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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on being

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S1: controlled by the Holy Spirit.

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S2: The fruit of being controlled by the Spirit of God

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S2: is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith or faithfulness,

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S2: meekness and self-control. Those are not the results of trying hard.

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S2: They're results of your being in a right relationship with

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S2: God and letting His spirit change your heart so that

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S2: you are reaching out to express these things to your spouse. Now,

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S2: do you think it would make a difference to your

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S2: spouse if these attitudes and actions were flowing out of

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S2: you on a regular basis? We don't have to crank

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S2: these things up on our own. We cooperate with him

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S2: and let him work in our hearts and give us

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S2: this attitude.

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