, it's a very there's periods of our life where

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<v S2>we're establishing our identity. I remember one particular time where

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<v S2>I had just started pastoring. I was 21 years old.

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<v S2>I was a little bit frustrated. I was trying to

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<v S2>step into this role with very little experience. I remember

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<v S2>sitting down at the table with my father and saying,

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<v S2>I don't know if I'm cut out to be a pastor, dad.

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<v S2>I said, I don't know. This is not coming easy,

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<v S2>natural to me, and maybe I should just hand this

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<v S2>over to someone else. I think my father sensed at

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<v S2>that time. He sensed that this was a bit of

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<v S2>a defining moment I'll never forget. He looked at me

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<v S2>in my discouragement and he said, you know, Mark, you

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<v S2>are a man of God. You have a heart for God,

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<v S2>a sensitivity to the Lord. He said, I would in

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<v S2>a moment love to place myself under you as my pastor.

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<v S2>I would trust you to follow God. I would listen

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<v S2>to your words. I have seen how God has used

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<v S2>you and spoken through you. You're young, but there's a

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<v S2>call on your life.

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<v S1>You talk about affirmation. You're incredible.

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<v S2>I needed that. That was a moment that I needed

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<v S2>to know my identity, because there's a lot of self-doubt

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<v S2>that comes in. And, you know, I want to encourage you,

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<v S2>if you're a father here listening to me today, never

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<v S2>underestimate the power of your words to help shape the

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<v S2>identity of your sons and daughters at crucial times of

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<v S2>their life, especially when they're young, but not exclusively when

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<v S2>they're young. Sometimes they enter into parenthood and aren't sure

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<v S2>they're going to be a good parent, or sometimes they're

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<v S2>going into marriage and they're not sure they're going to survive.

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<v S2>And so never underestimate the power of the words of

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<v S2>a father. And I love, by the way, what the

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<v S2>father tells us. The apostle tells us, listen. See what

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<v S2>great love the father has lavished on us that we

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<v S2>should be called children of God, and that is what

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<v S2>we are. The love of God has been lavished on

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<v S2>us so that we are called children of God. He

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<v S2>just reaffirms it. He says, and that is what we are.

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<v S2>Not what we're trying to become. But that's who we are.

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<v S1>Beautiful. Mark, thank you for this teaching, which will continue

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<v S1>today here on Bold Steps with Mark Jobe. We'll have

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<v S1>more on this Good Friday about our identity as sons

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<v S1>and daughters of Christ in a moment. This message continues

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<v S1>in just a moment. You're listening to Mark Jobe on

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<v S2>You know, recent studies have shown that nearly half of

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<v S2>all adults report not having a meaningful conversation in their

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<v S2>daily lives. Uh, that's pretty startling, I guess. But it's

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<v S2>one of those things that motivated our guest today to

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<v S2>write her book, doctor Heather Holloman. In the six conversations,

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<v S2>you talk about four mindsets that are essential for meaningful conversations.

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<v S2>Can you walk us through those four mindsets?

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<v S3>Yes, and thank you for having me on this program.

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<v S3>In order to have a warm connection with someone, you

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<v S3>need to be curious, believe the best about them, express concern,

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<v S3>and share your life. They seem really simple, but most

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<v S3>people are deficient in one of those categories.

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<v S2>That is good. Yeah, so this is some of the

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<v S2>elements needed to have a meaningful conversation, which in your book,

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<v S2>obviously you talk about how conversation is the bridge way

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<v S2>to really communicate our faith.

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<v S3>That's right. And I got really excited about the power

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<v S3>of having a warm connection. Once you know how to

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<v S3>deeply connect with someone, evangelism is never going to feel

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<v S3>like a sales pitch or an awkward pivot in the conversation.

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<v S3>Good point. So I was really delighted to read the

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<v S3>social science research, and also how Scripture has always really

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<v S3>supports all of that. We've learned this is ancient wisdom literature.

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<v S2>I love it, Heather, because so many people, when they

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<v S2>think about evangelism, they think of a sales pitch or

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<v S2>I have to do a mini lecture, and most people

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<v S2>it intimidates. But to have a healthy conversation that naturally

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<v S2>goes to those important places of spirituality, I think, lowers

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<v S2>the barrier of fear and allows us to more naturally engage.

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<v S2>Thank you, Heather, for writing this book. This, I think,

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<v S2>is going to be a great resource for people that

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<v S2>are seeking to bridge the gap of meaningful conversations with

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<v S2>their loved ones.

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<v S3>Thank you.

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<v S1>I'm Wayne Shepherd with Mark Jobe. We're talking about the

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<v S1>Cross of Christ here on Good Friday, and we're talking

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<v S1>about it in the context of what it teaches us

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<v S1>about our identity in Christ. And, Mark, I want our

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<v S1>listeners to hear a clip from a message you gave

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<v S1>recently on this topic of identity in Christ. Let's listen.

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<v S4>Who we are and how we see ourselves determines how

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<v S4>we behave and how we make our decisions. These labels

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<v S4>are not always visible that we walk around with, but

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<v S4>they invisibly affect our identity and who we are and

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<v S4>how we live. If if I'm living with the identity

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<v S4>of rejection, then when we say hi to someone, we

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<v S4>immediately start thinking, what do they think about me? Are

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<v S4>they accepting me? Rejecting me? Do they like me? Do

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<v S4>they not like me? Immediately I start thinking that way. Why?

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<v S4>Because I'm living with the identity of rejection. When God

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<v S4>comes to our life. And this is why it's so important,

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<v S4>and God starts to speak into our destiny. Peter is saying,

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<v S4>I want you to know who you are, because until

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<v S4>you know who you are, you will not know how

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<v S4>to live. And so instead of rejected, he says, you know, no,

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<v S4>you're chosen. You are a chosen generation. And he says,

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<v S4>instead of broken, no, no, no, you are a royal

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<v S4>priesthood because you belong to me. And you know what?

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<v S4>Instead of failure, he says, no, you've been set apart

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<v S4>for God's purposes, and he's got a purpose for you.

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<v S4>And instead of unwanted, he says, no, you are my possession.

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<v S4>You belong to me. And God is covering your bad

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<v S4>identity with clothed with a new identity in Jesus Christ.

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<v S4>And whatever may have been a part of your past

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<v S4>is no longer what determines your future. He's given you

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<v S4>a new identity. Oh, you may not feel like you

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<v S4>are wanted yet, but as you start washing your mind

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<v S4>in who God has made you and what he's said

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<v S4>about you, one day you will wake up and you

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<v S4>will feel like, hey, I belong to God. God wants me,

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<v S4>I belong to him, and you start living that way.

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<v S4>Some of you feel like you're a failure and you

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<v S4>could never be used of God. But God says no,

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<v S4>you are a royal priesthood. I've called you. You can

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<v S4>be used. It takes a while for our new identity. See.

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<v S1>Mark, let's talk about how we actually live in this

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<v S1>new identity. What does it mean practically to our daily life?

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<v S2>You know, identity, it's a little bit elusive, but it's

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<v S2>so crucial because it really does affect everything about our life.

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<v S2>I remember preaching, I, I'm not sure if it was

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<v S2>this message or another one on identity, but I got

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<v S2>a volunteer from the audience and I started writing labels

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<v S2>and just pasting labels on the man that was a volunteer. Rejected. Worthless.

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<v S2>No purpose. Abandon. He stood up there with labels all

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<v S2>over him. Negative labels. And then I said, but you know,

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<v S2>God is a a label remover. And as I started

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<v S2>taking those labels off of him one by one and

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<v S2>just speaking into his life. He just started to weep. Wow. Uh,

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<v S2>because we all walk around with labels. Sometimes those labels

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<v S2>are put on us early on in life. We don't

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<v S2>choose the labels that are put on. If you're growing

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<v S2>up in a household that's critical and you've been labeled,

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<v S2>you're going to be a failure. You're just like your father.

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<v S2>You're just you start to wear that label. It gets

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<v S2>stuck into your identity.

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<v S1>Yeah, I just had a conversation with someone who was

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<v S1>an illegitimate child. And that's a bad word, isn't it? But,

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<v S1>you know, and I brought up the fact that we

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<v S1>are now adopted by God into his family.

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<v S2>What the gospel does is it starts to strip those

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<v S2>labels of condemned, unwanted, rejected. And if you start reading scripture,

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<v S2>you have to renew your mind because our spirit is

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<v S2>saved immediately, but our mind is renewed gradually. And so

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<v S2>even though we are a Son of God, it doesn't

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<v S2>mean we always feel like a Son of God, Even

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<v S2>though we are forgiven, it doesn't mean that we walk

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<v S2>like we're forgiven. Even though we are people of destiny.

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<v S2>It doesn't mean that we fully understand that we're people

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<v S2>of destiny. And I love what Romans chapter three, verse

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<v S2>38 and 39 says, I am convinced that neither death

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<v S2>nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor

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<v S2>the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, is

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<v S2>able to separate us from the love of God.

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<v S1>That's a pretty exhaustive list, isn't it?

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<v S2>Yeah. I think what what Paul was trying to tell

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<v S2>them is there is absolutely nothing on heaven and on

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<v S2>earth or under the earth that can detach you from

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<v S2>this compelling, powerful love that God has for you. And

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<v S2>that changes our identity. And when our identity changes, we

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<v S2>talk different. We behave different. We live different. We see

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<v S2>the world in a different way.

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<v S1>Yeah, well, this message goes hand in hand with a

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<v S1>resource we'd like to put into our listeners hands called

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<v S1>Discovering Who You Are in Christ. Uh, this is a

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<v S1>very important resource that you've put together with your own pen, Mark.

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<v S2>Yeah. Called More Than a Label. Discovering who you are

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<v S2>in Christ. And these are thoughts from various messages that

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<v S2>I've taught on in a bit of a devotional fashion

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<v S2>on different messages that I've given dealing with the topic

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<v S2>of identity. If you're struggling right now trying to figure out, hey,

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<v S2>who am I really in God? If you're struggling with

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<v S2>identity issues, it may take a while for you just

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<v S2>to saturate your mind in some truth about who you are,

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<v S2>and this would be a great place to start 15 days.

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<v S2>Saturate in your mind in who you are in God,

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<v S2>how God sees you, what your position is in Christ,

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<v S2>your new labels that God has put on you, sons

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<v S2>and daughters of the Most High God and taken other

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<v S2>labels off. This is a resource, I think, that will

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<v S2>help some of you just get started in the right direction.

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<v S1>We've never offered this before.

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<v S2>This is brand.

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<v S1>New, brand new.

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<v S2>Brand.

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<v S1>New. And you're asking us to set aside 15 days.

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<v S1>That seems that seems doable to me, right?

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<v S2>Absolutely. And it's well packaged with some questions after each

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<v S2>devotional thought, asking you some questions so you can think

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<v S2>through it, pray through it, and just get you in

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<v S2>the right mindset.

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<v S1>And after you've been through it, maybe you want to

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<v S1>lead your family through it or a small group Bible study.

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<v S1>It can be used in that way as well.

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<v S2>Absolutely. There's no more important thing for believers than to

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<v S2>embrace their new identity in Christ, rooted in what Jesus

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<v S2>Christ has done for us.

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<v S1>Well, just go to npr.org. Click on the resources tab

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<v S1>there in the website. And again, the devotional is titled

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<v S1>More Than a Label Discovering Who You Are in Christ.

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<v S1>It's a great resource from Bold Steps, and I really

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<v S1>urge you to get a copy. Go through these 15

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<v S1>days yourself of devotions and see what God reveals to you.

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<v S1>I think it might surprise you the things that you'll discover.

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<v S2>I believe so let God start ripping those labels off

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<v S2>of your life one at a time, and placing his

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<v S2>identity on you even today.

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<v S1>By the way, I want to mention, as we talk

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<v S1>about our resources here on bold steps, that we couldn't

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<v S1>do this without our bold partners involvement. Mark, we're so

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<v S2>I'm just reading a comment from one of the listeners here.

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<v S1>Yeah, this came from a podcast listener. Do you want

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<v S2>Yeah. It's encouraging. They said there's never been an episode

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<v S1>That's wonderful.

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<v S2>Thank you. Yes. And so thank you for your encouragement.

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<v S1>here on Good Friday, we're focusing on our identity in Christ,

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<v S1>the way made for us by Christ through the cross. Mark,

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<v S1>it's been a wonderful conversation. What would you say in

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<v S1>conclusion today?

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<v S2>Yes. So I want to say on Good Friday, listen,

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<v S2>if you're a believer, do not waste this weekend. First

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<v S2>of all, make sure that your heart is ready to celebrate.

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<v S2>But secondly, there are so many people that do not

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<v S2>go to church but have some sort of historical roots

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<v S2>in Christianity and feel like I probably should go to

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<v S2>church somewhere on Easter. They might as well go to

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<v S2>a church that preaches the gospel. So they tell us

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<v S2>that only 4% of Christians invite people to church, but 80%

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<v S2>of non-believers would go if invited.

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<v S1>And you see this happening as a pastor, don't.

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<v S2>Oh, I see that all the time. In fact, usually

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<v S2>before Easter, I say pull out your phones. Some of

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<v S2>these phones that you see are a thorn in my

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<v S2>flesh because they ring or people are distracted by them.

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<v S2>Pull them out. Everybody have their phone now. Text a

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<v S2>friend and invite them this Sunday to Easter. And I

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<v S2>tell you what, I have so many stories of people

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<v S2>that said it was an Easter Sunday. I came not

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<v S2>as a believer, but I heard the gospel and that's

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<v S2>where God got Ahold of me. So make sure that

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<v S2>you invite them to hear the greatest, most powerful message

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<v S2>in the world. And that is the death, burial, and

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<v S2>resurrection of Jesus the Christ.

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<v S1>Well, this conversation today about identity has certainly, I'm sure,

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<v S1>touched the lives of many who are listening, perhaps some

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<v S1>who know they need Christ. And maybe we can close

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<v S1>in prayer for them today.

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<v S2>Yeah. So if you're struggling with your identity insecurities, uh,

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<v S2>just the labels that have been slapped on you, I'd

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<v S2>like to just pray over you now. It's going to

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<v S2>be a process to strip those labels off you. But

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<v S2>I want to start with a prayer. Father, I pray

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<v S2>for that man right now that is just insecure in

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<v S2>his manhood. That struggles with just viewing himself as a

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<v S2>person of dignity, worth and value because of the words

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<v S2>that were spoken into his life when he was young.

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<v S2>I pray in Jesus name. Start ripping those labels off.

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<v S2>I pray, father, for that woman right now that has

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<v S2>really had a hard time keeping a good relationship because

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<v S2>she goes from one relationship to another, allowing abuse sometimes, and, uh,

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<v S2>abusive words because she doesn't know that she's a woman

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<v S2>of worth, a value of dignity. I pray rip those

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<v S2>labels off of her. I pray for that person right

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<v S2>now that feels rejected by the world and by you, God.

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<v S2>I pray in Jesus name. God, rip those labels of

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<v S2>rejection off her, that she may experience your love in

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<v S2>a strong, powerful, compelling way. And I pray God most

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<v S2>of all, that those that don't know the love of Jesus,

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<v S2>those that have never experienced the washing of their sins away,

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<v S2>and that adoption into their family that this weekend, Easter weekend,

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<v S2>will be the weekend that they finally surrender to you

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<v S2>and become a adopted son or daughter of the Most

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<v S2>High God. I pray this in Jesus name. Amen.

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<v S1>Amen. Thank you, Mark, and Happy Easter to you and

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<v S1>your family.

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<v S2>And yours as well.

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<v S1>And from all of us at Bold Steps, we wish

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<v S1>you a meaningful Good Friday and a joyous Easter. Remember,

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<v S1>because of the cross, you are a son or daughter

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<v S1>of the Most High God. I'm Wayne Sheppard. We'll see

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<v S1>you next time here on Bold Steps with Mark Joh.

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<v S1>Bold steps is a production of Moody Radio, a ministry

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<v S1>of Moody Bible Institute.