1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,040 S1: Intimacy between the husband and wife is one of the 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,480 S1: characteristics of a healthy marriage. The problem is that we 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:09,680 S1: have different ideas as to what it means to have intimacy. 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,560 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute. 5 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:17,680 S1: For some husbands, intimacy means sex. For most wives, intimacy 6 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:22,320 S1: is something far more emotional and relational. In fact, without 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:28,400 S1: emotional closeness, sex may be meaningless. What is intimacy? It 8 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:31,680 S1: is that sense of closeness that comes when we share 9 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:35,760 S1: our lives deeply with each other. We spend time together. 10 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,720 S1: We share our opinions, desires, and feelings. We do things 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,839 S1: together socially. We let each other in on our spiritual journey. 12 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,879 S1: We pray together and yes, we have sex together. Intimacy 13 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,239 S1: involves sharing all of life. That is what marriage is 14 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,040 S1: all about. 15 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,880 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:59,040 S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.