1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,800 S1: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,600 S2: If I had one message to give to the parents 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,240 S2: of teenagers, it would be this. Please remember that you 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,920 S2: still have the greatest influence on your son or daughter. 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,919 S2: We've heard so much about peer pressure that many parents 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,520 S2: have given up on trying to influence their teen. All 7 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:25,160 S2: of the research indicates that parents have far more influence 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,520 S2: on the behavior of their teens than do their peers. 9 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:33,080 S2: Your own behavior is your greatest influence. If you are 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:37,800 S2: a person of honesty, loyalty and commitment, you are greatly 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,000 S2: influencing your team. If you give them a model of 12 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,120 S2: a loving marriage, you are creating for them. Emotional security. 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:50,160 S2: Teens respect parents of integrity. They want you to be 14 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:50,920 S2: their hero. 15 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,000 S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,120 S1: For more, visit five Love languages.com.